Have you ever felt a deep personal connection to a person you met in a dream only to wake up feeling terrible because you realize they never existed?

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ trotterwatch ยท 1548 points ยท Posted at 10:49:45 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*


This happens often to me, sometimes I feel as if waking up is killing an actual being. Sometimes I'll go all day thinking about it, it makes me feel really uneasy because they seemed so real.

Edit: Great stories, I think it is time for a support group.

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commahunt ยท 437 points ยท Posted at 10:56:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's weird when I dream about someone I barely know, having a complete adventure. I wake up confused and never being able to look at them the same.

redrummm ยท 245 points ยท Posted at 15:26:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This is so awkward, and then if you see them you get a feeling that you guys are friends but in reality they have no idea who you are...

stereopathic ยท 170 points ยท Posted at 15:35:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Sometimes it seems like the connection in the dream was so strong that they should feel it too. It's disappointing when things are just the same as they ever were.

redrummm ยท 144 points ยท Posted at 15:40:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah, the worst was when i was in HS and had a dream about a girl the next day I wasnt really sure what was dream and what was reality because the dream was so vivid and playes out in school. I woke up feeling totally in love, and the next i saw her i accidently said hi to her and she just looked awkwardly at me and said hi back, not knowing who i was. I didn't even know her name, i had just seen her a couple of Times in school... Still makes me cringe...

el_muerte17 ยท 164 points ยท Posted at 15:54:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

i accidently said hi to her

Who'd've thought you might start doing this on purpose down the road...

catsvanbag ยท 118 points ยท Posted at 16:51:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Nice double contraction

Alex470 ยท 33 points ยท Posted at 17:16:40 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Double contractions aren't a secret any longer!

olkjas ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:48:26 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

They never have been if you live in the South!

icaaryal ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:31:25 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm from Oklahoma and have also lived in North Carolina. I can confirm this.

bonejangles ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:36:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

we shouldn't've told anyone.

AGD4 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:08:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You could say the cat's out of van's bag, no?

CPTkeyes317 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:35:25 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I also want in on this upvoting train! Lol you guys earned them though

el_muerte17 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:04:26 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've been using them everywhere else, but it wasn't until a couple days ago I felt I could bust one out on reddit without someone getting butthurt.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 14:28:28 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You shouldn't've.

Nyahnyah ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:50:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah but he probably said "Hi" in a way where they both knew eachother very well. She was probably weirded out by how direct it was.

option_i ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:05:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once had a dream about this mysterious guy (made up). He never spoke, but he held my hand as we walked, then he gave me a sweet kiss as the dream was fading... I am gay and a virgin (23), so I chock it up to those two things. Dammit, I want my hand held. :/

xombiemaster ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:36:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

should have pursued it further. Maybe it would have led to spectacular adventures!

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:31:13 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

And the worst part is you can't even explain it to her in a sane-sounding way. "I saw you in my dreams!" sounds all sorts of corny/lame/hitting-on.

LouSpudol ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 16:59:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What's really cool to think about is what if she had the same dream about you and she felt the same way, but because you both don't know each other no one brings it up and it goes on as just some weirdo dream. I don't know, could make a cool plot for a story....also could make a good conspiracy keanu meme.

LinkLincolnLogs ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:42:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream in 2009 which is just like this but it has another twist to it. I was in living room at night with a medium hight girl with curly brown hair. She was wearing red from what I remember. We were watching some movie and we were sitting on the couch cuddling. I kissed her and then she takes my hand and leads me up the steps but I woke up when we got to the landing and went around the corner. A year later in college I meet a girl in my philosophy class who looks just like her. One day she calls me to come visit her because she got her wisdom teeth out and no one is keeping her company. So I go over and then again the next night and I kid you not the same exact event unfolded except for the end because I was hesitant to sleep with her while she was on vicodin because sadly, like a fool, I cared and wanted something to come of it. Anyway we are texting and talking about lucid dreams the next day. She tells me she's tired and says she's going to take a nap. 30 minutes later she texts me saying she had a sex dream about us and the odd part is she described my moves and things I would have done if real waking life that she couldn't have know otherwise. She also said she could see the time on the clock vividly which is normally not possible. I never told her about my dream and she moved back home at the end of the semester.

Robo-Erotica ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 17:04:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oh jesus, the same happened to me, on multiple occasions. That, and hanging out with people I barely knew IRL but in the dream, they were my close friends. Weird shit.

Tactful ยท 93 points ยท Posted at 17:57:49 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I posted about this in the other recent AskReddit thread about dreams, but I thought I'd write a little about it here too. It's very relevant.

I have this every single time I dream. Not necessarily the day thing, but my dreams are so vividly realistic it's difficult to differentiate between the dream and the real thing, especially if that sort of phenomena happens where you forget about the dream, and the content of the dream gets muddled in with your actual memories.

I've had conversations with friends where I mention something they said, and it turns out they never said that thing. Normally I play it off, "Oh haha, must have been someone else, my bad." but it wasn't, it was them. In my mind.

It always amazes me, the human mind. The fact I can actually generate believable characters who act exactly like they act in real life. It's obviously worrying, but I'm getting better at differentiating between what actually happened and what I dreamt happened.

It also doesn't help that sometimes I click that it's a dream, and become lucid. That's a weird sensation, knowing you're in a dream. The way I normally check when I'm unsure is I hold my nose and try to breathe in. If you can still breathe in whilst holding your nose, it's a dream. I've only ever done this once whilst awake, when I was very fucked.

It's not just one dream per night either, sometimes it's several dreams, sometimes it's one dream that seems to last for days. I've dreamt I've been at college or work, or at a party I went to in the past, or even just sitting at home on the internet. Here's some things I've found:

  • My brain isn't very good at generating the internet. If I try to access websites with lots of results (Reddit, Youtube), they'll generally 404. It's like my mind knows it wont be able to maintain the illusion of the entire internet. Singular google results still work though, so if I search for something specific within the context of the dream it'll link me through to a "real page".

  • Characters in the dreams can only be extensions of myself, but that doesn't mean they're only me, if you understand what I mean. They can only know what I know, but... it's like... sometimes they know things that I'm not consciously aware of. I've had conversations with characters in the dreams that have had just as real an affect on my own personal views and growth as actual conversations and epiphanies in the real world.

  • If I become lucid, work out the dream is the dream whilst still dreaming, I tend to wake up. I can sort of quell this by closing my eyes and spinning in a circle, or deconstructing the room. It's difficult to describe, but imagine being in the level editor of a videogame, like Halo or Timesplitters. You can sort of... mentally move objects, and generate new ones. It's a lot like what Juno does in Inception.

  • Often times when I become lucid, I wake up. Only, it's a false awakening, I wake up into a different dream. So I literally think I've woken up, and go about my day, then some time later I'll wake up for real. That's incredibly disorientating, and probably the worst feeling.

  • I no longer have bad dreams. If a dream is getting dark or bad or nightmarish, I shut it down and wake up. I haven't had a legitimate nightmare that I've actually remembered in several months.

  • Smoking weed before either stops the dreams, or stops me from remembering them, as does being very physically tired. The less tired I am when I fall asleep, the more likely I am to have one of these incredibly realistic dreams. Drinking alcohol tends to make the dreams more vivid, I think it's because I'm drunk within the dream if you get me, my mind becomes more reckless. When high, my mind is more... relaxed.

  • The dreams are often a method of working out problems. For example, if I'm feeling a bit of tension between me and a particular friend, I might have a dream 'starring' that friend as a character. I can then have a conversation with them about it, and resolve any issues. Similarly, when I was younger I dream-slept with a girl that rejected me. It's almost like a... I don't know, a coping mechanism, a way of me mentally working through the things that are on my mind. If a relative is ill, I dream of reconciling with that relative.

  • I no longer have surreal dreams. When I was a child I used to dream a lot of videogame-related dreams and adventures, but I rarely have those sorts of dreams now. When I do, for example when I dreamt I was an intelligence officer the other day, they're a welcome escape even if I'm aware that they're dreams.

So, to summarize, yes, I have dreams that mess up my day, almost every day. I dream I'm at work, then have to get up and go to work. I dream I'm revising, then have to go revise. It works both ways though, the dreams are an excellent way of me working through personal problems, and I think overall they stabilise me in a way no other form of therapy or medication could. I wouldn't choose to give them up, not until they become seriously intrusive anyway.

TL;DR: I have realistic dreams every night that affect my everyday life quite often, and occasionally make me misremember things.

[ed] Although I'm still fairly young, I've lived in about 18 different houses. Each one of them is mapped in my mind, and I tend to revisit them within the context of dreams fairly often. I'll find myself at my Nan's house, in the downstairs bathroom, every detail rendered perfectly. It's nice, I get to revisit places I'll never get to visit again, old houses in London, old flats where I grew up etc.

arseoutofthemselves ยท 10 points ยท Posted at 20:48:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That last bit is interesting to me because I dream basically exactly like you do (except my way to tell if it's a dream is to check a clock to see if the numbers are all messed up, or to try flying), and I've also lived in something like 17 different places. I never dream about them, but I always feel like moving around a lot while young has a lot of deep effects on a person, and maybe annoyingly realistic dreams is one of them?

Tactful ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:01:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Moving around a lot as a kid has definitely had an affect on my life. Do, or did, you find it weird when you went over to a friend's house and realized that he's lived there his whole life? That's so fucking weird, imagine the same house for neigh on 18 years... That just seems crazy to me.

Maybe it's something like, our lives were so hectic we ended up finding stability within dreams? Although that does sound a tad too Freudian for my tastes.

wjoe ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 13:49:19 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oddly, if I dream of being 'at home', it tends to be in my first house. I've also moved around quite a lot (not quite as much, maybe moved house 10 times in 20 years, but also spent a lot of time staying with other people and such), and yet it's almost always that house. It's odd, since I was pretty young when I lived there (moved out of there when I was about 8 maybe), and I can barely recall any particularly significant events from there, yet it's permanently stuck in my subconcious.

packman75 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:49:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's intense.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:05:57 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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Tactful ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:34:33 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Interesting account. I had a dream last night about walking around the streets of my city as police officers flooded it in an attempt I assume to break down on curfew. Like you said, everything feels almost completely real in terms of texture, sound, vision, all the senses. The only thing that justifies it being a dream is my sense of balance, which is always off.

Enconasaurus ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:22:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well you know that you're lucid dreaming, and you feel like you have some control when you realize this, did you ever google some tricks on how to control it? Because I've seen some stuff about lucid dreaming in passing but I feel as if you were able to immediately take 100% control you would be able to easily differentiate between reality and the dream realm. And besides then you can do cool stuff like skydive off the Eiffel tower.

MothOnAString ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:33:52 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I feel like I can relate to a lot of what you've said, good job putting those concepts into words! I suspect most of my dreams are probably realistic too and I just remember them as being "fuzzy" when I wake up; once I had a semi-lucid dream where I "checked" to see if I was in a dream by looking around and I remember with perfect clarity that everything looked 100% clear and like it does in real life.

Also I haven't lived in nearly as many houses as 18 (!) but I know what you mean about the mind mapping them out and then revising them in dreams.

Do you ever get "hybrid" houses in your dreams that kind of mix bits of various places together?

Tactful ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:02:43 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm eighteen years old, I've lived in 22 separate houses, but that's not exactly a huge difference haha. It's probably about 18 if you discount the ones that I was too young to remember.

I can't recall every being in a "hybrid" house, the houses always seem to be exactly as they were in real life. My grandparents, for instance, is the most vivid one, and the only I visit most. However, there is a sort of hybrid-ness... as in, events that happen at the houses get confounded, I'll be at a raging house party at my grandparent's for example, or people that should be living in one house will be living in another. The setting however, always remains true to its real life counterpart, or at least the way I remember it. Any place I spent a substantial amount of time tends to come up in my dreams so... Primary School, Secondary School and College are oft-visited, as are places I used to visit a lot like the museum for example, the local footie pitch, the park I used to walk through on my way back from school. Memories become the basis for dreams, and people I know become the basis for dream-characters.

In the other thread, I had loads of responses from people; half were "Oh my god that's so weird, I barely dream at all, it sounds supernatural!" and the other half were "Oh my god, I know exactly what you mean! I thought it was just me!"

So we are not alone! That's what I love about Reddit, its ability to connect people who are slightly fucked up in exactly the same way.

beer_madness ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:24:25 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've realized recently, through becoming lucid, I have no sense of smell in my dreams. I've gone tongue crazy twice now on a vagina but didn't get that wonderful scent I'm used to. It's a little disheartening.

gerax07 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:06:38 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You got tagged as the dream maker. Wow. I'd wish I could even remember my dreams. Maybe everyone has this same capability, but some of us just don't remember our dreams?

ThisIsHeisenberg ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:37:47 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have this guy tagged as POET, which always results in me reading his posts. They're always above-average, for some reason.

Tactful ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:33:35 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Everybody's different in their own way.

Qchi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:48:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I feel like I could have written this, with one exception, I almost NEVER dream about reality, real people will be there, and sometimes even real places, except something has always changed. And I can tell if it's a dream by jumping. Either I hang in the air before I touch the ground in a dream or just continue to float. Really cool to know that I am not alone when it comes to vivid/lucid dreams.

frivolege ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:16:55 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Very interesting read. I can understand a lot of it too. Mostly my dreams are creepy and surreal and I know I'm dreaming (because my mind realises that nothing makes sense).

Unfortunately when I have realistic dreams they mingle with my reality and I get pretty confused. It's really quite distressing having to try figure out whether something actually happened or not.

In the mornings I hit snooze on my alarm and in those 10 minutes I can dream I've gotten up, had breakfast, driven to work, sat down at my desk... and then I wake up and go "WTF I have to do it all again and I'm so tired".

I've also (only a couple times) had a dream about a place I've never been before and then a few days/weeks later ended up there and had a serious wtf moment.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 13:41:45 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I TL;DR'd your post, but I have to say if it bothers you have vivid, intense dreams, you should try cannabis. It will eliminate your dreams. Long time stoners can vouche for this and it is well know. I have been suffering from Self-Loathing Narcissism/OCD/Depression type shit my whole life and would occasionally get horribly lucid dreams that freaked me out. Sometimes I would have dreams about having accidentally killed someone, or feel trapped in some kind of 'spin maze' type thing in my head, or just obsessing over things for hours before/during/after sleep. Now, I take a fatty hit before sleep and I wake up 8 hours later in a good mood - no dreams. Fantastic.

Tactful ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:35:21 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah I smoke, but thanks anyway.

MrClicketyCane ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:45:03 on May 15, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I get this same thing, it's always difficult trying to remember what conversations I've actually had with someone. Sometimes it has actually happened, but I think it was the dream. They're pretty much the same. I didn't know anyone else has this issue, is there a name for this kind of thing?

Tactful ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:03:00 on May 16, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Not that I know of, but take solace in the fact that you aren't the only one. x

MarsSpaceship ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:23:09 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

and if, even if, the other person really exists? Perhaps dreams is a kinda game center with peer-to-peer brain connection... who knows. With 6 billion people on the planet one will never know. Parting on the principle that this is true, a few months ago I had an idea of building a site where people should post their dreams and other people could consult them to see if there's a match. A kind of "find my dream partner", based on the dreams. If someone want to do this, it would be awesome. I simply don't have the time.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:42:17 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yup, I've had that a few times. The dream seems so real that I can't get them out of my mind, and it completely changes the way that I interact with them because I'm suddenly crazy infatuated with them. There's this one girl, even a couple years after the fact, that I still "haunts my dreams".

funks ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 16:53:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I get the same sort of feeling from meeting someone who just reminds me of someone who I already know. I feel like I already know them so I find that I'm much more friendly with them.

kss114 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:20:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

me too. Although i worry that I don't give them a chance to develop their own personality. My brain makes the connection and then dismisses all evidence that they are different.

kss114 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:20:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

me too. Although i worry that I don't give them a chance to develop their own personality. My brain makes the connection and then dismisses all evidence that they are different.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:00:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

All of the faces you see in your dreams are faces you've seen at some point in your life. They could be completely random strangers that you saw once in a crowd, but the brain doesn't create new faces.

CooperHaydenn ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:58:34 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

and they usually are no where near as relatable as in the dream.

avro_lanc ยท 127 points ยท Posted at 15:40:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This usually happens after a sex dream with an acquaintance. You spend the rest of the day thinking, Oh god.. they know.

wondertwins ยท 33 points ยท Posted at 16:53:03 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Omg this happened to me a few years ago. I didn't even like this girl in my bio class and I would talk to her only on school related stuff but in my dream she was there and I was holding hands with her and doing cutesy stuff with her in school. I never looked at her as a normal being again and I basically looked like this every time I saw her face because it reminded me of that fond dream.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:57:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I know that look! discribes it wonderfuly!

TeddyBear_Squabble ยท 42 points ยท Posted at 16:39:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I keep having sex dreams about my boss, so everytime I look at him now I just start laughing.

Anderson0457 ยท 63 points ยท Posted at 16:54:38 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I keep having dreams about my boss, but he never actually really dies

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:50:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Hello, this is your boss. Explain yourself!

Anderson0457 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:52:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Cocks Shotgun We're still dreaming.

MrTeddybear ยท 12 points ยท Posted at 17:13:14 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

NO, I KEEP HAVING SEX DREAMS ABOUT MY BOSS!!!

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:48:51 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Hello, this is your boss. Explain yourself... in my office.

MrTeddybear ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:12:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

ಠ_ಠ

spades86 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:20:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

this is only one thing to do in this situation.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:47:29 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I did that once... it was kind of awkward at the meeting the next day.

[deleted] ยท 29 points ยท Posted at 16:27:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

My first sex dream was with a random kid in my 8th grade bio class. I spent the next week wondering if he knew.

ascendingelephant ยท 109 points ยท Posted at 16:59:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Teacher of the year award goes to afailsafeopinion.

[deleted] ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 17:11:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Hah. I was also in 8th grade at the time.

mikeblackwinsnig ยท 15 points ยท Posted at 18:57:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

And teaching? Wow. Amazing

chawk ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 19:31:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

They just keep getting younger every year...

tropelink ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:14:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
qwertyvibe ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:54:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I Know!

runalongmantalk ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:12:07 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

EVERY. GODDAMN. NIGHT. It's a problem.

jsauce61 ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 16:50:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This happened to me once. Back in college some random girl added me on Facebook. She thought she met me at a party but was mistaken. I didn't think much of it. A few nights later had a dream where me and her were just hitting it off. Just having a crazy good time doing nothing and we kind of fell for each other in the dream.

I woke up not sure what to think. Went on the Facebook, did the creepy "you seem cool, we should hang out" message. And low and behold we started dating. We dated on and off for about a year. She never was as cool as she was in the dream though..... A real let down.

EDIT: After a year I told her about the dream and everything... She thought it was cute and rewarded me with a BJ. When being a creep works! haha

boomboxtomcat ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 17:07:06 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Creepers gonna creep.

distancetomars ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:25:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream about someone I work with. The classic movie romance cliche; We had this epic adventure, really "learned" alot about each other end up getting romantically involved, that sort of thing. Before that I had no romantic feelings for her and barely talked, now i feel like i have a crush on her.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:26:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oh goodness, same here. I recently had a dream that myself, two of my housemates, my half-brother's half-sister (his mom's kid from her second marriage), a girl I knew from high school, my ex-boyfriend, and a few famous actors were in some sort of holocaust situation and hiding out in an abandoned building, Anne Frank-style.

I've only met my half-brother's half-sister like 10 times in my life. Now I think of her as someone who helped get us rations when we were trying to survive. She was a teacher in the dream and since she was considered an essential member of society, she was allowed to not be in hiding/a concentration camp.

She's not even a teacher in real life.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:08:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

See, I've only ever had the opposite happen. I had an extremely terrible nightmare once, where everyone I know had a party at the waffle house where I worked. It was as if the entire store was revamped into a typical 80's just-turned-21 kegger. I found a dead body at the party, and after a while of following clues, I was lead to the fact that everyone had murdered this person to frame me as the killer, and I looked up and they were all just grinning evilly at me like "Oooh he finally figured it out." And began laughing at me and crowding around me to where I couldn't move. All my family members, best friends, people I haven't seen in forever, just fucking laughing at me and yelling and crowding around me.

I actually didn't hang out with anyone for a couple of days after that. I was going through a weird time lol.

z0n3m4n ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:48:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Happened to me last night

Like29Zombies ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:46:03 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

This happened to me last night! It was a odd dream but summed up; I was hanging out with this fairly attractive girl (whom of which I have never spoken to in person) in Heaven. I don't know why it was located there for we weren't even dead, just seemed like a cool place to go on a date. Well in the end of the dream we ended up doing the do... in heaven... and now I can hardly look at her anymore. I came super close to telling her about it today because I suppose God decided to troll me and arrange destiny so that I'd have to awkwardly walk next to her through the hallway. But I chickened out. Guess she will forever me the girl I went on a date with in Heaven, then proceeded to hump.

TL;DR: Shouldn't of banged her in heaven.

jumpjumpdie ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:46:57 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I dreamt about someone from high school I was barely friends with and barely spoke to the other day. Really strange. Not sexual, just an adventure.

MegaRockstarFromMars ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:12:43 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This.I had one of THOSE dreams about this girl i had a crush on,and now i can never see her the same way again.

moonblade89 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:41:34 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Actually reminds me of a time I was on LSD, talking via IM to my ex (gf at the time). She was really insecure about falling in love and was kinda walled off to the idea. And that night, it felt like everything fell into place, like everything would be perfect from there on, like I had gotten through to her. Spoke to her again the next day and she didnt remember the conversation at all. My heart shrunk 3 sizes that day

hiero_ ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:53:47 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

If this ever happened to anyone I know and I as the subject, I would want to know and it makes me depressed that I never will for fear they won't tell me, but I don't blame them.

As I posted in another comment, the same thing happens with me, but more often with... girls... who I barely know. I never told anyone this in particular because I always looked at it and thought it was creepy to myself, and also because why would I fall in 'love' in my dream with a girl I don't even know or wasn't really attracted to prior to that? Weirdest thing. I always would feel really awkward after seeing them again, sometimes even, and this weirds me out, attracted to them and once even developing a minicrush that only lasted a day or two, and the feeling would last a few days until things just went back to normal and I forgot. The brain is such a fascinating and yet horrifying device. I don't get why any of that ever happened, but I write it off as a desire to be loved and cared for, not at all strange and just a basic human want.

asator ยท 139 points ยท Posted at 15:51:43 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've posted this before, and apparently people enjoyed it so I'll post it again.

I had a dream once that I was driving and came across what seemed to be an old haunted house. For some reason I decided that I needed to explore the house, as if I felt some kind of mysterious bond with the place. So I venture in and start looking around. I go up a set of very elaborate stairs, like the winding kind you'd see in a mansion, and at the top of the stairs, at the second floor landing, I see this ghost. It's a young lady, about 20, with short dark hair, in a long, white wedding dress. Her head is tilted back and there is a long gash across her throat, with blood gushing out of it, down the front of her dress. It's ghastly.

So I get freaked out, naturally, and as I turn around to run she calls out to me in a very soft voice,

"Please don't go... I need you... I've been waiting... For so long... Don't go..."

I turn back around and the blood is gone and her neck is fine. I look at her and she is stunningly beautiful. She tells me that long ago we were to be wed, but on our wedding day I died in a horrible car accident. That night she went to the house that we were going to move into together and, out of grief, took her own life. Since then she had been waiting for me to come back to her, so that we could once again be together. Apparently, my spirit moved on while hers could not let go. She stayed in the house for over 100 years, keeping others away in hopes that I would someday come back to her.

She then tells me that the only way we can be together is if I kill myself like she did, at the same place, in the same way. With that act, we will both be released and can move on, together. Forever, together. I'm completely convinced. I don't know why. She's just right, I can feel it, because I love her.

She hands me a knife, and I stand at the edge of the landing, looking over the banister upon the downstairs. I lean against the banister and bring the knife up to my throat...

Then I wake up.

To this day I still think of that dream and how real it felt.

xAbaddon ยท 116 points ยท Posted at 17:38:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You are waiting for a train...

VulpesAbnocto ยท 13 points ยท Posted at 19:12:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

A train that will take you very far away.

aewilson95 ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 04:16:09 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You know where you hope this train will take you...

ICantThinkOfAnythin ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 04:52:51 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

But you can't know for sure

hero2bash ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 04:57:47 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

source?

ICantThinkOfAnythin ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:17:14 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's a recurring monologue/dialogue thing in the movie Inception.

VulpesAbnocto ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:18:04 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
Chubbin ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 05:47:38 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

But you can't be sure.

gburnaman ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:44:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oh god damn man that was good.

[deleted] ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 23:25:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

One that will take you far away...

ihateshoppingsomuch ยท 29 points ยท Posted at 18:01:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

She only asked you to do that because she was bitter and was all hung up on you for 100 years and then it turns out you 'moved on' no problems like the minute you died and probably fucked multiple ghost bitches in the afterlife while she was hanging around haunting people all the time.

