My dad probably would have said "Are you telling me you're queer? OK" He didn't have the time or the inclination to indulge this "gender fluid, apache helicopter" nonsense.
[deleted] · 266 points · Posted at 17:54:05 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I mean to be fair if someone tells me they identify as an apache helicopter without saying genderfluid i'm cool with it. the genderfluid part push's it over for me
Little known fact. They were piloted by Comanches but Comanche law states that you can't name inanimate object after them so they asked the Apaches and they were like, "Cool! Free marketing!"
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:11 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Easy, they just told the cav troopers that they were going to have to spend six more years st gtllft hood and let them take out their frustration on the Indians.
Like at my school I'm the GSA president, I understand a lot of these kids are confused and try to help them. I live in massachusetts so it's a lot of weird shit we get here. And no I'm ironically not gay.
•Sweden hires convicted Muslim to integrate into school - sexts 14 year old girl dick pics “You will rot on my cock. You will not be able to go for two days," he wrote in a text message to the girl
http://i.magaimg.net/img/277g.jpghttps://archive.is/fJrNi
•Muslim acquitted of rape in Germany because he didnt know it was rape.
https://archive.is/ODt1s
•Swedish police tell women to not go outside - too many muslim gang rapes
https://archive.is/9cm8D
•Muslim stabs woman in the neck after she turns down his sexual advances
https://archive.is/BuIro
•Swedistan - 250% increase in HIV.
2006 : 1,700 cases
2016: 6,500 cases
85% of Muslims may be infected.
https://archive.is/Tg3N3
•Swedish courts release muslim that shot a guy while yelling racist slurs at him because - it cant be proven the African migrant knew a bullet would fire once he pulled the trigger.
https://archive.is/sisEN
•The Media refuses to mention “Muslims” in these headlines even though one killed cops and the other planned a massive attack for Christmas
http://i.magaimg.net/img/26u0.jpg
•Miss Iraq forced to flee country over death threats for selfie with Miss Israel
https://archive.is/irxZb
•Muslims throw tantrum against Jews - at what was once the cradle of Christianity until the Muslims eradicated them.
https://archive.is/fcwOx
•Moderate Muslim: the wife of the Pulse Night Club terrorist knew and didnt do anything to avert the attack.
https://archive.is/h6e6B
•Muslim stabs woman 14 times (media mentions nothing about him being Somalian or his appearance)
https://archive.is/fTfkA
•Obama Administration derailed investigation to islamic drug trade - got Hezbolla off the hook to appease Iran Deal.
https://archive.is/zYSIs
A Finance Ministry document revealed that the migrant crisis could end up costing German taxpayers €93.6 billion ($101 billion) between now and 2020. About €25.7 billion would be for social spending, such as unemployment benefits and housing support.
Multiculturalism is a lie to replace the demographics of Western cultures.
Will Multiculturalism be allowed once Islam dominates?
https://archive.is/2MWZj
Globalism is Communism rebranded.
Global Free Movement: UN Chief Calls Migration a 'Right' in a 'World on the Move’
https://archive.is/iH5cY
Winston Churchill on Islam
“The fact that in Mohammedan law every woman must belong to some man as his absolute property, either as a child, a wife, or a concubine, must delay the final extinction of slavery until the faith of Islam has ceased to be a great power among men.”https://archive.is/9Rs1g
BULLSHIT, I BET YOU COULD SUCK A GOLF BALL THROUGH A GARDEN HOSE! YOU WOULD FUCK A GUY IN THE ASS AND NOT EVEN HAVE THE GODDAM COMMON COURTESY TO GIVE HIM A REACH AROUND!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:36 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I watched this movie the night before I shipped out for basic training. I was very disappointed when I got there. I guess I should have expected that considering I joined the Air Force in the 2000s instead of the Marines during Vietnam.
even worse you joined the AF in the 2000s, when they were on this fucking powertrip thinking they were the second coming of the marine corp. Right arround 2005-2010 they (briefly) Tried upgrading their BMT to something similar to the Corps BMT, but failed miserably. it was a joke,
SrA FactCheck reporting as ordered. Offutt AFB 2001-2005.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:08:53 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
Oh, you mean when they extended 'warrior week' to two weeks and called it BEAST? lmao. It's all good now. I went to DLI, twice, still get paid for both languages, and have flight pay on top of it.
It’s an adjective for strange, odd, or not the norm. As common slang, sometimes derogatory, it is used in place of proper terms. This does not mean the word replaces those words (ie. homosexual, feminine). In terms of sexual orientation alone, how can you be queer and not homosexual?
Headlight fluid doesn't exist. It's a term automobile enthusiasts use to mess with people who don't know anything about cars. What you're thinking of is blinker fluid.
•Sweden hires convicted Muslim to integrate into school - sexts 14 year old girl dick pics “You will rot on my cock. You will not be able to go for two days," he wrote in a text message to the girl
http://i.magaimg.net/img/277g.jpghttps://archive.is/fJrNi
•Muslim acquitted of rape in Germany because he didnt know it was rape.
https://archive.is/ODt1s
•Swedish police tell women to not go outside - too many muslim gang rapes
https://archive.is/9cm8D
•Muslim stabs woman in the neck after she turns down his sexual advances
https://archive.is/BuIro
•Swedistan - 250% increase in HIV.
2006 : 1,700 cases
2016: 6,500 cases
85% of Muslims may be infected.
https://archive.is/Tg3N3
•Swedish courts release muslim that shot a guy while yelling racist slurs at him because - it cant be proven the African migrant knew a bullet would fire once he pulled the trigger.
https://archive.is/sisEN
•The Media refuses to mention “Muslims” in these headlines even though one killed cops and the other planned a massive attack for Christmas
http://i.magaimg.net/img/26u0.jpg
•Miss Iraq forced to flee country over death threats for selfie with Miss Israel
https://archive.is/irxZb
•Muslims throw tantrum against Jews - at what was once the cradle of Christianity until the Muslims eradicated them.
https://archive.is/fcwOx
•Moderate Muslim: the wife of the Pulse Night Club terrorist knew and didnt do anything to avert the attack.
https://archive.is/h6e6B
•Muslim stabs woman 14 times (media mentions nothing about him being Somalian or his appearance)
https://archive.is/fTfkA
•Obama Administration derailed investigation to islamic drug trade - got Hezbolla off the hook to appease Iran Deal.
https://archive.is/zYSIs
A Finance Ministry document revealed that the migrant crisis could end up costing German taxpayers €93.6 billion ($101 billion) between now and 2020. About €25.7 billion would be for social spending, such as unemployment benefits and housing support.
Multiculturalism is a lie to replace the demographics of Western cultures.
Will Multiculturalism be allowed once Islam dominates?
https://archive.is/2MWZj
Globalism is Communism rebranded.
Global Free Movement: UN Chief Calls Migration a 'Right' in a 'World on the Move’
https://archive.is/iH5cY
Winston Churchill on Islam
“The fact that in Mohammedan law every woman must belong to some man as his absolute property, either as a child, a wife, or a concubine, must delay the final extinction of slavery until the faith of Islam has ceased to be a great power among men.”https://archive.is/9Rs1g
But, when it gets normal, they complain and realize that it was a bad idea to normalize it because that's just what they've been fighting for for so long.
essentially normalize what they fight for for a long time, then they get bored with it and move onto something else. Instead of being a productive member of society or something.
dezlez · 12 points · Posted at 19:05:25 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Well said. If you have time, could you give me some other examples of creating language to normalize abnormal behavior please? That kind of thing interests me.
There was a big push around "polyamory" for awhile there trying to convince gen pop that there's no harm to children being raised by a tangled mess of oversexed adults.
"Hyper masculinity" coined to make regular masculine behavior look extreme and shifted some neutral behavior to masculine.
No more than a bunch of yellow sallies, the lot of you.
One swift swing of my penis and even the thickest snakewoods came crashing down. At four years old, I could take down more than twelve oaks at once with a near-effortless thrust. And my father made me build the house 500 miles away from school, where'd I'd walk through the snow every day in my bare feet and have to maim at least seven bears and fifteen jaguars for lunch. And after shaving my full beard by the time I got there each day, teacher asked me to instruct the class.
The following message from Mister Torgue does not reflect the opinions of the Torgue corporation itself. 'IF YOU DON'T BUY TORGUE CHAINSAWS THAT LIGHT THEMSELVES ON FIRE YOU'RE RETARDED!' The previous message from Mister Torgue did not reflect the opinions of Torgue corporation itself."
Well said. The left are a bunch of sneaky little fucks, if they weren't good at abusing language to argue dishonestly, they probably wouldn't have anything at all.
"Mature Audience" is really "porn and violence", just like "Affirmative Action" is really changing the rules based on race, just like "Alternate Lifestyle" is really homosexuality, just like "Diversity" is Dem speak for no white people, just like "Planned Parenthood" is really an abortion factory, just like "Net Neutrality" is censoring conservatives, just like "Dreamers" are Illegal Aliens, just like the "Affordable Care Act" is an unaffordable, uncaring step toward Socialism, just like an "Affair" is cheating on your spouse, just like "Transgender" is gender related mental illness, just like "Religion of Peace" is violent radical ideology, just like "Climate Denier" is man made climate change denier, just like "Deplorables" are conservatives, just like .....noticing a pattern?
I want less tits on my screen. Honestly, I'll be watching a comedy or sword-splatter drama, and all of a sudden there will be a random sex-scene, or some nakedness. Adds nothing, just pure titillation for the mindless. I'm not a prude, but it's just boring.
Oh my gosh, literally any piece of entertainment described as mature pretty much just means “there’s boobs and lots of bloody violence!” It’s so stupid.
There was a time when mature meant "Well rounded, sober minded adult." However, the word has been bastardized for so long that most people don't even realize that.
Yeah. I just don't care if you are trans, gay, bi, whatever. There are two genders and you can't switch between them at a whim. If you really feel like you should have been born as the opposite sex, then stick with it. I couldn't care less.
Also just don't get offended at the "improper pronoun" used. Makes things go to shit.
The pronoun stuff is ridiculous. Almost makes me wish English was like spanish or italian where gender is built into the core of the language and libtards just have to deal with it.
I don’t get this whole gender fluid bullshit.
You’re a man, or you’re a woman. It’s that simple.
Now-you can LIKE men or women, being gay is a thing, and that’s perfectly fine, doesn’t affect me one bit what people prefer in their bedrooms. But forcing me to call a deep-voiced testosterone fueled cross dresser “she” is invading MY right to common-fucking-sense.
You either have a dick or you don’t, cutting it off doesn’t make you a girl, same as taking 2 wheels off my car doesn’t magically make it a motorcycle.
They should change the signs from Mens/Womens to symbols of a penis or a vagina. You proceed to the one that matches your organ. Dumb it down to the lowest common denominator.
Yeah and why can’t you just embrace being a feminine male or a masculine female. I don’t understand. Like if a guy likes the color pink he thinks he’s a girl. There’s nothing wrong with embracing who you are but there is something wrong with pretending you’re something you aren’t
Ayup. Notice the word tomboy seems to have fallen by the wayside? I was one when I was a younger lass, happier by far to muck about at the pond catching minnows and tadpoles or play Army guys or Star Wars with my buddies than dress Barbie for yet another fashion show/high tea/whatever the fuck Barbie does in her spare time. Then, I was a tomboy. Today, I’d likely be being indoctrinated to calling myself Buck and given pamphlets on phalloplasty and stuff.🙄
Funny thing, now I am one of the more girly-girls I know. (Though I still prefer classic Star Wars to Barbie.) Go figure.🤷♀️
You bring a valid point. Tomboy is not something I hear so much nowadays but it does fit a lot of boyish girls. My own girlfriend can be boyish, and she's bi to boot. Not Butch though, which is its own thing.
Dudes can be feminine and girls can be a bit masculine, we don't need to shift around body parts to be who we are.
I don't feel negatively about people who are transgendered -- provided they stay one or the other and do not deviate from the two -- but there really is a difference between leaning masculine and being a guy, and vice versa, and people seem to cross that line on a whim.
Perhaps people need to realize that it's okay to be yourself and you don't have to change. Funny how this used to be a progressive thought, but now the fake-libs seem to want everyone to change.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 21:07:15 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I'd argue it could possibly be a hardware problem as males and females have distinctly different brains. Its possible to have male genitalia and a female brain.
That's all your simple mind can comprehend. Don't hold the rest of us to your standard of ignorance.
leiphos · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:41 on January 18, 2018 · (Permalink)
The science is still out on this. We know very little about the human brain. It’s certainly possible that this could be the case, but there is no evidence of it so far.
If it was true though that there is such thing as identifiably distinct male and female brains, that would mean that gender is not a social construct. It would mean that even gender as it exists in our minds is a physical phenomenon that is tied to brain chemistry and one’s way of thinking. So I would be careful about pushing the idea of male and female brains if we are trying to go in the direction of gender being purely a subjective social construct.
Just letting you know I totally disagree with this person. Plenty of people are bi. Getting married doesn't make you not bi. The idea of being "straight" or "gay" is more insane to me than being bi.
People who are only into one category of people are the weird ones to me.
Confused. Typically you end up marrying one or the other. My wife for example claimed to be bi sexual ( mostly because she thought it was cool ) she's never been with a bit other than a kiss and some sexual talk when she was younger. She still identifies as bi even though she's never been in a relationship of any kind with a member of the same sex. My comment is mostly tailored to younger people who claim to be bi and are actually just trying to figure out their sexuality. I'm sure some adults never truly make a decision because they get hard or wet for both sexes so there for remain this way.
No! When I am married I only ever see that person as a sexual body, and I never, EVER do the bad thing and peek at beautiful women at the beach or anything, because that's objectifying women and that's bad!!!!!!!!!! I completely lose everything that makes me human and all my sexual attractions because of a ceremony and pieces of paper!!!!
You can LIKE different things while still knowing who you YOU are.
I have a close friend and she likes guys. She loves cock. She will marry a guy and she wants to have kids. But she’s also curious about girls and is attracted to them. But she knows she is a girl and has never questioned that. And she hasn’t had a full relationship with a woman, just kissed and had fantasies. And that’s normal to want to explore I suppose but without having BEEN or slept with someone of the opposite sex you can’t say you’re “gay”. If I wanted to be a mechanic but haven’t ever worked on a car, I’m not. Even the word started as “bi-curious”. It’s the interest/curiosity of a normally hetero person in having same-sex relations. Bi-sexual is actually being a sexual person to both sexes.
Does this mean you can't claim to be gay or straight until you've tried it out either? I guess everyone who has never fucked are just asexual.
Bisexuality is an observable biological phenomena, you guys trying to dance around biology is laughable and reminds me of the people trying to defend the idea of genderfluidity. I am sorry, no matter how much you sugar coat your BS, it wont stop stinking.
Straight is default. If you wanna “change the settings” then you actually have to do so.
No, that’s not what I’m saying. If you’re a man saying you are “gay” or “bi” your whole life but you NEVER sleep with or kiss a man, and never pursue your urge, and you still choose to be with women and are happy with that, then what? You may be curious what it’s like to BE gay, but you aren’t. The mind wanders, it’s always curious. You’re still a virgin until you have sex right?? Thinking about sex doesn’t take away your virginity. If men have a weird thought of gay sex, are they suddenly gay forever because it popped into their head?
I can say I loveee to drive Lamborghinis all day long. That I like how they look and feel. I can say it my whole life. But if I have never personally driven one and have no intention to, can I really say that? I can say I THINK about it, and I THINK it would be awesome, but I can’t label myself as a driver of Lamborghinis. A highschool jock can’t label himself a slayer of pussy if he’s a virgin. You can’t say you’re gay, then never have relations with the same sex.
You don’t have to label yourself straight, that’s the evolutionary default. It’s fucking NORMAL. If you wanted to say you aren’t normal, then prove it; you can’t just say so for attention. People like to jump on this bandwagon for attention. To have labels.
Bi is definitely real. There’s bisexuals, and bi-curious people. It’s a preference of sexual partners. Same as being straight. I’m not debating that. This is all about people saying they are things they are not. About the surplus of labels. About people being able to just SAY anything and everything and we all have to agree to it automatically and we can’t call them out on it.
This applies to the people who are fucking “trans-racial”, “trans-species”, apache helicopters, the list goes on and on.
Not, gay straight and bi are not preferences for sexual partners, they are sexual orientations. If someone is a homosexual, that means he/she is only or almost only sexually attracted to people of the same sex.
This applies to the people who are fucking “trans-racial”, “trans-species”, apache helicopters, the list goes on and on.
No because those things are made up lol.
extraA3 · 4 points · Posted at 19:06:41 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Fair enough. I ask because I'm one of the confused ones. I've only been in relationships with women, but I've messed around with more guys. I've never considered a serious same sex relationship partly because I've never "loved" another man and partly because I don't feel like explaining to my friends and family that I work part time at the fudge packing plant. I think I might settle down one day, and it'll probably be with a woman, but I wonder if I'll still have the same feelings. Your response has given me a lot to think about
Now I'm curious. You say you've only messed around with guys, which I'm assuming means you have engaged in sexual acts with more men. Are you doing this because you're horny and it's available or are you seeking men out more than women to engage in sexual acts? Do you think it's hormones or what? Might as well educate me a little on your experiences.
extraA3 · 7 points · Posted at 19:30:12 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Well I've been single for almost a year now. Since then, I've tried my luck on both guys and gals. I've been on dates with a few women, but all of that petered out. On the other hand, guys seem to be much more attracted to me (or at least they're less subtle about it) and it's been much easier to have sex with them. I definitely think being young and horny leads me to seek out sex, and the fact that men are more easily available means I'll have sex with more men. If women were coming at me every day, I'd probably have the opposite results. So a lot of it comes down to convenience for me. I think I started to call myself bi because I don't think I can call myself straight when I've been with so many dudes. I denied it for a while, but where else do I fit in, you know?
It makes sense, and surely there's nothing wrong with it as long as you're happy. I understand the convenience aspect because I flat out ask my wife if she's in the mood while when she is in the mood she will ask why didn't you want to have sex I touched your foot last night. I'm absolutely shit at explaining my positions on things, someone with your case doesn't seem to be confused on which gender they are interested in you claim to know you don't want to marry a man you want to marry a woman, but finding a willing sexual female partner is more difficult which I would agree with especially if you're not just looking for a quick bang. I'm drawing my conclusions on people who are no sexual based on people like my wife who claim to be something without actually being involved. She is probably more curious than bisexual. Probably where my position on this subject gets so muddy is the fact people tend to miss use the term. They apply it to themselves when their just curious, without actually having the desire to go through with having sex with someone of the same sex. I think it also becomes muddied by people who are actually gay trying to force upon themselves a hetero life style. It's certainly just my opinions and shouldn't be taken as fact.
And he turned a lot more respectable towards them, which is a positive.
Bdazz · 4 points · Posted at 20:19:55 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Being human is hard. I used to be like that, and it was all hormones. Eventually you'll settle one way or another, when the hormones fall away and the heart takes over.
I think it's perfectly reasonable to call yourself bisexual. The term exactly describes a person who is sexual with two genders. If you still aren't sure, it makes sense that you are questioning your sexuality, but I wouldn't rule out bisexuality as an option altogether.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:30:20 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
the OKC data says that based on user actions, the overwhelming number of people who claim to be bi are not. women doing it are usually straight girls looking for attention, only talking with straight men. men doing it are usually covering for being gay. the percentage of people claiming bi who actually message both sexes is small.
Your comparing sexuality and marriage which are two very different things. Can someone not marry a man and still be attracted to women? If I was a bisexual man could I not want a wife and kids but still get aroused from a guy?
I'm not really comparing sexuality to marriage even though they go hand in hand. Sure you can be attracted to both sexes and still marry one person of a particular sex I get that. I may have tried to convey a point from something that doesn't work. I'm more or less saying that bisexuality is usually brought on by confusion from people still trying to figure things out. Of course some people well into adult hood are still turned on by both sexes and obviously aren't confused. This is the problem with these types of discussions were both trying to paint with broad strokes and it's getting muddied. I am in no way trying to speak for everyone who considers themselves bi, I'm simply stating that bisexuality is a result of confusion at least originally. Gay men still have sex with women is that person not gay but bi, or is he trying to force a hetero life style on himself for personal reasons? It's just not as simple, I can only speak from my experience with people who claim to be bi and I'm sure you're doing the same.
Or perhaps it's two separate statements. If I said I'm not changing my pronouns because of bi sexuality I'd say you have a point, but unfortunately on mobile I do not know how to separate what I say. I only know how to use a period and move on.
vvfs- · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:03 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I'm just fucking around at this point.
It's stupid to say that bisexuals must be confused. Just because you aren't bi doesn't mean it's impossible to be bi.
leiphos · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:41 on January 18, 2018 · (Permalink)
There were plenty of bi-sexual people throughout history though. It used to be very common. Historically, lesbians were very uncommon, but most women were considered to be what we’d now call “bisexual.” There were always gay men, but in some cultures men went both ways too, like in Rome (an example most people would be familiar with).
None of that refers to gender fluidity. Trans is what you're talking about, and most doctors agree that it's a real thing. Regardless of if you call them man or woman (or consider them to even be one) they usually conform to the 2 gender rule. Gender fluid (as in the op) means they feel like a man some days and a woman others, or moment to moment, and can fluctuate between all the 150 genders that have become a r/TumblrinAction meme.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 21:30:28 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
The biology and fact is that brains are weird, complex and still nowhere near fully understood.
Being mentally ill also does not make you a freakshow, and by saying that I venture that you probably have some form of mental illness, one that causes you to lash out at anything you dislike.
swd120 · 7 points · Posted at 19:55:28 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
taking 2 wheels off my car doesn’t magically make it a motorcycle.
And when i'm invaded, i reserve the right to retaliate. I will then give them my fucking opinion in return.
I've been told that's bigotry.
leiphos · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:04 on January 18, 2018 · (Permalink)
Just play their game. Pull out the “offended” card. I like to tell these people that what they’re saying is deeply offensive to me and is an attack on my identity and worldview. Their heads explode. Sometimes they even begin arguing against political correctness, and saying that being offended isn’t legitimate and that identity politics is a ridiculous premise for me to use. It’s wonderful when they realize they have made my point for me. Try it out sometime!
What if you are born with both male and female genitalia?
Beljora · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:55 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
That's what gets to me... Being gay only requires you to be tolerant, which I'm all for. Being some other crazy gender requires your active participation as you literally need to memorize it like Pokemon characters. I'm sure that's fun if you're into that, but most of us have other things on our mind.
mathgon · 0 points · Posted at 18:54:25 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I think people are confusing what gender means too. But these are my thoughts to add to liking different genders. As a man, do you feel like a man?
Well some males don't feel like men, they feel like women and embrace it. It's different than some gay men. Some gay men feel like men, being tough and all that but just like other men. Some gay men feel like women, and like other men.
You may feel like you aren’t a man. And I recognize that struggle. But you still ARE. That’s your feelings, and they are not my responsibility, nor should I change my actions or life to reflect them. There’s days where people feel depressed suicidal and worthless, they aren’t. Those pass. If they don’t-seek help. We don’t encourage people to commit suicide because they FEEL they need to in the moment. We shouldn’t encourage men who FEEL like women in the moment to chop their dicks off.
If you have a penis, you’re a dude. Even if you chop it off, you still have the muscular density of a male, the body shape, and the hormones. Sorry, it’s a fact.
The Merriam Webster definition for students of the word gender is: “The state of being male or female”
Oxford Dictionary: “Either of the two sexes, especially when considered with reference to social and cultural differences”
I have a gay friend who is a male, and very effeminate. He is confident in his own body and likes to act womanly. BUT, He identifies as a male, because he knows he has a penis and that’s what he is. He chooses not to identify as a woman because he simply isn’t. He’s more genuine and awesome than most people I know because he’s 100% comfortable as himself, even as a male that chooses to be effeminate. That’s something these people could learn to embrace is themselves, instead of trying to cling to labels and physical changes to themselves.
Bdazz · 4 points · Posted at 20:23:36 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
That’s something these people could learn to embrace is themselves, instead of trying to cling to labels and physical changes to themselves.
Definitely this. People are stressing way too much over labels.
Exactly. They made the mistake in believing that their "gender" should describe them to a 't' when in reality, being a 'man' isn't a full list of personality traits. Men are men regardless if they act 'manly' and men could be 'manly' in different ways. Same thing for women,
Some gay men feel like men, being tough and all that
I think there MAY just be something more to being a man then just "being tough and all that"
You dont have to be an MMA fighter to be a "man"
You have to have (or have had) a penis and / or XY chromosomes.
You can enjoy barbie dolls and dresses high heels and taking dick up the ass and still be a man.
Its not really something anybody can choose regardless of how they feel.
I mean you can get pretty close ish now with surgery and hormone therapy. but you are still biologically male.
mathgon · 1 points · Posted at 01:24:24 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
Honestly we're just arguing semantics, you say potato I say potato. And it depends on the context.
If you use man to describe gender, then anyone with a dick is a man. However, to me, anyone with a dick is a male. Man refers to something more, not a male that plays with dolls, takes dick, and likely wants to be pampered instead of taking care of his family.
Man is there essence of the male side of humans. The one that hunts and that does what needs to be done. The male that gathers food and waits for the men to come back isn't a man.
I assume I have probably some basic humanity feels in common with women
You sure do. You both can feel hot, cold, scared, and a billion other things. None of those things are "like a man" or "like a woman". You're never sexy "like a woman", or strong "like a man", or scared "like a girl", or brave "like a boy". You can be any single one of those. Males and females both experience those feelings.
And, if I can't say how closely I align with women, I certainly can't judge how closely any other man aligns with women.
Having two X chromosomes make you a woman, having a Y chromosome makes you a man.
"Feeling like a woman" means you feel like your Y chromosome has left your DNA. I don't think that's a human emotion. Correct me if I'm wrong though.
Feeling scared is a real emotion, we can measure it in the brain. "feeling like a woman" is not.
I had a scare around Christmas time. My son, 7, and I were talking about the differences between men and women. Somewhere in the conversation, I mentioned that people can be either a man or a woman and there's no third option. He said that there WAS a third option and I got ready to go full dad mode until he said that option three was "the Grinch!"
D0Z13R · 146 points · Posted at 18:06:54 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
At least his heart grew three times larger that day.
It’s about time this issue was brought to light. There needs to be a third bathroom for those that identify as evil holiday beings. Since I identify as Krampus, I never feel comfortable in either men’s or women’s bathrooms.
My daughter came out as "gender fluid" that identifies as a male. I laughed. I said "I was there at your birth and changed your diapers, you're a girl".
