You don't want veggies in your chicken soup? Got it kids.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 37749 points ยท Posted at 16:00:46 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)


Kids are awesome at malicious compliance - but it is a 2-way street ;)

My kids can be picky eaters at times. My wife made some damn good chicken soup, but the kids were complaining that there were veggies in their chicken soup, they hate veggies, veggies make them sick, and they wanted my wife to pick them out of the soup. We tried to tell them that good chicken soup needs veggies to taste good, but they were being stubborn. I'm sure other parents can understand.

I told the kids "if you really hate the taste of veggies, I'll make soup tomorrow, and you guys can make sure I only put stuff in you like." They liked that idea, at the time.

The next day, I get the pot filled with water, all the typical soup ingredients out, and gathered the kids. I asked for their approval on every item. Chicken - yes, salt - yes, black pepper - no (gross, too spicy), celery - no (I can't even stand the smell), onions - NO!!! It went on with that, with them rejecting parsley, bay leaves, and other veggies. The total contents of the pot ended up being:

--- Chicken, water, salt, noodles

After the soup was done cooking, I served it up and they excitedly started to eat. A few funny faces later, and one of them said "it tastes weird, this isn't very good". I said "but I only put in everything you guys approved. I think, from now on, I should make the soup, right?"

They looked at each other and said "can we have mom's soup instead?" Since that day, they haven't complained about finding veggies mixed in the food. Sure, they almost always eat around a carrot or green pea, but they understand that it adds flavor.

Cfwydirk ยท 8537 points ยท Posted at 16:24:58 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

What a good dad teaching your children a valuable lesson in a nice way. Bravo!

Purple_Pig69 ยท 2148 points ยท Posted at 18:25:53 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

A method that doesn't involve starving them! Very creative!

colorfulTypist ยท 1423 points ยท Posted at 19:08:28 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Luckily I made a compromise with my mom (after winning the battle of the peas back in '03) that if I didn't like the vegetable served I could opt for an extra helping of salad (which I loved)

To this day I prefer most of my veggies raw over cooked

archirat ยท 255 points ยท Posted at 19:23:02 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'm so glad you were able to make that compromise.

We do a 'try one bite' method with our kidlet. Sometimes food preferences change over time and sometimes they don't.

lang12 ยท 181 points ยท Posted at 19:49:13 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Sometimes food preferences change over time and sometimes they don't.

Can confirm, i now hate 3 vegetables that i loved as a child but also eat lota of vegetables i used to hate on pretty much a daily basis.

Kids are weird man.

archirat ยท 90 points ยท Posted at 20:00:36 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Oh yeah. Kids are so weird. The 'one bite' is super helpful when the kidlet decides that they 'hate' ketchup and love mustard, when the day before it was only ketchup and mustard was 'too spicy.'

hermloth ยท 19 points ยท Posted at 05:40:59 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Oh yeah this was me when I was a child. Then I was introduced to hot English mustard. After choking on that I will happily eat the American/ sweeter mustards

killabru ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 14:52:43 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Hot mustard at the Chinese restaurant as a kid learned me real fast. Not all mustard is the same

kitkat9000take5 ยท 29 points ยท Posted at 22:42:19 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Would not knowingly eat onions in any way, shape or form, especially raw. Nowadays, they get put on damn near everything. Raw, carmelized, roasted, white, red, sweet- it doesn't matter, I don't care. Hell, I prefer both raw and carmelized on subs.

Still hate peas and lima beans. Occasionally, I'll eat peas in curry or soup but their flavor is completely overwhelmed by the dish so they're not really noticed. Absolutely nothing can make me eat lima beans though.

archirat ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 06:32:42 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Fuck Lima beans. Grew up with them and tried every method under the sun to make them palatable. (P.S. peeling them does not make them better.)

I might cycle back and try them a little with my parents, but they still nasty.

kitkat9000take5 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 13:31:56 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I bought a set of rimmed cookie sheets (jelly roll pans?) just for roasting veggies. I've actually always liked broccoli but roasting it was eye-opening for me. Perhaps the same treatment for lima beans might work? I'm not really sure as they're gag-inducing- flavor, texture, smell- literally everything about them upsets my stomach.

But maybe, just maybe, with enough olive oil, salt, pepper and spices they might possibly be passable... but someone else is going to have to brave that frontier.

Lesty7 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 17:58:55 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Nah Lima beans are just kinda gross lol. I eat them with no issues but I can definitely see why people would hate them. They have a very strange taste/texture.

Alilbit_Eggnis ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 07:48:33 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Omg! Same for me! I used to hate all onions. Until I found the ones I like (green onions) and then I started cooking for myself. Now me and onions are friends except for when she makes me cry!

kitkat9000take5 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 13:38:24 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Unless they're particularly potent, I don't even care about crying. They just get cooked a little longer with a touch of oil +/- butter, s&p,- until they're golden and delicious. Honestly, with some fresh bread and a bit of cheese, I'll eat them right out of the pan.

Actually, my "sampling" is so out of hand, I always cook more than necessary just to ensure that my "sampling" can continue to be enjoyed.

dizietembless ยท 26 points ยท Posted at 20:06:52 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

We were kids first, itโ€™s the adults that are weird ;)

WildestParsnip ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 01:50:52 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Iโ€™m 22 and ate a carrot or the first time in years. Carrots do be good my guy.

lang12 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 05:03:17 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Its so weird when that happens. You're thinking like "oh this veggie aint good" because everyone seems to hate them, then you take a bite and you're like "huh. This shit's good"

WildestParsnip ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:05:22 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah I could eat my weight in potatoes. Cooked carrots (especially in roast) just taste like carrot flavored potatoes. Same texture and everything. Iโ€™ve really been missing out. My girlfriendโ€™s mom made chicken pot pie and I ate the carrots and it was great, it was like I got double potatoes. Growing up is weird man. Havenโ€™t tried carrots in like 10 years. What a shame.

porelamorde ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 06:23:03 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I hate raw carrot, i loved cooked super soft carrot

WildestParsnip ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 06:23:57 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Same, itโ€™s like eating potatoes, I love it.

archirat ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 06:33:23 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My kidlet is opposite. Cannot stand a cook carrot. Raw or no dice.

Shelbelle4 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 05:19:35 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I canโ€™t talk my kid into finishing her plate but I can talk her into ten more bites, which usually finishes her plate.

raptoricus ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:17:47 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Which do you hate now?

lang12 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:28:56 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Gilo/scarlett eggplant and Yam. Used to love that shit, now it makes me wanna spit

DLCSmanagement ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:56:46 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

So are grown ups ๐Ÿ˜‚ how could a grown up hate vegs? ๐Ÿคฃ Which vegs do you โ€œhateโ€?

archirat ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:35:17 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I've tried lika beans and just can't find them palatable. I'll choke them down if I have to, but as an adult i can also avoid them more adroitly.

I developed an aversion to ham when I was younger. Luckily one set of parents did 'one bite' with me and I can eat ham... 20 years later.

StopBangingThePodium ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:29:59 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Your tastebuds and your body chemistry change, as well as your ability to process complex foods.

Strong-tasting foods taste stronger to kids: Onions are a classic example. They can literally burn your mouth as a child, but as an adult, raw onions taste fine to most people in moderation.

alwaysrightusually ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:55:04 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

No, I think you always open to more options. What kid eats onion, yet....what meal can you cook without onion?

chou-navet ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:29:09 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yes! Our rule is you have to try it, and if you don't like it it can come back out. But no yucking someone else's yum-- if you don't want it it's not "ewww gross" it's "hmm, not for me!". We also really try to avoid saying "oh no she doesn't like xyz" because it puts the kid and the food in a box. "She is not interested in xyz tonight" is a statement that leaves the door wide open for the kid the next day to try it again and not be defined by hating peas!

archirat ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:23:17 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That's a really nice tip!

kelley38 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:45:10 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Its kind of interesting to see food preferences change over the years. As kids age, their senses dull, more notably the sense of smell, which can drastically change the taste of things. Broccoli, brussels, kale (all variants of the same plant) are very strong tasting, and usually fairly high up on most little kids dislike list, assumedly because because its so strong tasting. Obviously that's not a hard and fast rule, but its an easy generalization.

archirat ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:22:48 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Nice to know that my kidlet is a freak (brussels and broccoli is high on their list), but then... I always suspected... because they were my kid.

kelley38 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 06:26:03 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Kids either going to be a health nut or a serial killer :)

archirat ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 06:30:44 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Serial killer. Definitely.

MotherNerd42 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:50:40 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

True. It can take 30 tries before your taste buds can adjust to start liking a new taste. (Acquired taste!). So just keep trying.

panthera213 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 04:06:43 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

3 bite rule here. Often times you need a couple bites to truly taste a food, or it's an acquired taste. Three bites? Likely they'll enjoy it by then.

expespuella ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 06:35:14 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My policy in general is "try anything twice". Not necessarily back-to-back, because tastes change. I hated ginger for years, gave it another shot and can't get enough. Few things I've tried two or three times that I don't like.

spidergwen13 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 09:13:18 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yep, my mum always got me to do that when I was little. Iโ€™m now 16 and still hate tomatoes, but I try them at least once a year to see if my taste has changed at all (hasnโ€™t yet lol). But Iโ€™m glad i was always encouraged to try new foods!

mle12189 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 14:22:23 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I tried this with my stepson and mashed potatoes when he was 6 or so. He gagged so hard that I gagged.

Never again.

-janelleybeans- ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:30:11 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Another factor is the variety of veggie. I cannot stand the woody carrots most grocery stores carry but I love the giant CHONKS you can get in Asian markets. Love iceberg lettuce, romaine gives me instant diarrhea. Creamed corn? Gross. Niblets or on the cob? Yea. Long English cucumbers are GODS but those other seedless ones are garbage.

Sometimes itโ€™s the delivery, not the vegetable itself thatโ€™s the problem.

beardymama33 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:36:35 on May 31, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I do the one bite thing with my kids as well, i even go so far as to not tell my eldest what something is seasoned or flavored with until she tries it, usually she loves it and then gets a weird look on her face when i tell her (after she asks) what i made it with!

guest8272 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 09:59:08 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

We do the one but thing as well. He eats what we make a lot but if he doesn't like it he can choose another vegetable he likes. He has a bunch that really likes. The one bite combined with teaching him what foods are healthy and what healthy foods do for you has made him excited to eat healthy foods. Currently his favorite lunch is a spinach salad with no sauce (aka dressing). I can't even down that

AllyATK ยท 362 points ยท Posted at 19:20:12 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Raw veggies all the way. I can't stand most cooked veggies, the texture is just rhagfi. My parents get mad I don't eat steamed carrots, but I don't get why I can't just eat normal carrots lol. It's the same if not more nutrition value

kookykerfuffle ยท 431 points ยท Posted at 19:29:47 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You should try roasting your veggies instead of steaming them. The difference in flavor and texture is unbelievable. I haven't eaten a steamed veggie in close to ten years and I eat 2-4 different types of vegetables every day. It's really easy to make roasted vegetables even in just a small toaster oven.

SolanGoose ยท 104 points ยท Posted at 19:49:50 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Roasted beets mmmm

Thnik ยท 90 points ยท Posted at 20:17:03 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Roast chicken and root veggies (onion, carrot, potato, sweet potato, beet, squash, zucchini, bell pepper- mix and match your favorites) is a family favorite. It's even better with a horseradish mustard, garlic, and maple syrup glaze on the chicken.

NoNeedForAName ยท 73 points ยท Posted at 21:11:33 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I agree, but nearly half of that list isn't root veggies.

AppropriateTouching ยท 65 points ยท Posted at 21:27:32 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You've never dug up a bell pepper and went to town on it?

Muncherofmuffins ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 12:52:05 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Now I want to dig up a bell pepper, before the moles get to it.

ph11be ยท 28 points ยท Posted at 21:48:17 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Thanks for being that guy so I didn't have to be. Genuinely appreciate it.

NoNeedForAName ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 22:50:53 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Glad to be of service!

I promise I wasn't trying to be a dick. Just thought it should be pointed out.

ph11be ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:55:25 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I know! I think it's a nice service. Education is always fun ๐Ÿ˜

Thnik ยท 11 points ยท Posted at 23:03:40 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It started out as root veggies, and then we started adding other veggies that tasted good with the rest but kept calling it the same thing.

BellaxPalus ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 01:28:23 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Actually, if you really look at it, all of the vegetables listed are roots (everything from onion to beet). The others are fruits.

idwthis ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 11:47:06 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Thank you! I was gonna be the "squash and peppers are fruits" guy, but I finally found your comment. So I guess I'm just here to confirm lol

People are usually always surprised to hear those things are fruits.

AppropriateTouching ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:26:03 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It's even better with a horseradish mustard

What isnt?

FuckingGalaga ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 06:20:27 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Tell me more about this maple syrup glaze...

nicunta ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:18:15 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

No parsnips?!

Andrusela ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:37:19 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

YUM!

charisma2006 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:43:28 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Glaze recipe please?! Sounds good!!

Thnik ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 14:20:07 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Mix together 1 tablespoon of olive oil, 2 tablespoons of maple syrup, 1 heaping tablespoon of horseradish mustard, and two crushed garlic cloves. Spoon the sauce over the chicken (either a whole chicken or chicken leg quarters), if you have a lot of chicken you might have to double the amount of glaze. Do this before baking the chicken.

charisma2006 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 14:35:33 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Oh, wow. That will be delicious, and so easy!

Dogslug ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:10:02 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Roasted radishes also go really well with roast chicken. Roasted broccoli, too.

MissKit87 ยท 60 points ยท Posted at 20:23:36 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Roasted brussels sprouts insert Homer Simpson drool

exzyle2k ยท 53 points ยท Posted at 20:40:34 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Brussels sprouts roasted with garlic in bacon fat.

MissKit87 ยท 26 points ยท Posted at 20:42:38 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

... drops to one knee

nointerestsbutsleep ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 21:08:22 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

and chefโ€™s kiss

yeteee ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:34:03 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Nah, with chestnut, bacon and finished with heavy cream for the last 10 minutes. Now you can make anyone eat brussel sprouts.

tehsophz ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:50:31 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Or with sesame oil, garlic and soy sauce. I've converted Brussels haters to the point of seeing them go for seconds.

crisstiena ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:24:39 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Olive oil... vegan here.

Tushness ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:17:50 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Collards repaired the same way with pepper flakes.... Mmmm

ร‰dit: prepared not repaired

Asil_Shamrock ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:00:39 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

R-roasted . . . roasted . . . roasted collards? I think my brain just broke. I love collards. I have never cooked them. Now I must try!

AvailableWerewolf ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:29:09 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Aw man! I thought I invented that! Who told you about bacon?

exzyle2k ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 01:40:57 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Regular bacon is the gateway drug. Duck bacon is where it's at.

ohmygodwhyiaskmyself ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:52:00 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is correct.

spydermonkeej ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 14:10:20 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

We fix our sprouts by cutting in half , spreading them out in a jelly roll baking sheet. Then put a grid rack on top layered with bacon. Get a 2 for 1 that way. Bacon at that point can be used however you like

SolanGoose ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:30:52 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My ex BiL roasted them in goose fat and bacon for Christmas dinners.

crashtestgenius ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:36:20 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Roasted brussel sprouts with toasted walnuts, crumbled goat cheese, and balsamic reduction.

dolphinesque ยท 13 points ยท Posted at 20:23:11 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I've never had a roasted beet but I love roasted veggies so I am definitely doing this!

Meowzebub666 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 23:49:11 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Slice thin and toss with salt, fresh cracked black pepper and olive oil. Spread it out single layer on a foil lined baking sheet and roast. Once they're nice and caramelized, top with little dollops of fresh goat cheese and the lightest drizzle of honey. Pop it back in the oven for a few minutes and try not to shovel it all in your face in one bite.

dolphinesque ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 00:03:53 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Oh wow. This is so much better than my idea of "put in baking pan with oil and roast". WOW. Yes to this! Thank you!

BufferingJuffy ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:30:49 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

The goat cheese slices sound divine, but even just cutting the beets into wedges or cubes, and tossing with olive oil, salt, and pepper, then roasting the crap outta them results in damn fine eating.

Same for cauliflower. Steamed is gross, raw is meh, roasted is like candy from the gods.

Muncherofmuffins ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:54:00 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Beets will stain, so gloves or an apron are recommended. You can also juice beets and carrots together, pretty good!

badmonkey247 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 13:57:49 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Wash the beets and trim off the top and bottom, reserving nice-looking greens to cook separately.

Place each medium or large beet onto a small square of foil, rub with olive oil, salt, and pepper. For small beets, you can put two or three into a packet. Close the foil packet by gathering it up and twisting to form a little handle on top.

Place the foil-wrapped beets onto a cookie sheet and bake about 45 minutes at 375 or 400, until soft. Let cool a little, and the peel will slip off easily. As long as you're careful, there is virtually zero clean up with this method unless you want to wash and reuse the foil.

I always make extra so I can have beets on my lunch salad the next day.

StatesboroBluesman ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 20:16:06 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Settle down Schrute

briacoboni ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:42:51 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My favorite lazy dinner - roast whole beets with olive oil salt and pepper wrapper in foil in the oven at 400 for 50 minutes to an hour. Take out let cool, peel and dice. Put in a bowl with goat cheese, salt, pepper, and your favorite vinegar (I use white balsamic). ENJOY!

QuiQuog ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:09:45 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Raw beets taste even better.

Natacakesthefirst ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:20:58 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I usually hate boiled veg. Beets are my exception to this rule. Boiled over roasted for me!!!

AppropriateTouching ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:28:10 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Which bear is best?

Galyndean ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:27:33 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

roasted radishes.

HerbyDrinks ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:50:42 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Brussel sprouts with a little parmesan and garlic.

PepperAnn90 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:57:45 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

The restaurant I work at has roasted beets with feta on the menu and itโ€™s a weird thing to find at a place like ours but goddamn if we donโ€™t sell the shit out of them.

sweetlew07 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:39:00 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I was 29 before I ever had a roasted beet. I love them pickled and I love most veggies (can't think of one I dislike,) but holy shit roasting beets... They're so sweet. My favorites are parsnips <3

cityofalesia ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:11:42 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

underrated comment right here. radishes too, i like them raw or roasted

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BeCarefulILoveYou ยท 78 points ยท Posted at 20:39:01 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My husband swore up and down he hated cauliflower. Our deal is he tries my way of cooking and then he gets to decide if he really does hate it or just didn't like the way his mom cooked it. Roasted it with some butter, salt, pepper, garlic. He now requests it.

-mythologized- ยท 33 points ยท Posted at 00:08:06 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I thought I hated steak for my whole childhood. Turns out I just hate it well done, which is the only way my mom will make/eat it.

violettheory ยท 15 points ยท Posted at 04:21:24 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I had a similar experience. I hated steak and pork chops, and was always terrified I'd choke on it because I couldn't chew it enough to confidently be able to swallow it.

I held the opinion that steak was disgusting until I was 16 and got to go to a fancy event with my French club in high school to meet the French ambassador. There was a fancy four course dinner that was fixed menu, with only a vegetarian option. I decided to try the filet mignon and just go home hungry if I had to.

My whole world changed. I DEVOURED that steak, it was so delicious! It was then I realized that my dad and grandpa always cooked the shit out of steaks until they were shoe leather, dark gray all the way through.

Still so grateful for that dinner. Life would be different without steak.

TonninStiflat ยท 12 points ยท Posted at 01:03:40 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That's my wife. Hated steaks, hated pork, hated any kind of spices apart from black pepper. Took a few years but she loves all that stuff now.

SasquatchKillz ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 10:40:52 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'm the same way. Now there's nothing I like more than a thick medium rare steak.

Schadrach ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:54:16 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Turns out I just hate it well done

See I love my steak well done, but well done is the hardest way to get a steak done properly. There's a lot more leeway in cooking a steak medium well or less. The line between well done and overcooked is much smaller.

My wife can hit that spot consistently, she says the trick is to stop just shy of well and then let it rest covered so it finishes itself. A good marinated and seasoned well steak with a nice steak sauce (something like red wine/garlic/soy sauce/Worcestershire, reduce over low heat) is fantastic.

-mythologized- ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:08:30 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That makes sense! I wouldn't be opposed to trying a good well done steak, I just haven't had that yet.

yaarra ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 04:55:11 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Cauliflower boiled (especially too long) should be a criminal offence.

cricoceat ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 12:20:21 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I share your story, but with my husband it was any green veggie besides green beans

wobblysauce ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:35:46 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Ha, my parents did the same, mashed them into the potatoes and many other things... screw the trees. I am a LumberJack.

kniebuiging ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:39:47 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I love cauliflower. Its just for some reason there are places it really tastes like shit. I don't know what they do to it but they mess it up. At work for example the canteen has really bad cauliflower.

collidoscopeyes ยท 35 points ยท Posted at 20:35:21 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I agree with this for everything but green beans. I will steam fresh green beans until they are just barely cooked, and still really crisp. I can literally eat them like french fries that way

Azrael11 ยท 20 points ยท Posted at 22:53:52 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Sauteed green beans are the way to go. They still get that crunch and also a nice char on the outside

collidoscopeyes ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:39:57 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I cook a lot of veggies that way, but for green beans I don't like the char.

Now, with brussels sprouts... I want them damn near burned

Meowzebub666 ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 23:52:51 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

So what you're telling me is that I need to try deep fried green beans...

colorfulTypist ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 00:02:45 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Apparently fried green beans are the bomb.com

According to my brother, I was working when he and my grandma had a "fry-day" with her garden

collidoscopeyes ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:40:46 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yes. Green beans deep fried with panko breading... yes please!

marsglow ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:38:54 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You should try roasting them with olive oil and garlic!

adamolupin ยท 27 points ยท Posted at 20:05:56 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This x1000. I loathed canned veggies growing up (I was force fed them in daycare) and steamed veggies were basically canned veggies without the can. My mom liked steamed (or boiled) veggies so that was all she ate so I just grew up hating all things not potato or corn. When I got out on my own I started roasting vegetables and now my mom's still shocked that I'll ask for green beans and roasted carrots at a restaurant.

I still can't do broccoli though. Makes me vomit even if it's roasted and drowning in cheese sauce.

GBSEC11 ยท 30 points ยท Posted at 21:55:19 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Ok you say it makes you vomit but I'm going to give it a shot anyway. Toss broccoli with olive oil and some minced garlic, salt, and black pepper (be generous with all 3). Roast at 400 (Fahrenheit) for 20-25 mins until the bottoms just start to turn black and crispy. Sprinkle with grated parmesan cheese, and add a little lemon zest if you have it. My toddlers eat this like candy, and I haven't bothered making broccoli any other way since I tried this. Beats a cheese sauce for me 10/10 times.

Tinksy ยท 13 points ยท Posted at 23:07:59 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I will second this! This is the BEST way to make broccoli! I've definitely made a few "I hate broccoli" converts among my friends with it.

I put the parmesan and lemon zest (or just juice from a bottle if I don't have a lemon handy) on and then put it back in for 5 min.

The only thing with this broccoli is you have to eat it fresh! It cools fairly quickly and it's not the same cold. Time it so it's ready to plate when it finishes!

brezel_n_beer ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 04:01:27 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Not sure why this was downvoted. This is the holy grail of broccoli preparation. If you donโ€™t like broccoli and this recipe doesnโ€™t change your mind, then broccoli is over for you.

random_invisible ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 06:30:18 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Try Green Giant veggie tots. If anything can change your mind on broccoli, it's those.

adamolupin ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:40:51 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'll try that because that sounds absolutely delicious, but it's also a texture thing so I make no guarantees.

GBSEC11 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:38:38 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

For texture with this method, make sure the broccoli is completely dry before tossing with everything. It roasts better that way. Good luck!

Schadrach ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:58:00 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

and some minced garlic, salt, and black pepper (be generous with all 3).

For variety, you can replace this with basically any seasoning blend of choice. We'll do premixed steak seasoning blends, or Lawry's seasoning salt, or whatever just happens to sound good at the moment.

VividPresentation ยท 10 points ยท Posted at 22:04:28 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Whyyyyyyy do people put cheese sauce on broccoli ๐Ÿคข? Why is that even a thing?!

QuantumLeapofFaith ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 01:01:11 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I mean I love me some broccoli with just some salt and pepper but have you never tried broccoli cheddar soup? So good.

MaceGrrrL ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:02:48 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Lol I grew up having some broccoli with my cheese.

VividPresentation ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 23:03:19 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

chou-navet ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:22:26 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Cheese sauce I can take or leave. But oh man steamed broccoli with real melted cheddar cheese on top, a little salt and pepper--divine!

sweetlew07 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:44:17 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

THANK YOU IT'S SO GROSS. Broccoli has always been one of my absolute favorite veggies and I have NEVER been able to stomach cheese sauce on it. My mom is diabetic and really serious about limiting her calories, and sometimes for dinner she'll steam a bag of frozen brocc spears in the microwave, and melt shredded cheese over it... Even that I have a hard time with, but it's better than freakin cheese SAUCE.

Galyndean ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:29:22 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I still can't do broccoli though. Makes me vomit even if it's roasted and drowning in cheese sauce.

Well, there's your problem. You should do lemon juice and not processed cheese.

adamolupin ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:43:31 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That was my attempt to mask the taste and texture of the broccoli and even then I couldn't handle it. I went running for the bathroom to spit it up. I'm still willing to try though so I'm going to experiment with a recipe someone further up suggested.

Galyndean ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:58:03 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Ah yeah. If it's texture, you might just be fucked.

My husband doesn't like the texture of mushrooms, but doesn't mind the taste. I can chop them fine and put them in food and he's okay.

And really don't sweat it. My comment was mostly tongue in cheek because I have food allergies and redditors tell me all the time to eat food that will kill me. Cause, ya know, it's good for me. :D

I also don't eat cilantro because it tastes like soap, so I get it.

Good luck and hopefully you like the recipe!

adamolupin ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:07:02 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'm kind of like your husband in that I can eat cheese and broccoli soup because the broccoli is usually very finely cut up and the flavor adds to the soup. But I really do want to keep adding to my vegetable repertoire so I'm hoping to get over the texture.

And I totally get that food allergy thing. I'm lucky enough not to have any, but I have friends who do and they're also told they should eat X or Y because it's good for them and it doesn't have that much of their allergy in it.

DogsFolly ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:47:41 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I didn't understand why American kids on TV hated veggies until I moved to America and saw how my cousins' grandma cooked green beans. And worse when I found out they come in cans.

ichosethis ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:22:44 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Properly steamed veggies should still have a decent texture. Canned veggies are mushy. If they are the same to you, they were likely overdone.

wobblysauce ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:37:54 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Even the smell of them cooking set them off.

Malchius ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 20:07:28 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I was never a fussy eater, but this is what made me love vegetables.

Since then I've converted several vegetable haters to enjoy vegetables. My best mate, who wouldn't eat a meal unless it was 3/4s meat is now on his way to become a vegan .

I still eat meat, because fuck it I'm not fussy.

aPudgyDumpling ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:39:56 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

In my household we sear veggies on the grill. Season them up, load them into a wire cage thing with a handle or perforated pan and stick them on the grill, shaking them up every so often. Result is crispy, crunchy veggies with just the right amount of sear and grill flavor.

BDThrills ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 20:49:16 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I think I will try that today. I love Brussels sprouts but this last batch is really strong steamed. Iโ€™ll try sticking them in the toaster oven and see if that improves.

mak484 ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 21:24:14 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Turn your oven to 450.

Preheat the pan in the oven.

Cut the sprouts in half top to bottom. Don't cut the stems off or else they'll fall apart.

Toss the sprouts in a bit of oil. Don't salt or pepper yet.

Place the sprouts cut side down on the pan once it's heated.

Bake for 20-30 minutes. You want them to look burnt. If the bottoms aren't almost black they aren't done.

Salt and pepper after they're done.

marsglow ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:41:31 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You left out drizzling them with olive oil and sprinkling them with crushed or minced garlic.

walkinmywoods ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:31:29 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Olive or vegetable oil?

nathanielKay ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:39:14 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Either works, but melted butter is by far the best.

AppropriateTouching ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:25:37 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is for real. Steamed is trashed after you've tried roasted. Roasted potatoes, carrots, and garlic (onion too if youre into that) is an awesome combo.

Tennis85 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:10:54 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I hate steamed or blanched vegetables, but will eat almost anything roasted and spiced

JanMichaelLarkin ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:41:24 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Roasted taters, hobbits

CyberneticPanda ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:05:22 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

With only a couple of exceptions, i roast em all, too. a little balsamic and pepper drizzled and ground over them makes just about any roasted veggie amazing.

Lil2Soaps ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:30:50 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Never ate cooked carrots til I lived on my own and roasted them. So delicious!

Tbf, my family doesnโ€™t really eat carrots to begin with and did all the cooking at home while I worked and went to school (commuted). I never thought of roasting them or suggesting it lol

Jarix ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:24:53 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Or bbq

sometimesiamdead ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:53:28 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

So worth it.

Sheant ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:39:33 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

But raw carrots are the bomb, while roasted/steamed/pickled/deep fried/whatevered carrots are meh. Same for cauliflower and a few others.

PotentBeverage ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:46:39 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Roasting or stir frying, have a dish which has both meat and vegetables, and add soy sauce

Viclizabeth ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:18:42 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Or an air fryer yum

DeaconBlues666 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:12:45 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yep, yep, and.....yep.

ichosethis ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:19:11 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Roasted>sauteed>steamed>boiled>>>>>canned

goodwid ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:30:51 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Wok-fried veggies are amazing, too. My go-to recently is stir fried broccoli with almond slivers.

i_see_shiny_things ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:48:00 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I roast carrots all the time. Itโ€™s a great sub for French fries

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:23:26 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You are the reason the term โ€œbig brainโ€ exists. Roasted vegetables > all other ways

NinaCulotta ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:58:50 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I usually stir-fry or microwave.

violettheory ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:16:35 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Or sauteed in a pan! Brussel sprouts sauteed in olive oil (or bacon fat if you have it, bacon fat is only 30 more calories per table spoon than olive oil and adds so much more flavor!) until browned, sprinkled with garlic powder, salt, and pepper, and then steamed with a table spoon or two of water with the lid on are DIVINE! Literally my favorite vegetable of all time.

I grew up hating veggies (except a few raw ones with lots of ranch) because my mother only made canned veggies boiled in their own liquid. A can of green beans dumped into a pot and boiled with a bit of salt was an almost nightly staple. It was a struggle to eat it every time. I fucking hated it, and still do. Now, fresh green beans sauteed or roasted? Hell yeah give me an extra scoop.

I feel like most kids who grew up hating veggies had similar experiences.

cash_grass_or_ass ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:30:42 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Roasting the chicken bones and veggies gives a really sweet, umami flavour to the soup

bordeaux_vojvodina ยท -2 points ยท Posted at 00:08:06 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Roasted vegetables are terrible.

tinkerballer ยท 77 points ยท Posted at 19:38:58 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I had a compromise with my mum as a kid that I ate the same food as her as long as my veggies werenโ€™t cooked. It worked great and didnโ€™t add any extra prep time for meals so both of us were happy. To this day I have the same meals as my partner just with crunchy veggies vs his steamed/roasted ones.

I guess it worked and went to show I wasnโ€™t fussy about eating things, I just prefer different textures and I think thatโ€™s a fair way of raising kids.

dogtroep ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 23:37:05 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Thatโ€™s how we do it too. I canโ€™t stand the texture of most cooked veg, so I am not gonna force the kiddo to eat them if I wouldnโ€™t.

Altoid_Addict ยท 21 points ยท Posted at 19:56:44 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Could be they're overcooked. I grew up eating massively overcooked veggies, so it was just normal to me, but when I got married my wife reacted like I was a madman because she can't stand overcooked broccoli or anything else. Overcooked still doesn't really bother me, but they taste much better when they're just perfectly done.

Lesty7 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:56:35 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah Iโ€™ll eat any type of raw or cooked veggies and be perfectly content. I was never a picky eater. My brother, however, made a scene when we were picking a place to eat at Disney World because the sign said โ€œall beef hotdogsโ€ and he just wanted regular hotdogs. We still poke fun at him for that one.

doc_skinner ยท 18 points ยท Posted at 20:56:07 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)*

the texture is just rhagfi.

Slight digression: is "rhagfi" a word, an acronym, an onomatopoeia, a typo, or something else?

colorfulTypist ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 00:05:03 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Its a feeling

ebeth_the_mighty ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 02:40:02 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I think itโ€™s onomatopoeic for โ€œmakes me want to ralphโ€

acoustic_girl ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 09:11:52 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Say it out loud and you can feel it.

elladexter ยท 43 points ยท Posted at 19:39:38 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)*

fuck steamed veggies. My fiance and I got an air fryer and OMG VEGETABLES ARE SOOOOOO MUCH BETTER NOW and I liked most veggies to begin with!

Olive oil, paprika, salt and pepper on your carrots. Pop em in the air fryer (I have no idea what temp or how long. The air fryer is her territory). So fucking good.

For broccoli we do something similar but we also use some crushed red pepper. Sometimes we throw some cheese in there. Pop em in the air fryer and boom, fucking delicious.

Only vegetable I won't eat is cauliflower. So damn tasteless, I can't stand it. No amount of seasoning is enough to make cauliflower taste good if you ask me. She made cauliflower rice once. Must have put half a damn bottle of cayenne on there to make it edible. Maybe it was chili seasoning? Idk, one or the other. It was a lot.

Edit: last night when I got home my fiance tried to make me eat cauliflower. I said no. I know, you can make it good, but I think I'm just scarred.

Eulers_ID ยท 33 points ยท Posted at 20:19:44 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Not to discount your experience, but I see people steam and blanch vegetables incorrectly so often that it makes me wonder if the hate people have for them is due to poor cooking technique. Though I will admit that roasting is great.