Sonorous_Epithet ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 18:01:25 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Eating popcorn

fuckingcaptcha ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 01:45:44 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

and it falls out through the hole in your neck

Sonorous_Epithet ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:09:46 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oh my God.... THE CALL WAS COMING FROM INSIDE THE HOUSE!

abernathie ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:47:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Serious question: Was there a dream reason for you being able to kill yourself when you were already dead, or was it something that didn't even come up?

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:36:34 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What I took from it was that he'd been reincarnated, so was alive in the context of the dream.

asator ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:08:18 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This. I was reincarnated. But because we were soul mates she could tell that the soul residing in my body was the same one that her soul was connected to.

asator ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:08:45 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

I had been reincarnated.

Here's the link to where I last posted this story. I answer a good deal of questions about it there.

http://www.reddit.com/r/DoesAnybodyElse/comments/lcqvx/hae_fallen_in_love_with_a_girl_in_a_dream/c2rmhnt

Draven911 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:24:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

So you died twice in your dream? did you like have a 1-UP bro?

Twiggeh-Leaf ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:04:18 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I totally remember reading this once before! :D

Harachel ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:03:56 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That was cool, but now you have to go on an epic search to see if the house actually exists.

jpda ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:12:30 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Maybe that really did happen, but only in your past life!

BUBBA_BOY ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 10:20:35 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

OK. Done with Reddit for now. I've actually seen this posted before. Time to be productive!

[deleted] ยท 619 points ยท Posted at 11:01:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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saaadfaaace ยท 13 points ยท Posted at 17:24:34 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:25:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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cb43569 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:18:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Maybe it's the inner form of all Daily Mail employees.

zguld897 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:36:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Never a horror like it.

Moistcabbage ยท 153 points ยท Posted at 15:32:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Maybe you're a repressed racist?

Battletooth ยท 75 points ยท Posted at 15:42:14 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm not saying you're wrong, but where does the racism come in? I read this like 5 times and can't see it. D;

Squeaky_Lobster ยท 207 points ยท Posted at 15:47:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You must be American, or I'm just missing your sarcasm. The Daily Mail is the Fox News of British tabloids.

Battletooth ยท 73 points ยท Posted at 15:58:51 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Close. I'm French-American, but regardless, I had no idea what that was until you explained it.

Thank you for clarifying.

buck_foston ยท 59 points ยท Posted at 16:06:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

does this mean dual citizenship or too afraid to admit that American

Battletooth ยท 45 points ยท Posted at 16:10:26 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Dual citizenship. Patents born in France and I was born in America.

Truth be told, the food in Europe is better. And free schools and health care is nice, however even with that, I still prefer living in America, despite all the Internet hate it gets.

[deleted] ยท 79 points ยท Posted at 16:17:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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mukman ยท 50 points ยท Posted at 16:26:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

But he's French-American, so they put his guns on his back so he can shoot while running away! Nudges fellow American in the arm.

nestoras ยท 47 points ยท Posted at 16:46:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well, he is half-American, which means he wouldn't be able to run very far... he'd have to stop after a few feet wheezing and gasping for breath, his huge mechanical belly moving up and down! Nudges fellow Greek in the arm.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:21:46 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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mukman ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 17:46:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Nudges fellow geek in the arm?

Battletooth ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 17:45:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Surely you heard of the French WWII rifles. Great condition. Never been fired, only dropped once.

ohpuic ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 18:00:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Its a bad deal. Cemented in wrong direction. You won't be able to use them.

Battletooth ยท 14 points ยท Posted at 16:29:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Thanks, Captain Obvious. I thought patents was clear enough to explain that's who I le am. Hogh hogh!(snooty French robot laugh)

[deleted] ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 17:28:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Fire ze missiles!!!

Battletooth ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:32:06 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

But I am le tired!

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:13:18 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well have a nap...

THEN FIRE ZE MISSILES

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:01:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Upvoted for teaching me how to properly spell a snooty french robot laugh. God's honest truth, I've never been able to figure it out until now. Thank you.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:04:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

He's a time travelling robot owned by a multi billion dollar corporation aimed to take over the world.

Most of us on reddit are.

thecolorplaid ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:40:52 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Italian American here (dual citizen). I agree. Life is completely different in Europe than the US. Neither is bad, it just depends on which you like more.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:48:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

Even if Europe is objectively better (not saying it is or isn't), It's natural to prefer the comfort of a familiar home.

grub5000 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:39:12 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Do you mind if I ask why you prefer America?

-Brit

Battletooth ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:57:21 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This is why.

No I'm actually kidding. It's all the little things together. The people I experienced in Amerca are generally nicer and less racist than in France. Well, strangers seem nicer in France, but when you become friends, people here are more willing to help out. It's like an inverse relationship. Strangers and families are nicer in France and more rude in America. People that you know or have met once seem to be more friendly on America.

It's not just that. I don't know how to explain it. France is my familiar home with most of my family, yet something about America is easier to live. It's a mixture of all the little things together. Most streets are easier to drive through. I feel safer. In France, in a decent middle class yard, you can't have anything out there like fountains or decorations. They get stolen. Here you can live in the poorest neighborhood and leave your shit out without it being taken.

Now I'm only speaking from my experience. I'm sure others ran into opposite experiences as me as well. I'm sure it depends which part of each country you live in to get different experiences.

TeamVlad ยท 11 points ยท Posted at 16:10:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

so is it never okay to call oneself Chinese American, African American, or Native American?

repeat2k ยท 17 points ยท Posted at 16:24:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Most of the time, when people do it in America, they are maybe 1/32 of the other nationality they are stating.

"Mom, I told you to call me Jacque"

"Battletooth, you are 1/32 French."

Actual conversation, I should know, I was outside the whole time.

auntie_eggma ยท 24 points ยท Posted at 16:45:06 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Particularly the ones of Irish or Italian descent, I've noticed. No one in Ireland is ever as Irish as that dick in Boston with an Irish great-grandfather on St. Patrick's Day.

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 17:03:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'll have you know I'm half English, 3/16ths Scottish, 1/16th Russian, and a 1/4 Danish.

ohpuic ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:02:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Damn you! You made me do fraction math to see if you went over 1.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:07:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I almost typed 15/16ths for the Scottish one.

ohpuic ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:57:34 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I failed math in third grade

HazyEyedDinosaur ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:03:19 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

lol no, they're not irish, they're just drunk and want to fit in

auntie_eggma ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:43:06 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

And think they're Irish. Are you seriously denying this as an existing phenomenon?

HazyEyedDinosaur ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:22:26 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

absolutely not, was agreeing with you.

auntie_eggma ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:25:33 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Forgive me, I misinterpreted your comment. :)

HazyEyedDinosaur ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:22:13 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

absolutely not, was agreeing with you.

Dennovin ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 18:08:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

On St. Patrick's Day, I'm 100% fake Irish.

auntie_eggma ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:13:34 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I think everyone but the English is a little bit Irish on St. Patrick's Day, to be fair.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:32:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I know a guy who is 1/32 of a tribe whose name I forgot. He has tribal membership. He is a tall, white guy with a shaved head and a red beard.

buck_foston ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 16:21:49 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This is pretty controversial i guess, but yes. If you're born in America, and an American citizen, then you are American.

Native American is an issue i wouldn't like to breach right now.

If however, you are born outside of America and live here like my friend the OP, you would be French living in America. Not french-American.

So yes, there is no chinese american, african american, or the dreaded New Jersey-ans who had Italian grandparents and call themselves Italian Americans. I understand your culture may differ from other Americans, but that does not change your nationality.

TL;DR Born in China, live in America, still Chinese.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:29:26 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This isn't really related, but I heard it mentioned on the Stuff You Should Know podcast that most Native Americans prefer the term "Indians". I have no idea if this is true. I do know the one Native person I've ever actually known called himself either Native, or Indian.

auntie_eggma ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:42:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Nope. Hyphenated-Americans are Americans of pre-hyphen descent. If you have reason to identify with two cultures/nationalities (e.g. via dual citizenship or multi-national upbringing) you're an "and.". Italian-Americans are those douchebags in Long Island or on The Sopranos, etc. I'm Italian AND American (and live in the UK which brings an added dimension of fun into the mix).

Also, by your tl;dr logic, Cliff Richard and Joanna Lumley are Indian. (Americans may not get that as these are UK celebrities, but you might know Joanna Lumley from AbFab?)

Battletooth ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 16:26:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

I don't think he meant it in a rude way. Some people actually don't like being "American" because of how "ignorant" they perceive country is.

I know people that say they are (other ethnicity)-American when that was 4 or more generations ago. That's still being American unless they also have citizenship.

Edit: I a word.

ohpuic ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:06:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I moved here from Pakistan and I call myself American, not Pakistani American. In a country as big as ours, you will see ignorant people as well as intelligent ones. For some reason, everyone outside of USA focuses on the ignorant part. I mean, if we are so fucking dumb then how come we have the most patents, and how most of the text books that are used all over the world are written and published here?

stanglee ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:18:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Afraid to admit

bwaxxlo ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:13:49 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

They make your type these days. Mmh, I seem to have missed that memo

LupineChemist ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:10:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Do you just naturally make Spaghetti O's?

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:55:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

As an American, I ask that you refer to yourself as a "European-American". We don't want to ruin our reputation.

Battletooth ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:09:40 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

How about European-North American just in case?

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:19:30 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's fine. Thank you for your understanding.

thephotoman ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:24:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's giving the Daily Mail too much credit.

Fox News only has wet dreams of being the Daily Mail of television news.

mpls10k ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:02:25 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

how did I never know this... I always assumed since it was from the UK it must be intelligent and trustworthy.

Readmynameandchillax ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:06:20 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Excellent description!

Audioworm ยท 16 points ยท Posted at 15:54:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Daily Mail is a British Tabloid which is well known for being extremely xenophobic

\melvin

ANewAccountCreated ยท 14 points ยท Posted at 16:15:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

And the Daily Mail ruins another life (yes, this counts).

[deleted] ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 18:02:20 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Use your job at the Daily Mail to get close to their inner sanctum, and then punch Richard Littlejohn directly in the taint.

a_cleaner_guy ยท 13 points ยท Posted at 15:38:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Lazy bastards, you guys never get the washing done when I send you to do it....

Hector_Kur ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:33:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm sorry, I laughed my ass off a "Rodan."

cb43569 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:17:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I lost it over this, it's hilarious. It reminds me of a dream my father had and later told me about, as well; he got very angry about the comments Jeremy Clarkson made about last year's strikes, having taken part himself, and the next night had a dream that his car broke down in the middle of nowhere, and the only person there was Jeremy Clarkson, but he refused to ask him for help.

tysstang ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:24:06 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's my name!

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:41:18 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

and you want to be a paperback writer.... PAPERBACK WRITER!!

gorbal ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:53:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Maybe you are meant to go to England to reform the daily mail.

Sonorous_Epithet ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:55:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You fell in love with (a fictional Japanese mutated pterosaur)[http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rodan]?

[deleted] ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 17:25:14 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

FUS RO DAN

WorkingWithTNT ยท 212 points ยท Posted at 14:12:53 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

"Better never to have met you in my dream than to wake and reach for hands that are not there."

-Otomo No Yakamochi

Fath0m ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 22:56:03 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When pleasure was, in dreaming, sure I had a dream of love so pure That angels shout when whispers sang Into the air, then voices rang To shout out their, "I love you" And that was when I, dreaming, knew That in all the world there will never be Another love as yours for me. But I awoke and in sorrow found No traces of you were still around And remembering the dream before I closed my eyes to dream once more.

I_CAPE_RUNTS ยท 63 points ยท Posted at 15:33:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

her husband John Lennon also had inspiring words

cheesechimp ยท 83 points ยท Posted at 18:14:25 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

"I am the walrus."

freudwasright ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 18:40:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

"Coo coo ka choo."

marasamune ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:34:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

"Gesundheit."

iwashere ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 23:17:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Shut the fuck up Donny!

cheesechimp ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:24:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

5 hours and over 20 upvotes and I was starting to wonder if anyone even got that I was trying to make a Big Lebowski reference.

HAPPY_NARWHA ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:30:14 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

"You may say I'm a Dreamer, But im not"

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:15:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Indeed. "We are just ordinary people... We dont know which way to go."

demooo ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 17:20:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
Choochoocazoo ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 22:15:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Is that a tragic manga or novel or something?

Yewbert ยท 734 points ยท Posted at 13:05:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

When I was a young child I had a dream in the same "world" (a kind of scary deformed version of my school yard) at least every week for what must have been years.

There was always a little girl there who was trapped in this world held captive by a faceless evil, over time we became the best of friends and I began plotting to save her even in my waking hours.

Finally the evening came when I planned to set my plan into action, but the dream didn't come, or the next night.... No matter how hard I willed myself I was never able to go back.

I was only 7 or 8 but I will always remember this experience and how heartbroken I was, how I felt that I had failed this little girl who never really existed.

[deleted] ยท 311 points ยท Posted at 15:43:53 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream when I was a very small boy about an Asian girl named So that lived next door to me and we were best friends. To be clear, she didn't exist in real life, and I'd never even seen an Asian person before. About 20 years later, I met a girl with an incredibly similar name in college, and we've been best friends for about 10 years. I love her with all my heart, and I always wonder if I would have overlooked her if I hadn't had that one dream, which is really the only dream I can remember from my childhood.

Mvin ยท 73 points ยท Posted at 17:43:14 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Haha, but yours has a good ending. Less upvotes then!

bottom_dweller ยท 62 points ยท Posted at 17:48:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

'So'... SO... significant other...

[deleted] ยท 48 points ยท Posted at 18:39:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yea but she friendzoned the shit out of him and he has been beating off to her facebook for 10 years

[deleted] ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 19:23:24 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

She doesn't even know me and I've been beating off to her Facebook for like 7 or 8 minutes.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:44:10 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's okay. He dreamt up Facebook before Zuck too.

kmad ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 20:11:45 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Joke's on him, Facebook hasn't even been around for ten years

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:03:40 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

GOLD, JERRY!

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:13:43 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Mind = blown

youzz33 ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 17:48:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a similar dream about a red haired girl 2 years before I worked at my first job, At this job I met a girl who seemed just like the girl I saw in my dream a year before, everything was the exact same except this girl was taller, I feel in love with her and I swear I felt signs telling me that I will end up with this girl, but alas no she never loved me but I will never get her out of my mind. :"(

sunshineeyes ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 20:26:38 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I dated a guy who was in a similar position to your own, and I was the person who bore a similar resemblance to the person in his dream. As it turns out, I really wasn't that same person that he was so in love with in his fantasy, and it wasn't some precognitive sign. I think it ended up making our relationship slightly more complicated and frustrating than it otherwise would have. It sort of sucks to have the suspicion that the person you're dating is already confident they adore you, regardless of how much they know about you.

TL;DR you may have dodged another, different kind of disappointing and disillusioning bullet :)

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:43:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That just made me well up.

[deleted] ยท -4 points ยท Posted at 15:58:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

Sounds friend zoned.

edit: evidently I'm an asshole.

[deleted] ยท 10 points ยท Posted at 16:16:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I guess, in the sense that I've been friend zoned by all of my friends. I didn't really want anything else.

wanderingsong ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:18:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

As a woman whose high school best friend has been a lifelong platonic friend since then (and goddamnit, reddit, I didn't friendzone him; if anything, he fzoned me during a string of high school exgfs!), I just wanted to say that you rock. He's one of the only guys in my life who I can say "I love you" to without any qualms.

[deleted] ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 18:59:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah, I really don't get this. I know reddit has been in a tizzy about the friendzone lately, bit that's really not what's going on here. I've been friendzoned by just about every girl or woman I've ever been attracted to, but this is one case where I really just like being her friend. The only ulterior motive I've ever really had is to fulfill this childhood dream (mission accomplished). But whatever. I know there's enough redditors that will tell me it's impossible for a man and woman to be just friends that any comment I make is just going to be interpreted as pathetic, but what can I say? Maybe I'm just not very manly or something. I prefer to have my creepy secret crushes on people that aren't her.

wanderingsong ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:35:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

hahaha, high five. My friend & I once had a moment that went like this.

"...people used to think we were dating." -pause- -mutual shudder- "that would be like twincest. no."

that being said, I have also been friendzoned when it was unwanted as well-- so I do also have a bone to pick with the one-way "only guys get friendzoned, girls get all the choices ever blah blah blah" paradigm, but that's another story.

Kilane ยท 15 points ยท Posted at 16:14:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Can't you just be happy for a guy who's had an excellent friend for 10 years all because of weird happenstance?

grandwahs ยท 15 points ยท Posted at 16:34:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This friend zone stuff is getting ridiculous. Apparently guys have to fuck every woman. They cannot be friends with even one of them.

wondertwins ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 16:55:24 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

We think about whether or not we would want to fuck them but that's about it for me. Having an intimate relationship with them is on a whole other level and playing field.

Zelius ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 16:56:36 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Why can't it be both?

MinisterOfTheDog ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 17:37:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Why not Zoidberg?

lordmycal ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 16:38:14 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Haven't you watched When Harry Met Sally?

tgrdem ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 17:18:46 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Haven't you seen Harry Potter? Of course you can walk through the wall between Platform 9 and 10 and get to the train that takes you to Hogwarts.

Harry Met Sally is a movie made for entertainment. Not made to be fact.

lordmycal ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:32:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Apparently sarcasm doesn't work over the internet.

eulb42 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:19:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Uh duh... comic sans

WildWestSideSho ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:41:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The problem with being friendzoned is that guys have to watch while she sleeps around. Then friendzone Johnny has to be there to wipe up the tears, with no action.

merkmerk73 ยท -2 points ยท Posted at 18:25:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

we've been best friends for about 10 years. I love her with all my heart

Friendzone level 99

HazyEyedDinosaur ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:55:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

unless he didn't mean in love. he just meant he loves his best friend of 10 years. which is, you know, normal

merkmerk73 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:19:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I don't know any guys that say "i love her with all of my heart" publicly about their friends that are females unless they're in love with her.

HazyEyedDinosaur ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:21:43 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

true say, true say

PandaBearShenyu ยท -2 points ยท Posted at 18:54:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

fRIENDzone level 3648.

gloveraran ยท 239 points ยท Posted at 15:24:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream when I was probably eight or nine which was, essentially, a simplified version of the plot of The Goonies (which I hadn't seen at that point in my life). I was friends with a cute, witty, courageous red-haired girl with a ponytail and a light blue hoodie, and we would have kid-style treasure-hunting adventures together frequently in the woods.

One day we stumbled upon a cave, and we knew there was treasure to be had if we worked our way deep enough into it. A series of Indiana-Jones-style puzzles unfolded that we methodically solved together, until we found ourselves running down a crumbling spiral staircase made of stone, to a stone doorway which was slowly closing. We saw it at the same time, both instantly knowing that only one of us would make it through in time. I looked at her, and she smiled, kissed me on the cheek, and pushed me through, saying, "See you on the other side!"

I woke up sobbing because this girl had become my best friend in the space of a dream, and I knew I'd never see her again.

[deleted] ยท 122 points ยท Posted at 15:43:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Good Guy Girl

wonmean ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:24:39 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I shed a tear...

<3

laserbeanz ยท 40 points ยท Posted at 15:41:24 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

She's your soul mte. You'll meet this person later in life.

Telepathetic ยท 86 points ยท Posted at 16:03:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Careful what you say around here. Reddit don't take kindly to "soul mates."

DapperAsFuck ยท 165 points ยท Posted at 16:47:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Now Skeeter he ain't hurting no one.

keyboardjock ยท 14 points ยท Posted at 18:01:18 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Fuck you, I spilled my coffee on my favorite shirt.

ruff-20 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:42:51 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Hey, you, beautiful woman, we don't take kindly to your type round here

marasamune ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:27:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No No No No, I wanna ask somethin' of mister laserbeanz and his soul mte.

derelictprophet ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 18:04:30 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Hey look! It's that nigger-guy!

pwnedbywaffle ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:35:19 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Why is that?

Telepathetic ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:41:49 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Because it suggests that souls exist, which is a religious idea.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:51:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I consider myself an atheist, and in reaildiy its all random chance really

But i like the idea of something saying...hey... you're going to meet someone like this sometime in the future... maybe they wont look the same but... yeah...

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:00:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's funny, when I was young I thought that older people didn't understand things like soul mates because they'd closed themselves off to the beauty and wonder of the world. Now that I'm older and have had the fun of seeing my marriage dissolve, like most people who get married, I understand why people were so bitter about it. Every time I hear someone say they've found their soul mate the only thing I can think is that hopeless idealism like that can only end with one of the people fucking everyone in town behind the others back.

[deleted] ยท 37 points ยท Posted at 15:53:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Is 'i' the letter you missed? A soul mite, like a soul singing dust mite?

JavaMoose ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:39:24 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm a soul mite do do dah do, do do dah do I'm a soul mite dun dun dah dun

mikeblackwinsnig ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:02:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Barry Mite?

JavaMoose ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:05:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Isaac Haysefever

l80 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:23:09 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I read it as "soul mountain" but strangely abbreviated.

VulpesAbnocto ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:48:30 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm lookin' fo SOULamite.

darkbulb ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:06:22 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Like a sole mite, one lonely, miserable mite.

wondertwins ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:56:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Post this on another thread 5 more times for it to be true!

JAGarcia92 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:36:43 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

And finish your adventure then.

ginja_ninja ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:45:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

How could she be someone's "soul mate" if she had red hair?

jeexbit ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:06:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Or in another life perhaps...

heretocleanthepool ยท -8 points ยท Posted at 15:58:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Never replied just to say anything nasty before but here goes. You are an idiot. Get off my reddit.

OriginallyWhat ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:10:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

looks like it didn't work out for ya.

heretocleanthepool ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:15:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Funnily enough laserbeanz submitted to the recent 'what new age drivel makes you shudder with intolerance' thread. 'Premonition in a dream' believers easily match 'the secret' for confirmation bias bullshit.

ColdChemical ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:38:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I agree with you that laserbeanz's comment is nonsense, but please don't be so hateful.

heretocleanthepool ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:48:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Why not? I don't think it's hateful. Just honest. How is someone to know what they're saying sounds like the ramblings of a fool if no one points out why?

Goluxas ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:38:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well, you didn't really point out why, just that. That's the hateful part.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:45:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

laserbeanz was most likely joking.

Also, you're not "just pointing out why" - in fact, that's the very thing you precisely managed not to do in your post. You personally insulted laserbeanz rather challenging the idea of dream premonitions.

However, it's a moot point because laserbeanz was most likely joking.

heretocleanthepool ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:20:58 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Judging by laserbeanz comment history and 'wacky new age buddhist convert' bio. I'd hazard a guess that no, it was not a joke.

Actually_Doesnt_Care ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:24:07 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Hey, I'm just going to say here now that you don't own reddit, it's a community. If you don't like a person, hide them then. It's not going to accomplish anything complaining about it.

RembrMe ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:21:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

So simple and yet so beautiful. I love it.

lyvyndyr ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 10:06:59 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm sorry, but it needs to be said. If you run down a crumbling spiral staircase, you're only just going to run into the rubble that you were running down before. Your dreams are just not very practical at all!

gloveraran ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:31:08 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You make a good point. I guess that's probably why people are always running up them in movies.

eiggam ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 11:10:15 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

...I'm hoping this is a normal thing to dream about because I had that same dream when I was a kid.

sunshineeyes ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:27:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Redditors seem to either have a thing for red heads, or a thing for dreaming about them!

FlyWithFishes ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:06:59 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

My words mean shite, but I thank you for sharing the most beautiful story I've read in recent memory.

l80 ยท 98 points ยท Posted at 16:45:46 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well that's creepy. When I was six or so I had a recurring dream I was trapped in a dream world and couldn't get out. Each night when I fell asleep, I would wake up in this nightmare world. At first, it started in a yard (my school playground, which was a yard next to a parking lot), but I became more and more trapped. As each dream progressed, the yard became more fenced in until it became a room. The windows were slowly blocked up and the doors opened onto walls. As it got darker, the walls got redder. I remember this big dark room, with red velvet carpets, and heavy red drapes on dark wooden walls. Very "heavy" and oppressive feeling.

This evil force was communicating with me, but it was in the walls, never visible. The most frightening thing was that there was absolutely no one else around.

I vaguely remember that there may have been another child at one point who disappeared. I shit you not, I am not making this up.

But if, somehow, this was a legit thing that happened, and I was indeed the little girl in your dream, don't worry, it worked out. I escaped.

entmike ยท 31 points ยท Posted at 17:49:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

And this is how games like Silent Hill are (literally) dreamed up. Or Twin Peaks.

VulpesAbnocto ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:51:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Great, the air raid sirens have started up again.....

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:04:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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l80 ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 18:10:26 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I realize this sounds foolish, but if consciousness can transcend space so that two children can share a dream, why should time logically matter? We know that the passage of time in dreams is very different from the passage of time in waking reality. If the timeline matches, it seems no more meaningful than if it didn't. Simply coincidental. I think the more telling stuff is if there are similarities between our dreams - details that we have that the other also had - that the other hadn't previously stated. Of course, that's only verifiable by the people in the shared dream, but as far as evidence goes, this is pretty much a leap to begin with.

It's interesting and creepy to me as someone who experienced it first hand. To anyone else, I only expect it's a curiosity, and might achieve a sense of discomfort.