She seemed a little upset, at first. I said "look I love you, this is a phase and it's a shame because you should embrace your feminism, be proud to be a woman. You are a bright young woman and know what's right. There are two genders. That's it. Life is so simple and sometimes people try to make it more complicated than it really is."
It's weird because she likes guys, a lot. So I kid around with her and call her a "gay boy" sometimes. We laugh. It's a bonding relationship. She's really into guys.
Later she asked if she should dye her hair grey. I went "are you an old lady? you have beautiful hair, why put chemicals in it to make yourself look like an old hag?" She didn't dye her hair.
I told her to embrace her female self, she should love herself for who she is. It is a weird time of confusion for young adults in general, they just need a guiding hand.
I hope my influence as a father of a young adult is enough to keep her from turning into a blue haired feminazi in college.
Conversely a girl that wears t-shirt and jeans or is "sporty" is not a boy. We need to teach our kids, it goes a mile, don't trust the "system" to do it for you.
The "system" wanted my little brother to pop mind numbing pills so he'd conform with society. My parents rejected it and now he's doing pretty well for himself.
Damn. I've seen that so many times during my run as a parent. "ADHD" kids, especially boys, are just kids that don't burn off enough built up energy. We used to ride bikes, and play touch football and jump off of roofs and set things on fire (oops..shouldn't have admitted that).
ANYWAY, these kids just sit around all day gaming and chatting on a multitude of social shithole apps. They fill up with negative energy from all the gossip and bs. They need to burn it off somehow. They don't need drugs. (usually)
There was a boy in my kids class who was bouncing off the walls! Teachers were outraged. Principle was pushing drugs hard to fix him. Parents resisted and got him into pop warner football. That was it. Problem solved. Kid was wiped out every night, and chill in class. He continued like this throughout elementary/ middle school. Turned into a very talented free safety. He's a junior in high school now, being looked at by college teams.
I was diagnosed with ADHD a few years ago because I was pretty hyper and my grades weren't awesome, my ideas were all over the place too. Thing is, kids with ADHD can't control themselves at all, unlike me. I could've been able to sit still, I just didn't because I was an active kid who preferred motion over sitting for 8 hours in school, my ideas were all over the place not because I was unable to focus in on a certain topic, but rather because I'm a versatile multi-tasker who naturally does many things at once, I CHOOSE to be that way. As for my grades, that was because I never tried, not because I was mentally ill.
My parents didn't believe me, they took the teachers and doctors bullshit and forced me to take the pills. And let me tell you, those pills didn't help a single bit. I wasn't the active and funny child I was, but rather in a quiet, robot-like state of mind, where I had no desire to do ANYTHING! It even started making me depressed and had me start seeing the world in a dark way. But because I was less hyper and had less "creative" ideas, everyone thought I was doing well.
After 2 years, I realized I can't continue this any longer, or else I won't be able to function without those drugs. And so, I stopped taking them. My parents wouldn't let me do that of course, I simply threw them away somewhere and said I took them. You know what happened? I became happier, more alive, my depression went away, and even my grades started doing well.
I never had ADHD, I was just a normal, young child with an active and overly creative personality. I'm so glad I realized that before my parents did, and was able to stop taking those drugs before I permanently became a robot. I'm a high school sophomore now, and I learned how to utilize my extremely active and quick mind and my high creativity to my advantage, and it hurts me just by thinking that those skills would've diminished if I listened to my doctor.
Seriously, doctors shouldn't diagnose children left and right. I value my way of thinking. I can think of things from many different perspectives and in creative ways in a very quick manner, which isn't "normal"- especially for a child in a school setting, however it certainly could be a very useful skill in a work environment, especially for me, as I want to become a trial lawyer. Normality isn't special and won't get you much beyond average, and yet children are encouraged to be normal and abandon any special "irregular" benefits they may have, which saddens me.
Awesome post. Your experiences and observations are really illuminating for a parent. I'm also glad you made the point, which I really didn't, that some kids DO need the help of meds. I suspect that most kids put on scripts didn't need them. They were just high energy, future overachievers, not potatoes. There's a place for both, but they look and act completely different.
Schools just want uniformity. It's easier for them. They're low energy now a days. That's why schools usually suck, compared to the old days. My kid is a junior in HS, and I laugh at what passes for AP and Honor's workload and expectations now, at least at our private school. Oh well. Self-taught/ self-motivated is better anyway.
Good luck with your journey in life. It sounds like you've figured out some important things already. Like self-assessment, believing in and following your instincts. Those are big. The other big one for everyone is beating procrastination. That's the dream killer right there. It's cancer. Destroy it now. With fire. Live like Trump.
Society, and schools in particular, now refer to “acting like a boy” as “ADHD”. And their answer is to medicate them so they will “calm down” and act docile like the girls do.
Girls are allowed to go to school for the first time, they do poorly because schools were set up to only teach boys. Over the years we figured out how to teach girls and their overall averages started going up. Feminism as a movement becomes really big and we start studying how girls operate differently than men and how we can accommodate in education and business. Some more time passes and we see women out perform men.
All of that is fine and dandy... But during this transition, the west forgot about the boys in class. We spent generations getting girls up to speed that our whole system of education shifted. As a result, girls are considered the standard, and instead of making co-ed classrooms accommodating for both learning styles... Educators assume that the boys have to act like girls. We go out and punish them and drug them for being boys. It's a huge issue. If people have the money, from my perspective I would send my kids to segregated private schools. Boys perform on the same level as their female peers when learning in a segregated environment.
I’m really skeptical of the school system around here (North East Ohio) and the push for so many preteen boys to be in ADHD medication. Im a nurse and work with psych patients so I have a pretty good idea what mental illness and med side effects look like. It seems like atleast 25% of the people I know with boys in school have been told that their child needs ADHD medication. I’m just not seeing it from these kids tho. For example they wanted my 11 year old nephew to be put in ADHD meds, but he’s not hyper at all. After his parents met with the teacher and also questioned him about his school behavior it made even less sense. The biggest concern the teacher had was that he didn’t focus on after the lunch break and would occasionally talk to desk mates and toss pencils back and forth “flicking them” as a game with desk mate. This was “disruptive”. But when questioned my nephew said that he was bored (recess had been canceled as a punishment for other kids) and that the teacher was talking about things they had already covered (and he passed testing in the material) because “other kids didn’t pay attention the first time. The teacher would also complain a lot about him setting at the desk with his legs in the chair under him. Same way he sits at home and I actually do myself too. But setting like this was a “safety concern” because they chair could tip over....... what it came down to was the kid was bored after 6ish hours at school with no physical activity and had spaced out, occasionally standing pencils up and flicking loose erasers to knock the pencils over...... i talk to the kid enough and he really actually engages in decently intelligent conversation for his age as long as someone makes the effort to enter at with him... if anything he’s a little mellow/indoorish for his age..... not someone that needs psychiatric medications for being hyper.
I live in Central Ohio, and I too was diagnosed with ADHD because I was active, creative, and was able to think of multiple things from multiple and unique perspectives in a short manner of time. I was forced to take Adderall, which actually made me depressed and suicidal and slowly lose all of my fun and creative old self. But hey, I was now "normal" so everyone thought I was fine.
Absolute bullshit, I went off those drugs and I became SO MUCH HAPPIER! As for my quick and creative thinking, it actually puts me in an extreme advantage because it's not normal! Stop drugging kids for something that could put them at an advantage in the future! A creative and multidimensional mindset may not be ideal for a strict follow-the-rules type setting like math class, but it sure does help if you wanna be a lawyer! But hey, tons of kids are robbed of their skills because of drugs. Ridiculous.
Probably something like what people (some dr's, teachers, etc) keep "suggesting" we try for my kid. My kid is not "in the box" and because of this, my kid has trouble with focus in school, some anxiety, and a few other things. My child is perfectly intelligent and not "retarded" in any way such as a kid with severe autism might have (or something like that). But my kid has been identified as being "on the spectrum" (whatever the F that means). I've read the books. I'm educated. I've talked to the counselors. I've consulted with family, friends etc.
I understand my kid better than all of them. There was a point where a few were really suggesting hard that we put my kid on some "medicine" to help my kid adjust and focus and "do better" in school.
let me ask a question.... how do you write the # 7? You start at the top left, draw across, and then down, right? Isn't that how we all do it? Nope. Not my kid. My child starts and the bottom, goes up and across. Try to tell them they're doing it wrong? Nope. It's not just the 7. The 7 is the example I'm using to show that my child is different. Not less. not more. Just different than 99% of the others. Everything my kid does in life and the way they think is like the 7 they make. someone "in the box" does not understand what it's like to be them. It's like being left handed in world built for right handed people.
So the experts think the anxiety is caused by some chemical imablance? Yeah the fuck it is because stress from living in a world where everyone operates differently from you causes a fucking imbalance!!
NO. I will not now and not ever put them on that shit.
You should see the art my kid creates. Fucking amazing and they aren't even a teen yet. Amazing shit. You think I'm going to drug them so they can be more "normal". fuck that.
bullshit.
you should see my kids artwork.
spez: I recognize that there are cases where medicine is beneficial and necessary. I just think drugs are way over prescribed these days and should only be used as a last resort.
I know this. Autism is a general term used to describe a pattern of behavior. It is basically their way of labeling something for which they don't have a true understanding of. There are all kinds of things that can put you on the spectrum for autism, and many of those things are completely different from each other. I could exhibit signs of autism but yet the underlying factors causing my symptoms may be completely different than what those factors are in another person. Doctors really don't know what it is, other than to define it by it symptoms, which may be from who knows what.
Kolob64 · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:45 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
What they are saying is that a certain class of people who think differently need to be diagnosed and defined instead of just accepting them as they are. I am technically Aspie as well, thank heaven I did not get drugged or treated worse than I did as it was. School was hell for me. I still remember my teachers asking me why I could not be like the other kids. For the record I loved learning, got good grades, and scored high. No one cared about that, they wanted me to be social. As a girl it is even worse as we did not get any boy behavior leeway. There is an effort out there to put us all in a psychological blender and homogenize us by any means
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:14:43 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I was one of those poor kids who was "outside the box" so they had my parents put me on medication. I'm now 24 and still on a form of mind altering medication. All I know is that I'm still not happy, and I don't do much of anything or have much motivation for most things. A part of me want to cut them out of my life, but I'm not sure what the consequences might be from doing so.
Spez: what I mean by "cut them out of my life" I mean cutting out the medication I've been on for years. I would never cut out my parents as I love them too much and don't blame them for it.
Don't hold it against them. I can tell you, that the amount of pressure on the parents is crazy. They want to do the right thing (well I'm assuming here that they love you of course). All parents want to do the right thing. And depending on the situation, the may have had a lot more pressure put on them by Dr's, school teachers, counselors... than even I have. It's a hard decision NOT to give in and say okay give them the drug. especially when you see your kid struggling. don't resent them for it. try to understand. so many people around me try and present the medicine as normal, safe, etc. it sounds so appealing and they sell the shit out of it. and you want your kid to be "better" so as a loving parent its so easy to give in.
Kolob64 · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:36 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Yes, exactly, I still sometimes wonder if I should have done something. It is agonizing seeing our kids struggle. Mine did fine until they left home and started eating crud. I find that cane sugar triggers depression in me and in 2 of my kids. I have MTHFR 677T mutation and cannot process high levels of junk and stress like other people. We only found out about this in the last 10 years. By living and eating very clean I can control it without drugs. If I go on a sugar bender it is not pretty. Everyone is different, but with mental challenges lifestyle changes can help. My sugar eaters are addicted and started really ramping it up after they left home.
Wow I had not heard about this but I do know that diet can have a big impact. We try to get our kids to eat healthy but you know how that goes. How did you get the diagnosis?
Kolob64 · 1 points · Posted at 13:44:06 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
My brother's psychiatrist had him tested and he told the rest of us. I got tested a few years later. I am fine, but a naturopath got me off all enriched food years before, I have not had alcohol since I was 23, and the naturopath moved me from very low cane sugar to no cane sugar (I eat a little occasionally). I eat lots of vegetables, I used to be a chef and consider them essential. Underground Wellness has a great podcast on the subject with Ben Lynch.
I need to change my diet. My sister is a nutritarian. We used to tease her about it...
Then, one day my brother had a couple heart attacks (not in the same day, but we found out about it that day because he had been hiding his health issues from us) and was diagnosed with congestive heart failure. The Dr.s did the standard prescribing tons of meds, telling him he probably didn't have a lot longer to live, and of course they wanted to do a stent.
He radically changed his diet to full out nutritarian. After some months, he was feeling a bit better. Went in for one of his checkups and the Dr. said that he couldn't explain it, but my brother was "better". He didn't need the meds. Didn't need the stent. The Dr. was literally jaw dropping in shock. He couldn't explain it. Said it was a "miracle". It was diet.
All I know is that I'm still not happy, and I don't do much of anything or have much motivation for most things.
Time is short.
Kolob64 · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:07 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
As a parent from their generation, you cannot imagine the pressure put on parents to drug their kids. My DIL got off her medications about 2 years ago and now is totally sane. I homeschooled my kids to get away from all that. 2 of my 3 kids think I am ok. One turned into a SJW and is now medicated. She started with all that after she left home. My oldest is struggling, I think he can figure things out and stay drug free, but it is his choice now as he is 26
Zerwas · 2 points · Posted at 21:20:27 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I would like to see some of your kids art if you want to post some!
I wish my parents had been that strong. I finally was able to shoo them off on drugging me when I learned how drugs worked in biology class.
My child is a very late talker. He understands concepts like numbers, how to use machines, music, etc. He is loveable and likes to help with chores, always wants to try new things. He is a perfect pitch. But his talking is way behind, so I have been on guard for any BS diagnosis from the school system. I found private speech therapy, kept him in preschool an extra year to give him more time, and he entered Kindergarten at age 6 last summer. His talking started vastly improving last year, mostly on its own. He is learning quickly.
But I knew he was an oddball from the start. The kid walked before he crawled. Thomas Sowell saved my sanity here with the book "Einstein Syndrome", gave me some ideas on what to expect, and I have been armed with knowledge to keep the autism-brigade at bay. And if I have my way my kid will never take anything stronger than a cup of coffee.
my only regret is that we didn't hold my child back a year in preschool. would have helped a lot but i was too proud
Kolob64 · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:12 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Those books helped me too. I highly recommend reading Neurotribes. Autistic tendencies and milder forms like Asperger's are not a defect. After studying up it was very clear I am "On the spectrum". Our biggest societal problem is not appreciating people exactly as they are. I also held back my oldest. Learn all you can, I wish I had known more sooner to help him better.
I’m not that old, but I’ve never heard of bender and bugger. To me, queer and faggot are the same thing, with the exception of faggot referring to males only.
BR-0 · 3 points · Posted at 20:01:51 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Okay, so this is a lot to digest all at once if you've never been down this rabbit hole before, so I forgive any skepticism, but here it goes.
One day Karl Marx was moping about in Vienna, wondering why people were not jumping on board with Communism, as he was known to do, and one of his followers approached him with an idea. The idea was that to get communism to succeed they needed to get the marginalized groups on board. Karl loved the idea.
Soon they solidified their doctrine and created the Frankfurt school. The idea behind the Frankfurt school was to teach everyone they were a victim in some way or another, and they needed to rise up and destroy capitalism to be free.
The Nazi party rose out of this, and they picked certian groups, notably the gay population of Germany and the Occult population of Germany to use to help them gain power. When they did have power, they immediately turned on both groups (less so the occult group, but both really) and the Frankfurt school group realized it was time to GTFO. Frankfurt came to America and become Columbia university.
Columbia realized it's best bet was to become a leading college of teachers so it could teach teachers to indoctrinate students. It took a while, but now most liberal colleges are controlled by people who belive in Frankfurt philosophy, creating SJWs and ANTIFA.
Holy fuck, I remember listening to a professor on YouTube talk about the Frankfurt school and Columbia university. Could you pm me any good videos on the subject? I love shit like this and would be very happy to learn more about this. I know you're probably busy but if you find time to point me in the right direction it would be fantasic.
Lmao that is hilarious. I feel that way sometimes. I just find I'm a better listener than reader. I retain information I hear far better than what I read. I was the asshole in school that had to read aloud in class. Thanks for the info I'll go through it tonight. I find shit like this fun.
The authoritative book is probably Rules for Radicals by Saul Alinsky. (Hillary did her thesis on it.) But if you want a condescended version this image covers the basics.
Good to know the enemy's play book. Got most of my extended family to read it. Hasn't made any of us into psychopaths yet. Actually explains how losers and cowards can win by exploiting the weakness of political correctness. Actually pretty brilliant if you give credit where credit is do.
If you haven't read Righteous Indignation, Andrew Breitbart touches on the Frankfurt school stuff in his book, to add to the sources others are giving you bekow. That and it is an eye opening book in general. Maybe find an audiobook if you do better listening than reading. Enjoy.
A fasces, the symbol of and root word of Fascism, is a bundle of sticks. Strength in numbers etc. - a bundle is stronger than an individual stick. A faggot is also a bundle of sticks.
n.1
late 13c., "bundle of twigs bound up," from Old French fagot "bundle of sticks" (13c.), of uncertain origin, probably from Italian faggotto, diminutive of Vulgar Latin *facus, from Latin fascis "bundle of wood" (see fasces ).
Fasces (/ˈfæsiːz/, (Italian: Fasci, Latin pronunciation: [ˈfa.skeːs], a plurale tantum, from the Latin word fascis, meaning "bundle")
From Middle English, from Old French fagot (“bundle of sticks”), from Old Italian fagotto, diminutive of Vulgar Latin facus, from *Latin fascis (“bundle of wood”). See also fag.
Reading comprehension doesn't appear to be your strong point.
arguing semantics, your implication is that faggotry and fasces are related, being that both are somehow homosexual. Sure, I concede your point that the fasces and the fascis are linguistically derived from the same latin root.
But you didn't prove that homosexuality and fasces are related. And now how about those gay German beer halls, screenshots or it never happened.
What you take as a lack of reading comprehension is no such thing. I do not care is the problem.
It is more likely that "faggot" came from "fagoting" which is intricate stitchwork on the hemmed edges of women's clothing which was basically another way of calling homosexuals "fancy" which was essentially making fun of them for acting/dressing effeminately. Not likely that it had anything to do with bundles of sticks or burning said bundles...
Fuego38 · 0 points · Posted at 19:47:58 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
The Lady Lindsey, the Belle of Belles, bless her heart.
The place on Reddit where these issues get critiqued from the perspective you describe is called GenderCritical - you might want to check it out.
Sex-based stereotypes are retrograde and I for one cannot believe that all this "girls like pink! if you're a guy who likes pink you should be taking estrogen!" BS is happening. It's like the last 50 years never happened. Gullible, confused, lonely people- like my 14-year-old stepdaughter - are being taken in by this rhetoric and making permanent changes to their bodies because of it.
bcboncs · 5 points · Posted at 19:15:01 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Pretty accurate statement. I'd just like to add that social norms have an enormous impact. The outspoken and vocal bunch are those that have a consensus to hate on Trump. That alone is a bonding moment to "fit in" and youth is naturally passionate... sadly misguided.
Not their fault. Thank the Frankfurt School, Operation Mockingbird, Obama's NDAA, and the Republican deep state congressmen who went along for the ride.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:52:34 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Shit if that ain't the truth. I'm not even out of my 20's yet but looking back I was so much more naive and confused as a teenager, but let's not get anything twisted here, I've always been an America First patriot. The lib elites pretty much hijacked puberty and emotion and are trying scramble these kids into a brainless, Soyboy army.
Good for you! She’s lucky to have you as a dad!! I agree that young people are very confused. They are constantly bombarded with gender issues on social media and in their friend circles. My oldest daughter is in HS, and we talk about this stuff all the time. Of course, she stays away from social media and that’s huge. I wish more young people would get away from it. It’s poison to them.
I said "look I love you, this is a phase and it's a shame because you should embrace your feminism, be proud to be a woman.
I think that women need to understand that being proud to be a woman doesn't necessarily mean that they have to accept all gender roles that we think of when we think of female gender roles. A lot of this gender identity stuff seems to be associated with people's understanding that to be male or female means to adhere strictly to gender roles associated with males or females. So if they don't think they fall into one of those social categories, they come to the conclusion that they must belong to one of the new made up genders. Women need to learn that it's okay to like "guy stuff" and that won't make a woman less a woman. Same with guys, if a dude wants to wear a flowery dress, he shouldn't think that means he's any less a man.
Yep. I’m a girl and was a lover of big puffy dresses as a young child and was defenatley going to grow up and drive the pink Barbie car, be a princess, ect. but that never stopped my uncles, boy cousins, ect. from also encouraging me to go fishing with them or learn how to change a tire. As an adult i fit in lots of places. Still a WOMAN and the boyfriend loves when I wear cute sun dresses but will switch out to mudd boots and old shorts for a late evening of fishing.
Hey, good on you for not belittling your daughter and calling her names. You fight the good fight with logic, and you didn't seem to demean her in the process. You've empowered her, but provided guidance on how reality interfaces with her feelings. Good luck!
I think it speaks more to the level of trust you've built. One of the areas those of us on the conservative side of things lose on, bigly, is that the public, families, and our liberal friends have lost trust that we have their better interests at heart. Your daughter trusts you to provide guidance, and that's why she listens. She trusts you because you've done a good job at parenting and built that trust over time, by not name calling and by showing love and by providing empowering guidance, and by not overreacting or belittling her for going through a "confusing time" . Good on you for that. We'd be a lot better off if more took your approach.
I'm praying this is all over by the time my 2 year old is old enough to see this. I'm not sure I could have handled that as well as you. I just find it so stupid it's hard to ridicule and I'm afraid I would only say something that would cause her to double down. You're a good father, thanks for sharing.
That's pretty brilliant. I'd love to see a wider movement to replace "male/female" selections with "XY/XX". Run a business? Label the bathrooms XX and XY. Watch people try to weasel out of the science on that one.
With kids, asking them questions can really make a huge difference. Shoot them down, tell them what to do, and you risk them rebelling. Ask them why? And you get them thinking and evaluating their situation and ideas. Sad that liberal propaganda is so rampant these days.
I don't understand why people think feminism instantly means crazy SJW/anti-trump/anti-whatever else. A feminist is someone who believes that women should have the same rights as men. THAT'S IT. If you don't believe that that's fine too but I think it sounds A ok to me because why shouldn't they?
I think part of the problem is that when people think of feminism they instantly think of this.
Egalitarian - one who believes in the principle that all people are equal and deserve equal rights and opportunities
Feminist - one who believes that men and women should have equal rights and opportunities
Men and women are people and I believe they should have equal rights and opportunities so I'm pretty sure to be an egalitarian is to also be a feminist.
By the way, you can have your own definition for whatever you think feminism is. I've repeatedly said what I think it means and you're free to believe whatever you want.
It's totally fine that you disagree with me but it doesn't seem like you want to have an actual discussion which again, is totally fine.
I think my reasoning is pretty sound and it makes sense but you're just saying no without trying to show me why my belief doesn't make sense (which again, is fine). Let me know if you actually have something interesting to say. Until then, peace out.
nedm89 · -2 points · Posted at 00:10:49 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
My point isn't whether women currently have the same rights as men (which they don't, especially in other parts of the world), my point is that feminists believe men and women should have the same rights.
I remember very specificly a man who's daughter told him she was gay. He had a similar response and under the influence of their church community sought help for her gayness. Denial is far from a solution, but she eventually found one. She felt so overwhelming ashamed of who she was because of the people around her that she killed herself. She died alone, scared, and lacking the basic human dignity that we all deserve. Think twice before advising people to deny their children the right to being happy however they want. Their lives might just depend on it.
She literally is happily dating the star of the boy's baseball team. She's 100% hetero. I asked her and really got no problem with it, she 100% likes guys and in a monogamous relationship right now (as one could be in high school).
I'm honestly very happy that it worked out and that things are going well for her. Not often do we get to see people who feel so removed from their identity that they would come out, feel so strongly about it later on and not end up suffering from major depressive disorders (ect). But I'm more worried about the way that other people would interpret that story. And that a person who reads that might really fuck their kid up because they can't accept that they aren't going to conform the way they want them too. I think it's difficult for you or I to imagine but when someone holds on to the conviction that they are genderfluid or non-bianary... It's not because they caught a case of the 'homos', it's because they feel so out of place, so disgusted by their own identity they they are willing to put their friends, reputation, everything on the line. They don't take that leap to feel special. They take that leap because the blazes of self-hatred and loneliness drive them off the cliff and the only thing they can hope for is a soft landing. It's not about any anecdotal circumstance, it's about setting a president of acceptance so that even if it's one in a thousand. No more innocent people end up killing themselves.
That's what's so great about this Dad's approach. It is fully accepting and encouraging of the way the daughter is. "No you can't be that, I disprove, it's won't allow it," is very different from "I love you, you're great, but you're not that."
Homeschool options are getting better and better. As a public school kid myself, I never thought I'd say this, but I'm strongly considering homeschooling my future kiddos for a few years. Young minds are so malleable and it's so important we lay the foundation for reason, critical thinking, and reality early on.
Wow, awesome parenting. I'm a single father of two young girls and really not looking forward to their young adult years. I'm hoping a lot of this gender identity shit is old news and a passing fad.
I'm practising a look that may or may not be intended to convey the same message. While actually stating such a message in Canada would be a hate crime, perhaps a look isn't? (It is)
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Bdazz · 5 points · Posted at 20:09:51 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
If she really wants to dye her hair, offer to take her to a fancy stylist as a treat and get an entire makeover done - massage, mani, pedi, makeup, the works. Getting a pro to tell her how best to show off her real beauty can be a huge boost for a girl. (Also, a good pro can explain why she'll regret torturing her hair and skin with chemicals). It can be a great bonding experience, too.
Your story is heartwarming. It is so important for girls to have a rational voice to give honest feedback about fads like the genderfluid bullshit and the bizarre trend of women dyeing their hair gray. (Guessing they do it to look like the girl from Game of Thrones, which, to be fair, doesn't have gray hair either. More of a platinum look, which still destroys hair with chemicals.) Either way, it sounds like she trusts you enough to discuss these issues, and that's a great thing.
As for college, one of the best things you can do is require your daughter to work to at least partially pay for tuition and/ or room and board. Nothing is more redpilling and eye-opening than seeing how the system really works. If she's up for it, a trade school could be a better bet, too. Just throwing ideas out there, and of course not trying to impose.
You're a good dad.