VividPresentation ยท 17 points ยท Posted at 21:54:33 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Facts. Most veg seems to be best either roasted if root or cruciferous, or else very gently sautรฉed if leafy. My second cousin declared that she hated spinach. Turns out, her mom only ever served it boiled. I talked the kid into trying it once more, but my way: sautรฉed in butter with onions and crushed garlic, seasoned with salt and a light sprinkle of cayenne. Cook only until the leaves wilt. One taste and then, wouldnโ€™t you know, kid refused to eat any vegetables unless Auntie Vivid made them. (Her mom is now low key mad at me for โ€œshowing her upโ€. Canโ€™t win...)

Mommabearofthree ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 13:41:47 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

What the hell did she expect, serving boiled fucking spinach? That's the worst way to serve spinach, or any leafy green. I can't get my kid to eat anything naturally green, green suckers are a go, and I steam or sautรฉe with butter and seasonings. My second kid happily eats what I put in front of them, though he's only one. The last one of super easy, he only drinks milk.

Schadrach ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:00:39 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My second cousin declared that she hated spinach. Turns out, her mom only ever served it boiled.

I was in the same boat. Found out I love it raw, it's my preferred salad green.

Lesty7 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:52:03 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Give the kid a recipe and tell her this is how you make your veggies, and itโ€™s easy for anyone to do it. The kid will hopefully give the recipe to her mom. Then her mom can make it without losing face or feeling like you showed her up. Itโ€™s pretty lame that sheโ€™d rather her kid just not eat veggies than simply ask you how you do it, but some people have fragile egos that need to be carefully navigated around for the sake of the child.

elladexter ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:07:20 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I used to love steamed veggies. Then I started air frying them and I donโ€™t think Iโ€™ll ever go back. Now? Fuck em. Air fried is so much better. IMO, of course.

Wsweg ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:06:01 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

If done properly, do they still have that awful texture?

Linus_in_Chicago ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:12:41 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

They should be brightly colored and still have a little snap to em. I'm steamed veggies all day, but I like veggies every which way, to be fair.

VividPresentation ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 22:00:17 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

When done right, the texture shouldnโ€™t suffer. Leafy greens should be very slightly crisp. And all veg should still look very vibrant when done. I call it the Technicolor look: the colors should be really intense and lively. There are few things prettier than a tray of correctly roasted sweet potatoes and broccoli florets.

Eulers_ID ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:16:22 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I guess it depends on what you think is awful, since it's going to be a little different than sauteed or roasted. That said, a lot of the times I see vegetables that are steamed or boiled until they're mushy. If done properly, they should come out with a fair bit of that crispy bite left and have more color, not less, than when they were raw. Green beans should still have a noticeable crunch if done right, which I would definitely classify as not awful.

ColourfulConundrum ยท 30 points ยท Posted at 19:50:54 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Cauliflower rice is awful, but cauliflower with cheese, or added into mashed potato, or just cooked the same as any other veggie is great.

SurreallyAThrowaway ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:06:33 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Cauliflower rice is not great, but cauliflower fried rice is decent.

Ari3n3tt3 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:47:57 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

cauliflower tastes the way farts smell

RegularWoahMan ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:22:07 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Cauliflower is one of my favorites, but only when used as a vessel for something flavorful. Cheese, buffalo sauce, gochujang, roasted with spices, whatever. Load it up!

Iโ€™m a big sucker for cauliflower wings because I can eat them forever and never get full, unlike chicken wings which eventually catch up with me.

Gogo726 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:52:45 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'm trying to eat healthier so I appreciate this post in figuring out different ways to prepare vegetables

mak484 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:26:59 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Roasted cauliflower tossed with curry powder, salt, and cayenne is the only way to go. If you don't like curry then don't bother.

basketma12 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:22:58 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It's good mashed, with gravy

Tobix55 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:50:24 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I really like pickled cauliflower

bulleybeef ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:09:49 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Ok hear me out: Roast your cauliflower on high heat with a ton of olive oil, salt, smoked paprika and loads of garlic cloves (peeled) for 45 mins. Pop into a bowl and dump a ton of hummus on it then top with pomegranate seeds. And that's how I learned to love cauliflower.

Gamer_Mommy ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:09:58 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Try nutmeg in your cauliflower along with salt and pepper. Kids won't stop eating it and they hate cauliflower.

Viclizabeth ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:19:14 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Air fryer yum

Heidzilla ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:04:37 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

i think cauliflower has flavor, itโ€™s just mild and hard to describe. to me, raw cauliflower tastes like a radish with a lot less spice. i think kohlrabi has a similar flavor, but with the texture of a crisp apple. but thereโ€™s definitely a flavor there.

i think it does lose some flavor when itโ€™s cooked (steamed, specifically), but cauliflower can be a great substitute in potato dishes. i made a loaded cauliflower casserole this past weekend with all the same delicious things you would use in a โ€˜loadedโ€™ potato dish (cheese, sour cream, bacon bits, chives, cream cheese, etc) and it was delicious.

Savalavaloy ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:19:48 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I could never ever eat cauliflower. My family boiled it, and when you bit into it it tasted like a fart and gushed your mouth with water. Even adding cheese sauce didn't help.

I moved out, and decided for the last time to try a cauliflower. I put a cauliflower in the oven with oil and salt, and holy moly, I don't think I've ever loved a vegetable as much. If you let it burn a little it tastes so damn amazing and I could eat it so often, but they're just so expensive.

Still hate broccoli though

violettheory ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:27:59 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Have you ever had cauliflower in a curry? It's a very subtle flavor but it's a nice texture addition and a good way to bulk up a curry easy. Just toss with curry powder and olive oil, roast until it's almost done, and then throw into the finished curry to simmer for a couple minutes. Quite good imo.

boykop ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:15:44 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

try indian vegetarian dishes - aloo gobi is a well-known dish with potatoes and cauliflower, and it's rather good. A lot of these dishes are sauted or roasted, and they don't just add a ton of pepper or chilli - there's other spices like turmeric, coriander, cumin, etc, which complement cooked vegetable dishes very well

ZedarFlight ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:28:06 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Ooh, my roommate got an air fryer last week, I'll have to figure out specifics on how hot and how long, but that sounds awesome.

Ladywader ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:20:28 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Roasted cauliflower with plenty of salt and garlic is the only way itโ€™s edible to me.

rumade ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:36:17 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yes! Its gorgeous roasted with fennel seeds and cumin too. Other than roasted, the only way I've enjoyed cauliflower is fried with curry spices.

lang12 ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 19:44:17 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Steamed carrots are kinda meh for me unless you dice them into small pieces.

If im eating them raw tho i usually just grate them. Or stir fry a bit untill theyre halfway between soft and hard. Steamed soft vegetables kinda suck, there's no texture

PokingCactus ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 23:09:48 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I convinced my mom to let me have some raw carrots whenever she cooked them for dinner. So I'd just get a little bowl full of raw carrots instead of the tasteless yuck that was cooked (still appreciate my mom for that!)

1fakeengineer ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:10:31 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I hate cooked carrots a ton, but will munch on raw carrots, especially baby carrots (convenience) all day.

goose_meats ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:10:03 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

what's rhagfi

AllyATK ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 02:20:48 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It's what happened when I smashed a couple keys to express my disgust for cooked vegetables

poliuy ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:59:24 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I live burnt veggies.

AirMittens ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:27:59 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Iโ€™m sorry, what is rhagfi

Capt_Gingerbeard ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:04:12 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

rhagfi

What?

sp1d3_b0y ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:12:24 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

my mom makes carrots in this sugar water concoction and she roasts them on the stove and i love them

Linus_in_Chicago ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:14:04 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That's basically candied carrots. Delicious, but covering veggies in sugar isn't the healthiest way to go.

I would never turn them down myself, though.

sp1d3_b0y ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:17:40 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Itโ€™s not actually sugar i think, i have no idea what she actually uses, i think itโ€™s butter? Maybe? Bro i have no idea but theyโ€™re good. If it is sugar, the sugar is boiled down so itโ€™s mostly just the flavor left over. I have no idea

shhsandwich ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:59:49 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I grew up eating pretty much only canned vegetables and I can't stomach any raw vegetables now. I love boiled veggies though. Turnips are my favorite. I think part of it is what you grow up eating. If it's not mushy, I don't usually like it. The crunch of raw veggies freaks me out. I do like some raw fruits though.

FlaminKeane ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:23:18 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

try stir frying them. I come from Hong Kong and we stir fry most of our veggies. If you want a challenge in cooking, boil them in water seasoned with ginger and salt, then serve with Oyster Sauce. damn, i want a plate now

greg-en ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:44:01 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I hated veggies almost my whole life. The smell of cooked broccoli and brussel sprouts grossed me out.

Hung out with a group of friends pretty regularly and took turns bringing food. One buddy who knew I hated most veggies joked that I loved my veggies, and one guy didn't get the sarcasm. Do the next get-together he brought an expensive veggies platter from Costco.

I felt bad that he got it because he thought I liked veggies so I forced myself to eat some, and was blown away hot GOOD raw veggies were!

Didn't even need dip!

BadgerBreath ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:48:56 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Knowledge from nutritionist: some veggies require being heated/cooked to release certain nutrients.

trinketsandbiscuits ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:28:11 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Rhagfi?? Hahaha is this a sound you make?

regalAugur ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:38:12 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

i was punished as a kid for not eating steamed carrots (texture made me gag) and ever since then i can't even eat the raw ones

AllyATK ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:35:26 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Dang. Luckily my parents are just disappointed in me when I don't eat them but punishing a kid for not eating something because the texture makes them gag is horrible. Obviously not the worst thing a parent can do, but still not right

regalAugur ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:38:38 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

it was the last time i remember my dad getting out the ol' belt, which i'd say was definitely pretty extreme for a 7 year old girl

forwardprogresss ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:55:05 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I feel you. My parents are from the mid west and veggies were mostly from frozen, then microwaved for about 15 minutes. They were gobsmacked when I put FRESH brussels in the oven. They separately pulled me aside and asked about cheese sauce. Then the sprouts weren't done because they weren't "soft", but both parents actually liked them, to their surprise.

maulidon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:21:03 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

rhagfi

Iโ€™m sorry what??

gnarlysmh ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:52:33 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Oh my god this. I hate any sort of cooked carrots, raw all the way, but steamed/boiled broccoli beats raw broccoli any day of the week. Pretty crazy to think about imo

buschamongtrees ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:33:54 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)*

Pretty sure steamed veggies as a whole are actually more nutritious than raw because your body can absorb nutrients. Carrots for sure, but there are others too.

Doctor_Harliquin ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:14:34 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Seriously, if I want veggies I want them raw. Maybe boiled, but roasted and steamed are the worst most of the time with a few exceptions.

Bell peppers don't taste terrible roasted, they just have way to many calories.

savvyblackbird ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 09:30:23 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Just make sure you eat fat with them so you absorb the fat soluble nutrients. Cooking makes some nutrients easier to absorb, but you need fat with them, too.

mh1ultramarine ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:21:47 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Have you tried not boiling all taste and texture out like a 50s house wife?

Masked_Death ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:58:06 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

How streamed/cooked are they? Personally I like steamed broccoli and the tiny carrot things if they're not hard, but still a bit crunchy. But overcooked, mushy veggies make me want to barf

tyndyrn ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:26:20 on May 31, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I totally agree, I love raw carrots but cannot stand cooked carrots.The only recipe I have discovered that I can eat cooked carrots in is a recipe for pickled carrots. The pickling overcomes the cooked carrot taste.

toadette_xx ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 13:59:08 on June 1, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

We love the flavor of the cooked veggies in our soup, but we donโ€™t like the mushiness. So when we make soup and we boil up all the veggies, we take out the veggies and like a cup or so of the broth, and put them in a blender and pour it back in the soup. This way, you get the flavor and nutrients still, but donโ€™t get that mush

SlabDabs ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 21:48:27 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is because steamed veggies are total trash with no texture. Of course you won't like them.

PureMitten ยท 29 points ยท Posted at 19:56:20 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'm an adult and I still don't get what the fucking problem with me eating raw vegetables was. There were only 3 of us (mom, grandma and me) and I'd plow through raw vegetables, they saw me eat an entire head of lettuce by myself in an afternoon once and entire cucumbers many times but it was somehow too hard or unacceptable to not cook all of the vegetables for dinner? Nonsense.

MetaMetatron ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 03:40:17 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That's fucking crazy, if the kid asks for raw veggies, you fucking give the kid all the raw veggies he or she wants, that's insane!

Lesty7 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:02:34 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Iโ€™ve never heard of a kid eating an entire head of lettuce. Thatโ€™s amazing. I would probably film it because nobody would believe me. Were you making salads with it or just eating it like an apple? I really hope itโ€™s the latter.

PureMitten ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:01:18 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I peeled the leaves off and ate them individually

Lesty7 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:01:38 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Lol alright thatโ€™s a happy medium. I donโ€™t really understand eating raw lettuce, though. It just tastes like crunchy water to me lol. Iโ€™ve always wondered why anyone would enjoy that, but I know they do.

PureMitten ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:24:27 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

The appeal was exactly eating a lot of crunchy water. I got to crunch away endlessly without getting full

Bizmythe ยท 21 points ยท Posted at 20:01:48 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I was this way too. Turns out I don't dislike cooked vegetables, I dislike poorly cooked vegetables. Appearrantly parents turning their kids off of vegetables with their bad cooking is a common problem.

NoNeedForAName ยท 10 points ยท Posted at 21:22:54 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You're definitely not wrong there. It was never an issue with me, but every time similar comment threads come up (which is surprisingly common) there are loads of people who say that they thought they hated veggies until they grew up and tried veggies that were cooked well.

random_invisible ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:34:22 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'm from the uk. My mum boiled them with no seasonings and they were often mushy as well.

NaughtyNellie9 ยท 15 points ยท Posted at 19:48:25 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

One of my kids has requested we stop cooking his veges for over 2yrs. He prefers them raw and I know itโ€™s healthier so why stop him? Sometimes I forget and get in trouble, lol.

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:29:14 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

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NaughtyNellie9 ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 22:12:36 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Research raw eating. Some nutrients are lost in cooking process, so eating raw maximises nutrients. And I wash our veges, not for snot but for pesticides.

ajg4000 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:24:41 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

thats not always true. it depends on cooking method and vegetable but cooking can sometimes change up the molecules in a good way.

look it up LOL

electric_paganini ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:02:22 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

If I recall, your body prefers and gets more nutrients out of cooked carrots vs raw.

bordeaux_vojvodina ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:12:20 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)
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bordeaux_vojvodina ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 00:25:26 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My favourite is raw water which is just untreated water containing all the viruses and bacteria that you would expect.

It's a real thing unfortunately.

Lesty7 ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 18:06:23 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Iโ€™d imagine that could actually be pretty safe and probably even better for your immune system, but it would also largely depend on where youโ€™re getting your water from.

Gallaga07 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:21:43 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You have to rub your broccoli with crystals first, everyone knows that

NaughtyNellie9 ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 04:03:12 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I am not going to get into a debate over my comment to someone asking if raw food was better for you. IMO it is, based on what I have read and what I know in myself. And I am quite fine with that. If my comment came off as rude, it wasnโ€™t meant to. Because I am not rude. Ok? We all good now?

bordeaux_vojvodina ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 10:52:00 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Well you're wrong.

NaughtyNellie9 ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 14:27:18 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yep. You are right. Raw vegetables are just dangerous. Is that better?

bordeaux_vojvodina ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 14:38:51 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

No, that's also wrong.

ajg4000 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 11:44:02 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

that doesn't make any sense. you literally told everyone to research it believing you researched enough to determine the fundamental truth. and once someone debunked your claim with research, you get all defensive.

IMO it is, based on what I have read and what I know in myself

you know in yourself?! that means you are close minded not open to new research

NaughtyNellie9 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 14:28:36 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yep, close minded because I believe raw vegetables are better for you. No worries. You do you, I will do me. Was not rude. Now just over this. Oh, I told one person? Not everyone. Done.

sometimesiamdead ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:50:11 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I do this with my son. If he doesn't like the veggies I cook he can have any raw ones we have. And if he doesn't like the meat served he needs to try one bite then he can have extra veggies.

It's worked, he loves veggies.

colorfulTypist ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:31:18 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Its the whole choice on the matter, like if I dont like option a, and option b is something I (even moderately) enjoy, I'm picking option b every time.

The rule in our family is you have to take one bite before you decide you don't like it.

sometimesiamdead ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:44:44 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Same here. One bite then he can choose something else.

astrangeone88 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:24:06 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'm Chinese Canadian.... My family dies not understand raw veggies are life. Cooked veggies have a weird texture (and this is coming from someone who used toeat a ton of sprouts) and they soak up whatever they are cooked in. Fresh veggies taste wonderful and crispy and juicy and cold....

prettyorganist ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:40:39 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My son hates salad, but my husband and I love it. I'm not going to make the kid eat something he hates, so when we have salad as a side, he gets to eat carrots--which he loves. I think about all the black eyed peas and lima beans I had to eat growing up (and the gagging that followed) and just do not want to do that to my kid. If he can get nutrients with a veggie he likes, that's fine with me.

GerglyShmergs ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:48:27 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Oh man, Iโ€™ll munch on all sorts of raw veggies all day, but most cooked veggies arenโ€™t something I can stomach, especially if theyโ€™re steamed.

My biggest exception to the rule? Brussels sprouts. Cook those up on a skillet with olive oil, Parmesan, and some salt & pepper, and youโ€™ve got a fantastic side.

aniar00 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:35:01 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Mini malicious compliance:

I love veggies, my parents never had to force me to eat any veggie. Meat? I was picky.

At 13 my mom got fed up and said,

Mom: "You might might as well become a vegetarian!"

Me: "Fine I will."

Mom: "Ha I'd like to see that."

Was vegetarian for 8 years after that.

Computant2 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:22:53 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I have one kid that loves cucumber and lettuce and hates broccoli and brussel sprouts. Another kid who loves broccoli and brussel sprouts but hates cucumbers and lettuce. I alternate and don't insist that they eat the veggies they hate, the amount of the ones they love that they scarf down is plenty.

IMIndyJones ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:13:21 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That is lucky! I lost the battle of French cut green beans in '75. Had to sit at the table staring at those slicey edged worms til bedtime.

WildestParsnip ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:49:43 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Are they raw or overcooked? Explain, for I do not know.

colorfulTypist ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:10:19 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'm thinking they were overcooked, they were mushy, and gross, I still can't even think about eating peas without gagging, it was to this day one of the nastiest things I've eaten

callalilykeith ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:43:38 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My kid also just really likes raw vegetables. I got a veggie tray and just cut up his fav vegetables. It has a lid so I just take it out when he doesnโ€™t want whatever cooked vegetables we are having.

Just really not into cooked vegetables. Heโ€™s almost 5 and I have zero problem making him a veggie tray every week.

Awardwinningsoup ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:57:06 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I won the great pea conflict of โ€˜89 and to this day prefer my veggies raw.

OraDr8 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:07:10 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Same with my kids. If there's a certain veggie they don't like, that's fine as long as it can be substituted by another. My son hates pumpkin but will eat sweet potato so why bother forcing him to eat pumpkin? My mum was the type to force me to sit at the table, for hours of necessary, until I ate everything even though I wasn't very fussy and usually ate well enough but the few times there was something I didn't like, or worse just had too much on my plate for me to manage in one go (I'm small) I was forced to choke it down and not leave the table until was eaten or time for bed, whichever came first.

Here I am in my mid 40s and have just been diagnosed with an eating disorder, what a shock.

sguidi22 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:07:36 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This mentions of peas just made me remember how one time at the dinner table when I was little, I didnโ€™t want to eat my peas, but I wasnโ€™t allowed to get up until I did. Instead, I smushed each one individually and my dad came out and started laughing hysterically. My family called me the โ€œpea popperโ€ for years lmao.

maniaxuk ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 09:53:10 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Another raw veggie eater!, Thank you!

Although not liking peas?, what's wrong with you man!...erm...woman!, erm...self defining person!...erm...citizen of the universe!

Portal_to_the_Dream ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 11:02:51 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yep. Ever had a tomato off the vine instead of out of Wal-Mart? Waaay different, don't even taste the same.

UnihornWhale ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 11:21:36 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Same. Raw or undercooked FTW

Psyko_sissy23 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:56:02 on June 2, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I hate peas. I was the same way. I'd rather eat more salad than certain veggies. Roasted veggies are good though. Only way I'll eat cooked veggies by themselves.

FuddieDuddie ยท 95 points ยท Posted at 18:47:12 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I know. I remember the โ€œif you donโ€™t eat what I serve, you wonโ€™t eat at all.โ€ That was if I didnโ€™t like one thing, like boiled Brussel sprouts. Iโ€™d eat everything else, but they put those cold balls of stink in the fridge and serve them back up. This was pre microwave days, so cold.

I ended up with an eating disorder, and wound up huge. 440 pounds at my highest. I lost 165 pounds, but Iโ€™m still not right, and itโ€™s a daily struggle.

Astromatix ยท 43 points ยท Posted at 19:37:22 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Boiled Brussels sprouts sound absolutely heinous. Now, you roast those bad boys? I could eat that all day.

tommywhatever ยท 11 points ยท Posted at 19:55:17 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Throw a lardons or balsamic glaze drizz'd on top and we're in business, baby!

Jiffs81 ยท 10 points ยท Posted at 20:19:07 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

In a frying pan with bacon, apples and onions... Tasty breakfast hash (or dinner side!)

ScriptThat ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 07:19:17 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Do you use them whole, halved, quartered, peeled into loose leaf, or some other way?

It sounds delicious, and I want to try it.

Jiffs81 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 07:29:33 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Depending on the size of them I'll halve or quarter them. You want to be able to get a bit of everything on your fork. Large dice on the apple, bacon and onion. And just a warning, the apples hold a TON of heat, more than the rest, so there's a good chance you'll burn your mouth if you just shove a big bite in lol

GringoinCDMX ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:14:54 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Brussels sprouts and bacon or panceta is awesome. Render fat from the bacon or panceta. Remove cooked bacon/panceta from pan. I use a cast iron skillet so I throw the Brussels sprouts in and toss for a few minutes above the flame and then I move it to the oven at about 375 until they start to get crispy. Remove from oven, reintroduce cooked bacon/panceta, squeeze some lemon on it and toss. You can feel free to throw some salsa or hot sauce in with them as well. Delicious and super easy.

Xarxsis ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:18:05 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Boiled sprouts are fine, but they only get 3-5 mins like you would do broccoli or carrots

LavernicaDeLuca ยท 44 points ยท Posted at 19:51:46 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Your story reminds me a lot of the way my husband was raised. His step mother never allowed any food waste. If you couldn't eat all of your cereal at breakfast, it went in the fridge and you had to eat it before you could eat dinner that night. No snacks ever. You ate what was put in front of you. Must drink a gallon of water per day but none of that gallon could be at school so a gallon of water between 3pm and bedtime.

Both kids ended up with disordered eating habits. My husband has binge eating disorder. His brother is the opposite, rarely eats and struggles to gain any weight.

new2it ยท 14 points ยท Posted at 22:05:29 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

/r/insaneparents material right there

LavernicaDeLuca ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 02:54:59 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah, his upbringing was pretty fucked up. His mom died shortly after he was born and his dad married the first woman who he thought could be a "good mother." He thought this because she had a disabled daughter and somehow that makes her a good parent? This woman was horrible and did so many fucked up things. His dad was some combination of stupid, oblivious (probably too drunk to notice, he's a high functioning alcoholic although he's sober now), and busy to intervene and be a fucking parent to his kids. He let this bitch torment his kids in so many ways and completely wreck their mental health.

theonlybarbie ยท 51 points ยท Posted at 19:30:01 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I always felt like this was child abuse. My first husband tried that shit on our son and found out quick that I was not going to allow that to happen. Sadly, this was the mild side of his bullying.

dadomi3 ยท 54 points ยท Posted at 19:43:38 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I have 2 sisters-one was very much 'eat what's your plate, there's children starving in the world who would be grateful for that ', and the other used to offer choices 'you can choose peas, carrots or cauliflower, which do you prefer?' It meant that her children still had some control over what they ate and felt like their views were heard, whilst still eating reasonably healthy. Guess which of my nieces and nephews have a healthy relationship with food and which don't...

mrsflibbleseyes ยท 42 points ยท Posted at 19:57:53 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Giving a child a choice even if it's a limited one is such a valuable tool. Too many parents are bogged down in making their child obey and eat/do what's right or correct in their eyes. It's so much healthier (in all ways) to give a child a choice and listen to their views & respect their boundaries.

dadomi3 ยท 19 points ยท Posted at 20:06:27 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Definitely. And because they knew that she was flexible and they had some choice, it meant that they were happy enough to try most things, because they knew she wouldn't force them to eat it all up if they didn't like it. The other thing she did that I thought was very sensible was not to have 'treats' or use food as a reward. Some days they had dessert, some days they didn't, and that was regarded as normal food. There was never any 'you've been really well behaved today so I'll reward you with candy.' For snacks, she offered choices too-they could choose between pieces of fruit, or crackers, or fruit roll ups (like beef jerky except made with semi dried fruit) or an iced lollipop etc, and more often than not they'd go for fruit (except my oldest nephew who always wanted crackers and cheese)

random_invisible ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:39:12 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Crackers are cheese are awesome

Ceeweedsoop ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 20:11:53 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

How does it get to that point? I can't remember a time I didn't eat vegetables, obviously because I was a baby when they were first airplaned into the hangar. It was just a continuous part of meals. Did picky kids get introduced to veggies at an older age? What happened? My nephew is so picky it's just a control struggle. He stopped eating them when he dicovered that acting like a big baby would get him what he preferred. Pizza and nuggets, McD's and soda.

bow_down_whelp ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:06:24 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I've used everything at some point including the starving children thing. But the reverse psychology works the best. They won't eat peas? Next time it's peas and something they really hate, and voilla, they eat the peas! Stuff like breads with dinner I only give them after they have actually ate some of it, rather than fill themselves up on bread

random_invisible ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:37:57 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I never understood the "there are kids starving" argument.

They can't eat so I'm supposed to eat more than I need when I'm not hungry?

BrethrenLucidCrow ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:34:40 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Did they really keep three kinds of fresh veggies available at all times? That seems like an expensive nightmare to do. I feel like half the parenting tips people give are hopelessly time consuming or unreasonably expensive. Like that's nice if you have a nanny and no budget constraints, but the rest of us have 30 minutes and $5 to cook and serve a meal to 4 kids.

dadomi3 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:44:59 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

At the time, she was a stay at home mom, but she was trained as a chef so everything was cooked from scratch. She didn't cook all the veg, she asked them what they preferred and then cooked it. We're rural, so she got most of her fresh produce from farm shops directly, far cheaper than supermarkets or processed ready meals.

BrethrenLucidCrow ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:51:32 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Exactly, stay at home mom, professional chef. Ain't nobody with a job got time to cook like that. People's expectations of parents are unrealistic.

dadomi3 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:13:51 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

She went back to work when the youngest started school, and still cooked from scratch. Chopping a few carrots is as quick as defrosting frozen veg, and far cheaper. It needs a bit of organisation, sure, but its doable. Slow cooker and weekly meal prep help. Plus you're not filling your kids with junk high fat high sugar convenience crap. Each to their own, I suppose.

BrethrenLucidCrow ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 22:41:57 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

lol Clearly never been poor if you think fresh veggies are cheaper than frozen or canned. Some root veggies, like potatoes and carrots, are cheaper fresh, but most aren't. Plus frozen doesn't spoil like fresh do, so less wasted money and you can shop less often. To each their own privilege, I suppose.

dadomi3 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:50:18 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Bought directly from the farm, yes, definitely far cheaper. As I said, we were rural-many farms sold fruit and veg, most offered a mixed box for far less than it was in supermarkets. It meant we generally ate seasonally. It's still like this in many rural areas in Europe.

merrymagdalen ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:26:04 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Depending on where you are, fresh produce is cheaper than anything else. BUT frozen is just as good if you don't have access to fresh locally AND canned has made huge strides into the modern era, just look at the can to understand the ingredients.

Worthyness ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:41:38 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Highly depends on how it's implemented. My parents did "eat my food and what i cook or make your own damn food". Same concept because a majority of the time, kids aren't willing to cook for themselves. 99% of the time didn't bother combating because I'm too lazy to cook something. But that 1% of the time, they just made sure I didn't fuck over the stove/cookware or waste any food.

salgat ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 07:02:33 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It depends on what and how you serve. You serve good quality food, it's absolutely not. Children need to learn not to be picky. Remember, humans originally ate foraged food like roots, nuts, veggies, and the occasional wild game, the food we serve today is by comparison quite nice as long as it's prepared properly. The key is to be nice about it. "Here is what we're having today, if you don't want to eat it you don't have to, but that doesn't mean you can choose something else to replace it".

theonlybarbie ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:00:55 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

He ate so little as a child, I was just thrilled when he ate. I it, if I don't like something, I don't eat it . But, my son will at least try it before he doesn't eat it.

cornicat ยท 11 points ยท Posted at 19:31:57 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Iโ€™m not sure if this is offensive or not but wow, username checks out. My naive brain canโ€™t comprehend a time without microwaves. This explains why my friend doesnโ€™t own one, she probably grew up never using it and didnโ€™t see the point.

dadomi3 ยท 17 points ยท Posted at 19:49:43 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Way back in the early 1980s, my dad was given a reward for working for 25 years for the same company-they got given a choice of a watch or a microwave oven so he chose that. It was enormous, all it did was heat up or defrost, no fancy settings for defrosting fish, meat or bread etc, very basic. They cost about ยฃ300 back then I think. My mother's friends would come and visit and get really excited by it, mum was the first one of them to get one. And this was England, not some tiny backwater somewhere.

R1k0Ch3 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:06:17 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Please do not use a microwave to thaw meats or fish jesus that's not good.

dadomi3 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:10:04 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I never do, it makes meat go all tough. My mum was so thrilled with it that she tried to do everything in the microwave and we ended up having some very odd dinners until she got the hang of it. Microwaved croissants was probably the worst-instead of a few minutes in the oven to warm up, they were incinerated in the microwave for a few minutes, brown and crunchy the whole way through.

R1k0Ch3 ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 21:00:35 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It also lets the meat be at bacteria's favorite temperatures for an extended period increasing your risk of food borne illness.

Always thaw in a fridge or under cool, running water. Not directed at you but anyone scrolling by who might fancy those stupid buttons on the microwave. And I'm terribly sorry about the croissants lol

bordeaux_vojvodina ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:14:35 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I can't believe people still eat meat considering all the faff that goes into making it not kill you.

R1k0Ch3 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 00:45:13 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Our species has been at it for a long time. And there are certainly plenty of cuts that can be consumed safely raw [sushi, tar tar, etc] but when you're talking your everyday grocery store stuff better safe than sorry.

That being said I understand your sentiment and if you came over for dinner I'd make something amazing sans animal products if that's what you're into, I don't discriminate [and there's lots of delicious anddd nutritious vegan food for sure.]

salgat ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:04:20 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That's only true if you leave it out long enough. You're actually more susceptible to bacteria if you leave the meat out to thaw on the countertop since it takes longer to fully thaw (which means that part of it is thawed for an extended period of time).

darthcoder ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:14:46 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My parents still have their microwave from 1984. It still nukes shit like the day it came out of the box. I doubt im going to get the same use out of my Toshiba.

FuddieDuddie ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:33:44 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Not offensive at all.

TimeSlipperWHOOPS ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:10:42 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My dad (in his 60s) remembers coming home from college one year and finding a microwave in his parents house. He was so excited because he could now make a BLT in just minutes.

KarmaaRose ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:25:11 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I moved into a very upscale townhouse about 10 years ago and it never occurred to me that there was not a built-in microwave. So, I figured I would just buy one, but there was no place to put it, so I needed a cart for it.

Long story short, after a week or so, we realized that we didn't need one. Food tastes better when reheated on the stove, and an electric tea kettle takes care of hot water. I haven't had one since, and very rarely miss it. If you don't eat packaged food, it's not really necessary.

tikierapokemon ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 19:49:02 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I learned that after a day, I no longer felt hungry.

I am also overweight, but that has more do with a 10 year untreated thyroid issue.

But my relstionship with food is very, very messed up.

partofbreakfast ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:30:56 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My mom had one rule growing up: she wouldn't cook two dinners. If we didn't like what was being served, we had other things in the fridge or cupboard to eat (cereal and milk was always an option, as were raw carrots and green beans). And once we got old enough to cook on our own, me and my sister were welcome to cook for ourselves if we didn't like what mom made. But she would never cook two meals. It was always eat what mom made, or eat what we make for ourselves.

That's a pretty fair way to do it too I think. If your kid doesn't like the brussel sprouts you cooked, let them get carrot sticks from the fridge.

CommanderAGL ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:04:33 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

give the Brussel Sprouts another shot. Roast them this time though https://xkcd.com/2241/

FuddieDuddie ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:36:28 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I know. I ate roasted ones at Fatz and theyโ€™re amazing!

Thank you.

Gogo726 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:00:52 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Congratulations on the weight loss. I recently got weight at 430 so I'm trying to change a lot of habits.

FuddieDuddie ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:38:52 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I kept changing โ€œdietsโ€ when I got bored, stopped snacking, learned to love water, and am surrounded by a loving and supportive family.

Good luck, I know you can do it.

Gogo726 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 04:12:19 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My sister is the fitness guru of my family. She's been texting and emailing me back and forth with meal and snack ideas. As well as workout routines that would be doable for me, but a challenge. And I've been without soda for 2 weeks, sugary drinks for about a week. And there's nothing better than the feeling of ice cold water pouring down your gullet.

revchewie ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:42:03 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Brussels sprouts aren't food, they're what food eats.

Astromatix ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:42:20 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Boiled Brussels sprouts sound absolutely heinous. Now, you roast those bad boys? I could eat that all day.

Earendos ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 20:27:44 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Roast them in the oven with a bit of olive oil and bacon.... I could eat the entire pan!

bluelavenderboots ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:43:09 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

โ€œBalls of stinkโ€ ... there is no better description for boiled Brussels sprouts. Iโ€™m with you there. Hate with a passion due to the same โ€œeat everything on your plateโ€ attitude as a kid. But saying that, fried Brussels sprouts in butter and garlic....the opposite end of the taste spectrum! Delish!