TL;DR: Trying to find evidence to support this is like pissing in the wind. There's no way either of us can "prove" that this happened. It's an interesting coincidence, and an interesting idea. It's possible of course that this was actually a shared dream, but more likely, a similar dream for children of a similar age. Still, exploring it to see how similar it was is indeed appealing to me.

worldsayshi ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 18:54:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Here's an "Inception kind" of explanation I just made up to how such coincidence can happen that may not break the world, loosely inspired by Quarantine by Greg Egan and many worlds theory. It's completely ridiculous but fun:

Dreams about people that you meet later in life is "caused by" events in the future. The dream cause you to seek that person up and because of butterfly effects stemming from that meeting universes in which you don't meet will collapse and never exist. Perhaps children, or childrens' children of those to become lovers because of the dream will save the world by not causing a future physics experiment to catastrophically fail. A failure that would otherwise cause that particular universe to be self-contradictory and destroy itself throughout time.

Qchi ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:09:56 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Mind = fucked

devedander ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:25:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

How did you escape?

l80 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:28:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Willpower. I figured out how to identify dreams from reality and force myself to wake up. Never had a nightmare again. Scary dreams, sure, but I could always get out.

Paladinltd ยท 118 points ยท Posted at 14:54:43 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's an awesome premise for a story! You should write some kind of story from it Yewbert, and if you don't I will!

happy2pester ยท 108 points ยท Posted at 15:19:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

And then you can write the 20 years later when Yewbert finally dreams that dream again, and the girl is a kickass warrior princess that gave up on you, and you have to win her back

N0V0w3ls ยท 90 points ยท Posted at 15:55:43 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Amy Pond?

Captainpatch ยท 71 points ยท Posted at 16:04:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Saddest episode ever. About 0.98 Seymours.

Prog ยท 24 points ยท Posted at 17:02:14 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Best rating system ever.

chawk ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 17:33:07 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

A truer comment could not be made

wonmean ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:40:55 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Agreed.

MrBig0 ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 17:42:46 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Please to be explaining this rating system.

little_z ยท 17 points ยท Posted at 17:49:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Based on the heart wrenching Futurama episode about Fry's dog, Seymour.

kss114 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:04:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

big doctor who fan, but one of the saddest tv episodes i've seen was west wing: two cathedrals.

MicroDigitalAwaker ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:10:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Sometimes I like to think about a time after the show when Fry grabs the fossil of his dog that he's kept and has the Professor bring it back, then the dog voids it's bowels in excitement and reunites with Fry to actually live a long and happy life doing space deliveries and the like.

annawho ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:29:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Wait... worse than Donna Noble? Crap, I need to watch this past season.

PancakePirate ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:04:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Not nearly as sad as the final Rose Tyler episode.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:48:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*
PancakePirate ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:59:03 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Wasn't it the one where she had to stay in a different universe from the Doctor? And he was about to tell her he loved her but didn't.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:14:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oops, never mind then, you haven't watched more. I've changed my post to have spoilers and will graciously back away...

PancakePirate ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:40:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

nah it's ok, I have watched all of the episodes since Christopher Eccleston played him, I just have a crap memory. But yeah..

N0V0w3ls ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:00:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

They might mean the end of Season 2. Not Season 4. Like the final "Rose Tyler as companion" episode.

Ozera ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:05:52 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I wish to upvote you more sir!

thndrchld ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:07:53 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I love you.

Uberrees ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:31:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This is a KINDNESS

wplcdf ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:35:24 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

First episode I ever watched, just the other day. I am proud to say I get the reference.

harmageek ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:56:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Doctor?

aggietau ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:57:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

F....T....W!

Tactful ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 17:50:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

YEAH, AND THEN WE'LL TAKE THE REALLY SUBTLE JOKE, AND JUST FUCKING FARM THE CUNT OUT OF IT FOR KARMA!

fbrooks ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:35:06 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Or maybe he could be in a coma and the altered schoolyard is his reality. He tries to will his way out of his vegetated state and throughout his struggles he finds a gateway (reddit) and the little reddit alien grants him awakening (only if he divulges his story with the alien community). He returns to his real like to find this beautiful woman who is now 27 still being held captive by this evil figure who turns out to be the same figurative antagonist that kept him away from his awakening while in this coma. He then bridges the portal between reddit and real life and assembles an elite force of redditors that crosses over to reality to slay the evil one.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:02:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Julie Winters?

musiqua ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:56:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
groshh ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:16:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

sounds like the story to jumanji

blackholeson ยท 25 points ยท Posted at 15:24:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I think H.G. Wells had a similar dream! Check it out; it's pretty neat how seemingly such unique experiences can span the generations.

[deleted] ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 16:37:36 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Nice read. I never read Wells before. Can you recommend the best of his other works?

[deleted] ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 16:57:40 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The Time Machine, The Island of Doctor Moreau, The Invisible Man, The War of the Worlds. Those are his most popular works and the only books I've read of his. They also happen to be some of his earliest work as well. If you're looking for recommendations for his more unpopular unraped by hollywood stories then you should ask http://www.reddit.com/r/booksuggestions

space_montaine ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:48:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

oh, and if you're too lazy to go to book suggestions, you should check out Wells' "First Men In the Moon" (that's not a typo, it's "in") and his short story called "When the Sleeper Wakes." two of my favorites.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:14:24 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Cool, thanks.

shayledahlia ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:45:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The First Men in the Moon is one of my favorites.

EdwardBleed ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:58:15 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

His most well-known ones were all great IMO. The invisible man, the island of doctor Moreau, and the war of the worlds are full of imagery that has stayed with me for over ten years. Enjoy!

SMUporridge ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:07:34 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That was awesome.

KlausCin ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:01:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

H.G. Wells' life was one giant magnificant dream, he is why sci-fi is so significant to us today. Just a trip of a man.

sabrinaladawn ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:53:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That was... wow, I loved it. Thanks for posting!

blackholeson ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:06:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Welcome! One of my favorite short stories

Yewbert ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:03:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have been thinking about this all day after the response this got, I think this has inspired me to touch up on my writing skills and give this a shot.

Paladinltd ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:36:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Go for it! If you get published I'll be first in line to buy it!

rtg35 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:34:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

To be honest I'm probably gonna do it either way...I love the idea.

xxcaponexx ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:45:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

or a movie by M. Night Shyamalan

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OnryHarfYerrow ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:03:53 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Sounds like Link's Awakening except you lost your gameboy.

benshere ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:17:45 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was actually just thinking that would make a great short film and saved the comment, what if both characters thought the same thing and it was all real.

[deleted] ยท 15 points ยท Posted at 17:16:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I see a movie/book here. What if your dream world were actually an alternate reality which you can only enter while dreaming, and your purpose in that world was to save that girl's life? So here's how the story would go, you have this recurrent dream with a progressing plot as a child and then it stops entirely. Then you grow up, maybe like 20something and something happens in your awake life that reminds you very deeply of the dream, maybe you IRL see someone who existed only in your dream, not a kid but like a teacher or some adult who you could still recognize after 20 years. You start to remember your dream world, and then, as you dream over the next couple days, you have regular dreams which are interrupted for a few second by this other dream world. You realize that this dream world is so much more real than any other dreams you have had. You decide you want to go back, so you do a lot of research about seeding a dream, etc. (heres where the pseudoscience comes in), and you follow some instructions you find to prompt yourself to dream about it. Maybe the instructions are just as simple as putting tons of reminders of that dream world around yourself IRL and constantly seeing images and hearing sounds that remind you. Then, you take some muscle relaxants so you'll be totally still but clear of mind and you go to sleep. You start to have a normal dream but you get another interruption, and this time, as it fades, you fight to hold onto it, and suddenly you are plummeted into the dream world once again. Okay reddit, here's where the story really begins, you finish the rest.

moonblade89 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:35:15 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Somebody has been watching too much Fringe

LOHare ยท 72 points ยท Posted at 16:13:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You didn't fail her. She made good her escape because of your help. Hence the dreams were no longer necessary. The dreams only came because she needed help. She's free man, don't feel guilty! You helped free her. Now if she come back as an intergalactal tyrant, feel free to regret your actions.. but till then, you did well :)

downvotesmakemehard ยท -3 points ยท Posted at 20:29:39 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

She's free or DEAD.

[deleted] ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 15:21:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Sounds like the plot for the anime series A Dark Rabbit has Seven Lives.

silverskull ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:00:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Is it any good?

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:01:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have a policy not to recommend anime because so many people like so many different things. Personally, I enjoyed it, but it's kind of formulaic.

silverskull ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:48:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Heh, yeah, I know what you mean. Might give it a shot though.

wisconsinstudent ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:05:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Dammit, I was totally gonna write a screenplay.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:08:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You still could... especially if you haven't seen the series. It's okay to have similarities to other pieces. :)

Choochoocazoo ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:10:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Does it have a manga it was based off of? If so that'd be something I'd love to read!

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:34:52 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm not sure, but probably.

TheFakeMatt ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:46:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

She was a real girl, visiting that world, just like you until she got trapped. Since you didn't save her in time, she became one of them. you managed to escape, for now, but eventually they will come back for you... she will come back for you.

Daimonin_123 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:13:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Sent shivers down my spine.

SANAFABICH ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:52:26 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well next time just make sure you're not late by one night. That little girl trusted you and now is prisioner of the faceless-evil FOREVER. Way to go.

TheMaddestofHatters ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:26:09 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Ok so am I the only person who think this would make a great movie plot? About a kid who meets a girl in real life, then she disappears suddenly. No one knows where she is, she just vanished. Then the boy starts seeing her in his dreams and she's trapped in the schoolyard,and he plots to rescue her

ThiZ ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:59:14 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What kind of schoolyard was it?

amisarebewaswerebeen ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:38:24 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I could see this being the beginning of a good play or movie.

jobrody ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:07:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You should watch this movie. Here's the torrent.

Yewbert ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:46:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Looks pretty cool, thanks for the recommendation.

Daimonin_123 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:07:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That poor little girl. You should try and go back now, better late then never.

RecycledAir ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:24:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What was your plan? How were you going to get her out?

RIPdig ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:25:45 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The saddest thing is that the little girl was real and she actually stopped dreaming about you.

gookula ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:36:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

for some reason this reminds me of Ico

BardtheBowman ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:37:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This really reminds me of Neil Gaiman's The Sandman: A Game of You. If this book is any indication, sometime during your late twenties, the dream will begin to invade your reality. Or something.

Yewbert ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:37:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well, guess I have that to look forward to...

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:42:38 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oh god I told myself I wasn't going to cry...

prezuiwf ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:43:19 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

WTF, this is strangely one of the most touching things I've ever read. Can I steal this?

Yewbert ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:37:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Absolutely.

entmike ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:45:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You should hone your writing skills and turn this into a movie script.

strangesonia ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:53:19 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You should probably make this into a children's book.

Davenog ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:00:43 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Good plot for a book.

RmJack ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:07:49 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The force speaks to us in many ways.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:24:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

YOU JUST LEFT HER THERE ALONE!?!?!?!?!?!?

wtfpwndd ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:30:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Directed by- oh nevermind.

reaganing ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:36:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I also had the same recurring dream for years, also about a little girl who needed to escape. I tried to help her - I don't remember the details of this - but I remember that I ended up having to kill her because dream-me decided it was better for her to die than to suffer endlessly.

The first time I ever consciously remembered the dream after waking up was when I was 22, and for some reason, I knew at that moment that I had been having that dream since I was about 7 or 8, and that I had carried around that guilt my entire life. Realizing it was all just a dream was weirdly cathartic.

TL;DR: subconsciously felt guilty about killing a little girl, turns out it was just a dream

gburnaman ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:13:07 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Maybe someday you'll dream yourself as an adult with a lightsaber and save the day.

TheMaddestofHatters ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:19:39 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Am I the only one who thinks this would make a great movie? It could start off in real life, with a little boy and girl as friends. Then the little girl just disappears after doing something strange, maybe like walking between two trees or going into a cave. One night the boy has a dream of a dark playground. He walks around and sees the girl lying asleep under the monkey bars. He wakes her up and she explains that she is trapped here by the "Dark Dreamer" etc creepy name. He has to find a way to free her from the dream world before she is lost forever..etc

Xen0nex ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:22:03 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's incredible! You should consider reading The Sandman series by Neil Gaiman, it's mostly about dreams.

In particular, one story arc features a woman who had a persistant fantasy world in her dreams her whole life. Her frineds in her dream world are then threatened by a sinister being, and then also tries to help the people in her dream who are in trouble, similar to your experience.

Yewbert ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:35:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Sweet! I will definitely check this out, thanks.

mouseWfangs ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:01:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm actually writing a story about this. Except that in the story she is real, it just takes years for them to meet.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:17:14 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Holy crap, this sounds like a stereotypical Star Trek plot.

Arknell ยท 62 points ยท Posted at 14:51:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I always cry during the end credits of "Spirited Away", because you see pictures of all the rooms and magic areas that Chihiro visited, but they are empty now, because she is gone, and so is her childhood. It makes me feel just like I did when I was little, and woke up from a dream I'd spent with a magical friend, only to discover she was now gone forever.

Getting misty right now just thinking about it.

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 17:29:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oh, you just had to go and remind me, didn't you?

Jerk.

Arknell ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 22:15:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes! The only way I can work these things out is by diving through them. After one of those dreams as a kid (maybe 10), I just laid in my bed staring into the wall, trying to piece together the face of that tall, dark-haired girl that had taken me flying for hours, and cried in frustration at not being able to remember anything but the color of her hair.

I had the same feeling during the end of "Return of the King" in the movie theater. My friend asked me why I was so sad when Frodo got on the boat, so I explained to her (she hadn't read the books) that Frodo went to a certain death in Valinor where they were going, since no mortal can survive there for more than a few days before giving up his life, but that it was the only place on Earth where Frodo could feel comfort from the Black Curse of his nazgul wound and connection with the Ring. So Frodo went to die, within weeks, if not days. I almost wish I hadn't told her, she took it quite hard right there, but I think she liked knowing about it when all was said and done.

Be happy that you can feel!

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:53:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's such an amazing movie. I need to go watch that now.

Choochoocazoo ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:22:20 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Damn it, I need to watch that movie again.

MsAnnThrope ยท 330 points ยท Posted at 11:11:36 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes! This has happened to me several times. Each time was pretty much the same; I was in a very realistic world with normal people, and I was desperately, hopelessly in love with someone who felt the same way. They were everything I could have ever wanted and I'd never felt so happy in all my life. Then I'd wake up, and as soon as I realized it was a dream it would feel as though someone punched me really hard in the stomach. You know the way you sometimes feel when you get really bad news? It's terrible. The rest of the day seems like there's a haze over it.

The worst part is that I've never actually been that happy in my life, and I"m not certain I ever will be or if it's even possible. :(

Scumbag brain.

honeybunnyblossom ยท 101 points ยท Posted at 16:10:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oh god yes. I had a dream about ten years ago.

In my dream, I was sitting on the benches of a stadium. It was empty since the game had just ended. There was a man there as well and he came up to talk to me. The funny thing is I couldn't see his face. It was only just a beige blur. We spent hours sitting there and talking until the sun was setting and the sky was orange. Then we both stood up and he held out his hand. Even though I couldn't see his face, his hand was so clearly defined. It was strongly built but his skin looked smooth. I took his hand and the most intense feeling of warmth, happiness and just fulfillment flooded into me.

Scenes started quickly whizzing past as I held onto his hand. We went to the carnival, rode on the ferris wheel, went back to my old school, took a walk in the countryside. All the time we never let go of our hands. They were all scenes where we were happy.

Finally, the scenes stopped whizzing by and we were at the beach. He was standing in front of me again and we were holding hands. Then, we slowly let go. For some reason, I turned around and when I turned back to look, he was gone. Only the orange sun setting on the ocean's horizon remained. The scene faded to black and a few hours later I woke up. It felt like we had grown old together and he had left me.

deit9000 ยท 45 points ยท Posted at 17:35:36 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

he was the sun, man. he's been there all along.

Singulaire ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 04:59:55 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I took his hand and the most intense feeling of warmth

Holy shit, he really was the sun!

[deleted] ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 17:53:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That was truly beautiful. The way your dream ended. Wow.

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 16:32:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That...was beautiful. Write a short story about this, seriously.

fuckingcaptcha ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:37:32 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No, I just got something in my eye.

MsAnnThrope ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:34:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Wow, that's amazing. You have a way with words. :)

Zelius ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 16:51:36 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Great story, but I have one comment about this:

The scene faded to black and a few hours later I woke up.

Dreams you remember occur within minutes of waking up. Also, the time you spend in a dream is only a few minutes, even though it might seem like hours.

[deleted] ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 17:52:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, Inception covered that, too.

I_CAPE_RUNTS ยท 105 points ยท Posted at 15:32:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Bingo. and the first words out of my mouth when I wake up and realize it was a dream:

"aww fuck"

[deleted] ยท 139 points ยท Posted at 15:46:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have a memorial fap dedicated to them

[deleted] ยท 66 points ยท Posted at 16:49:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

While humming 'ave maria.'

[deleted] ยท 40 points ยท Posted at 17:23:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

"Aaaaaa-ve Maaa-reeee... -eeee... -hngggggg *sploosh

-aaaa!!!"

VulpesAbnocto ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:00:34 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

laughing too hard to recreate the lyrics posted here

meerkat13 ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 18:55:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Holy crap, I laughed so hard that I kneed myself in the face.

MsAnnThrope ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:41:24 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

...how does that happen??

meerkat13 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 06:40:58 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was in bed, sitting on top of my sheets, in a half foetal position. As I read that, I cruched, dropping my head and raising my knees. My face is still kinda sore.

MsAnnThrope ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:45:42 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That sounds exactly like something I would do. Put some ice on it. ;)

BossA_W ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:16:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Upvote for feeling the same way.

MIXEDGREENS ยท 36 points ยท Posted at 17:37:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Worse than this is the "YAY WE'RE BACK TOGETHER" dreams after recent breakups.

XtianDK ยท 32 points ยท Posted at 19:05:49 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Those dreams can go fuck themselves.

MsAnnThrope ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 17:45:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oh, I know! You wake up and for a moment you're normal, then it hits you and you remember that you've just had your heart broken. I always feel sick to my stomach during that delightful moment.

csihar ยท 24 points ยท Posted at 15:56:28 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That fucking feel, man.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:09:37 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Its the worst ever man

I have dreams where everything finally seems good and OK and I have no problems. Everything feels so warm and nice in them, nothing can go wrong and I want to stay there forever. But I cant, and that is fucking depressing

skilluminati ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 18:47:18 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This happened to me last night. I've never had a girlfriend or anyone that's ever just liked me for me. The girl in my dream was so kind and beautiful, and the more I acted like myself, the more she seemed to dig me. It was a feeling of love and happiness that I've never felt. You can imagine how I felt when I woke up and I was still the same lonely piece of shit that I was when I went to sleep.

MsAnnThrope ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:40:24 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

God, what's the matter with us? Why can't our subconscious minds just let us be content!!

Anyway, don't call yourself a piece of shit. Not cool. :)

NostrilBacon ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:06:53 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a similar dream just last week, though I didn't feel overly terrible when I woke up, I just kinda missed this girl who my sub-conscious had made up for the whole day even though I knew she wasn't real. Though judging from the fact that a short time ago I broke up with the first person who I can honestly say that I loved and I have been missing that form of interaction I suppose it is a little expected that my sub-conscious mind would reflect that.

Dutchwank ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:27:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This sums me up at this moment... let me find a corner to cry.

MsAnnThrope ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:28:36 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have a shoulder if you'd like to cry on that. :) ::hug::

generationH ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:33:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I feel like we're the same person. I really like your u/n, by the way

MsAnnThrope ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:36:07 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Thank you. Sometimes it's very appropriate. Not today, though. Today I feel like hugging everyone. :)

thenetwork666 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:48:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Upvote for hugs!

justerik ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:24:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This happened to me a few times. The most recent dream began with a fight (of all things), and I was looking for someone named Laci. She pulls up in front of my house and seeing her makes me realize two things: I loved her and I fucked up somehow by being overbearing.

I sit down at a table with her and pour out my heart and apologize for being overbearing at times, and that I only did it because I've never been in a relationship and I never want to see her leave. She jump-hugs me and knocks me to the ground. The last words I remember her saying were "I love you".

And then I woke up. That was a hell of a day.

MsAnnThrope ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:33:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That sounds awful. Not the dream, but the aftermath. It sucks to miss someone who doesn't exist. :(

justerik ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:55:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Exactly. Losing someone, real or in your dream, is never fun.

fullofbones ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:33:20 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I can still vaguely remember what she looks like, and how she looked at me. It breaks my heart even more than a decade later. The only thing keeping us apart in my dream, was that I had just started dating someone in the real world, and I didn't want to cheat on her, even though the dream girl was clearly preferable. I'm pretty sure the dream was mostly about my inability to make hard decisions like that, even when it's clearly in my best interests.

Either way, my brain is infinitely more evil than I've given it credit for. It created the perfect being I can never have, and then never let me see her again. And now that I've been married for a while, it would just be weird anyway.

I've taken to seeing dreams as alternate realities, because most of the time, not one single person I know makes an appearance, nor do I remember they exist. So there's a chance, if I don't then mind feeling guilty upon waking. ;)

Goluxas ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:35:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I know that feeling, especially the haze over the rest of the day. It's such a profound feeling of melancholy. It's somewhere between a heartwarming reminiscence and a gut-wrenching sadness. The worst part is slowly forgetting everything about the person as the day goes by.

That didn't happen for one, my first dream like this. I was young, probably 11 or 12. The girl took me by the hand and showed me the unadulterated joy of life. I was happier than seems possible in waking hours. Her name was Kate, and I haven't forgotten her, 13 years later.

MsAnnThrope ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:40:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Exactly. It's like being dumped, but you go through the stages of grief much more quickly. The last one I had was about a year ago. My boyfriend at the time couldn't understand why I was so sad all day, and I didn't want to tell him I was in love with a figment of my imagination.

pegcity ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:38:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have had multiple dreams over the years of a blonde woman (strange, I prefer brunette). I can never remember her face, or much of the dreams at all, what I do recall is the most intense feelings of happiness, intimacy and love you can imagine. When I wake up I feel like shit for a week or more, realizing I have never even come close to realizing feelings this strong IRL, been dating my current girlfriend for about 5 years, told her about it once and she wouldn't talk to me for a few days, it's just a dream, but fuck can dreams mess with your head.

MsAnnThrope ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:46:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's really the worst part, reaching this level of happiness that seems to rarely exist IRL and then having it taken away. Real life seems so dull in comparison.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:50:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

I left this in another thread but here it is.

About two months ago I had a dream in which I fell in love with an incredible girl, and we got married. I remember in the dream during the wedding ceremony, on that podium, I thought she was the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. We had kids, we had some really wonderful times and we grew old together. In the end, she was old and fragile and lying in her bed in a beautiful white dress, surrounded by our kids and grandkids. I was holding her hand when she passed away, in a graceful smile. I held on to her cold hand, and my heart was filled with such sorrowness.

Right then I woke up, alone in my bed, back in my empty apartment in the middle of the night.

MsAnnThrope ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:38:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm sorry. :( That sounds lovely and sad at the same time.

cmdrogogov ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:57:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Thankfully, I have known what it is to be that happy a couple of times in real life, and it's a wonderful feeling.

The truly worrying thing is occasionally, just occasionally, I will still have a dream like this, and I get the same feeling when I wake up.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:10:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I know that feel, bro.

Fucking brain.

wanderingsong ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:21:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

amen. probably the best song I ever wrote was based on this happening to me. scumbag brain -> here, have consolation inspiration.

space_monster ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:02:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

same. I've been head over heels in love so many times in dreams, and I'm pretty sure I could never love someone that hard IRL, because in my dreams I have no fear. I've never really been properly in love in real life (foreveralone lv. 64 - artisan) but I know exactly what it feels like, because I've been in love in dreams. bizarre.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 04:08:39 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I found that happiness in real life, I woke up from that as well.

MsAnnThrope ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:20:10 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm very sorry to hear that. :(

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 04:45:19 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I pretty much get this dream bi weekly. I just really would like someone to be with is all.

MsAnnThrope ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:21:09 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I know that feeling. You'll find someone, though. I just know it. :)

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:49:49 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

D'aawww thanks yo.

MsAnnThrope ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:27:21 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You're welcome, dude. :D

Enoch84 ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 17:11:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I don't mean to sound weird, but are you pretty and do you have blonde hair? I only ask because my "dream girl" does apparently, and I am not entirely convinced she does not exist.

MsAnnThrope ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:20:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm pretty, but I have red hair, sorry. I'm sure your dream girl does exist somewhere, though. :)

A_Giraffe ยท 151 points ยท Posted at 13:49:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've chosen to never marry nor have kids. Not that I don't want to get married and start a family- I just don't think I'm qualified to. It's pretty disappointing.

I had a dream where I had a little daughter. We were hanging out, playing. She seemed to real (even if she did look a little too much like the little girl from Chronicles of Narnia). So, for however long that dream was, I was a father, and it was awesome.