Zerwas · 2 points · Posted at 21:17:50 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Your Username really checks out when it comes to raising your daughter :)
That was very nice to read, if there were just more people who act like this.
Much respect, sir.
I hope my influence as a father of a young adult is enough to keep her from turning into a blue haired feminazi in college.
Might want to consider steering her to a career that doesn't require college. Or at least making sure you vet the hell out of the profs at whichever college she ends up going to. If she's already confused about her gender thanks to the leftard teachers in her high school, there's a pretty good chance that she'll run across some Yvette Felarca wannabe in college who will see her as an opportunity and literally will not stop until they've convinced your daughter that your good parenting is "proof" that you hate her.
I feel like this post right here is way more deserving of the up votes of the original post. It gave me a laugh but this right here is what fatherhood truly is.
Sounds like she's trying to get people to like her by being someone else to be in the cool crowd but the cool crowd are almost always stupid fake morons so keep showing her shes wonderful the way she is.
Well these people need more parental guidance in their lives. Sadly, most of the parents of these snowflakes are as liberal as they come.
If my daughter came to me with that crap, I would probably do what you did and just explain it as some phase. You're absolutely right when you say people need to embrace who they are.
Sure, times were rough being a man growing up in South Texas. I saw all the girls get treated differently down here, but that didn't stop me. I still worked my ass off and I'm glad I'm where I'm at today. Some people would tell me that is male privilege. I would say it is just hard work and dedication.
I will make sure my daughter knows these things, while still being the most beautiful woman she can be. She has the best of both worlds. Her mother is a gorgeous woman who is into just everything girly. And I, her father, enjoys just about everything that your typical guy likes. She will know both traits and I'm excited to teach her.
Anyway, you're a damn good father.
cdjaco · -1 points · Posted at 20:46:52 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Sadly, most of the parents of these snowflakes are as liberal as they come.
The parents don't even need to be liberal or Leftist.
They just have to be checked out; the "village" will take care of the rest, unfortunately.
mintak4 · 0 points · Posted at 21:42:04 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Hey, man... That grey hair trend on people is pretty hot imo! Haha way to be a solid dad though.
This is something I legitimately don't understand. Like the Bruce Jenner thing. Jenner is only attracted to women. It seems odd that someone would want to recognize as the other gender even thought they're attracted to the other gender. It doesn't make any sense.
I'd tell her: "Love you for who YOU are, and be the best 'you' you can be. Don't be a 2nd-rate version of someone or something else. Because I love you for who YOU are."
Yup! Adolescence is a confusing time in everyone's lives. Why is the MSM intent on layering it with even more confusion? Just had my first daughter 9 months ago. Not going to lie fellow parent pedes, I'm worried about shit like this. The SJW narrative when I was a kid was all about the environment and how horrible loggers were. Sure my teachers were hippies acting like they were the stars of Ferngully, but my peers and I weren't systemically mind-fucked into questioning our gonads.
My hat is off to you as a father. What you just did for your daughter was parenting. Real parenting. Your daughter, like all of us who went through that time and stage, is between the desire to fit in with the group, but also discover herself as an individual. She had a dad who gave enough damns to stand upright in the face of these confusing questions and desires. I think seeing this in you will give her the confidence to do the same as she develops and grows throughout her life.
With all the compassion in the world, I wish you and your family the very best my pede.
Now I'm going to have a glass of whiskey and start planning my rebuttals to conversations like this 15 years from now.
[deleted] · 118 points · Posted at 17:06:47 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
It's true that there are very rare medical conditions, but I'm pretty sure most of them are less confused about their gender than some of these tumblr folks.
But it's a fuck up in nature, a mutation basically...
NEPXDer · 5 points · Posted at 21:19:42 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
But surely that is rare enough that we can speak in broad generalities by saying its either XX or XY.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:23 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
sure, but intersex stats are bullshit. they're fluffed with conditions of people who are distinctively one sex, but do not have perfectly normal genital organs. for example, if your penis hole is on the bottom instead of the tip, this is a genuine medical condition, but rights groups will claim you're intersex, even though you're distinctively male.
even people with klinefelter (XXY) still represent as distinctively male or distinctively female. most people don't even know they have klinefelter until they go to have kids and a fertility doctor tells them why it's not working.
the number of people who have a mix of partial or total of both sex organs is extremely rare... far less than 1:2000.
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[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:35:41 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Don't forget to give someone new a handy, because evolution
Dahti · 11 points · Posted at 19:59:05 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
But what about that astronomically small chance of XXY, checkmate bigot!
Dahti · 1 points · Posted at 14:10:39 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
Forgot YMCA too, sorry Pedes!
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Dahti · 2 points · Posted at 14:09:33 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
"Klinefelter syndrome affects 1 in 500 to 1,000 newborn males. Most variants of Klinefelter syndromeare much rarer, occurring in 1 in 50,000 or fewer newborns".
1 in 50,000 or fewer is pretty small..
Mostly just seen as small testes that underproduce testosterone (think natural soyboi) and not as many masculine traits. Not dude born with a vagina.
I mean, I get it. A mental issue is really only a problem if it makes it hard to get through your day. Just because you have a vagina doesn't mean you need to stand in the kitchen and cook shit. If you like to work on diesels, then go work on diesels. If you wanna fight, go fight. If you're a dude that wants to cross stitch and host pottery night, then do it.
It's a software issue, but it doesn't hurt anything. I think people chopping their bodies to fit the software issue are misguided, but just living how your brain tells you (if it doesn't hurt anyone) doesn't hurt anything.
We need mandatory psych evaluations if we want to buy guns, but we shouldn't psychologically evaluate people that believe they are the wrong gender.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:43:14 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
If you believe you are female, but in fact you are a male, then ye, I think you need to have your head examined. In fact, that is the exact reason you want to give the people who buy guns a psych evaluation -- you need to know if they can tell fiction from fact.
gogYnO · 5 points · Posted at 19:16:25 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
but we shouldn't psychologically evaluate people that believe they are the wrong gender.
And want to PERMANENTLY alter their bodies with scalpels and strong drugs, oh, and not just for adults, some parents abuse their children with it too
I dont use online dating sites. They are like a gall stone for the dating scene. People with mental issues, fantasy-world beliefs, and affection-deprivation issues flock to those sites (not saying anyone who uses them is definitely a messed up person, just saying the sites have lots of messed up people).
Like a gall stone those sites absorb sickness and help the surrounding dating fields stay healthy.
Why not?
I'm not saying that I agree that gender is a spectrum and/or social construct and/or changeable. I just don't understand why, logically, they are mutually exclusive.
If it's a social construct that is normal binary, but liberals redefine it as a spectrum, and a person individually feels they change on the spectrum... logically there is no flaw. Now, this DOES all fall apart if gender isn't a social construct and based on sex, which the majority of people have considered the case for more of history.
But a lot of them will make the claim that they are somewhere on the spectrum, but not completely male nor female. I'm not saying they use this vocabulary, but if a person who calls themselves genderfluid decides 'today I'm 60% male, 40% female' and the next day says 'I'm 99% female, 1% male', then they believe that they are: one a spectrum, believe that it it a social construct, and that it changes day by day. It's internally consistent, at least, though whether it lines up with actual biology is separate question that liberals would have a much harder time defending.
So now if a girl is a bit of a tom boy when shes younger she's now gender fluid? Not just a girl who likes some guy stuff which is normal btw. These liberals are sick the education system is to blame for this crap.
Ixliam · 2 points · Posted at 21:40:17 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Glad my wife made it past the time period of all this crap. With the wrong parents they'd have her all messed up as a kid. She's a bit of a tom-boy, likes to hunt/fish, gut out chickens and fish, and can field dress a deer. She's also a great cook, holds to pretty traditional values in our home, and enjoys a good night out on the town like any good lady. Actually surprised she turned out alright anyway, her parents were a bunch of hippies back in the day.
So when Daddy's little girl tells him that some times she doesn't feel like a girl he took it a little rough. Seems like that is to be expected. Maybe she should stop focusing on herself and understand her dad's point of view. But I guess it is easier to virtue signal with your rainbow twitter profile picture.
Your father knew long before you ever even Wondered.... young people think they are so much more advanced than the people that designed them ! I’m sure he has sat in the garage countless nights wishing you would stop crushing empty beer cans on your forehead and arm wrestling all the neighbor boys, if you have to put down a wrench and start wiping grease off your hands and face while you are about to “break it to him” he probably already knows....
You spend so much time, money, and energy to raise a child, only to have it turn out as a flaming SJW. I know parents aren't perfect, but that dad is probably wondering where he went so wrong. All those years of hopes and dreams, only to have your child grow into someone obsessed with gender politics. Talking about such things as such a major part of identity, when sex ought to be far less public than it has become.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 21:12:39 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
That right there is the product of Tumblr. I'm not kidding in the least bit ether. Our daughter was addicted to tumblr, it really fucked her views up badly when she was young. We finally got her off of it, she looks back on it in total embarrassment.
Listen up parent Pedes, if your child is using tumblr, GET THEM OFF IT AT ALL COSTS! I don't care if you have to remove them from all technology, get them off that fucking brain washing shit show of an internet site.
she just told her father that shes an idiot.. what did she expect...
Either you have a cock and love the cock
or
you don't have a cock and you love the cock
or
you have a cock and don't love the cock
or
you don't have a cock and don't love the cock
thats it.. nothing else.. unless you're getting into animals and then you're going to hell for that and you know it..
h4b1t · 3 points · Posted at 21:06:03 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
My fifth grade daughter has a teacher that they have to call Mx. Jenny. Mx. Sounds like mix and it’s because Jenny is genderless, omfg I can’t believe I have to deal with this bull shit. FYI the real name is not Jenny but is a female name.
zxcv168 · 3 points · Posted at 21:16:30 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
There really needs to be a manual on how to raise girls in such a degenerate society. Anorexia, bulimia, LGBT experiences in high school/college, gender dysphoria... its all thanks to unaccountable liberalism run wild in big media.
Dahti · 3 points · Posted at 20:13:13 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
The Bible.
And before everyone goes "yeah, just stone them like in the old testament"...
Old testament was written/orated in a time of tribalism and most of the weird/extreme behaviors were to distinguish the Israelites from the pagans which is something God took very seriously.
The New Testament (that covers the new covenant) is full of wisdom in how to raise kids in crazy times.
When I got married I realized there there is just about no support for marriage and children in secular life. A few years later we got married in the church and the body of support for a family is endless. Its wonderful.
I think you make a good point. I was raised secular so I have a long way to go to become more familiar with raising kids in accordance with biblical principles.
Dahti · 2 points · Posted at 21:13:45 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Don't think for a second though that the church is filled with ONLY good people. A lot of us sitting in the pew have our struggles just like everyone else.
Best advice I can give to anyone interested in learning more about church/Christians is find the people who live the same way regardless of what day of the week it is and don't just clean up good on a Sunday. They tend to be the ones who have a better understanding of what actual Christianity is about.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:22:45 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
What the fuck is gender fluid? Do folks really think they're both genders? Wouldn't surprise me considering people think they're the opposite gender when they're clearly not
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 20:32:23 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
That is undoubtedly her biggest struggle in life right now. Just think about that.
You wanna talk about privilege?
Talk about the kids privileged enough to act like a girl when they're really a boy. You think people from shit hole countries are privileged enough to care about their pronouns?
No. Not at all. Your dad is right. You need to shut the fuck up.
M_i_c_K · 2 points · Posted at 21:04:13 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
My father response would have been, Gender Fluid?
Does that come in a quart or only by the gallon?
rz1992 · 4 points · Posted at 16:06:11 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Well, did you listen to your pops and stfu? Doesn't look like it..
mazeri · 2 points · Posted at 16:27:05 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
People keep talking about this fluid gender, but I keep looking at my bottle of water and its not doing anything. WTH am I doing wrong?
Everybody is genderfluid. I'm a guy, but I like girly drinks. People who come out as "genderfluid" are confused because they think they're unique when they're not.
(Kind of like how every snowflake is unique, but a snowflake thinking that it's special just because it's unique would be dumb)
That would be my initial reaction. Being a father often means explaining things. Being "gender fluid" is kinda like being "worker fluid". If skip work because you don't feel like a worker today, you still deserve to be fired. Virtue is insisting on reason over feelings.
Gender has developed over thousands of generations as children observe their mother and father. It's how males and females are supposed to behave. It's not arbitrary, but leads to becoming a mother and father. Negotiating toward those roles is the terms of how each sex is supposed to interact. Rejecting the terms for interaction just makes you hard to interact with. You can't do anything else because no one knows how to interact with anything else. There is no reason to do anything else. The only reason people do it is mental disorders and delusion combined with poor judgement.
This is a free country and people can do whatever stupid shit they get in their head, no one is forced to be socially well adjusted. But being nonbinary is nothing but sucking at being social with a dash of insanity.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:23:13 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
This is a free country and people can do whatever stupid shit they get in their head
The problem is to many people are being forced and coerced into this bullshit. This horse shit is being normalized, MENTAL ILLNESS is being normalized. THAT is the problem here.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:16:32 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Wow look at the emo tumblr brigading going on!
FUCK YOU LITTLE PUSSY ASSED FUCKS, THERE ARE ONLY TWO GENDERS! AND FLUID ISN'T ONE OF THEM!
Yup, whenever you feel like and for whatever reason.
cam2kx · 3 points · Posted at 19:03:02 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I'm a MAGA Transgender female, regardless of how you feel about that, guess what? There are two genders!
Surprised to hear a t-girl say that? Don't be, we are here too, on the MAGA train.
You should never name every fucking tick of a spectrum and turn it into a fking "who's more unique" shit that the liberal LGBT community eats up like rainbow cake.
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cam2kx · 0 points · Posted at 12:24:35 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
Eh, it's fine I'm fully aware of thier obession over creating thier safespace of you're a man crap/mental illness, like yeah that means something to me right?
It's something we will always deal with here.
Lol they just don't want to and don't understand our plight.
cam2kx · 0 points · Posted at 19:59:39 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Pretending? Boi i voted for the man and regularly talk on the Donald, and shit on libtards. Come on, t-girls can MAGA too.
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cam2kx · 0 points · Posted at 12:21:13 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
Lol, is that how you talk to everyone with a mental illness, child you're just quite a terrible human huh? Mommy didn't teach you to at least try to be kind to people, with mental illness? The liberals are forcing you hon, not me or us in this branch.
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cam2kx · 0 points · Posted at 12:25:47 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
Oh really? I drink pure estrogen with a side of of my husband's huge cock. For good measure, i also have covfefe on hand.
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cam2kx · 0 points · Posted at 12:31:54 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
Oh so you also don't talk to handicapped folk, or people with other mental problems? Wow you must be one terrible man to be, i feel sorry for those around you man.
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cam2kx · 1 points · Posted at 12:43:48 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
Oh, sorry i offended you, man, I really feel sorry for your parent's, they must have did a terrible job raising you boy.
If you have a cock and balls, then you are a man. Just ask my husband Barack, he loves my man shaft.
cam2kx · 1 points · Posted at 12:22:26 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
A man you say? Guess i saw that memo, ignored it and did my own thing, because it's my life not yours to decide what i look like, not sorry that you feel you need to force sex based clothing and looks on each other like some dirty facist, wow.
Oh, dang, i guess I forget to care about being a man anymore, you know with my nautral breasts and female hormones for four years , oh also not having balls, realllly helps too.
Makes you wonder how someone can be so fucked up with such a grounded father. the answer is the liberal indoctrination in the school systems, which is why I don't send my children to public school
TrueLux · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:28 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Have they stopped teaching biology in college? I have worked on the land for over 38 years, and believe me, our indoor kids have a giant problem. They don't see those beautiful male songbirds singing their little hearts out for a lovely lady bird. They no longer see the dignity and grace of monogamous geese or the protective maleness of a coyote father. they never see a mourning doe who has lost her fawn as just another road kill statistic. You can't get this at a damn 2 week programmed summer camp. You need to live it, be immersed in it as a child. Sometimes alone, sometimes with a loving parent. Children need to explore, and see the real binary sexual world as it is. Are there sexual aberrations? Of course! But nature does NOT celebrate them nor promulgate them. Only the servants of the Archon tech culture do this. Our souls are discovered in vacant city lots, in abandoned drainage ditches, in the song of birds, and if you are lucky, in the grandeur of the mountains and long walks upon the land. Gender fluid is a construct meant to dehumanize us. And for generations of kids, it is working.
I mean, it's a good sentiment to want kids to explore nature and discover what life is outside the realm of technology. But nature most definitely has the some of the most perverted sex rituals and abnormalities and they all came about through natural selection.
There is a species of ducks that almost exclusively reproduces via gang rape. Dolphins have been recorded as using dead fish for masturbation. There is a species of fish that is almost by definition "gender fluid". When their population has no males or females an individual can spontaneously convert into the other gender in order to propagate the species. We have reptiles who can reproduce sexually but have also have the capabilities to clone themselves instead in case there is no available mate for them. We have snails which are hermaphrodites and each individual is capable of being the father or the mother. We have insects where the female has the penis and the male has the vagina. We have other insects that have no vagina at all and the male has to literally tear his partner a new one in order to mate. We have the hyena, a species in which the females also have penises but are useless and only for asserting dominance. We have seahorses where the male gives birth. We have penguins that are regularly recorded engaging in necrophilia within their own species. And yes, as you said, we have bird species that are monogamous but this is not the majority of birds and very rarely is monogamy seen in non-avian species.
Nature is great and I think kids could benefit a lot from exploring it. But it does not impart any knowledge resembling a sexually binary world what with all the sex-changing fish, role reversing insects, hermaphroditic cephalopods, and self-cloning reptiles.
Your daughter has a mental disorder that was brought on by Marxist teachers, the liberal media and Hollywood propaganda. BUT don’t be cruel or you’ll completely lose him/her/it/they. Recognize that your daughter has been brainwashed by liberalism and won’t do well in any aspect of life with that weight and confusion. Help her see clearly, don’t make things worse though. It’s a sad state of our society and I’m learning now what to do with my college age niece.
What I hate the most about this, are those saying they love God but that God made a mistake. If you love God and know anything about Him, you know he's perfect. He makes no mistakes. You are who you are for a reason.
When you're born a girl and then say you're a boy, the only reason for it is plain and simple; mental illness. It can't be anything else. It's not natural.
It's not like with homosexuality where it's pretty much been proven that various factors lead to homosexuality including being born with it. In that case, homosexuality in natural since it's things causing it that are out of our control. With gender you're either a boy or a girl, and you feeling any other way, is a mental illness.
It's a mental illness. But that doesn't mean that transition therapy for adults that are aware of the risks and are ready can't ever be an effective treatment. Gender reassignment therapy can be an effective way of treatment for some people with gender dysphoria.
That's not the exact right response. The kid is just going to hate zirs father and embrace the SJW religion of peace even more. You got to do what the top commentor said and joke around. Make a bonding relationship with the kid. Not curse them out. I remember what it was like to be a kid. It's hard. You feel weird with your parents. They are authority figures.
Yeah, they're authority figures for a reason: when the world presents a young, impressionable mind with a confusing smorgasbord of idiotic selections (like the whole "gender fluididity" nonsense), a parent's role becomes the 'North Star of Sensibleness'. If they can't steer their kid through timewasting crap like this, they've got no business being parents. And sadly, lots of people make babies without the slightest forethought of these potential eventualities.
Sure, but the kid didn't respond well to being told to "fuck off with that shit." The knowledge didn't sink in. It wasn't delivered. It doesn't matter that it was right. It didn't deprogram the tiny human.
Oh, well, by all means then, let's be sure not to bruise the tender little snowflake's feefees so that it won't grow up into a larger version of the timid and confused little fawn that its parent is trying not to coddle right now. Just wait 'til the mean ol' world-out-there gets ahold of her irrational imbecility. Pfft. Being a parent is demanding enough without having to tread on eggshells for fear of offending feelers. If a child can't count on its parents to be the voice of reason (and dullness), then you've got exactly the problem we currently have: a nationful of narcissistic, entitled, spoiled children.
gay is quantifiable. Bi is quantifiable. Even Trans, to a certain extent (and hopefully more in the future) is quantifiable.
Gender Fluid, and all the other made up genders don't exist, so obviously aren't quantifiable. And if they aren't quantifiable, a teenager isn't going to be able to diagnose it, even if they did exist.
If my child said this to me, I would immediately pull her out of public school and home school then. I would focus the curriculum mainly around America’s proud history, the dangers of Marxism/communism/socialism, and other things that are learned here on the donald about how the common man are manipulated in order to influence us to do/buy certain things.
Now if they said they were gay or lesbian, I’d be ok with it because that’s a real thing. Though I would keep an eye on what they are learning in school.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 20:42:28 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I’m glad I grew up going to church so i wasn’t influenced by that kind of nonsense.
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ManRAh · 0 points · Posted at 21:54:05 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
“I’m gender fluid,” says the XX-Chromosomed college liberal who keeps her hair long and confirms to 90% of female gender norms. The other 10% conforms with college Marxist “anti-conformist” uniform. SO BRAVE.
I think of myself as pretty socially liberal. Gays want to get married? That's fine. Trans people want to change gender? Well that's ok I guess, long as they're adults, and have gone through some form of therapy. Guys want to be a bit feminine, women want to be a bit tomboy - all good, this is the new millenium. I'm not a butch alpha dude either, and am probably in the 'pretty boy' range, so whatever.
However. This identity politics, gender fluid, puberty suppressant shit is just awful. I feel sorry for the younger generation, and wonder what kind of shit they watch on TV, or learn in school. I mean seriously, letting an 8 year old take puberty suppressors is child abuse, simple. And foisting obscure gender academia on young kids is just wrong. What people learn and do as adults is up to them, but kids are sponges, and quite vulnerable. I wonder if more parents should complain?
identity Politics = Gaslighting. It's well into loony territory now.
Really, I think the reason for all the transgender, transfluid, bigender etc is that people have to much free time and money to think about this bullshit.
And offcourse everybody is messing with your head on TV and on the Internet.
Do you think there were a lot of transgenders in the 1930 during the depression ?
Or earlier in the 19th, 18th, 17th etc century when people were desperately trying to get some food on the table ?
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FloridaPornHandle · 865 points · Posted at 16:11:20 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Notice how Dad didn't dismiss the feelings just the bull shit made up language designed to normalize abnormal behavior.
It's okay to be odd.
_TheConsumer_ · 329 points · Posted at 16:55:02 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
My dad probably would have said "Are you telling me you're queer? OK" He didn't have the time or the inclination to indulge this "gender fluid, apache helicopter" nonsense.
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thisguy883 · 77 points · Posted at 20:10:19 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
The proper response
xxurpwnerxx · 28 points · Posted at 20:12:13 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I mean to be fair if someone tells me they identify as an apache helicopter without saying genderfluid i'm cool with it. the genderfluid part push's it over for me
teh_dahnald · 39 points · Posted at 20:16:10 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Nobody disputes the existence of apache helicopters
Ducman69 · 12 points · Posted at 20:28:34 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Sounds like revisionist history... otherwise, how did the US cavalry manage to defeat them? Horses vs helicopters seems unfair.
PMmepicsofyourtits · 5 points · Posted at 20:35:48 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I wonder how many Apache helicopters were piloted by Apaches?
MorbidRabbit · 6 points · Posted at 20:54:25 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
All of them, duh! How do you think they got their name?
TheFrontierzman · 2 points · Posted at 21:55:17 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Little known fact. They were piloted by Comanches but Comanche law states that you can't name inanimate object after them so they asked the Apaches and they were like, "Cool! Free marketing!"
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:11 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Easy, they just told the cav troopers that they were going to have to spend six more years st gtllft hood and let them take out their frustration on the Indians.
Kentarch_Simeon · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:34 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Those were the days we made robo-death horses, very useful for self defense. Liberals managed to ban them years ago, calling them "Assault Horses".
BirthRight1776 · 2 points · Posted at 20:43:56 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
And seldom do they pick fights with them.
xxurpwnerxx · 3 points · Posted at 20:17:59 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Like at my school I'm the GSA president, I understand a lot of these kids are confused and try to help them. I live in massachusetts so it's a lot of weird shit we get here. And no I'm ironically not gay.
hvkvttvk · -1 points · Posted at 20:26:19 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
There's only two Helicopters:
Apache
Non-Apache
SirHaveLotsOfSax · 8 points · Posted at 21:08:40 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
“An oil is a fluid, albeit a viscous one. You’re just an idiot!”