FuddieDuddie ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:40:10 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Itโ€™s amazing that theyโ€™re the same food. I love them roasted or sautรฉed now.

Who could boil something thatโ€™s so good another way?

EmergencyFunkbot ยท -3 points ยท Posted at 20:06:07 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I don't think your parents forcing you to eat vegetables made you 400 lbs. Get real.

FuddieDuddie ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:34:14 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)*

Edit: I overstated and it made me feel bad. Sorry for anyone who read my original reply.

No, there was a lot of horrible stuff going on. That wasnโ€™t even bad on the scale of stuff.

EmergencyFunkbot ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 12:53:08 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Before the edit that was a hell of a comment. You got me there in that I definitely didn't know how to respond and I felt like a dick about my comment.

I did stalk your profile a bit after your response, because I was taken aback and thought you might be a troll. But I was surprised to see you actually seem like a decent, thoughtful person and I realized my comment was uncalled for. So I apologize for being a bit of a dick. I hope you have a good weekend.

FuddieDuddie ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 14:16:01 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It wasnโ€™t your fault. Iโ€™ve been in a bad place recently, and I was caught off guard. Iโ€™m sorry I took it out on you.

Stay safe!

Polycatfab ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:41:59 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Or jumper cables.

MahDeer49 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:11:01 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Or the classic from my generation: โ€œyouโ€™re going to sit there until you eat it all!โ€

CosmicGorilla ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:40:06 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Man, my gut reaction was "welp time to starve then you little fuck" guess it is good I'm not going to have and do not want to have children haha

KGB_Viiken ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:52:23 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Or abuse or shouting.

Crackerpool ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:52:52 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Or beating them!

plfdunlop ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:03:39 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I would've starved them... But that's why I'm not gonna be a dad

beto_747 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:29:24 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Or becoming annoyed with them and being passive aggressive

sinhner ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:08:48 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Creative idea indeed! Will have to try this.

breyarg ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:52:08 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

such an underrated comment lol! as a parent i hear ya loud and clear!

dustyspiders ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 09:15:51 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Or taking something they love and smashing/burning/selling for $1, recording the life long trauma and the kids crying and posting it to facebook for views.

I give props to OP. He his doing parenting right.

AllyATK ยท 36 points ยท Posted at 19:18:13 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah. Lots of parents would tell the kids they have to eat the veggies and that they're ungrateful and yada yada, but this approach, the kids actually learn something and become better because of it

RandyBoucher36 ยท 87 points ยท Posted at 17:31:25 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Bravo

hansdampf90 ยท 28 points ยท Posted at 17:43:55 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Bravo!

ddayinfrance ยท 14 points ยท Posted at 18:00:46 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Bravooo!!

jerrbear85 ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 18:09:38 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Bravaaa!!

attitudeissuccess ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:40:06 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Bra

FuddieDuddie ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:43:37 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Bro

Regan185 ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 18:48:55 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Bruh

jabberwockjess ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 18:58:29 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

bruja

OWO-FurryPornAlt-OWO ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:03:21 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

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Gay_afdude ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 19:14:55 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Veli...

OWO-FurryPornAlt-OWO ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 19:22:02 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

gay_afdude

BRUH.

Overcomefoil959 ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 18:01:16 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Bravo

LosLocosHermanos ยท 15 points ยท Posted at 17:37:12 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I bet your name's Mickey, 'cause you're so fine.

extab ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 18:18:47 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You blow my mind

Julbers6 ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 18:21:33 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Hey Mickey!

Whydidideletemyaccou ยท 12 points ยท Posted at 18:22:55 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah, put those little shits in their place

warpus ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 18:38:22 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Brb buying a chicken and some salt

Hotblack_Desiato_ ยท 10 points ยท Posted at 18:16:21 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Bravo!

Whoa, mama.

GamesAndLists ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:53:32 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I couldn't have said it better. I'll try that with my daughter next time she complains.

Gamingthemind ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 18:34:43 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Seems 'show don't tell' works for both films and people!

andyfurnival ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:20:15 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

If youโ€™ve ever seen the Jamie Oliver show when he shows kids what goes into chicken nuggets, to which after al that, they wanted the crap over the delicious stuff. This could easily of backfired. Gladly it didnโ€™t

Bendrake ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:28:05 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Also a great way to teach kids to honor their mother - which is HUGE.

emailboxu ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:20:59 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Seriously, the best way to teach kids is to let them understand through experience that sometimes what seems to be the correct way, isn't. Not just shout at them until they comply.

Sentr-E ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:26:25 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My parents wouldโ€™ve 1. Told me they donโ€™t care and to eat it 2. Toss my soup and yell at me for not appreciating them

Kasaeru ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:42:48 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I was a picky eater, the way my parents fixed that is by telling me I was not allowed to not like something unless I could give an actual reason why.

covfefeid19 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:55:43 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

He should have taken a dump on the dinner table and really established dominance

I-bummed-a-parrot ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 10:23:54 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

As a young nipper, I asked my dad for toast without the butter on. I did not expect it to be... well, dry toasted bread. I learnt a valuable lesson that day

TrialAndAaron ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:20:35 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Except theyโ€™ll just do it again and again because thatโ€™s what kids do

Cfwydirk ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:21:14 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Why?

TrialAndAaron ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 19:29:52 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Because theyโ€™re young kids and theyโ€™re learning that they have choices in life and they exercise those choices. Itโ€™s not a bad thing. Itโ€™s their brain developing.

One thing that I find helpful is saying stuff like, โ€œdo you want to scoop it into your bowl or do you want me to do it?โ€ Or โ€œdo you want your sandwich cut into a star or a heart?โ€ Iโ€™m still giving them choices so they get that out of their system and they seem to argue less.

Another I use a lot is at bedtime when they donโ€™t want to go brush their teeth. โ€œLetโ€™s see if you can walk backwards/hop on one foot/crawl/roll to the bathroomโ€ or when they were younger, โ€œdo you want a piggyback ride or a horsey ride to the bathroom?โ€ It lets them make a choice other than I will/will not do this thing.

[deleted] ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 22:39:16 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

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TrialAndAaron ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:52:52 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Sure. They do from time to time. Thatโ€™s part of having a kid. Nowhere did I say it has a 100% success rate. Youโ€™ve gotta switch it up.

atm259 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:48:24 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Which is why malicious compliance with kids is laughable. They don't know any better and you do. They rarely learn these deep lessons at 7 and if it backfires, well you've just made the situation that much worse.

My parents were great at communication which is maybe why I don't remember convoluted gotcha moments and just remember a great childhood.

TrialAndAaron ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:50:54 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My parents werenโ€™t and thatโ€™s why I strive to be. It ainโ€™t easy but itโ€™s better than it was for me

atm259 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:56:13 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Word. Kids are just small people and at first all they know how to do is emulate those around them. Surround yourself and them with good things and good things are sure to follow. Good luck my friend!

PN_Guin ยท 1241 points ยท Posted at 16:56:35 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That's actually a very good idea. Maybe it could also be a gateway to introduce them to cooking at some point. Cooking is such a valuable life skill and everyone should learn at least the basics.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 969 points ยท Posted at 17:04:48 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I just had that talk with my eldest. One of the mandatory "electives" at school is going to be a health and cooking class. He really doesn't want to take it. I asked him "do you think you will never have to cook for yourself or your family? Why do you not want to take it?" His response was "he doesn't want to be forced to eat something he doesn't like." I told him that they aren't going to force him to eat it, but I suggest he taste it so he understands food better.

PN_Guin ยท 659 points ยท Posted at 17:10:24 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Another good argument might be, that once you can cook, you are free to decide exactly what goes into your food. Also the person who cooks get the final word on what's for dinner.

ZaviaGenX ยท 403 points ยท Posted at 17:29:29 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Also the person who cooks get the final word on what's for dinner.

Hear hear!

Ice-cream peanutbutter nachos chicken soup tonight!

Sharpie_Stab ยท 109 points ยท Posted at 18:15:02 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Sounds delicious. What time is dinner? Iโ€™ll bring the $1.50 bottle of wine

Pyromaniacal13 ยท 71 points ยท Posted at 18:33:10 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

$1.50? Too rich for my blood. Bring the $0.75 boxed wine.

Sharpie_Stab ยท 41 points ยท Posted at 18:34:42 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I love cheap dates, more bang for the buck.

ninepatchmedicine ยท 20 points ยท Posted at 18:36:20 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Two buck chuck anyone?

FBIPartyBusNo3 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:40:15 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Who the fuck has two dollars

mrsflibbleseyes ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:59:39 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

There's wine that cheap? I need to move to the States!

nightkil13r ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:50:33 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Charles Shaw Wine, made famous for selling 2 dollar bottles of wine, and got the nickname of Two buck Chuck, sold in Trader Joe's grocery stores(1.99 wine is only found in california, other states are a little more expensive due to shipping, but outside of the "organic" wine, you wont pay more than 5 dollars for a bottle)

This pretty decent wine as well, although im not a wine drinker typically(i get drunk stupid fast on wines) so take that with a grain of salt.

savtaytex ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:52:18 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Thereโ€™s an Apple German wine they sell at world market (or they used too havenโ€™t been there in a long time). Was like 1.25 a bottle. So so good. The hangovers suck ass though. All that sugar lol.

mushroompizzayum ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:48:11 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

$0.75? Too aged for my blood, bring the mixed grape juice and vodka

Pyromaniacal13 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:04:30 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Wino Brothers! Look for the bottle shaped like a brown paper bag!

WUPHF_Cola ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:36:05 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Just add a little yeast to your juice box!

flyingwhitey182 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:03:43 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I get that you're joking and all. But still, sign me up.

Confuse--Ious ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:22:10 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Where do you find $1.50 wine?

Sharpie_Stab ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:50:54 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I could tell you, but then Iโ€™d have to kill you.

Confuse--Ious ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:51:36 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Can I drink the wine first?

Sharpie_Stab ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:53:26 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Maybe.... whatโ€™s in it for me?

Confuse--Ious ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:54:11 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Err...$1.50? Then we can both have wine!

Sharpie_Stab ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:55:17 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I see where this is going. Youโ€™re just trying to get me drunk so I donโ€™t kill you.

Confuse--Ious ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:58:29 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Your username seems quite relevant right now

Sharpie_Stab ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:59:57 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Can I โ€œusername checks outโ€ on myself?

Confuse--Ious ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:05:17 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Donโ€™t think you can post your own comment on r/beetlejuicing sadly, have you got an alt?

gingersassy ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:47:34 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

depending on the icecream this could work. I'm thinking a more savory icecream like pistachio, put it in a pan on low heat, adding a little bit of peanutbutter until ot forms a nice spreadable consistency.

in a separate pan take chicken broth, add corn tortillas to soften them, and then add a very soft, processed cheese, live velveeta. make sure the consistency is just a tad bit watery, then let it simmer on a lower heat without a lid.

returning to the peanutbutter pistachio icecream combo, mix this into shredded chicken and stir fry with no added oil, once crispy, add this to the reduced soup base with tortilla chips in it, and stirr it in.

serve.

ZaviaGenX ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:43:03 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

/r/gifrecipes material?

frankcfreeman ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:58:56 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Omw

VegasAdventurer ยท 74 points ยท Posted at 18:29:56 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

also, it is crazy how easy it is to impress people with fairly simple dishes. Basically, if you can cook something not from a box many people will think you are a wizard, especially in college.

high-bi-ready-to-die ยท 51 points ยท Posted at 18:47:54 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I feel like a GOD in college because I've been making my own sauces and original recipes for years. People will offer anything for a good meal. I usually just feed people if they buy the booze.

plants_cats_naps ยท 28 points ยท Posted at 20:03:35 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My SO and I are friends with another couple. We have a weekly date night where we cook the food and they bring the weed. They love my cooking and we get to have a good night with friends

door_in_the_face ยท 20 points ยท Posted at 20:31:21 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

We have (or had, before social distancing) a similar setup, except we bring snacks and drinks instead of weed, for the DnD session after dinner.

sologard ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 16:10:58 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That sounds amazing actually!

bordeaux_vojvodina ยท -2 points ยท Posted at 00:15:49 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yours sounds worse.

door_in_the_face ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 06:17:48 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

To each their own.

high-bi-ready-to-die ยท 14 points ยท Posted at 20:17:57 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

God I want this to be my life

Desdrolando ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:02:19 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Username checks out

cricoceat ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 12:33:51 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Don't worry, it will be

HammerOfTheHeretics ยท 29 points ยท Posted at 19:17:47 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My brother put in the effort to become a good cook. His girlfriends are always extremely attractive. I think those facts are connected.

Caramellatteistasty ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 20:06:44 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Self-sufficiency is sexy!

kookykerfuffle ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:32:58 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You might be onto something here

GringoinCDMX ยท 11 points ยท Posted at 20:23:49 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Lol I impressed so many girls in college with my roast chicken. It got me my long term girlfriend. First date made the dish and she thought it was insanely impressive. Did a simple salad with romaine, fennel, Parmesan, lemon juice and olive oil (literally takes 2 seconds but was "super fancy") and roast chicken over fingerling potatoes, carrots and onions. The veggies come out deliciously cooked in chicken fat and olive oil and the chicken has delicious crunchy skin and is moist as hell. Also you can prepare the salad ahead of time and just dress it in front of them and throw the chicken in when they get there and you can entertain while it cooks. I taught like 5 of my friends how to do it and it was their go to "I'm gonna cook a meal" as a date. And when you're used to dining hall food? This was gourmet.

VegasAdventurer ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:32:13 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

also, extremely budget friendly.

GringoinCDMX ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 20:55:10 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah like all of that for around $10. $15 if I bought the fancy Parmesan (but then I'd have plenty left over for other meals) and easily could be made into 2 meals even the chicken was decently sized. My roommates usually just scavenged whatever whenever the girl and I went to my room. Lol

ZedarFlight ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:57:45 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Ooh, that sounds delicious and like something I should learn to make.

GringoinCDMX ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:12:58 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It's literally as easy as it sounds. You literally throw it in the oven after coating the chicken liberal in oil, salt and pepper, you can throw some herbs in as well. I like to cut a few slits in the skin of the breast and put in a bit of butter or oil underneath the skin. Chicken stays ridiculously moist like that. Just watch to make sure the skin doesn't burn. And just stab it with a meat thermometer to check internal temp. It's so easy.

ZedarFlight ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:20:31 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Like a whole chicken, or just chicken breasts or?

GringoinCDMX ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:35:01 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I use a whole bone in chicken. If you use bone in breasts or a split chicken, just take note that it will cook quicker.

revchewie ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:45:16 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My brother was staying with me for a couple weeks. One day I got home from work and he was on a phone call. I was hungry so I headed into the kitchen, and he called out "There's nothing to eat." 30 minutes later, he was still on the phone when I brought him a plate of chicken Alfredo and the look of amazement on his face was just priceless!

stanleyjkibble ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 07:06:54 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This Babish recipe is something I've done several times now, and it's always amazing. And super easy to do. And cheap! Like $3 worth of ingredients.

HAM_N_CHEESE_SLIDER ยท 23 points ยท Posted at 18:53:55 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Also the person who cooks get the final word on what's for dinner.

Kind of like "the driver gets to pick the music", this is true, but there's nuance there too. You should still be taking other people and their tastes into consideration, because that's what makes you a considerate person, which is part of what makes someone a kind person.

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PN_Guin ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:31:13 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Exactly. I'll even cook stuff I don't particularly like for others once in a while, but in those cases there will be something else that I do enjoy in addition.

Earendos ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:32:27 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I learned this lesson very very quickly. If I wanted something specific to eat for dinner, it was up to me to make it. Ofc before I was old enough I had to ask for it to be made.

kotanu ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:51:31 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My mom would be aghast to learn how often I leave green bell peppers out of the recipes she passed on to me. Seconded on how they contaminate everything they touch.

SolanGoose ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:58:08 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Or you just dehydrate vegetables and hide the powder in everything. It took my husband 3 months to notice he now eats four times the variety.

Duff_Lite ยท 10 points ยท Posted at 19:39:42 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is essentially my reasoning for learning how to cook. You can make tasty and healthy meals that mimic your favorite restaurant food, without all the stuff you hate.

Coyoteclaw11 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:25:27 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

And often for a lot cheaper!

tetrahydrocanada ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:40:56 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That's how my Mom got me to start cooking probably around 10 years old. I loooved ribs, so she got them for me and I followed a homemade bbq sauce recipe from the newspaper and it was actually reallly good. Also I couldn't be a picky eater because one day I'd be at my girlfriends house and I wouldn't want to embarass myself. Also that girls love guys that can cook she said, which is definitely true. Thanks Mom!

Slapcaster_Mage ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:26:37 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Neat rule, until my sister decides to make tacos without the seasoning "because it's too spicy."

Just-Call-Me-J ยท 56 points ยท Posted at 18:14:41 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

When my brother and were little, he once asked, "How do you know you don't like it if you don't try it?" I don't even know if he remembers saying this, but it stuck with me ever since.

So I always try foods and drinks, without expecting it to taste or feel familiar (this is important!), before I make a judgement. As a result, I either like or am neutral on most foods I've tried.

The only specific food. I have tried and hate are grapefruit (ironically grapefruit shandy is delicious) and uncooked onions. I also hate the whole category of spicy food (as a reference, Kung Pao chicken from Panda Express is too spicy for me โ€” that's how much of a wimp I am!) Food should not be painful!

Xiyther ยท 62 points ยท Posted at 18:49:38 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

When my brother and were little, he once asked, "How do you know you don't like it if you don't try it?"

My nephews answer to this one was

"If I liked it, I would've tried it by now"

Good old circular logic.

Just-Call-Me-J ยท 15 points ยท Posted at 19:00:22 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My head hurts from this.

weeklygrind ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:10:10 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My wife and I have a very similar customer

EntropyZer0 ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 19:24:50 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Circular logic works because circular logic works!

metahivemind ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:57:56 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

And if you don't believe that, its because you haven't tried it!

Sparcrypt ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:54:57 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I gave a friends kid choc chip waffles with maple syrup and ice cream once, she wouldnโ€™t touch it because it didnโ€™t look like anything sheโ€™d had before. Kid.. itโ€™s a plate of chocolate, sugar, carbs, and ice cream. There is zero chance you donโ€™t freaking love it.

Nope, wouldnโ€™t eat it. Wanted a maccas ice cream instead.

Kyro0098 ยท 12 points ยท Posted at 18:20:42 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I love to try new foods, but I have a bunch of allergies. I always feel like a dork saying I like almost anything that isn't crazy spicy and then proceeding to grill people about ingredients, lol. I have found some fun foods from this. Surprisingly, I love octopus, crab, and smoked fish in sushi, but I can't do straight raw, regular fish. The texture is just wrong and never like the taste.

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Kyro0098 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:07:09 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Oh, the battle with dairy is eternal. It tastes so good, but hurts so bad.

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Kyro0098 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:29:16 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Thankfully, just lactose intolerance so far, has been getting worse but the pills still work for anything not milk, cream, or concrete (type of ice cream). My other allergies are a bit worse, but nothing life-threatening yet.

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Earendos ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:34:40 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Oat milk is amazing on cereals. Especially oat varieties of cereal.

Niadain ยท 14 points ยท Posted at 18:50:25 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Food should not be painful!

Completely agree here. Spice can add flavor. But I have to be able to fucking taste it!

BlueNinjaTiger ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:34:43 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You may just be more sensitive to spice. Some people are, and of course some are less. I like moderate heat sometimes, and there are crazy people out there who'll happily chomp on a ghost chili.

Just-Call-Me-J ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:03:16 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

There was a restaurant back in my hometown that had a spice scale of five stars. My family always asked for half a star.

No prizes for guessing our complexion.

Mommabearofthree ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 13:57:29 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I hated raw onions for a very long time, but once I found a good sweet onion, it changed my world. I'll happily add minced sweet onion to my guacamole and it is wonderful.

Oroano ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 19:40:11 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

If you ever go somewhere known for spicy food or for a home cooked meal with someone from one of those places please try it anyway. I went to India a few years back and was able to eat and really enjoyed everything I had, including a lot of foods that I thought would be too spicy for me. Itโ€™s because they use higher quality spices that add flavour, not just heat for heats sake like we do in other places. So things actually tasted and was often significantly more flavourful than any of the burning Iโ€™m accustomed to finding in that cuisine.

For reference I find most mild salsas too spicy after about two or three bites.

Sparcrypt ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:02:22 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yes anybody who thinks the point of spices is to burn the shit out of your mouth and cause you pain is ridiculous. Yes some people actually enjoy that and good for them, but not doing so does not mean you โ€œhate spicy foodโ€.

I spent years avoiding spice because my dad is one of those โ€œblow your head offโ€ cooks when it comes to spicy food and I just do not enjoy it. Learned how to actually season including spicy stuff and itโ€™s so much nicer. Plus when you can eat more than one bite without being miserable your tolerance goes up pretty fast.

bordeaux_vojvodina ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:17:00 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

How were the shits?

GringoinCDMX ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:28:02 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

The trick with spicy food is to abuse your taste buds until they give in and start liking spicy food. I was never a big spicy food eater but after living in Mexico now for about 2 years, when I go home I miss having spicy salsa available everywhere.

WatercressTart ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:17:44 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Sometimes the taste buds are willing but not the rest of the digestive tract.

GringoinCDMX ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:34:44 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Peptobismul and prayers.

Von_Moistus ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:28:28 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

"How do you know you don't like it if you don't try it?"

When I was a kid I was known as a fussy eater. 'Fussy eater!' That's what they called it in my house. "He's a fussy eater." 'Fussy eater' is a euphemism for "Big pain in the ass." I would say, "I don't like that!" "Why?" They wanted reasons. Well, you donโ€™t always have a reason. "I don't know. I know I don't like it. And I know that if I ate it, I would like it even less. You like it? You eat it!"

Then they would try to corner me with logic. "How do you know you don't like it if you've never even tried it?" "It came to me in a dream!"

-George Carlin

eazolan ยท 21 points ยท Posted at 18:16:49 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

"he doesn't want to be forced to eat something he doesn't like.

That's what cooking IS.

You make something, and if it doesn't taste good, you fix it.

bordeaux_vojvodina ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:17:36 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

By throwing it away

eazolan ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:34:36 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Some things can't be fixed.

But usually you can do SOMETHING.

MegaKetaWook ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 18:19:32 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

There is a good saying about cooking: If you learn to cook you'll never have to have a bad meal again.

ffschill ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 18:32:36 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Oh goodness you're a good parent. This is so wholesome.

YakBallzTCK ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:13:06 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I feel like those classes aren't great for getting kids to enjoy cooking though. It's kinda like forcing kids to read to kill a mockingbird on school, they never learn that reading can be enjoyable.

This is just my personal experience.

song_pond ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:11:02 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

If he doesn't want to be forced to eat food he doesn't like then he should learn to make it himself!

althoradeem ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:12:21 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

also i've seen some picky eaters become quite open to food by taking cooking courses (my nephew for example)

duoga ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:35:19 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You learn cooking at home either from your family or experimenting and failing a lot.

You aren't gonna learn shit in home ec they make like one pie a semester.

How about just making dinner with him involved?

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:44:52 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That is the funny thing, they are usually more open to eating things that they helped make.

dzfast ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:48:02 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Eh, I think that varies a lot. We cooked at least one of breakfast, or lunch every week. Had a baking day. Then spent other time on sewing. The rest of the time was dedicated to like lecture and stuff. As a dude in my late 30s I cook everything for our family and enjoy it, have sewn many things over my life including masks as of late and am just overall glad for the skills that started with that class.

AlexeiMarie ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:19:24 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

We had a class like that in my middle school. If you didn't try something that was made, you wouldn't get full credit. Several students who were forced to try the food vomited. It wasn't a good time.

Encouraging students to try foods in a class is one thing, but forcing them is another.

basketma12 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:31:24 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'm hella old but we actually had a boy in the home ec class ( those were the days!) Because his mom died and his grandma was a notorious bad cook, they actually let him cook all year instead of also sew. You didn't have to take this class, it was an elective. I wanted to take wood shop but my mom wouldn't allow it. I'm still kicking myself for not taking home ec. I knew how to cook already, and I didn't want to get stuck sewing like my granny. Dumb me. I can run a machine but..er not a seamstress

nomoresweetheart ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:10:30 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My brother had a similar point of view when he was younger, what helped me was sitting down to go through simple recipes based on meals he likes, we even picked up a fajita kit so he could practice frying things in the pan. Once he had something he liked we tried variations - I got him to explore different herbs and spices by adding them to fries as part of a special snack buffet for a movie night. Things like garlic salt, onion salt, chilli flakes etc. were a blessing as ingredients. He was interested in โ€œpaleoโ€ recipes for ketchup, mayonnaise, and other condiments which was amazing as he never really liked mayo or mustard before then.

Even years later heโ€™ll occasionally experiment with variations of things he can put in wraps. And he still makes the salt and chilli chicken wing recipe we found together right at the beginning. Same with potato patties made from mashed potato and things like corned beef/diced onion, salmon, cheese/onion, and burgers made with lamb mince and mint, or any different kind of minced meat variations.

Sparcrypt ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:52:50 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

he doesn't want to be forced to eat something he doesn't like

I mean, this is the exact reason I did learn to cook. There is literally no takeout that I canโ€™t make better at home, itโ€™s just a matter of time and effort.

Canโ€™t tell you the times Iโ€™ve got a dish from some place and thought it was great, set out to recreate it, done so, then tried the takeaway version down the road and found it very lacking.

And itโ€™s not that Iโ€™m a better cook than all these chefs, itโ€™s that Iโ€™m not operating under the time or cost restrictions they are and I can make something exactly to my own tastes. More of what I like and less of what I donโ€™t.

Cooking is an awesome skill.

greeneyedgirl626 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:43:46 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I was an RA in a dorm full of kids who couldnโ€™t fry an egg. Learning how to make some basic healthy meals for yourself is a skill that so many people donโ€™t have. Once you have the fundamentals down, you can cook what you DO like and itโ€™ll be delicious!

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:40:18 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I used to suck at cooking. I don't think I'll ever match up to my grandmothers or mothers cooking, but I'm working on it. When I first moved out, I basically "burned water". I left an enameled kettle on the stove and forgot it was boiling (spout was open). It melted to the stovetop.

jacksclevername ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:25:49 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Tell him it will help him get laid in the future.

Actually_a_Patrick ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 08:49:30 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Based on my own experience with those classes (a long time ago, granted,) I'd be wary of what the education system offers in those classes and would strongly recommend supplementing them with some familial teaching on the finer points.

walks_into_things ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 11:00:36 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I enjoyed cooking as a kid but the way I learned the most was actually when I was hungry and wanted something specific. My mom told me she wouldnโ€™t make me pancakes after dinner, but I could try and make them myself. I donโ€™t think she thought Iโ€™d try, since I wasnโ€™t allowed to use the stove and didnโ€™t have the recipe. My microwaved flour-water paste didnโ€™t taste great but after many failed attempts, and being old enough to use the kitchen equipment, my food got substantially better.

MrCuckooBananas ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 12:57:58 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You can also tell him that he can use those skills to cook whatever he likes. He can make homemade pizza.

rcfox ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:02:24 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I took that in grade 12. It was me and two other guys hanging out in a class otherwise full of girls, making cakes and muffins and then eating them at the end. And it fulfilled one of my graduation requirements.

camlop ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:29:45 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Every school should have a mandatory health and cooking class! My brother and father don't know how to cook anything besides eggs. -__-

helthrax ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:51:13 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Another good point is that how does he know if he likes it if he doesn't try it. Classes like home ec are great because they can expose kids to new tastes and foods that they may not necessarily have at home or with family. Teaching kids the joy of trying food they otherwise wouldn't eat is something that I think most kids need.

steelisreal- ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:30:36 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I took home economics as one of my electives in high school, I was 1 of the 2 guys in the class. I messed around a lot and didn't really pay much attention to the theoretical work, but when we got to cook stuff is when I learnt so many valuable lessons that have stuck with me. I'm not the biggest fan of cooking but at least I know how to do it when required.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 87 points ยท Posted at 17:20:20 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Eventually, everybody has to cook. Of course they are always willing to help with baking, but I'm trying to get them to help with other meals as well. Kids are great at mashing potatoes.

sifow ยท 25 points ยท Posted at 19:39:49 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Biggest sign of adulthood is that you have to pick out dinner every day, for the rest of your life. Send help.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 20:49:02 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

When I first moved out, I quickly resorted to a daily meal of baked chicken breasts, steamed broccoli and rice. Every single day. I just made large batches and portioned it out into containers so I could just heat up my own meals for lunch and dinner. After a few months, I decided I had to learn how to cook.

sifow ยท 15 points ยท Posted at 22:06:21 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)*

At least it's healthy. I did something similar, frozen vegetable mix with lean pork every day in uni, and working out every other day. Cheap and easy but really bland. Some basic brown sauce made it palatable. As time has passed I've gotten worse and worse at making food and now I've lost all creativity.

You know what kind of food app I want? One that first makes me buy ingredients and then suggests various meals based on those ingredients. Then it tracks what I use based on the meal I pick, and figures out what I have leftover to modify suggestions the next day.

It should be really simple to correct the ingredients-list if you ate some extra eggs for breakfast.

It should have a budget slider for week or month to modify its suggestions.

And it should also have an optional nutrition tracker that influences suggestions, so that if you consistently eat a lot of meat it might start to emphasize other meals more heavily to balance your diet. I have no idea if I get enough vitamins.

I'm wary of current food apps because I think mobile apps by default just sell all my data and I become a marketing target. I think I'll look into making this for myself so I can skip all the privacy concerns.

hairlikemerida ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:52:37 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My parents are practically gourmet chefs in their spare time.

They ask what I make for dinner a lot and it is embarrassing every time because I can never even give them a straight answer. Like, I think I ate vegetables this week. Not entirely sure.

tazinator3000 ยท 14 points ยท Posted at 17:34:55 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That was always my favourite part of making Thanksgiving dinners as a kid. I always got to mash the potatoes. Eventually I took over the gravy as well much to my Grandpa's dismay. He didn't like when I started changing the recipe haha.

bibbidybobbidyboom ยท 11 points ยท Posted at 18:31:41 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

They can also cut fresh veggies using a (new) plastic knife. New because the teeth wear down pretty quick, but they won't generally hurt themselves. Kids can do this starting at 3, and what kid wouldn't want to be so grown up as to be using their own knife.

PN_Guin ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 17:22:14 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That's good

nice2yz ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:49:31 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That's Autosport for you. Is that love?

lickedTators ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:39:04 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Eventually, everybody has to cook.

Not true. I'm 36 and continue to have my family chef heat up me tendies. He's a little old now but I think when he dies I'm allowed to pick the new chef.

elladexter ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:42:33 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Everyone should learn a handful of recipes. Once you've got a few different recipes for a few different things it's easy as hell to modify them to cook different types of meats, veggies, soups, etc.

eddy5791 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:03:42 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I used to be picky with food until I began cooking and realized how onion, garlic and other essential ingredients were in nearly every recipe and improved it. Haven't looked back since. Really just a matter of doing it yourself.

fizzlefist ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:18:50 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Kids don't like onions? Teach them all the things you can do with them, started by giving them a bite of caramelized onions without telling them what it is.

Would also highly recommend watching Good Eats with them. Itโ€™s fun, delicious AND educational!

Overwatcher2 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:26:40 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Issue is... I prefer the kids choice at 25. Could backfire horribly.

Brad_theImpaler ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 18:21:51 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I think we could also use the soup to teach lessons about Race Relations in America, like the black and white cookie.

CatherineCalledBrdy ยท 369 points ยท Posted at 17:10:36 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Back when I was a server at a restaurant we had an amazing lentil soup that this regular's kid adored, but the kid claimed he hared lentils. So the regular (kid's dad) and I would talk all about how I spent so much time picking the lentils out just for him! Of course I did no such thing, it was just a regular cup of soup, but the kid didn't know what a lentil was, so he was always happy to get his "lentil free" lentil soup.

1funnyguy4fun ยท 160 points ยท Posted at 21:06:07 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I make twice baked potatoes in a cast iron skillet. They have all the usual twice baked potato goodness in them (butter, sour cream, salt, pepper, garlic powder, onion powder and a large amount of sharp cheddar cheese). I knew my 3 yo (at the time) wouldn't get anywhere near them if she knew what was in them. So, I just told her that they were "special potatoes" and she ate them and loved them.

Fast forward 10 years. She's at a friends house for dinner. Lo and behold, they serve up something very similar. My kid pipes up with, "Oh! These are special potatoes. We have special potatoes at our house, etc."

She though the name of the dish was "special potatoes" like you would say "tuna casserole" or "chicken salad". I got a hearty laugh out of that one.

CatherineCalledBrdy ยท 40 points ยท Posted at 21:34:22 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I need to start making Special Potatoes in my cast iron. Never thought about that. Also, this is a really cute story and it is what I will call them from now on.

puppylust ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:10:03 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I want some special potatoes too. I don't think I've ever had a bad meal cooked in cast iron.

KilledByFruit ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:11:09 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Iโ€™m scared of the names that my little one will call certain dishes once sheโ€™s older. We call frozen pizzas โ€˜emergency pizzaโ€™ because theyโ€™re easy and quick if you run out of time and need to make something last minute. We call certain last-of-the-pantry meals โ€˜white trash dinnerโ€™ because I grew up white trash and when I started cooking for my boyfriend thatโ€™s what I called them as a designation because he had never had anything like it before. Iโ€™ve told him we have to work on these names, but old habits are hard to break...

widowhanzo ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:21:16 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My kid at like 6 yo didn't wanna try some veggie sauce, until we discovered it's basically a Minecraft sauce - there's mushrooms, carrots and all the other goodness you can pick in Minecraft. He ate all of it and had seconds.

nobodysbuddyboy ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 21:04:16 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

r/kidsarefuckingstupid

The other replies were too saccharine

CatherineCalledBrdy ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:32:39 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I literally lol'd at this and it's perfectly appropriate

mostmicrobe ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 04:54:13 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

When I was a kid, my mom would take me to eat pizza at the mall, I could choose between cheese and pepperoni pizza. I always chose pepperoni and then I would remove every single one and give them to my mom. I didn't like pepperonis but I didn't choose cheese pizza because I thought "cheese" was just those american cheese squares they sell at supermarkets and I didn't want that in my pizza.