[deleted] ยท 162 points ยท Posted at 16:01:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

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Momnesia ยท 41 points ยท Posted at 16:38:36 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Came here to say about the same thing. Those who lack the introspection to question their parenting abilities are the ones who fail hardest.

Not that I don't respect your decision. Do your thing without regrets. Just don't sell yourself short. I never wanted children. I call my daughter my "surprise party." A more fun, fulfilling and frustrating endeavor I could not imagine.

introspeck ยท 18 points ยท Posted at 16:44:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

And my oldest signs her notes to us, "Love Child". :-) I didn't want kids, didn't think I'd be much of a parent, but when she arrived, that all changed. Now she's one of the coolest people I know.

Momnesia ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:26:24 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Hopefully, we have something to do with our kids' awesomeness. But I'm pretty sure mine was born that way. I just have to foster the awesome.

stanfan114 ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 17:03:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Or you realize you really would make a shitty parent.

madrid1979 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:13:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

There's something about this that made me tear up a little. Like there's still some hope for me.

I'm having a shitty 2012 already.

Arigot ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:35:34 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
pocket_eggs ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:33:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Still doesn't mean you should have kids. It just means the 99% also shouldn't.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:29:46 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'd agree on the "more qualified" part. But that doesn't mean "actually qualified". I've known a lot of people with medical problems who wanted kids but realized that they couldn't provide a real life for them. And as much as I hate to say it, they're right. Especially those whose medical problems come down to mental illness. I grew up surrounded by that. And frankly, as much as I've had a lot of good in my life, I'd prefer to have never been born and suffer through that.

[deleted] ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 17:21:36 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

unless you're a pedo, then dont.

[deleted] ยท 44 points ยท Posted at 15:37:09 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This might be the most heartbreaking comment I've read so far

IIdsandsII ยท 31 points ยท Posted at 16:10:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I can top it. I've also had dreams where I've had a kid only for the kid to end up being a lizard or a dog by the end of the dream, and I love that lizard or dog because it's still my child.

N0V0w3ls ยท 30 points ยท Posted at 16:13:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once dreamed my roommate got his girlfriend pregnant with a peacock baby.

NewTownGuard ยท 41 points ยท Posted at 16:46:20 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I cry evrytim

CantLookHimInTheEyeQ ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:02:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That would be one loud, obnoxious baby.

Jerameme ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 16:47:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Umm... His is definitely more heartbreaking.

MrPap ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 16:58:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You're a visitor!

IIdsandsII ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 17:45:36 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I wish.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:31:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You're still better than Janeway in that Star Trek Voyager episode where she turns into a lizard alien thing and gets knocked up. She just leaves her kids in a pond on some planet without another thought.

Then again, it's hard not to be better than Janeway in most things dealing with compassion.

muj128 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:12:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I don't think anyone is ever really qualified for parenting, but you learn as it happens. Maybe look into adopting? It could make you quite happy and you could help some kiddo out and make their life that much richer during childhood.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:25:41 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You should totally get a daughter.

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 17:11:41 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

A brown one!

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:30:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Why aren't you "qualified"?

jonincalgary ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:09:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No one is qualified. We all just wing it and hope to do the best.

shrmn ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:29:43 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

As father to two children, let me be likely not the first and hopefully not the last person to inform you that there is no such thing as "qualified" when it comes to being a parent. It's like saying some people are more qualified than others to live life. The parents who present themselves as being qualified are usually the shittiest parents of the bunch. All they have is a facade.

I'm not advocating rushing out to find a spouse and have children; just don't close yourself off to the opportunity.

LyingUnderOath ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:33:09 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I aww'd.

opensandshuts ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:49:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I feel the same way. I'd love to, but I don't think it's in the cards for me. My brother is having a kid soon. I'm excited because I think it's the closest I'll come to being a dad.

Envia ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:52:41 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had somewhat the same dream. When I woke up and realized I had been dreaming I was very sad and missed her. My heart almost ached for someone who never was.

temptotosssoon ยท 2181 points ยท Posted at 16:07:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

throw away account cause this is really personal.

My last semester at a certain college I was assulted by a football player for walking where he was trying to drive (note he was 325lbs I was 120lbs), while unconscious on the ground I lived a different life.

I met a wonderful young lady, she made my heart skip and my face red, I pursued her for months and dispatched a few jerk boyfriends before I finally won her over, after two years we got married and almost immediately she bore me a daughter.

I had a great job and my wife didn't have to work outside of the house, when my daughter was two she [my wife] bore me a son. My son was the joy of my life, I would walk into his room every morning before I left for work and doted on him and my daughter.

One day while sitting on the couch I noticed that the perspective of the lamp was odd, like inverted. It was still in 3D but... just.. wrong. (It was a square lamp base, red with gold trim on 4 legs and a white square shade). I was transfixed, I couldn't look away from it. I stayed up all night staring at it, the next morning I didn't go to work, something was just not right about that lamp.

I stopped eating, I left the couch only to use the bathroom at first, soon I stopped that too as I wasn't eating or drinking. I stared at the fucking lamp for 3 days before my wife got really worried, she had someone come and try to talk to me, by this time my cognizance was breaking up and my wife was freaking out. She took the kids to her mother's house just before I had my epiphany.... the lamp is not real.... the house is not real, my wife, my kids... none of that is real... the last 10 years of my life are not fucking real!

The lamp started to grow wider and deeper, it was still inverted dimensions, it took up my entire perspective and all I could see was red, I heard voices, screams, all kinds of weird noises and I became aware of pain.... a fucking shit ton of pain... the first words I said were "I'm missing teeth" and opened my eyes. I was laying on my back on the sidewalk surrounded by people that I didn't know, lots were freaking out, I was completely confused.

at some point a cop scooped me up, dragged/walked me across the sidewalk and grass and threw me face down in the back of a cop car, I was still confused.

I was taken to the hospital by the cop (seems he didn't want to wait for the ambulance to arrive) and give CT scans and shit..

I went through about 3 years of horrid depression, I was grieving the loss of my wife and children and dealing with the knowledge that they never existed, I was scared that I was going insane as I would cry myself to sleep hoping I would see her in my dreams. I never have, but sometimes I see my son, usually just a glimpse out of my peripheral vision, he is perpetually 5 years old and I can never hear what he says.

EDIT (24 hours after post): never though anyone would read this, I changed a line so that it no longer seems that my 2 year old daughter bore a child.

I have never seen Inception or the Star Trek episode so many have mentioned (but I will eventually)

I will not do an AMA

I've had many PM's describing similar experiences and 3 posters stating such experiences are impossible, I'd say more research needs to be done on brain functions. Pre-med students, don't assume you know everything.

A few have asked if they can write a book/screen play/stage play/rage comic etcetera, please consider this tale open source and have fun with it

rizzlybear ยท 364 points ยท Posted at 22:31:18 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

this is pretty creepy. i used to get bronchitis often (every 2 or three months) and one time it was particularly bad. i had friends checking in on me making sure i took my meds regularly and one friend made a lot of echinacea tea and made sure i drank it regularly.. i have no memory of this time. during that time i lived a completely different life. it wasnt ten years though just a few weeks. up until i got sick i was very unhappy with life in general. very depressed a lot of the time and even suicidal. my best friend had died recently and basically my whole life sucked and i could not find ways to fix it.

during these few weeks where i was "out" i managed to find ways to fix most of these problems. my friend even came back. i was super happy, met a great girl. huge promotion at work. EVERYTHING was better.

one afternoon my friend and i were hanging out at our favorite bar and i realized i hadnt shown him any of the tatoos i got while he was dead. i went to show him the one i got in memorial of him and it was literally dripping off my skin. as were all the other tatoos i had gotten since his death. at that point it occured to me that he was dead.. that i somehow had a child with this woman i had met a few weeks ago and that the bar we were in was abandoned and empty and lined with cobwebs which i had noticed before but it didnt seem weird until just that moment.

that whole existance ends there in that abandoned bar.. no more story there. i assume this is when i started walking around on my own again but i still have no memory of that either. in fact i have no memory of anything for a week after i "woke up" and started walking around again. during that week my friends tell me i didnt speak or make eye contact. rarely ate in front of anyone (they left food out for me. they came back to an empty dish. i didnt die.. i must have been eating.) i have no memory of any of this. my first memories kick back in while im at work.

it was difficult to cope with this. to finally get all this weight off my shoulders and finally be happy again. to finally put thatpart of my life behind me was the best feeling ive ever experienced. and then to wake up and find out thats not real is hard. its hard to accept as reality. every night you go to bed expecting to wake up in that dream world and learn that bad world was actually the dream. never happened.

this was three or four years ago now. sometimes when i'm really stressed out little pieces will creep into dreams. the dripping tatoos for example. but the one that haunts me the most is every once in awhile i will have a dream where im on the couch with my son (the same from above) and my wife is in the kitchen doing something. the phone rings and i answer and it's my current girlfriend. she asks what the noise is and i say "thats my son" and as soon as i say that it becomes obvious to me that she isnt the mother and shes not my wife in the kitchen. then i wake up.

i know its my stupid brain screwing with me but something in my head that i cant quite explain KNOWS that this is reality that hasnt yet come to pass. or a reality i missed the turn for. its SO real. its actually caused some problems between myself and my girlfriend because in the back of my brain i know someday i will meet my wife and this is temporary.

i've had doctors try to tell me im making this all up.. its pretty scary for someone to come up and explain almost the same thing without ever hearing me explain it before.. like this could be an actual thing. i feel for you dude. i cant explain how painful it is to lose something that great. and then have to try to explain to yourself that you never had it to begin with.

i have a question though.. do you ever run across things like that lamp "in the real world"? does it terrify the hell out of you? years later i still have moments where i think i see something glitchy like that and the anxiety is instant. like im about to lose my reality again.

wow dude. scary day now. thanks for posting this. i've never talked about this before and its somehow comforting to write it all down.

update: Over the years a bunch of people have reached out to me about this post. It's been 7 years as of this update since I wrote the above. I've married my girlfriend, moved across the country, bought a house, changed careers. I'm happy now, and when friends from back then visit with me, they tell me I'm a totally different person now, and that they are happy I'm still even alive, let alone happy and healthy. My wife and I are having our first child in a few weeks, a baby boy. I have a few weird things like the lamp that have poked through from that "dream world" to the "real world". The kitchen from the dream world is in my current house. My wife bought the house without me seeing it and I nearly passed out the first time I saw it. There was also a mountain in front of the house in the dream world, and that mountain is about a mile away in front of my house now. Not a similar mountain, that same mountain. I know every inch of it from the dream world and it kind of creeps me out when I go see a part of it in the real world for the first time. It's changed, trees grow, etc. but it's all still there. I can't explain that. My mother in law is very spiritual and she tells me she will explain it all to me some day when i'm ready to understand it. That creeps me out too. The rest of the house is different. My wife is the girlfriend from the original post, not the wife in the dream. I have feels about that, but the edges get rounder as time goes on. Obviously my friend is still dead (lol) and the bar from the dream is still back where it ever was, cobweb free, half a world away where I left it. I've gotten treatment for some mental health issues (a neurogenetic brain disorder) and once that was dialed in I stopped having any interest in alcohol or weed overnight. Life is good now, and I don't have any of the dreams, I don't really even think about it anymore until something pops up from someone who reads this.

I think it was a couple of things. I think partly it was stress, grief, mental illness, and a mild intolerance to echinacea. But I also think it was a bit of a symptom of how the universe actually works, maybe the nature of time. I think maybe the sensory suite of the human being can only experience this universe in a certain way, and sometimes when our brains break, things bleed through due to the true nature of the universe. Maybe all of time, and all possible versions of time really do happen at once, and when your mind is bent a certain way pieces of the other times and versions poke through.. I don't know. Maybe my memory of the dream has changed over time to fit my reality now, and my kitchen and my mountain have been super-imposed over my memory from the dream.

temptotosssoon ยท 271 points ยท Posted at 00:05:12 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm terrified of finding the lamp IRL, my life is pretty fucking great right now and to wake up and find all my adventures, achievements, romances and goals naught would be pretty fucking hard to deal with, unless I woke up next to her.

I understand the anxiety of not knowing which reality is really reality

Farfig_Noogin ยท 51 points ยท Posted at 01:39:03 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Fwiw pretty sure this one is real.

[deleted] ยท 67 points ยท Posted at 03:52:55 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The interesting (and perhaps scary) thing to think about is what if it isn't real and you reading that man's story on the internet is just your way of telling yourself that this isn't real. And this would be telling you the same.

[deleted] ยท 61 points ยท Posted at 04:02:51 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oh man, I just started getting this weird sinking feeling and I thi

mrm3x1can ยท 54 points ยท Posted at 06:30:10 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Stop it internet! You're fucking scaring me!

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 12:50:38 on January 16, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It has been reported that some victims of torture, during the act, would retreat into a fantasy world from which they could not wake up. In this catatonic state, the victim lived in a world just like their normal one, except they werenโ€™t being tortured. The only way that they realized they needed to wake up was a note they found in their fantasy world. It would tell them about their condition, and tell them to wake up. Even then, it would often take months until they were ready to discard their fantasy world and please wake up.

kieuk ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:54:10 on March 7, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

GO AWAY!!!

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:53:30 on March 8, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up LOOL

doubledubs ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 06:52:35 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's okay it's just Candleja

rainbow_fairy ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 14:00:30 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No way my subconscious would be lame enough to invoke the Candlejack meme. Phew, I was almost worried there for a se

[deleted] ยท 30 points ยท Posted at 07:02:26 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Good thing you remembered to press 'send' before you

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 16:00:14 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Look, if he was dying, he wouldn't bother to carve 'aaggggh'.

[deleted] ยท 50 points ยท Posted at 05:26:25 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Bad idea to read that at a [5]

Ikasatu ยท 19 points ยท Posted at 12:34:29 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

More than this: what if there's no such thing as computers or the internet, and they aren't possible in real life?

mistertron ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 13:58:22 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

you just incepted me. now i'm shitting my pants...

perpenderpular ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:25:39 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Careful now, don't develop Intussusception

hardeep1singh ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:24:50 on July 9, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What if one day you wake up in 1975? There were computers but way out of your reach.

skilodog2000 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 10:09:08 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm in that scary place right now. Pist! [6]

[deleted] ยท 19 points ยท Posted at 04:08:43 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Fuck you, I got shivers up my spine.

seaslugin ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 05:35:17 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The internet and books never work for me in dreams. They're always a good tell for reality.

stormbrand ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 05:49:43 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Wake up Neo

awwwwwwsick ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:48:11 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I N C E P T I O N

reon2-_ ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 07:02:25 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I got a feeling you weren't as impressed with Inception as everyone else.

zimm0who0net ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:02:51 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You're (obviously) not the first one to think this way. It's a pretty common philosophical meme. Read some Kant or Jung. There's whole books out there devoted to just this subject.

Farfig_Noogin ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:15:10 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
GiornaGuirne ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:27:53 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
Music_Ian ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:11:39 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I search every day for that lamp.

aloneconformist ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:29:59 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I think its time we all started carrying totems.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 11:28:29 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well ... fuck me

daskrip ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:29:03 on July 10, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
appropriate-username ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 02:20:24 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's what we WANT him to think.

Farfig_Noogin ยท -2 points ยท Posted at 04:44:53 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

Way to make the easy joke. Take your mindfuck back to http://www.reddit.com/r/limbojerk please.

Edit: this reddit should pretty well fuck with anyone who went too deep down the rabbit hole this thread, so this is your warning. Anyone who wants to see this thread taken to circlejerk levels: proceed.

appropriate-username ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 05:51:59 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What, can't a man comment on the fact that it's impossible to discern whether this world is "real" or not and it's a possibility (a tiny, negligible one but one that can't really be completely disproven) that there are people whose job it is to make other people more be more immersed in this possibly nonreal world? Are you faulting me for trying to distill this huge idea (explored in many scifi novels/movies and may have something to do with our obsession with religion) into seven simple words (or six and a contraction)? If this sentence is on the level of a circlejerk, I challenge you to make a more eloquent summation of this idea.

Farfig_Noogin ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 06:32:00 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

It comes off as distilling a trope which has already been thoroughly explored and deconstructed. While i don't speak to eloquence, here's what you were aiming for with a list at this bottom of ways this has been executed.

edit: last one before i get sucked into it http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/LotusEaterMachine

appropriate-username ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 06:43:19 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I think this fits better. Either way, I think it's good to revisit the idea every now and then and because of the predominance of this idea in the media, it's obviously an interesting one to think about. When have you last read something on circlejerk that was about an idea that was interesting to think about?

Farfig_Noogin ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 06:48:48 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I can understand that sentiment, i guess its just that the last time i saw this really explored i got linked to that limbojerk which is literally a circlejerk subreddit devoted to this one idea. Sorry for the namecalling, just didn't feel it contributed. Unfortunately now were both in the trope blackhole. Runaway!

appropriate-username ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 06:53:34 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm actually immune to it. I am able to ignore the links and guess at their meanings.

MWHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

GiornaGuirne ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:31:05 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah, tell reddit to stop being reddit. THAT'LL work!

robged ยท 123 points ยท Posted at 01:08:59 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You clearly had a pretty intense near death experience. There isn't scientific consensus, so we can't say for sure, but your experience may have been the result of a release of a massive amount of DMT into your brain from the pineal gland due to the amount of stress your body was under:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dimethyltryptamine#Conjecture

OneJiveTurkey ยท 19 points ยท Posted at 09:35:42 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Dude, I did a decent amount of DMT once and though I don't remember much of it I felt like I lived a full 80+ years with a wife and kids and then died, and then woke up back in my normal life...I couldn't believe it, and asked how long it had actually been...my friend told me, "about three minutes." My dreams have not been the same since.

englanddragons7 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:53:19 on April 25, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

MINDFUCK

Schopenhaur ยท 24 points ยท Posted at 04:07:40 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I just wanted to comment on this, because this is often toted around as fact within drug communities. To say there isn't a scientific consensus is a gross understatement. There is really no evidence at all, it is PURELY conjecture. Those that are advocates of the idea aren't the most respected scientists either.

MrBokbagok ยท 12 points ยท Posted at 04:53:02 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

There's actually heaps of evidence of near-death experience and hallucinations induced by the brain itself (as opposed to drug use). That it's specifically DMT is what is contended.

Schopenhaur ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 05:15:51 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's what I'm specifically commenting on, though I suppose it was not clear.

terraculon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:52:28 on May 4, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

thank god somebody has sense.

link_to_the_post ยท 32 points ยท Posted at 03:00:04 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Normally after a large dose of DMT you can't remember anything. Something different happened or part of the brains defense system failed and allowed him to create memories during the experience.

Generic_Redditor_13 ยท 66 points ยท Posted at 04:39:31 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Maybe every time you die, you begin a life in a new reality and abandon the current one

ZombieXxXCore ยท 28 points ยท Posted at 06:03:41 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I remember reading somewhere that at the point of death time is compressed into an almost infinitely small space in consciousness. so maybe at that point of death you enter a new reality that is just infinitely experienced at normal speed but taking place in some quantum measurement of time. wut?

Generic_Redditor_13 ยท 22 points ยท Posted at 06:17:18 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Maybe you are experiencing death right now. Death within death within death

[deleted] ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 06:21:59 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

OH GOD WHY

Paddy_Tanninger ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 07:18:58 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

DEATHCEPTION...

link_to_the_post ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 13:23:37 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
AwkwardNoises ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:11:49 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

So, was I on reddit when I died then?

BenSteinsMoany ยท -2 points ยท Posted at 12:32:30 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

deeeathception...

NinjaVaca ยท 13 points ยท Posted at 07:41:49 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That doesn't really make sense though. Why would your brain be able to change time? Or just its perception of time? Because either way there's a limit; only so many neurons can fire per second.

Tensuke ยท 19 points ยท Posted at 14:04:42 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Think about dreams...While you may sleep for 8 hours, your dreams will only last somewhere under an hour. And in those dreams, a lot more than an hour can go by. There are various reasons for this, one being that a lot of nonimportant things are cut out (eg. "how you got here") and you don't notice them. Another is the use of memory. A dream could last for 5 minutes, but when you wake up, you may remember a lot more than 5 minutes--it's possible that your brain gave you the memory of that dream but it never actually happened.
Our brains are complicated things, and it's entirely possible to change our perception of time. Just look at how various psychoactive drugs affect it.

genblueballz ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 18:12:43 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This happens to me a lot. I'll be power napping or just nodding off for 5-10min and have a dream that I normally have when I sleep. It feels like I've been dreaming for hours, but I look at the time and its been minutes. Really weird but cool

Bengt77 ยท 24 points ยท Posted at 13:02:31 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Maybe it's because time doesn't actually exist. Maybe in that near-death instant you experience the universe as it is: without the constraints of time.

Generic_Redditor_13 ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 18:17:45 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Absolutely correct. The only thing that determines time is how we perceive it. Everyone needs to remember that time is a *MAN-MADE* device

ZombieXxXCore ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:48:03 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Change time, no. but since time doesn't really exist it only makes sense that we change our perception of it. and i agree, there is only so much inceptioning that would allow to happen... or is there? dun dun dunnn.

ray_quazawski ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:27:57 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

MIND: BLOWN!

link_to_the_post ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 13:22:26 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
[deleted] ยท 45 points ยท Posted at 06:02:35 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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[deleted] ยท 15 points ยท Posted at 12:20:19 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oh God, this entire thread makes my head spin .. damn dude

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:23:45 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I got mega goosebumps reading this thread. Aw you guys.

Sacrefix ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 02:46:41 on January 26, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Have you read Haunted by Chuck Palahniuk?

ZeroNihilist ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 03:49:56 on January 26, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No, but it seems pretty interesting. Why do you ask?

Sacrefix ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 03:53:51 on January 26, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

There is a short story about how humans figure out that when people die after enough reincarnations they are reborn on Venus which is essentially heaven. World governments decide they will make everyone commit mass suicide so no one can be reincarnated thus forcing everyone into heaven.

Valsalvation ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 09:21:50 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I think he just segfaulted.

AwkwardNoises ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:09:15 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You seriously made my whole body shiver with that. This thought actually occured to me like a week ago except it went further to ask, what if you can only exist in the reality in which you are still alive? Have you ever read Daytripper? It's an amazing book.

Generic_Redditor_13 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:10:19 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have not, but I'll check it out

Skafsgaard ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 07:23:27 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
link_to_the_post ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 13:17:49 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
LOFTIE ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:44:37 on January 13, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Careful now thats how.... something something inception spoiler..died.

Gumbeaner ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:24:24 on January 13, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

My brains doing backflips right now!

PassiveAgressivfist ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:58:15 on June 1, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Check out biocentrism theory proposed by Dr. Lanza

jroth ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:42:00 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was really expecting this kind of comment to come up much earlier in the conversion. Sorta like Godwin's law, but with intellectually deprived statements instead of hitler.

link_to_the_post ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 13:22:11 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
jroth ยท -2 points ยท Posted at 06:43:08 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was really expecting a comment like this to come up much earlier in the conversation. Sorta like Godwin's law, but with intellectually deprived statements instead of Hitler.

thevdude ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 03:57:06 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Who cares, obvious solution is get hit by a car.

Roboticide ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 05:30:00 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I believe you mean train.

thevdude ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 06:57:46 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Near death is the key, here.

Roboticide ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 07:08:00 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Looking back, I misunderstood your comment to be simply telling him to go kill himself. I therefore, instead of calling you a dick or something as I'd normally be inclined to do, tried to make a funny by referencing Inception, which is actually kinda relevant, in a way.

Thanks for clarifying, I'm glad I didn't call you a dick. It looks like some other people misunderstood your original comment, too, by the looks of the downvotes. Hopefully they see this.

link_to_the_post ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 13:19:44 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I think he is making a referance to the movie A waking life. Its about a kid that gets hit by a car and is trapped inside a dream.

link_to_the_post ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 13:19:56 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This a waking life reference?

thevdude ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:15:33 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's a reference to he should get hit by a car to almost die again.

shivalry ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:12:06 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Not necessarily. Whenever you remember dreams, you're remembering DMT trips. People take DMT and remember their experiences. And NDEs wouldn't be a thing unless it was possible to remember them. There definitely seem to be mechanisms in place that prevent memory-forming of DMT experiences, but getting around these mechanisms is not by any stretch abnormal.

TruthHammer ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:18:36 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

While that may be true, it's also exactly the point: He LIVED in it. It wasn't a memory, it was "real time". Then his body got itself together enough to switch back to real reality and you know the rest.

Battlr ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:54:13 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I can agree to this. After the only DMT trip that I've ever had, it wasn't more than 30 seconds later that I couldn't remember more than bits an pieces of the trip. I've read that some people believe that it is a defense mechanism that our bodies have developed in the presence of DMT.

bio7 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 09:52:25 on June 1, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The only thing I can remember about my DMT trips is the beginning, before the final hit is completed. In this brief state I close my eyes and see a swirling flower-like pattern or red, green and yellow growing exponentially more complex each instant. I then see this flower pattern begin to dissolve, giving way to what I can't much remember nor describe.