🎙️ Ultimate_MAGA · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:29 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
REDPILL MOAB
🇪🇺The EUrabia Caliphate🇪🇺 http://i.magaimg.net/img/hyl.jpg
•Not every Muslim is a terrorist, but their false prophet Muhammad certainly was. http://i.magaimg.net/img/3fz.jpg
•Canadian Muslim Scholar Explains Why Pedophilia is Ok in Islam (Muhammad did it) https://streamable.com/19bjm
•Sweden is the Rape Capital of The West https://archive.is/aOtKN
•Why Muslims commit 90% of rape in Sweden, run drugs and criminal gangs : The Islamic Inbreeding Epidemic Inbreeding Map http://i.magaimg.net/img/25qi.jpg Muslim Population https://archive.is/GVyUO http://i.magaimg.net/img/25qg.jpg https://archive.is/cHt4N Inbreeding lowers IQ + Mental disorders https://archive.is/QmyyJ sources: https://archive.is/ZV3mc
•Moderate Muslim wife didn’t stop husband from assassinating 100s of gays. https://archive.is/Vw2oQ
•Muslims acquitted of gang rape https://archive.is/QPrPT
•6 Muslims gang rape British woman - UK police let them go free. https://archive.is/pfTVt https://archive.is/K0F3s
•Berlin expects more than 100 jihadist children https://archive.is/1Y7t8
•Sweden hires convicted Muslim to integrate into school - sexts 14 year old girl dick pics “You will rot on my cock. You will not be able to go for two days," he wrote in a text message to the girl http://i.magaimg.net/img/277g.jpg https://archive.is/fJrNi
•Muslim acquitted of rape in Germany because he didnt know it was rape. https://archive.is/ODt1s
•Muslim rapes / murders girl - Parents of girl fundraise money for refugees in her memory. https://archive.is/T47UJ https://archive.is/5FYFf
•Muslim sees french girl sticks “fingers in her pussy” https://archive.is/tRjH2
•Welfare migrants - It was never about “fleeing” war http://i.magaimg.net/img/253v.png
•Muslim majority in Europe in 3 generations https://archive.is/gsOhc
•Stockholm train stations are overrun by muslim migrants groping girls and hitting them when they refuse to be sexually harassed.
http://archive.is/2PfUK
http://archive.is/YJKUa
http://archive.is/Vydb4
•Sweden censoring majority of rapes (85%) are Muslims. https://archive.is/5J6pQ
•African Muslim refugee beats 73 year old German woman into a coma https://streamable.com/upe79
•”Religious Freedom” Islam using Western values of acceptance to implement Sharia slowly https://archive.is/VRzyv
•Muslim Gang Rapes - prey on weaker underage girls, befriend them - abuse them. http://i.magaimg.net/img/2437.jpg
•Muslim "children" invade Sweden. (most are adult men) http://archive.is/1cr90
•Muslim men posing as children http://archive.is/sz5wb
•Men - not children are migrating to Europe https://archive.is/NQdBO
•"15 year old" Muslim stabs girl to death. http://archive.is/j20G9
•”diversity” means “anti white” http://i.magaimg.net/img/22n7.jpg
•Germany needs “Safe Zones” for women to protect them from mass sexual assault during NYE celebration http://archive.is/eh3CZ It didnt work (imagine my shock) https://archive.is/0ylot
•German police tweet in arabic. Imprison people that question this http://i.magaimg.net/img/28pz.jpg
•Germany : 95% of increase in crime due to Muslim migrants. https://archive.is/AciNg
•Muslim migrant gangs burn 1000 cars on New Years (France) https://archive.is/PUxeV
•Muslim gangs beat woman police officer (France) https://streamable.com/mulnq
•Christmas in UK. Westfield Stratford, Muslim acid attack 26.12.2017 London https://streamable.com/je66g
•Muslim who murdered 19 year old girl isnt a minor as he claimed - he is 33 https://archive.is/l1pxg
•Official Sweden account “is glad theres so many rapes reported.” blames all men - not muslims. https://archive.is/OH0jY
•Muslim rapes and murders British diplomat for wearing skirt https://archive.is/yMBKY
•14 year old girl gets kidnapped, raped, murdered - cannibalized, grinded up and sold as Kebab meat. https://archive.is/Uqkqi
•Islam is radical - its not a “minority” https://archive.is/K4E27
•Islam is a totalitarian political movement like National Socialism and a threat to every non-Muslim nation. https://archive.is/aHrZ5
•Open Air Slave Markets in Libya. https://archive.is/TEDKF https://archive.is/Y3F9J
•Muslim rapes and burns 17 year old Swedish girl alive. https://archive.is/L4RFv
•Swedish police tell women to not go outside - too many muslim gang rapes https://archive.is/9cm8D
•Muslim stabs woman in the neck after she turns down his sexual advances https://archive.is/BuIro
•Swedistan - 250% increase in HIV. 2006 : 1,700 cases 2016: 6,500 cases 85% of Muslims may be infected. https://archive.is/Tg3N3
•Swedish courts release muslim that shot a guy while yelling racist slurs at him because - it cant be proven the African migrant knew a bullet would fire once he pulled the trigger. https://archive.is/sisEN
•Muslim murders Girl - says he is a minor to avoid prosecution. https://archive.is/XDRua
•Muslims indoctrinate underage girl to lure younger girls into drugged gang rape exploits for years. https://archive.is/houe7
•Muslims throw molotov cocktail at synagogue with students inside. https://archive.is/lmHQA
•Muslims advertising blonde girls for sex https://archive.is/hFK39 https://archive.is/VKIOY why Muslims pray on blondes. https://archive.is/hBSoE
•Muslim breaks into hospital in Italy - tries to rape woman in labor https://archive.is/IlFms
•70% of Muslims in EU want Sharia https://archive.is/20GYP https://archive.is/1NMHp
•minority will rule https://medium.com/incerto/the-most-intolerant-wins-the-dictatorship-of-the-small-minority-3f1f83ce4e15
•LONDONISTAN http://www.savemysweden.com/londons-new-mega-mosque/
•armed guards needed to protect Christmas celebrations https://archive.is/IYUOL
•Swiss woman helps Muslim child rapist escape jail after fucking him https://archive.is/ADpLN
•Concrete barriers needed to protect civilians from trucks of peace https://archive.is/OjxYk
•Islam - Can help toxic masculinity (lmao 🎗Liberalism is a Disease🎗) https://archive.is/5b9oJ
•Its an invasion - not immigration http://i.magaimg.net/img/22n5.jpg
•Muslim attacks 3 men in Ireland with a crowbar - stabs one of them to death. https://archive.is/wUCc4
•Islam - Pakistan - women are property https://archive.is/wDK0K
•ISIS propaganda teaching Muslims to carry out attacks on Christmas https://archive.is/G5rhI
•Culturally Incompatible - Muslim migrants plot bombing. https://archive.is/V6YIR
•The Media refuses to mention “Muslims” in these headlines even though one killed cops and the other planned a massive attack for Christmas http://i.magaimg.net/img/26u0.jpg
•Miss Iraq forced to flee country over death threats for selfie with Miss Israel https://archive.is/irxZb
•Muslims throw tantrum against Jews - at what was once the cradle of Christianity until the Muslims eradicated them. https://archive.is/fcwOx
•Moderate Muslim: the wife of the Pulse Night Club terrorist knew and didnt do anything to avert the attack. https://archive.is/h6e6B
•Muslim stabs woman 14 times (media mentions nothing about him being Somalian or his appearance) https://archive.is/fTfkA
•Obama Administration derailed investigation to islamic drug trade - got Hezbolla off the hook to appease Iran Deal. https://archive.is/zYSIs
•Hungary doesnt want “Muslim Invaders.” https://archive.is/PmZF3
•Woman March leader - Linda Sarsour advocates moral authority over violence against Israel https://archive.is/bav2d
•ISIS member posts selfie with warning in NY “We are in your home.” https://archive.is/EEaLG
•Australia, the religion of peace strikes again. (Muslim runs over crowd) https://archive.is/Rheaj https://archive.is/Z03Ii
•RIP Brampton, Ontario https://archive.is/3X6j2
•Canada regrets importing barbarians from the Bronze age into the 1st world https://archive.is/wofKv https://archive.is/MovxK
•Canada - Moderate Muslim defending Female Genital Mutilation http://i.magaimg.net/img/26d4.jpg https://archive.is/Qh5pP
•Russia : christmas terror attack. huge explosion at shopping center https://archive.is/As0mg
•Shocked U.N. Delegates as PLO Abuses Exposed by Palestinian Hero https://streamable.com/qff24
The Downfall of Germany •the 30 biggest German companies have employed only 54 refugees. •Only 4% of new arrivals to Germany are highly qualified.
https://www.nationaleconomicseditorial.com/2017/02/19/german-economy-immigration/
http://m.faz.net/aktuell/wirtschaft/unternehmen/welcher-konzern-stellte-fluechtlinge-ein-14322168.html
•95% of Muslims are on welfare in Rotterdam. 4 out of 2429 (.1%) are employed full time. https://archive.is/TL1OW https://archive.is/m8No5
CONSENSUS : UNEMPLOYABLE https://www.google.com/amp/mobile.reuters.com/article/amp/idUSKBN13A22F
CONSENSUS : UNEMPLOYABLE http://m.dw.com/en/immigrants-struggle-in-german-job-market/a-17083761
A Finance Ministry document revealed that the migrant crisis could end up costing German taxpayers €93.6 billion ($101 billion) between now and 2020. About €25.7 billion would be for social spending, such as unemployment benefits and housing support.
http://m.spiegel.de/politik/deutschland/fluechtlinge-bund-stellt-knapp-94-milliarden-euro-bis-2020-bereit-a-1092256.html
•#🇪🇺EUrabia🇪🇺 is fucked https://www.google.com/amp/www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2016/07/19/5-facts-about-the-muslim-population-in-europe/%3famp=1
Multiculturalism is a lie to replace the demographics of Western cultures. Will Multiculturalism be allowed once Islam dominates? https://archive.is/2MWZj
Islamic countries kill Christians for their faith. https://archive.is/gfNpl
Globalism is Communism rebranded. Global Free Movement: UN Chief Calls Migration a 'Right' in a 'World on the Move’ https://archive.is/iH5cY
xxurpwnerxx · 1 points · Posted at 00:19:50 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
you right
OmgYoshiPLZ · 54 points · Posted at 20:04:52 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
my dad would have gone the
Route, and then inserted his size twelve boot into my asshole and straightened me back out.
FactCheckOnTheFly · 35 points · Posted at 20:26:32 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
BULLSHIT, I BET YOU COULD SUCK A GOLF BALL THROUGH A GARDEN HOSE! YOU WOULD FUCK A GUY IN THE ASS AND NOT EVEN HAVE THE GODDAM COMMON COURTESY TO GIVE HIM A REACH AROUND!
OmgYoshiPLZ · 11 points · Posted at 20:32:52 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
IM WATCHING YOU.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 21:09:23 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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Jetblasted · 12 points · Posted at 21:11:32 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Who Said That !!?
WHO THE FUCK SAID THAT !!!??
Pretendin_to_work · 12 points · Posted at 21:16:54 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Who's the slimy Communist shit twinkle-toe cocksucker who just signed his own death warrant?!?!?
James_Russells · 9 points · Posted at 21:33:09 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Nobody, huh? The fairy fucking godmother said it! Out-fucking-standing!
Arrius405 · 4 points · Posted at 21:47:57 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I will PT you until you fucking DIE!!! I’ll PT you till your assholes are sucking buttermilk!!
OmgYoshiPLZ · 2 points · Posted at 21:56:29 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
IT WAS ME SIR.
FactCheckOnTheFly · 2 points · Posted at 22:07:39 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
OH LOOK A FUCKING COMEDIAN, PRIVATE JOKER! HELL I LIKE YOU. YOU CAN COME OVER TO MY HOUSE AND FUCK MY SISTER!!!
SSPanzer101 · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:35 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Mary Jane Rottencrotch!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:36 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I watched this movie the night before I shipped out for basic training. I was very disappointed when I got there. I guess I should have expected that considering I joined the Air Force in the 2000s instead of the Marines during Vietnam.
OmgYoshiPLZ · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:18 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
even worse you joined the AF in the 2000s, when they were on this fucking powertrip thinking they were the second coming of the marine corp. Right arround 2005-2010 they (briefly) Tried upgrading their BMT to something similar to the Corps BMT, but failed miserably. it was a joke,
Sincerely- someone who made the same mistake.
FactCheckOnTheFly · 2 points · Posted at 22:08:59 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
SrA FactCheck reporting as ordered. Offutt AFB 2001-2005.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:08:53 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
Oh, you mean when they extended 'warrior week' to two weeks and called it BEAST? lmao. It's all good now. I went to DLI, twice, still get paid for both languages, and have flight pay on top of it.
ResistaNo1 · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:50 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Yeeeah I think Ill be back later when things calmed down.
FactCheckOnTheFly · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:07 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Go watch Full Metal Jacket
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:32 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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OmgYoshiPLZ · 6 points · Posted at 20:15:53 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
i think you meant Ronald Lee emery, Aka Sgt Hartman?
TriblialBrainDamblge · 3 points · Posted at 21:25:13 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
That's Gunnery Sergeant.
cysghost · 3 points · Posted at 20:26:10 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
No, his dad is Gunny.
kbphoto · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:44 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
my dad would have said "You a twink?" or something something twinkle toes.
Maga_mama · 33 points · Posted at 17:31:12 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
And now queer is a thing again so... He wouldn't be wrong lol
osiris-gaming · -6 points · Posted at 19:51:34 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Queer is not a sex, gender, or sexual orientation.
[deleted] · 18 points · Posted at 20:03:13 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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osiris-gaming · 2 points · Posted at 21:31:11 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
It’s an adjective for strange, odd, or not the norm. As common slang, sometimes derogatory, it is used in place of proper terms. This does not mean the word replaces those words (ie. homosexual, feminine). In terms of sexual orientation alone, how can you be queer and not homosexual?
Maga_mama · 0 points · Posted at 20:19:14 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I dunno, I've seen folks refer to themselves as queer. I think it just means either non hetero, or androgynous.
Redditisdeadandgone · 8 points · Posted at 20:53:45 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
So is gender fluid like head light fluid cause I might have to go pick some. Up from the auto store.
ClaygatePearmain · 2 points · Posted at 21:54:22 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
ROFL! "I just came out to my father as lighter fluid. He just laughed and struck a match..."
EchoBladeMC · 2 points · Posted at 23:07:09 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Headlight fluid doesn't exist. It's a term automobile enthusiasts use to mess with people who don't know anything about cars. What you're thinking of is blinker fluid.
Joker_Midnight_Toker · 4 points · Posted at 20:55:27 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
My dad wouldve called me faggot lol. I would too.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:58 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
YOURE DAMN RIGHT I DID
DeepState9 · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:29 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
It’s “Apache Attack Helicopter” you fucking bigot!
[deleted] · 39 points · Posted at 19:50:34 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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Jetblasted · 6 points · Posted at 21:12:30 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I see what you did there! LoL
🎙️ Ultimate_MAGA · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:53 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
REDPILL MOAB
🇪🇺The EUrabia Caliphate🇪🇺 http://i.magaimg.net/img/hyl.jpg
•Not every Muslim is a terrorist, but their false prophet Muhammad certainly was. http://i.magaimg.net/img/3fz.jpg
•Canadian Muslim Scholar Explains Why Pedophilia is Ok in Islam (Muhammad did it) https://streamable.com/19bjm
•Sweden is the Rape Capital of The West https://archive.is/aOtKN
•Why Muslims commit 90% of rape in Sweden, run drugs and criminal gangs : The Islamic Inbreeding Epidemic Inbreeding Map http://i.magaimg.net/img/25qi.jpg Muslim Population https://archive.is/GVyUO http://i.magaimg.net/img/25qg.jpg https://archive.is/cHt4N Inbreeding lowers IQ + Mental disorders https://archive.is/QmyyJ sources: https://archive.is/ZV3mc
•Moderate Muslim wife didn’t stop husband from assassinating 100s of gays. https://archive.is/Vw2oQ
•Muslims acquitted of gang rape https://archive.is/QPrPT
•6 Muslims gang rape British woman - UK police let them go free. https://archive.is/pfTVt https://archive.is/K0F3s
•Berlin expects more than 100 jihadist children https://archive.is/1Y7t8
•Sweden hires convicted Muslim to integrate into school - sexts 14 year old girl dick pics “You will rot on my cock. You will not be able to go for two days," he wrote in a text message to the girl http://i.magaimg.net/img/277g.jpg https://archive.is/fJrNi
•Muslim acquitted of rape in Germany because he didnt know it was rape. https://archive.is/ODt1s
•Muslim rapes / murders girl - Parents of girl fundraise money for refugees in her memory. https://archive.is/T47UJ https://archive.is/5FYFf
•Muslim sees french girl sticks “fingers in her pussy” https://archive.is/tRjH2
•Welfare migrants - It was never about “fleeing” war http://i.magaimg.net/img/253v.png
•Muslim majority in Europe in 3 generations https://archive.is/gsOhc
•Stockholm train stations are overrun by muslim migrants groping girls and hitting them when they refuse to be sexually harassed.
http://archive.is/2PfUK
http://archive.is/YJKUa
http://archive.is/Vydb4
•Sweden censoring majority of rapes (85%) are Muslims. https://archive.is/5J6pQ
•African Muslim refugee beats 73 year old German woman into a coma https://streamable.com/upe79
•”Religious Freedom” Islam using Western values of acceptance to implement Sharia slowly https://archive.is/VRzyv
•Muslim Gang Rapes - prey on weaker underage girls, befriend them - abuse them. http://i.magaimg.net/img/2437.jpg
•Muslim "children" invade Sweden. (most are adult men) http://archive.is/1cr90
•Muslim men posing as children http://archive.is/sz5wb
•Men - not children are migrating to Europe https://archive.is/NQdBO
•"15 year old" Muslim stabs girl to death. http://archive.is/j20G9
•”diversity” means “anti white” http://i.magaimg.net/img/22n7.jpg
•Germany needs “Safe Zones” for women to protect them from mass sexual assault during NYE celebration http://archive.is/eh3CZ It didnt work (imagine my shock) https://archive.is/0ylot
•German police tweet in arabic. Imprison people that question this http://i.magaimg.net/img/28pz.jpg
•Germany : 95% of increase in crime due to Muslim migrants. https://archive.is/AciNg
•Muslim migrant gangs burn 1000 cars on New Years (France) https://archive.is/PUxeV
•Muslim gangs beat woman police officer (France) https://streamable.com/mulnq
•Christmas in UK. Westfield Stratford, Muslim acid attack 26.12.2017 London https://streamable.com/je66g
•Muslim who murdered 19 year old girl isnt a minor as he claimed - he is 33 https://archive.is/l1pxg
•Official Sweden account “is glad theres so many rapes reported.” blames all men - not muslims. https://archive.is/OH0jY
•Muslim rapes and murders British diplomat for wearing skirt https://archive.is/yMBKY
•14 year old girl gets kidnapped, raped, murdered - cannibalized, grinded up and sold as Kebab meat. https://archive.is/Uqkqi
•Islam is radical - its not a “minority” https://archive.is/K4E27
•Islam is a totalitarian political movement like National Socialism and a threat to every non-Muslim nation. https://archive.is/aHrZ5
•Open Air Slave Markets in Libya. https://archive.is/TEDKF https://archive.is/Y3F9J
•Muslim rapes and burns 17 year old Swedish girl alive. https://archive.is/L4RFv
•Swedish police tell women to not go outside - too many muslim gang rapes https://archive.is/9cm8D
•Muslim stabs woman in the neck after she turns down his sexual advances https://archive.is/BuIro
•Swedistan - 250% increase in HIV. 2006 : 1,700 cases 2016: 6,500 cases 85% of Muslims may be infected. https://archive.is/Tg3N3
•Swedish courts release muslim that shot a guy while yelling racist slurs at him because - it cant be proven the African migrant knew a bullet would fire once he pulled the trigger. https://archive.is/sisEN
•Muslim murders Girl - says he is a minor to avoid prosecution. https://archive.is/XDRua
•Muslims indoctrinate underage girl to lure younger girls into drugged gang rape exploits for years. https://archive.is/houe7
•Muslims throw molotov cocktail at synagogue with students inside. https://archive.is/lmHQA
•Muslims advertising blonde girls for sex https://archive.is/hFK39 https://archive.is/VKIOY why Muslims pray on blondes. https://archive.is/hBSoE
•Muslim breaks into hospital in Italy - tries to rape woman in labor https://archive.is/IlFms
•70% of Muslims in EU want Sharia https://archive.is/20GYP https://archive.is/1NMHp
•minority will rule https://medium.com/incerto/the-most-intolerant-wins-the-dictatorship-of-the-small-minority-3f1f83ce4e15
•LONDONISTAN http://www.savemysweden.com/londons-new-mega-mosque/
•armed guards needed to protect Christmas celebrations https://archive.is/IYUOL
•Swiss woman helps Muslim child rapist escape jail after fucking him https://archive.is/ADpLN
•Concrete barriers needed to protect civilians from trucks of peace https://archive.is/OjxYk
•Islam - Can help toxic masculinity (lmao 🎗Liberalism is a Disease🎗) https://archive.is/5b9oJ
•Its an invasion - not immigration http://i.magaimg.net/img/22n5.jpg
•Muslim attacks 3 men in Ireland with a crowbar - stabs one of them to death. https://archive.is/wUCc4
•Islam - Pakistan - women are property https://archive.is/wDK0K
•ISIS propaganda teaching Muslims to carry out attacks on Christmas https://archive.is/G5rhI
•Culturally Incompatible - Muslim migrants plot bombing. https://archive.is/V6YIR
•The Media refuses to mention “Muslims” in these headlines even though one killed cops and the other planned a massive attack for Christmas http://i.magaimg.net/img/26u0.jpg
•Miss Iraq forced to flee country over death threats for selfie with Miss Israel https://archive.is/irxZb
•Muslims throw tantrum against Jews - at what was once the cradle of Christianity until the Muslims eradicated them. https://archive.is/fcwOx
•Moderate Muslim: the wife of the Pulse Night Club terrorist knew and didnt do anything to avert the attack. https://archive.is/h6e6B
•Muslim stabs woman 14 times (media mentions nothing about him being Somalian or his appearance) https://archive.is/fTfkA
•Obama Administration derailed investigation to islamic drug trade - got Hezbolla off the hook to appease Iran Deal. https://archive.is/zYSIs
•Hungary doesnt want “Muslim Invaders.” https://archive.is/PmZF3
•Woman March leader - Linda Sarsour advocates moral authority over violence against Israel https://archive.is/bav2d
•ISIS member posts selfie with warning in NY “We are in your home.” https://archive.is/EEaLG
•Australia, the religion of peace strikes again. (Muslim runs over crowd) https://archive.is/Rheaj https://archive.is/Z03Ii
•RIP Brampton, Ontario https://archive.is/3X6j2
•Canada regrets importing barbarians from the Bronze age into the 1st world https://archive.is/wofKv https://archive.is/MovxK
•Canada - Moderate Muslim defending Female Genital Mutilation http://i.magaimg.net/img/26d4.jpg https://archive.is/Qh5pP
•Russia : christmas terror attack. huge explosion at shopping center https://archive.is/As0mg
•Shocked U.N. Delegates as PLO Abuses Exposed by Palestinian Hero https://streamable.com/qff24
The Downfall of Germany •the 30 biggest German companies have employed only 54 refugees. •Only 4% of new arrivals to Germany are highly qualified.
https://www.nationaleconomicseditorial.com/2017/02/19/german-economy-immigration/
http://m.faz.net/aktuell/wirtschaft/unternehmen/welcher-konzern-stellte-fluechtlinge-ein-14322168.html
•95% of Muslims are on welfare in Rotterdam. 4 out of 2429 (.1%) are employed full time. https://archive.is/TL1OW https://archive.is/m8No5
CONSENSUS : UNEMPLOYABLE https://www.google.com/amp/mobile.reuters.com/article/amp/idUSKBN13A22F
CONSENSUS : UNEMPLOYABLE http://m.dw.com/en/immigrants-struggle-in-german-job-market/a-17083761
A Finance Ministry document revealed that the migrant crisis could end up costing German taxpayers €93.6 billion ($101 billion) between now and 2020. About €25.7 billion would be for social spending, such as unemployment benefits and housing support.
http://m.spiegel.de/politik/deutschland/fluechtlinge-bund-stellt-knapp-94-milliarden-euro-bis-2020-bereit-a-1092256.html
•#🇪🇺EUrabia🇪🇺 is fucked https://www.google.com/amp/www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2016/07/19/5-facts-about-the-muslim-population-in-europe/%3famp=1
Multiculturalism is a lie to replace the demographics of Western cultures. Will Multiculturalism be allowed once Islam dominates? https://archive.is/2MWZj
Islamic countries kill Christians for their faith. https://archive.is/gfNpl
Globalism is Communism rebranded. Global Free Movement: UN Chief Calls Migration a 'Right' in a 'World on the Move’ https://archive.is/iH5cY
Abowl_of_wheat_thins · 5 points · Posted at 20:46:47 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I would disagree on the notion that that isn't dismissing her feelings lmao, what would make you think he wasn't?
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 21:16:52 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Exactly my opinion, no asshole intended. It's okay to be odd, or different, or weird. Just don't push it onto others, and don't try to make it normal.
polonium9 · 4 points · Posted at 21:34:21 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
But, when it gets normal, they complain and realize that it was a bad idea to normalize it because that's just what they've been fighting for for so long.
essentially normalize what they fight for for a long time, then they get bored with it and move onto something else. Instead of being a productive member of society or something.
dezlez · 12 points · Posted at 19:05:25 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Well said. If you have time, could you give me some other examples of creating language to normalize abnormal behavior please? That kind of thing interests me.
FloridaPornHandle · 53 points · Posted at 19:27:00 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
There was a big push around "polyamory" for awhile there trying to convince gen pop that there's no harm to children being raised by a tangled mess of oversexed adults.
"Hyper masculinity" coined to make regular masculine behavior look extreme and shifted some neutral behavior to masculine.
Serial-Killer-Whale · 35 points · Posted at 20:06:11 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
For me, Hypermasculinity means Saxton Hale or Mr Torgue. Using a chainsaw to chop down a tree? Masculine.
Using a Chainsaw that lights itself on fire to do so? That's ridiculous, hyper-masculine, and awesome.
LittleComrade · 9 points · Posted at 21:10:14 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Bah! A real man chops down trees with just one well-placed kick.
Cc99910 · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:19 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I had to punch trees for almost an hour in the rain to build my house
threwewawaway · 2 points · Posted at 22:38:00 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
No more than a bunch of yellow sallies, the lot of you.
One swift swing of my penis and even the thickest snakewoods came crashing down. At four years old, I could take down more than twelve oaks at once with a near-effortless thrust. And my father made me build the house 500 miles away from school, where'd I'd walk through the snow every day in my bare feet and have to maim at least seven bears and fifteen jaguars for lunch. And after shaving my full beard by the time I got there each day, teacher asked me to instruct the class.
FoxRavencroft · 7 points · Posted at 20:10:35 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
The following message from Mister Torgue does not reflect the opinions of the Torgue corporation itself. 'IF YOU DON'T BUY TORGUE CHAINSAWS THAT LIGHT THEMSELVES ON FIRE YOU'RE RETARDED!' The previous message from Mister Torgue did not reflect the opinions of Torgue corporation itself."
Serial-Killer-Whale · 2 points · Posted at 21:35:16 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
THAT'S BULLSHIT!
A REAL TORGUE CHAINSAW DOESN'T SET ITSELF ON FIRE LIKE SOME MALIWAN PANSY CHAINSAW!
IT EXPLODES!
EDUCATE YOURSELF ҉
HiddenDekuScrub · 2 points · Posted at 21:06:26 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Isn't there supposed to be an enormous moustache involved somewhere?
t-ara-fan · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:22 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Stop buying that Chinese shit. Buy something Made in America or another decent country.
HartianX · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:41 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Upvoted for both those names.
[deleted] · 58 points · Posted at 20:41:26 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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MiniChipper · 8 points · Posted at 20:48:42 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I can't up vote this enough. This should be stickied to the top
Itchy_Lich · 4 points · Posted at 21:05:06 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I would buy this in hardcover form, all 0.5 pages of it.
dezlez · 5 points · Posted at 21:25:45 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Wow. This is awesome. Thank you for the detailed response.
Baba_OReilly · 5 points · Posted at 21:17:31 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
That was the Magic Flute of posts, Herr Kappelmeister.