Kids can be really fucking stupid lol.

ReflectiveWave ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:33:42 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Thatโ€™s wholesome

Icy_Influence ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:39:02 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is so cute

CatherineCalledBrdy ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:32:08 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It was a lot of fun. I work in an office now and would not go back to serving if you doubled my salary, but this sort of thing was one of the reasons I loved it .

imonreditnow_i_guess ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:52:25 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I loved Catherine called birdy

CatherineCalledBrdy ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:02:06 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Clearly, me too! Did you read her other books? I remember really loving The Ballad of Lucy Whipple when I was a kid, too.

imonreditnow_i_guess ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:23:42 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

No, I hadn't looked into that. I miight read some of them now, thanks for the recommendation

sueelleker ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:41:23 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

We were camping (tent camping) with my sister's family once. As we only had a small gas stove I used a lot of tinned food; so "cooking" was mostly just re-heating. One of my nieces said she hated baked beans, so when I made a pan of minestrone soup with baked beans in, I told her the beans were pasta, She ate a bowlful.

LadyNorbert ยท 1285 points ยท Posted at 16:02:25 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)*

r/deliciouscompliance would probably love this too :) great story!

Edit: wow, I have no idea why this is blowing up, but thanks for all the karma, everyone!

jason-8 ยท 122 points ยท Posted at 17:10:56 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Doesn't sound delicious. Sounds yucky!

shinji257 ยท 66 points ยท Posted at 17:29:54 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Gross or not this would fit right in. It's about food.

the_most_moist ยท 36 points ยท Posted at 17:52:40 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

No, it's YUCKY

mangarooboo ยท 72 points ยท Posted at 18:07:07 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

FINE, THEN WE'LL ONLY PUT IN POSTS THAT YOU WANT!

YOU'RE JUST LIKE YOUR FATHER

Jakeb19 ยท 28 points ยท Posted at 19:30:06 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

โ€œThis post isnโ€™t very good, we want momโ€™s posts.โ€

readallthewords ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 18:28:09 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Bravo!

wulff2xx ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 21:19:44 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

MY FATHRR WAS A GOOD MAN. HE MADE ME OODLES OF NOODLES. HE WAS A GOOD MAN!

Yolo1212123 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:42:42 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It actually doesn't taste bad. I've never tried with noodles but chicken with water and salt is great if your cold and the broth and chicken are hot

NoPopWithoutSmoke ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:47:00 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Broccoli ice cream, yucky.

Netfear ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:16:10 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Alright, well, what do you want in the soup?

not_a_llama ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:32:05 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Actually, it sounds very plain.

StereoRocker ยท 13 points ยท Posted at 17:34:33 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)
MrMittins25 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:56:22 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I didn't know I needed this sub until now

imonreditnow_i_guess ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:48:17 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

We like learning about new subs. It also helps when you comment under already popular posts

yoLeaveMeAlone ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:38:10 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Looking at that sub makes me realize that restaurant workers are probably sick and tired of the "as much as you are legally allowed to give me" meme

TheFeistyNun ยท 270 points ยท Posted at 17:24:07 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Love it! Reminds me of when my former SO complained that I put too much garlic and onion in the pasta sauce, and surely the vinegar, honey, pepper and other herbs where not necessary?

So I let him make a sauce from scratch one day, just as he thought it should be. There were Italian herbs in there, and salt. But nothing to spice it up, nothing to add the touch of sweet, sour and savory that makes it all so delicious.

He eagerly started to eat and his face fell immediately. โ€˜This tastes like cardboard.โ€™

Never complained about my recipes again. Instead, he jokingly started complaining on how I ruined his appetite for prefab pasta sauces in jars and he only ever wanted mine anymore, haha.

nosir_nomaam ยท 296 points ยท Posted at 17:36:20 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

A bit off topic, but I get a little bit of sadistic pleasure out of the thought of my ex missing my cooking. His wife cannot cook at all. After our very bad, very messy, horrible break-up, we both ended up at a potluck that I didn't know he was attending. His then fiancee was publicly angry with him for getting a third helping of my dish. It made me laugh.

TheFeistyNun ยท 98 points ยท Posted at 17:52:25 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Ahhh haha thatโ€™s cruel! We ended on a good note and as a result of earlier convenience measures, I had emailed him detailed instructions on each of our most loved recipes so he could also cook them and share the tasks a bit. Once he learned to really absolutely follow the instructions and not give in on whims of uneducated inspiration, the dishes tasted just like I made them. So heโ€™s good, I suppose.

nosir_nomaam ยท 64 points ยท Posted at 17:58:48 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)*

Your goodwill & maturity make me feel bad for the delight I take in the thought of him pining away for decent food.

But I still hope it.

alphadoublenegative ยท 32 points ยท Posted at 20:22:26 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Being just a little petty is human without being cruel. I wouldnโ€™t lose any sleep my friend.

metahivemind ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:04:55 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Did he know it was your dish for the 3rd helping?

nosir_nomaam ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:07:18 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'm assuming so. It was a casserole that I made often & he liked, that is fairly unique. His fiancee knew it was mine for sure.

[deleted] ยท 23 points ยท Posted at 19:06:54 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

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BothOutlandishness ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 04:30:08 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'm with you except for white and black pepper. They're close enough that they're interchangeable based on personal preference.

philzebub666 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 13:20:52 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Wait, what's the difference between white and black pepper? I always buy the mixed pack.

[deleted] ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 23:08:53 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

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nosir_nomaam ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 23:16:06 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

The best revenge is to cook well! Cheers!

metahivemind ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:36:42 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is the plot for "Delicious" with Dawn French. An entire series based around the idea that you can seduce anyone if you cook well enough.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Delicious_(TV_series) ... It's a bit of a boundary pusher of a show, it made me say "wtf" more than once!

Nidaime_EroSennin ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 02:35:38 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Why? was he hurt that Taco Bell somehow lost to home made cooking (jeez what a surprise)? even a decently cooked meal is better than Taco Bell

camlop ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:37:24 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Lmao your ex can't cook?? Damn. Well, that's on him. He needs to teach himself how to cook.

nosir_nomaam ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:25:30 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

He may have by now, but at the time, he prided himself on not even being able to put together a sandwich. One of many reasons he is an ex.

TheMichaelH ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:35:46 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

But... itโ€™s literally just stacking the shit between bread?...

Donโ€™t care what it is, anyone who prides themselves on ignorance of a topic gets a hard pass from me

Condawg ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:07:55 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Man, I dunno, I'm pretty proud of not knowing how to skin a live human

Aporiaa ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 08:40:12 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I feel the same way, if that makes you feel any better, haha.

My ex insisted he hated scrambled eggs (which I assumed was because his mom didnโ€™t know how to cook them because my mom was the same). I told him he needed to try mine and he became obsessed with them and wanted me to make them constantly.

I tried to teach him and he never wanted to learn so now he never gets his beloved scrambled eggs.

PiesangSlagter ยท 43 points ยท Posted at 18:51:33 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That being said, there is a place for a simpler sauce. Garlic, onion, tomatoes, olive oil, oregano, basil, salt, pepper and maybe some chilli flake. Assuming you use the right technique and high quality ingredients, it will still taste amazing, and, while not as good just straight with pasta, will be better as a pizza sauce or with meatballs, as it will allow the other flavors to shine.

Fantastic-2019 ยท 27 points ยท Posted at 19:28:36 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I think chili flakes makes a huge difference in a lot of meals and sauces. Sometimes to make it spicy, but other times just to "brighten" the flavour. I don't know the correct word but brighten works in my brain. It's like giving the dish more detailed lines or something without necessarily adding heat - though I do love some heat too.

quatervois ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 23:08:48 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Acids also work to brighten flavors when you don't want heat. I put a little sprinkle of dried powdered lemon peel in a lot of what I make and it makes a huge difference.

Fantastic-2019 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:13:04 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Wait, tell me more. I've never heard of that. In what kinds of dishes?

quatervois ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 01:24:54 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Anything with garlic or tomato is vastly improved with the addition of an acid. I made dirty lentil rice yesterday with some tomato paste, salt, lots of pepper, curry powder, and some lemon peel for brightness. I often put it in breakfast scrambles along with a maple garlic seasoning blend I have and that's pretty incredible. I also like to add some to blueberry baked oatmeal, muffins, apple desserts, pretty much anything you'd add lemon juice to. Also good in Asian-inspired sauces. Really, I've never regretted adding it to something, it always adds something.

You can use vinegar or lemon juice to get the same effect, but lemon peel doesn't add any extra liquid to whatever you're making and the flavor is more concentrated. It's something like $8 for 1/4 cup where I get it from, but you only need a little sprinkle of it most of the time, so even that tiny jar lasts months and months.

Fantastic-2019 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:03:58 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is intriguing. Thanks for your reply. I eat low carb, so pretty much no grains, cereal, baking, that sort of thing. I did make a chicken cacciatore type of baked thing today, so sounds like you would use some in that. I'm going to have a look for the powdered stuff.

DiffratcionGrate ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:16:54 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Sautee almost any green veg in a little butter/oil use a micro-grated to zest some lemon peel in as it cooks, pull it off the heat and add just a squeeze of lemon juice and you have a pretty quick/easy/decent side dish. Works very well with with most leafy greens. If you don't tend to keep fresh citrus on hand powdered peel and a touch of vinegar are perfect substitutions.

dtrud0h ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:19:44 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

anything you try it with and like it... A splash of vinegar works wonders sometimes too.

Lalybi ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 20:46:06 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My husband is very sensitive to spicy foods. He has stomach ulcers so it isn't even that he can't take the flavor of heat, it litterally hurts and burns a hole in his gut. He helped me make a tomato sauce once and asked that I skip the pepper flake. As a teaching moment I did. We put in all the other usual ingredients and he said it was ok but missing something vital. I reminded him of the flakes. He suggests adding even more now!

Fantastic-2019 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:15:18 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Damn flakes are addictive!

soupyfrood ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:59:34 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I do the same thing. The way I see it, youโ€™re tickling a few taste buds that otherwise would be asleep. I figure that even if it isnโ€™t actually spicy, thereโ€™s still additional depth to the flavor.

Should_be_less ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 19:58:14 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Iโ€™ve found it really depends on the the source of the tomatoes. Fresh tomatoes, home canned, or really fancy store-bought tomato purรฉe is usually fine with oil, black pepper, and salt. Cheaper canned brands need something added to get the right acidity.

PiesangSlagter ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:09:58 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Good quality whole canned roma tomatoes are also pretty good.

widowhanzo ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 12:24:03 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Just pasta with garlic fried in olive oil and some herbs on top can be the bomb. Like, 4 ingredients, amazing pasta.

icogetch ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 10:08:32 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Simpler sauce? 9 ingredients.

What would make this a complex sauce?

PiesangSlagter ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 10:46:02 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Vinegar, honey, herbs other than the classic Basil and/or oregano.

I suppose what I described could be a complex sauce, I'd call it the most complex simple Marinara type sauce if that makes any sense. You could certainly make it simpler. For example, for pizza sauce, I like whole canned tomatoes crushed with my hands, garlic, olive oil, dried basil and oregano and sugar. All raw, only cooked on the actual pizza.

PatrickRsGhost ยท 51 points ยท Posted at 17:42:53 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I think I spoiled my parents on my spaghetti sauce. The journey began maybe 6 years or so ago, when my mom and I were talking in the car on the way to some movie. I was complaining how it seemed like all my dad ever cooked was spaghetti, and it was always with Prego brand sauce. We were talking about how her mom's spaghetti sauce was top notch. Sadly we had no recipe, so my mom decided to try to put one together from memory. I told her I remembered it having meat, onions, bell peppers, and mushrooms. I clearly remembered the mushrooms. She came pretty damn close, but still needed something.

When I moved out a year later, I began working on a homemade sauce of my own design. Using her recipe as a foundation, I soon came up with a sauce recipe that would rival many Italian restaurants. It has a few cheats, like Italian sausage, canned tomatoes (San Marzano style, thankee-sai), canned mushrooms (sometimes used fresh, depending on my mood) and of course the controversial bell peppers, but it's awesome. Also took a little inspiration from The Godfather and added a cup of sweet red wine and 1/8 cup of sugar. Usually made it in the crock pot but lately have been doing it on the stove.

Think I'll make some more this weekend.

DrayKitty1331 ยท 25 points ยท Posted at 18:15:20 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My Gram used to make a the sauce in the family and did a killer lasagna from scratch. Well when I went home for Christmas I got tasked with making a lasagna for Christmas eve, even my gran said mine was better than hers and made me leave her a copy of the recipe! Lol

zuzuzslav ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 19:37:11 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Ooh you made me so curious! Any chance you can share the recipe with us/me?

zuzuzslav ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:36:26 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Would you be willing to share the recipe with us/me? Sounds delicious!

PatrickRsGhost ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:36:43 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'll do you one better. I posted an album in Imgur a few years ago. There are some negative comments about the recipe, but otherwise it's a winner in my book. It's a bit involved, and I've found a few shortcuts or omitted some extra steps, but otherwise, it's a good sauce. It mentions Italian sausage, but you can use plain pork sausage if you want, or any other protein. My parents prefer to use plain ground beef. Just have to up the spice amounts a bit, though. Also you can use canned mushrooms instead of fresh. I've since switched to canned.

But I still use San Marzano-style tomatoes, red wine (prefer sweet), and sugar.

zuzuzslav ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:24:42 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Thanks a lot! Saved your comment, I'll try to make it in the near future.

Looks pretty good, not sure why the negative comments. Haters gonna hate.

KittenOnTheRoof ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:07:43 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Ignore the comments. Imgur folks love to hate on things for no apparent reason. Consider posting things as private there, then it will only be viewable for people you give the link to. And don't let anyone tell you that using canned tomatoes is cheating or doesn't make it homemade.

Tomatoes are only in season for so long and out of season they just don't taste good. Canned tomatoes are canned at peak ripeness and when you are cooking them down into a sauce anyways it doesn't matter that they have a different texture from fresh ones. Anyone who claims that canned tomatoes are inherently bad just demonstrates that they know absolutely nothing about cooking.

mischiffmaker ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:57:00 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You are awesome! Bookmarked your recipe. It looks so much like my mom's process.

Something she used to do when making meatballs was to put raisins in the meatball mix, and leave the sugar out of the tomato sauce. When the meatballs cook in the sauce, they add the sweetness the recipe needs to balance the acid. The raisins plump up but lose all their sweetness to the overall recipe, so just become a slight texture change within the meatballs themselves. One of my childhood favorites!

Thanks again for posting this!

TheMichaelH ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:38:01 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That sauce sounds so good, I just began making my own red sauce a couple years ago and I canโ€™t go back to jars.

Oh, also, I started listening to those books in January and your reference made me grin ear to ear!

Long days and pleasant nights

SuperShorty67 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:40:33 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Just throwing it out there if you're using real San Marzano's I recommend ditching the sugar and instead add a bit of good quality balsamic vinegar to accentuate the natural sweetness and acidity of the tomatoes. Also a great traditional way to start any red sauce is by gently heating about a quarter cup of olive oil in your pan and then adding a few cloves of thinly sliced garlic and a bit of crushed red pepper.

schoolyjul ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:25:01 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Now I'm hungry.

katalia0826 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 13:51:16 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Same for me, my mom has always made a basic spaghetti meat sauce (tomato sauce, ground beef, and powdered seasonings) for Christmas eve dinner (because it's an easy dinner after church). One year I offered to help out and put veggies and a bunch of fresh garlic (instead of powdered garlic powder). Now I'm tasked with making the Christmas eve dinner every time I'm there.

PatrickRsGhost ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 14:02:30 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I use both fresh garlic (actually the stuff in the jar because mincing by hand is a pain) and garlic powder. Same with onions. But I'll also toss in some onion powder. I grind up all of my spices in a mortar and pestle (you can use a coffee grinder specifically designated for spices if you'd prefer) because it (A) releases the oils and (B) allows for a more even distribution of flavor. I used a food processor for the same reason on my vegetables; I don't much care for large chunks of anything in my sauce.

Damarius_Maneti ยท 12 points ยท Posted at 18:04:07 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Ooooh, that sounds great. Would you be willing to post/DM me your pasta sauce recipe? I'm always looking to try something new

TheFeistyNun ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:38:14 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, sure! Iโ€™m on it.

txicab ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:19:40 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

May I have it too? It sounds really good

TheFeistyNun ยท 14 points ยท Posted at 19:24:33 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Sure! You know what, Iโ€™ll paste it here. Just as easy!

So I donโ€™t have exact amounts, but just play around a bit and itโ€™ll be fine. Also Iโ€™m a veggie, but you can add meat of course if you want to.

  1. I prefer red onions. And not just one - I use like 4 or 5, chopped up. Heat up olive oil (some table spoons - may be quite a lot with the amounts mentioned here). Simmer with ground pepper, stir regularly. Lower the heat and let it simmer until theyโ€™re getting soft and mushy. If you want that lovely โ€˜my Italian grandmother is cooking us a wholesome mealโ€™ smell in the kitchen, add 2-3 tablespoons of dried oregano right from the beginning (this is one of those herbs that taste better if you heat them right away).

  2. Add a lot of chopped garlic, like 6-7 cloves. I prefer to chop them small instead of using a press, this allegedly enhances the taste. Make sure these, too, simmer long and not on too much heat.

  3. Then add the veggies (I usually go for whatโ€™s cheap, where I live thatโ€™s zucchini and bell peppers). Stir regularly and make sure they get all soft and glazy (not mushy).

  4. Then add a small can of tomato purรฉe and make sure itโ€™s heated through to soften the tartness.

  5. Add a couple of cans of diced tomatoes (I usually do 3-4 of 400 grams). Flavor with balsamic vinegar (I recommend to try little amounts and add more. For me, this lifts the โ€˜heavinessโ€™ of a usual pasta sauce into a lighter taste), honey (to battle the tartness of the tomatoes and vinegar), Italian herb mix (handful), salt and pepper to taste and, if youโ€™re a sucker for extra savory like me, some ve-tsin.

  6. Now we wait. A loooong time. Stir regularly (scraping the bottom) until the sauce is โ€˜cooking inโ€™. This may take well up to an hour depending on the amount youโ€™ve made, but this will create what Italians call โ€˜stracottoโ€™, a lovely dense savory sauce.

  7. I sometimes add leftover olives at the end, and freshly cut basil leaves.

Can be frozen for later use (this is my go-to meal prep). Let it cool in the container and then cling a bit of cling foil to the sauce, covering it entirely, before closing the lid. This prevents that distasteful frozen landscape on your food upon thawing it.

Let me know if you discover a way to improve it ๐Ÿ˜

SofieTeresia ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:09:59 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I am in the middle of a fast and WILL be making this tomorrow! It sounds amazing and is just what I want to eat when I get to eat again :D

TheFeistyNun ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:12:26 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I can imagine! Best of luck and much strength with the fasting, and of course I hope this will turn out as rewarding as hoped!

JoeJoeBear812 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:34:11 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

The ratios youโ€™re using here are absolutely wild to me. More than one onion per 400g can of tomatoes seems like it would be more onion than tomato. My family has done 1 large onion for 1600g of tomatoes for decades now.

TheFeistyNun ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:37:58 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Thatโ€™s fine of course! I find that if they simmer long enough, they caramelize and become incredible. Then again Iโ€™m not speaking huge onions here.

JoeJoeBear812 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:39:53 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

As long as you like the taste, thatโ€™s all that matters!

TheFeistyNun ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:29:33 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

And as a โ€˜bisโ€™ hereโ€™s another banger that Iโ€™ve recently discovered, of which the origins are to be attributed to Ottlenghi. Iโ€™ve added the step of blending it, as nothing grosses me out like tough curled up tomato peels in my food...

Itโ€™s extremely satisfying, like a comforting hug from a compassionate mother.

  1. Slice 4-5 cloves of garlic really thin. Simmer them on low heat in quite a lot of olive oil and make sure they get lightish brown on both sides but not too much.

  2. Add 1 kilogram of cherry tomatoes that are cut in half. Preferably a sweet kind, or that has had enough time to sweeten at home.

  3. Directly add 1 teaspoon of sugar, half a teaspoon of salt, two chopped up chili peppers and 200 milliliters of water. (Original recipe says ancho pepper but I couldnโ€™t find that anywhere).

  4. Stir on medium to high heat for about 4-5 minutes until the tomatoes start falling apart.

  5. Then turn the heat down a bit and let it all simmer for about an hour. Stir every now and then.

  6. Blend the sauce.

  7. Add 20 chopped fresh basil leaves.

  8. Serve with spaghetti and Parmesan cheese.

  9. Happily drift off to food heaven.

zuzuzslav ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:34:45 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Any chance you can share the recipe with me as well? I'm just starting getting into the whole pasta cuisine and would love to try a homemade sauce

TheFeistyNun ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:36:58 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Iโ€™ve shared it as a response here, not sure how to direct..?

zuzuzslav ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:39:20 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Thank you! Just had to refresh the thread. Gonna make it this weekend.

TheFeistyNun ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:40:58 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Iโ€™m beaming with delight at that thought. Please let me know how it worked out!

zuzuzslav ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:44:18 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Will do!

nanaimo ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:11:54 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You put vinegar and honey in tomato sauce???

TheFeistyNun ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:17:36 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Sure do! Balsamic vinegar to lift the usual heaviness of a pasta sauce (a little allergy of mine, since my mother considered some cans of tomato purรฉe with diced spam a โ€˜sauceโ€™). And the honey lifts the tartness of the vinegar and tomatoes.

Iโ€™ll probably be decapitated if an Italian chef gets his hands on me for saying this. But really, it lifts the shit out of a sauce.

nanaimo ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:19:27 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I think I'll stick with Marcella Hazan's recipes, yeah. :D

txijake ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:35:13 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

The tartness is a symptom of undercooked sauce, and the fact you're adding more acid in....

TheFeistyNun ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:40:07 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Actually, this one I did learn from an Italian cook, although they usually use a bit of sugar or grated carrots. Putting sweet in there to battle the sour is quite common.

txijake ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:44:16 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yes I'm aware, but you wouldn't have to do that if the sauce was cooked long enough. Doesn't mean it's wrong to add sugar, it's basically like a shortcut.

TheFeistyNun ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 20:02:03 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Iโ€™m still cooking the sauce very long... so go figure how tasty that is at the end ;-)

Ginfly ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:55:21 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Why would he complain if it tasted good and he had never made sauce before?

Why even bring it up?

TheFeistyNun ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:57:49 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Well, he saw me prepare it and had a long standing predisposition against garlic. He felt that it would even taste better without the garlic and other ingredients. Just like the kids in OPโ€™s story, he didnโ€™t realize that the parts that he was picking on, were the parts that made it taste good in the first place.

TheSwissCheeser ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:25:57 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Im gonna need that recipe

bordeaux_vojvodina ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:21:07 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)
marsglow ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:57:35 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

There is no such thing as too much garlic, except in ice cream.

darby-dev ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:15:26 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

So proud to be a component.

AgnieszkaXX ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:16:14 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Wow, honey in pasta sauce? That sounds a bit horrifying, but I'm really curious to taste what that sauce would be like!

Wajirock ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:45:01 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My former college roommate once tried to make pasta, and he refused to add one spices, herbs, honey, or vinegar to the tomato sauce, and no one but him wanted to eat it because it was so bland.

toterengel367 ยท 53 points ยท Posted at 19:33:44 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Cartoons need to stop teaching kids to be annoying about vegetables.

Meguminstradamus ยท 18 points ยท Posted at 23:45:52 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Honestly Iโ€™ve been thinking that since I tried Brussels sprouts for the first time as a kid and I loved them (fried with garlic pepper and butter of course but still). Prior to that I didnโ€™t even want to try them because of tv shows.

superthotty ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 05:25:24 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My older sister does that plus adds some bacon bits and a balsamic drizzle and theyโ€™re amazing

toterengel367 ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 00:14:24 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Thatโ€™s why people are picky. There are no such thing as picky people, there are only impressionable idiots. this is understandable for a child, but if youโ€™re a picky adult, grow the fuck up.

Only1_LilyP ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 06:19:27 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I absolutely agree. There was this cartoon penguin who loved eating brocolli. My brother then asked mom to cook it every week and he enjoyed it. Well, now he complains about veggies sometimes but still eat when forced, not sure what changed him but it did work for a while

arostganomo ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 11:32:43 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My vegetable hating little brother refused to ever have zucchini. Then Pixar's Ratatouille came out and he started requesting ratatouille all the time.

Now he's an adult and he's vegan.

readybasghetti ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:20:49 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Parents also need to get to them before the cartoons do. Give them whatever they can safely eat as babies and keep adding healthy things. Some things they really won't like and some they might learn are "bad" from friends or cartoons, but if they keep eating even half the vegetables they've tried it'll make life better for every one.

home-for-good ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 01:07:01 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

We need more Popeye!

josh61980 ยท 136 points ยท Posted at 17:00:39 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)*

My brother hated onions when he was younger. My mom used to but the onions in a blender so you didnโ€™t realize they were there.

Edit: fixed the tense.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 187 points ยท Posted at 17:26:00 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

They are more open to dried spices and seasoning after I did a little "guess the food" game with them. They identified basil and oregano as "smells like pizza", and garlic powder as "smells like garlic bread". Now it is more like "I'm OK with the taste as long as the veggies aren't chunks".

I think it is a bit of a texture thing for kids.

tsubasaq ยท 107 points ยท Posted at 17:51:17 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Oh absolutely. Iโ€™m 30 in July and still have texture issues with food.

What helped me to be a lot more adventurous (even though Iโ€™m still fairly picky) is my parents asking me what I didnโ€™t like about the food I was complaining about. Was it bitter, or sour? Was it too squishy or grainy?

Being able to describe what it is I donโ€™t like about something helps me to figure out if itโ€™s just the way itโ€™s been prepared or the food itself. If it might be the preparation, Iโ€™ll be more willing to try the same food again another way!

I still hate most beans, but I know that I can tolerate them much better if theyโ€™re being cooked from fresh or frozen than canned or dried. I know that tomato will never be acceptable in any form, nor will peppers, and that might be a sign of an intolerance for me. I adore spinach, but never give it to me frozen, I canโ€™t stand it.

I also know that your tastes change on average every seven years, so even to this day, Iโ€™ll give things I hated another shot. Used to hate bacon, now itโ€™s wonderful so long as itโ€™s crispy (I hate that fatty texture).

So prompt what my family called the โ€œone-bite ruleโ€ and ask them to describe why they do or donโ€™t like it! (Itโ€™s helpful to know both sides, both for you and them.)

MisguidedMammal ยท 28 points ยท Posted at 18:11:08 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'm in my mid-40s and still have a few texture issues with food myself.

Stewed tomatoes are the worst. Can't stand them.
Cottage cheese....nope, no way.

Pretty much anything else is fine. I've even had Balut once without vomiting lol.

w-burbs ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 19:11:36 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

A friend of mine is the same way with tomatoes! He's a really good cook, too it drives me crazy he can't enjoy them.

Oh man, just googled Balut. Super proud of you! Big nope for me haha

MisguidedMammal ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:31:21 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Balut is definitely not for the faint of heart. But, my best friend is Filipino, so I had to try it once (or never hear the end of it lol)

Vikings-Call ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:00:30 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Can't eat pineapples at all, love pineapple juice. It's like the only reason I oppose pineapple pizza. ยฏ\_(ใƒ„)_/ยฏ

space_keeper ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:23:21 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I thought I was the only one.

MisguidedMammal ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:27:43 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My Mom is the same way with pineapple. She can't stand the texture of it, but the juice? She's all good with it.

linkkers ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:56:10 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

cottage cheese is a garbage food and youโ€™re right to never doubt that

Some_Weeaboo ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:28:59 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

For some reason I can't do avocado. And I don't know if it's even the texture, the tiniest bit in something like sushi will start making me gag. Like my mouth can pick out avocado as the worst substance ever and I'll just be sitting there like Why the fuck can't I eat this sushi

MisguidedMammal ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:22:37 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Ah, forgot about me not liking avocado/guacamole. Can't stand it.

Some_Weeaboo ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:38:24 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

For me it's not that I don't like it, I just can't swallow it.

Zodoken ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 14:06:53 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I used to be a very picky eater, but luckily I've branched out since i moved into my own apartment and started cooking for myself. There are very few foods I absolutely hate, but I still cannot eat raw onion. I love the flavor onion gives things, or even cooked/caramelized onions on hoagies/etc. But I just can't do the raw ones. Something about biting into the raw onion causes that raw onion flavour to overtake literally everything else and I only taste onions for a while. lol.

tsubasaq ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 14:33:43 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Oof, yeah, raw onion is still one of those Iโ€™m just not a fan of. Much prefer them cooked down or even pickled. (ACV + rice vinegar + red onion = yum!)

My brother is the opposite and Iโ€™m convinced heโ€™d eat an onion like an apple.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:28:54 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I hate beans in almost any format except for in a burrito. The only raw tomatoes I can eat are ripe garden grown, I've found that I dislike the commercially grown ones that are basically bags of flavored water. As I get older, I find that I'm OK with more foods.

FartingPickles ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:53:26 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)*

I have bad texture issues. I fought my parents when I didnโ€™t like what my mom made, and they would lie and call everything chicken. Obviously I wasnโ€™t dumb and could visually know what I didnโ€™t like before, but this went on until I was 17. Iโ€™m still pissed about it and trying new foods gives me anxiety. Iโ€™m trying to eat more things as an adult, but itโ€™s really hard. I find a lot of fruits/veggies to be sour or make me gag due to texture, and I struggle with meats.

The original problem was I donโ€™t like gravy and the texture it gave the meat. I didnโ€™t like steak because however my mom made it made it too tough and made my jaw hurt.

If I said why I didnโ€™t like it (at least with the steak), I was basically ignored and told to eat it anyways.

I hope yours and OPs way of doing things is more common than my parents way.

Also wanted to add, when I wanted to go vegan as a kid instead of helping me transition, mom told me I wouldnโ€™t eat anything vegan. Not try to help with the transition. Just told no you canโ€™t. Apparently she would have supported me otherwise.

I wish this was isolated to food.

tsubasaq ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:57:49 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah, thatโ€™s not a helpful thing to get good food competence. The discussion of food likes/dislikes really is dependent on being able to refuse foods. Iโ€™d suspect at this point that your issues might be psychologically rooted and therapy might help with the new food anxiety. You might also investigate sensory disorders as a possibility. Thatโ€™s pretty common for people who carry pickiness into adulthood.

FartingPickles ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:04:11 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Iโ€™ve struggled with the idea of actual therapy for this because of worry of being forced as well as being judged.

I feel like itโ€™s kind of obvious they wouldnโ€™t be judging me or something, but itโ€™s probably conditioned.

tsubasaq ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:45:40 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It likely is. You might want to look into CBT and eating disorder therapy, because thatโ€™s probably applicable. (Disordered eating involves a lot more than body image-focused behaviors!) It might also help to address it from a potential issue with sensory integration, which side-steps the eating issue on its own and looks at whether thereโ€™s an underlying physical/developmental issue for why you struggle with so many foods. (I have ADHD and some associated sensory issues, this is totally a thing.)

Getting to therapy is hard, I know it. Maybe you could try one of the online services to get started?

weirdgurl7 ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 22:13:52 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It's not a sign of an intolerance, those protein chains are in a lot of foods. You're just picky, don't feel justified. Spoiled American, one bite at least? Wait until you're starving then see if you like it.

Fantastic-2019 ยท 17 points ยท Posted at 19:24:14 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My teen had reflux as a baby, and I read somewhere that can make kids (and eventually adults) sensitive to texture. He always hated mushy foods, including baby cereals and well-cooked vegetables. For a long time, he hated sauces (would never have gravy or spaghetti sauce) and now he's fine with them. He has outgrown most of his texture sensitivities and he'll pretty much try anything now. Through one thing he still can't tolerate is fat or skin on meat - he cuts off every shred and avoids foods like bacon. But he'll eat it once he's defatted/deskinned it.

_that_dam_baka_ ยท 13 points ยท Posted at 20:00:23 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I think it is a bit of a texture thing for kids.

It is. I still don't like the texture of some stuff. Broccoli, for example. I love the taste, but the texture of some parts... Bleh. I'm an adult and I can't reject food based on texture anymore.

Puree that when possible.

Condawg ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:05:39 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'm an adult and I can't reject food based on texture anymore.

I can, and do! Texture is just as important as taste, for me. If I don't like how something feels in my mouth, I'm not going to enjoy it. Which sucks, because, for instance, pickles taste so goddamned good. I would love to have pickles on a burger, if their texture wasn't weird as fuck to me. But it is, so I never get pickles. (Or sometimes get pickles, then take them off and give them to whoever I'm with that loves pickles, and I get a bit of that flavor from the pickle juice on my burger.)

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:32:41 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

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_that_dam_baka_ ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:39:15 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I've never had mushrooms but this for garlic.

SubliminalMascot ยท 17 points ยท Posted at 19:56:43 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I think it is a bit of a texture thing for kids.

I'm sure for some things it's texture and for some it's taste, but those are greatly exaggerated.

I wager that it's mostly cultural influence.

There are many places in the world where vegetables are the bulk of what everyone, including children, eat. But in western cultures vegetables are relegated to side dishes, making them far less desirable than the main entree.

And media/pop culture that kids are exposed to just makes it worse. Kids hear that vegetables are gross and adopt behavior that reflects that, which is why hiding vegetables in food is so effective - it's all in their head.

My siblings and I were homeschooled for the first couple years, and my dad has told me that after starting public school we became far more picky eaters and more difficult to shop for - because we started watching more TV to keep up with what our new friends watched, and that included all the advertisements.