LikeWizeCrakka ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 05:31:58 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

well after a large dose of synthesized DMT that you ingest, yeah, ur abusing a drug and its not the natural DMT thats already in your brain. DMT is a very mysterious chemical and many scientists think its the crux of what happens when we die and also what makes lucid dreaming possible. and idk what kind of DMT you're doing or how your doing it but I remember most of my experiences with it lol.

link_to_the_post ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 13:16:29 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I am just going off what is stated in the spirit molecule about how your brain protects its self from high doses of DMT by not allowing memorys. It is possible im jsut saying it isn't the norm and is quite fascinating

migvelio ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 16:17:03 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Dude, look the meaning of synthesic. It is the same molecular composition but artificial processes.

LikeWizeCrakka ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:47:20 on January 16, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well if you know anything about multivitamins you'll know that those are synthesized but our body doesn't absorb them as well as it does from the nutrients in food... so this phenomenon could also apply to a chemical that our brain produces when we are born, during the deepest stages of sleep and just before we die.

Bandit1379 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 08:16:41 on May 4, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm just gonna leave this here. Sorry, I know this is like 3 months old, but whatever.

Addendum by Rick Strassman

"I did my best in the DMT book to differentiate between what is known, and what I was conjecturing about (based upon what is known), regarding certain aspects of DMT dynamics. However, it's amazing how ineffective my efforts seem to have been. So many people write me, or write elsewhere, about DMT, and the pineal, assuming that the things I conjecture about are true. When I was writing the book, I thought I was clear enough, and repeating myself would have gotten tedious.

"We don't know whether DMT is made in the pineal. I muster a lot of circumstantial evidence supporting a reason to look long and hard at the pineal, but we do not yet know. There are data suggesting urinary DMT rises in psychotic patients when their psychosis is worse. However, we don't know whether DMT rises during dreams, meditation, near-death, death, birth or any other endogenous altered state. To the extent those states resemble those brought on by giving DMT, it certainly makes one wonder if endogenous DMT might be involved, and if it were, it would explain a lot. But we don't know yet. Even if the pineal weren't involved, that would have little overall effect on my theories regarding a role for DMT in endogenous altered states, because we do know that the gene involved in DMT synthesis is present in many organs, particularly lung. If the pineal made DMT, it would tie up a lot of loose ends regarding this enigmatic little organ. But people seem to live pretty normals lives without a pineal gland; for example, when it has had to be removed because of a tumor.

"In both these regards--the pineal-DMT connection, and endogenous DMT dynamics--we ought to know a lot more within the next several years due to the efforts of a research group being led by Steven Barker at Louisiana State University. He, with his grad student Ethan McIlhenny, are developing a new super-assay for DMT, 5-MeO-DMT, bufotenine, and metabolites. This assay will be capable of detecting those compounds much more sensitively than previous generations of assays. They're looking at endogenous levels in awake sober normals, to assess baseline values of these compounds. We should have some data from those samples within a year. They also will be looking at pineal tissue. Once we have some baseline data in normal humans in normal waking consciousness, comparisons can be made between those levels and levels in endogenous altered states, like dreams, near-death, and so on."

Qaaj ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:43:00 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I think this is a very legit explanation

[deleted] ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 07:20:51 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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fatbunyip ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 08:01:26 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

As a aside, Bart Kosko in one of his neural network/fuzzy logic books speculates that the "life flashing before you" people say they experience is a massive parallel search your brain does to find a solution - hence the extraordinary difference between actual and experienced time.

Again, there's no evidence of it (and in the book it was merely a passing comment), but I thought it was quite logical given the subject matter of the book (maths/comp sci)

minimumwage96 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:05:53 on February 27, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

such an experience often messes people up though, so that's probably why your brain reserves it as a last ditch effort (if it happens at all). suddenly having every iota of knowledge, memory, and experience zapped into your consciousness in a brief instant can't be very pleasant and for me at least would be disturbing.

jyveturkie ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 04:58:32 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Thanks for the possible scientific explanation. So many things we don't understand yet, but it's great to know there are theories at least.

BloodyPancakeSyrup ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 02:43:02 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

i kind of want to find the lamp

The_Classy_Pirate ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 03:04:43 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I realize this will hold no ground, but as far as I know you are not dreaming, since I an conscious. Anyway, I've been having many dreams I can't get over. One, I was with a girl from my old school and I had been telling her I loved her (I didn't nor do I now).

I fell into her arms and started crying. And as she was holding me she told me she loved me as well, and she was going to miss me. I pulled away and looked at her with an curiosity. I didn't understand why she said she was going to miss me.

Then there was a flood where I was pushed away from her by the water. She stood there with her hand out for me and I couldn't reach it. No matter how hard I tried I couldn't get to her. I had pushed and pushed but no matter what I was never any closer. I shouted for her and I she stood there with tears streaming down her face.

I haven't seen her since the beginning of summer but now I miss her dearly. I feel so much more attached to her, but it kills me that she won't remember any of it.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 14:53:57 on May 14, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The simple answer is that there is no way for Reddit to exist in a dream world

thephenix777 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 01:40:20 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm terrified of you finding the lamp because what if you did...? That would mean I'm not real because your not real... I would have been a figment, a machination of your imagination... And I've never met you, wasn't even aware of, didn't even know you existed before reading this on the internet. .. Which means that none of us would be real... because your not real... I'm listening to explosions in the sky right now, which is freaky music when your as high as I am... and you know what?? I have a massive desire to try recreational DMT... Freaky dude.... freaky music... I gotta try DMT... [9.215]

kungfool101 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 02:18:54 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What about his not real?

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:17:45 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Did you have the urge to just ignore it? What if you would have never noticed the lamp? A coma?

kayakguy429 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:50:53 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I cant even imagine what that would be like and what it would be like to wake up and find a completely different world.... Thats gotta be just surreal...

auApex ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:35:14 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I can promise you this life is real! Of course, there's always the possibility that this post was created by your brain to help you maintain the illusion!

poppinmary25 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:43:59 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This is one of the most romantic things I've read. Thank you.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:22:14 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

BWOOOOOOOONG!

tchiseen ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:28:35 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Don't worry, reddit is as real as shit gets

reon2-_ ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:01:48 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I also do not want you to find that lamp.

Ikasatu ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:33:12 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

If it helps, and I can't guarantee that it will, I used to have dreams about a girl: she would appear to me in my dreams, not always as a character in the story of the dream, but always the same girl. I couldn't (and can't) recall to mind exactly what her face looked like, but I would fall in love with her every time. It would break my heart to wake up and find out she wasn't there.

I think I've met her, now. We've been dating for a few years.

I hope yours is real too.

Cyborg771 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:06:59 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

For what it's worth. I am a conscious being separate from yourself experiencing you retelling this story.

For all I know this is my fever dream though.

For all you know it's yours.

Fuck solipsism...

fkdat92 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:08:36 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Are you completly sure this is real ? ))

ragnaROCKER ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 00:22:58 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

if you ever do find a lamp, scream my name 3 times and i'll help you back.

temptotosssoon ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 00:35:42 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

beetlegeuse!

ragnaROCKER ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 00:43:45 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

woah there! yelling that 3 times will have an entirely different conclusion.

FuckYouGuys ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 03:49:08 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've actually experienced something really similar myself, but when it happened to me, I was aware of "real" life, but it was as distant and unreal as drea ms are now to m e. I could thiink about my "normal"" daily life, and I knew all about it, but the dream world wsaabu t the glitches started glitches in the dream world started to add up. .glitches in the dream world started to add up, and it got harder and harder for my brain to ha n g on hangon haaaa to t he d reeam.hangon n t o the dream.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 06:24:55 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oh fuck you.

[deleted] ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 08:30:45 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Clocks. Seriously, look at the clock. Look down. Look back at it again. Is it the same time? (Or reasonable i.e. one minute later) If so, you're awake.

nopunctuationsbitch ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 11:08:09 on February 27, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

you cant really know that for sure

EatBooks ยท 61 points ยท Posted at 23:17:51 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

"one afternoon my friend and i were hanging out at our favorite bar and i realized i hadnt shown him any of the tatoos i got while he was dead."

Gave me chills.

AbandonedIdentity ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 12:43:38 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This is the sentence that stood out for me too.

Thank you for posting with your experiences people. A truly absorbing read and something to contemplate.

I myself have experienced similar things, though not even close to the extent described above.

I'm in a healthy relationship with a lovely woman but every so often I dream of this particular girl. She's always the same person though the situation/ place is always different, and sometimes a little surreal. No matter what though it always seems so real that waking up feels like I've lost her all over again. After having these dreams now for a while I sometimes feel a little bit guilty that I miss the girl from my dream. I don't have the heart to try and explain it to my partner. She'd be devastated. It does feel as though I should be somewhere else. With her. Living a different life.

And when the dreams began she was a complete stranger. I had never seen her before. For a long time after she first appeared to me we got to know each other. I never allowed anything of a sexual nature take place between us (even though it is just a dream) as I kept telling her that I would need to leave my current partner before anything was going to happen between us.

Only just last week she appeared to me again, and we hung out for the day. I tried my best to resist the urge and her advances but ultimately succumbed. We slept together in my dream. It seemed real enough that I could smell her breath and I regretted it immediately after. I woke up next to my real life partner with an immense feeling of guilt. I felt really silly about it all. But at the same, every time I lay down to sleep I wonder if I'll see her again. Not for the sexual stuff lol, but because it feels as though we belong together. For some strange reason...

Reading over what I've written it's pretty silly. It surely is just my subconscious playing tricks on me. I always have very vivid dreams. Some fantastical, some mundane. They always seem so real. And some, like this girl, I regret having to leave...

The only reason I bring it up is because i see her quite regularly. Not all the time though. It just feels as though i have forged a very strong relationship with this person. This girl who doesn't exist in my reality.

[deleted] ยท 55 points ยท Posted at 01:31:41 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I don't know if it's any comfort, but maybe the life you dreamed isn't something from the future but instead something from the past. Since our childhoods are where we learn most about family life, maybe the dream is an ideal learned from then. Maybe it is an idealisation of the family life you've already lived through - only you were the son instead of the father. Or (if your childhood wasn't so great) maybe it is the accumulated desires and dreams of a better family life you had growing up. Either way, maybe your dream son not only represents a potential future offspring, but also represents yourself.

If that is true then the tenderness you feel towards the dream son isn't going nowhere, you haven't lost him, he's a part of your memories and a part of you. Loving him in your dreams would mean loving and accepting yourself and being comfortable with your past and getting over the pain of growing up, as well as more generally practising for future fatherhood.

Perhaps you can find some comfort in thinking of it not as a dream about a wife and a son, but as a dream about a marriage and a father-son relationship. In that way, the dream wife and son represent the counterparts to your ideal relationships. If you manage to achieve the same levels of closeness and love with a family in the future, then that family will become one with the one you dream of. As your ideals would adapt to your real life family so your real life family would adapt to your ideals.

The phone dream sounds like there's a big tension between your goals in life and your current situation. Maybe that means you need to look into making some changes, I don't know. It sounds like your dream relationship might be very hard to live up to. If your current relationship isn't headed that way, then I hope you can find someone who you can work towards that level of happiness with.

Lastly, being worried about losing your reality sounds very unpleasant. It's not unusual to see glitchy things - there are all kinds of optical illusions that can happen in everyday life and I definitely find the older I get, the less reliable my brain is at interpreting what's going on with my eyes. I've had the feeling of waking up and staring at something, and it goes from being a thing in a dream that doesn't look right to a thing in the real world. I've also had similar experiences while awake looking at things that don't look right, (usually in the dark). So, if that's similar to what you're talking about, then I guess it's fairly normal. (Of course, if the glitchy things you're seeing are more like hallucinations, then that's more serious and you should get some medical advice.)

I'm not really all too sure if I can offer much comfort to you with regards being afraid of losing reality. As a child (and occasionally as an adult) I used to fear going to sleep, because I knew I would dream and those dreams could be nightmares. I suppose being afraid of falling asleep is similar to being afraid of unexpectedly waking up. The one thing that helped me was that, because of the ensuing insomnia, I would frequently lie in half asleep states, or alternating between awake and asleep, and so I got a much better understanding of the process of falling asleep and dreaming. I came to understand that when I fell asleep and started to dream, it felt as if my mind was beginning to think in pictures. My dreams were like trains of thought, except instead of thinking in words that I hear inside my head, I was thinking in entire visual-sensory experiences that I experienced. I also got better at knowing when I was in a dream, and I am still reasonably good at willing myself out of nightmares. I don't know if it could be any comfort to you to see dreams as thoughts that are so expressive they make you forget yourself. Perhaps it can help you feel as though the dream world and the waking world are deeply connected. Your thoughts in one become the other. So, you don't lose your reality by waking or falling asleep, but instead just shift perspective and methods of thought. When you're dreaming you're still thinking about the real world and in the real world, your thoughts become your dreams.

This is a throwaway account, so if you reply I probably won't get it. I hope this is in some way helpful. I feel for you. I hope it gets better. Don't let anyone tell you that the sense of loss you felt isn't real. The things you dreamed of most likely represent real world pains, real losses and longings that you were not over yet. I hope you can find a way to resolving those feelings.

Bengt77 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 13:20:25 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm feeling the sudden urge to play 'Out Of Time' from Blur now. It seems appropriate.

nicomoore ยท 25 points ยท Posted at 00:28:45 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Can we make this into a movie?

qbee826 ยท 23 points ยท Posted at 04:26:04 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
An_Unraped_Cat ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 14:09:48 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Whenever I get excited about posting a relevant link, I know someone will have beaten me to it.

Lyle91 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 06:05:16 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That is such a wonderful episode. I watched it again only a few months ago and it was just as good as the first time I saw it.

kaiise ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:48:08 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

RDM represent

lawfairy ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:56:42 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The internet has jaded me so much that when the story started out saying he lived a whole other life while unconscious, for a minute I suspected that he might be pulling a "haha, fooled you, I'm Captain Picard!" joke.

fromtheoven ยท 11 points ยท Posted at 03:25:47 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Jacob's ladder

mycatsnameisearl ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:30:39 on April 28, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes! This movie is so relevant. If anyone hasn't seen it I highly suggest that you do.

fromtheoven ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:01:29 on April 28, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yarr, ye be postin' in a three month old thread

mycatsnameisearl ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:07:11 on April 29, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

oops, sorry just got wrapped up in the comments I guess

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 04:02:55 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Just wrote a page and an a half. If it hits big I'll find this sir and give him some monies.

imameeble ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 14:16:06 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was just thinking that

SmileyMe53 ยท 33 points ยท Posted at 23:38:45 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This is some Matrix Dรฉja vu stuff. Also you need some sort of top that you can spin to make sure you are in reality.

Sniwolf ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 12:24:19 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

In a dream if you look at your hands they are allmost allways out of focus (i do this for lucid dreaming) this is allmost a sure give away.

BloodyPancakeSyrup ยท 59 points ยท Posted at 02:45:41 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

also, can that be a thing? like... on reddit? like, calling dying " finding the lamp "? it just seems appropriate. I'm not forcing anything here, but it seems to fit.

[deleted] ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 08:28:21 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Lets do it guys!

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 06:25:52 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I want it to be now.

AuntieSocial ยท 43 points ยท Posted at 22:45:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Completely random factoid: You should probably avoid echinacea (or any immune-boosting substance) once you're already ill with a bacterial or viral sickness. Many of the symptoms that make you feel sick are the result of your immune system's actions. Boosting your immune response once you're ill will likely just make you feel sicker without noticeably reducing your sick time (since your immune system is already clearly responding).

fallenstard ยท 26 points ยท Posted at 03:16:26 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I hate that I'm a molecular biologist, and despite all the times I've explained to people that disease symptoms are usually caused by the immune system (especially when the swine flu nonsense was going on), this thought never occurred to me.

[deleted] ยท 127 points ยท Posted at 04:18:59 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

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jyveturkie ยท 35 points ยท Posted at 04:53:07 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Your evidence based argument pleases me. Upvote.

myth_confirmed ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:07:46 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Not a Molecular Biologist, but I like your use of Myth Busted!

yarpsa ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 05:39:07 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm sorry, you must mean based on antidotes.

SlackerThanThou ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 03:59:24 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Actually the experience we have in dreams is the same quality of experience we have when we're awake. In both cases it's simply the mind experiencing things. The difference is we're more familiar with our waking world, so we tend to regard this world as 'real' and everything else as 'unreal'. But there's no basis for that distinction.

You can test this: is there any way that you can prove right now that you aren't dreaming? You can pinch yourself, ask someone to wake you up, etc etc. But you can do all that in dreams.

If our dreams aren't real then neither is waking life. They're both just the mind experiencing things. And in life - just like in dreams - things work. We get up, do stuff, try to be happy. It actually makes dealing with things a lot easier. "If this was a dream what would I do?" Not get stressed out for starters!

metroid23 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:00:28 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It may have been comforting to write but it was downright terrifying to read. I wish you well, mate.

chocolatethunderr ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:47:00 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

For anyone who wants a visual representation of what something like this would look like, I honestly advise you guys to watch "Waking Life". It's amazing.

It's one of those movies that sits in the back of your head and makes you question everything about your dreams and realities. Reading about your experiences instantly brought this movie to mind and the similarities, specifically with you two noticing a mundane object that ended up destroying the illusion, is eery.

I'd love for rizzlybear and temptotossoon to watch this and see if it brings back any memories

fapingtoyourpost ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:19:53 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It has been reportedd that some victims of torture, during the act, would retreat into a fantasy world from which they could not WAKE UP. In this catatonic state, the victim lived in a world just like their normal one, except they werenโ€™t being tortured. The only way that they realized they needed to WAKE UP was a note they found in their fantasy world. It would tell them about their condition, and tell them to WAKE UP. Even then, it would often take months until they were ready to discard their fantasy world and PLEASE WAKE UP.

Vivaciousqt ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:45:36 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was down and clinically depressed for a long time and attempted some stupid things, sometimes i sit there and think i wonder if i was really successful in those attempts and everything thats changed since those days, everything in my life that is wonderful, how my life is amazing once again is not real? And that maybe i'm just in some sort of... coma or something similar to what you experienced.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 10:09:57 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

In a creepy reverse twist:

How do you know the "dream" reality isn't actually the real one, and the one you are posting to Reddit from isn't the fake?

Bengt77 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 13:00:12 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Fuck. I really hope you're okay. Sad stories galore here. Fuck.

saosinwin ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:12:41 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It sort of sounds like you have multiple personalities disorder, and one of your personalities, your main personality, the one that wrote this, is aware of the other. If I were you, I would look into this.

GeorgePBurdellJr ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:02:47 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I proctored this course in psychology at Georgia Tech that describes this condition as Dissociative identity disorder.

raziphel ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 14:13:12 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

you may have a mild form of schizophrenia. it's not all babies growing in your leg or aliens out to get you.

damn, that sucks when you can't trust your own brain. I hope you're a super-genius at math or something to help make up for it.

[deleted] ยท -5 points ยท Posted at 03:27:17 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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Pinstripe8 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:34:29 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well you don't have to be so harsh...

anengineeringdegree ยท 50 points ยท Posted at 21:51:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What ended up happening to the football player?

temptotosssoon ยท 70 points ยท Posted at 00:10:20 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

he was ordered to pay half of my medical bills and that was it

[deleted] ยท 85 points ยท Posted at 00:18:01 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

HALF?! For fucking ASSAULT?!

temptotosssoon ยท 92 points ยท Posted at 00:18:42 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

football = religion

clothes_are_optional ยท 16 points ยท Posted at 02:17:16 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

eh, that pathetic scumbag won't get anywhere in life anyway.

4TEHSWARM ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 13:12:02 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What reality do you come from? Can I visit?

BonzoTheBoss ยท 18 points ยท Posted at 11:53:21 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Until he lands a multi-million dollar career in football. And is worshiped like a god for his athletic ability and gets to sleep with a different super model every night.

That's the problem with trying to make ourselves feel better using the old "It's okay I'm going to do better than them" routine is that soul-crushingly more often than not the assholes lead better lives because they're assholes and they take what they want and they don't care who they hurt. And the world is served to them on a platter.

I'm not bitter...

realblublu ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:48:39 on January 18, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

If that happened to me, I would fantasize about sniping the bastard in the leg.

dimmak ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:29:51 on July 9, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Junior Seau.

kidmonsters ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 03:17:04 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Sounds like the south. Sounds a lot like Florida.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:16:36 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

well you sir, are only hearing half of the story.

Hate_the_One_Percent ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:15:13 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It would be battery, assault is the threat, battery is the physical action. It's a common misconception/misuse of the word. Today you learned!

ApokalypseCow ยท 14 points ยท Posted at 02:27:56 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's a damn shame - I'd have sued him so hard his grandchildren would owe me money.

theprodigy77 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:49:48 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Nice Try, Phillip Banks.

jascination ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:19:57 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That seems odd. Were you jaywalking or something? I don't know how road rules work in America (or anywhere else for that matter).

Solkre ยท 1169 points ยท Posted at 21:03:06 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Fuck, he knocked you 3 Inception levels deep.

bwaxxlo ยท 112 points ยท Posted at 23:18:19 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
[deleted] ยท 85 points ยท Posted at 00:13:34 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

Seems more like a "BWAAAAA" than a "BAAAAAM"

Conspicuous_Urn ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 00:21:42 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm pretty sure it's "BWAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAP". The P is important. If you listen closely you can hear it.

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 00:27:57 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I think it's more BWAAAaaaaaa... Like no END, just a fade.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:28:33 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Actually, it's not taking into account the beginning, so it's more like "Ts BWAAAAAaaaa..."

Stockypotty ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:32:18 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Go! BWAAAAA

wanderingsong ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:46:28 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

my vote's on BRRRRRRRRRRRRM

tigerstylee ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:34:04 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I don't think there is a "BAAAAAM" at all. Unless you meant to say, "Seems more like a 'BWAAAAA' THAN a 'BAAAAM'"?

[deleted] ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 01:43:38 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Fixt it.

BlueJoshi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 10:17:34 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Gonna gotta go with "BWMMMVVVVVVVVVVVVV"

tourettesguy54 ยท 25 points ยท Posted at 02:25:41 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Soooo I just shit myself...lying in bed all peaceful, doin a little redditing before I pass out for the night. I don't realize the volume on my phone is all the way up. I click a link, see a button, think "oooo I wander what this one does?".... BWAAAAAAAAaaaaaaaa...."HOLY FUCK!" So yea, I'm gonna go clean myself up now.

mheard ยท 31 points ยท Posted at 03:47:16 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Poop pants and bed -> describe on reddit -> leave bed to clean poop

tourettesguy54 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 16:20:31 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

-> Profit??

grachasaurus ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:40:47 on July 9, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Hi, I'm from the future. I just wanna say thanks for the warning.

mrbuttfist ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:13:28 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
testlabbet ยท 65 points ยท Posted at 23:57:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This could possibly be the context from which the concept of reincarnation would have originated from.

[deleted] ยท 19 points ยท Posted at 04:31:31 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Hindu Studies research paper topic found.

Farfig_Noogin ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 04:26:57 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

There is the potential for so much more to be expanded upon from this one sentence. Quite a thought.

frisky_business2 ยท 291 points ยท Posted at 22:15:41 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

SHIT WE'RE TOO DEEP!!

paniq ยท 333 points ยท Posted at 22:31:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

WE NEED TO GO DEEno, actually, you know what? This level is just fine.

Party_Ninja ยท 58 points ยท Posted at 00:16:21 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Can you see any turtles? If there aren't any turtles, I think you're good.

the_turtle_ ยท 73 points ยท Posted at 02:56:52 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

But I can always see a turtle... I am the turtle.

letsRAPEturtles ยท 121 points ยท Posted at 08:51:08 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

ส˜โ€ฟส˜

RevoRevo ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:44:05 on January 18, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I just love a happy ending :D.

TheDark1 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:21:59 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I love that this isn't even a throwaway... unless he has been following this guy around for 2 months making karma from this comment ...

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 13:34:41 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

He was making a sarcastic comment to the sex-turtle industry.

paniq ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 08:24:43 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
phobicaphilia ยท 30 points ยท Posted at 03:22:29 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

But it's turtles all the way down!

liamoylan ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:53:00 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
Devilheart ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 07:07:11 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Doesn't matter; had sex

dafragsta ยท 19 points ยท Posted at 03:52:10 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Can you see towels? If you see towels, you're probably in the linen closet.

SmotherTheresa ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 07:57:30 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I almost didn't want to upvote this because it was at 42. Too much universe.

Secret_StoopKid ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 11:01:53 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Is it raining doughnuts?

Harmonie ยท -2 points ยท Posted at 02:12:15 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Are they ninjas? Because you can't see a ninja turtle.

drbooberry ยท 17 points ยท Posted at 01:23:02 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

fuck, we forgot our totems.

knightwhosaysSi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 09:38:32 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Nope, mine is that creepy talking turtle.

antoeknee ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 01:07:36 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

DEEPAH!

Kiirojin ยท 12 points ยท Posted at 00:50:52 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

3 Cuils

daemos ยท 39 points ยท Posted at 22:40:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Debo just knocked him the FUCK out!

armin8487 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:12:50 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

And you know this, man.