UkraineRussianRebel · 5 points · Posted at 21:00:44 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DRLc43yXkAAfPLD.jpg
SSPanzer101 · 4 points · Posted at 22:59:17 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
"European women are mating (whether they like it or not) with African invaders."
Iz dey cultcha. Dey wuz kangs.
Laqueesha_Jackson · 2 points · Posted at 22:35:22 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Well said. The left are a bunch of sneaky little fucks, if they weren't good at abusing language to argue dishonestly, they probably wouldn't have anything at all.
dev_c0t0d0s0 · 6 points · Posted at 21:18:27 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Undocumented immigrant
dezlez · 2 points · Posted at 21:24:10 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
So true.
Time2TakeItBack · 13 points · Posted at 20:33:18 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
"Mature Audience" is really "porn and violence", just like "Affirmative Action" is really changing the rules based on race, just like "Alternate Lifestyle" is really homosexuality, just like "Diversity" is Dem speak for no white people, just like "Planned Parenthood" is really an abortion factory, just like "Net Neutrality" is censoring conservatives, just like "Dreamers" are Illegal Aliens, just like the "Affordable Care Act" is an unaffordable, uncaring step toward Socialism, just like an "Affair" is cheating on your spouse, just like "Transgender" is gender related mental illness, just like "Religion of Peace" is violent radical ideology, just like "Climate Denier" is man made climate change denier, just like "Deplorables" are conservatives, just like .....noticing a pattern?
witheringslights · 2 points · Posted at 02:44:05 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
I want less tits on my screen. Honestly, I'll be watching a comedy or sword-splatter drama, and all of a sudden there will be a random sex-scene, or some nakedness. Adds nothing, just pure titillation for the mindless. I'm not a prude, but it's just boring.
StJimmy92 · 2 points · Posted at 20:36:15 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Oh my gosh, literally any piece of entertainment described as mature pretty much just means “there’s boobs and lots of bloody violence!” It’s so stupid.
sockfullofshit · 8 points · Posted at 20:43:39 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
How things have changed. In the sixties, Star Trek was advertised as "the best new adult science fiction series".
Time2TakeItBack · 9 points · Posted at 20:43:43 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
There was a time when mature meant "Well rounded, sober minded adult." However, the word has been bastardized for so long that most people don't even realize that.
VenomousPede · 7 points · Posted at 20:33:33 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Dreamers. They ain't dreaming...they're just illegal
dezlez · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:55 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Haha true!
jsnforce · 2 points · Posted at 22:18:17 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
He called it "made up bullshit", which isn't a dismissal. He ridiculed it and invalidated it all at once.
OmitRedditUsername · 2 points · Posted at 20:05:56 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I love these people. I hope they never fade out. It's that truth serum that keeps us alive.
Wtf_socialism_really · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:31 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Yeah. I just don't care if you are trans, gay, bi, whatever. There are two genders and you can't switch between them at a whim. If you really feel like you should have been born as the opposite sex, then stick with it. I couldn't care less.
Also just don't get offended at the "improper pronoun" used. Makes things go to shit.
FloridaPornHandle · 2 points · Posted at 21:53:42 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
The pronoun stuff is ridiculous. Almost makes me wish English was like spanish or italian where gender is built into the core of the language and libtards just have to deal with it.
Slaughterizer · 368 points · Posted at 16:58:19 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I don’t get this whole gender fluid bullshit. You’re a man, or you’re a woman. It’s that simple.
Now-you can LIKE men or women, being gay is a thing, and that’s perfectly fine, doesn’t affect me one bit what people prefer in their bedrooms. But forcing me to call a deep-voiced testosterone fueled cross dresser “she” is invading MY right to common-fucking-sense.
You either have a dick or you don’t, cutting it off doesn’t make you a girl, same as taking 2 wheels off my car doesn’t magically make it a motorcycle.
ThreeDGrunge · 138 points · Posted at 19:04:15 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I am gender fluid... whichever bathroom is empty I am that gender. Whoever get's to go first in line... I am that gender.
BasedCentipede9000 · 39 points · Posted at 20:25:34 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
That's especially useful in:
Movie theaters
Ball parks
Truck Stops
DoktorTeufel · 7 points · Posted at 21:29:16 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
No wonder so many women think they're genderfluid. As we all know, the men's room is open season if there's a long line for the ladies'.
bobama-ameritech · 6 points · Posted at 21:32:32 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
They should change the signs from Mens/Womens to symbols of a penis or a vagina. You proceed to the one that matches your organ. Dumb it down to the lowest common denominator.
AliveByLovesGlory · 1 points · Posted at 06:52:34 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
Or we could have single rooms that just read "bathroom". I've seen that a few places already.
As long as there are those God awful 2 inch gaps between the stalls I will never willingly share a bathroom with anyone, let alone men.
Kerlhawk · 19 points · Posted at 20:19:26 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Yeah and why can’t you just embrace being a feminine male or a masculine female. I don’t understand. Like if a guy likes the color pink he thinks he’s a girl. There’s nothing wrong with embracing who you are but there is something wrong with pretending you’re something you aren’t
KeepAmericaGreat2020 · 7 points · Posted at 21:28:32 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Ayup. Notice the word tomboy seems to have fallen by the wayside? I was one when I was a younger lass, happier by far to muck about at the pond catching minnows and tadpoles or play Army guys or Star Wars with my buddies than dress Barbie for yet another fashion show/high tea/whatever the fuck Barbie does in her spare time. Then, I was a tomboy. Today, I’d likely be being indoctrinated to calling myself Buck and given pamphlets on phalloplasty and stuff.🙄
Funny thing, now I am one of the more girly-girls I know. (Though I still prefer classic Star Wars to Barbie.) Go figure.🤷♀️
Wtf_socialism_really · 3 points · Posted at 21:54:59 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
You bring a valid point. Tomboy is not something I hear so much nowadays but it does fit a lot of boyish girls. My own girlfriend can be boyish, and she's bi to boot. Not Butch though, which is its own thing.
Dudes can be feminine and girls can be a bit masculine, we don't need to shift around body parts to be who we are.
I don't feel negatively about people who are transgendered -- provided they stay one or the other and do not deviate from the two -- but there really is a difference between leaning masculine and being a guy, and vice versa, and people seem to cross that line on a whim.
Perhaps people need to realize that it's okay to be yourself and you don't have to change. Funny how this used to be a progressive thought, but now the fake-libs seem to want everyone to change.
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NDRoughNeck · 1 points · Posted at 00:19:55 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
I'd argue it could possibly be a hardware problem as males and females have distinctly different brains. Its possible to have male genitalia and a female brain.
morningtea50 · 2 points · Posted at 15:48:33 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
A person's genitals exist between their legs, not their ears. Scientists cannot tell if a particular brain scan comes from a man or a woman.
NDRoughNeck · -1 points · Posted at 17:33:37 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
That's all your simple mind can comprehend. Don't hold the rest of us to your standard of ignorance.
leiphos · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:41 on January 18, 2018 · (Permalink)
The science is still out on this. We know very little about the human brain. It’s certainly possible that this could be the case, but there is no evidence of it so far.
If it was true though that there is such thing as identifiably distinct male and female brains, that would mean that gender is not a social construct. It would mean that even gender as it exists in our minds is a physical phenomenon that is tied to brain chemistry and one’s way of thinking. So I would be careful about pushing the idea of male and female brains if we are trying to go in the direction of gender being purely a subjective social construct.
cnctec90 · 42 points · Posted at 17:28:09 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I'm not changing the pronouns I was forced to learn in elementary school because of feelings. Even bi sexual is a fancy term for confused.
extraA3 · 23 points · Posted at 18:36:33 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
What do you call someone who's into guys and girls then?
HOLLYWOOD_EQ_PEDOS · 7 points · Posted at 19:50:31 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Just letting you know I totally disagree with this person. Plenty of people are bi. Getting married doesn't make you not bi. The idea of being "straight" or "gay" is more insane to me than being bi.
People who are only into one category of people are the weird ones to me.
cnctec90 · -6 points · Posted at 18:43:46 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Confused. Typically you end up marrying one or the other. My wife for example claimed to be bi sexual ( mostly because she thought it was cool ) she's never been with a bit other than a kiss and some sexual talk when she was younger. She still identifies as bi even though she's never been in a relationship of any kind with a member of the same sex. My comment is mostly tailored to younger people who claim to be bi and are actually just trying to figure out their sexuality. I'm sure some adults never truly make a decision because they get hard or wet for both sexes so there for remain this way.
talkingmuffins · 27 points · Posted at 18:55:16 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Well of course you typically marry one or the other... It's kind of the law that you only get one spouse.
gogYnO · 16 points · Posted at 19:13:29 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Unless you're muslim, but I don't think they accept the gender fluid bullshit either
RustyShackleford555 · 3 points · Posted at 20:21:39 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
You spelled Mormon wrong.
MikeObamasHugeCock · 1 points · Posted at 05:55:23 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
They marry goats though, it's different
rutterkin · 5 points · Posted at 19:58:24 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Married people can still be sexually attracted to people they aren't married to.
Wtf_socialism_really · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:28 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
No! When I am married I only ever see that person as a sexual body, and I never, EVER do the bad thing and peek at beautiful women at the beach or anything, because that's objectifying women and that's bad!!!!!!!!!! I completely lose everything that makes me human and all my sexual attractions because of a ceremony and pieces of paper!!!!
Slaughterizer · 3 points · Posted at 19:10:23 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I agree.
You can LIKE different things while still knowing who you YOU are.
I have a close friend and she likes guys. She loves cock. She will marry a guy and she wants to have kids. But she’s also curious about girls and is attracted to them. But she knows she is a girl and has never questioned that. And she hasn’t had a full relationship with a woman, just kissed and had fantasies. And that’s normal to want to explore I suppose but without having BEEN or slept with someone of the opposite sex you can’t say you’re “gay”. If I wanted to be a mechanic but haven’t ever worked on a car, I’m not. Even the word started as “bi-curious”. It’s the interest/curiosity of a normally hetero person in having same-sex relations. Bi-sexual is actually being a sexual person to both sexes.
mmmmph_on_reddit · 2 points · Posted at 21:05:56 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Does this mean you can't claim to be gay or straight until you've tried it out either? I guess everyone who has never fucked are just asexual.
Bisexuality is an observable biological phenomena, you guys trying to dance around biology is laughable and reminds me of the people trying to defend the idea of genderfluidity. I am sorry, no matter how much you sugar coat your BS, it wont stop stinking.
Slaughterizer · 0 points · Posted at 21:31:07 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Straight is default. If you wanna “change the settings” then you actually have to do so.
No, that’s not what I’m saying. If you’re a man saying you are “gay” or “bi” your whole life but you NEVER sleep with or kiss a man, and never pursue your urge, and you still choose to be with women and are happy with that, then what? You may be curious what it’s like to BE gay, but you aren’t. The mind wanders, it’s always curious. You’re still a virgin until you have sex right?? Thinking about sex doesn’t take away your virginity. If men have a weird thought of gay sex, are they suddenly gay forever because it popped into their head?
I can say I loveee to drive Lamborghinis all day long. That I like how they look and feel. I can say it my whole life. But if I have never personally driven one and have no intention to, can I really say that? I can say I THINK about it, and I THINK it would be awesome, but I can’t label myself as a driver of Lamborghinis. A highschool jock can’t label himself a slayer of pussy if he’s a virgin. You can’t say you’re gay, then never have relations with the same sex.
You don’t have to label yourself straight, that’s the evolutionary default. It’s fucking NORMAL. If you wanted to say you aren’t normal, then prove it; you can’t just say so for attention. People like to jump on this bandwagon for attention. To have labels.
Bi is definitely real. There’s bisexuals, and bi-curious people. It’s a preference of sexual partners. Same as being straight. I’m not debating that. This is all about people saying they are things they are not. About the surplus of labels. About people being able to just SAY anything and everything and we all have to agree to it automatically and we can’t call them out on it.
This applies to the people who are fucking “trans-racial”, “trans-species”, apache helicopters, the list goes on and on.
mmmmph_on_reddit · 1 points · Posted at 06:33:26 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
Not, gay straight and bi are not preferences for sexual partners, they are sexual orientations. If someone is a homosexual, that means he/she is only or almost only sexually attracted to people of the same sex.
No because those things are made up lol.
extraA3 · 4 points · Posted at 19:06:41 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Fair enough. I ask because I'm one of the confused ones. I've only been in relationships with women, but I've messed around with more guys. I've never considered a serious same sex relationship partly because I've never "loved" another man and partly because I don't feel like explaining to my friends and family that I work part time at the fudge packing plant. I think I might settle down one day, and it'll probably be with a woman, but I wonder if I'll still have the same feelings. Your response has given me a lot to think about
cnctec90 · 7 points · Posted at 19:21:01 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Now I'm curious. You say you've only messed around with guys, which I'm assuming means you have engaged in sexual acts with more men. Are you doing this because you're horny and it's available or are you seeking men out more than women to engage in sexual acts? Do you think it's hormones or what? Might as well educate me a little on your experiences.
extraA3 · 7 points · Posted at 19:30:12 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Well I've been single for almost a year now. Since then, I've tried my luck on both guys and gals. I've been on dates with a few women, but all of that petered out. On the other hand, guys seem to be much more attracted to me (or at least they're less subtle about it) and it's been much easier to have sex with them. I definitely think being young and horny leads me to seek out sex, and the fact that men are more easily available means I'll have sex with more men. If women were coming at me every day, I'd probably have the opposite results. So a lot of it comes down to convenience for me. I think I started to call myself bi because I don't think I can call myself straight when I've been with so many dudes. I denied it for a while, but where else do I fit in, you know?
cnctec90 · 3 points · Posted at 20:26:50 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
It makes sense, and surely there's nothing wrong with it as long as you're happy. I understand the convenience aspect because I flat out ask my wife if she's in the mood while when she is in the mood she will ask why didn't you want to have sex I touched your foot last night. I'm absolutely shit at explaining my positions on things, someone with your case doesn't seem to be confused on which gender they are interested in you claim to know you don't want to marry a man you want to marry a woman, but finding a willing sexual female partner is more difficult which I would agree with especially if you're not just looking for a quick bang. I'm drawing my conclusions on people who are no sexual based on people like my wife who claim to be something without actually being involved. She is probably more curious than bisexual. Probably where my position on this subject gets so muddy is the fact people tend to miss use the term. They apply it to themselves when their just curious, without actually having the desire to go through with having sex with someone of the same sex. I think it also becomes muddied by people who are actually gay trying to force upon themselves a hetero life style. It's certainly just my opinions and shouldn't be taken as fact.
mmmmph_on_reddit · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:04 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
One thing I can agree with you on lol.
Wtf_socialism_really · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:38 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
And he turned a lot more respectable towards them, which is a positive.
Bdazz · 4 points · Posted at 20:19:55 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Being human is hard. I used to be like that, and it was all hormones. Eventually you'll settle one way or another, when the hormones fall away and the heart takes over.
RationalSeeker · 2 points · Posted at 20:28:39 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I think it's perfectly reasonable to call yourself bisexual. The term exactly describes a person who is sexual with two genders. If you still aren't sure, it makes sense that you are questioning your sexuality, but I wouldn't rule out bisexuality as an option altogether.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:30:20 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
the OKC data says that based on user actions, the overwhelming number of people who claim to be bi are not. women doing it are usually straight girls looking for attention, only talking with straight men. men doing it are usually covering for being gay. the percentage of people claiming bi who actually message both sexes is small.
RustyShackleford555 · 2 points · Posted at 20:37:19 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Your comparing sexuality and marriage which are two very different things. Can someone not marry a man and still be attracted to women? If I was a bisexual man could I not want a wife and kids but still get aroused from a guy?
cnctec90 · -1 points · Posted at 20:45:37 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I'm not really comparing sexuality to marriage even though they go hand in hand. Sure you can be attracted to both sexes and still marry one person of a particular sex I get that. I may have tried to convey a point from something that doesn't work. I'm more or less saying that bisexuality is usually brought on by confusion from people still trying to figure things out. Of course some people well into adult hood are still turned on by both sexes and obviously aren't confused. This is the problem with these types of discussions were both trying to paint with broad strokes and it's getting muddied. I am in no way trying to speak for everyone who considers themselves bi, I'm simply stating that bisexuality is a result of confusion at least originally. Gay men still have sex with women is that person not gay but bi, or is he trying to force a hetero life style on himself for personal reasons? It's just not as simple, I can only speak from my experience with people who claim to be bi and I'm sure you're doing the same.
urbanpsycho · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:05 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
was she in a sorority in college?
cnctec90 · 2 points · Posted at 20:17:39 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Nope
vvfs- · 4 points · Posted at 20:11:28 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Bisexual isn't a pronoun.
cnctec90 · 4 points · Posted at 20:17:48 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
No shit
vvfs- · 0 points · Posted at 20:39:55 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Then why lump it in with pronouns? Perhaps you're bisexual over what a pronoun is?
cnctec90 · 2 points · Posted at 20:51:39 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Or perhaps it's two separate statements. If I said I'm not changing my pronouns because of bi sexuality I'd say you have a point, but unfortunately on mobile I do not know how to separate what I say. I only know how to use a period and move on.
vvfs- · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:03 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I'm just fucking around at this point.
It's stupid to say that bisexuals must be confused. Just because you aren't bi doesn't mean it's impossible to be bi.
leiphos · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:41 on January 18, 2018 · (Permalink)
There were plenty of bi-sexual people throughout history though. It used to be very common. Historically, lesbians were very uncommon, but most women were considered to be what we’d now call “bisexual.” There were always gay men, but in some cultures men went both ways too, like in Rome (an example most people would be familiar with).
cnctec90 · 1 points · Posted at 23:15:53 on January 18, 2018 · (Permalink)
Absolutely correct, wasn't Alexander the great considered bi sexual or at least gay?
runnin-on-luck · 9 points · Posted at 20:21:29 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
None of that refers to gender fluidity. Trans is what you're talking about, and most doctors agree that it's a real thing. Regardless of if you call them man or woman (or consider them to even be one) they usually conform to the 2 gender rule. Gender fluid (as in the op) means they feel like a man some days and a woman others, or moment to moment, and can fluctuate between all the 150 genders that have become a r/TumblrinAction meme.
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Wtf_socialism_really · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:30 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
The biology and fact is that brains are weird, complex and still nowhere near fully understood.
Being mentally ill also does not make you a freakshow, and by saying that I venture that you probably have some form of mental illness, one that causes you to lash out at anything you dislike.
swd120 · 7 points · Posted at 19:55:28 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Umm...
solid95 · 2 points · Posted at 20:35:01 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
RIP Wheel Bearings
BasedCentipede9000 · 6 points · Posted at 20:25:01 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
And when i'm invaded, i reserve the right to retaliate. I will then give them my fucking opinion in return.
I've been told that's bigotry.
leiphos · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:04 on January 18, 2018 · (Permalink)
Just play their game. Pull out the “offended” card. I like to tell these people that what they’re saying is deeply offensive to me and is an attack on my identity and worldview. Their heads explode. Sometimes they even begin arguing against political correctness, and saying that being offended isn’t legitimate and that identity politics is a ridiculous premise for me to use. It’s wonderful when they realize they have made my point for me. Try it out sometime!
SVNS1XTW0 · 5 points · Posted at 20:32:14 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Whoa bro, my car is mechanically fluid and if it wants to be a unicycle, it has that right.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:55:05 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
But does adding two wheels to a motorcycle make it a car? Hmmm.
jcg198416 · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:59 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Mother of fuck this is well said!
pandawdy · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:35 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
People think they have redefined what gender is. The left's bullshit usually revolves around redefining something.
NDRoughNeck · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:14 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
What if you are born with both male and female genitalia?
Beljora · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:55 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
That's what gets to me... Being gay only requires you to be tolerant, which I'm all for. Being some other crazy gender requires your active participation as you literally need to memorize it like Pokemon characters. I'm sure that's fun if you're into that, but most of us have other things on our mind.
mathgon · 0 points · Posted at 18:54:25 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I think people are confusing what gender means too. But these are my thoughts to add to liking different genders. As a man, do you feel like a man?
Well some males don't feel like men, they feel like women and embrace it. It's different than some gay men. Some gay men feel like men, being tough and all that but just like other men. Some gay men feel like women, and like other men.
There's definitely a difference.
Slaughterizer · 13 points · Posted at 19:06:47 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
You may feel like you aren’t a man. And I recognize that struggle. But you still ARE. That’s your feelings, and they are not my responsibility, nor should I change my actions or life to reflect them. There’s days where people feel depressed suicidal and worthless, they aren’t. Those pass. If they don’t-seek help. We don’t encourage people to commit suicide because they FEEL they need to in the moment. We shouldn’t encourage men who FEEL like women in the moment to chop their dicks off.
If you have a penis, you’re a dude. Even if you chop it off, you still have the muscular density of a male, the body shape, and the hormones. Sorry, it’s a fact.
The Merriam Webster definition for students of the word gender is: “The state of being male or female”
Oxford Dictionary: “Either of the two sexes, especially when considered with reference to social and cultural differences”
I have a gay friend who is a male, and very effeminate. He is confident in his own body and likes to act womanly. BUT, He identifies as a male, because he knows he has a penis and that’s what he is. He chooses not to identify as a woman because he simply isn’t. He’s more genuine and awesome than most people I know because he’s 100% comfortable as himself, even as a male that chooses to be effeminate. That’s something these people could learn to embrace is themselves, instead of trying to cling to labels and physical changes to themselves.
Bdazz · 4 points · Posted at 20:23:36 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Definitely this. People are stressing way too much over labels.
ThreeDGrunge · 8 points · Posted at 19:04:50 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
They don't feel like a woman they feel feminine and enjoy feminine things... nothing wrong with that.
frombildgewater · 4 points · Posted at 19:03:19 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Exactly. They made the mistake in believing that their "gender" should describe them to a 't' when in reality, being a 'man' isn't a full list of personality traits. Men are men regardless if they act 'manly' and men could be 'manly' in different ways. Same thing for women,
setrwsrt43wbwe · 2 points · Posted at 20:06:09 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I think there MAY just be something more to being a man then just "being tough and all that"
You dont have to be an MMA fighter to be a "man"
You have to have (or have had) a penis and / or XY chromosomes.
You can enjoy barbie dolls and dresses high heels and taking dick up the ass and still be a man.
Its not really something anybody can choose regardless of how they feel.
I mean you can get pretty close ish now with surgery and hormone therapy. but you are still biologically male.
mathgon · 1 points · Posted at 01:24:24 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
Honestly we're just arguing semantics, you say potato I say potato. And it depends on the context.
If you use man to describe gender, then anyone with a dick is a man. However, to me, anyone with a dick is a male. Man refers to something more, not a male that plays with dolls, takes dick, and likely wants to be pampered instead of taking care of his family.
Man is there essence of the male side of humans. The one that hunts and that does what needs to be done. The male that gathers food and waits for the men to come back isn't a man.
HOLLYWOOD_EQ_PEDOS · 2 points · Posted at 19:52:20 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
No. No male feels like a woman. Males can enjoy doing things women normally do, but that doesn't make them a woman.
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HOLLYWOOD_EQ_PEDOS · 5 points · Posted at 20:16:51 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I never claimed to know what it feels like to be a woman. I even claimed I never could.
You're making bullshit up.
Respond again with more sense if you actually want to discuss.
I don't care either way; you seem pretty retarded; a conversation wouldn't add much for me
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HOLLYWOOD_EQ_PEDOS · 2 points · Posted at 21:19:14 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
You sure do. You both can feel hot, cold, scared, and a billion other things. None of those things are "like a man" or "like a woman". You're never sexy "like a woman", or strong "like a man", or scared "like a girl", or brave "like a boy". You can be any single one of those. Males and females both experience those feelings.
Having two X chromosomes make you a woman, having a Y chromosome makes you a man.
"Feeling like a woman" means you feel like your Y chromosome has left your DNA. I don't think that's a human emotion. Correct me if I'm wrong though.
Feeling scared is a real emotion, we can measure it in the brain. "feeling like a woman" is not.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3600914/
That's the entire point of this thread, do you get it yet?
NDRoughNeck · 0 points · Posted at 20:48:13 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
What if you have both?
trumpasaurus_erectus · 281 points · Posted at 16:56:49 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I had a scare around Christmas time. My son, 7, and I were talking about the differences between men and women. Somewhere in the conversation, I mentioned that people can be either a man or a woman and there's no third option. He said that there WAS a third option and I got ready to go full dad mode until he said that option three was "the Grinch!"
D0Z13R · 146 points · Posted at 18:06:54 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
At least his heart grew three times larger that day.
linvmiami · 2 points · Posted at 21:56:19 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
After skipping a beat
iFlosstoomuch · 56 points · Posted at 19:47:53 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
What a wholesome rollercoaster
UkraineRussianRebel · 18 points · Posted at 21:02:41 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I don't have children yet but my heart rate temporarily increased when I read that sentence, imagining if my child told me that.
Had-to-chime-in · 2 points · Posted at 21:41:16 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
You are ready. Go forth and multiply.
jkhockey15 · 12 points · Posted at 21:25:42 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
It’s about time this issue was brought to light. There needs to be a third bathroom for those that identify as evil holiday beings. Since I identify as Krampus, I never feel comfortable in either men’s or women’s bathrooms.
MrBaldwin · 4 points · Posted at 21:14:55 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
You were about to dadsplain him.
Animblenavigator · 962 points · Posted at 16:28:00 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
My daughter came out as "gender fluid" that identifies as a male. I laughed. I said "I was there at your birth and changed your diapers, you're a girl".
She seemed a little upset, at first. I said "look I love you, this is a phase and it's a shame because you should embrace your feminism, be proud to be a woman. You are a bright young woman and know what's right. There are two genders. That's it. Life is so simple and sometimes people try to make it more complicated than it really is."
It's weird because she likes guys, a lot. So I kid around with her and call her a "gay boy" sometimes. We laugh. It's a bonding relationship. She's really into guys.
Later she asked if she should dye her hair grey. I went "are you an old lady? you have beautiful hair, why put chemicals in it to make yourself look like an old hag?" She didn't dye her hair.
I told her to embrace her female self, she should love herself for who she is. It is a weird time of confusion for young adults in general, they just need a guiding hand.
I hope my influence as a father of a young adult is enough to keep her from turning into a blue haired feminazi in college.
jsjdjdjjuh · 409 points · Posted at 16:47:43 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Exactly. Puberty can be confusing
And fake crap from the media doesnt help
Wearing dresses foesnt make u a girl. It makes u a guy who likes to look pretty. Especially from the side that says clothes dont define u
Animblenavigator · 152 points · Posted at 16:52:19 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Conversely a girl that wears t-shirt and jeans or is "sporty" is not a boy. We need to teach our kids, it goes a mile, don't trust the "system" to do it for you.