Kids are clueless beings trying fit in, so they act out whatever they think they should be like.

kiwispouse ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:56:10 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Adding in to this, oldest daughter eats any vege, and I believe it's because when she was little, we made show out of trying and enjoying them. I really dislike cauliflower, so her dad would say "oh, try this, it's amazing!" And I would do the same for, say, broccoli. I'm the one who hates onions. I like the flavour, but the texture grosses me out. So I bung them into the food processor and it's fine. The child that doesn't like zucchini doesn't mind it grated in. Lots of ways to develop positive food habits. the only veg eldest wouldn't eat was peas, and I figured since she ate everything else, I wasn't going to argue over peas (not easily grated!). She started eating them herself later on.

VerneAsimov ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 20:49:52 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'm the exact opposite. Vegetables often have way better texture than meat. A vegan ground beef substitute I tried wasn't gristly, flavorless. I definitely know how to cook which is why I prefer vegetables

Nazmazh ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:49:26 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)*

Texture/mouthfeel is definitely a dealbreaker for me when it comes to onions. My mom too. However, onion soup mix has been one of our go-to meat seasonings for years in our family (also, strangely enough soups).

When the onions are dried and obliterated beyond having texture, they're fantastic flavouring.

Catkii ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:54:43 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Wonder how theyโ€™re react to a soup thatโ€™s been blended to a single consistency, like pumpkin?

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:38:42 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

They love pumpkin bread and pumpkin doughnuts. They don't it any other way (soup, roasted, pie). They aren't as picky now as they used to be, and they are used to the "one bite" routine for new foods. That is how they discovered they love pumpkin doughnuts. We were walking around a festival and someone was making those. I bought a bag for myself and gave each of the kids a small piece to try.

I had to go back and buy a few more bags of them. Any time they discover they like something new, I count that as a win.

Urdothor ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:30:50 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'm reasonably adultish and I'm still a texture eater. Theres a lot of foods where I enjoy the flavor but the texture bothers the hell out if me.

thecolouramber ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:28:53 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You could always blend it and have a smooth, thick soup!

saturdaybloom ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 18:46:51 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Sorta similar to what my aunt used to do. I spent a lot of weekends having sleepovers at her place with my cousins when I was younger and she would mash the vegetables into our rice and tell us that the rice just came green/yellow/orange-coloured.

josh61980 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:47:47 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Thatโ€™s a classic one. A friend once told me his uncles refuse to eat their veggies unless they bury them in the mashed potatoes.

Ginfly ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 20:53:22 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

When I was very young, I refused eat peas. I said they hurt my back, which sounded like a lie, I guess.

My mother blended them into mashed potatoes so I wouldn't know they were there and she would catch me in the lie.

I ended up writhing on the floor in pain for an hour. Turns out I'm allergic to legumes, which were causing bronchospasms that presented as constriction in my back.

Diegosanchezz ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:36:23 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My mom did the same thing, my sister and I wouldn't eat vegetables for some reason, stupid kids I guess, so she blended everything together and strained it back into the broth. We never caught on, and she still does it this way, even though we're both older and will eat anything.

Emis_ ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:35:50 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Usually it has more to do with the texture than the taste. I for example love the flavour of chicken soup/stock but will start throwing up when I have to eat chicken in a soup (completely fine when grilled)

Endulos ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:37:52 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I used to hate onions too. Still don't like raw, or half-cooked onions, but I LOVE fully cooked onions in stuff now.

I remember when I was a kid, my mom always made this meal we just referred to as Macaroni and Tomato (Basically just macaroni, mixed with ground beef cooked with onions and tomatos, topped with parmesean cheese) and I ALWAYS demanded my mom make me a side batch without onions because they were disgusting. Mom always argued that it "didn't taste any different!", and I would counter-argue with "If it doesn't change the flavor why add them???".

She always did, until she didn't (Put her foot around at 14). I started eating the regular one, and one day I decided to make it myself (I was 16), I omitted the onions. I started to eat it and it was ... Good, but the onions really added to the flavor and mom was like "What's wrong?" and I just said "You were right, the onions are needed" and I stopped eating it like that.

savtaytex ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:54:57 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I still hate onions. The whole flavor tastes so so bad to me. That and pickles. You can blend them into basically onion powder and I can taste it. Made my moms life a bit harder lol.

acealeam ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:20:37 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

/r/onionhate

theres a lot of these losers out there

RiotGrrr1 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:48:10 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I don't like biting into chunks of onion but cook with them, I just mince them finely to get the flavor.

Nazmazh ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:46:43 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My mom and myself are both firmly of the opinion that onions are great for flavouring food, but the texture of onions is majorly off-putting.

So we both use a lot of onion powder/onion soup mix in our cooking, so that the onions have been essentially obliterated beyond any level of texture.

That being said, my mom still does cook with actual onions in soups and such - They are cooked to the point that they retain no texture, though.

I don't find myself in situations where I cook tons of big meals all that often, so I stick to my "safe" recipes, generally. Avoid stuff that I don't enjoy generally if I mess up the timing on cooking, stuff like that.

P4azz ยท 46 points ยท Posted at 20:07:32 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Am I the only one who grew up not hating veggies?

I mean I certainly disliked certain ones, still do, but damn would I munch down on some peas/carrots/broccoli.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 25 points ยท Posted at 20:36:16 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

A lot of my colleagues and neighbors are vegetarian and from India. Most of them have given up on forcing their kids to eat the same way. I think there is a peer pressure/culture among kids here in the US to "hate" veggies.

When I went on a trip to India, I saw plenty of kids eating fully veg meals with no problem.

SwevenFishes ยท 20 points ยท Posted at 21:32:33 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I grew up enjoying peas and carrots rarely, because after eating them, my insides felt a little less sick. My father hated vegetables so I never got anything other than corn. He literally said "I had to eat my veggies as a kid, now I am an adult and don't have to have them in my house." I was always torn because I had to hate them but they also were not bad.

I also grew up with major digestive problems that my mother tormented and shamed me for. Said digestive problems went away when I moved out and incorporated vegetables into my diet. Now my father avoids my cooking because "It has icky veggies in it"

katasian ยท 14 points ยท Posted at 22:59:56 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Wow, thatโ€™s really heartbreaking to hear that your dad deprived you of nutrition and your mom shamed you for the hurt it caused. Iโ€™m glad to hear you are feeling healthier now that you can cook for yourself.

katasian ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 22:57:51 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)*

Nope, youโ€™re not alone. My sister and I never had a โ€œhating veggiesโ€ stage, and we are American-born and raised. We ate any veggie my parents made except endive (super bitter!)

I will say my parents are very good cooks who made a large variety of veggie dishes, though. It sounds like a lot of veggie haters/ former veggie haters had parents who exclusively steamed or boiled veggies and often drastically overcooked them.

Edit: typo

pneumonoultramicrosi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:02:38 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Endive is leaves.

dragalcat ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:12:24 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I had no problem eating veggies as a kid, except for celery. Our only snack options in our house were apples, carrots, or occasionally a slice of cheese though. We just didnโ€™t have snack foods in our house. And when school kids later gave me flack for liking veggies, it just didnโ€™t deter me since I wasnโ€™t easily swayed by peer pressure as a child.

I think itโ€™s likely a combo of if you have more sugary snack foods available to you instead, and America has this weird expectation that all kids should only like certain foods and they pick up on that.

nim_opet ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:19:53 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I grew up eating everything (being picky with my grandmother was never an option), but always gaged at the smell and taste of heated cabbage (regardless how it was cooked: boiled, braised, etc...). Years later I discovered that my dad hated it too. But, I always ate it, and I discovered that my father never complained to my mother because he considered it rude and just kept eating. In a way Iโ€™m grateful for being told that I need to eat a variety of foods because I learned to enjoy tastes and flavors that are very different and have yet to find a cuisine I wonโ€™t at least taste a few times.

---ShineyHiney--- ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:19:08 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Nah. Iโ€™ve always adored any kind of produce. It was easier to get me to eat my veggies than pretty much anything else

I could pretty much live on spinach

erichwanh ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 20:11:31 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I think it comes down to an old adage I used to hear amongst friends:

"Veggies are like sex: you tend to like it when you're older so long as it wasn't forced on you as a child"

besssu ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:30:37 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Are you seriously comparing feeding your child a healthy diet to sexual abuse?

SnowingSilently ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:51:59 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

As a kid I wasn't very picky, and now as an adult I'm even less picky. I'd even say I'm a pretty adventurous eater and willing to try out most things and actually enjoy most of them too. There's a lot of reasons why kids don't like veggies though. Sometimes they hate the texture. Sometimes the parents really are just not that great at cooking them. Sometimes the flavours are appealing to an adult palate, but not to children. Bitter and sulfurous flavours are often found in many veggies, and while as adults we may tolerate them or even enjoy them, for kids just the slightest hint can be absolutely disgusting. Also, I believe that some veggies quite literally taste better than they did just twenty or so years ago. Brussel sprouts for one have new varieties that are a lot less bitter than they were in the 90s.

username0702 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:33:19 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

i've always liked most vegetables, or at least was neutral to them. I just don't like the texture of raw carrots and celery

Utasora ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:15:32 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I grew up eating spinach out of the can sitting in front of the TV. There are only like 1 or 2 things I won't eat now

dszp ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 13:39:08 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I ate raw veggies, including out of the garden, all the time growing up. I still eat most of the asparagus we grow raw moments after picking (sadly, because steamed with butter & salt or grilled withโ€”yep, butter and salt) are also both amazing. I didnโ€™t love steamed Brussels sprouts as a kid, though Iโ€™d eat them, but roasted is great. Raw broccoli wasnโ€™t my favorite growing up but I tried itโ€”was fine steamed with butter and salt (and sometimes some lemon juice).

bawkbawks ยท 33 points ยท Posted at 16:53:20 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That's a fantastic lesson on so many levels for kids! Picky eaters who are exposed to cooking skills early usually get over that hump pretty quickly, especially if they taste before and after adding different ingredients!

Catkii ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 00:04:15 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Agreed. I was a picky eater in my young days. Then when I was about 10 my parents started to get me to cook dinner for the family once a week. For a while I just did the same thing every week, but slowly started getting adventurous with what I was making, and tasting things as I went. I remember being in high school and finding recipes online in the computer lab to bring home and cook, that my mother would never have dreamed of (typical white woman, water is spicy, etc).

Now I eat pretty much anything. Still canโ€™t do seafood, while I like the taste, the smell and textures make me gag.

Also have a weird hang up on bones, canโ€™t eat anything off the bone. Iโ€™m the guy at a barbecue using a knife and fork on a chicken wing.

D0ng0nzales ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:15:28 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

One of my roommates never got this lesson I think, shes the most picky eater I have ever met. She doesn't like any vegetable, cannot cook at all, anything above pepper in spice level is too spicy. Whenever my other roommate and I make a curry or something shell only eat the rice. Plain. She's 20 btw.

nosir_nomaam ยท 34 points ยท Posted at 17:32:40 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)*

I see people saying just blend up the vegetables, & that's great too, in certain instances, but I love how you used this case to teach them why the veggies were in there. A++ parenting!

djsedna ยท 52 points ยท Posted at 16:55:45 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I like this, great way to teach a lesson in a kind and loving manner. I assume you and your wife had a second dinner in mind for yourself? I surely am not eating chicken water to prove a point to my kids, hahaha

PonderFish ยท 16 points ยท Posted at 20:10:06 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I think itโ€™s easy to fix this one, just add the ingredients back in, might need to cook them a little on their own first. Depending might just end up being done on a left over night.

djsedna ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:26:34 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah, though you'd have to simmer for a bit with the veggies so you'd be eating a bit later

Mathewdm423 ยท 25 points ยท Posted at 16:54:39 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Did you salvage the bad soup tho?

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 68 points ยท Posted at 17:13:39 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yep. Added some chunks of sourdough bread and some veggies, and boiled it another 30 minutes. Ended up with a light stew.

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Worthyness ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 00:07:20 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

take the noodles out

Mathewdm423 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:36:40 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yum! A lesson and a new dinner.

CheeseheadDave ยท 28 points ยท Posted at 17:03:05 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

At this point, it's just boiled chicken. You could fish it out and cut it up for a salad.

Mathewdm423 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:37:59 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Kudos for salad being your goto.

My first two thoughts were chicken quasadillas and pulled BBQ sandwhiches.

mordortek ยท 264 points ยท Posted at 16:29:08 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Picky eater here, farther to two picky but one as picky as me eater. I don't like it, I wish I had the ability to eat more but it becomes complicated when it became psychosomatic. That is why my pickyer eater is not getting away like I did and has become much better at eating a variety of foods.

Anyway, when I was small, we were at family day at the Airforce Base and we're having lunch. I was full of dread and they served meatloaf. Now I've been working on eating and not gagging/worse and I was able to eat meat loaf. I no longer can, it's horrifying to me, but anyway, my dad would load his home made up on black pepper.

When we yelled that this was way better then my dad's, so many heads turned it was not funny. We put him on the spot for sure and laughter came. It was not a big deal and no repercussions came about because he was generally well liked and personable.

Sorry about the way this is written, I'm not very good with English.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 209 points ยท Posted at 17:12:04 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I grew up as a picky eater. My parents would load the plate up with food, and they never forced me to eat anything - only ask was that I tasted everything on the plate at least once.

My mom started to cook broccoli with lots of butter and bacon. I would suck all the juice from the broccoli because, well, it tasted like butter and bacon. After a few dinners like that, I started to eat the fluffy part of the broccoli. Now I'll enjoy plain raw or steamed broccoli. Tastes change, but it never hurts to try.

So far, I got my youngest one eating broccoli.

Ashby238 ยท 72 points ยท Posted at 17:30:35 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Thatโ€™s what I did with my son. Taste everything, eat what you like. He is 15 and will try any food once and has only a few things he doesnโ€™t like. The backlash is that he never wanted childrenโ€™s menus because they were boring.

PiesangSlagter ยท 31 points ยท Posted at 18:14:41 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

A small price to pay for salvation.

bibbidybobbidyboom ยท 26 points ยท Posted at 18:43:25 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My kids often didn't even know there was a kids menu, a lot of that is gross stuff. Especially at Vietnamese, Chinese, Moroccan, Indian etc places. They are not getting chicken nuggets, they can eat what we're eating until they are big enough to require their own plate. And by then they have something they like to eat.

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Official_Legacy ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:31:37 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Same for me. I almost est anything.

The only thing I don't really like is Raw tomatoes. (But I love them cooked and seasoned).

I can eat tomatoes but I prefer not. But sometimes I do eat a tomatoes / cheese / toasted sandwich so I don't really hate them.

MadDogA245 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:17:31 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I also despise raw tomatoes, but love them cooked. But besides that, eggplant, avocado, Brussels sprouts, and very oily fish, I will eat anything from century eggs to rattlesnake cooked over a campfire.

pneumonoultramicrosi ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:53:58 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I HATE cooked tomatoes, but love raw tomatoes. One taste like fruit, while other tastes like slime with fluid.

MadDogA245 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:57:54 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Raw tomatoes, to me, are unpleasantly acrid with a texture somewhere between badly cooked chicken and slugs...

pneumonoultramicrosi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:29:42 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

??? They're a nice fruit

krakdaddy ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:59:28 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Any time my kid realizes we have olives (we buy them at Costco, we always have olives, but I have to hide them in the garage now) he asks for olives and will eat a whole can instead of anything else. I was the same way as a kid. Olives rock.

pneumonoultramicrosi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:54:12 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Just let him eat olives

krakdaddy ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:01:31 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

They are not a nutritionally complete food, so he only gets can-of-olives for dinner once in a while. And sometimes he wants several ears of corn for dinner instead. We shoot for balance across weeks.

tourmaline82 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:04:25 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Haha, that was me! My mom would try and coax me to order the boring crap from the kids menu and I was having none of it. Forget the kids plate of spaghetti, I wanted linguine with clam sauce.

mordortek ยท 32 points ยท Posted at 17:17:39 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

With alot if food I use the fry trick. I started eating cheese burgers this way. I love fries, so a bunch of fries and a bite of what ever. It kinda works

BAAT-G ยท 18 points ยท Posted at 17:34:50 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That's how I got my daughter to eat her grilled chicken pieces yesterday. Small piece of chicken, small piece of fry. She's a little over a year and a half so it worked fairly well.

ishie1013 ยท 24 points ยท Posted at 17:32:30 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That was my rule as a kid. Had to try a bite of everything; didnโ€™t have to eat anything. My parents wouldnโ€™t highlight meals where I really hated something (canned tuna), but I also didnโ€™t get special meals unless we were dining or eating TV dinners.

It worked apparently. Now thereโ€™s very little I wonโ€™t eat.

Desurvivedsignator ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 18:14:02 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I used to be a quite picky eater. And my parents didn't have a strict principle I'd be subject to. Yet, nowadays I enjoy many of the things I thought I hated as a kid.

Except canned tuna. Leave the damn cat food for the damn cats ans don't dare to put it on my pizza!

And eggs. Don't get me started on fucking chicken periods.

AnselaJonla ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:57:33 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I can't stand fried or scrambled eggs. And until recently I felt the same about all egg based foods. Not stuff where the egg was mixed in, just where it was the main ingredient.

Then mum made some pea and mint mini fritattas from a WeightWatcher's recipe. Those did not last, they were too moreish.

I've since discovered that omelettes are delicious, as long as I make them myself and am therefore capable of spicing it to my liking. Certain quiches are also tolerable. And I've always loved eggy bread.

Don't give me Scotch eggs though. Those can fuck right off.

Desurvivedsignator ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 08:25:16 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Egg-based disgmhes are fine. As long as they neither taste or smell like eggs. Or have the texture of egg.

nymvaline ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:36:25 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

chicken periods

Ha! Thank you for brightening up my afternoon :) What's your opinion on duck periods?

For my part, the one thing I'm still picky about is cheese. First few bites on an empty stomach are good, but usually after a few more bites I want to throw up, so I tend to avoid it in general because I hate wasting food. But it's okay in certain contexts like pizza (although sometimes even that ends up being too much).

Weird thing is, I'm lactose intolerant but I love milk/ice cream/yogurt... it's only cheese that makes me want to vomit.

Desurvivedsignator ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 11:05:59 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Ha! Thank you for brightening up my afternoon :) What's your opinion on duck periods?

Glad you found it funny! Usually people are grossed out when I call eggs that. Chicken, duck, quail - all eggs, I'm not a bird racist.

The cheese thing sucks! Especially with cheese being one of the few dairy products that oftentimes lactose free...

ishie1013 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:46:38 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

The cats. I grew up with cats. That smell. Ick.

vj_c ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:43:00 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My parents did the same with me. The list of foods I won't eat is basically just raw tomatoes, aubergine & avacadoes.

Tall_Mickey ยท 21 points ยท Posted at 17:38:00 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Sounds like your mom was a good cook who knew the score. I used to work in the schools, and heard some fifth grader complain that he hated carrots. I said, try 'em thin-sliced and sauteed in butter and you won't hate them. He went home and somehow arranged that, and came back raving about how good they were.

AedificoLudus ยท 26 points ยท Posted at 17:48:34 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I've learnt not to mess with it

When I was still in school, we found out one of the kids didn't like steak. Being shitty kids, we dogged on him for it, but we soon found out he'd only ever eaten a steak well done, so we convinced him to try medium rare.

long story short, he managed to convince his mother to cook a medium rare steak. A medium rare chicken steak.

Where that mistake came in, or how his mother didn't know better, I'll never know, but now I stay out of it generally.

PiesangSlagter ยท 18 points ยท Posted at 18:19:22 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Naw man, if someone is stupid enough to cook and eat a medium rare chicken "steak" that's on them.

pneumonoultramicrosi ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 02:55:15 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Does... does he not know what a STEAK is?

Has he never played minecraft?(idk the year)

basketma12 ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 20:38:52 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Not only that but they are easy to grow in pots. You will be spoiled forever if you grow your own. It's not just tomatoes that are better

yiotaturtle ยท 22 points ยท Posted at 18:01:31 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My friends mom found out I never ate salads, I hated salads. My friend invited me to spend a week at her house over the summer. Yay! Her mom served nothing for dinner and lunch but salads. I could put what I wanted on it, but that's all that was on offer. I knew what I liked and didn't like, but I was taught to be respectful of my friends parents if I wanted to be invited back. I ended up really liking salads. Then ended up developing an allergy to raw carrots.

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AlexandrinaIsHere ยท 24 points ยท Posted at 18:47:21 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Which is a part of why you shouldn't force the issue.

Also why it is good to ask specifics and describe things. I have heard, for example, someone discovered they have a tomato allergy after they said "I hate tomatos because they're too spicy. Burns my mouth."

If a kid calls lima beans "bleh" they just hate them. If they say a random food "burns" or "feels itchy" it can be an allergy.

pneumonoultramicrosi ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 02:55:58 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Wait so am I allergic to pistachios???

My mouth feels itchy for like an hour after I eat them.

AlexandrinaIsHere ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 03:01:27 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Safer to presume allergic than not, but I'm no doc.

Important bit, if you're thinking of eating them anyway. Itching on skin and in mouth involves minor swelling. Major swelling is what causes your throat to swell shut.

So if you're gonna keep eating them, please go to an allergy doc first to let them talk you out of it. Allergies can get worse slowly or really damn fast and you do not need sudden inability to breathe.

pneumonoultramicrosi ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 03:29:21 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I absolutely hate pistachios, so I should be fine.

sueelleker ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:51:39 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I like carrots, but our school used to serve salads with grated carrot. Couldn't stand that wet pile.

AedificoLudus ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 17:42:55 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I've always loved broccoli, since I was a little kid, but I've never liked the taste of raw broccoli. I don't know if in preparing it wrong, or just super used to cooked broccoli.

Is there some special prep you should do? or do you just bite in like I've been doing?

Shastaw2006 ยท 23 points ยท Posted at 17:58:07 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Raw broccoli is gross. โ€œRawโ€ broccoli that goes on a veggie tray (as an appetizer with ranch dip) should be blanched. Steam the broccoli until it turns bright bright green (not very long at all) then dunk in ice water. Itโ€™ll taste much better.

These instructions say to boil the broccoli in salted water for 1 minute. Thatโ€™d be good too.

https://recipeforperfection.com/how-to-blanch-broccoli-cauliflower-carrots/

yiotaturtle ยท 10 points ยท Posted at 18:07:50 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I love carrots but am allergic to raw carrots, I don't put them in ice water but I cook them for a very short period of time when I'm in the mood for raw carrots but will settle for cooked but still a little bit of crunch.

bibbidybobbidyboom ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 18:46:33 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I wonder if pickled carrots would not activate your allergy? Crunchy and sooo delicious.

yiotaturtle ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:07:27 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I don't think I've ever seen a pickled carrot. I'm assuming you mean pickled.

bibbidybobbidyboom ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:28:19 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yup, carrots in vinegar like cucumbers makes pickles. They are hard to find, Tillen Farms is the only brand I've ever seen in a regular grocery store.

Oroano ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:48:44 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My baba makes pickled carrots by tossing a spear into each jar of pickles she makes. My sister and I used to fight over them so she started putting two in each jar. She made a jar that was just carrots one time and it wasnโ€™t the same, we told her to go back to the old way.

bibbidybobbidyboom ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:33:16 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Our Vietnamese place has the best ones, so I tried making them using online recipes, and they were no good. Every year I tell my husband what I want for my birthday is a big jar of their carrots. He thinks I'm wierd, and I have to settle for eating there instead.

I'm thinking the scarcity is what makes it delicious :)

nice2yz ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:45:04 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Could be a contest, or just raw metal

yiotaturtle ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:29:06 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Huh?

bellowingbullfinches ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:41:23 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I enjoy raw broccoli, but youโ€™re right itโ€™s even better blanched.

funyesgina ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:51:26 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Even better โ€œranchedโ€

velawesomeraptors ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 18:11:17 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I eat raw broccoli, it's nice and crunchy.

CantWard ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 17:54:11 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Raw broccoli is pretty good with ranch. I also like to make a broccoli slaw with raw broccoli, red onion, Parmesan cheese, and a slaw sauce. Sooo good!

amy1705 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:11:01 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

They sell shredded broccoli slaw with the bagged salads in most big grocery stores. It's amazing with cranberries, green onions, nuts, diced cheese and a poppyseed or honey mustard dressing. Add apples too. It's good for getting kids to eat more veggies.

marsglow ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:03:24 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

And sunflower seeds, of course.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:26:11 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I would still rather it be steamed a bit, but I can eat it raw on a salad. I think I just became accustomed to the taste over the years. Drinking lots of scalding hot coffee probably helped dull my taste buds.

thenorthernscar ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:11:16 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I prefer it cooked somehow over raw as well, but I recently found out that broccolini isnโ€™t as bleh tasting as full on broccoli when served raw. Itโ€™s slightly sweeter. The stalks arenโ€™t as thick either, which I think makes it better to eat raw since the middle of the stalk is usually the worst tasting part of broccoli.

munkymu ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:21:44 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It has that mildly peppery cabbage-y flavour so you might just not like it. I happen to enjoy that flavour, my SO really doesn't. I will happily grab a handful of raw broccoli from a veggie tray but when we have it at home it's either roasted or blanched.

thenorthernscar ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:02:57 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I wish my parents had done this. I survived off Mac and cheese, pizza, and chicken nuggets as a kid. Iโ€™m in my 20s now and still have issues trying new foods. I didnโ€™t try a burger until I was 20 and man was I missing out. Iโ€™ve gotten A LOT better and have greatly expanded my range of foods, but itโ€™s still a challenge to try new things, especially โ€œweirdโ€ ones.

Iโ€™m still not big on seafood at all, and Iโ€™ll never be at the point where I can even try bugs or raw meats, but I love many veggies (shout out to broccoli again, itโ€™s actually delicious) and have tried things I wouldโ€™ve never thought Iโ€™d like.

I think it helped me be more adventurous in other parts of life too, as in Iโ€™m willing to try new activities/search out new interests rather than sticking to what I know.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:34:09 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Most recently, we were at a burger place and I order some burger that had sauteed onions, mushrooms, BBQ sauce, bacon, and probably a bunch of other things on it. My eldest and most picky kid wanted to try a bite. He loved it, so I happily swapped meals with him (well, my taste buds were not very happy with his chicken nuggets). I count it as a win, and it is another flavor he now knows he likes.

thenorthernscar ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:12:24 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That sounds delicious (except the mushrooms lol). Thatโ€™s awesome that he liked it and honestly thereโ€™s a whole lot of foods that have one or more of those ingredients as the base. He opened up a whole new world of dishes!

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:13:45 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Funny thing is that they tried burgers and BK and MCD, and they agree that those aren't very good. The best ones are from those places that cook over charcoal. The love the taste of grilled burgers.

thenorthernscar ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:22:50 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Absolutely! I hate BK burgers. McDโ€™s or Wendyโ€™s will satisfy the craving but homemade or grilled are the best.

Best burger Iโ€™ve ever had was in the Cayman Islands. Little local restaurant, jerk seasoned burger with pepper jack, jerk mayo and the regular veggies. I actually use jerk seasoning I bought down there wherever I make burgers now, it gives it a delicious kick.

Kidiri90 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:12:43 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Never liked broccoli as a kid either. Until I discovered it was basically my parents overcooking it. Now, some fried broccoli, or grilled broccoli is delicious. Not to mention that awesome vibrant green you can get from preparing it correctly.

Fantastic-2019 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:14:29 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My kid will eat brocolli any which way. But if it's baked in the oven with olive oil, salt, pepper and sprinkled with parmesan cheese toward the end, he will hoover that shit up.

thenorthernscar ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:12:36 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That sounds delicious. Any particular measurements or a season to taste type deal?

Fantastic-2019 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:18:13 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Pretty much season to taste. I cut the broc, throw it in a glass baking dish (like for lasagne), drizzle olive oil, salt it, pepper it, scooch it all around with tongs to coat, then into the oven at 300 or 350. Towards the end, take it out and sprinkle as much grated parm as you like. Put it back in for just a bit - the cheese will burn if it goes in for long. You can also add garlic in from the beginning if that suits.

adotfree ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:08:37 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My mom does the "try at least one fork/spoonful with new food" thing (tinned asparagus is gross and i don't particularly like it fresh either, but i'll eat a few pieces as long as it's the fluffy part and not the stem) and it worked pretty well for me (and seems to work pretty well for my nieces and nephews). I did something similar with my partner when we started dating, just asking him to try a taster bite of thing I was eating (got him eating mushrooms in food by asking if we could try the pasta sauce with mushrooms diced up in it and he liked it... now we've expanded that to actively making mushroom dishes).

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:03:25 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I really think it is an easy hump for kids to cross. "I only have to taste this thing on my plate once and then I can leave it alone."

mischiffmaker ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 13:01:51 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Huh. I went on a ketogenic diet and stopped eating grains and sugar. That of course means no pasta, and oddly enough the vegetable I prefer with just about any sauce now is broccoli, because the fluffy part is, as you say, great at picking up and holding the tasty things!

TL;DR: Pasta is nothing but a flavor carrier, anyway. Broccoli works just as well to get sauce from plate to mouth.

Pm_ur_fav_nude ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:26:25 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I have never understood why people donโ€™t like just steamed broccoli (not mush broccoli) with salt and pepper. Butter, cheese, bacon, whatever else just makes the taste worse imo.

eazolan ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 18:18:18 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Little kids need sugar and fats to help fuel growth.

WeaselNo7 ยท 22 points ยท Posted at 17:06:32 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Love it! Also, hi fellow picky-eating-survivor! My mum used to whisk eggs into milkshakes to get some kind of protein inside of me

Mommabearofthree ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:04:29 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'm thankful for protein shakes in this regard. My toddler will happily drink them when I give them. I only give them when she's had bad (not eating) habits. We also give vitamin gummies every night to make sure she's getting what she needs.

WeaselNo7 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:50:00 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It only recently occurred to me to get whey protein powders! Such a good idea.

pneumonoultramicrosi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:56:26 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

ew, eggs.

protein=beans and shit

Alamagoozlum ยท 18 points ยท Posted at 17:42:51 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Trust me, you're not the first person to discover how good some foods are once your parents aren't cooking them. I adore my mother but her pork chops could be used as hockey pucks. I didn't know how good they could be until I tried pork chops at a friend house.

yiotaturtle ยท 14 points ยท Posted at 18:12:27 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My husband's family were sale hunters. So every cut of meat would be from some super sale. Then they'd keep it in the freezer without removing all the air from it for months until it had a good freezer burn. Then they'd cook it to well done. My mom lives with us but even before then was teaching him what steak and pork and ham and hamburgers are supposed to taste like.

RurouniKarly ยท 12 points ยท Posted at 18:12:45 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My mother was really into Weight Watchers when I was little, so we never got butter on anything and virtually all vegetables were served either raw or steamed plain. I hated asparagus until one day my grandmother made it broiled with olive oil, salt, and pepper.

Dcox123 ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 20:11:53 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Love asparagus now as an adult, hate the pee smell that comes with it.

ok_wynaut ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 21:43:45 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Did you know that the ability to smell asparagus in pee is genetic? Not everyone can smell it! I found that out because it's one of the results listed in the 23andme DNA analysis. I told my parents and my dad said, "Wow that's cool!" while my mom said, "Wait, you can smell asparagus in your pee???" Pretty obvious who I inherited it from lol!

Dcox123 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:37:50 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Just imagine the testing for this skill.

Insolitus ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 19:16:33 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Absolutely. Growing up, I think the only vegetable I ever had that wasn't canned was corn. I didn't realize how much I actually liked vegetables that weren't squishy and weird. Especially asparagus--that shit is nasty canned.

rumade ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:52:31 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

The only canned vegetable I will eat is corn! ๐Ÿ˜‚

sidhescreams ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 07:18:18 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I wonโ€™t eat canned vegetables...except for asparagus. I hated canned corn as a kid, but all the rest of our vegetables were canned and I was fine with it. As an adult I barely tolerate frozen vegetables, but man I love canned asparagus lol.

colieolieravioli ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:37:11 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

God, I used to think steak was "ok" because mom would make it well done, and a little more for good measure. I never got why steak was "so good" and then I tried medium-rare filet at a steak restaurant and I realized what happened

thenorthernscar ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:18:56 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

See I at least make the effort to learn how to cook it โ€œthe right wayโ€ and the way I like it. I like my meat dry. Doesnโ€™t matter what it is, chicken, burgers, bacon, sausage, etc., but it grosses me out if itโ€™s moist or has juice running out of it. I donโ€™t know why, and Iโ€™ve tried it plenty of times but I like to overcook it. Pretty much everyone else, including my husband, doesnโ€™t like it this way, so I at least attempt to โ€œundercookโ€ it for others. I still struggle with getting steak a good med-rare and canโ€™t cook bacon worth a damn but everything else I have down pretty well.

dtrud0h ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:36:59 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Steak= 6 minutes per side that's it.

Distempa ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:16:59 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Veggies on my Grandma's Sunday roast. My Granddad will only ever eat them cooked to mush, so I won't have loads of veg on her dinners, which is a shame, because I love nearly everything she serves up.

When I cook make my own for me and my SO it's vegetable galore

aManPerson ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:57:28 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

my mom used to grill the worst hamburgers. why? she'd mix in an egg and dry oats. i've learned later in life that was common to do for 1930's US great depression cooking to stretch the meat out.

it made them so incredibly dry. granted, i still loved them. i just know now how much better than could be.

uselessinfobot ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:06:57 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That's pretty much my mom's meatloaf! Which is fine if that's what you're going for, but probably not great in a burger.

aManPerson ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:11:42 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

the burgers i had were cooked well done too. so these were just, so dang dry. had to douse them in ketchup to keep from coughing. which i loved to do.....until i found what nice medium cooked stuff was like. oh man.