[deleted] ยท 21 points ยท Posted at 00:54:13 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What's really freaky is that the brain isn't strong enough to create it's own faces. it just uses faces it's already seen, even if it was only viewed for a second. the face of his wife is out there. . . somewhere with no recollection of the second life.

I could be wrong, but I swear I read that somewhere.

[deleted] ยท 15 points ยท Posted at 01:04:43 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's from inception.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:35:04 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I looked up the question in reddit and came up with this. It seems like we've entered a gray area.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:15:06 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well it was in Inception. I doubt it was the first mention of it, so...yeah. Grey it is (?).

moopyboo ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 15:07:53 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's untrue - there's a specific part of the brain that can create human faces in hallucinations. Have a look at this Oliver Sacks talk on hallucination.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:49:13 on January 13, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

the concept i proposed uses the lobe of the brain that holds faces that Oliver mentioned. the idea is that the lobe holds the faces even if we cant consciously remember them and then brings them up in dreams. Even if they dont mean anything.

ps. I LOVE TED. just thought i'd throw it out there

zolisoncek ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 09:43:50 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

THAT'S AWFUL

joshmagee ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 03:31:41 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

A lamp is probably the lamest totem ever.

ryandg ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 05:23:23 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Fuck, he knocked up his daughter.

Solkre ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 13:22:46 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I N C E S T I O N

ProstetnicVogonJelz ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:26:35 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

I was listening to Hanz Zimmer-Time while I was reading it because of that post in r/Music. Mind=Blown

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 08:30:42 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was reading this post because of that r/music post....and listening to Ennio Morricone.

canthisbemyhomework ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:37:38 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

i was actually already listening to Time from this soundtrack when i started to read this post. as the song ended, i finished the text. it was eerie.

nemaki ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:48:24 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Exact same situation here.... weird.

MusicalChairs ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:37:42 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Quick, someone get temtotosssoon a top to spin!

plexxonic ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 14:20:37 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I laughed way harder than I should have at this.

[deleted] ยท 612 points ยท Posted at 22:16:19 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

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protomanx1 ยท 157 points ยท Posted at 01:09:47 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

"We can finally be a family again"

credits start rolling

netcrusher88 ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 04:14:17 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Dad... are you in space?

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 10:09:22 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Dad, are you space?

FTFY ;o

Daelfas ยท 32 points ยท Posted at 01:24:34 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Where's that slow clap .gif when I need it...

lbizz ยท 27 points ยท Posted at 02:11:24 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
TheTruthBeSold ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:35:54 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Cute family.

Daelfas ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 10:54:16 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Thanks!

EagleRock ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:22:16 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Brilliant

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:16:32 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
only_says_fuck_yeah ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:43:04 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

fuck yeah

zolisoncek ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 09:49:38 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

seriously, dude?

only_says_fuck_yeah ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:13:02 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

fuck yeah

Imissreadthings ยท 346 points ยท Posted at 17:27:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Dear God that's haunting. I just...wow.

HolyZesto ยท 142 points ยท Posted at 17:40:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Holy shit, this is the best one yet. Did you actually experience all those years like they were real time, or did it all fly by like dreams normally do?

LostMyCannon ยท 169 points ยท Posted at 22:34:25 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm really interested to hear his response to this. But just to throw in my own experience: I once dreamed I lived for 100 years as a farmer. I remember my whole life. Working in a field somewhere in a fictional location in Europe. Getting married. My wife dying. Adopting a wolf as a pet dog. Hiking through the country. I traveled often of foot for day's and weeks away from my home. Going into town. Growing old. Dying.

Looking back I can remember specific days in that life. Profound experiences I had. My approach to death. And they each stand out to me as something I experienced in real time, never rushed, but sometimes blurry.

And at the same time, I know that the dream took place over the course of one night. The thought of those conflicting time schemes isn't really rationally reconcilable. I understand it on an emotional level, like a thought that's also a feeling. But I have no frame of reference in reality that makes describing my understanding of it possible.

ordinia ยท 96 points ยท Posted at 23:04:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

If you really experience that much of a lifetime in a totally realistic way, I'm not sure it makes sense at that point to call it "not real". It might just as well be - you effectively lived a whole lifetime.

Actually, an interesting thought experiment: if a lifelong "happiness machine" like other posters have described could detach our perceptions from real time (as your story implies dreams can) we could live 10000 lifetimes in the 60 years we'd be hooked up to the machine.

[deleted] ยท 126 points ยท Posted at 23:18:43 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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bananapanorama ยท 69 points ยท Posted at 00:17:09 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I don't think my happiness machine is working right...

lolsai ยท 18 points ยท Posted at 01:35:40 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You're in the beta version, sorry. :p

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:17:41 on January 14, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I must be in the alpha.

Lyle91 ยท 10 points ยท Posted at 06:13:59 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Maybe the real world makes people live through tons of lives to become better people. The only way to do that properly is to make you live both happy and depressing lives. You could currently just be in a depressing life.

[deleted] ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 03:57:22 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Maybe the real you is a masochist, or perhaps he was just curious to see what living a horrible life would feel like.

JBomm ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 14:27:27 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's probably because this is all my dream and no one else exists. I made everything up. Sorry, you're just my imagination.

bananapanorama ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:19:54 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Nice try machine.

[deleted] ยท 85 points ยท Posted at 00:08:47 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Fuck you. My mind is already fucked up as it is.

PhallogicalScholar ยท 33 points ยท Posted at 01:13:40 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

wake up

[deleted] ยท 18 points ยท Posted at 01:16:53 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

NoOOOooOOOOOOOOOOOO!

NebelLicht ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:47:46 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

For some odd reason, that fucked with my brain. Not going to lie.

shepardownsnorris ยท 25 points ยท Posted at 00:38:41 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
CptOfTheGravyTrain ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:06:06 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
redonculous ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:13:39 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Nice to see Timmy Mallet is getting work again!

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 03:03:56 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

And each person we communicate with is another one of those lives our brain creates. So we are just talking to ourselves for essentially a million years.

For those who might say, "There are more than 10,000 people in the world," I say, "Really? So sure?"

NorthernSkeptic ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:03:05 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

ok keanu

jubjub2184 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:05:34 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That would be considered the theory of Simulated Reality, I believe. Well at least touching the bases. See Simulated Reality is a theory which means, hypothetically We are living in a simulated reality. And this is not are real life. Some even go as far as saying only one person is real and everything else is just basically a NPC. For example, As I type this I am aware I am typing it an for all I know everyone else isn't real. That is Vice Versa for you the reader though, as in a you read this I may not be real. (but I know I am..but you don't..it's a paradox)

Anyway, that is to say, that when we die, we awake from our simulated reality into the real world..or perhaps another simulated reality, which would technically mean we are immortal to an extent.

ggfunnymail ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 02:45:54 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

But if we're always awaking into another simulated reality what's the end state? Or the beginning? How did we get more then one or two layers down to begin with?

jubjub2184 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:59:13 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well that is part of the Paradox, we would never know when we would be in the "real" world. I cannot answer your question, and I doubt anyone could with proof.

Mintz08 ยท 31 points ยท Posted at 23:15:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Imagine how much we could learn if we simulate living 10000 lifetimes in our dreams. What's weird though is that we don't learn anything mathematically while we're dreaming.

For example, LostMyCannon was a farmer. How cool would it be if he decided, as a farmer, to pick up a pencil one day and figure out calculus? Unfortunately, dreams never helped me pass any math courses, but like LostMyCannon said, he had profound experiences which probably shape some of his decisions and general way of thinking about the world.

Too bad none of those profound experiences can help us solve P = NP.

SAWK ยท 12 points ยท Posted at 23:36:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Why do you say we don't learn anything mathematically while we're dreaming?

Not that I have or dreamt I have.

ordinia ยท 27 points ยท Posted at 23:45:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Presumably because everything in our dreams is created by our minds, and if one's mind did not already know calculus, one could not learn it in a dream.

However, the artificial perception machine would (in theory) be able to teach us stuff, since we could have it preloaded with things we didn't know.

mandingophil ยท 24 points ยท Posted at 23:49:52 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

maybe you have the ability/skills already to solve and comprehend new topics, but you have to think of them yourself, as opposed to being taught them. Just because you don't know calculus doesn't mean it won't make sense to you.

treegrass ยท 25 points ยท Posted at 00:44:33 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

so theoretically you could learn calculus by reinventing it in a dream. that's some crazy stuff man.

Inthenameofscience ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:17:01 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
SAWK ยท 12 points ยท Posted at 23:55:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Ah, ok I understand that logic. I can fly a plane in my dreams because I know what it's like, from TV and movies, to sit in a pilots seat and look out the window. Not because I know how to fly a plane.

Is there any "situation" that could not be dreamt because the dreamer hadn't learned, saw, experienced the situation in real life?

ggfunnymail ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 02:56:42 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

So this isn't the same as doing something you've never experienced but I have solved a puzzle in a dream I couldn't figure out in real life. I cannot remember the name of the game because it got it on one of those 500(mostly shitty) games disks back in the 90's.

It was some game where you were a yellow circle and moved various types of blocks around with different properties in order to reach some sort of end state. I think you either had to move something into a box or just reach an exit.

Either way I spent about 2 hours trying to figure out this one little part of a level and could not figure it out. I remember my older sister sitting next to me the whole time perplexed by it too. We eventually gave up and went to bed. I had a vivid dream that night of how to solve it. I woke up convinced it wouldn't work and I had forgotten about something in the dream, but tried it never the less. It worked.

machton ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 14:06:16 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

To me, this means you were so preoccupied with this puzzle that your subconscious continued to work on it while your body and conscious mind were sleeping. Essentially, you got a few extra hours of low-level contemplation. Apparently that was all you needed because you came up with a working solution!

The only way this would've worked was if your brain already had all the information it needed. You knew the rules, the position of the blocks, etc. This wouldn't have worked if you needed, say, a password or piece of information you didn't already have. You couldn't have solved the next puzzle unless you took the time to memorize that one, too.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:58:19 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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machton ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:21:40 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

true. It'd be half a miracle if you'd never explored the ideas, but it's certainly possible.

Sounds like this guy had a specific puzzle, though, and he had worked with the pieces enough to know where they started. I imagine something like this game. Mix the initial arrangement around, and you change the puzzle.

Mathematics is a bit of a special case since it is exclusively theoretics, but anything based in the real world (physics, interpersonal interactions, will this or that work) will probably need real world experimentation. At that point, your sleep is great for reorganizing your thoughts and deciding on a next course of action - but I'd say for most things you'd have to see how the real world works before being able to dream up an actual solution.

ggfunnymail ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:40:48 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Right but who is to say that a person would be unable to discover something like calculus in their sleep if they had been trying to solve it while awake. Math is so intrinsic and true to nature it seems like that's the worst thing to argue that you couldn't solve in a dream.

sligowaths ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:44:40 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

if one's mind did not already know calculus, one could not learn it in a dream.

Newton and Leibniz didn't know calculus, someone can be the first to create/learn something.

Lyle91 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 06:16:32 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

But, maybe we could teach ourselves Calculus by creating it ourselves. If you could theoretically live 1 million lives then you could start from what you know about mathematics and then just create the rest of known mathematics just like the people in real life did (like Isaac Newton).

SAWK ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:28:45 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That is some mind blowing shit there. Nice.

lookahere ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 14:49:56 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

As a (failing) song writer, I once dreamed I've discovered a terrific lick.

I woke up and remembered the fingering sequences and tried it in real life on my guitar.

It sounded like crap.

Mintz08 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:02:02 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've had dreams that have genuinely helped me solve a programming problem at work. However, I didn't solve the problem in my dream. Instead, the dream gave me inspiration and served as a launching point that ultimately led to me finding a solution. Those kinds of dreams are cool, and I wouldn't mind having more of them.

That said, I've never had a vivid dream in which I was able to derive a formula. I only learn them after spending lots of conscious time attempting to understand how they work. I know Nikola Tesla had an ability to visualize these kinds of things in his mind consciously, and it's possible that some people may be able to do the same consciously and subconsciously. Looking at this thread, I see a lot of people share these similar experiences where they "live a lifetime" in their sleep, but it only affects everyone on this deep, emotional level. It's not affecting people in a way that allows them to better balance their finances.

I'm not saying it's impossible. But it's definitely not as common as just feeling complex emotions in your dreams.

treegrass ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 00:47:42 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

it may be possible, however, that someone like isaac newton, had he experienced a lifetime within a dream or something, could've invented calculus in his dream and then known it when he woke up. this is all speculation, but given the right existing knowledge and the right circumstances, who's to say he won't live a life as a mathematician in his dream?

Mintz08 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 00:52:44 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Who's to say that we're not part of some other dude's dream, and when he wakes up, he'll have the knowledge of six billion different people in his head?

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:05:34 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I think Reddit would be a close modern replica. :)

surfinfan21 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:24:20 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah I would say that many people do learn things when they are dreaming. For Example Keith Richards dreamt of the famous intro to Satisfaction while asleep and when he woke up he immediately wrote the song. And it would be worth while to look into who ever discovered calculus to see if formulas were discovered while sleeping and such. I wouldn't be surprised

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 01:17:11 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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Mintz08 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 14:06:39 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's scientific fact that sleeping helps you absorb learned information better. When I was younger, I would have to memorize stuff for school (history facts, formulas, etc.). I would spend hours trying to memorize something, and I would struggle to recall it later in the day. However, if I went to sleep and woke up, I'd be able to perfectly recite whatever it is I was trying to memorize while brushing my teeth.

This is why all-nighters before a test are always a bad idea.

RoleTyde ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:26:01 on January 19, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You should give credit to the person who gave you that information about permanently storing information during REM sleep.... aka me.

Mintz08 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:28:17 on January 19, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I think my entire comment above (prefaced with "When I was younger...") pretty much proves that I've known about it for a while, and you just confirmed it.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:47:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm not disagreeing with you, I'm just also curious as to your definite stance that we can't learn anything mathematically whilst dreaming. Explain please?

Mintz08 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:03:08 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I explained it here

Lowercase_Drawer ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 11:01:31 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I know right. I like to read, so my dreams always collapse when I read in the dream. The content of the dream-book can only be stuff I already know, or gibberish.

whatasunnyday ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:42:47 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm not to so sure that's true. I study math and maybe three or four times I've dreamed the problem I was doing the night before and wake up with breakthroughs.

ggfunnymail ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:47:56 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

There are tons of reports of people solving difficult scientific issues in their sleep. Including those involving math. Just because you've never done a proof in your dreams doesn't mean no one else has.

philiac ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:13:09 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

lol, mathmeticians... given the choice they'd rather do arbitrary calculations than... literally anything else possible

Aikarus ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:37:06 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Woa. Thanks. You just totally averted the beginning of my paranoia. Ill go and learn something mathematically new.

Rohri_Calhoun ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:48:14 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What you are describing pretty much happened in the Red Dwarf book "Better Than Life", an excellent read btw for anyone looking for a series to pick up

MonkeyNacho ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:08:25 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The OASIS anyone?

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:22:09 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Can we get a consipiracy Keanu up in here.

DELTATKG ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:30:33 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This thought experiment brought to you by Robert Nozick.

ordinia ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:45:29 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Ha Ha! Actually, I had Nozick in mind when I wrote that.

DELTATKG ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:12:05 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Awesome. Nozick essentially makes utilitarianism a bad moral philosophy to me.

di4chaos ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:58:16 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

"happiness dream" We should create a subreddit of people that have taken a picture of a significant moment in their lives such as an engagement, skydiving for the the first time or even getting their first pokรฉmon card.

TheThomaswastaken ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:34:52 on January 16, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You can;t call it a whole lifetime, because you are trapped within your own knowledge. Can't learn from others experiences.

thebowski ยท 25 points ยท Posted at 00:01:04 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

How was the harvest when you were 51?

LostMyCannon ยท 13 points ยท Posted at 10:14:38 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

I wish I could answer that. I had no concept of being born or of my age at any given date, I just knew I was progressing in years.

I'm assuming you're not an orphan here, but you know how if you think back to the day you met your parents, it's not really there? You just somehow always knew them? That's how I feel about remembering where and when I entered into the dream. I was a young adult in the dream when I have my first memories of the dream and I just progressed from there, sometimes seemingly incredibly quickly, other times I felt as if death would never come, not in a bad way, just in the way that I don't think animals necessarily ponder when their death will come. Or even how many of us, myself included, don't necessarily keep in mind the fact that one day we will no longer exist, and theoretically the world will continue on without us.

I've had a lot of incredibly vivid dreams, huge journey's that lasted for months, sometimes years, and I've never been lucid, never been aware it's a dream; They don't come often, but when I have an intense one, it goes until the moment I wake up and I have trouble differentiating it with reality for a good while. I usually feel it's been real until I'm fully awake, out of bed, and thinking over the fantasy that's been playing out in my head all night. And through all of those, this dream has always troubled me when I ask that exact question. What happened to that world? Is it still continuing on? Is it playing somewhere in my unconscious or was it elsewhere all along? It's a more serious, more real question to me than a cheap oh what if we're in the Matrix?.

So I don't know how the harvest was when I was 51, throughout my middle age though, I had mostly good years with several bad ones. I sold a lot of my crop in a nearby town, which, now that I think about it, I never learned or decided if it had a name. I grew corn and beans and hay, I think it's what my mind recognized from growing up in the rural American Midwest, but I also had grapevines, a garden with way too many vegetables to make sense for the climate and various animals. Food somehow kept in the basement without really going bad in the winter despite the fact that it only stayed cool and dry, never frozen. I didn't have electricity. As far as I knew from the towns I visited there was no electricity, and as myself in the dream, I knew such a thing existed but I didn't question the lack of it.

Sorry that was a long sort of rambling response, your question might have been mostly in jest. I just never really put my thoughts about the dream down anywhere and suddenly I was presented with an outlet. I hope that makes mildly interesting reading material/thought for anyone who looks. I still don't have shit on temptotosssoon though as my mind figured out and at least began to understand throughout the rest of the day what had happened to me without the sudden shock or loss he felt.

edits for some typos, clarity and the like

thebowski ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:08:16 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Thank you very much for the response! I can never remember my dreams (ever, really), so this is very intriguing. I have had an experience with lucid dreaming a few times when I was young, but beyond that, nothing.

soiducked ยท 24 points ยท Posted at 00:11:43 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Do you think, given the tools, that you could run a farm on the basis of your dream memories?

LostMyCannon ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 10:10:40 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm honestly not sure. I'm going to be working on a farm come mid-May, so I suppose I'll see what happens. But I've gotta agree with CellPhoneFlush below me. Despite remembering a lot of what happened, I also remember the dream logic involved.

Oftentimes when I would wander for days from home, I would turn around and somehow only need to walk for a few minutes and I'd be back, even though I'd traversed miles and miles. And when I would arrive back, things that I would have ordinarily needed to do โ€” tending my fields, feeding animals, etc. โ€” would just have been like put on pause, even though time had passed. I understand that just sounds like time warped around me, but that's how my dreams โ€” actually I'm sure everyone's dreams โ€” work. So I know that my mind was fabricating a lot of what would have been necessary to lead a successful life.

soiducked ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 08:15:54 on June 1, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

So how's the farm work going?

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 05:33:27 on July 10, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I want to know too!

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:00:43 on July 28, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

yes

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 08:19:03 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Man, that farm would be terrible and you know it.

soiducked ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:30:37 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

But does he?

sjminervino ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 00:35:49 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Could you write a book please? Because I would totally read about the adventurous farmer version of you.

LostMyCannon ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 10:44:41 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Someday, when I'm finished with school, I'll be finishing a collection of short stories (all written much more meticulously and hopefully a bit more beautifully than the stuff I'm banging out here). And a lot of them are/will be based on dreams, memories, reflections.

And maybe someday I might just write a book that oscillates between a guy who lives a normal life but each night begins a fantastic story in a dream, some broken off as soon as they begin, others that press on for days, months or years.

I get my jollies writing so with any luck I'll ultimately throw something out there for a bit of public viewing.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:44:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

that seem to be a fantastic experience.

23canaries ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:37:29 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

please please please do an AMA on this!!! these type of experiences if true are extraordinarily valuable.

LostMyCannon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 10:39:15 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I sort of threw out some info up above me. I don't know that I'd want to do an AMA, stuff like this just comes out from time to time. I've had multiple dreams that have profoundly influenced who I've become and who I continue to become as a person, dreams that lasted for what seem like unbelievably long periods of time; sometimes they just come out like this and it's fun to reminisce, but I'll let them be drawn out in the future.

So much of what goes into them is obviously constructed from my interactions with the world and my understanding of the world and dream logic that I know they reflect my own lens, through which I view reality, so while they offer interesting insight into how I can better understand myself, they're mostly just entertaining or mildly thought-provoking stories for others.

23canaries ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 14:56:42 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

this is fascinating. let me ask you a question. how honest of a person do you feel you are?

LostMyCannon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:54:38 on January 13, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's odd how just a little bit on anonymity will bring out honesty. I would not always consider myself a very honest person. I've repeatedly used a good understanding of people and a good imagination to lie or half-truth my way into and out of a lot of situations. But it's because there's been some sort of motivation for me to do so.

Ironically, telling you that is actually a revealing a sort of honesty. I would offer Tom Waits' "I'll tell you all my secrets, but I lie about my past" line to summarize how I often feel about myself, though that might not be that helpful because this dream is both a secret and a piece of my past...

But in this case I would say that I feel like quite an honest person, mainly because I have no motivation to lie here, and I enjoy sharing stories.

[deleted] ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 23:27:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

you remembered a past life.

AriesRising19 ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 02:24:28 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Exactly.

iowaboy ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:12:13 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Can you remember specific things from your dream? Like do you know anything about framing now?

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:23:17 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What is reality?

goonbusters ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:27:22 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The power of the brain magnifiscent is it not.

milouhi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:06:35 on April 25, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Do you remember farming and the techniques you used? did you ever bother to see if the things you did in your dreams as a farmer would work in real life?

Skylerguns ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 02:32:34 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Maybe it was a past life?

temptotosssoon ยท 92 points ยท Posted at 23:57:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

at the time every memory was as vivid in m dream but when I "came back" things began to fade quickly, I couldn't remember what job I had or where I worked, I couldn't remember my address (but I think I could sketch the floor plan of the house)... over time I've forgotten my wife's name and what she looked like, as well as forgetting my daughter.

Perhaps because I am a man is why my son made such and impression on me, he was was my own "mini me"

I never married nor have I had children IRL

Real_MikeCleary ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 00:25:31 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

So when you woke up did it seen as if you had been somewhere else for years or like in a dream, it was just a clump of memories?

temptotosssoon ยท 19 points ยท Posted at 00:35:20 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

it felt like I was away for yeas, I had no idea who the people standing around me were even though I was friends and classmates with several, the memories faded fast and I tried to hang on to them to no avail, but that lamp is still crystal fucking clear

Thinks_Like_A_Man ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:21:26 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You should really watch the movie, Family Man.

temptotosssoon ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 04:00:47 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

just finishing it for the 1st time now, good movie, thanks for the recommendation.

Thinks_Like_A_Man ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 04:59:40 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Your story frightens me.

My life is shit, has always been shit and only recently have I accepted that it will probably be shit until I die.

When I was younger, I always was optimistic that things would improve, that something would change and so I held out hope for the future. It has been very difficult to realize that it's been an ongoing pattern and won't change. Ever.

I think I can sum up my life as working extremely hard toward goals that I never can quite achieve, which is usually due to something beyond my control. I am constantly thinking that this is not the way my life is supposed to be and have often wondered if I'm trapped in some negative alternate reality for my life. Even my friends comment on how I always get the short end of the stick. Until recently, I kept digging for that pony, assuming that no one's life could be just one defeat after another.

I am now terrified that I will experience an alternate reality where my life is not spectacular or even overly happy, but one that I am able to have some control over the outcome, to be able to change things, which would make me thrilled and motivated to try -- and that I do this, I am effective and I experience not only success, but self-actualization.

Then I wake up to this life.

I would probably seriously consider suicide.

I can't think of a greater punishment. Someone once innocently asked me how different would my life had been if my parents had been only slightly more attentive about the basics like food, shelter and education and how that one change in attitude would have affected me. I then wondered about changing one event, like if my parents had gotten me eyeglasses when I was child, how that one act would have changed my entire life by simply allowing me to see the board at school, how that would have affected my education, etc. That question made me despair for about a week with the realization of how life could be.

The closest I have come to this feeling was a very long time ago when I landed the job of my dreams. I woke up every day excited and truly loved what I did. I clearly remember thinking that life had FINALLY begun for me, and that all the bad shit was over and things were going to look up. It wasn't a particularly easy job, nor did I make a lot of money, but I was so fucking happy. That lasted for exactly one year and was followed by three of the worst years of my life. Honestly, it would have been better if it would have never happened at all, because now I have something to compare my life to.

If what happened to you happened to me, that would be my own personal form of hell.

temptotosssoon ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 05:41:13 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've been in a state similar to what you describe, I can only advise what worked for me....give away everything you own, go for a walk.

don't get hung up on what you are supposed to do, do what you want to do and spread love to as many as you can while you do it, if you don't know what you want to do, keep walking.