The "system" wanted my little brother to pop mind numbing pills so he'd conform with society. My parents rejected it and now he's doing pretty well for himself.
trasheusclay · 14 points · Posted at 21:07:25 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Damn. I've seen that so many times during my run as a parent. "ADHD" kids, especially boys, are just kids that don't burn off enough built up energy. We used to ride bikes, and play touch football and jump off of roofs and set things on fire (oops..shouldn't have admitted that).
ANYWAY, these kids just sit around all day gaming and chatting on a multitude of social shithole apps. They fill up with negative energy from all the gossip and bs. They need to burn it off somehow. They don't need drugs. (usually)
There was a boy in my kids class who was bouncing off the walls! Teachers were outraged. Principle was pushing drugs hard to fix him. Parents resisted and got him into pop warner football. That was it. Problem solved. Kid was wiped out every night, and chill in class. He continued like this throughout elementary/ middle school. Turned into a very talented free safety. He's a junior in high school now, being looked at by college teams.
whatevenisthiswtf · 2 points · Posted at 22:11:20 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Man I wish my parents were like them.
I was diagnosed with ADHD a few years ago because I was pretty hyper and my grades weren't awesome, my ideas were all over the place too. Thing is, kids with ADHD can't control themselves at all, unlike me. I could've been able to sit still, I just didn't because I was an active kid who preferred motion over sitting for 8 hours in school, my ideas were all over the place not because I was unable to focus in on a certain topic, but rather because I'm a versatile multi-tasker who naturally does many things at once, I CHOOSE to be that way. As for my grades, that was because I never tried, not because I was mentally ill.
My parents didn't believe me, they took the teachers and doctors bullshit and forced me to take the pills. And let me tell you, those pills didn't help a single bit. I wasn't the active and funny child I was, but rather in a quiet, robot-like state of mind, where I had no desire to do ANYTHING! It even started making me depressed and had me start seeing the world in a dark way. But because I was less hyper and had less "creative" ideas, everyone thought I was doing well. After 2 years, I realized I can't continue this any longer, or else I won't be able to function without those drugs. And so, I stopped taking them. My parents wouldn't let me do that of course, I simply threw them away somewhere and said I took them. You know what happened? I became happier, more alive, my depression went away, and even my grades started doing well.
I never had ADHD, I was just a normal, young child with an active and overly creative personality. I'm so glad I realized that before my parents did, and was able to stop taking those drugs before I permanently became a robot. I'm a high school sophomore now, and I learned how to utilize my extremely active and quick mind and my high creativity to my advantage, and it hurts me just by thinking that those skills would've diminished if I listened to my doctor.
Seriously, doctors shouldn't diagnose children left and right. I value my way of thinking. I can think of things from many different perspectives and in creative ways in a very quick manner, which isn't "normal"- especially for a child in a school setting, however it certainly could be a very useful skill in a work environment, especially for me, as I want to become a trial lawyer. Normality isn't special and won't get you much beyond average, and yet children are encouraged to be normal and abandon any special "irregular" benefits they may have, which saddens me.
trasheusclay · 1 points · Posted at 23:26:06 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Awesome post. Your experiences and observations are really illuminating for a parent. I'm also glad you made the point, which I really didn't, that some kids DO need the help of meds. I suspect that most kids put on scripts didn't need them. They were just high energy, future overachievers, not potatoes. There's a place for both, but they look and act completely different.
Schools just want uniformity. It's easier for them. They're low energy now a days. That's why schools usually suck, compared to the old days. My kid is a junior in HS, and I laugh at what passes for AP and Honor's workload and expectations now, at least at our private school. Oh well. Self-taught/ self-motivated is better anyway.
Good luck with your journey in life. It sounds like you've figured out some important things already. Like self-assessment, believing in and following your instincts. Those are big. The other big one for everyone is beating procrastination. That's the dream killer right there. It's cancer. Destroy it now. With fire. Live like Trump.
FactCheckOnTheFly · 38 points · Posted at 20:31:26 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Society, and schools in particular, now refer to “acting like a boy” as “ADHD”. And their answer is to medicate them so they will “calm down” and act docile like the girls do.
passittoboeser · 14 points · Posted at 21:15:13 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Girls are allowed to go to school for the first time, they do poorly because schools were set up to only teach boys. Over the years we figured out how to teach girls and their overall averages started going up. Feminism as a movement becomes really big and we start studying how girls operate differently than men and how we can accommodate in education and business. Some more time passes and we see women out perform men.
All of that is fine and dandy... But during this transition, the west forgot about the boys in class. We spent generations getting girls up to speed that our whole system of education shifted. As a result, girls are considered the standard, and instead of making co-ed classrooms accommodating for both learning styles... Educators assume that the boys have to act like girls. We go out and punish them and drug them for being boys. It's a huge issue. If people have the money, from my perspective I would send my kids to segregated private schools. Boys perform on the same level as their female peers when learning in a segregated environment.
KStarSparkleDust · 2 points · Posted at 21:51:51 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I’m really skeptical of the school system around here (North East Ohio) and the push for so many preteen boys to be in ADHD medication. Im a nurse and work with psych patients so I have a pretty good idea what mental illness and med side effects look like. It seems like atleast 25% of the people I know with boys in school have been told that their child needs ADHD medication. I’m just not seeing it from these kids tho. For example they wanted my 11 year old nephew to be put in ADHD meds, but he’s not hyper at all. After his parents met with the teacher and also questioned him about his school behavior it made even less sense. The biggest concern the teacher had was that he didn’t focus on after the lunch break and would occasionally talk to desk mates and toss pencils back and forth “flicking them” as a game with desk mate. This was “disruptive”. But when questioned my nephew said that he was bored (recess had been canceled as a punishment for other kids) and that the teacher was talking about things they had already covered (and he passed testing in the material) because “other kids didn’t pay attention the first time. The teacher would also complain a lot about him setting at the desk with his legs in the chair under him. Same way he sits at home and I actually do myself too. But setting like this was a “safety concern” because they chair could tip over....... what it came down to was the kid was bored after 6ish hours at school with no physical activity and had spaced out, occasionally standing pencils up and flicking loose erasers to knock the pencils over...... i talk to the kid enough and he really actually engages in decently intelligent conversation for his age as long as someone makes the effort to enter at with him... if anything he’s a little mellow/indoorish for his age..... not someone that needs psychiatric medications for being hyper.
whatevenisthiswtf · 2 points · Posted at 22:29:35 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I live in Central Ohio, and I too was diagnosed with ADHD because I was active, creative, and was able to think of multiple things from multiple and unique perspectives in a short manner of time. I was forced to take Adderall, which actually made me depressed and suicidal and slowly lose all of my fun and creative old self. But hey, I was now "normal" so everyone thought I was fine.
Absolute bullshit, I went off those drugs and I became SO MUCH HAPPIER! As for my quick and creative thinking, it actually puts me in an extreme advantage because it's not normal! Stop drugging kids for something that could put them at an advantage in the future! A creative and multidimensional mindset may not be ideal for a strict follow-the-rules type setting like math class, but it sure does help if you wanna be a lawyer! But hey, tons of kids are robbed of their skills because of drugs. Ridiculous.
KStarSparkleDust · 1 points · Posted at 23:51:50 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Yep, there is definitely a reason we have the Opiate Epidemic here and this plays into it. I’m sorry that happened to you.
GetOffMyBus · 5 points · Posted at 20:38:30 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
What condition would call for numbing pills?
justforthissubred · 10 points · Posted at 20:52:40 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Probably something like what people (some dr's, teachers, etc) keep "suggesting" we try for my kid. My kid is not "in the box" and because of this, my kid has trouble with focus in school, some anxiety, and a few other things. My child is perfectly intelligent and not "retarded" in any way such as a kid with severe autism might have (or something like that). But my kid has been identified as being "on the spectrum" (whatever the F that means). I've read the books. I'm educated. I've talked to the counselors. I've consulted with family, friends etc.
I understand my kid better than all of them. There was a point where a few were really suggesting hard that we put my kid on some "medicine" to help my kid adjust and focus and "do better" in school.
let me ask a question.... how do you write the # 7? You start at the top left, draw across, and then down, right? Isn't that how we all do it? Nope. Not my kid. My child starts and the bottom, goes up and across. Try to tell them they're doing it wrong? Nope. It's not just the 7. The 7 is the example I'm using to show that my child is different. Not less. not more. Just different than 99% of the others. Everything my kid does in life and the way they think is like the 7 they make. someone "in the box" does not understand what it's like to be them. It's like being left handed in world built for right handed people.
So the experts think the anxiety is caused by some chemical imablance? Yeah the fuck it is because stress from living in a world where everyone operates differently from you causes a fucking imbalance!!
NO. I will not now and not ever put them on that shit.
You should see the art my kid creates. Fucking amazing and they aren't even a teen yet. Amazing shit. You think I'm going to drug them so they can be more "normal". fuck that.
bullshit.
you should see my kids artwork.
spez: I recognize that there are cases where medicine is beneficial and necessary. I just think drugs are way over prescribed these days and should only be used as a last resort.
LuminaryCanary · 3 points · Posted at 21:11:06 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
They are claiming that your kid has a touch of autism.
justforthissubred · 2 points · Posted at 21:27:32 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I know this. Autism is a general term used to describe a pattern of behavior. It is basically their way of labeling something for which they don't have a true understanding of. There are all kinds of things that can put you on the spectrum for autism, and many of those things are completely different from each other. I could exhibit signs of autism but yet the underlying factors causing my symptoms may be completely different than what those factors are in another person. Doctors really don't know what it is, other than to define it by it symptoms, which may be from who knows what.
Kolob64 · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:45 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
What they are saying is that a certain class of people who think differently need to be diagnosed and defined instead of just accepting them as they are. I am technically Aspie as well, thank heaven I did not get drugged or treated worse than I did as it was. School was hell for me. I still remember my teachers asking me why I could not be like the other kids. For the record I loved learning, got good grades, and scored high. No one cared about that, they wanted me to be social. As a girl it is even worse as we did not get any boy behavior leeway. There is an effort out there to put us all in a psychological blender and homogenize us by any means
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:14:43 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I was one of those poor kids who was "outside the box" so they had my parents put me on medication. I'm now 24 and still on a form of mind altering medication. All I know is that I'm still not happy, and I don't do much of anything or have much motivation for most things. A part of me want to cut them out of my life, but I'm not sure what the consequences might be from doing so.
Spez: what I mean by "cut them out of my life" I mean cutting out the medication I've been on for years. I would never cut out my parents as I love them too much and don't blame them for it.
justforthissubred · 3 points · Posted at 21:29:42 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Don't hold it against them. I can tell you, that the amount of pressure on the parents is crazy. They want to do the right thing (well I'm assuming here that they love you of course). All parents want to do the right thing. And depending on the situation, the may have had a lot more pressure put on them by Dr's, school teachers, counselors... than even I have. It's a hard decision NOT to give in and say okay give them the drug. especially when you see your kid struggling. don't resent them for it. try to understand. so many people around me try and present the medicine as normal, safe, etc. it sounds so appealing and they sell the shit out of it. and you want your kid to be "better" so as a loving parent its so easy to give in.
Kolob64 · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:36 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Yes, exactly, I still sometimes wonder if I should have done something. It is agonizing seeing our kids struggle. Mine did fine until they left home and started eating crud. I find that cane sugar triggers depression in me and in 2 of my kids. I have MTHFR 677T mutation and cannot process high levels of junk and stress like other people. We only found out about this in the last 10 years. By living and eating very clean I can control it without drugs. If I go on a sugar bender it is not pretty. Everyone is different, but with mental challenges lifestyle changes can help. My sugar eaters are addicted and started really ramping it up after they left home.
justforthissubred · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:07 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Wow I had not heard about this but I do know that diet can have a big impact. We try to get our kids to eat healthy but you know how that goes. How did you get the diagnosis?
Kolob64 · 1 points · Posted at 13:44:06 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
My brother's psychiatrist had him tested and he told the rest of us. I got tested a few years later. I am fine, but a naturopath got me off all enriched food years before, I have not had alcohol since I was 23, and the naturopath moved me from very low cane sugar to no cane sugar (I eat a little occasionally). I eat lots of vegetables, I used to be a chef and consider them essential. Underground Wellness has a great podcast on the subject with Ben Lynch.
justforthissubred · 2 points · Posted at 15:15:44 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
I need to change my diet. My sister is a nutritarian. We used to tease her about it...
Then, one day my brother had a couple heart attacks (not in the same day, but we found out about it that day because he had been hiding his health issues from us) and was diagnosed with congestive heart failure. The Dr.s did the standard prescribing tons of meds, telling him he probably didn't have a lot longer to live, and of course they wanted to do a stent.
He radically changed his diet to full out nutritarian. After some months, he was feeling a bit better. Went in for one of his checkups and the Dr. said that he couldn't explain it, but my brother was "better". He didn't need the meds. Didn't need the stent. The Dr. was literally jaw dropping in shock. He couldn't explain it. Said it was a "miracle". It was diet.
shawnfromnh · 1 points · Posted at 21:41:54 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Watch garden state, it's a decent movie and the guy on there is on a ton of medication and goes off of it.
ClemsonPoker · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:36 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Will they be worse than
Time is short.
Kolob64 · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:07 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
As a parent from their generation, you cannot imagine the pressure put on parents to drug their kids. My DIL got off her medications about 2 years ago and now is totally sane. I homeschooled my kids to get away from all that. 2 of my 3 kids think I am ok. One turned into a SJW and is now medicated. She started with all that after she left home. My oldest is struggling, I think he can figure things out and stay drug free, but it is his choice now as he is 26
Zerwas · 2 points · Posted at 21:20:27 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I would like to see some of your kids art if you want to post some!
justforthissubred · 2 points · Posted at 21:31:32 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I prefer not to post anything that may identify my kid. I will pm you a few.
HiddenDekuScrub · 2 points · Posted at 21:31:57 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I wish my parents had been that strong. I finally was able to shoo them off on drugging me when I learned how drugs worked in biology class.
My child is a very late talker. He understands concepts like numbers, how to use machines, music, etc. He is loveable and likes to help with chores, always wants to try new things. He is a perfect pitch. But his talking is way behind, so I have been on guard for any BS diagnosis from the school system. I found private speech therapy, kept him in preschool an extra year to give him more time, and he entered Kindergarten at age 6 last summer. His talking started vastly improving last year, mostly on its own. He is learning quickly.
But I knew he was an oddball from the start. The kid walked before he crawled. Thomas Sowell saved my sanity here with the book "Einstein Syndrome", gave me some ideas on what to expect, and I have been armed with knowledge to keep the autism-brigade at bay. And if I have my way my kid will never take anything stronger than a cup of coffee.
justforthissubred · 2 points · Posted at 22:11:45 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
my only regret is that we didn't hold my child back a year in preschool. would have helped a lot but i was too proud
Kolob64 · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:12 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Those books helped me too. I highly recommend reading Neurotribes. Autistic tendencies and milder forms like Asperger's are not a defect. After studying up it was very clear I am "On the spectrum". Our biggest societal problem is not appreciating people exactly as they are. I also held back my oldest. Learn all you can, I wish I had known more sooner to help him better.
Animblenavigator · 5 points · Posted at 20:40:53 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Not paying attention in class. ADHD.
shawnfromnh · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:13 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
or boring as fuck teacher.
[deleted] · 47 points · Posted at 18:31:08 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
That's exactly why. Kids are vulnerable at that age and are able to be easily manipulated by social media and other forms of bullshit.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 20:53:43 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Nowadays the left tries to indoctrinate them even before puberty. =\
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Animblenavigator · 120 points · Posted at 16:56:48 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Now now, there's plenty of fags out there that don't dress in women's clothes
For example: Lindsey Graham.
A guy in a dress is a guy in a dress.
[deleted] · 25 points · Posted at 16:59:51 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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ProgrammaticProgram · 13 points · Posted at 18:01:39 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I thought a faggot was a cigarette?
[deleted] · 20 points · Posted at 18:06:29 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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ProgrammaticProgram · 11 points · Posted at 18:07:37 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Oh, I guess I was confusing that with Long Form Queen’s English
Tactical_Sandwich · 23 points · Posted at 19:01:17 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
That's "Faggoteth"
RiverFenix · 3 points · Posted at 19:52:11 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
England, the only place you can bum a fag and it's not homosexual in any way.
prawnexodus · -1 points · Posted at 20:22:28 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
So, sometimes a cigar truly is just a cigar.
Animblenavigator · 2 points · Posted at 20:59:09 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
YEP
siloxanesavior · 3 points · Posted at 19:32:02 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Most of these people do like to stick a fag in their mouth with one hand, though.
Animblenavigator · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:14 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zP4f1seE6wY
RolandDelacroix · 0 points · Posted at 18:57:17 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Small bundle of sticks.
KosherDensity · 0 points · Posted at 19:38:14 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
separately we are all little twigs but together we form a mighty unbreakable faggot
derkman96 · -3 points · Posted at 20:17:14 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
No it's a bundle of twigs
SuperMarioKartWinner · 8 points · Posted at 18:39:16 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Faggot is not a feminine man. Faggot is a homosexual man
BR-0 · 12 points · Posted at 18:42:49 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Means both here.
You can be a queer but not a faggot. Same way you can be a bender but not a queer nor a faggot.
Same goes for sodomy, so long as you only bugger birds.
SuperMarioKartWinner · 0 points · Posted at 20:00:50 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I’m not that old, but I’ve never heard of bender and bugger. To me, queer and faggot are the same thing, with the exception of faggot referring to males only.
BR-0 · 3 points · Posted at 20:01:51 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
UK slang.
_cianuro_ · 0 points · Posted at 17:03:08 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
i'm not okay with using faggot myself because it alludes to burning them.
BR-0 · 8 points · Posted at 17:07:57 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
...I'm pretty sure it means weak
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 17:15:26 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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cnctec90 · 3 points · Posted at 17:24:07 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I only knew about a bundle of sticks not the burning part
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 17:29:00 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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cnctec90 · 4 points · Posted at 17:30:43 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Now that's interesting. Now I need to know more.
pmmeyourproblemsolva · 2 points · Posted at 17:51:32 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Okay, so this is a lot to digest all at once if you've never been down this rabbit hole before, so I forgive any skepticism, but here it goes.
One day Karl Marx was moping about in Vienna, wondering why people were not jumping on board with Communism, as he was known to do, and one of his followers approached him with an idea. The idea was that to get communism to succeed they needed to get the marginalized groups on board. Karl loved the idea.
Soon they solidified their doctrine and created the Frankfurt school. The idea behind the Frankfurt school was to teach everyone they were a victim in some way or another, and they needed to rise up and destroy capitalism to be free.
The Nazi party rose out of this, and they picked certian groups, notably the gay population of Germany and the Occult population of Germany to use to help them gain power. When they did have power, they immediately turned on both groups (less so the occult group, but both really) and the Frankfurt school group realized it was time to GTFO. Frankfurt came to America and become Columbia university.
Columbia realized it's best bet was to become a leading college of teachers so it could teach teachers to indoctrinate students. It took a while, but now most liberal colleges are controlled by people who belive in Frankfurt philosophy, creating SJWs and ANTIFA.
cnctec90 · 3 points · Posted at 18:19:47 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Holy fuck, I remember listening to a professor on YouTube talk about the Frankfurt school and Columbia university. Could you pm me any good videos on the subject? I love shit like this and would be very happy to learn more about this. I know you're probably busy but if you find time to point me in the right direction it would be fantasic.
RiverFenix · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:26 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Story checks out. the A from Frankfurt can be found at the end of Columbia. Clear as day.
Block_Helen · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:27 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Not OP but here's one - I really like Bill Whittle:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=B6A1oxNgZ_0
cnctec90 · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:11 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Thanks! I'll watch that tonight
pmmeyourproblemsolva · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:27 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I'm not really a video guy, but there is good stuff even on wikipedia, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Critical_theory
I'm old as fuck, so when I hear the term video I think of this.
cnctec90 · 2 points · Posted at 20:30:27 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Lmao that is hilarious. I feel that way sometimes. I just find I'm a better listener than reader. I retain information I hear far better than what I read. I was the asshole in school that had to read aloud in class. Thanks for the info I'll go through it tonight. I find shit like this fun.
pmmeyourproblemsolva · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:30 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
The authoritative book is probably Rules for Radicals by Saul Alinsky. (Hillary did her thesis on it.) But if you want a condescended version this image covers the basics.
cnctec90 · 2 points · Posted at 20:47:33 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Is this book some how proof of what's happening today? Spez: clarificaion
pmmeyourproblemsolva · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:22 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Good to know the enemy's play book. Got most of my extended family to read it. Hasn't made any of us into psychopaths yet. Actually explains how losers and cowards can win by exploiting the weakness of political correctness. Actually pretty brilliant if you give credit where credit is do.
transgoathumper · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:24 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
If you haven't read Righteous Indignation, Andrew Breitbart touches on the Frankfurt school stuff in his book, to add to the sources others are giving you bekow. That and it is an eye opening book in general. Maybe find an audiobook if you do better listening than reading. Enjoy.
cnctec90 · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:06 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Thanks!
KosherDensity · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:58 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
gonna need some proofs
Block_Helen · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:56 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
A fasces, the symbol of and root word of Fascism, is a bundle of sticks. Strength in numbers etc. - a bundle is stronger than an individual stick. A faggot is also a bundle of sticks.
http://www.dictionary.com/browse/faggot
pmmeyourproblemsolva · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:05 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fasces
https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/faggot#Etymology
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Critical_theory
KosherDensity · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:41 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
A. your links did not prove your statements that faggot and fasces are related. B. you did not prove that gay beer halls and Nazis were a thing.
Now do another 45 second google search for more links
pmmeyourproblemsolva · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:16 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Reading comprehension doesn't appear to be your strong point.
KosherDensity · 1 points · Posted at 23:54:02 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
arguing semantics, your implication is that faggotry and fasces are related, being that both are somehow homosexual. Sure, I concede your point that the fasces and the fascis are linguistically derived from the same latin root.
But you didn't prove that homosexuality and fasces are related. And now how about those gay German beer halls, screenshots or it never happened.
What you take as a lack of reading comprehension is no such thing. I do not care is the problem.
lil_mac2012 · 5 points · Posted at 18:37:44 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
It is more likely that "faggot" came from "fagoting" which is intricate stitchwork on the hemmed edges of women's clothing which was basically another way of calling homosexuals "fancy" which was essentially making fun of them for acting/dressing effeminately. Not likely that it had anything to do with bundles of sticks or burning said bundles...
Fuego38 · 0 points · Posted at 19:47:58 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
The Lady Lindsey, the Belle of Belles, bless her heart.
Animblenavigator · 2 points · Posted at 19:36:44 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zP4f1seE6wY
BigDew · 7 points · Posted at 18:40:54 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Jesus Christ t_d
timmy12688 · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:06 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
/r/ jesuschristthe_donald
Riot_PR_Guy · 6 points · Posted at 19:46:20 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
This sub is the perfect blend of real talk and memes. I fucking love you all.
bcboncs · 2 points · Posted at 19:16:08 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Chan-man confirmed.
heyheyitsteytey · 3 points · Posted at 21:09:55 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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_-M-_-A-_-G-_-A-_ · 3 points · Posted at 01:20:05 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
I dont think thats puberty tey. I think thats set in pretty firmly haha
Saint-Kek · 9 points · Posted at 19:38:42 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
A guy wearing women's attire looks anything but pretty.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 20:21:24 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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HiddenDekuScrub · 3 points · Posted at 21:15:21 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I envy Japan in this respect. A tomboy is just a tomboy and a pretty boy is just a pretty boy.
morningtea50 · 4 points · Posted at 21:00:51 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
The place on Reddit where these issues get critiqued from the perspective you describe is called GenderCritical - you might want to check it out.
Sex-based stereotypes are retrograde and I for one cannot believe that all this "girls like pink! if you're a guy who likes pink you should be taking estrogen!" BS is happening. It's like the last 50 years never happened. Gullible, confused, lonely people- like my 14-year-old stepdaughter - are being taken in by this rhetoric and making permanent changes to their bodies because of it.
bcboncs · 5 points · Posted at 19:15:01 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Pretty accurate statement. I'd just like to add that social norms have an enormous impact. The outspoken and vocal bunch are those that have a consensus to hate on Trump. That alone is a bonding moment to "fit in" and youth is naturally passionate... sadly misguided.
Not their fault. Thank the Frankfurt School, Operation Mockingbird, Obama's NDAA, and the Republican deep state congressmen who went along for the ride.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:52:34 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Shit if that ain't the truth. I'm not even out of my 20's yet but looking back I was so much more naive and confused as a teenager, but let's not get anything twisted here, I've always been an America First patriot. The lib elites pretty much hijacked puberty and emotion and are trying scramble these kids into a brainless, Soyboy army.
Rkupcake · -1 points · Posted at 19:44:29 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
If Yung Thug can do it on the album cover for JEFFERY then anyone can.
CARPE-NOCTEM22 · 28 points · Posted at 16:58:56 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Good for you! She’s lucky to have you as a dad!! I agree that young people are very confused. They are constantly bombarded with gender issues on social media and in their friend circles. My oldest daughter is in HS, and we talk about this stuff all the time. Of course, she stays away from social media and that’s huge. I wish more young people would get away from it. It’s poison to them.
reagan2024 · 22 points · Posted at 19:45:49 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I think that women need to understand that being proud to be a woman doesn't necessarily mean that they have to accept all gender roles that we think of when we think of female gender roles. A lot of this gender identity stuff seems to be associated with people's understanding that to be male or female means to adhere strictly to gender roles associated with males or females. So if they don't think they fall into one of those social categories, they come to the conclusion that they must belong to one of the new made up genders. Women need to learn that it's okay to like "guy stuff" and that won't make a woman less a woman. Same with guys, if a dude wants to wear a flowery dress, he shouldn't think that means he's any less a man.
KStarSparkleDust · 3 points · Posted at 22:01:41 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Yep. I’m a girl and was a lover of big puffy dresses as a young child and was defenatley going to grow up and drive the pink Barbie car, be a princess, ect. but that never stopped my uncles, boy cousins, ect. from also encouraging me to go fishing with them or learn how to change a tire. As an adult i fit in lots of places. Still a WOMAN and the boyfriend loves when I wear cute sun dresses but will switch out to mudd boots and old shorts for a late evening of fishing.