Whind_Soull ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:14:26 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

The dry oats are the problem. The egg would just act as a binder, and isn't really problematic.

robophile-ta ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:39:02 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My dad hated spaghetti bolognese because his mum was such a terrible cook. Once he tried proper spag bog, he was blown away.

katalia0826 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:50:13 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Agreed, before I got married, I swore up and down that I hated pork chops. It wasn't until my now husband cooked some on the grill that I found out that I actually liked them. Same goes for BBQ chicken. My mother would put the chicken on the grill and immediately add the BBQ sauce, resulting in eating a lot of carbon char. I had no idea how good something barbecued on the grill could be.

sueelleker ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:54:07 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I read a quote once that said "My Mum's cooking was so bad, I was 15 before I realised pork chops shouldn't bounce".

Yuzumi ยท 10 points ยท Posted at 17:51:36 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I use to think I was a picky eater, but as I got older I ended up eating a large variety of things and will try most things once.

I eventually realized I just didn't quite like how may family prepared stuff. I'm not sure what it is, I started cooking when I got my own place and don't usually have that much of an issue with the flavor.

The stuff my family makes is just... Bland. I can eat it, but I don't end up eating a whole lot and end up hungry a lot sooner.

The best thing my mom makes that I actually like is lasagna.

Gracefullyandgrandly ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:14:43 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I gag for meatloaf too!!! Can't stand it!

mordortek ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:15:21 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Sadly it's not just meatloaf. It's also very embarrassing as an adult to fear a dinner party or event

Gracefullyandgrandly ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:19:36 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah definitely. Onions, peppers, mustard, mayo, celery... Etc etc

Endulos ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:31:38 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Standard meatloaf is gross and I can't eat that shit, BUUUUUT the meatloaf my mom makes I could eat that shit 3 times a day because it's SO GOOD.

Skrubby-init ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:17:50 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I read picky eater as piss eater

mordortek ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 17:18:16 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'm not really in to that, but if it's your thing, high five

mymain123 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:03:16 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You can also blend the veggies, i hate to eat them and pick them out but if you blend them it's nice enough that way.

Endulos ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:30:45 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Maybe it's not that you're a picky eater, but it's that your parents cooking was terrible?

nightkil13r ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:54:18 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

your english is fine, Ive met native speakers that couldnt articulate this in writing like you have.

siempreslytherin ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:24:14 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

How do you convince your kids to eat certain foods when you wonโ€™t eat them yourself? Iโ€™ve not got kids but Iโ€™ve got pretty bad picky eating issues and I have some concerns about trying to convince my kid to eat foods I wonโ€™t eat. It feels like it would be hypocritical to say you have to eat your vegetables when mommy wonโ€™t eat hers, you know.

mordortek ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:41:13 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It's not easy, it is hard but I'm thankful for a wife who helps me in that area.

patchybear ยท 50 points ยท Posted at 16:57:08 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Lol. I thought you were going to make them another soup and blend it so they wouldnt see the veggies. That's what I would have done lol

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 50 points ยท Posted at 17:02:20 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I do put shredded carrots in the tomato sauce for spaghetti. I don't think they have caught on yet.

patchybear ยท 24 points ยท Posted at 17:03:35 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My dad used to make great soup. He would split the soup in half and blend half of it and then put it all back together again. It was awesome

kronopopopoppolous ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 17:45:02 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Pretty standard way to make soup. To get fewer things dirty you can use an immersion blender. But, again, pretty standard

Brombeere ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 20:44:47 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I still do that for my bf. He can't stand the texture of cooked soup vegies. Usualy its potato or lentils soup. I cook the vegies seperately, blend them when cooked and add it to the cooked lentils/potatoes. It is a bit of extra work but he can enjoy the soups that way when he would otherwise lose his appetite. So i am okay with it.

pocapractica ยท 11 points ยท Posted at 17:21:39 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Cauliflower in the Mac and cheese or mashed potatoes? NOPE for me. I can smell and taste it.

I like cauliflower raw or pickled, but all cruciferous vegetables smell indigestible to me when cooked. I grudgingly eat steamed broccoli but my spouse overcooks it.

tsubasaq ยท 18 points ยท Posted at 17:40:03 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Have you tried roasting or other dry cooking methods? That funky sulfurous smell that crucifers give off happens MUCH less when cooked dry, and itโ€™s a sign of overcooking.

I do this all the time with Brussels sprouts (I absolutely adore them this way): cut them in half and trim off the stem ends, coat the bottom of a pan (cast iron is best, but anything will work) with some kind of fat and place over med-high to high heat, and lay the sprouts in the hot pan cut-side down. Then cover the pan with a snug lid for about 5 minutes. Open and toss, and if you want more browning, stir the veggies around and let brown uncovered until you get the level of golden crust you want. Season to taste and toss, maybe with some additional butter.

Do this with literally anything cruciferous, seriously. It comes out still crunchy (broccoli and cauliflower might take longer if you have a fair bit of stem), with a sweetness and serious lack of that gross overcooked smell. And the greens come out bright and appealing instead of faded, and youโ€™re not even adding any liquid! Itโ€™s steaming using the moisture already in the vegetables.

pocapractica ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:41:28 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

The only way I have eaten Brussels sprouts that I could stand was sauteed with soy sauce.

Cooked cabbage I sort of actually like, especially with potatoes. And sauerkraut or rotkraut.

Roasting brings up the roasted veg my former housemates used to make, which included beets, turnips and parsnips. Which is how I found that I also loathe turnips and parsnips. The only thing that smells worse than a turnip is a rotten turnip.

tsubasaq ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:27:58 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

The original Brussels sprouts recipe I took that method from includes a honey garlic soy sauce that my dad raves about. Thatโ€™s basically a sautรฉe that allows for browning, so you might give that a shot - just finish the cook with soy and whatever other seasonings you like.

And secret for you: Brussels sprouts are just tiny cabbages. They just grow on a stalk instead of alone straight from the ground. So you can cook them all the same ways youโ€™d cook any other kind of cabbage, or even eat them raw in salads or slaws. Saw an episode of Itโ€™s Alive from Bon Appรฉtit on YouTube where they made kimchi with them.

Demon_Teverde ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:03:00 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

this sounds awesome, saving it for later, thanks!! c:

Asenath_Darque ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 18:07:33 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My parents used to mash carrots in with mashed potatoes, we called it "orange potatoes" and it is so good! Never cauliflower, though. I might like that now, but probably would have been suspicious of it as a kid.

pocapractica ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:36:17 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It's white, so it doesn't stand out.

katalia0826 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:51:43 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I wish I had your taste pallet

StudiousPooper ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:38:33 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Veggies make such a great addition to spaghetti. I always load mine up with thinly chopped yellow squash, zucchini, and carrots and everyone who's ever tasted it always tells me how much they love the extra veggies :)

newbadhabit ยท 18 points ยท Posted at 17:14:00 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My motherโ€™s spaghetti sauce was always so full of vegetables. As I kid I would always complain, โ€œWhy canโ€™t we just have normal sauceโ€ now I always stick whatever I can into mine too, itโ€™s too boring without them.

nice2yz ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:09:32 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Wow itโ€™s mineโ€

tekalon ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:41:17 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My husband and I are picky eaters, but picky on different things. Veggies are hard for my husband (I love them, raw or cooked). At the very least, they have to be cooked (roasted is best). We found that cooking and then blending veggies into soups doesn't give him the issues whole ones does. Soups are becoming more common.

saulesspindulys ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 09:13:55 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I do that just because I like the taste carrots brings to it!

Zpaset ยท 16 points ยท Posted at 16:38:37 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is the best kind of MC, well done.

99999999977prime ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:13:58 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Medium rare.

CJsopinion ยท 31 points ยท Posted at 16:58:55 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

OMG. What an awesome idea!

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 43 points ยท Posted at 17:01:24 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

They don't let me cook any soup any more. They are still perfectly fine with my pot roasts and steaks, but they don't trust my soup.

Just-Call-Me-J ยท 31 points ยท Posted at 18:16:12 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Even though the only reason your soup was that bad was because you made it to their exact specifications?

ki113r116 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 01:08:47 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I noticed you started with water and not broth/stock. Do you normally not make your soup with water as a base or did you avoid it so your kids wouldn't like the soup?

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 16:35:00 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I start a lot of soups from water. I'll sometimes add bullion, but you can make soup just fine from water, and people have been doing that for generations. Starting from broth/stock/bullion gives you a head-start since it has a lot of salt, fat and seasoning already in it, but starting from plain water gives you control of the flavor.

If I do use stock, it is usually something I've made from the leftovers of a roast chicken. That's good stuff.

buttbuttmunchkin ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:48:38 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Iโ€™m not sure about op but you can just use water as a base for soups provided youโ€™re cooking the meat and bones for long enough. Like the only thing really that distinguishes soup from broth/stock is garnishing it with fresh herbs and in this case serving with noodles. Itโ€™s the same concept - to make broth/stock cook chicken (bones included) for 4-8 hours, season, add veg, cook some more, strain - to make chicken soup cook chicken (bones included) for 4-8 hours, season, add veg, cook some more, serve with parsley

At least in my experience, I grew up eating a lot of Polish chicken soup and the recent โ€œbone brothโ€ popularity has me going ???? itโ€™s literally just chicken soup but strained

Arakneo ยท 28 points ยท Posted at 17:11:14 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

As a former Picky eater, i want to thank you on their behalf. This is the first step in "courageous eating", I wish my parents had used such tactics with me!

SuzuranRose ยท 31 points ยท Posted at 18:08:43 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I like this and I'm going to use it as a life lesson some day if it ever comes up, thank you.

Also I totally bribe my kid when it comes to food. He loves fruits and veggies but the only meat he likes is chicken and ham. Whenever I make something he hasnt tried before, or something prepared in a way he hasnt tried, I tell him if he eats 3 good bites he can say a potty word. Potty words being words he isnt allowed to say normally like cuss words or mean words.

He'll eat his three bites and yell Poooooooop! As loud as he can, its hilarious.

savtaytex ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:00:13 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Thatโ€™s funny! I think all kids go through stages where they only like certain things. Mine all did the only chicken for meat for awhile. Then it was only pork. Then only beef lol. None of my grown up kids are picky eaters. I think they just like a texture for a bit then like a different one. The sushi phase of my oldest got expensive though lol.

pneumonoultramicrosi ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 02:57:04 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

What's the worst word he yelled?

SuzuranRose ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:53:29 on May 30, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Dodge it was the funniest. Because he heard daddy say dog shit and thought it was the same word I assume. It sure sounds the same, lol.

Hes never actually yelled a real curse word. It's almost always poop or poopyhead or stupid face

pneumonoultramicrosi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:54:13 on June 2, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You dont let him say the word poop?

SuzuranRose ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:10:41 on June 3, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

We had the talk about words not to say in public, especially school, and poop was one of them. I think he thinks it's a curse word but at home he'll say he has to poop or his butt smells like poop and and he doesnt get in trouble for it. Its just one of those words that always gets a groan from me so he likes to use it, lol.

pneumonoultramicrosi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:58:37 on June 3, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

??? He canโ€™t say the word poop outside or at school? If he has to shit does he say โ€œIโ€™m gonna shit?โ€

SuzuranRose ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:10:03 on June 4, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

No, he's says he needs to go stink up the bathroom, lol.

Mommabearofthree ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:09:25 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'm stealing this. Thank you.

Thetschopp ยท 13 points ยท Posted at 18:07:43 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My uncle was a punk when he was a kid and always tried to push what he could get away with being the youngest and the only boy. My mom told me one day grandma asks them what they want for dinner and no one can decide. Grandma is getting irritated and says to just pick something, so my uncle being a smart ass says "how about cheese soup" not realizing cheese soup actually exists. Sure enough, there was a can in their cabinet and she made him sit there and eat it since it was what he asked for.

pneumonoultramicrosi ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:04:09 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

cheese soup is delicious

Mommabearofthree ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:17:20 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah, you ask for it and you get to eat every bite, even if I have to sit there and feed it to you. I get pretty tired of my kid asking for something, eating a bite, and then trying to run from the table.

selcouth_nh ยท 10 points ยท Posted at 17:37:15 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)*

Honestly my family is very well rounded in food varieties. My parents made us grow up on the matter of how important healthy foods are and ever since a young age my mother always fed us veggies so it was never something new to complain about. Even my toddler sister begs to always eat veggies and fruits. She refuses to eat candy and even politely offers others her sweets.

Anyways, just make them understand the importance and give many examples of what happens to people that don't have balanced diets. ๐Ÿ™‚

Edit: is

Grim1890 ยท 10 points ยท Posted at 17:41:58 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

As a person who would have gotten starved or smacked for offering opinions at that age can I just say thank you for you approach to life.

pneumonoultramicrosi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:04:36 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Could you not eat it and wait until the next meal?

methelyneblue ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 18:12:43 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Have you read the book stone soup? Itโ€™s a kids book with this very premise!! I remember reading it in first grade as a class and we all brought in different ingredients and made chicken soup.

DecafMelusine ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 01:01:03 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

OMG Stone Soup! I've been trying to think of this story for a couple weeks! My kindergarten class did a little play of it, and I couldn't figure out the actual name of the story!

Khahlin ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 20:16:52 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My family was very poor growing up in another country. Food was prepared twice a day, once in the morning for both breakfast and lunch and once at night for dinner. I was a picky eater but that was quickly taken out of me. I remember one time I was maybe 6 years old, family made something new and I did not like the smell and refused to eat it, several uncles took my portion and ate it all in front of me (uncles can be cruel) , I went to bed hungry that night and learned a good lesson to be thankful I have food at all because it can easily be taken, after that I tried all foods and liked it. Now grown up I will eat anything and have the spirit of adventure when trying new foods.

H1ghlund3r ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 20:21:05 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I was always told I have to try 3 bites and if I still don't like it I can have a peanut butter and jelly sandwich. After 3 bites I decided I liked it and just picked around the the stuff I didn't like.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 20:41:14 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

The good thing is that a kid won't starve by missing a single meal. Everything does taste better when you are truly hungry.

33333_others ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 19:27:26 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Nothing like a bowl of grey boiled chicken water to make someone appreciate the value of spices and vegetables.

Verrence ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 19:50:50 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

And bones, and fat, and the Maillard reaction.

pneumonoultramicrosi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:54:47 on June 2, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

but there's salt

DrewbieWanKenobie ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 23:45:00 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I think you cheated by using plain water instead of chicken stock. KIDS DON'T KNOW BETTER THOUGH so good foolin'

The-Master-Mind ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:50:23 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I think the point was, normally theyโ€™d be making the broth/stock with vegetables and stuff to make it taste good, but without the extra stuff and only using chicken, it would taste bad. Using stock to begin with would be kinda cheating to make it taste good.

DrewbieWanKenobie ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:58:16 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)*

I think using stock is the normal way to make chicken soup, though. Or at least bouillon cubes

Armalyte ยท 14 points ยท Posted at 19:28:02 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I saw on Oprah once that if your kid doesn't like a food you just have to get them to eat it 13 times.

I tried this when working at a fish n chip place. I hated even the smell of malt vinegar but every day for 2-3 weeks I would douse a solitary fry in malt vinegar and go "nope, still hate it" until one day it just popped and I went "oh wait, that's actually good".

Ever since then it's been malt vinegar > white vinegar and it's not even close.

savtaytex ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:05:16 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It still hasnโ€™t worked with me and onions!!!

Armalyte ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:43:13 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Onions seem pretty unique. I bit into a raw one once and it was like an LSD trip for my tongue.

savtaytex ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 04:44:10 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Ewww why you trying to give me nightmares before bed? :)

daisybelle36 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 09:09:23 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Research shows that when a kid has tried something 10 times, then they'll generally call it a favourite food, despite claiming the food was completely inedible to start with. And if there is too long in-between attempts then the count starts again. Most parents give up at the 3-4 times level, 10 times will take about a month of solid effort!

Note that the kid has to TRY the food ten times, not just have it on their plate.

This has been one of the best bits of parenting advice I ever received - it makes dinner so much less stressful when you know and they know that they just need to try a small bite and they don't need to eat heaps of it. Until you know they will tolerate it then you can up the dosage hehehe.

DreamingCorvid ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:41:03 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Thank you for reminding me to pick up malt vinegar next time I'm at the store.

FloppyTunaFish ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:18:23 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Youโ€™re welcome

bordeaux_vojvodina ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:23:24 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

What is the point? Just don't have vinegar.

Armalyte ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:41:36 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

What do you mean what is the point? Did you not read my reply?

The point is you can end up liking something you hate if you just force yourself to try it enough time. That's the point.

bordeaux_vojvodina ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 10:48:20 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It's far better to just stick to things you already know you like.

Armalyte ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 19:01:26 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

What? This is literally a thread about getting kids to try new things.

It is also not better to stay a picky eater. There are many delicious foods out there.

You sound like a troll...

ChibiQilin ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 19:02:24 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My older brother is like these kids, but he never learned this lesson. He's mid 30's, still lives with my parents, and last I visited the meals are devoid of vegetables. He was also complaining recently about getting "ripped off" at a burrito chain here. He ordered online and only got rice, ground beef, and cheese and wondered why his burrito was so small when the place has pictures of massive stuffed burritos. At thanksgiving, he also threw a tantrum over the fact that the rice had carrots and broccoli mixed in, in front of extended family and friends.

It's good to teach kids while they're young, or you'll end up with a manchild.

tveir ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:32:17 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

How do people like this poop

pneumonoultramicrosi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:55:24 on June 2, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Just... don't eat the veggies if you hate them.

Allimack ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 19:36:41 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I love this story.

Separate to the gentle lesson you taught, it is always a great idea to get kids involved in helping their parents put the meals together as kids are more likely to eat things they hand a small hand in making, particularly picky eaters.

anonymous_potato ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 20:48:26 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My family is Chinese and my mom says she could get us to eat anything by slipping it inside a dumpling.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:13:17 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

For the longest time, I thought I hated all veggies. Now that I think back, I ate plenty of bonchon (Korean side dishes) that were veggies, but my mind didn't see them as veggies. Turns out, I only hated "midwest American style" veggies - those that are boiled to death.

Historically, American cuisine hasn't treated veggies very well.

mamamechanic ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 20:50:35 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

When my children first began going to their fatherโ€™s for weekend visitation, I got constant complaints about how mean I was because I didnโ€™t let them eat the things daddy did.

It was difficult enough being a broke ass single mom of three kids without the constant comparison of how much โ€œbetterโ€ dad was. So I decided to let them pick whatever they wanted from the grocery store, then eat whatever, whenever, they wanted at home.

Iโ€™ll never forget their joy that first morning as they were having ice cream and Mountain Dew for breakfast. It took about three days of no โ€œfood rulesโ€ for the stomach aches and poopfest to kick in. My children literally NEVER complained about food again.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 21:15:08 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This falls under "live with the consequences of your choices and actions". It is for that reason that I have my boys clean the toilets and floors of the bathroom.

Since that started, their aim got much, much better.

mamamechanic ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:19:23 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yes! Itโ€™s comforting to know there are still parents parenting out there.

ronearc ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 17:25:40 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Hah, I love to see different takes on the same issues.

I'd have made them Texas-style Chili - no vegetables, no beans, just meat and spices (lots of spices, tablespoons of chile powder. Nice and hot).

Iyam_deeanser ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 18:12:39 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

One of my favorite childhood soups was pure chicken soup. Water, chicken, salt and ginger simmered for five hours. Itโ€™s super good.

toooldtostayuplate ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 19:10:17 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I need to try this with my husband. Every time I cook onions and garlic in a skillet he runs saying โ€œwhat are you making? Smells so good!โ€, and then โ€œI hate onions and garlic, why do you always have to add them to everyone you make?!โ€

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 21:07:40 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You might end up with similar results from him. My kids have progressed to the point where I can really dump the garlic into food and they like it. I took them to the garlic festival and they happily tried everything. They loved the garlic fries and garlic bread, even though there was plenty of raw garlic on them.

toooldtostayuplate ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:09:49 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I absolutely love garlic! He doesnโ€™t love it as much but he doesnโ€™t want any onions in anything. What he doesnโ€™t realize is that onions, much like garlic, give meals flavor, and sometimes sweetness. They are a total game changer. I will try your way of parenting on my husband and turn it into โ€œwifingโ€ ๐Ÿ˜…

CrazyYYZ ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 20:23:18 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I used to host international students and they were provided with homemade dinner. I'm in Canada and preferred students from south America because generally they would eat most things I made and I didnt have to adjust my cooking by very much. When I helped them with orientation, I always asked several times if there are foods they cant or dont like so that I can at least be somewhat accommodating. Last year I had a very entitled 20yr old student from Panama. When I asked her about food preferences it was no vegetables. I had to ask the question again because I didn't understand. She literally didnt want any vegetables. I told her quite simply i dont know how to cook with no vegetables. Its flavour, texture, nutrition. I can cut down on vegetable, but not cut out 100%. But she said tomato sauce was okay. ??? How? Apparently her father would mince all of the veg into a juice to incorporate into the sauce. From that point on, nearly everything I made she threw in the garbage because she could detect a hidden vegetable. I was not about to puree my life away. This lasted 3 weeks until she requested a transfer. I was none too surprised because her father came to canada to help her adjust and in that time, he changed hotels 4 times. No love lost. I tried, but in my house there will be vegetables.

tiredcollegestudent9 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:01:58 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My cousin once spent a whole month with a hardcore vegetarian family, as in no eggs or milk were even allowed in the kitchen, even if she was buying and cooking them. She was used to meat everyday, so she had a hard time adjusting, but she managed. The family was even cool enough to make plenty of pasta dishes, so it wouldn't be only vegetables. Still, I'm imagining someone like the picky eater international student you hosted wouldn't have survived hahahah

DieHardRennie ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 22:43:31 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This story is suspiciously similar to an old children's fable about minestrone soup. A woman with many children was making a huge pot of minestrone soup. Each child didn't like a different ingredient and wanted it left out of the soup. So at dinner time, the mother served up steaming bowls of hot water.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:47:34 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I never heard that one, but I wish I had. I think a lot of fairy tales and fables were intended to teach a moral or lesson. My special soup idea came from the suggestions of someone else - I can't claim that I'm smart enough to come up with that on my own.

DieHardRennie ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:50:44 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I tried googling it, but I can't remember the title.

OneGoodUser ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 00:18:48 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I love everything about this, including your patience to not just give them the two choices for dinner (take it or leave it) but to actually cook another dish and illustrate how complex human palates are. You guys are winning at parenting!

Etherius ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 11:17:18 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My daughter used to be very VERY picky. I'm talking "dinosaur chicken nuggets and microwave rice or you mรกs as well Not even try to feed her".

I asked if she'd like to help me in the kitchen and learn how to cook. Of course. What kid doesn't want to help dad do stuff?

It turns out that, at least in her case, the entire reason she wouldn't eat most food was because she didn't recognize what was in it.

And you have to admit, not knowing what you're eating is a turn-off for anyone.

So she helped me make several dishes from scratch and saw that when onions cook for a while, they become translucent, basil (and other herbs) wilt, carrots become mushy (she never did learn to like that), and so on. When she saw what went into the food, she realized no one was trying to poison her. She learned that things like vegetables taste completely different when cooked properly (especially in Italian sauces).

Then I asked her to go on Instagram and find some things SHE wanted to make for dinner. She found some pretty weird stuff, but it all wound up being great.

Now, not only is she no longer (as) picky an eater, but she's a damn good cook! My biggest regret is that she no longer wants my help when she's making dinner, lol.

howardsgirlfriend ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 14:39:49 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Well said, and well done!

I would also like to recommend two things:

Grow a few veggies, even in a pot, if necessary. When I was a little girl, I used to sneak outside in the early morning, and eat to tops off the brocolli, still wet with dew. Yummy.

A children's cookbook. I still use mine, and I'm old enough to be your mother:

https://www.ebay.com/itm/Betty-Crockers-New-Boys-and-Girls-Cook-Book-1965-1st-edition-3rd-printing-/223957517975

LegendaryGary74 ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 12:49:09 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Oh this reminds me of a story my cousin told me about his two kids: they had some dessert and he told them they could have one slice of cake after lunch and one after dinner or they could have both after lunch and none after dinner. One of them saved a slice for later, but the other ate both after lunch. That evening, however, the other sibling got to enjoy her second slice of cake and after a minute her sister cried out โ€œI made the wrong choice!โ€

imankitty ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 16:51:01 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I loved this. Good job, dad.

iceycycle ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 18:15:08 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is honestly a great way to parent. Let them know WHY their decision/choice/opinion isnโ€™t right instead of shutting them down and forcing them to do it your way!

Wish my parents did this with me!

SadieBluEyes ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 18:17:03 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

What a seriously clever way to teach kiddos about their food! I'm sure it stuck with them more than just the old standby, "Because I said so."

db2 ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 18:36:28 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

From mirepoix to faux pas. Nice.

HonorableJudgeTolerr ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 19:39:20 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

At least they are children. Imagine having a man in his middle 30's critiquing the aromatics that go into spaghetti sauce that you've made and hes inhaled about 100 times before because he "doesn't eat peppers or onions or onions and garlic powder". So the sauce he said he wanted was plain tomato paste,season salt,and water. Imagine him eating the platefull of terrible sauce and grimacing,but refusing to admit he was wrong

Alaylaria ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 12:14:44 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Add a quarter cup of sugar, and thatโ€™s my father every time he tries to make spaghetti. ๐Ÿคข

Itโ€™s especially annoying because itโ€™s one of my favorite things to cook and I make a pretty decent one if I do say so myself!

its2005again ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 20:36:26 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I donโ€™t get how kids HATE veggies. I loved them as a kid. Is there some scientific reason?

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:56:23 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Lots of kids are "supertasters", but I think it is partially cultural. Who doesn't remember a kids show where the characters hate veggies because they are disgusting.

Based upon what my kids doctor says, part of it is that the body craves what it needs most. Fast growing bodies and minds need lots of fat, protein and carbs. That tends to match up with what younger kids tend to crave.

its2005again ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:56:53 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That makes sense. Cool!

RegularWhiteShark ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 07:53:40 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I donโ€™t get kids not liking veggies. I loved โ€˜em as a kid, and still do now. There were a few I didnโ€™t like but I love most of them. Especially carrots and broccoli.

Musashi10000 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:17:50 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Same

bibkel ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:33:20 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I was one of the only kids to actually eat veggies at the birthday parties. Many parents commented on it to my mom. At home, we NEVER had dessert, but fruit was treated as dessert. So, cake and candy was too sweet...at least until I hit middle school.

Arrr_jai ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 21:07:44 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Great idea giving the kids insight into flavor along with that cooking lesson. Also, I never understood kids who didn't like certain/any vegetables or foods. Growing up, my brother and I ate everything we were ever given and often fought over who got to try the new/weird foods first. I don't think we ever knew there was a choice to disdain something. I think our parents either lucked out with us, or had some sort of magic skill. TBH, I can't stand raw celery, but I'll eat it if I have to, lol. To this day I love almost all foods and the only thing I don't eat is raw onions because I'm allergic to them.

calebeatsyou ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 16:47:24 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

A wholesome lesson learned.

BtheChemist ยท 19 points ยท Posted at 17:07:56 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Nice.

r/KidsAreFuckingStupid would also love this.

kids' stupid picky eating habits baffle me. Like they'll throw a fit if a carrot touches their chicken, but then they'll eat whatever gross thing off the floor without questioning it.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 13 points ยท Posted at 17:21:32 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

And they are perfectly fine eating chicken nuggets and fries with their dirt encrusted hands, right?

BtheChemist ยท 11 points ยท Posted at 17:51:55 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I've watched my gf's boy eat candy that was covered in floor debris, but the little shit wont eat a hamburger without dousing it in 5 adult servings of ketchup. Fkn gross.

tadalek ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:57:43 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I have an ex that eats fries with her ketchup. We were 20.

BtheChemist ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:14:54 on May 30, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Gross

calhooner3 ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 18:14:03 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

The difference there is that kids donโ€™t find dirty hands gross. Food touching on the other hand, may as well be inedible.

tsubasaq ยท 11 points ยท Posted at 18:05:25 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Some of it is exerting control on their world. (And some forms of pickiness like the food-touching thing can be OCD if they continue.)

Some things come from the fact that kids are far more sensitive to tastes with less capacity for the sensory processing that allows them to appreciate more complex flavors. Itโ€™s part of why foods aimed at kids are so simple - they actually taste it more intensely than an adult can.

This does not mean they have logical or impulse control skills and understand that the floor is gross and can make them sick.

My mom tells the story that I had a phase where I just wouldnโ€™t eat anything if itโ€™s hadnโ€™t touched the floor first. Our floors were literally clean enough to eat off of because otherwise I wouldnโ€™t eat. Didnโ€™t last 6 months.

BtheChemist ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:11:27 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Thats a wild story. Im glad you grew out of that. Do you still have a taste for floor scraps?

tsubasaq ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:14:56 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Hah, not at all.

Relevant-Team ยท 11 points ยท Posted at 16:54:58 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Well, picky eaters never were hungry in their life. :-/

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 29 points ยท Posted at 17:17:38 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I think that is a true statement. On days when one of the kids won't eat anything of his lunch or dinner, I just cover the plate and stick it in the fridge. An hour or 2 later when they come saying "I'm starving", I stick it in the microwave and serve it to them again.

I've also told them that they don't have to eat when they are not hungry, and they don't have to clear their plate. I don't want them to refuse food in hopes of just making the calories up with a snack later, and I don't want them to get in the habit of feeling like they have to clear the plate.

pneumonoultramicrosi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:58:59 on June 2, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

they get hungry in one hour?

NB_Inferior ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 21:19:02 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Was force fed. Ended up stealing food whenever I could (from the kitchen as a child/teen). I have a very very bad relationship with food. And find myself crying when shopping for food. I'm an adult. Do not force feed ur kids and please dont promote eating disorders. I hate my life.

IceBear738 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:56:22 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I was force fed too and now I can't even look at vegetables because of it.

HumbleTugBoat97 ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 17:04:34 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Genius

DirtyDeedsDunderKeep ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 17:28:07 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This right here is so much better than "because I said so" parenting. Good job.

bobowork ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 18:29:29 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

And here's me who puts in all those ingredients except the chicken.

Along with some beans. We call it "What's in the fridge" soup. Though I had to modify it from my dad's version.

dap00man ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:43:39 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Amazing way to teach kids. There are reasons to what we do and instead of just telling them or saying trust me I'm an adult, you let them figure it out!

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:24:39 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I tell them, "I'm older than you, so I have more knowledge and experience. If you want to figure things out a different way, go for it". They usually take my advice.

realKingCarrot ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:45:31 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

If only more parents were patient enough to do this

Lightningseeds ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 19:07:09 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Please look up a youtube channel called Roman's kitchen, I think.

It's this little boy who has his own cooking channel and has been cooking since he was a toddler.

He taste tests every ingredient and is super cute. It might help your kids be more interested in trying and accepting ingredients they don't normally like.

BestAlikat ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:29:19 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)
freelancer042 ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 19:33:52 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is so great!

I have a son who hates tomatoes (so he claims), but loves pizza. Literally every ingredient I'm the pizza is something he thinks he dislikes other than cheese.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:07:50 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I took the kids to one of those "design your own" pizza places. I ordered almost the exact same pizza as them, but I had them add extra dried Italian herbs on mine, along with some roasted garlic.

They liked the one I ordered for myself better.

waywardhero ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:36:26 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I grew up with my mom fostering 20 dogs (some get adopted but a lot of them were too old. Most of them were small). We would always but there really cheap bags of messed up chicken pieces. Stuff they donโ€™t sell as foster farms. She would just boil them down in a large stock pot to make your soup for the dogs to it softens the kibble and makes it easier to digest.

Verrence ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 19:45:43 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

What about a stock with purรฉed vegetables in it? No eating around that.

BrownTown90 ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 20:00:53 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Good job. Lived with my buddy, his wife, and their kid (5) for a year. Watching them try to get their child to eat anything other then pasta with butter for dinner every night tore at my soul.

PM_ME_YER_SHIBA_INUS ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 20:24:44 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)*

Not only did the kids eat their veggies, but they learned something about cooking.

A+ parent, raising healthy future adults.

Megssister ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 20:27:55 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My mom did the same thing with me. I thought I didnโ€™t like onion in the potato soup...so she made a batch for me without onions.

Never complained about onions in my soup again.

pneumonoultramicrosi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:59:54 on June 2, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

???

Onions taste like acid and brimstone.

MosquitoRevenge ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 20:40:06 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Somehow seems like the kids reasonably decided to do what's right. This feels like they either get this whole "veggies bad" mindset from friends or entertainment they watch. Double checking on why they think veggies are bad and disgusting could be interesting.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:00:17 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My eldest used to gag and even vomit when encouraged to take a bite of a new food. As he got more used to the "one taste rule" (not even required to swallow the food, just taste and chew a bit), he has learned that there are a lot more foods that he will tolerate. I'm not going to press my luck and try to serve them a salad or ratatouille, but I'll continue to have them taste things that normally cross our table.

arca5 ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 20:59:46 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I wish I could do this with my 2 year old. We usually just fight until she tries it and likes it. It usually comes down to eat or go to bed. She eats it and says โ€œYeah, this is good!โ€ She doesnโ€™t realize that I know what she likes more than she does.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 21:22:30 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Our pediatrician is pretty laid-back. One of his suggestions was "don't force them to eat if they say they are not hungry. Going to bed one night without dinner isn't going to kill them, and they will probably wake up more hungry."

Of course, I did run into a problem where they only wanted to eat breakfast foods. So that's what I did. Scrambled eggs, bacon and pancakes, for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

They lasted for 3 days before they gave up and asked for something else.

JayPizzazz ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:40:10 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I think there's a difference between 'not forcing them to eat' and allowing them to eat what they want. I want to believe you know the difference, but this is the internet...

arca5 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:09:54 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah I don't force her to eat anything. I just usually tell her "Well, since I guess we aren't eating dinner it's time for bed." and she usually changes her attitude pretty quickly. I would never force anything on her. I'm just not going to make her anything extra.

The_Spare_Ace ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 21:38:21 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It's definitely the onions. Soup doesn't taste right without em.