Thinks_Like_A_Man ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:49:54 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Didn't that decision to go for a walk result in you getting hit by a car driven by some asshole? j/k

It's not really a question of understanding who I am, or anything like that. I already do spend a good portion of my time helping others. I have accepted that this life is about something different than being happy and that some of us just have more difficult lives. I know this is the case for me.

I just want to win once in a while. It's not that good things don't happen to me, they do. I believe that many people would consider my life to be very successful and they would be envious of me. I fear I am becoming bitter.

The problem is that it's not what I want and I can't get what I do want. I am not interested in wealth or fame. It's almost like I am living someone else's life or it's a test to see if I will keep striving for what I feel is important. I know of other people who are experiencing the same thing. I just feel like I shouldn't be here. I even have dreams at night about other planets where I have houses and friends, and I am very happy and live a full life. Everything I want to do here comes so easy. Then I wake up and it's so depressing, almost like a veil falling over my eyes.

Oddly, as I get older, it's like the vice grip on my life gets tighter and tighter. I am convinced that if I did finally start winning, I'd probably keel over dead within a year. I just know in my gut I'll never get to enjoy it. No matter how small I make my goals, or how much I am willing to compromise on my wants, I can't have it.

As an example, I've wanted to move away from where I am living and have been working towards that goal for the past three years. I have gone to extreme lengths to make this happen. Every attempt to leave has been thwarted. It's now to the point that I could simply sell everything and just go, but it would destroy two other people's lives in the process -- something I am unwilling to do. It isn't even about money because I don't care about money, but I do care about other people.

It's shit like that.

dankind ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:50:04 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You have an odd view of life... why is it you believe you are constantly losing and what is it you truly want?

I don't want to say there are solutions to everything, but rarely if ever are things as bleak as they seem....

Have you thought about taking these two people are you care about along with you when you move away?

Thinks_Like_A_Man ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:55:11 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, I have. In fact, they have agreed to go with me. But if I walk on my mortgage it destroys not only my credit, but one of the other people. I could just say, "Fuck it" and let them deal with the fallout, but that really isn't an option. The third person doesn't have good credit to begin with and is disabled. While I could easily rebuild my credit, they could not. In the meantime, they would be unable to rent a house due to poor credit and so the solution would be to live with me. They don't want to live where I want to live because they cannot find work there. So moving at this time makes no sense. Ironically, if I stay and keep paying the mortgage, the other two can move and keep their credit, which is likely what will happen.

I am the type of person that does not give up so easily and explores all the options. Trust me, after three years, I have come to accept that I will not be able to move. There are others who have a vested interest in me leaving who cannot find a solution either.

I find it strange you believe my view of life is odd without even knowing me or what I have endured. I am assuming you just don't know anyone who has a shitty life, or you believe that we're ultimately in control of our fate. I am here to tell you that we're in control of nothing. You may think you are steering the ship of your destiny, but it's all an illusion that can be taken away in a moment with one freak accident. It's funny how people believe that they have the knowledge and skills to solve someone's problems* without even knowing what the problem might be*.

Optimism can be a dangerous form of denial.

The moving problem is just an example. There are many others, most are very small on the surface, but combined create my worldview which is that life sucks. I cannot tell you one thing in my adult life that I have truly wanted, pursued, achieved and was able to maintain for any sort of reasonable amount of time. I have had only one year that I can say was truly good and I was happy, even though my goals are modest.

I have come to accept that this is my life, but getting a glimpse of the life I want would be horrendous if I had to remain here.

dankind ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:08:00 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

If you had everything go the way you wanted... what would your life look like 1 year from now? 5 years from now?

Thinks_Like_A_Man ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:02:33 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Damn, I could accomplish a lot.

I would likely be living in a new city, starting a homeless shelter or food bank, be writing for a hobby and spending a lot more time outdoors. My life would be very satisfying, I would think. I wouldn't even need to get everything I wanted, just two or three things.

SpagettSpookedYa ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 07:38:43 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Every time you mention the lamp i get the chills

Skylerguns ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:25:46 on May 4, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You will probably never see or reply to this, but I want to know if you ever saw that lamp again. If you saw it in the real world.

whathefuckisreddit ยท 13 points ยท Posted at 00:26:34 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I know how horrible it might have been after waking up, and how personal it is but I can't help but think that this has to have a meaning. The lamp, the attachment with the kid, the wife... I'm amazed at all of this. I am sorry for the emotional crippling though.

Inthenameofscience ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:13:44 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I find your definition of IRL questionable at best.

whathefuckisreddit ยท 22 points ยท Posted at 22:03:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Please answer this, I'm still wondering.

temptotosssoon ยท 19 points ยท Posted at 23:58:40 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I think I just did

[deleted] ยท 54 points ยท Posted at 19:34:43 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Jeez, that's like Ghost in the Shell, where the antagonist creates false memories in people to get them to do his bidding, but eventually discards those people and leaves them in their damaged state, stuck in reality and longing for the lost, fake lives of their manufactured memories.

Deep stuff.

[deleted] ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 00:46:26 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

There's only a few hopes that they make more of that series. It was a great series to examine human interactions and break apart conscious assumptions.

[deleted] ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 01:43:37 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

While I do adore the tv series (both seasons), I have to humbly admit that the mere fact the original film exists is enough for me. One of the smartest cyberpunk films/stories out there, and cyberpunk is a genre known for smart work.

Farfig_Noogin ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:50:49 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Hmm, will start with the movie and go from there i suppose.

Nacho_Average_Libre ยท 134 points ยท Posted at 20:48:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Do you still have the flute?

iglidante ยท 30 points ยท Posted at 22:29:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
Seicair ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 23:08:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That was beautiful. I listened to it twice. So peaceful and calming.

Thank you, wholeheartedly.

dcsull ยท 24 points ยท Posted at 22:34:51 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You've just tickled my phantom neckbeard.

KillAllTheZombies ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 10:39:12 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

"Phantom neckbeard" is in my vocabulary as of tonight, and that means you have given an incredible gift to at least one person.

HappyMeep ยท 23 points ยท Posted at 23:16:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
heavyrituals ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 00:48:10 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Ctrl + F "Inner Light".

Was not disappoint.

pitabutta ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:28:23 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Thanks dude!

NickTheNewbie ยท 64 points ยท Posted at 22:01:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This better be a TNG joke.

gfixler ยท 14 points ยท Posted at 00:29:59 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Did you know that non-functioning, prop flute sold at Christie's in 2006 for $40,000? Captain Picard's chair only brought in $52,000.

temptotosssoon ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 00:51:27 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

great, now I have to go watch this episode

fwekeeto ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 04:27:55 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I lost it, man. Best comment I read today.

light3000 ยท 736 points ยท Posted at 18:24:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

"when my daughter was two she bore me a son"

Confused the shit out of me.

illepic ยท 52 points ยท Posted at 23:33:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The panda eats, shoots, and leaves.

yougurt87 ยท 161 points ยท Posted at 21:17:45 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Me too, I didn't wanna point it out though, because this guy just poured his heart out...

[deleted] ยท 49 points ยท Posted at 22:05:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

agreed.... what a mind fuck.

[deleted] ยท 29 points ยท Posted at 22:31:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I just chalked it up to the absurdity of dreams.

BroboBear ยท 70 points ยท Posted at 23:12:40 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I thought he meant that when his daughter was two, she (his wife) bore him another child, a son.

skeptical_girl ยท 11 points ยท Posted at 00:35:41 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That makes so much more sense.

[deleted] ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 03:17:25 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

it did.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 09:16:13 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

he dangled a participle.

Drunkturtle ยท 17 points ยท Posted at 23:25:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

These are the times when grammar is really fucking important.

sheislove06 ยท 233 points ยท Posted at 19:22:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I must have read it 8 times before I understood that it wasn't his two year old who had his son 0_0

[deleted] ยท 58 points ยท Posted at 23:28:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was thinking "wouldn't this guy know it wasn't real if his two-year-old was pregnant?"

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:00:23 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oh. I only just figured it out. (Thanks to you.) Hurr durrrr.

[deleted] ยท 28 points ยท Posted at 22:40:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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light3000 ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 23:35:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oh, I eventually got what it meant. It just really threw me off at first.

paniq ยท 68 points ยท Posted at 22:27:38 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Pedobear wondered if this was the part that "living the dream" referred to.

JaronK ยท 11 points ยท Posted at 23:13:43 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm pretty sure that was "when my daughter was two [my wife] bore me a son"

shucksdood ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:56:28 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

... it's a dream, y'know.

drunkendonuts ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:02:27 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Read it again.

I had a great job and my wife didn't have to work outside of the house, when my daughter was two she bore me a son.

I think the comma should have been an "and".

Sookye ยท 19 points ยท Posted at 00:48:10 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Everyone here should read Junji Ito's comic Long Dream: http://www.justmegawatt.com/images/comics/longdream.html (read right to left)

koobaxion ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 06:15:46 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Dear god. Every time I read Junji Ito I know it's going to be the scariest things ever and yet I'm such a sucker for punishment I read it anyway. But dear god, that guy's body... that will haunt me.

hiero_ ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 12:35:15 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Ever read his story The Enigma of Amigara Fault?

NOPE NOPE NOPE NOPE....

koobaxion ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 14:49:04 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've read Gyo, Uzimaki, Amigra Fault, and many other ones. He's a master of his craft.

Shony314 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:56:37 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was going to post this! It was the first thing I thought of after reading temptotosssoon's story. I really love Junji Ito's comics.

MrRushing ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:10:04 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Crazy shit but a good comic. Thanks for the recommendation.

mriparian ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:00:52 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Beautiful.

tasiv ยท 40 points ยท Posted at 20:03:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Wow... sounds like Picard in "The Inner Light" (Star Trek - TNG) Great episode. Not trying to belittle your experience....

pagodahut ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 03:27:14 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Ctrl+f "Inner Light." That was all I could think about while reading this. Then I was sad to learn he woke up and found he was a place much worse than the enterprise.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:25:31 on January 14, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's exactly what I was thinking of this entire story.

veggie_sorry ยท 39 points ยท Posted at 19:01:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

Wow. So do you remember details of that period of time like they were real? For instance, do you remember actually getting married, and mundane things like having a fight with your wife or being there in the delivery room? Or was it all super compressed with no real details?

So curious.

EDIT: I meant "mundane things like having a fight with your wife, or (as in separately) being there in the delivery room?" For the record, I do not consider the birth of someone's child to be a mundane detail especially to the parents.

temptotosssoon ยท 27 points ยท Posted at 00:00:54 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

at the time i remembered all the details, also there was no tech more advanced than a telephone and a shitty B&W TV in the house, my memories seemed out the 1960s/70s. My family was white, I don't know what language we spoke, I remember my wife's favorite yellow apron, the lamp is something that still shows up in my art work

end3rthe3rd ยท 40 points ยท Posted at 00:10:32 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I am really fascinated by this artwork of the lamp. Any chance you can post it?

HotPikachuSex ยท 40 points ยท Posted at 03:17:46 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Are you sure you want to look at it?

[deleted] ยท 22 points ยท Posted at 04:16:34 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This whole thread is freaking me the fuck out.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:59:17 on June 1, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

I hope you remember what you dreamt when you wake up and read this. It will change everything.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 14:22:13 on June 1, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Can't tell if very elaborate troll...

Or... well, I don't know what the alternative is.

Either way, you were quite successful at freaking me the fuck out when I read it.

paaty ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 07:48:46 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This actually scared the fuck out of me.

datdercrappyusername ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 07:29:14 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I need to see this art work !!!!

MonkeyNacho ยท 12 points ยท Posted at 01:12:57 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I know everyone is Atheist here, but man, this is so eerily reminiscent of stories I've heard about people who think they've lived past lives.

ggfunnymail ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 03:43:56 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I don't think past lives and Atheism really clash directly. Reincarnation by a deity perhaps...

Lyle91 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 06:24:11 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I am an atheist, and this seems like it might be some sort of natural explanation for reincarnation. Imagine an ancient person that has no idea about how the brain works and likes to give everything supernatural explanations having a dream like this. They'd automatically think they really had lived this life before.

pwnedbywaffle ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:44:46 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was thinking this as well. A good friend of mine is really into the reincarnation thing, maybe I will show this to him.

Aaaaaagh ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:38:24 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Do you know approximately where you were living?

temptotosssoon ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 05:01:12 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I posted to another comment that I cannot remember any tech in the house, only a rotary wall phone and a black and white TV, the lamp was gaudy and tacky reminiscent of the home furnishings from Sears in the 1960's. I don't remember anything that was going o outside of the family, news, politics and the like. As best I can gather it was modern day for Goodwill consumers in the 1990's or modern day for middle class folks in the late 1960's or early 1970's. All of that opinion is based off the lamp, which did not exist.

Aaaaaagh ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:59:12 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I meant like, in the world. Location-wise. Sorry if that was not clear. I assume America, but was wondering if you could be more specific. Just curious.

temptotosssoon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:09:20 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I don't really know, everything seemed normal to one raised in modern western culture.

Aaaaaagh ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:15:10 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Hmm. What was the weather like?

Sorry if I'm bothering you, I'm genuinely just curious.

CieraSky ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:00:34 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I wouldn't quite call a visit to the delivery room as mundane, but I myself was wondering if OP remembered things such as vists to the grocery store.

DFP_ ยท 183 points ยท Posted at 18:09:41 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I don't even think this is possible but it's such a good story I upvoted it anyways. You should do an AMA if legit.

sonQUAALUDE ยท 17 points ยท Posted at 23:20:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

im surprised that 51 people dont think this is possible. you have never had vivid, time-dilation dreams? im sure everybody's subjective experience is a bit different, but every time i sleep with a fever I get dreams that seem to last months that leave that "deep personal connection" with persons or events when I wake up, so this doesnt seem remotely exaggerated to me. I just usually forget my dreams over coffee and toast!

[deleted] ยท 37 points ยท Posted at 23:26:26 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have woken up in love with people in dreams then I spend the whole day sad and feeling depressed because I lost that emotional connection. Like breaking up with someone that doesn't even exist.

It happens.

People make fun of me when I mention this but you can't tell me how I should be feeling. I know how I feel and that's it.

temptotosssoon ยท 17 points ยท Posted at 00:47:18 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

people make fun of things that scare them

temptotosssoon ยท 29 points ยท Posted at 00:49:28 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

several commenter have asked for an ama, however it would be impossible to prove that I had said dream, I could prove that the injuries happened, I might even have the few images of my face in a backup somewhere, but I think it would be a boring AMA and without prof just another innernets tale

pib712 ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 02:52:20 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

If you can't produce six ID cards, passports from two different countries, a library card, three signed doctors notes, two Polaroids, and the results of a brain scan proving this all happened, IAmA doesn't want to know.

temptotosssoon ยท 11 points ยท Posted at 03:38:00 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

and that is exactly why I haven't taken up the request for an AMA

Inflorescence ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 08:00:20 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You lived 10 years of your life in a dream? Sorry, but that's like the least boring AMA ever. I'm sure IAMA would be lenient enough on you to allow you to hold one. You're front-paged now; you kind of have to. Reddit law and all.

fraubot ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:05:08 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Then can you show us some of your art?

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:15:21 on January 14, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I think it could very well be the most interesting AMA I've ever read.. As this is one of the most interesting stories I've ever read.

VulpesAbnocto ยท 52 points ยท Posted at 19:06:06 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Completely agreed on the AMA portion.

king_of_chardonnay ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 03:24:34 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

completely agreed on the "don't think this is possible" portion.

VulpesAbnocto ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 03:34:26 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The human mind is a deep and yawning chasm whose depths we have not even begun to fully explore. While I'm skeptical of the claim, I'm not ready to rule it out entirely. But to each their own.

quantomicAnt ยท 13 points ยท Posted at 22:42:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I would really like to see an AMA for this too.

23canaries ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 00:36:11 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

technically to a few western models of the brain and consciousness, this is COMPLETELY impossible, which makes his experience if true extraordinarily valuable but we must be highly skeptical of it none the less

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 14:30:14 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

a few

Well then those few are fucking wrong.

23canaries ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 14:55:11 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I agree that those models are very flawed, but my belief is grounded in experience and not a objective study. Objective studies detailing enriched conscious states are valuable.

Kylethedarkn ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 22:39:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's not completely impossible. I know I've had in depth dreams like this before. Entire worlds and peoples created for the sake of a good surrounding in my dream.

[deleted] ยท 216 points ยท Posted at 17:30:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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Flipperbw ยท 96 points ยท Posted at 19:55:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Same. It's tough to explain that or have that debate with people, because it's very easy and common for them to shut you down with "So you want to live a fake life? Even if it's tough, I want to live in the real world!"

I'm not convinced either way, yet. If you had a perpetual happiness machine that put you in ultimate bliss forever, would that be better than living in the "real" world and suffering? Further, if we ever got to that point of humanity where this were fully technologically feasible, would it be "right" to basically say "okay, humanity's done. go into your happy pods and have a perfect life."

I don't know that that's so wrong, really.

auApex ยท 21 points ยท Posted at 22:16:26 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

If there were some sort of technology that induced a fake but seemingly real reality where you could live in perpetual bliss, I would utilise it in a heart beat.

I think it's only a matter of time before something like this is created. We already have incredible devices that can manipulate perception such as the brain pacemaker, which can stimulate parts of the brain with electrodes to create 'fake' happiness, thereby curing major depression forever. I think devices like this will be developed to create augmented realities and then it's inevitable that a 'dream machine' will be invented.

Sadly, I don't think this technology will be made widely available in my lifetime.

paniq ยท 30 points ยท Posted at 22:38:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Coincidentally, there was a Star Trek movie about this subject, just as there was an episode that dealt with the idea of an entire life lived in a few seconds. The episode is better than the movie.

kleinergruenerkaktus ยท 22 points ยท Posted at 23:05:30 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I really love this episode. What I especially liked was, that Picard learned to play the flute in this dream of a different life and is still playing it some episodes later. So his dream not only had an emotional impact on his real life, but became a part of it.

GypsyEyes6 ยท 12 points ยท Posted at 23:47:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's so interesting. Its happened to me in real life (not to the extent of learning how to play the flute) but I used to teach myself biology while I was dreaming. Somehow my brain would combine class lectures and a dream and I would wake up knowing all of the steps in DNA, RNA and Protein synthesis where I had not the night before.

Canadian_Infidel ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:36:17 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Lately researchers have been looking at the link between learning and memory.

royisabau5 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:36:17 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Like a boss

lolsai ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:25:06 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

man, that's really fucking cool. if we ever have the technology to do something like that and it works somewhat like that (being able to remember everything of the life you were in, although it was only 2 seconds of "real life")...imagine how much knowledge people could gather.

aaaaaaaahhhhhhh whoa.

kleinergruenerkaktus ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 01:38:38 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Really, watch the episode. Just imagine how hard it would be to live a whole life with wife and kids, working and studying and then you just wake up. You're back in the life you've left 50 years ago and lost everything you worked for in the dream, except your experience. When you look into Picards eyes as he wakes up, you can see that at this very moment he is broken man. It is the very emotions which kept on haunting temptotosssoon after his dream life.

Sure, the possibilities of compressing time by dreaming seem awe-inspiring. But thinking about the consequences, I wouldn't dare to live in there for too long.

lolsai ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:40:14 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

now that one made me think. perhaps i shall watch the episode.

thanks.

lolsai ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:03:28 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

on another note, if you had that technology, you could use it for the sole purpose of having a life with nothing but lab equipment/books/technology/whatever other shit you wanted and not really develop any outside relationships. who knows. i guess we'll have to wait and see. :)

kleinergruenerkaktus ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:08:24 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, what I really need is another life to be forever alone ಠ_ಠ

lolsai ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 02:27:01 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

LOL. Oh come on, you know we're all your friends here! :D

GloriousPeanut ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 08:33:05 on May 4, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've had music come to me in dreams... it's really cool and seems to come straight from the undiluted source of pure expression, before it's limited by conventions, inhibitions, and other contrivances of the conscious mind.

drraoulduke ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:36:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

If anyone is at all interested in this whole concept of telescoped time, or salvia trips, or anything along these lines do yourself a favor and watch that TNG episode.

Bizpad ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:01:04 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes! I came here to mention that episode, it was really excellent.

AmericanIdolator ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:57:46 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Reminds me of Dark City where Dr. Schreber is able to 'teach' John Murdoch how to use tuning.

ggfunnymail ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:09:01 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

HOW is that the ONLY episode NOT on ice films? WTF.

DrMightyQuinn ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:47:56 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have seen exactly one episode of Star Trek, and it was this one. The OP's question made me immediately think of it.

[deleted] ยท 10 points ยท Posted at 23:55:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

If anyone is interested in this 'dream machine' concept but with dire consequences, The Lathe of Heaven is a great read. It is by Ursula K. Le Guin.

farmland ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:08:30 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

If a machine like this did exist, I would elect to stay part of the real world. So I can save everyone from the robots

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:08:59 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The Matrix you say?

greentoof ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 21:54:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

YES there is someone else. I've always had this opinion and i got it from dreams like temptotosssoon's, probably nowhere near the length of his, but my in said dreams i get all the knowledge i need to make it feel real. I don't remember dreaming the specifics, like how i got that job and that life, but i remember having them. My mind doesn't trick me into believing it just MADE me believe. The world your in is made by your subconscious and you truly want to live in it but you can't. Lucid dreams can be amazing thing, but seeing how large your imagination truly is can make waking up very depressing.

clickmyface ยท 43 points ยท Posted at 22:00:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well I would just like to point out that, like with drugs, he eventually came fixated on that lamp, realized it wasn't real, and then the whole world blew up. I'm not sure that anyone who does drugs lives in "ultimate bliss forever." The reality the druggie faces when they come out of it is often worse than had they never left in the first place.

Treelociraptor ยท 41 points ยท Posted at 22:50:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's perfectly possible to use drugs without making it a replacement for your life. You seem to be implying that everyone who uses drugs uses them as an escape from their reality, which is highlighted by your use of the condescending term "druggie".

Some people simply use drugs recreationally, not as an escape.

bollvirtuoso ยท 27 points ยท Posted at 23:24:06 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I see you're not of the school which suggests all entertainment is escapism.

Treelociraptor ยท 24 points ยท Posted at 23:28:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

In that case, what isn't escapism? Given this school of thought, is the ideal life one of nothing but work?

bollvirtuoso ยท 26 points ยท Posted at 23:44:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

Well, by postulating that such a thing as an escape even exists, and that it is somehow different from recreation, you're positing that there are two forms of entertainment. Most of us probably recognize this in the divide between literary and mass-market fiction, or arthouse and blockbuster cinema. But, at their core, both are seeking to entertain and both are an escape, as they are a vision of reality, but not reality itself, and I think I've only seen one movie where I honestly felt its purpose was to bore its audience. I have since forgotten that film.

is the ideal life one of nothing but work?

This is introducing a moral judgement where there doesn't have to be one. I don't believe there's anything inherently wrong with escapism. From telling stories by the campfire to Bruegel's triptychs, humankind has always sought amusements. The separation seems to fall with either the perceived meaning or intention of the work. A creation for the sole purpose of monetary gain is more likely to be labeled escapist than one which is not. Does that make it less valuable or worthy?

Ultimately, escapism using drugs or alcohol create a reality that we recognize as false, as one that is not an accurate picture of how things are. This is probably the same truth in art mirroring real life, where the hero doesn't always get the girl, or even get to live, that sometimes bad guys win, and so on. All the "artsy" plots are usually some inversion of the archetype. It's a reaction to the established order, but that means non-escapism is still based on escapism. Seeing as both are just different interpretations of the same reality, can it be said that there even exists such a divide?

That is the thrust of my argument. I'm not suggesting that escapism shouldn't exist, or that the purpose of life is work. I'm just saying that to cleave entertainment, in all its forms, is perhaps not a fair assessment. If you get high to laugh, or you get high to write music, is it still not based on the same desire for escape? And what's wrong with that?

Just some thoughts, not very well-organized.

Treelociraptor ยท 17 points ยท Posted at 00:01:01 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Ah, I understand what your point now. My interpretation of "escapism" was as a total escape. I tend to view everything up to the point where escapism becomes harmful as "recreation," and after that point I refer to it as "escapism".

Take drinking as an example:

I tend to interpret recreational drinking as something that one has control over, and "escapism" as a relatively uncontrolled desire to distance oneself from reality. Basically, to me, the difference between recreation and escapism is the difference between using an activity to help one alleviate stress versus using it in place of facing one's issues.

Using your non-extreme (and I do realize my previous interpretation was extreme) definition of escapism, I do agree that entertainment is, by its nature, escapism.

The point that I was trying to debate clickmyface on is that he was interpreting drug use in general as this extreme form of escapism.

Thanks for the explanation, it was quite helpful.

bollvirtuoso ยท 15 points ยท Posted at 00:08:44 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Thanks for the good conversation.

Shambot ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:51:01 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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ggfunnymail ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:15:34 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I like reddit. Even within a single comment thread the retards have their conversations else ware from decent ones like this.

Shamyrack ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:56:24 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Truly, to see constructive discussion that ends with "Thanks for the good conversation" instead of trolling is mindbogglingly rare on the internet

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:29:48 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

As I say on so many Reddit threads these days, welcome to capitalism.