Seabee1893 · 18 points · Posted at 19:32:59 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Hey, good on you for not belittling your daughter and calling her names. You fight the good fight with logic, and you didn't seem to demean her in the process. You've empowered her, but provided guidance on how reality interfaces with her feelings. Good luck!
Animblenavigator · 17 points · Posted at 19:34:44 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Well I did call her a "gay boy" but in jest. Humor unites everyone.
That's why leftist memes don't work.
Seabee1893 · 5 points · Posted at 19:55:56 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I think it speaks more to the level of trust you've built. One of the areas those of us on the conservative side of things lose on, bigly, is that the public, families, and our liberal friends have lost trust that we have their better interests at heart. Your daughter trusts you to provide guidance, and that's why she listens. She trusts you because you've done a good job at parenting and built that trust over time, by not name calling and by showing love and by providing empowering guidance, and by not overreacting or belittling her for going through a "confusing time" . Good on you for that. We'd be a lot better off if more took your approach.
TheLeftIsNotLiberal · 27 points · Posted at 16:51:23 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Damn, that's some good parenting there.
daisytrench · 14 points · Posted at 17:06:15 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
An old hag? Watch yourself, young 'un.
cnctec90 · 17 points · Posted at 17:22:51 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I'm praying this is all over by the time my 2 year old is old enough to see this. I'm not sure I could have handled that as well as you. I just find it so stupid it's hard to ridicule and I'm afraid I would only say something that would cause her to double down. You're a good father, thanks for sharing.
umizumiz · 5 points · Posted at 20:17:48 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Father of a 4 year old girl. We'll be allright. Love em, hug em, take care of em, and we'll be just fine.
cnctec90 · 2 points · Posted at 20:32:32 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I hope so!
godiebiel · 2 points · Posted at 21:38:13 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
In the early aughts we were mass drugging our kids with Ritalin, Adderall, now we are giving them puberty blockers. It never ends
cnctec90 · 2 points · Posted at 22:04:46 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Definitely child abuse
KosherDensity · 17 points · Posted at 19:36:47 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Sounds like there is a teacher at her school pushing that social justice bs
Animblenavigator · 18 points · Posted at 19:38:13 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Just one? It's a whole system of teachers like this. For years.
KosherDensity · 17 points · Posted at 19:50:21 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Yeah, father of two middle schoolers, I deal with it all the time. Fortunately my kids think they are waging a guerilla war against the cucks.
Their favorite bit when dealing with the attention whot=ring tryhards saying they are gender fluid is " XX or XY"
Jawajoey · 0 points · Posted at 22:12:04 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
That's pretty brilliant. I'd love to see a wider movement to replace "male/female" selections with "XY/XX". Run a business? Label the bathrooms XX and XY. Watch people try to weasel out of the science on that one.
DeathstaikerX · 13 points · Posted at 17:35:42 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Omgawd parenting! Real parenting.
xxmissmiserxx · 14 points · Posted at 17:40:53 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
With kids, asking them questions can really make a huge difference. Shoot them down, tell them what to do, and you risk them rebelling. Ask them why? And you get them thinking and evaluating their situation and ideas. Sad that liberal propaganda is so rampant these days.
KosherDensity · 8 points · Posted at 19:40:57 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
critical thinking is an antibody to progressive propaganda
earl_scheib · 24 points · Posted at 17:22:58 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Embrace femininity not feminism.
gimmehername · 6 points · Posted at 21:05:54 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why people think feminism instantly means crazy SJW/anti-trump/anti-whatever else. A feminist is someone who believes that women should have the same rights as men. THAT'S IT. If you don't believe that that's fine too but I think it sounds A ok to me because why shouldn't they?
I think part of the problem is that when people think of feminism they instantly think of this.
thisisscaringmee · -3 points · Posted at 21:46:32 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Because feminism’s actions show otherwise.
If you want equality, you’re egalitarian.
gimmehername · 3 points · Posted at 22:21:22 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
If I'm an egalitarian then that also makes me a feminist.
I didn't downvote you by the way, I'm just trying to have a conversation.
thisisscaringmee · 0 points · Posted at 02:47:20 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
The two are not the same, despite what feminists claim.
Any group concerned with the interest of one specific group is not egalitarian.
gimmehername · 1 points · Posted at 02:56:23 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
Egalitarian - one who believes in the principle that all people are equal and deserve equal rights and opportunities
Feminist - one who believes that men and women should have equal rights and opportunities
Men and women are people and I believe they should have equal rights and opportunities so I'm pretty sure to be an egalitarian is to also be a feminist.
By the way, you can have your own definition for whatever you think feminism is. I've repeatedly said what I think it means and you're free to believe whatever you want.
thisisscaringmee · 1 points · Posted at 02:59:23 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
So feminism focuses specifically on womens’ rights. That’s not egalitarian.
gimmehername · 1 points · Posted at 04:25:00 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
I think we're just going in circles at this point so let me try to be clearer with what I believe.
If one is an egalitarian then by definition one is also a feminist.
If one is a feminist then one isn't necessarily an egalitarian.
thisisscaringmee · 2 points · Posted at 05:11:16 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
Negative, Ghost Rider.
gimmehername · 1 points · Posted at 05:26:01 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
It's totally fine that you disagree with me but it doesn't seem like you want to have an actual discussion which again, is totally fine.
I think my reasoning is pretty sound and it makes sense but you're just saying no without trying to show me why my belief doesn't make sense (which again, is fine). Let me know if you actually have something interesting to say. Until then, peace out.
nedm89 · -2 points · Posted at 00:10:49 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
Women do have the same rights as men tho
gimmehername · 2 points · Posted at 00:20:54 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
My point isn't whether women currently have the same rights as men (which they don't, especially in other parts of the world), my point is that feminists believe men and women should have the same rights.
HitlerLivesOnTheMoon · 4 points · Posted at 21:26:47 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I remember very specificly a man who's daughter told him she was gay. He had a similar response and under the influence of their church community sought help for her gayness. Denial is far from a solution, but she eventually found one. She felt so overwhelming ashamed of who she was because of the people around her that she killed herself. She died alone, scared, and lacking the basic human dignity that we all deserve. Think twice before advising people to deny their children the right to being happy however they want. Their lives might just depend on it.
Animblenavigator · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:11 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
She literally is happily dating the star of the boy's baseball team. She's 100% hetero. I asked her and really got no problem with it, she 100% likes guys and in a monogamous relationship right now (as one could be in high school).
HitlerLivesOnTheMoon · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:55 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I'm honestly very happy that it worked out and that things are going well for her. Not often do we get to see people who feel so removed from their identity that they would come out, feel so strongly about it later on and not end up suffering from major depressive disorders (ect). But I'm more worried about the way that other people would interpret that story. And that a person who reads that might really fuck their kid up because they can't accept that they aren't going to conform the way they want them too. I think it's difficult for you or I to imagine but when someone holds on to the conviction that they are genderfluid or non-bianary... It's not because they caught a case of the 'homos', it's because they feel so out of place, so disgusted by their own identity they they are willing to put their friends, reputation, everything on the line. They don't take that leap to feel special. They take that leap because the blazes of self-hatred and loneliness drive them off the cliff and the only thing they can hope for is a soft landing. It's not about any anecdotal circumstance, it's about setting a president of acceptance so that even if it's one in a thousand. No more innocent people end up killing themselves.
Jawajoey · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:46 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
That's what's so great about this Dad's approach. It is fully accepting and encouraging of the way the daughter is. "No you can't be that, I disprove, it's won't allow it," is very different from "I love you, you're great, but you're not that."
dadoctord · 8 points · Posted at 17:27:24 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
You have done right by your daughter. I sincerely hope there are more out there like you. Big kudos fellow pede.
TripinRick · 6 points · Posted at 19:24:15 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
"It's a weird time of confusion for young adults in general"
100% agree, that is why the education system k-12 is indoctrinating our children.
undercovervegan · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:35 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Homeschool options are getting better and better. As a public school kid myself, I never thought I'd say this, but I'm strongly considering homeschooling my future kiddos for a few years. Young minds are so malleable and it's so important we lay the foundation for reason, critical thinking, and reality early on.
kesquare2 · 2 points · Posted at 20:53:20 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Much better father than OP.
iFlosstoomuch · 7 points · Posted at 19:44:48 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Wow, awesome parenting. I'm a single father of two young girls and really not looking forward to their young adult years. I'm hoping a lot of this gender identity shit is old news and a passing fad.
beef_me_bro · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:08 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Father of one daughter currently. Hoping this is a passing fad like shoulder pads in the 80s.
cdjaco · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:52 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Use the Socratic method to teach your kids. Emphasize critical thinking.
It's the most effective tool you can provide them.
CitationDependent · 5 points · Posted at 16:53:54 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I'm practising a look that may or may not be intended to convey the same message. While actually stating such a message in Canada would be a hate crime, perhaps a look isn't? (It is)
[deleted] · 15 points · Posted at 18:28:57 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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KosherDensity · 11 points · Posted at 19:40:09 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
http://i.magaimg.net/img/1umt.jpg
sicrites · 7 points · Posted at 18:47:37 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I was with you till you suggested not dying her hair. It's temporary and fun, to insult with the hag comment seems unnecessary.
Animblenavigator · 19 points · Posted at 18:51:15 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Be 15 year old dying hair gray to look older
Looks like an 70 old spinster
Mission accomplished
Frankly, I saved her a lot of pain.
Bdazz · 5 points · Posted at 20:09:51 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
If she really wants to dye her hair, offer to take her to a fancy stylist as a treat and get an entire makeover done - massage, mani, pedi, makeup, the works. Getting a pro to tell her how best to show off her real beauty can be a huge boost for a girl. (Also, a good pro can explain why she'll regret torturing her hair and skin with chemicals). It can be a great bonding experience, too.
Spez: werdz. Also, bonus points if you go, too!
Animblenavigator · 8 points · Posted at 20:18:31 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I did that actually, but she went with her Grandma.
Deadbeat1000 · 7 points · Posted at 19:40:47 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I would change "feminism" to "femininity" otherwise good advice.
Animblenavigator · 8 points · Posted at 19:48:25 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Where I was going essentially with the convo.
Be proud of who you are.
RaiderDamus · 5 points · Posted at 20:44:04 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
It's Okay To Be A Girl
Prcrstntr · 0 points · Posted at 20:56:31 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
It's okay to be white.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 18:54:44 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
These days, fathers have to do stuff like this to fight against all the pseudo-science online.
Donnaguska · 2 points · Posted at 21:13:37 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Your story is heartwarming. It is so important for girls to have a rational voice to give honest feedback about fads like the genderfluid bullshit and the bizarre trend of women dyeing their hair gray. (Guessing they do it to look like the girl from Game of Thrones, which, to be fair, doesn't have gray hair either. More of a platinum look, which still destroys hair with chemicals.) Either way, it sounds like she trusts you enough to discuss these issues, and that's a great thing.
As for college, one of the best things you can do is require your daughter to work to at least partially pay for tuition and/ or room and board. Nothing is more redpilling and eye-opening than seeing how the system really works. If she's up for it, a trade school could be a better bet, too. Just throwing ideas out there, and of course not trying to impose.
You're a good dad.
Zerwas · 2 points · Posted at 21:17:50 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Your Username really checks out when it comes to raising your daughter :)
That was very nice to read, if there were just more people who act like this. Much respect, sir.
quigonkenny · 3 points · Posted at 19:59:10 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Might want to consider steering her to a career that doesn't require college. Or at least making sure you vet the hell out of the profs at whichever college she ends up going to. If she's already confused about her gender thanks to the leftard teachers in her high school, there's a pretty good chance that she'll run across some Yvette Felarca wannabe in college who will see her as an opportunity and literally will not stop until they've convinced your daughter that your good parenting is "proof" that you hate her.
Flesh_Lettuce · 0 points · Posted at 19:32:05 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
thought this was going to be a tendies copy pasta. very pleasantly surprised
ImInArea52 · 1 points · Posted at 11:11:02 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
‘It is a weird time of confusion for young adults in general,....”
You can thank the MSM and the left for that one.
WhatYonder1 · -1 points · Posted at 19:04:36 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Doing it right. Respect.
Hellbasedgod · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:10 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I feel like this post right here is way more deserving of the up votes of the original post. It gave me a laugh but this right here is what fatherhood truly is.
shawnfromnh · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:44 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Sounds like she's trying to get people to like her by being someone else to be in the cool crowd but the cool crowd are almost always stupid fake morons so keep showing her shes wonderful the way she is.
thisguy883 · 2 points · Posted at 20:18:34 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Well these people need more parental guidance in their lives. Sadly, most of the parents of these snowflakes are as liberal as they come.
If my daughter came to me with that crap, I would probably do what you did and just explain it as some phase. You're absolutely right when you say people need to embrace who they are.
Sure, times were rough being a man growing up in South Texas. I saw all the girls get treated differently down here, but that didn't stop me. I still worked my ass off and I'm glad I'm where I'm at today. Some people would tell me that is male privilege. I would say it is just hard work and dedication.
I will make sure my daughter knows these things, while still being the most beautiful woman she can be. She has the best of both worlds. Her mother is a gorgeous woman who is into just everything girly. And I, her father, enjoys just about everything that your typical guy likes. She will know both traits and I'm excited to teach her.
Anyway, you're a damn good father.
cdjaco · -1 points · Posted at 20:46:52 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
The parents don't even need to be liberal or Leftist.
They just have to be checked out; the "village" will take care of the rest, unfortunately.
mintak4 · 0 points · Posted at 21:42:04 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Hey, man... That grey hair trend on people is pretty hot imo! Haha way to be a solid dad though.
Animblenavigator · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:09 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
nah
mintak4 · 0 points · Posted at 21:52:01 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
We were both downvoted :|
slayer_of_idiots · -4 points · Posted at 20:31:06 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
This is something I legitimately don't understand. Like the Bruce Jenner thing. Jenner is only attracted to women. It seems odd that someone would want to recognize as the other gender even thought they're attracted to the other gender. It doesn't make any sense.
Godskook · 0 points · Posted at 21:03:52 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I'd tell her: "Love you for who YOU are, and be the best 'you' you can be. Don't be a 2nd-rate version of someone or something else. Because I love you for who YOU are."
Angel_Hunter_D · 0 points · Posted at 21:27:20 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I remember dying my hair as a kid, it was fun a few times but became a lot of work and lost the novelty.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 04:00:04 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
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Animblenavigator · 0 points · Posted at 04:53:54 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
I don’t know what that is nor do I want to know
beef_me_bro · -2 points · Posted at 21:24:09 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Yup! Adolescence is a confusing time in everyone's lives. Why is the MSM intent on layering it with even more confusion? Just had my first daughter 9 months ago. Not going to lie fellow parent pedes, I'm worried about shit like this. The SJW narrative when I was a kid was all about the environment and how horrible loggers were. Sure my teachers were hippies acting like they were the stars of Ferngully, but my peers and I weren't systemically mind-fucked into questioning our gonads.
My hat is off to you as a father. What you just did for your daughter was parenting. Real parenting. Your daughter, like all of us who went through that time and stage, is between the desire to fit in with the group, but also discover herself as an individual. She had a dad who gave enough damns to stand upright in the face of these confusing questions and desires. I think seeing this in you will give her the confidence to do the same as she develops and grows throughout her life.
With all the compassion in the world, I wish you and your family the very best my pede.
Now I'm going to have a glass of whiskey and start planning my rebuttals to conversations like this 15 years from now.
[deleted] · 118 points · Posted at 17:06:47 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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frombildgewater · 61 points · Posted at 19:05:22 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
BUT MY SEX JUNK REEEEEEEEEE!!!!!
KosherDensity · 33 points · Posted at 19:45:29 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
MAY INCLUDE SOME BUTT STUFF!
Ya know, for kids. Bill Nye the Bullshit Guy
cdjaco · 10 points · Posted at 20:51:30 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
He inadvertently red-pilled a lot of people with the train wreck his first season was.
Let's hope he's just as successful with his second season....
[deleted] · 19 points · Posted at 19:27:37 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 20:02:11 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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Prcrstntr · 12 points · Posted at 21:08:06 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
It's true that there are very rare medical conditions, but I'm pretty sure most of them are less confused about their gender than some of these tumblr folks.
Mattmenzo · 2 points · Posted at 21:13:12 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
But it's a fuck up in nature, a mutation basically...
NEPXDer · 5 points · Posted at 21:19:42 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
But surely that is rare enough that we can speak in broad generalities by saying its either XX or XY.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:23 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
sure, but intersex stats are bullshit. they're fluffed with conditions of people who are distinctively one sex, but do not have perfectly normal genital organs. for example, if your penis hole is on the bottom instead of the tip, this is a genuine medical condition, but rights groups will claim you're intersex, even though you're distinctively male.
even people with klinefelter (XXY) still represent as distinctively male or distinctively female. most people don't even know they have klinefelter until they go to have kids and a fertility doctor tells them why it's not working.
the number of people who have a mix of partial or total of both sex organs is extremely rare... far less than 1:2000.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 21:45:21 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:35:41 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Don't forget to give someone new a handy, because evolution
Dahti · 11 points · Posted at 19:59:05 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
But what about that astronomically small chance of XXY, checkmate bigot!
/s
HungriWalrus · 3 points · Posted at 20:36:30 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
You forgot XYY
Dahti · 1 points · Posted at 14:10:39 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
Forgot YMCA too, sorry Pedes!
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:58:20 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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Dahti · 2 points · Posted at 14:09:33 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
"Klinefelter syndrome affects 1 in 500 to 1,000 newborn males. Most variants of Klinefelter syndromeare much rarer, occurring in 1 in 50,000 or fewer newborns".
1 in 50,000 or fewer is pretty small..
Mostly just seen as small testes that underproduce testosterone (think natural soyboi) and not as many masculine traits. Not dude born with a vagina.
Source: https://ghr.nlm.nih.gov/condition/klinefelter-syndrome#statistics
[deleted] · 123 points · Posted at 15:45:57 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Her Dads on The_Donald
_TheConsumer_ · 91 points · Posted at 16:47:56 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Dads have a way of boiling arguments down into their most basic concepts:
"Dad - I'm a man trapped in a woman's body."
Sounds like a software problem, not a hardware one Junior.
rutterkin · 9 points · Posted at 19:59:21 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Alternatively, it's just not a problem, and girls should be able to be as boyish as they want, and vice versa.
OfficialRpM · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:06 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
It is a problem, mental issues shouldn't be treated as normal.
Draculea · 3 points · Posted at 22:02:10 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I mean, I get it. A mental issue is really only a problem if it makes it hard to get through your day. Just because you have a vagina doesn't mean you need to stand in the kitchen and cook shit. If you like to work on diesels, then go work on diesels. If you wanna fight, go fight. If you're a dude that wants to cross stitch and host pottery night, then do it.
It's a software issue, but it doesn't hurt anything. I think people chopping their bodies to fit the software issue are misguided, but just living how your brain tells you (if it doesn't hurt anyone) doesn't hurt anything.
CatastrophicJuke · 106 points · Posted at 16:09:51 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I hate to tell you attention seeking I-gen spawn, but uh, your Dad's right.
jsjdjdjjuh · 115 points · Posted at 16:45:03 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
My car broke down because it ran out of gender fluid
[deleted] · 43 points · Posted at 17:16:01 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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jsjdjdjjuh · 37 points · Posted at 17:41:39 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
"i blew a tranny" means something entirely different to a mechanic
b_resh · 14 points · Posted at 17:17:31 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
How often must you change your gender fluid? I can’t find it in the manual.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 17:24:30 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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Hamsterarcher · 2 points · Posted at 21:18:32 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Natural flush or do you use a chemical scrub?
Sinhumane · 3 points · Posted at 19:20:09 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
have you switched over to high mileage synthetic gender fluid?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:31:47 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
i use this space age polymer gender fluid. it sparkles and has a rainbow glint to it.
quigonkenny · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:05 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
About as often as your headlight fluid.
Mukato · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:38 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Make sure you check the Phlanges at the same time.
KosherDensity · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:18 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
make sure to get that replaced asap, don't want your gender binary transmission to seize
_TheConsumer_ · 18 points · Posted at 16:53:18 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
We need mandatory psych evaluations if we want to buy guns, but we shouldn't psychologically evaluate people that believe they are the wrong gender.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:43:14 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
If you believe you are female, but in fact you are a male, then ye, I think you need to have your head examined. In fact, that is the exact reason you want to give the people who buy guns a psych evaluation -- you need to know if they can tell fiction from fact.
gogYnO · 5 points · Posted at 19:16:25 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
And want to PERMANENTLY alter their bodies with scalpels and strong drugs, oh, and not just for adults, some parents abuse their children with it too
lefties_eat_dick · 56 points · Posted at 15:41:30 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Look in your pants, that's what you are and what god intended you to be.
[deleted] · 51 points · Posted at 16:28:15 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:21:43 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
The online dating scene has gotten very confusing the past few years. If I see anything other than "woman" and "straight" I just don't even bother.
ERRORCORRECTBOT · 1 points · Posted at 15:29:22 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
I dont use online dating sites. They are like a gall stone for the dating scene. People with mental issues, fantasy-world beliefs, and affection-deprivation issues flock to those sites (not saying anyone who uses them is definitely a messed up person, just saying the sites have lots of messed up people).
Like a gall stone those sites absorb sickness and help the surrounding dating fields stay healthy.
fwipfwip · 30 points · Posted at 16:38:19 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I have a fiver and I think a ten. Does that mean I'm supposed to be Hamilton or Lincoln?
dexterpine · 5 points · Posted at 21:38:45 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Depends. Do you want to get shot in New Jersey or in a theatre?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:59 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Quality bants.
KosherDensity · 2 points · Posted at 19:44:46 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
A Lincilton
Philhelm · 0 points · Posted at 19:48:31 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I got short changed.
Carkeyz · -1 points · Posted at 20:57:23 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
God isn't real
TrumpWonSorryLibs · 2 points · Posted at 21:13:25 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
realer than gender fluidity
PepeIsMyMessiah · 46 points · Posted at 16:20:19 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Probably fake, but the dad is right though.
Jeeterhawk007 · 4 points · Posted at 21:19:00 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Saw this word for word months ago, so it's either an old picture, or a rebooted tweet for more attention.
[deleted] · 33 points · Posted at 16:35:23 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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KosherDensity · 18 points · Posted at 19:46:31 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
"In the name of the God Emperor and for the glory of America I must go to London and show the Britbongs how to sing, Dad!"
PM_ME_MY_FUTURE_PMs · 3 points · Posted at 20:09:54 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
He is saving you from an acid attack, thank him.
ThePeperine · 24 points · Posted at 16:46:08 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
"your cry for attention is pathetic, try again though dear! " -Based Dad
John-Paul-Jones · 23 points · Posted at 15:46:04 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I wonder what the replies said
Dmule2413 · 59 points · Posted at 16:19:01 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
"Your fascist Trump supporting dad just doesnt understand us and how he is causing these micro aggressions" REEEEEEEEEEE
_TheConsumer_ · 29 points · Posted at 16:55:40 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Microagressions. There's a word I haven't heard in about 12 months. I wonder why...
KosherDensity · 14 points · Posted at 19:47:35 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Because us winning was a macroaggression
bcccl · 12 points · Posted at 18:11:28 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
i thought it was satire, but it's unfortunately a thing to sjws. sad world.
secaedelcielo · 2 points · Posted at 21:20:26 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
12 months?! 12 months?! It's called a year, stop mistemporal labeling me, dad!
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:08 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Probably cause its not real.
Jakeb19 · 2 points · Posted at 21:40:52 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
"It's not a phase dad, it's who I am"
Dmule2413 · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:05 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
oh God i can imagine that one. These people have rubber rooms with their names already on it.
Racistbutnotillegal · 24 points · Posted at 16:13:38 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
This dad would not let his kid get this crazy. Made up story.
internom31 · 8 points · Posted at 19:28:20 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Maybe mom divorced dad and got custody. Definitely seems like she wasn't raised by both parents in a stable marriage.
Seven_Millionth_Pede · 25 points · Posted at 17:34:41 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
“The only time you came out as gender fluid was when I jizzed your DNA into your ma!”
DestroyerofCobwebs · 14 points · Posted at 16:43:32 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
What an awful thing we've done to these kids, just so some mentally ill degenerates can feel better about their degeneracy.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:46:37 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
This.
[deleted] · 18 points · Posted at 18:03:44 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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cdjaco · 6 points · Posted at 20:53:43 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I'm horrified that Reddit permits cetacean-shaming.
wright8372 · 16 points · Posted at 15:55:01 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
He's got a good point, your dad's an OG.
KosherDensity · 2 points · Posted at 19:48:07 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
In Canada that Dad could go to jail so in affect he would become a real OG
GottliebPins · 16 points · Posted at 17:02:05 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Gender fluid - someone with severe mental disorder.
MakeMeAmerican · 17 points · Posted at 18:42:15 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Is gender:
1) A spectrum 2) A social construct 3) Changeable
It can't be all three.
RationalSeeker · 6 points · Posted at 20:37:29 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Why not? I'm not saying that I agree that gender is a spectrum and/or social construct and/or changeable. I just don't understand why, logically, they are mutually exclusive. If it's a social construct that is normal binary, but liberals redefine it as a spectrum, and a person individually feels they change on the spectrum... logically there is no flaw. Now, this DOES all fall apart if gender isn't a social construct and based on sex, which the majority of people have considered the case for more of history.
MakeMeAmerican · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:30 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Because to be able to identify which side you fall on on any given day it would have to be binary rather than a spectrum.
RationalSeeker · 1 points · Posted at 04:05:54 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
But a lot of them will make the claim that they are somewhere on the spectrum, but not completely male nor female. I'm not saying they use this vocabulary, but if a person who calls themselves genderfluid decides 'today I'm 60% male, 40% female' and the next day says 'I'm 99% female, 1% male', then they believe that they are: one a spectrum, believe that it it a social construct, and that it changes day by day. It's internally consistent, at least, though whether it lines up with actual biology is separate question that liberals would have a much harder time defending.
MakeMeAmerican · 1 points · Posted at 06:36:50 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
But if there are only two ends to the spectrum then it is still binary.
gimmehername · 4 points · Posted at 20:55:54 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Pretty sure it's a social construct which also makes it changeable because someone can change which society they live in.
thisisscaringmee · 2 points · Posted at 21:55:45 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Gender is binary, physically expressed and non-malleable.
Fuck whatever adults you want however you both consent to do it.