EatsPeanutButter ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 21:45:57 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I am always wary of stories from parents on the Internet, because 90% of them are grownups being low-key mean to their children for laughs and kudos from strangers. But this is hilarious and amazing, and totally brilliant. You sound like an awesome dad!

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 21:48:45 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I often deal with stubborn adults all day long that "know more than me" and have been "doing this for 30+" years. Getting these adults to follow my instructions is still easier than dealing with kids. The number one thing I want them to learn is "you have to live with the consequences of your own actions."

TheDevilsAdvokaat ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 21:51:27 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I wouldn't call this malicious compliance.

In fact it's a great teaching moment for your kids. I've had the same problem with my daughter...she insists she doesn;t like some ingredient I put in her food (like pepper) so I take it out and then she complains the sandwich doesn;t good any more...so I put it back.

She tells me she dislikes pork, chicken, beef, fish; then tells me she wishes we would eat more meat. Aaarrgh! If I tell her "x" has meat in it she "doesn;t like it" even before she tastes it; if I don't tell her and say "just eat it" she likes it.

Best way to feed her is NOT to ask her what she wants or if she likes "x"; instead I just put a bowl of something in front of her and she eats it happily.

pneumonoultramicrosi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:00:35 on June 2, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Give her vegetarian food

TheDevilsAdvokaat ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:16:32 on June 2, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

She says she doesn;t like it and wishes we would eat more meat.

pneumonoultramicrosi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:19:03 on June 2, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Give her beyond meat

CCTider ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:15:22 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

As a recovering picky eater, i think this was a very good idea.

Now that i do eat a lot of stuff, but an word about things that aren't very logical. So if a recipe calls for an ingredient i won't eat, I'll finely dice or puree it instead. That's another great trick to sneak healthy stuff into picky kid's food.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 22:20:50 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My kids aren't big fans of carrots, but they do understand that it is in the pasta sauce we make, and that it tastes better when we put carrots in. That was another experiment - two pots of sauce, with the only difference being that one did not have carrots in it. They liked the carrots.

Grating carrots is not easy, but the kids love doing it. Pretty soon, I'll just sit on the couch and get them to do all the cooking :)

monkeyboi08 ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 22:24:13 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Iโ€™ve never been a picky eater. Iโ€™ll eat literally anything, always have been that way. The only exception are things people in North America wouldnโ€™t normally eat. Itโ€™s never been tested but Iโ€™ve seen pictures of โ€œdelicaciesโ€ from other cultures and they are a no from me. Like if youโ€™re eating grasshoppers or something Iโ€™m out.

Extra ingredients and spices always make things better. Ever since I started cooking (or at least modifying) food myself Iโ€™ve levelled up the spice so much. Iโ€™ll buy macaroni and add in sausage and onions and peppers and so many spices and then drown it in hot sauce and Iโ€™m salivating so much just from typing this.

I primarily ate my momโ€™s cooking growing up and she was very mild on the spices. At first I burned from a tiny amount, but over the years it increased astronomically.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:28:46 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'll try just about anything once. I've learned that I do not like durian, escargot, sea urchin, most curry variants, gamey meat and most organ meat. I don't think I'll be trying insects any time soon.

monkeyboi08 ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 22:33:02 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Your reply reminded me of how my mom is picky. She wonโ€™t eat non-refrigerated meats. Sheโ€™s never tried beef jerky because it isnโ€™t refrigerated.

Iโ€™ll eat deer jerky made by a hunter in the office. Iโ€™ll eat blue rare steaks. Iโ€™ll eat any sushi served at a regular sushi restaurant (there might be things in like Japan that push my limits, Iโ€™m not sure).

I eat beef jerky basically every time Iโ€™m on a road trip without a second thought. The fact that my mom wonโ€™t blows my mind. She wonโ€™t even try the type of things you mentioned.

Jim_Nills_Mustache ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 22:28:14 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Amazing, Iโ€™m going to try and remember this move for later

Sparcrypt ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 22:49:09 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Hah, I should do this to the next person who tells me they โ€œdonโ€™t like onionโ€ or garlic or whatever spices etc. Unless you have an allergy yes you bloody do. They are in every nice dish you have ever eaten! You donโ€™t like people who overdo those flavours and thatโ€™s completely fine.

Another favourite are those against MSG... something no more harmful than salt. Less even, Iโ€™m not aware of anybody actually having a documented issue with normal amount of MSG in food. The stigma is so bad you canโ€™t even buy it from major supermarkets here, gotta hit up the Asian grocers.

People have no clue what they actually like about food it seems.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 23:00:45 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

MSG seems to only cause problems when people know it is in there. Strangely enough, soy sauce doesn't seem to cause problems for people I know that are "sensitive to MSG".

Sparcrypt ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:06:11 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yep... itโ€™s in everything. Fast food places shove it in everywhere they can because it makes things taste good.

Much like salt, MSG is in nearly everything I make in decent quantities unless thereโ€™s something else for the flavour like mushrooms or whatever. Nobody has ever had an issue because thereโ€™s nothing to have an issue over.

transmascdraco ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:20:54 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Expect my partner is horribly sensitive to MSG. It causes days long migraines unless he can get in front of them.

Due to his sensitivity he can usually tell when it's in something as it's saltier than usual.

Sparcrypt ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:31:06 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Thereโ€™s exceptions to everything, some people are allergic to garlic but that doesnโ€™t mean we should all stop using it. Salt is in every dish even though some people need to be careful with their sodium intake.

If someone tells me they have an actual issue with MSG, no worries. But the hype and issues are extremely overblown.

transmascdraco ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:35:06 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Except MSG is in so much. My partner can't eat many varieties of chips (our work caters food for us 3-5 days a week and they often give us the smaller size bags of Lay's brand chips which he can't eat) and a lot of canned foods (like soups). And those are the things I can think of off the top of my head.

MSG has become so prevalent it makes meal planning and prepping hard.

Sparcrypt ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:38:31 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I mean that sucks for him but Iโ€™m not sure of the point youโ€™re making... unless itโ€™s to say that itโ€™s really annoying.

People with gluten or dairy allergies have the same issues. Itโ€™s really shitty but nobody is saying itโ€™s time to cut it all from our foods. People with high blood pressure have to avoid damn near all premade food.

If I was you Iโ€™d just cook my own meals. MSG is extremely easy to avoid in home cooking.

pneumonoultramicrosi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:01:42 on June 2, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Just skip the soysauce/seaweed

G66GNeco ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 23:24:20 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

As a kid, carrots and pease were, weirdly enough, some of the rare veggies I actually accepted. It was pretty much just that and maybe Spinach and broccoli, on a good day.

Boy am I glad my tastes changed.

likwidstylez ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 23:46:18 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Legit thought this was r/LifeProTips. Either way I'm stealing this

Pandasonic9 ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 23:53:43 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

The carrots and the celery are so cooked in a chicken noodle soup you really donโ€™t taste it, I just made some today

Wormetoungue ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 00:33:36 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Never underestimate the power of a good pot of soup. That and the โ€œGolden ruleโ€ is how I live my life.

dngaay ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 07:29:39 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Write a parenting book!

MissHourglass ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 14:14:23 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This have to be a LifeProTip!!

If I only had known that before.

nuclearkielbasa ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 22:53:24 on June 1, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

https://imgur.com/a/sY6C2Wy

As a picky eating adult, thank you! This is how you do it

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:05:47 on June 1, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

To be honest, if they liked it that plain, then that would make my life easier. In any case, there are plenty of other nutritious foods that they have no problem eating, it was a moment of concerted "spoiledness" from them.

transferingtoearth ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 17:03:30 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yo why not just mix the veggies in with the soup??? Blender style.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:54:41 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

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transferingtoearth ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:08:38 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It helps.

MrDrMatt ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 17:01:10 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is a wonderful story. Love it!

Growlitherapy ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 17:18:46 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

What, pepper is too spicy?

Now that's kids being kids.

GerbilJibberJabber ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:45:58 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Had a roommate that would start sweating PROFUSELY if something had a bit too much table pepper in it. It was fun to randomly hit him with some creeper heat every now and then.

savtaytex ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 22:04:18 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That brings back memories of my dad. He was born raised in Louisiana. I swear they like their food on fire over there. My dad would eat food so spicy heโ€™d be sweating and face all red. But happy as a clam :). Thank for the random flashback!

GerbilJibberJabber ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:10:17 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

:)

My family always gave me shit for tearing up, like it was too much or something. They never understood or could bear to get to the endorphins side of things.

savtaytex ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:15:40 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Lol you can look like it hurts and itโ€™s just no it hurts just perfect! I love spicy spicy buffalo wing sauce the hotter the better but I know I prob look like Iโ€™m dying while Iโ€™m eating it.

joenforcer ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:24:39 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I can't even fathom the blandness of food for people that can't handle black pepper...

rrr598 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:34:54 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

If I donโ€™t cough on my first bite, it needs more pepper

patientbearr ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 19:44:47 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah if black pepper is "too spicy" for you then remind me never to eat at your house

Just enjoy your mayonnaise sandwiches and boiled goose

slayer_of_potatoes ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:39:50 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I was in my 20s when I learned that black pepper was considered spicy.

maxvalley ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 22:19:24 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Wowww. Thatโ€™s some A+ level parenting right there. I would t have thought to do that. Gonna keep that in the vault

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:22:10 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Stole it from the pediatrician. I don't think I'm smart enough to come up with it on my own.

WeaselNo7 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 17:06:39 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Love it!

ReadingKeepsMeAwake ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 17:06:58 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Genius. I will probably do this now lol

atropablack ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 17:59:14 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is the way! Good job dad.

EditEd2x ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:00:11 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I was a very picky eater when I was a kid. And one of the things that stuck with me is that I'm not a fan of mushy tasteless veggies. Especially in soup.

I would always ask for simply broth, chicken and potatoes and it was never an issue. My grandmother would also blend onions into dishes and always serve a small portion of fresh veggies with lime, salt and pepper with every meal.

You could say that they all catered to my taste and you wouldn't be wrong. But as I grew to love cooking myself I realized that is exactly what cooking "with love" is. You don't have to follow a recipe like it's written in stone. You tweak it and tailor it to fit the tastes of the people you're serving.

I make tons of soups. I could even say it's a bit of an obsession of mine. All the veggies and spices go into the quick pot to give their flavor and nutrients to the broth, I often save scraps from other dishes and salads to avoid waste as well. Then the broth is strained and the soup comes together. If I decide I want veggies in my soup that day, I blanch them just to get them tender while they still retain some crunch.

You could try experimenting with your picky eaters and find ways to prepare the things they don't like in a way that could open up their tastes so that they don't just eat around veggies and let those things go to waste.

certainlyheisenberg1 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:01:07 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Very nice. I usually blend most of the veggies up (once their a bit soft) and add it to the base. Kids pick out vegetables and donโ€™t know theyโ€™re still getting vitamins.

notProfCharles ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:03:35 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I thought you were just going to purรฉe it in with the broth...

kitkatinkerbell ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:29:10 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is how my mum always made chicken and veg soup for us, and if we had been super good we got chicken croutons.

Fforprancis ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:35:21 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

What type of evil is this?

Asparagus-Cat ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:53:09 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Heh. To be fair, I'm not fond of celery even as an adult. :p

Pretty much everything else is tasty though.

Triatt ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:53:55 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That's actually the typical chicken soup in Portugal. We call it "canja" (we brought from India or China iirc) and I would have made a funny face if I found veggies in it. Some people add olive oil, eggs, peppermint leaves, or make a onion broth etc... But the traditional is exactly what you did and my personal favorite.

feelingsaxy ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:54:38 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Thatโ€™s such a cute way to teach kids how cooking works

G_rubbish ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:55:11 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My kids were the same way when they were little and figuring themselves out. Our solution was to remove all the veggies, drop em in the blender with a little (cooled) broth, and blend those veggies away. They ate that shit up and never knew all the goodness they were getting.

Fireblast1337 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:58:02 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Ah, yes. For my chicken noodle soup I actually start with a veggie broth base. Pureeing the veggies and mixing into the soup that way could help too. Itโ€™s not losing nutrients if they each the broth itโ€™s in.

The fact they turned pepper away is weird to me though

Finiariel ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:01:16 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That is very good parenting indeed and I will shamelessly steal that technique for when my kid gets old enough lol

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:00:13 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

One of the many suggestions our pediatrician gave us when we told him we were worried about the kids not eating veggies. I guess the guy that deals with kids and parents all day knows stuff :)

Finiariel ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 10:52:39 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I suppose he would, yeah

ssamshire ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:17:34 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

r/WholesomeMaliciousCompliance ?

Schrutes_Yeet_Farm ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:20:57 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Hot Chicken Water, water with just a smack of chicken

staffsargent ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:32:40 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My parents went with the old "You don't have to eat your soup but you're not eating anything else until you do." Every single meal for two days I got the bowl of soup until I ate it. That was one of the last times I threw a fit about food but to this day I can't eat minestrone soup.

marsglow ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:21:15 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

No wonder. Iโ€™ve always thought this was such a creepy thing to do. My mom didnโ€™t force us to eat anything- well, we had the one-bite rule. And we hated liver and onions which both she and my dad loved. But she never fixed it for us and they only ate it at restaurants. Oddly, my daughter loved it.

pamelaonthego ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:36:45 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I have always told my kids โ€œyou donโ€™t have to eat it, but you are not getting anything else until the next meal.โ€ Veggies are a major part of our diet so they eat almost any vegetable.

test6554 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:38:47 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It 100% would have been passable if you used chicken broth instead of water... But don't tell them that.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:46:56 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I like to use a few spoons of that "Better than Bullion" stuff when I make a soup or stew, but they said it looked gross. Sometimes learning is painful (or at least flavorless).

market_confit ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:45:43 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Excellent parenting move. Well done.

nDJwmusic ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:46:43 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'm so doing this.

gillyyak ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:49:15 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Wholesome Dad MC

preachers_kid ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:56:08 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

If you puree the vegetables they won't even know they're in there; just make sure the soup isn't too thick and throw in a few non-pureed veggies to mitigate any suspicions they have. So they wouldn't find out, I'd puree vegetables and then freeze the puree in an ice cube tray and toss 'em in as needed. Delicious, easy, and highly deceptive!

clintj1975 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:08:45 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Mmm, chicken tea.

sequoia-redwood ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:14:34 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My mom did something similar when I was younger. I used to hate onions, so she made tomato sauce and meatballs without any onion in them. Suprise suprise it did not taste as good as her usual sauce and balls.

vagrantprodigy07 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:16:36 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Chicken soup can definitely be good without veggies. You just need to use the proper seasonings.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:39:15 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Ahh yes, it can be good without any fresh veggies, but all those seasonings (onion powder, bay leaves, etc) looked and sounded like veggies, so they rejected them. They learned rather quickly that all that "weird stuff" is flavor.

vagrantprodigy07 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:57:07 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Your idea of chicken soup and mine are way different apparently. Bay leaves and onion powder have no place in my soup.

ReallyNotALlama ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:31:17 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I was the same as a kid. Complained about veggies in mom's split pea soup. She started running them through the blender. Same flavor, but no big chunks. It was awesome. Also the only way I'd eat peas. Don't ask me why. I also crumbled up lots of Ritz crackers in it.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 20:51:56 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Gotta be the texture. There are some foods that they will only eat if it is really crispy, or mixed with a lot of crispy things. They hate sandwiches, but if I pan fry that thing, they eat it, crust and all. They will eat onion rings, but only if they are extremely crispy.

ReallyNotALlama ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 20:56:09 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

We roast most veggies, and they are amazing. Broccoli, brussel sprouts are the favorites. On a cookie sheet in the oven, with oil and seasoning. I like cauliflower too, but the kids don't so much. Carrots, onions, green beans, asparagus...

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:17:45 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Cauliflower roasted to the point of being dark brown and crispy is amazing. One of my favorites. I was honestly afraid of trying brussel sprouts for years because of their bad reputation. First time I ended up trying them, I cooked them on the grill over a really hot fire. Now I like those too.

smgamermat77 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:33:00 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is how to parent.

Promiseimnotanidiot ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:49:44 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)
DasBirne ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:51:10 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)
LadyJane17 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:51:49 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My kid isnt picky yet, he is 2 and loves everything! But I'm going to keep this mind just incase that day comes, because this is such a good idea!

Sk1re ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:12:25 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

A lot of kids assume because something tastes the way it does by it self. It will make the dish taste only like that.

Thats what I thought as a kid.

Meme_Cowboy ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:17:08 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Reminds me of when I used to get mad at my parents for putting butter on my grilled cheese sandwiches. Mom made me a butter-free one and I hated it. Idk even know what my vendetta against butter was

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:37:59 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It may sound disgusting, but I make grilled cheese sandwiches with mayo on the outside. It crisps up wonderfully, and the kids think I make the best grilled cheese ever.

About a month ago I had them help make them. Now they are willing to try mayo on other things.

Meme_Cowboy ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:32:43 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I have had friends tell me about that. I tried it once, even tho I typically dislike mayo, and I did not like it on the sandwich. But I can see why some people would

Stikflip ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:26:57 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

What would you have done if it backfired on you and they preferred the chicken water?

serb2212 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:36:03 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Well done.
One thing my mum does with her chicken noodle soup is to puree all the veggies and add them back to the broth. No veggie pieces, no veggie hate issues

Skip2dalou50 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:37:12 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I like that. I just told my kids it was cheese soup a ND let them eat it with a silly straw. I told them it had broccoli and cauliflower after they told me they liked it. My boys love broccoli now. Ask for it once a week at least.

Beemerado ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:52:40 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

that's some A-level parenting.

a lot of kids I don't think understand shit about cooking- well obviously, they're brand new. You showed them the why and the how.

ChubbyBidoof ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:58:48 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I think I understand parenting a little bit better now.

Ghenges ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:59:57 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

A great alternative to saying there are starving children in China.

paralyse78 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:02:09 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I do not eat most vegetables (and haven't for the entirety of my 40+ years on this planet) but even I felt like the way you approached this was absolutely perfect! Kudos to you.

Mahhrat ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:14:16 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Well done.

I would not have thought of that.

nightingaledaze ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:35:06 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I like the idea of not only teaching them a lesson but also how to cook, though I only like Campbell's condensed chicken soup so I agree to the no veggies lol.

SkyVINS ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 23:47:13 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

this is 100% how *I* started eating veg.

AsperLDN97 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 00:12:40 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

If this isn't the definiton of r/winning as a parent, then I don't know what is

Quirky-Opinion ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 00:16:27 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Cool dad.

steev506 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 00:28:41 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That is so smart! What a way to involve your kids and teach them in a positive way.

vaultergirl7 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 00:38:51 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is how to parent.

tpbooboo ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 02:43:37 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

U can try to puree their veggies so it's more a creamy soup since some of the cimplaint from kids is bc of the slimy texture.

Rendrat ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 03:36:52 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

smart parenting

peckerbrown ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 04:06:35 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Using malicious compliance to teach delicious compliance.

ton-_-yhw ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 04:39:02 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Put the veggies in a bag in the soup for flavor and then you have super contrated veggies to put in your own broth. They will never know.

HetaGarden1 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 06:53:10 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is really wholesome! I love your way of teaching them.

franciefrance ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 07:18:54 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

brilliant

wdwerker ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 10:39:37 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My stepbrother would insist on no onions in his food. We discussed it when he wasnโ€™t around and realized he was eating plenty of things that contained onion. Fixed a dish with finely minced onion and he didnโ€™t say a word. When we called him out on it the truth came out, it was the texture of cooked onions he couldnโ€™t stand.

sconeperson ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 11:19:57 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

The chicken stock from a whole chicken ya delicious. My mom made me essence of chicken often. I wish I could have it again. Itโ€™s brilliant and delicious. I resent that your kids thought it was weird.

PMB00BIES ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 12:19:24 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Would not have added salt to really bring the point home. Lol

llamataco94 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 12:49:07 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

The parental and nice version of malicious compliance

Baileythenerd ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 16:03:57 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My girlfriend's little brother is 11 and she's his full time nanny (mom's a strong single full time nurse who don't need no incredibly abusive ex husband).

So, I'm more or less defacto dad, which is fine by me because I love the kid. I'm not really ever allowed to punish him because mom baby's him intensely (he can do no wrong no matter what)- BUT I can sure as heck get away with malicious compliance.

Cactushead1664 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:46:52 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My parents tried the method where I was forced to sit at the table till I ate the green beans it only resulted in them coming to the dining room table hours later to find me still sitting there.

surienc ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:14:30 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That's a proper r/lifeprotips

Spider4Hire ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:26:58 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I am just like your kids but much much older. I have to hide a variety of veggies in my meals. Love the flavor of onion, but I do not want to see the onion.

rhodatoyota ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 15:38:44 on June 1, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I learned if you have your kids help prepare the meal, theyโ€™ll likely take pride in their work and sample the goods. Even better if you have a garden and teach them how to grow it.

evilkumquat ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 20:32:41 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

In the defense of young, picky eaters, studies have shown that adults have fewer and less sensitive tastebuds than children, so what tastes savory to us may be an overload of strong flavors to our kids.

As a child, I used to hate onions but now I have to fight my wife to add them to meals.

It may not be that our tastes mature; our tongues just get dumber.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:53:50 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

The thing that really broke me out of my food comfort zone was dating. If your date wants to go to a fancy restaurant, you don't want to look uncultured, so you force yourself to eat what is on the plate.

uselessinfobot ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:54:06 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Even just the mere exposure to their favorite foods helps a lot. I never really cared for Bleu cheese until eating wings with my husband a bunch while we were dating, and he learned to like horseradish because I love it on steak.

evilkumquat ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:32:02 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I can force myself to eat just about anything except raw or cooked tomatoes, squash and liver.

I don't care if that means never getting laid again.

glutenfreethenipple ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:27:32 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Well played!

rexavior ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:29:33 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is the best kind of parenting

beldarin ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:31:17 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Brilliant! When kids start to understand that actually, you usually have a pretty good reason for the things that you do as a parent, life gets so much better.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 18:01:41 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Kids do need reminders every once in a while. If they give me push-back on doing something, or a suggestion that I'm giving them, I usually let them try it their way. They end up with a learning experience, even if they fail.

Acepeefreely ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:47:51 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My father always told me, โ€œeat every carrot and pea on your plate.โ€

TommyBoyFL ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:51:26 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Nice

ktldybug ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:17:44 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

this is such a great idea! parenting win for sure

MaireElyse ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:21:42 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Omg I did this with my daughter and fish. She was not happy with her barely salted and pan grilled (no oil because forget proper cooking) fish.

Seringol ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:27:29 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You are at a perfect point to teach the children more about cooking techniques and how they add flavor through browning, etc

flowerofthenite ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:34:47 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Nice!

Spookyhats87 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:43:22 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

As a formerly picky eater life's alot tastier now

tufffffff ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:46:56 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Love this, such a good idea

PM_ME_UR_QUINES ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:47:33 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I can't wait for this type of reasoning to actually work with my kid.

RedRose_Belmont ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:58:08 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That's brilliant. This should be in a parenting manual

Poullafouca ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:04:26 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

How absolutely brilliant.

Phantom_61 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:05:23 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Only thing in that list Iโ€™d have vetoed, even as a kid, would have been the onions.

donniedarkofan ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:21:08 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Not a parent, but what does one do if the kids wind up liking it?

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:10:34 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That's a good question. I'm glad I won't run across that. I suppose you would have to make sure you supplement them with multivitamins.

Castinight ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:22:35 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This parenting is legendary.

Rukmer ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:41:05 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is a great way to learn.

Gigantkranion ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:42:45 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)*

Give them vegetable snacks. I've always done this with my kids.

I was pulled away from from my kids on a mission. But when I got back my kids were used to eating junk food snacks and even complained about vegetables to me. My other family eats like shit. They got used to it.

But, now my kids are getting used to dad offering then vegetables and if they don't want it... they weren't hungry to begin with.

many_names ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:47:27 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Putting away this exp into the memory banks for future use, thanks man.

GorramDinklefarts ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:48:24 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

10/10 parenting

spidermonkey12345 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:52:23 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Lmaoo stock is weird af. Throw anything in there. You practically can't go wrong.

pneRock ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:53:02 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I think my kids would continue to eat it out of spite.

nice2yz ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:54:40 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

"All I want to here more

KnightInRustyArmour ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:57:12 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is the gold standard for parenting.

Islander1776 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:57:48 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Thatโ€™s adorable

TikisFury ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:59:15 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is brilliant

darby-dev ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:04:05 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Mmmmmmm RB/WR soup.....

CosmicGlitterCake ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:06:29 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My son has gotten to love veggies now but before I would simply blend them into the broth or sauce and he couldn't tell the difference. Telling him they are healthy and how made him realize it too. Not just saying "because they're healthy and you should/have to" give examples of the ways that they help the body.

HKYHNY6 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:10:57 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Immersion blender for the win ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป

Even-Understanding ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:28:03 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

in case you have a nickname for grandparents.

KDawG888 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:29:06 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Parenting done correctly.

Assasin2gamer ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:34:21 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

If they're cool with it after your explanation.

OSU_Matthew ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:36:29 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Sounds a lot like the Mexicali Soup parable:

http://soupsong.com/smexical.html

BanditKing ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:41:09 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I thought she was going to blend it for them.

Stoond ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:56:09 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I thought i hated veggies as a kid cuz all we were usually given was corn, overcooked peas, and mushy carrots. I hate the sweetness of them, they're kind of sickening. But then I found a love for crunchier raw veggies. So maybe let em try other veggies or ways yorue not used to cooking, they might like em way better and eat more. Raw cucumber and roasted broccoli were my favorites. And I still never wish to eat a cooked carrot again.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:19:10 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Overcooked veggies is a plague upon the cuisine of America.

SwitchWell ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:58:00 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘ What a great parenting lesson๐Ÿ’ฏ

saiduck ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:10:53 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

awesome!

yonkerbonk ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:20:19 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

What a smart way to make sure mommy does the cooking instead of daddy!

HelloThere-66- ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:28:44 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

^ parenting done right! A lesson learned in a kind and creative way.

Vaalomusic ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:31:06 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Tiny waste of ingredients < no more complaining. Genius.

DepressedDaisy314 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:33:11 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is a great example of natural consequences.

cotncand91 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:48:30 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I boil up zucchini and yellow squash, mash it and put it in my pasta sauce. 5 kids and not a one of them were none the wiser until they grew up and by then itโ€™s just the way sauce was supposed to be ๐Ÿ˜‚

throw-away-thisshiz ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:52:16 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Smart method

ToastedSkoops ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:09:33 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I think Smart is pretty much opem

Veggiematic ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:01:06 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I approve.

nice2yz ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:17:40 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You okay, man. I'll take that

atetuna ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:19:41 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is my favorite one. It's not mean or revenge. It's quality time with dad and at least one good lesson.

imgodking189 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:20:31 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You mean life doesn't work like a cartoon?

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:22:57 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

If I ever get a large pool of gold coins, I'll let you know how it works out.

crisstiena ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:23:51 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I donโ€™t understand how or why kids donโ€™t like vegetables. My four were raised vegetarian and they love their veggies. When I do vegan Christmas dinner, we usually have as many as ten or eleven different vegetables not including the nut roast. You have to start them early on fresh raw stuff.

PineappleIV ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:27:47 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Just dont put visible pieces of vegetables, just blend it in

moonstone-dragonfly ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:29:36 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Mexicali Soup by Kathryn Hitte

WillGrahamsass ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:43:44 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I hate cooked carrots but I love eating them.

twynkletoes ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:57:59 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Roasted carrots, yes.

Boiled carrots, no.

J_Sanchez1970 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:59:30 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is awesome!!

weeklygrind ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:09:03 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

yea you might want a /r/prorevenge.

VladTheDismantler ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:18:06 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

OMG. The carrot is the best part of the soup. I always try to get all the carrots or whatever other root plants are in the soup and I leave them aside as a "treat" for after I finish eating the liquid part of my soup.

On the same note, parsnip, parsley and celery roots really make any soup better. It is actually standard to include all of those in a basic soup, such as a chicken one, in my country. You should include them next time you make soup, if you don't already. And they are DELICIOUS to eat and I always make sure I take at least a piece of parsnip or parsley in my bowl.

(East Europe also has some other crazy soups, but that's a story for another time)

amantiana ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:18:07 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

See, my idea of soup bliss is chicken, chicken broth, and noodles and nothing else! But the chicken broth is premade and I know they use vegetables to get the rich taste of the broth. I think you taught the kids something interesting!

Thisisnotalibrary97 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:23:37 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Well done!!!

guilefulshrew ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:24:51 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is awesome and I look forward to using this approach!

nice2yz ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:35:18 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

โ€œ162? Well, that and some stock veggies.

AlexAnthonyFTWS ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:57:37 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Damn bro what an amazing lesson in parenting. I will take everything from this that I can. Thank you so much!

Ecobeast123456789 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:29:07 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is why I just eat Ramen.

WillGrahamsass ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:31:04 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I either put them in the pan with the roast OR put them in a casserole dish with brown sugar and water and let them boil in the oven.

da_clig ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:59:29 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

the best lessons are the ones you are not just 'told'

stormbard ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:59:50 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My parents used to put the veggies we didn't like in the blender before adding them to the soup. Left just enough whole ones in there that we could pick them out and think we were getting away with something.

SomolianButtPirate ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:02:50 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Ooh that is well played

MoeMoeisagogo ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:10:58 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Outstanding move 10/10 parenting

Andreslamantis ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:12:59 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My boy (6) doesn't like eating animals. But he loves meat. So he made me promise I will always cook meat for him, but never animals.

Technically, I have been doing that. So, we all win.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:35:55 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

As a kid, I visited a family farm and they "processed" a pig. Being a city kid, I was not fully aware of how animals became food. I was sure I wasn't going to eat it.

Well, a whole pig slow roasted all day is damn delicious. I learned my lesson.

Andreslamantis ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 04:41:50 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Oh, the visit to a family farm! Did that too. You certainly don't forget it, but pigs are to blame for keeping bacon inside.

Silent331 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:13:43 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You are lucky that this would work because your spouse is apparently a half decent chef. Chicken water salt and noodles would be vastly preferable to the stuff that some households served me as a child.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:34:12 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

She grew up in a country where the maid did all the cooking. I probably have more kitchen experience than she does, but she has a handful of recipes that she does really well.

We tell each other that we don't really enjoy cooking, but we do enjoy it when someone enjoys what we made.

nice2yz ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:15:25 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

" I call it scaroused"

Mika112799 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:15:34 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I figured this out pretty quick as a kid. By the time I was six I would ask my mom to put big pieces of veggies in. That way they were easier to pick out.

BlossumButtDixie ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:18:36 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Ok not going to lie I was a little up at arms at your idea, but it worked amazingly well. Can't argue with success.

My kids went through the picky stage, too. They're grown now. With my kids I just agreed to chunk up anything they didn't like fairly large and they could pick out whatever they wanted. Except meatloaf. I used to put pureed veggies in meatloaf but I never hid it. They even liked to help me make it.

Around the time my kids started the picky stage there was an article in a science magazine about changes in taste buds over a person's life. I made sure to show it to my kids and just explain well my taste buds are at a different stage so of course I'm going to like different things a bit to what you like. Then I encouraged them to keep tasting things periodically to see if perhaps their perception of them had changed since last they tried whatever it was. Other than that, I never made them eat things. They could always go make their own peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, but I wasn't going to cook anything specially just for them.

Now they are grown with their own kids going through picky stages. One of them won't eat tomatoes which she says is a textural thing, but loves ketchup on fries and spaghetti and pizza with tomato based sauces. The other ones I don't know of anything they won't eat. They willingly try most anything. They love sushi, most vegetables, beans, and all things seafood.

Working on getting the grandchildren to that point now and I will definitely pass on your approach. Who knows? It just might work.

Animekaratepup ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:50:49 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Never heard of Miss Piggle Wiggle?

BlossumButtDixie ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:10:33 on June 2, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I don't think so. Reminds me of Peter Rabbit but I think Miss Tiggy Winkle was the character in those books.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 04:30:33 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Different things work for different kids. Giving them the option to "go make your own if you don't like what I made" is a good option too. I find that as they get older, I get them more involved with the preparation of the food. They will even help makes stuff that they don't like to eat.

Yu-Wey ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:20:55 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Unfortunately for my husband, that was quite literally how his mother used to make chicken soup for him. He has a lot of food PTSD from childhood.

ennuixx ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:27:39 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I feel for your husband, I suffered a similar childhood. Condolences to him

insanetwit ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:22:44 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

When I was in college, my roommates and I used to get all meat pizzas. One day it hit me how terrible it was making me feel. Then I started adding vegetables, and realized that was what I was missing!

isweatglitter17 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:41:57 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My mom's food all tastes amazing, all five of us kids had no problem eating it even with our variations of pickiness and preferences. But- every time we'd watch her cook, someone would start whining about "why did you put that in there!?"... and her answer was that she ALWAYS put that in there and kicked us out of the kitchen when she was cooking. I finally got over myself so that I could join her in the kitchen and learn how to cook, but I still find it funny how appalled we were at individual ingredients when the finished product was so great.

Animekaratepup ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:50:04 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'm learning this the hard way. I don't pay enough attention to my parents' cooking, and only use ingredients I think I'll like. Doesn't always turn out well.

isweatglitter17 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:03:39 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Ever since I moved out, I'm constantly asking my mom for recipes. They're almost all print-offs from All Recipes with hand written notes of her modifications. There's a lot that she does without formal recipes as well, but she's usually able to find a standard version, add her notes in, and pass it on to me.

kxcing ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:48:42 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

A+ parenting

ThorwAwaySlut ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:49:38 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I had to do the same thing with mine. They didn't like diced onions and green peppers in the spaghetti sauce. So I ran those thru the blender and they ate it fine.

Candlesmith ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:01:59 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Jellied cream of chicken soup โ€”- youโ€™re imagining

HNutz ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:02:00 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Ha!

Nice.

dragonboyrw ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:20:25 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I hated vegetables but like soup vegetables are the good vegetables

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:25:47 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I hate every commenter. Iโ€™m lying in bed starving now and wanting to make everything all of you have said

Mybaresoul ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:26:02 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Excellent idea!

guardiandoggo ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:37:04 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is great!

pneumonoultramicrosi ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:48:50 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

mmm..... chicken noodle soup.

that would be good.

mermaidpaint ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:58:05 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Well played, OP, well played.

Pieterbr ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:12:25 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I don't like the veggies in the soup either. That's why I strain my chicken soup after making it.

IWillBiteYourEnemies ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:13:07 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Itโ€™s always nice to see some good parenting!

maribrite83 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:13:36 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Fantastic!! Hands on learning is the best teacher.

PillowTalk420 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:14:07 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You showed them the stock/broth, too? Or do you legit make soup without a base?

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:25:54 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I usually start with water. If I'm in a hurry, I put in some "better than bullion", but I often just throw a bunch of stuff in the pot and let it all simmer together over a long time. The skin and bones lend some good flavor to the water and make it's own broth.

If I'm really trying, I'll quarter the chicken, brown it in a pan, and then use that to make the soup. Starting with broth or bullion is a quick way to get flavor in there, but it isn't hard to start with just water.

jyar1811 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:15:23 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Also, teach them to cook the soup. Great segue into self sufficiency and. The confidence that builds.

ShoganAye ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:27:25 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

well played!

BlueBloodz ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:27:46 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This was delicious to read. Such sweet vengeance.

Copperlaces20 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:28:59 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Black Pepper... is spicy?

Melissaru ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:47:11 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My Dad did this exact same thing with meatloaf when I was a kid, and I had the exact same reaction. Good job helping your kids to understand why vegetables are sometimes so essential for food to taste good!

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 04:22:01 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I just had them help make burger patties, and they were surprised that I put more than just meat in them. They still won't eat raw onions, but I think they are getting to appreciate the presence of onions in most foods.

TehSlitherySnek ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 04:02:49 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I was the weird kid growing up who would eat all of the vegetables happily but hate most meats.

Allira93 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:29:46 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah I like brussel sprouts as a kid. My friends thought I was crazy.

DoerOfTheThing ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 04:24:48 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Your kids are super lucky to have you as a parent/mentor.

akiteonastring ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 04:45:51 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

But what did you end up doing with the bland soup?

Tsundere_Angel ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 04:58:46 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

If you're asian your mum would have wooped yo ass for not eating veggies.

ToPimpALadyBug ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:07:47 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Remember that book Stone Soup?

janefryer ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 06:38:12 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Lol.๐Ÿ˜‚ Perhaps you or your wife could just make the soup in future with the vegetables "hidden". I used to put all the veg in the blender before cooking it into the soup. The kids don't see the veg, but they still get the benefits of them.

bailey-182 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 06:44:26 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I needed this advice. Thank you.

swithhs ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 07:41:53 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Dad joke, but in food form instead

harrywwc ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 08:14:11 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

my wife had a special way of dealing with this.

She would make various sorts of 'minced meat' dishes (sausage rolls, lasagna, spag-bol, etc.) and would put as much vegetables in the mix as mince meat - but before adding the meat, she would blitz the veggies until they were of similar consistency to the mince.

Blend the meat and veggies together, add the various sauces and such, cook, and it was very hard to tell that there was vegetable matter in with the mince.

Decades later she still cooks it that way - as it is a cheapish way of making the meat go a whole heap further (and we can give some meals to her mother).

rahvin753 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 11:41:10 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Ha, I've recently gotten my hands on a food processor worth a damn and have started doing this with the vegetables the recipes call for. Makes it easier to shovel the food down my gullet all in one go.

AlorasEU ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 08:17:03 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I love it. Will def. plagarize.

ifunnybot55555 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 09:07:16 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

We gonna glaze past black pepper=too spicy?

rahvin753 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 10:33:47 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

The only thing I took away from this is that your wife makes the bomb chicken soup and I'm sitting here hungry now.

bob669 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 10:42:33 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Many adults don't understand this

Shuyi000 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 10:43:49 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Good parenting skills....

bryanthebryan ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 10:46:50 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Iโ€™ll be a dad this year and this may just come in handy. Thank you very much for sharing this.

badgersprite ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 11:09:52 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is great parenting.

Sir_Puffles ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 11:23:14 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Thanks for this strategy!

buBaine ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 11:31:53 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is great, A+ dad work! If I may ask, what age range are the kids? I might try this out on my 3 y.o. but maybe she's just a tiny bit too young.

AccioAmelia ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 14:27:53 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I LOVE THIS!! Bravo!!

HagridsHut ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:47:03 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Wow!! What a creative solution!!

rddtJustForFun ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:31:00 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This story got a good laugh out of me :D

jenncollins05 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:37:38 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Omg I absolutely love this.

Aldirick1022 ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 17:21:50 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Variation on stone soup

discoafroman ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 19:34:53 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Good, those kids are getting ready to grow up hating most food without you.

Seriously, itโ€™s insane how many kids arenโ€™t forced to eat normal food as a kid and now hate it when theyโ€™re older

shewolf1x ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:55:34 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

And I was literally force fed the shit. Didn't work. Then again, having to confront an issue as maybe something more than being stubborn or picky is too much for some people. Those people should not have children.

discoafroman ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:04:03 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Honestly, I donโ€™t know the best way to show kids the wonderful world of food. But I know a somewhat good way is to just make them try it as kids multiple times with MULTIPLE preparations.

You say you hate Brussels sprouts, but I doubt you do (not you obviously), if you tried pan seared Brussels sprouts with my seasonings! I just made an entire family with 3 kids (technically 4 but I had already convinced her) to like Brussels sprouts!

Iโ€™m 23 and I know there isnโ€™t a food I wouldnโ€™t try, we live too short of lives to not try something new when you have the chance. Waste of life I say.

nice2yz ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:09:17 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It didnโ€™t you mean ... โ€˜stumes?

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 04:16:50 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

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[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:05:52 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

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๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:33:10 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Although they are pretty picky, they love eating barely cooked beef. I just have to throw a steak on the grill a few minutes to brown both sides, and they love it. I'm guessing it is somewhere between rare and medium rare. They don't like dry meat. I think part of the problem these days is that people don't have the knowledge and experience to cook food so that it tastes good. Plus, if we are eating fast food every day, your taste buds get used to that being normal.

IceBear738 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:11:46 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My parents tried that reheat it till they eat it bs and I legit skipped every meal until they gave up. Then they went to forcing it down my throat. Because of that crap, I literally can't stand any vegetable period and got used to the hunger feeling

_Justforthis66 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:45:15 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Careful, seems like a slippery slope to your kids never really eating veggies. I'm not saying force them down their throat but maybe try roasting some veggies in the oven as a snack for a different flavor they don't know. Broccoli at 400 with S&P and oil 20 minutes toss then another 10. Great for crunchy dipping.

ReflexEight ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:36:54 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Whenever my bro doesn't want to eat something I just say "it's a Catboy sandwich."

Curtisziraa ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:46:17 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

What a great teaching method!

Rental_Car ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:20:04 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Me: Eat your fucking veggies. This isn't a democracy.

IceBear738 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:55:41 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My parents tried that and I dumped them in the trash when they weren't looking

Bonzai_Tree ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:39:19 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Back in my day we had to eat what was on our plate, regardless of how gross it was, or we'd get smacked and not be allowed to leave the table until we did eat it. Even if we gagged eating it.

...this seems like a significantly more sensible approach to things. I always HATED when my dad would just tell me "because I said so" in situations instead of showing or explaining things. Kudos.

ATMofMN ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:15:11 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)
BullshitPickle ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 08:00:37 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I love onions.

sat0123 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 17:52:54 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My dad used to make a fantastic chicken and rice soup.

He, however, was raised as a picky eater. Immensely picky. He would eat two vegetables - corn and green beans. He literally never tried a strawberry until I was about ten.

He would make his soup with large pieces of veggies, and remove them when it was done. I suppose you could do the same thing by tying them in cheesecloth, if you were so inclined.

I'm still picky - somewhere between a super-taster and on the spectrum. I Do Not Like bell peppers, cucumbers, celery, or cooked broccoli, period, full stop. Broccolini is fine. Pickles are fine. I don't eat celery even chopped up in soup, because those celery strings are still there somewhere and no. Cooked broccoli smells like pee, it's ok raw with ranch dressing though.

I like cauliflower occasionally - it's been cooked well at restaurants, but I couldn't suss out the recipe to duplicate it - and absolutely love Trader Joe's cauliflower gnocchi (ignore the directions and just saute them in butter with sage and thyme til the sides are golden and crispy), and have used their riced cauliflower to make cauli-tots. I often like brussels sprouts, and have a way I really like to cook them and asparagus at home (olive oil, soy sauce, smoked paprika, garlic powder, roast til crispy).

Considering where I started on vegetables, I'm pretty proud of myself.

marsglow ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:27:02 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Iโ€™m stealing your recipe for Brussels sprouts and asparagus! Never thought of soy sauce!!

Speedster4206 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:45:07 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah , they moved in together

ZippZappZippty ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:56:55 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Hi, Here for the chicken jerk.

theonlybarbie ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:28:02 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Brilliant, Dad!!

Assasin2gamer ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:29:41 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Where do you live in?

glc4531 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:08:20 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Jokes on you!!!! You wasted food.

Madbadbat ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:03:58 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Hell no

I don't want any of your damn vegetables

jakethedumbmistake ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:09:43 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Tell your However that it'll be Batman or HP

Jame5G ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:15:12 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Nice idea until it backfires and flavorless soup becomes the latest household food craze.

weeklygrind ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:30:20 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I donโ€™t want to hear.

adabbledooya ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:14:00 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

MLK H

weeklygrind ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:53:20 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

yea you might want a /r/SavedByApollo

NS_Udogs ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:04:28 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Nice

nice2yz ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:09:04 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You got corn in there too?

KingHTP ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:14:19 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Wait did they really say black pepper was too spicy?

SunDriedFetuses ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:21:45 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Meh, the way I make soup, the stock is made with veggies are strained out and thrown away because they are cooked so long they are mush.

SunDriedFetuses ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:24:08 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

With spaghetti sauce, most if not all of the veggies and herbs are blended up and simmered for so long you don't see them in the sauce.

RitaMoleiraaaa ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:42:44 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'd say just mix the thing into a pulp or whatever it's called, they probably just don't like solid things in the middle of the soup.

Obi-Schlong_Kenobi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:57:35 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Y

-DD ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:52:23 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Puree soups!! You can blender anything you want in it for the most part then add the chicken chunks or whatever topings after. Tell them it's saucy chicken soup. Most kids love sauces like bbq sauce or ketchup so that word brings up good feelings. If they have something they do like eating though like tomatoes or peppers you can just say it's chicken tomato or chicken pepper. Can even blend some spinach in there, get away with anything.

captain-burrito ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:27:21 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Puree the veg in it.

Karaokoki ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:29:20 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Fantastic parenting. โค๏ธ

purplepooters ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:41:50 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

kids are fucking evil, wtg though

dude_chick ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:45:34 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

slow clap

This is a true parenting life hack. True genius.

Mommymaddawg ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:48:22 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I did the same thing with chili and the kids didnโ€™t like it because it was so bland. After that they just picked out the stuff they didnโ€™t like.

Even-Understanding ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:00:29 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Why tf wouldnโ€™t want the baggage? Or...?

moonslight95 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:50:45 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Thatโ€™s a great story and all. But I was hoping the kids were gonna eat the damn veggies

OrestEagle ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:29:29 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)
earthlybird ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:44:02 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Sounds like a /r/nonononoyes to me. I was afraid they'd like it with no veggies, and now I'm questioning if I'll be able to pull off that kind of stuff without it backfiring when I have kids.

apollyoneum1 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:52:47 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Iโ€™m going to try this (Iโ€™m at my wits end) but I guarantee it will not work.

fwteddy ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 09:14:07 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Exactly me. Except he liked it.

tictokbad666 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 09:20:04 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I love my mom chicken soup and she puts veggies in it

cynicbynature ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 09:38:24 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

A wonderful lesson

dontlikemath ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 09:46:15 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I would eat that, if they didnโ€™t reject onions

NatteTostiMachine ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 10:26:12 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My dad was a master in tricking my brother and me, whenever he made something we didn't like, he would throw everything together in a blender and Serve the resulting Brown slurry as either "cowboy's stew" or "astronaut spaceship food". Then we would eat it like our lifes depended on it... Which it kinda did come to think of it

lakg1 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 10:32:01 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

High risk high reward in my opinion

soramenium ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 10:51:20 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Kids are stupid... And that was a very clever lesson!

I'm not going to give you everything, but I will say carrot cake. You probably know how to use that ;)

Supposed_too ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 10:52:04 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

How old are the kids?

Yttrium_9192 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:31:22 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

get the blender and puree the vegetables

or add the vegetables when you add the raw chicken, boil for a long time, then you can discard the pulp b/c the essence is already cooked out of them

minshapedlikedeadguy ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:55:45 on May 31, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah Iโ€™d hate that soup.

lotus_quill ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 10:20:24 on May 31, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I did something like this but for a very different reason. My mother can't cook. Think typical white people food. Skinless unseasoned chicken breast and a can of veggies dumped in a pan. Well, when my sisters asked why my food tastes so much better I showed them everything that went into my food. Stuff my mother always called "gross". They were so shocked that things like seafood, ethnic foods, and veggies could be made into American dishes they were used to and are now crazy about trying new flavors. It drives my mother up a wall but hey, they're eating it :D

HaymanIsGod ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:10:53 on June 2, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Eh. I like starving them more

HaymanIsGod ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:11:05 on June 2, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

nice

edgorpoe ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:19:00 on June 4, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

The veggies are the best part especially carrots

Fen_ ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:48:27 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Black pepper being too spicy has me dying.

IceBear738 ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 22:13:36 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It tastes like dirt xD

MeowWhat ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:06:14 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You probably ate dirt. Props to whoever's pranked you.

Alexa6655321 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:30:58 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I love this!! Totally going to try this with my younger 2 this weekend!!

The_Impresario ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:39:14 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I think this gambit fails more times than not.

thagthebarbarian ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:18:54 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

At least they know that black pepper is disgusting

FloatingRevolver ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:30:00 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

black pepper - no (gross, too spicy)

uh what? are you guys english by any chance?

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:30:41 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Nope, just that kids can be weird.

SomethingSinful ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:10:36 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Total BS.

Fearzebu ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 11:40:28 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

How the fuck do your children not like vegetables...? This is entirely foreign to me. Do you just feed them nothing but frozen pizza and chicken nuggets? The way I grew up you ate vegetables and loved them because not doing so meant being hungry

Mr_GT ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 13:44:05 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

The way I grew up you ate vegetables and loved them because not doing so meant being hungry.

Well considering the choices were eat your veggies or starve, I do question is your love for veggies was genuine change or pseudo-stockholm syndrome.

chicken__soup ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:48:14 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You should never put veggies in me

stormhunter2 ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 19:42:19 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Meat by itself has little to no flavor, so not adding anything other than salt to it will taste like nothing. It needs other ingredients to have flavor.

sweeney669 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:15:56 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Itโ€™s the pot full of water that made this unbearable to eat. A pot full of broth/stock would have made this delicious.

Verrence ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:47:52 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Meat has little to no flavor

Pure leat meat? Sure, it can be light on flavor. Meat with fat, bone, and skin? Huge flavor.

stormhunter2 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:54:19 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

fair point.

Harvee_Normarn ยท -6 points ยท Posted at 16:51:10 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My kids said that, I say "don't eat it". Simple.

robo_burrito ยท 17 points ยท Posted at 17:05:00 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah, I like more OPs approach of teaching kids the reasoning behind decisions, but both ways work to a certain extent.

Harvee_Normarn ยท -2 points ยท Posted at 17:12:12 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Either way they learn in the end, and that's the important thing.

To be clear, I don't disagree with what op did. Just making the point it's unnecessary. Kids are enough work without pandering to their whims, and in the end, it really doesn't matter. They'll eat when they're hungry.

pretenderist ยท 14 points ยท Posted at 16:57:34 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

OP's way is better.

cdnball ยท -3 points ยท Posted at 19:03:29 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

disagree

pretenderist ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 19:24:08 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah, "because I said so" is way better than having a teaching moment with your kids.

cdnball ยท -2 points ยท Posted at 19:27:34 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Those kids are still getting their way. Who's running the show there? I wouldn't say "because I said so", I'd say "that's what's for dinner" Teaching moment becomes, if you don't like it, don't eat it. Come back when you're hungry.

pretenderist ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 19:31:28 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Since that day, they haven't complained about finding veggies mixed in the food. Sure, they almost always eat around a carrot or green pea, but they understand that it adds flavor.

Your/Harvee's way absolutely is "because I said so," and I guarantee it won't stop the kids' whining as much as OP's method.

cdnball ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 19:37:56 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This approach worked in my house growing up. Kids only whine if whining got them what they wanted in the past. We ate the food that was served or we didn't eat. That's an important lesson too. My parents were strict, but fair. Raised 5 kids on a limited budget and we are all close today.

pretenderist ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 20:10:20 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You've gone from "because I said so" to "it worked for me when I was a kid." Neither of those are necessarily great reasons to continue specific parenting decisions.

I_deleted ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 17:00:03 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Yep, my job as a parent is to offer my children food. Whether that eat it or not is up to them. Anyone whoโ€™d have a stubbornness war with a toddler over a piece of broccoli does not know how to pick their battles.

Harvee_Normarn ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 17:01:31 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Precisely. If they're hungry they'll eat. Kids don't purposely starve.

EncouragementRobot ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 17:01:33 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Happy Cake Day Harvee_Normarn! Promise me you'll always remember: You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.

CampbellSonders91 ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 11:33:31 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

So basically. . . the CHICKEN doesnโ€™t make chicken soup taste good - the veggies do.

Another victory for vegetarians !

Fuck yโ€™all!

icemoo ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 13:20:36 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

yeah until you realize that without the chicken it tastes garbage lmao

luca1809mazzanti ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 06:12:12 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I assure you a carrot and a green pea add zero fucking flavor.

ehcmier ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 06:21:36 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Strongly disagree.

[deleted] ยท -8 points ยท Posted at 19:23:42 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

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whitefire2016 ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 19:29:48 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

ummmm, duh.

nickiwest ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 19:32:43 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)
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nickiwest ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:48:07 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

OP was strictly following the kids' instructions.

Plenty of home cooks use canned broth in soup, and that's fine. (I do it myself.) But if you make your own stock from scratch, you start with chicken, water, salt, and all of the other things that the kids vetoed.

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๐ŸŽ™๏ธ jazzb54 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:05:03 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

No need to start from broth if you put all the other soup ingredients in. Broth is basically starter soup. People have made soup by starting from water for generations.

Here's a basic one from Martha Stewart. Good starting point, and you can build upon it with other ingredients.

https://www.marthastewart.com/336138/basic-chicken-soup

sweeney669 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:14:58 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Agreed. If he was going to do this, atleast have the right ingredients out. Water shouldnโ€™t be anywhere near the ingredient list.

RoostasTowel ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:16:36 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It's so watery.

And yet with a smack of chicken to it.

TheKingHippo ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 19:41:24 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)*

Agreed. Dad sabotaged the soup so he'd be right. Probably wouldn't have been half bad with chicken broth (which isn't a vegetable), but the kids don't know that.

Not_a_real_ghost ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 19:52:01 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I grow up eating plain chicken soup and it's always delicious. This post is nonsense!

NormalHumanCreature ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 21:18:52 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Should have tossed a cigarette butt in there too.

mydadlivesinfrance ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 21:30:57 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Who starts soup with the liquid?

StealthyBeeping ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 13:16:48 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

people who don't know how to make good chicken noodle soup

Quartnsession ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 23:30:20 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Just don't put peas in it they ruin soup.

themonkeysfist ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 11:49:06 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Youโ€™re mistaking pee with peas. Common mistake.

Yoitzshane ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 03:27:07 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Or just use broth and let your kids enjoy noodles and chicken in soup. Weirdo.

TheFox033 ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 10:39:19 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Fuck um, make them it eat or go hungry. Bratty ass kids

trainer-skittles ยท -2 points ยท Posted at 21:21:46 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Maybe it was disgusting because you made soup with WATER instead of broth

khakijack ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:25:43 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You do know how broth is made, right?

fecking_fecker ยท -2 points ยท Posted at 23:04:00 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You're a monster for implying onions go in anywhere, let alone focking chicken noodle soup.

cutiequeercris ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:23:22 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Nah you have to sautรฉ the onion, carrot, and celery as the base for the soup! Itโ€™s pretty standard. It doesnโ€™t have any really onions taste, more so a subtle sweetness and aromatic quality

chrisfroste ยท -3 points ยท Posted at 19:04:29 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Honestly, the kids are correct. Veggies in soup ruins it. Having to eat around inedible garbage is frustrating.

As for why I say that, I have sensory processing issues. -every- vegetable has a texture that is 10x worse than nails on a chalkboard. There is no such thing as an edible fruit or vegetable.

thenewkidinschool ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:38:24 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

How does this work ? Do you like the taste but not the texture?

GrunkleCoffee ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:21:43 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

How do you get any nutrition?

IceBear738 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:21:13 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'm with you on this one

sweeney669 ยท -3 points ยท Posted at 21:12:56 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

It sounds like you made bad soup on purpose. You should never ever use water in your chicken soup let alone starting with the pot full of it.

If you browned the chicken in the bottom of the pot first with a little olive oil, took it out, put in a mix of chicken broth and stock, add your salt, chicken and noodles, it actually would have tasted infinitely better.

phoenix415 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:19:59 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Do you think this is a subreddit for recipe advice?

sweeney669 ยท -3 points ยท Posted at 21:25:23 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

No but it makes the malicious compliance not very satisfying because he used purposefully shitty ingredients to make his point which imo doesnโ€™t fit.

The kids wanted chicken soup without vegetables.

He says okay letโ€™s make soup without the ingredients you want.

Then starts with a pot full of water. Thatโ€™s not compliance, heโ€™s making a pot of chicken fat water. Thatโ€™s not soup and thereโ€™s no compliance with their ask of making chicken soup without the veggies.

The kids didnโ€™t ask to make chicken fat water without veggies.

barely_getting_by ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:30:54 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)
sweeney669 ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 21:39:09 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Why is this whoosh?

Itโ€™s such a shitty unsatisfying malicious compliance because there was no compliance at all.

I get what he was trying to do but it doesnโ€™t fit this sub at all.

IceBear738 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:57:39 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Lol you need water to make the broth xD

sweeney669 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:06:33 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

This is so wrong.

Yes you do need water to make broth. But he wasnโ€™t making broth. He was making soup. Thereโ€™s a huge difference.

Broth needs to get boiled down significantly and cook for 3+ hours.

Broth doesnโ€™t contain any of the veggies after cooking like soup does.

You donโ€™t typically cook your soup for 3+ hours. Nor does it even remotely sound like what they did. Which is why you start with broth (and some stock imo).

Thatโ€™s what the kids were asking. Chicken soup without the veggies aka chicken broth (and stock), chicken, salt, noodles. And it wouldโ€™ve been delicious and literally exactly what the kids asked for.

This post was by a dad that wasnโ€™t being compliant and only being malicious.

marsglow ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 01:33:46 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

No. It was unsatisfying because there was no malice.

sweeney669 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:39:42 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I guess Iโ€™m looking at the malice as deliberately making god awful food to make a point very wrongly.

But either way it still doesnโ€™t fit here and itโ€™s still not a woosh on my part.

marsglow ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:21:54 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

He made the food the way the kids asked.

sweeney669 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:42:14 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

No he didnโ€™t. The kids asked for chicken soup without veggies. Which is chicken broth, chicken, noodles, salt.

Those are the base ingredients to chicken soup and would be good without veggies.

weirdgurl7 ยท -9 points ยท Posted at 22:15:39 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I grew up without fresh food so this is a fucking joke. Teach your kids a real life lesson and take them to the soup kitchen. Fuck ungrateful kids and you for not correcting it.

AnonymousLesbian24 ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 22:16:30 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

But.... they did correct it

Fitchywanklebottom ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 01:25:19 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

There is a pandemic. Not a good time to bring kids to a soup kitchen

Anotterdirection ยท -2 points ยท Posted at 18:38:29 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Have you tried the yelling at them method? Tried and true....

Riuk811 ยท -2 points ยท Posted at 19:31:06 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

TBF green peas are gross. And I personally hate cooked carrots. I like carrots, just not warm and mooshy

Verrence ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:49:01 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Peas are great. But yeah, Iโ€™m with you on cooked carrots.

noslenramingo ยท -2 points ยท Posted at 11:40:47 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Picky eaters are not allowed at our table. I tell my kids all the time that nobody likes a picky eater. Adults who are picky eaters are the worst and I don't want that for my kids. Whenever they don't want to eat something, I do my best to tell them about the nutrition value and why it's beneficial to their growing bodies. I explain to them what an amazing human miracle it is for that piece of broccoli or whatever to be on their plate. I explain to them the hard work of everyone involved in getting that food to their plate and how we shouldn't waste it as a way to show respect and gratitude. Finally, I press the point that food isn't always about what you want, and sometimes it's about what your body needs, and that balance and variety is important. When you eat the things you love, you inherently show love, gratitude and respect to the food, the people who made it possible to have that food and to your own body. You owe the same respect to everything on your plate.

godlameroso ยท -2 points ยท Posted at 20:07:04 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You're stupid, just toss the soup in the blender.

NightOverlord ยท -3 points ยท Posted at 00:39:15 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You know wen you make chicken soup your supposed to throw out the first batch of boiled to hell veggies and add new ones to eat right??

LostCause6316 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:51:28 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

That's so wasteful??

NightOverlord ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:05:59 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

No its not, you boiled the shit out of them. The bones and pasted veggies are now trash.

Normally when making stock for soup you put large cut celery, carrots, and onions in a cheese cloth pouch. Ad any herbs and spices. After you boil the chicken and veggies for about 3 hours or more you toss the pouch, strain out the chicken and toss that too. You should have only used the bones and carcass meat for this. Then in the stock add precooked chicken pieces, fresh chopped veggies and heat to temperature and till the carrots are tender. Cook the noodles/ pasta in a separate pot with either water or some stock. Drain the pasta and put in bowls, ladle the broth over the pasta and serve.

When you make broth or stock you make it with the crop meat and bones and serve the good stuff.

LostCause6316 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:13:42 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You could still compost it. Just putting it in the trash is still not ideal.

NightOverlord ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:15:02 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Well obviously. I ment you dont eat them because they have no taste or texture.

LostCause6316 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:16:48 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Ah I see! I misunderstood I thought when you said throw out you just meant put them in the rubbish.

NightOverlord ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:17:45 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Nope just general get rid of/ do not eat

Fayareina ยท -6 points ยท Posted at 19:48:15 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

When I was a kid I only ever liked those same ingredients in my chicken soup ie chicken, noodles, water, and salt, and it's the same to this day. I still hate vegetables lol.

MeowWhat ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 23:04:42 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Must suck to realize you likely get very little nutrition and are going to age faster.

Fayareina ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 23:52:13 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚

MeowWhat ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 00:00:49 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You wont be laughing at early wrinkles and sandpaper skin. Enjoy though.

Fayareina ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 03:49:14 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

We'll see. Didn't ask for your opinion but thanks for your concern.

BernieDurden ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 11:52:05 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

They're trying to help, you fucking goober.

Fayareina ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:10:06 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

And I appreciate that but they literally can't help me, and disparaging me won't help either. I've been tested by a genealogist and I'm missing a DNA marker that makes my taste buds unique in the fact that things like coffee, milk, eggs, vegetables, and seafood are gross to me no matter how many times I've tried to eat them in dozens of different ways throughout my life. It just won't happen. So, I've learned to live with it. Thanks to everyone who put me down while I was just trying to make a lighthearted joke/comment to OP's cute story, when my "problem" is nothing I can control. Smh.

BernieDurden ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:21:56 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

There is no dna marker that makes all vegetables taste gross to you. This simply isn't possible.

The reason being is that there are over 20,000 edible vegetables known to humans and they all contain varying amounts of antioxidants like polyphenols, flavonoids, catechins, tannins, etc. These are what largely gives them smell and flavor.

What you're claiming is a lie.

Fayareina ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 16:51:12 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I'm not going to argue with an internet stranger about what is and isn't true in my life. This conversation is over. Goodbye.

BernieDurden ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:54:00 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I mean, there's nothing to argue about.

You made up a complete lie and swiftly got called out on it. End of discussion. Goodbye.

Okuser ยท -4 points ยท Posted at 20:08:51 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Kids universally reject the taste of vegetables because we are a carnivorous animal and their palates are completely pure.

If vegetables had "vital" nutrients in them it would stand to reason that they would taste incredibly appetizing.

BKLaughton ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:16:52 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Same reason they love chips, lollipops, happy meals, ice cream, and cake.

Okuser ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 23:53:45 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Those aren't natural foods. I'm talking about organic "foods" found in nature.

https://www.sciencealert.com/fruits-vegetables-before-domestication-photos-genetically-modified-food-natural

BKLaughton ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:59:36 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You're talking about how childrens' tastes are a 'pure' revelation of humanity's secret carnivorous nature. Nevermind the methodological leap or the fact that your conclusion completely flies in the face of an enormous body of biological data - your weird argument falls apart under its own scrutiny; children like sugar, a lot, they actually taste it more intensely than adults too. That's not something obligate carnivores are known for, often not even being able to discern sweetness. You know who goes crazy for their sugar? Herbivores and omnivores.

Okuser ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:41:42 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Imagine arguing that sugar is healthy.

your conclusion completely flies in the face of an enormous body of biological data

sugar good, fat bad. hurr durrr

https://youtu.be/5S6-v37nOtY

BKLaughton ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:12:56 on May 30, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Who's arguing sugar is healthy? Or that fat's bad? Focus, mate.

Okuser ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:32:02 on May 30, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

sugar is an artificial, highly refined carbohydrate concentrate.

Fruits evolved to taste sweet (fructose) because they literally want to be eaten by animals to have their seeds spread by feces. Just because a fruit is sweet doesn't mean we should be eating it. It's literally a seductive trap, there's nothing nutritious about fruits.

https://www.sciencealert.com/fruits-vegetables-before-domestication-photos-genetically-modified-food-natural

And your idea of an edible "sweet fruit" didn't exist before plant agriculture was invented, all of these plant foods used to be inedible before they were genetically modified.

We've been eating fatty meat for over 2 million years. We've only been eating plant based foods for the last 12,000 years, when plant agriculture was invented out of necessity because we hunted our prey (megafauna) to extinction across the globe.

BKLaughton ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:43:36 on May 30, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You're still going? Alright, let me put you back on track. You made an absurd claim that childrens' preference for meat was somehow reflective of a pure an uncorrupted natural human diet. I pointed out that children also have a preference for a lot sugary shit.

Okuser ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:46:42 on May 30, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

"Sugar" is not natural.

Fruits evolved to make themselves taste sweet to any animal.

We didn't evolve taste buds that make fruits taste sweet. So your argument is irrelevant.

BKLaughton ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:06:12 on May 30, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

"Sugar" is not natural.

lol

Fruits evolved to make themselves taste sweet to any animal.

Not carnivores.

We didn't evolve taste buds that make fruits taste sweet.

Evolution doesn't work like that. There's no game plan. Mutations are random, advantageous adaptations win out over disadvantageous ones.

So your argument is irrelevant.

You're projecting an argument onto me again. I was making fun of your nonsense observation that childrens' taste preferences prove humans are "carnivores"

linerys ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:09:14 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

If kids have the palate of a pure carnivore, wouldnโ€™t they tear apart their pet bunnies and eat them raw, instead of cuddling with them?

demodave45 ยท -5 points ยท Posted at 03:12:31 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I don't know about calling this guy a good parent. If he has kids old enough to have these types of debates, that DON'T eat vegetables, he and his wife have done a shitty job parenting. Part of parenting is teaching your kids about nutrition and making sure they eat a healthy balanced diet.

I don't care that my daughters don't like broccoli and carrots, red peppers, and celery. They sure as shit eat them though.

Honestly, this guy sounds like a typical overweight american with typical overweight spoiled american kids.

ridernation_69 ยท -9 points ยท Posted at 19:20:38 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Shame on you for condoning that kind of pickiness. They eat what you make or they go hungry. No child should dictate the terms to their parent.

unethicalposter ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:29:51 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I think it worked out

ridernation_69 ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 20:11:16 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

For now. If you continue to let them not eat what's in front of them, they will be nightmares when they are older.

unethicalposter ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:29:28 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Did you not read the whole thing? And I donโ€™t see how it would cause nightmares.

ridernation_69 ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 20:40:02 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

They pick and choose what food they want to eat. Sure he used logic now that they are young. When the get older, it will get worse. We went thorough the same thing with my brother.

disintegore ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:22:10 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Authority for the sake of authority is just shit parenting

Don't take my word for it though. Ask your kids in twenty years

ridernation_69 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:27:57 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Ask me now. Those were the rules o had when I was a child. There isnt much now I wont eat. Regardless of what it is. I was raised to eat what was put on your plate. We were poor, we didnt have the luxury of turning our noses up at food because "we didnt like it"

IceBear738 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:19:21 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

My parents tried that and i would skip every meal until they made something else for the sake to get me to eat or I snuck it in the trash. Authoritarian parents create stubborn and sneaky kids

ridernation_69 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:21:23 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I starved for 2 days because I refused to eat liver and onions. I dont see any authoritarian about it. Do as you are told, eat what's made for you. Not a hard concept.

IceBear738 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:23:01 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

Its not how you get your kids to do what they want. You're just teaching them to hide it better. Kids are allowed to not like things and there will be things they won't eat. Forcing them to eat it is not going to end well

ridernation_69 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:32:08 on May 28, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

I dont "force" them. They get hungry enough that it gets eaten. There is no hiding of anything. Eay or go hungry, their choice. And they always choose food in the end.

jiminthenorth ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:17:07 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

You're a sociopath, you know that right?

ridernation_69 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:18:03 on May 29, 2020 ยท (Permalink)

How do you figure?