Your parts are hardwired.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 20:51:35 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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thisisscaringmee · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:23 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
TL;DR
If you have an expressed Y chromosome that nets you a penis, you’re a male. If you don’t, you’re a female.
Spare me all the sequencing disorder obfuscation- my brother is XXY Klinefelter’s. Has a dick. Is a dude. No dick? He’d be a gal.
There are no chicks with dicks, only dudes with tits.
[deleted] · 13 points · Posted at 16:41:01 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
IDK I would probably just say "That's not a thing, Kerry. Now please eat your dinner."
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
skoundrel81 · 9 points · Posted at 18:34:00 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
So now if a girl is a bit of a tom boy when shes younger she's now gender fluid? Not just a girl who likes some guy stuff which is normal btw. These liberals are sick the education system is to blame for this crap.
Ixliam · 2 points · Posted at 21:40:17 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Glad my wife made it past the time period of all this crap. With the wrong parents they'd have her all messed up as a kid. She's a bit of a tom-boy, likes to hunt/fish, gut out chickens and fish, and can field dress a deer. She's also a great cook, holds to pretty traditional values in our home, and enjoys a good night out on the town like any good lady. Actually surprised she turned out alright anyway, her parents were a bunch of hippies back in the day.
The_DonaldUser · 2 points · Posted at 21:04:38 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I think these people are confusing their sexual fetishes with their gender.
webster_warrior · 2 points · Posted at 21:09:52 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
That's true, and you can only do one at a time.
Foxbat40 · 2 points · Posted at 21:24:16 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
So when Daddy's little girl tells him that some times she doesn't feel like a girl he took it a little rough. Seems like that is to be expected. Maybe she should stop focusing on herself and understand her dad's point of view. But I guess it is easier to virtue signal with your rainbow twitter profile picture.
Bighollab0 · 2 points · Posted at 21:25:48 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
What’s a gender fluid??????
kornesque · 2 points · Posted at 21:26:25 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I'm firmly convinced at this point that the left meme's for us on purpose. Some of their shit is legit af.
lewism109 · 2 points · Posted at 21:27:48 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Two Scoops, Two Terms, Two Genders.
WonkyTables · 2 points · Posted at 21:29:36 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Your father knew long before you ever even Wondered.... young people think they are so much more advanced than the people that designed them ! I’m sure he has sat in the garage countless nights wishing you would stop crushing empty beer cans on your forehead and arm wrestling all the neighbor boys, if you have to put down a wrench and start wiping grease off your hands and face while you are about to “break it to him” he probably already knows....
AdickWithGoodIntent · 2 points · Posted at 22:26:04 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I used to be gender fluids... But that was only at the moment of conception.
xxmissmiserxx · 6 points · Posted at 17:37:46 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
If more people's fathers spoke to them like that there would be less grown ass men whining about what trump says
Donnaguska · 4 points · Posted at 21:07:11 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
What a disappointment that must be.
You spend so much time, money, and energy to raise a child, only to have it turn out as a flaming SJW. I know parents aren't perfect, but that dad is probably wondering where he went so wrong. All those years of hopes and dreams, only to have your child grow into someone obsessed with gender politics. Talking about such things as such a major part of identity, when sex ought to be far less public than it has become.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 21:12:39 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
That right there is the product of Tumblr. I'm not kidding in the least bit ether. Our daughter was addicted to tumblr, it really fucked her views up badly when she was young. We finally got her off of it, she looks back on it in total embarrassment.
Listen up parent Pedes, if your child is using tumblr, GET THEM OFF IT AT ALL COSTS! I don't care if you have to remove them from all technology, get them off that fucking brain washing shit show of an internet site.
MrBaldwin · 6 points · Posted at 21:16:04 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
One's mental condition does not alter one's gender.
Kellythejellyman · 6 points · Posted at 17:44:58 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
but, should one really care what other people are up too? it seems like an unnecessary headache to me
it's far easier to simply have a "Do whatever ya want, just don't involve me or mine" approach to things IMO
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 17:52:02 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
That's a terrible way to raise a child
Kellythejellyman · 1 points · Posted at 18:08:37 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
keeping to ones self and maintaining privacy? it's seem fine to me.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 18:23:40 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
You don't "keep to oneself" when it's your kid.
Kellythejellyman · 1 points · Posted at 18:37:36 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
i mean as in not paying attention to other people's aggrandizing posts. if it is my own kid, this would require involvement, but this is someone else
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 19:44:39 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
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centipedealicious · 2 points · Posted at 20:41:04 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
If its testicular cancer, you can just change you gender because women don't have testicles...(i think)
crikey- · 3 points · Posted at 20:01:12 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
She needs to check her gender fluid.
It's about a quart low.
MBKUltra · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:01 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Kek
Darth_Kek-apalooza · 4 points · Posted at 20:08:24 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
World's best dad in that moment.
rworldnewsmidfcucks · 5 points · Posted at 20:35:04 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Some days I feel like an Attack Helicopter, some days I feel like a Drone.
queenmeme · -1 points · Posted at 21:02:17 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
How original
ZippyTheChicken · 5 points · Posted at 20:39:28 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
she just told her father that shes an idiot.. what did she expect...
Either you have a cock and love the cock
or
you don't have a cock and you love the cock
or
you have a cock and don't love the cock
or
you don't have a cock and don't love the cock
thats it.. nothing else.. unless you're getting into animals and then you're going to hell for that and you know it..
h4b1t · 3 points · Posted at 21:06:03 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
My fifth grade daughter has a teacher that they have to call Mx. Jenny. Mx. Sounds like mix and it’s because Jenny is genderless, omfg I can’t believe I have to deal with this bull shit. FYI the real name is not Jenny but is a female name.
zxcv168 · 3 points · Posted at 21:16:30 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
2 Genders, 2 Scoops, 2 Terms!
PotatoVarnishOrigin · 6 points · Posted at 19:10:18 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
lol good on the Dad! no one should be enabling mental illness
v_maet · 3 points · Posted at 20:43:00 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Transgenderism is the new emo
Press2ForEnglish · 5 points · Posted at 19:24:50 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
There really needs to be a manual on how to raise girls in such a degenerate society. Anorexia, bulimia, LGBT experiences in high school/college, gender dysphoria... its all thanks to unaccountable liberalism run wild in big media.
Dahti · 3 points · Posted at 20:13:13 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
The Bible.
And before everyone goes "yeah, just stone them like in the old testament"...
Old testament was written/orated in a time of tribalism and most of the weird/extreme behaviors were to distinguish the Israelites from the pagans which is something God took very seriously.
The New Testament (that covers the new covenant) is full of wisdom in how to raise kids in crazy times.
Press2ForEnglish · 5 points · Posted at 20:59:38 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
When I got married I realized there there is just about no support for marriage and children in secular life. A few years later we got married in the church and the body of support for a family is endless. Its wonderful.
I think you make a good point. I was raised secular so I have a long way to go to become more familiar with raising kids in accordance with biblical principles.
Dahti · 2 points · Posted at 21:13:45 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Don't think for a second though that the church is filled with ONLY good people. A lot of us sitting in the pew have our struggles just like everyone else.
Best advice I can give to anyone interested in learning more about church/Christians is find the people who live the same way regardless of what day of the week it is and don't just clean up good on a Sunday. They tend to be the ones who have a better understanding of what actual Christianity is about.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:22:45 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
What the fuck is gender fluid? Do folks really think they're both genders? Wouldn't surprise me considering people think they're the opposite gender when they're clearly not
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 20:32:23 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
That's a good father there.
milkhotdog · 5 points · Posted at 20:33:13 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
You were gender fluid for a short time. When you were in his balls.
qwertyurmomisfat · 4 points · Posted at 20:51:24 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
That is undoubtedly her biggest struggle in life right now. Just think about that.
You wanna talk about privilege?
Talk about the kids privileged enough to act like a girl when they're really a boy. You think people from shit hole countries are privileged enough to care about their pronouns?
No. Not at all. Your dad is right. You need to shut the fuck up.
M_i_c_K · 2 points · Posted at 21:04:13 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
My father response would have been, Gender Fluid?
Does that come in a quart or only by the gallon?
rz1992 · 4 points · Posted at 16:06:11 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Well, did you listen to your pops and stfu? Doesn't look like it..
mazeri · 2 points · Posted at 16:27:05 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
People keep talking about this fluid gender, but I keep looking at my bottle of water and its not doing anything. WTH am I doing wrong?
sally960 · 3 points · Posted at 19:39:34 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Love your father...lol
MusicMagi · 4 points · Posted at 19:41:53 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Sometimes it takes a good parent to tell a kid they're being silly; and kids need that.
Riot_PR_Guy · 3 points · Posted at 19:44:32 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
BASED POPS
CUCKEWE · 3 points · Posted at 20:15:43 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
MODS ... PLEASE ENSHRINE THIS
TheAC997 · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:21 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Everybody is genderfluid. I'm a guy, but I like girly drinks. People who come out as "genderfluid" are confused because they think they're unique when they're not.
(Kind of like how every snowflake is unique, but a snowflake thinking that it's special just because it's unique would be dumb)
rowingnut · 2 points · Posted at 21:07:09 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I like Musicals and Barbara Streisand, does that make me gay?
dexterpine · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:12 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I don't like musicals and Barbra Streisand, does that make me straight?
Freedom_FROM_Govt · 2 points · Posted at 22:06:37 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
No, it makes you a sensible person with taste.
ProCannonFodder · 4 points · Posted at 19:15:14 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
"Gender Fluid" translation: I'm lost and will probably commit suicide before too long.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:28:32 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Well, dad ain't wrong...
Duffy_Munn · 4 points · Posted at 19:44:18 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Democrats have really fucked kids up. Holy shit.
Komikaze06 · 3 points · Posted at 19:59:40 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
What's so confusing about gender fluid?
I get rid of my gender fluid daily, sometimes more than that.
PlasmaBurnz · 2 points · Posted at 21:09:46 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
That would be my initial reaction. Being a father often means explaining things. Being "gender fluid" is kinda like being "worker fluid". If skip work because you don't feel like a worker today, you still deserve to be fired. Virtue is insisting on reason over feelings.
Gender has developed over thousands of generations as children observe their mother and father. It's how males and females are supposed to behave. It's not arbitrary, but leads to becoming a mother and father. Negotiating toward those roles is the terms of how each sex is supposed to interact. Rejecting the terms for interaction just makes you hard to interact with. You can't do anything else because no one knows how to interact with anything else. There is no reason to do anything else. The only reason people do it is mental disorders and delusion combined with poor judgement.
This is a free country and people can do whatever stupid shit they get in their head, no one is forced to be socially well adjusted. But being nonbinary is nothing but sucking at being social with a dash of insanity.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:23:13 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
The problem is to many people are being forced and coerced into this bullshit. This horse shit is being normalized, MENTAL ILLNESS is being normalized. THAT is the problem here.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:16:32 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Wow look at the emo tumblr brigading going on!
FUCK YOU LITTLE PUSSY ASSED FUCKS, THERE ARE ONLY TWO GENDERS! AND FLUID ISN'T ONE OF THEM!
mmmmph_on_reddit · 2 points · Posted at 21:21:17 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Yeah, they go in and downvote literally all the comments. Cowardly, really.
king-guy · 2 points · Posted at 21:17:31 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Can someone explain to me what genderfluid is? I seems like it's trans, but it's called something different.
Telcontar2012 · 3 points · Posted at 21:18:18 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Means you just identify as male or female whenever it suits you.
It doesn't even go anywhere near physically altering oneself, just the personal identity.
king-guy · 3 points · Posted at 21:19:44 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
So it's guy one day, girl the next sort of thing?
Telcontar2012 · 2 points · Posted at 21:20:54 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Yup, whenever you feel like and for whatever reason.
cam2kx · 3 points · Posted at 19:03:02 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I'm a MAGA Transgender female, regardless of how you feel about that, guess what? There are two genders! Surprised to hear a t-girl say that? Don't be, we are here too, on the MAGA train.
You should never name every fucking tick of a spectrum and turn it into a fking "who's more unique" shit that the liberal LGBT community eats up like rainbow cake.
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cam2kx · 0 points · Posted at 12:24:35 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
Eh, it's fine I'm fully aware of thier obession over creating thier safespace of you're a man crap/mental illness, like yeah that means something to me right? It's something we will always deal with here. Lol they just don't want to and don't understand our plight.
SirGeno2525 · -10 points · Posted at 19:36:26 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
T-Girl pretending to support Trump and MAGA?
Don’t try to fool us Soy Boi
cam2kx · 0 points · Posted at 19:59:39 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Pretending? Boi i voted for the man and regularly talk on the Donald, and shit on libtards. Come on, t-girls can MAGA too.
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cam2kx · 0 points · Posted at 12:21:13 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
Lol, is that how you talk to everyone with a mental illness, child you're just quite a terrible human huh? Mommy didn't teach you to at least try to be kind to people, with mental illness? The liberals are forcing you hon, not me or us in this branch.
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cam2kx · 0 points · Posted at 12:25:47 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
Oh really? I drink pure estrogen with a side of of my husband's huge cock. For good measure, i also have covfefe on hand.
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cam2kx · 0 points · Posted at 12:31:54 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
Oh so you also don't talk to handicapped folk, or people with other mental problems? Wow you must be one terrible man to be, i feel sorry for those around you man.
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cam2kx · 1 points · Posted at 12:43:48 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
Oh, sorry i offended you, man, I really feel sorry for your parent's, they must have did a terrible job raising you boy.
MikeObamasHugeCock · 1 points · Posted at 05:57:07 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
If you have a cock and balls, then you are a man. Just ask my husband Barack, he loves my man shaft.
cam2kx · 1 points · Posted at 12:22:26 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
A man you say? Guess i saw that memo, ignored it and did my own thing, because it's my life not yours to decide what i look like, not sorry that you feel you need to force sex based clothing and looks on each other like some dirty facist, wow.
Oh, dang, i guess I forget to care about being a man anymore, you know with my nautral breasts and female hormones for four years , oh also not having balls, realllly helps too.
WeaponLord · 2 points · Posted at 19:57:51 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Gender Fluid sounds like something that chased the Terminator
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:00:20 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Go back to your genderfluid shithole.
MAGA
wolfhound11B · 3 points · Posted at 20:01:25 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Put him in for a father of the year award.
Dipli · 3 points · Posted at 20:07:22 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I get being gay,bi,etc but everything else seems bizarre
Sqieke · 2 points · Posted at 20:19:40 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Correct answer by said dad!! Sorry for the dad, that's a lot of weight to carry.
Tiki-Tiger · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:43 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
This nonsense is an absolute mindhive. While there is some resistance to it, it is not swift or strong enough.
Millixaw · 4 points · Posted at 20:46:16 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I've never met an attractive "gender-fluid."
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:06:39 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
wow. #rekt
What a great dad. Love that guy
General_Tso_Tofu · 2 points · Posted at 19:39:20 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I'll take, "Things that never really happened" for 500, Alex.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:01:20 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
The law of conversion of mass is the enemy of the gender fluid. Here are the eventual outcomes:
Gender solid - boy or girl
Gender gas - whatever Tumblr comes up with
Babu_Honey_Bandger · 0 points · Posted at 20:10:13 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Kerry, you will look back and thank your father for saving your from the mental illness known as "liberalism"
SnowflakeJuice · 3 points · Posted at 20:15:38 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Makes you wonder how someone can be so fucked up with such a grounded father. the answer is the liberal indoctrination in the school systems, which is why I don't send my children to public school
TrueLux · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:28 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I wish I could fluid into the President for a day
PM_me_your_beavah · 2 points · Posted at 20:54:25 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Dad joke opportunity missed.
D: Yes, you were once my gender fluid.
gorey666 · 2 points · Posted at 20:55:09 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
It's ok to be gay, just dont be a fag about it.
halfchubman · 2 points · Posted at 16:46:38 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Hahaha she's probably just looking for attention
Bolognanipple · 2 points · Posted at 19:57:56 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Gender fluid sounds like branding for butt lube
ayyAndrew_ · 1 points · Posted at 16:40:51 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Your dad is 100% right
faintlight · 2 points · Posted at 17:31:51 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I don't even want to imagine what my father would have said/done to me if I came to him with crap like this.
JG0923 · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:28 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Hahahahaha that is awesome. Good dad
BEAR_RAMMAGE · 2 points · Posted at 16:06:25 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I would have said the same thing.
Then pulled out the belt.
fleebly · 4 points · Posted at 16:24:15 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Wall to wall gender reassignment therapy.
BEAR_RAMMAGE · 6 points · Posted at 16:24:57 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I would pull a red foreman. " I will reassign my foot in your ass!"
Songdog23 · 4 points · Posted at 19:24:17 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Have they stopped teaching biology in college? I have worked on the land for over 38 years, and believe me, our indoor kids have a giant problem. They don't see those beautiful male songbirds singing their little hearts out for a lovely lady bird. They no longer see the dignity and grace of monogamous geese or the protective maleness of a coyote father. they never see a mourning doe who has lost her fawn as just another road kill statistic. You can't get this at a damn 2 week programmed summer camp. You need to live it, be immersed in it as a child. Sometimes alone, sometimes with a loving parent. Children need to explore, and see the real binary sexual world as it is. Are there sexual aberrations? Of course! But nature does NOT celebrate them nor promulgate them. Only the servants of the Archon tech culture do this. Our souls are discovered in vacant city lots, in abandoned drainage ditches, in the song of birds, and if you are lucky, in the grandeur of the mountains and long walks upon the land. Gender fluid is a construct meant to dehumanize us. And for generations of kids, it is working.
Skepsis93 · 2 points · Posted at 22:27:20 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I mean, it's a good sentiment to want kids to explore nature and discover what life is outside the realm of technology. But nature most definitely has the some of the most perverted sex rituals and abnormalities and they all came about through natural selection.
There is a species of ducks that almost exclusively reproduces via gang rape. Dolphins have been recorded as using dead fish for masturbation. There is a species of fish that is almost by definition "gender fluid". When their population has no males or females an individual can spontaneously convert into the other gender in order to propagate the species. We have reptiles who can reproduce sexually but have also have the capabilities to clone themselves instead in case there is no available mate for them. We have snails which are hermaphrodites and each individual is capable of being the father or the mother. We have insects where the female has the penis and the male has the vagina. We have other insects that have no vagina at all and the male has to literally tear his partner a new one in order to mate. We have the hyena, a species in which the females also have penises but are useless and only for asserting dominance. We have seahorses where the male gives birth. We have penguins that are regularly recorded engaging in necrophilia within their own species. And yes, as you said, we have bird species that are monogamous but this is not the majority of birds and very rarely is monogamy seen in non-avian species.
Nature is great and I think kids could benefit a lot from exploring it. But it does not impart any knowledge resembling a sexually binary world what with all the sex-changing fish, role reversing insects, hermaphroditic cephalopods, and self-cloning reptiles.
Songdog23 · 1 points · Posted at 02:40:55 on January 30, 2018 · (Permalink)
Remember, we are mammals.
Godemperortrump2 · -1 points · Posted at 20:23:22 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Wow that was beautiful. 👏👏👏
rajbaj2233 · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:58 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Made me LOL for real!
Asseroni · 2 points · Posted at 16:50:49 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Good job👍
bigrex63 · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:33 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
i think gender fluid means "any port in a storm"?...
TheBigBadDuke · 1 points · Posted at 18:02:40 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Smart man
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:53:07 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I like that Dad. He did "xir" a favor.
echopeus · 0 points · Posted at 20:10:27 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Dad: Honey, you're actually a potato. We are all just Potatoes
KookSurfer82 · 3 points · Posted at 19:56:56 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Your daughter has a mental disorder that was brought on by Marxist teachers, the liberal media and Hollywood propaganda. BUT don’t be cruel or you’ll completely lose him/her/it/they. Recognize that your daughter has been brainwashed by liberalism and won’t do well in any aspect of life with that weight and confusion. Help her see clearly, don’t make things worse though. It’s a sad state of our society and I’m learning now what to do with my college age niece.
Dora_the_Deplorable · 2 points · Posted at 19:01:11 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Rekt!
sprenkelpants · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:10 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Gender fluid? Kinda like blinker-fluid?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:58 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I wish these dumb fucks would begin to understand the difference between 'gender' and 'sexual preference'.
sfreud · 1 points · Posted at 23:09:21 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Yes, to knuckledraggers at The Donald, this is great parenting. To the rest of us, it's just sad. Goodbye.
duckyfresh7 · -2 points · Posted at 20:34:32 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
When I was 16 and it was trendy to be bi I "came out" to my mom, and do you know what she said? "Stop being selfish! Pick a sex and stick to it!"
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:59 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Dad: Dear Daughter, I just came out as a retired Biker's club from the 50's/60's.
I rebelled at some stage too. You'll get over this fad, and if you don't listen to your Dad, Reality will make you listen to it.
erik_t · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:45 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
gender fluid? wtf is that?
mjacobs19 · -5 points · Posted at 18:04:40 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
What I hate the most about this, are those saying they love God but that God made a mistake. If you love God and know anything about Him, you know he's perfect. He makes no mistakes. You are who you are for a reason. When you're born a girl and then say you're a boy, the only reason for it is plain and simple; mental illness. It can't be anything else. It's not natural.
It's not like with homosexuality where it's pretty much been proven that various factors lead to homosexuality including being born with it. In that case, homosexuality in natural since it's things causing it that are out of our control. With gender you're either a boy or a girl, and you feeling any other way, is a mental illness.
mmmmph_on_reddit · -1 points · Posted at 21:20:14 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
It's a mental illness. But that doesn't mean that transition therapy for adults that are aware of the risks and are ready can't ever be an effective treatment. Gender reassignment therapy can be an effective way of treatment for some people with gender dysphoria.
posticon · -1 points · Posted at 19:47:31 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
That's not the exact right response. The kid is just going to hate zirs father and embrace the SJW religion of peace even more. You got to do what the top commentor said and joke around. Make a bonding relationship with the kid. Not curse them out. I remember what it was like to be a kid. It's hard. You feel weird with your parents. They are authority figures.
Freedom_FROM_Govt · 0 points · Posted at 22:34:54 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Yeah, they're authority figures for a reason: when the world presents a young, impressionable mind with a confusing smorgasbord of idiotic selections (like the whole "gender fluididity" nonsense), a parent's role becomes the 'North Star of Sensibleness'. If they can't steer their kid through timewasting crap like this, they've got no business being parents. And sadly, lots of people make babies without the slightest forethought of these potential eventualities.
posticon · 0 points · Posted at 23:00:18 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Sure, but the kid didn't respond well to being told to "fuck off with that shit." The knowledge didn't sink in. It wasn't delivered. It doesn't matter that it was right. It didn't deprogram the tiny human.
Freedom_FROM_Govt · -1 points · Posted at 05:14:04 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
Oh, well, by all means then, let's be sure not to bruise the tender little snowflake's feefees so that it won't grow up into a larger version of the timid and confused little fawn that its parent is trying not to coddle right now. Just wait 'til the mean ol' world-out-there gets ahold of her irrational imbecility. Pfft. Being a parent is demanding enough without having to tread on eggshells for fear of offending feelers. If a child can't count on its parents to be the voice of reason (and dullness), then you've got exactly the problem we currently have: a nationful of narcissistic, entitled, spoiled children.
posticon · 0 points · Posted at 06:50:48 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
All I said was this kid didn't respond well to it, and they didn't. Their behavior didn't change.
johnchapel · -1 points · Posted at 20:25:37 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
gay is quantifiable. Bi is quantifiable. Even Trans, to a certain extent (and hopefully more in the future) is quantifiable.
Gender Fluid, and all the other made up genders don't exist, so obviously aren't quantifiable. And if they aren't quantifiable, a teenager isn't going to be able to diagnose it, even if they did exist.
Palmertabs · -6 points · Posted at 19:00:19 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
If my child said this to me, I would immediately pull her out of public school and home school then. I would focus the curriculum mainly around America’s proud history, the dangers of Marxism/communism/socialism, and other things that are learned here on the donald about how the common man are manipulated in order to influence us to do/buy certain things.
Now if they said they were gay or lesbian, I’d be ok with it because that’s a real thing. Though I would keep an eye on what they are learning in school.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 20:42:28 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I’m glad I grew up going to church so i wasn’t influenced by that kind of nonsense.
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opqrstuvwxyz123 · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:17 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
... you have 420 in your name, junkie.
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🎙️ Ultimate_MAGA · 1 points · Posted at 18:02:12 on January 17, 2018 · (Permalink)
“gender is a social construct” lmfaaaoooo get your post modern bullshit out of here cuck.
MezzureUp · 0 points · Posted at 21:48:52 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Leakin’ so much gender fluid
ManRAh · 0 points · Posted at 21:54:05 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
“I’m gender fluid,” says the XX-Chromosomed college liberal who keeps her hair long and confirms to 90% of female gender norms. The other 10% conforms with college Marxist “anti-conformist” uniform. SO BRAVE.
kadinshino · 0 points · Posted at 21:58:05 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
wtf is gender fluid?....actually i really dont want to know or google.
witheringslights · 0 points · Posted at 21:58:12 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
I think of myself as pretty socially liberal. Gays want to get married? That's fine. Trans people want to change gender? Well that's ok I guess, long as they're adults, and have gone through some form of therapy. Guys want to be a bit feminine, women want to be a bit tomboy - all good, this is the new millenium. I'm not a butch alpha dude either, and am probably in the 'pretty boy' range, so whatever.
However. This identity politics, gender fluid, puberty suppressant shit is just awful. I feel sorry for the younger generation, and wonder what kind of shit they watch on TV, or learn in school. I mean seriously, letting an 8 year old take puberty suppressors is child abuse, simple. And foisting obscure gender academia on young kids is just wrong. What people learn and do as adults is up to them, but kids are sponges, and quite vulnerable. I wonder if more parents should complain?
identity Politics = Gaslighting. It's well into loony territory now.
SemiTrainedApe · 0 points · Posted at 22:00:17 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Dad was right.
GaiusOrangeJulius · 0 points · Posted at 22:00:46 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
They only cite science when it's convenient to them, those liberals.
GrinningLion · 0 points · Posted at 22:05:06 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
There is a reason that rats want to get rid of fathers.. because we call bullshit too often.
gas-man23 · 0 points · Posted at 22:17:14 on January 16, 2018 · (Permalink)
Really, I think the reason for all the transgender, transfluid, bigender etc is that people have to much free time and money to think about this bullshit. And offcourse everybody is messing with your head on TV and on the Internet.
Do you think there were a lot of transgenders in the 1930 during the depression ?
Or earlier in the 19th, 18th, 17th etc century when people were desperately trying to get some food on the table ?