Qahrahm ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:46:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What is wrong with escapism? You seem to be implying that it is a bad thing?

Treelociraptor ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:03:52 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was (as I further explain in my reply to bollvirtuoso) interpreting escapism as its unhealthy extreme. Recreation is escapism, yes. However the reality-ignoring version escapism is what I was arguing against.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:34:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Is it not? Give me an example.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:52:22 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Who says drugs are just for entertainment?

Levitheguy ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 22:43:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

In my experience, it was the comparisons that I could make between the two that eventually inspired me to quit using. With drugs, you're just overclocking your brain's limited natural resources to attain instant gratification. With dreams, my body freely expressed itself. I like to look at it like a scrambled up metaphor on what I understand and/or want in life. My ultimate conclusion after a couple of years was that I was selling myself short later in life. So I quit most everything. I drink and puff herb in moderation still, but I like to think I deserve that in lieu of the more destructive habits I abandoned.

cuppincayk ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 22:32:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This is why I've never allowed myself to try drugs. My friend related this to me and I just didn't want to feel that.

GregLoire ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 23:35:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Which drugs? Are you shunning caffeine and aspirin? Most of them won't ruin your life, including the illegal ones.

cuppincayk ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:39:43 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Thanks for deciding to make a wide misinterpretation of my obvious subject matter :)

EDIT: Also, to be fair, both caffeine and aspirin ruin my life

GregLoire ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:57:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, but you can try things like cannabis, LSD, mushrooms and DMT without some dramatic scenario where you awaken to a tragically shattered life as if you were a long-time heroin addict.

Carl Sagan has praised cannabis and Steve Jobs has praised LSD. There is a wide range of recreational drug use, and they don't all look like Requiem for a Dream.

cuppincayk ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:05:52 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I think you're misinterpreting what I meant. Doing drugs gives you an experience that you don't get in normal life, which can make normal life boring.

GregLoire ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:55:00 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You're right, I did. Sorry!

dongasaurus ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:01:42 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

But drugs are a part of normal life, and the experience can give you a different perspective on life. Different perspective doesn't mean boring, often it can mean a richer and more interesting life, depending on who you are individually.

cuppincayk ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:13:26 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well tbh I wouldn't be able to use them so I won't ever be able to speak from experience. Too many psychological issues

dongasaurus ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:18:39 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Fair enough, its definitely not for everybody.

cuppincayk ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:32:48 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Haha I have panic attacks with just laughing gas. It's ridiculous

ggfunnymail ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:29:55 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Something to consider; Habitual drug use is what this person is talking about. Or if it isn't it's because they've never used anything and it should be what they are referring to.

No one ever thinks their world is real the first time they are on drugs. They know they are on drugs and that the experience is not reality. It's the habituation of always looking at it through drugged eyes that produce this blurring of reality.

The temporary change in mind state provided by RESPONSIBLE drug use is very healthy. It can help you realize that the way you look at the lamp when you are sober is absurd. The healthy aspect of this comes when you are sober and able to contrast sober and drugged thought.

Educate yourself before you scare yourself. www.erowid.org Not all drugs are created equal. And knowing what you're getting into is the most important step in staying safe while under.

Qaaj ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:41:10 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

"Erowid - Check yourself before you wreck yourself"

shutdownMPLS ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 22:17:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

[obligatory matrix quote]

[deleted] ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 22:22:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Why, oh why, didn't I take the blue pill?

(Lazy.)

paniq ยท 15 points ยท Posted at 22:33:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Too bad grandpa, now you're lying in bed with a gorgeous blonde and a floppy dick.

Zosimas ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 22:45:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

If you had a perpetual happiness machine that put you in ultimate bliss forever, would that be better than living in the "real" world and suffering?

Isn't this called salvation in christianity?

slaizer ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:38:13 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This is exactly why The Matrix was a really good movie.

Combustibutt ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 09:27:32 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This argument (rationale?) is why as I grew up, I began questioning my view of The Matrix. When I first saw it I cheered on the rebels and hated the oppressive machine regime but nowadays I seem to notice the latter parts of the movie, where everyone in the "real world" is fairly damn unhappy. And Cypher, who was always the stereotypical one-dimensional bad guy to me, became a lot more relatable. (fuck you spellcheck, relatable is a word)

The original setup, with humans living fake but otherwise completely ordinary lives, and machines using them as food when they died, actually seems like a win-win scenario to me.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 14:06:10 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah its not wrong at all that would be ideal.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:37:35 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I want to live as many different lives as possible. "Fake" ones included.

Jellyjamcakeinapan ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 01:57:01 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well the real question is how do you know that there is such thing as reality, I mean whats not to say you could find that lamp and then wake up in another world to realize that everything before that was just a dream. What is the proof of reality because you can have the same kind of feelings in a dream, and you can't say you don't have senses because you very much so do in a dream... So seriously what is the difference between a vivid dream such as this story and what we see as real life because I want to know.

temptotosssoon ยท 11 points ยท Posted at 00:44:30 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

gosh I didn't mean to make anyone cry!

IMHO life is much better living sober, I spent a good amount of time drunk while recovering and that didn't help the depression much

Creativity- ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:50:53 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This might interests you : http://plato.stanford.edu/entries/perception-problem/

Can we really call real life what it is ? I doubt it sometimes.

Deadmirth ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:06:50 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:14:01 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Try some magic mushrooms.

lemonpjb ยท -3 points ยท Posted at 03:48:06 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That made you cry? What? Are you serious?

marasamune ยท 13 points ยท Posted at 20:32:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

"I am too real! I have a wife and kids!" "What are their names?"

Vanilla Sky owned.

pwnedbywaffle ยท 19 points ยท Posted at 18:28:41 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's very interesting. How long were you unconscious in reality? Also, did you every talk to anyone about it (professional or otherwise)? Did that experience affect your grip on reality?

temptotosssoon ยท 25 points ยท Posted at 00:08:01 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was out for about 15 min, then took about 5 min to come around, memory didn't start logging correctly again untill the cop was walking/dragging me to his car, I guess I stood up on my own.

this is the first time I have ever talked/written about it, it was about 10 years ago.

yes it fucks with my concept of reality.... is this the real life, is this just fantasy..

Sargamesh ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 00:30:04 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I can assure you this is real life. Well my reality at least....

SaabiMeister ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 00:42:40 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Actually, it's my reality..

ray_quazawski ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:55:13 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Actually, It's your fake reality, now wake up.

coldvault ยท 10 points ยท Posted at 00:25:25 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Caught in a landslide with no escape from reality!

BellaGoBoom ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:42:33 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Open your eyes, look up to the skies and seeeee...

djspacebunny ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 04:07:28 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No. Stop this right now.

devedander ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 18:40:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Why wasnt this just a novelty account trickinng us into reading a story about inception?

jubjub2184 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:14:38 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This idea of a dream inside of a dream has been around WAAAAAAAAAAYYY before Inception and the Matrix, I'm talking about damn what was it called..idcr right now, but it was at least a few hundred years ago, and a man had a dream that he was a butterfly. When he awoke in his human body, he wasn't sure if he was the human who dreamed he was a butterfly, or the butterfly that dreamed he is a human.

Gliffie ยท 17 points ยท Posted at 18:56:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Reminds me of Inception, only depressing

paniq ยท 15 points ยท Posted at 22:42:41 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's how I'm going to pitch any future movie of mine. "It's like Star Trek, only depressing!"

[deleted] ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 22:14:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

There's an episode of Star Trek: TNG in which a Picard lives an an entire alternate lifetime in a very short period of time... this story reminded me of that episode.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:28:43 on January 14, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The Inner Light

nappy_moose_nuts ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 02:32:00 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

"And you may ask yourself, How do I work this? And you may ask yourself, Where is that large automobile? And you may tell yourself, This is not my beautiful house! And you may tell yourself, This is not my beautiful wife! Letting the days go by - let the water hold me down, Letting the days go by - water flowing underground, Into the blue again - after the money's gone, Once in a lifetime - water flowing underground.

Same as it ever was...Same as it ever was...Same as it ever was... Same as it ever was...Same as it ever was...Same as it ever was... Same as it ever was...Same as it ever was..."

[deleted] ยท 27 points ยท Posted at 17:28:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Intense. Reminds me of a salvia trip I took once - the bit about seeing one bit that was not quite right...fixating, until the epiphany, and eventual return (to this time for me, as I had traveled back to my childhood). Weird.

[deleted] ยท 13 points ยท Posted at 22:29:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

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[deleted] ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 23:22:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oh, I went to a similar place full of pink clouds on salvia, where the great being/caretaker was going to send me on some kind of long term courier mission. Then I came back to reality and realized I'd drooled on myself.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 10:30:54 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a very similar experience on salvia. It was frightening to me, however.

[deleted] ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 22:05:20 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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[deleted] ยท 23 points ยท Posted at 22:23:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have never done any drugs

Well, sir, evidently you have.

richardcox ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 22:32:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Salvia can be SO intense. But if you have done salvia what do you mean by saying you have never done drugs? Just because its legal doesn't mean its not a drug

DrugAccountHELLOFBI ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 03:20:51 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

As someone who's taken a few more drugs than salvia, I still consider salvia to be the most powerful drug I have ever had in terms of the intensity of hallucinations. It also has had no lasting negative psychological impact on me (a little different than shrooms--I had to wrestle my friend from driving his car while he was tripping, and this put a bit of a damper on my trip which resulted in a lasting negative attitude about him and almost everyone that took me awhile to shake off...weeks, really. Maybe months), which is good and bad. It's always made me appreciate reality a lot more and even prefer sobriety for a few days afterward at times.

folded ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:22:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

So what happened? I've tried it and enjoyed it, but realize others can have horrible experiences.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:15:02 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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folded ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:27:03 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Thanks for explaining.

My friend also had a negative "melding" experience. He became a tree and missed his parents.

KFitz ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:46:32 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Just because it was legal doesn't make it less potent. Like anything else, people react to it differently. A bunch of my friends tried it and all but one had a positive experience... but that one had a pretty fucked up time. He described his experience as becoming a yellow line and life was a blue line and they slowly diverged until was alone in darkness, just a yellow line going on forever. He basically just sat there shaking liking he was naked at the north poll for about 5 minutes. Apparently to him it seemed like a much longer time. It was pretty scary to watch.

Waffleradio ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:52:52 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Nope salvia is pretty fucking crazy at times.

ggfunnymail ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:48:20 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was reincarnated as an inanimate object on an assembly line once on salvia. Coming back to reality and realizing that that didn't happen and trying to figure out what I had just experienced was the weirdest 10 minuets of my life.

Hate_the_One_Percent ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:17:26 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Salvia is terrifying, always feels like its trying to show you that your sober reality isn't actually real.

HAYHAY22 ยท 66 points ยท Posted at 16:13:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

start living life again maybe that was your future not a dream. still sorry though:(

staffell ยท 14 points ยท Posted at 22:06:03 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

If it turns out to be his future, then I don't want to know.

[deleted] ยท 10 points ยท Posted at 23:17:06 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 14:06:58 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I just had major deja vu which adds to the complexity of the mind fuck I was already experiencing.

Kratoyd ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 22:57:25 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Dream based deja vu, which I as a rational person swear that I have... But ten years. That would be painfully infuriating, knowing what's going to happen next... Or after 10 years, screaming realizing it was all a recreation.

Someone call James Cameron, this needs blue aliens and the Titanic.

rken ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 03:10:05 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's pretty close to the plot of Timequake by Kurt Vonnegut.

Kratoyd ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:41:42 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I may need to give that a read.

Supertrinko ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:17:25 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

He meets that women, falls in love instantly, finds the house of his dreams, has two kids.

But one day, his wife buys the lamp.

[deleted] ยท 14 points ยท Posted at 19:06:06 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I know that feeling, having kids and they weren't real. I did NOT suffer as much as you did though. I'm sorry you had to go through that.

How do you feel watching that episode of Star Trek, the one where Picard goes through the same thing. The doctor on Voyager does too, sort of.

temptotosssoon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:08:25 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

haven't seen either, adding that to the que too

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:43:15 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

For the Voyager one, if it helps you find it, the doctor creates a family for himself I THINK in the holodeck, and at least obviously in the computer.

ggfunnymail ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:53:47 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Any idea about the name or production code of the episode?

BoilerButtSlut ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 06:19:49 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

TNG: The Inner Light

djspacebunny ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:08:35 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Season 5, episode 25

EDIT: TNG

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:50:01 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

Did some googling...

Enterprise Episode: Kamin and the Ressikan Probe

Voyager Episode: Real Life

The voyager one is basically where the doctor makes his own family, so it's not quite a dream.

fall_ark ยท 38 points ยท Posted at 23:19:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

TL;DR

THE LAMP

IS A LIE.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:10:59 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I love you

invincibleme ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:55:41 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The Lamp; Didn't Real.

BAMF_boy ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:41:11 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I love lamp.

Harachel ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:20:31 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No, the lamp was the truth among a whole world of lies.

titan3 ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 08:32:16 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

BEST STORY EVER! ... I feel for you, I really do when I was about 15(now I'm 24), 2 weeks after coming close to death in the hospital from an allergic reaction to one of the drugs they were giving me to treat severe pneumonia I had a dream that spanned over what seemed to be 30-40 years, My dream self was 50, I was married , had kids, grew old and actually died of old age (and let me just tell you that the whole thing did actually feel/seem like eternity)... and then I woke up... back at my age of 15 feeling like the happiest person alive... it's like I time-traveld and got my youth back... Thanks for posting openly about this

jiekaii ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:18:48 on January 13, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Reminds me of that movie Click, with Adam Sandler..

theicecapsaremelting ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 13:12:24 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This is not my beautiful house! This is not my beautiful wife!

Sonorous_Epithet ยท 27 points ยท Posted at 17:59:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Nice try, Charlie Kaufman

dietaryfiber0 ยท 13 points ยท Posted at 00:24:50 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

And you may tell yourself, "this is not my beautiful house!" And you may tell yourself, "this is not my beautiful wife!"

Same as it ever was. Same as it ever was.

99trumpets ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:05:49 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

There is water at the bottom of the ocean

Zweihander01 ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 18:42:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

"In my dreams, she's still alive."

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:32:12 on January 13, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

In my dreams you're alive and you're crying
As your mouth moves in mine, soft and sweet.

Kai_Daigoji ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 06:10:20 on June 1, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

And now I'm tearing up a little. That album, plus this story...

entmike ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 18:09:46 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's really depressing and messed up. Guess I can say sorry for your loss even if it was never real?

Mumberthrax ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 21:04:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It was real to him, just not to most everyone else.

CarcassLizard ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 19:32:39 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What happenedto you sounds alot like a story arc in the TV series My Name is Earl. He is hit by a car and lives an entire life while in a coma, only to wale up and deal with the depression it wasnt real. Its so strange human sub conscious projects similar experiences to so many different people. Not to diminish what happened to you, or call it fake, just to highlight the coincidence!

coricron ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 21:17:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

There is another show with a similar premise called The Odyssey.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Odyssey_%28TV_series%29

bearded ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 22:17:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Life on Mars is also kind of like this. Underrated show.

cuppincayk ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:34:39 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The US version was an absolute piece of shit

CarcassLizard ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 00:13:15 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What was it originally? BBC?

cuppincayk ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:37:33 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah. John Simm plays the main character (the guy who plays the Master in the new Doctor Who)

CarcassLizard ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 01:02:50 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I liked him in that role a lot (only thing I've seen him in though). Ill give the original Life on Mars a look!

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:08:25 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
cuppincayk ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 22:35:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Wait is that the whole story of the show? I'm gonna be pissed if you spoiled it for me

waldron76 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 23:38:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Just checked Wikipedia - it isn't. It's the plot of 5 episodes, though.

CarcassLizard ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:12:41 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yea, basically what I said here. Definitely worth a watch, at least a few episodes! Especially if you enjoyed Jason Lee when he was in any Kevin Smith movies.

AuntieSocial ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:41:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Also, an episode of ST: TNG

gfixler ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 00:28:33 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

"an episode"

An episode voted in the top 5 (out of 178 aired over its 7-year run) by viewers polled during the build-up to the premiere of the final episode. An episode featuring a small, non-functioning prop flute, which sold at Christie's in 2006 for $40,000, pulling in nearly as much as Captain Picard's chair itself ($52,000).

Nice understatement, though.

AuntieSocial ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:04:11 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's always been my favorite episode. So deep. Could've almost been a movie in and of itself.

gfixler ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 07:16:26 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've always been amazed by how much like a movie it seemed. It felt like it was twice as long as its actual running time. So little happens - mostly it's family drama and attempts to revive the captain - yet few episodes have left me pondering life, the universe, and everything like that one did. I always liked Star Trek best when it made my mind keep doing things long after the episode ended.

AuntieSocial ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:13:00 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Hell, that episode is still making my brain do shit today.

virusporn ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:20:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Woah. I lost interest in my name is earl. That's how it ended?

CarcassLizard ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:08:24 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oh no, It was just arc in season three, everything related to to his coma life was resolved by the end of the season. The series was cancelled somewhat abruptly, during the middle of the two part season finale of season 4.

tobionly ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 21:11:14 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

wow, sounds like a Philip K Dick novel

dominic-cobb ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 23:05:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Nice try, Christopher Nolan.

Rosatryne ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 04:03:47 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

As someone who has reasonably regular lucid dreams, I feel for you in terms of how intensely real such 'other lives' can be... Your story really makes me wonder, though. All those times that I've nearly tripped down the stairs just to catch myself, or caught myself zoning out driving... Could those just be times where I actually did fall, or crash, and my knocked-out brain is filling in the gaps? How many 'near misses' have I had, how many of them just knocked me one level deeper into my brain?

I've had an experience which I can only briefly describe as a near-death experience, and since then I've never really been sure whether or not I just died right then and there, and I've been dreaming ever since. Hell, it could be the other way around. Man, sleeping is gonna be weird tonight.

edit: formatting

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 15:57:58 on January 13, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've never really been sure whether or not I just died right then and there, and I've been dreaming ever since.

I find myself thinking this way more and more often. It feels excellent.

rednaxx3 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:04:07 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Details bro details! Im insanely intersted in this shit as i have had some experiences in the past where i realize im dreaming and can manipulate things in my dream world at will.

I feel like we need to study dreams a LOT more because there is so much that can be learned from them.

Rosatryne ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:02:09 on January 15, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Of said NDE?

cdthedrummer ยท 52 points ยท Posted at 20:04:18 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

So it's safe to say... ::puts on sunglasses:: you'll never meet the girl of your dreams...

MrRonery ยท 31 points ยท Posted at 22:57:46 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

To soon..

royisabau5 ยท 35 points ยท Posted at 00:40:41 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

..Or not to soon? That is the question

dimsen ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 02:35:55 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The real question is why both of you redditors made the same grammatical error. ಠ_ಠ

[deleted] ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 03:13:35 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Pretend that "soon" is a verb, think about hamlet, and you'll see what Royisbau5 did.

dimsen ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 03:17:12 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Ohhhhhh. My bad.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:35:11 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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[deleted] ยท -2 points ยท Posted at 02:39:04 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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dimsen ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:24:31 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Hey man, no need to be a dick.

temptotosssoon ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 00:01:13 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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Fath0m ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 22:55:06 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When pleasure was, in dreaming, sure I had a dream of love so pure That angels shout when whispers sang Into the air, then voices rang To shout out their, "I love you" And that was when I, dreaming, knew That in all the world there will never be Another love as yours for me. But I awoke and in sorrow found No traces of you were still around And remembering the dream before I closed my eyes to dream once more.

temptotosssoon ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:58:52 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

[citation needed]

Fath0m ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:05:01 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Unknown as far as my google-fu can tell.

temptotosssoon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:36:25 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

that's because I have never told this story before, and the incident that cause the dream was never reported so new coverage, police report or records at the school

Fath0m ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:11:03 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was talking about the citation for the poem.....

temptotosssoon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:29:01 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

goddamnit.. I guess that's what the 'context' link is for.

ra33it ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 23:25:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have had several concussions. While I was unconscious the last go around, I "dreamt" that a significant amount of time had passed, I was married ( to my real live current girlfriend) in the future. It was extremely confusing when I woke up. I vaguely recall driving somewhere, in a convertible, and being very happy. I was unconscious for a small period of time, but significantly greater amounts of time seemed to pass in my concussed hallucination. I can not confirm the validity of temptotosssoon's story, but my own experience seems to support the plausibility.

MaesterKyle ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 23:33:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Wow man, that's crazy... It reminds me of an incredibly vivid dream I had myself.. I was watching my son being born by my wife (I had no idea who she was) and I remember it being the absolute most emotional time of my life. The entire dream I was raising him through his childhood, being the best father i could be. By the time he turned age 6 I woke up, terrified and in tears that I would never see my 'son' again. I never did have that dream again, an the memory of it still comes up in my thoughts... I guess I know I want to be a father in the future, thats for sure!

Hipster-Hunter ยท 11 points ยท Posted at 17:41:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This is just amazing, logging in out of the house just to upvote this. I feel like psychologists would love you.

temptotosssoon ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 00:55:41 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

at $150 and hour I'm sure they would

SUPDUDE ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 22:40:43 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I saw that star trek episode too

FergusonDarling ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 23:01:53 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This reminds me of a story I heard where I work... a homeless shelter.

A man who has been staying at the shelter for years has a pretty severe drinking problem. He's a good man, but is drinking himself to death. Sometimes, when he doesn't have enough alcohol in his system, he will have siezures.

One episode ended with this man falling into a coma for a short while (not exactly sure how long, maybe a few hours... maybe a day). He told my boss that during his time unconscious, he was living in a world where he was a pilot.

This man was flying a commercial jet over international waters, traveling the world and getting paid for it. He remembered flirting with one of the flight attendants and heading back into the cockpit... Soon after he woke up in a hospital, homeless and with a severe drinking problem.

There have been a few times when, after a much-to-heavy dose of psychadelics, I have fallen into a state of complete delusion. I could remember that I had spent long periods of time at a homeless shelter, and that I felt under the influence of something. I could smell myself (I was sweating profusely at the time), and I couldn't remember how I got to my current location.

I remember coming to the conclusion that I had been homeless for years, staying at the shelter in which I work. I could picture myself getting up from where I was laying and walking into the general area, as though this would be a very regular routine. Suddenly, a wave of fear came over me. I wasn't sure what I had done that my family would no longer take me in. I didn't want this to be my life, and if not for the strange innability to actually move from my current position, could very possibly have done something drastic.

Temptotosssoon's story terrifies me. The movie Inception, while still a great movie, makes me quite uneasy. I don't know if there is really any way of ever telling if one is experiencing reality... So I just go on my day-to-day life and try to pretend like I don't mind. Every now and then, somebody has to remind me that I don't know. Thanks reddit.

[deleted] ยท 25 points ยท Posted at 23:27:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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mazoh ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 00:54:00 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

i like this. you just said something profound in just a few sentences.

mriparian ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 04:50:15 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Was looking for a good place to put this. This seems fine.

Kowzorz ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:46:32 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That reminds me of a time I took some psychedelics (one of those 3 letter chemicals, I think. Not a very smart decision, in my opinion) and had a very bad trip. I thought at one point I was a heroin addict who kept borrowing money and blowing it on heroin. I thought later that I was dying of alcohol poisoning. The trip probably would have gone a lot better had someone just calmed me down and said: Dude, you're tripping.

Smacktastic ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 09:12:18 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

To believe that this may all be a dream is to believe that all of the works of all the scientists, artists, philosophers, and writers throughout history are products of your own creation, to think that chains of events cease to matter outside of your perception. It's simply egotism of the highest order.

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 03:11:15 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:38:44 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Happend to me too

idontevenexist ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 02:06:56 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This sounds like it would make for one hell of an awesomely good (and heartbreaking) movie.

okcoolbro ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 02:10:09 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Maybe you having that dream was karma in action. The woman in your dream (your wife) is actually that football players' mother, you had assumed the body of his father, the little boy is him and the daughter is his sister. All this so that when you wake up, you can tell him that you had sex with his mother.

temptotosssoon ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:56:14 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

great hypothesis and I like it, but the family was white, the football player was not.

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 04:24:11 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Not to trivialize what may be the most amazing thing I've ever heard about the human mind, but this should be a movie. The getting hit at the beginning should be 5 seconds long so the audience doesn't know what it is, doesn't know the context, doesn't know if it's actually part of the movie. The "alternate life" should be the core of the movie, about an hour long, a happy love story the audience falls for, and then the lamp thing happens, you come out of it, and the rest of the movie is dealing with it and moving on...

temptotosssoon ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 05:19:42 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

sounds great, get to writing, if you call it "Dream Sweet Dream" I'll hunt you down and slap you with a spatula

tryingtobeoptimistic ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 05:33:26 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I love lamp.

KillAllTheZombies ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 10:35:47 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

There is an episode of Star Trek: The Next Generation in which Cpt. Picard lives an entire life before we wakes up only moments later. It touched me, I'm sure it would be pretty personal for you.

Sookye ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 14:22:48 on January 13, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

my wife bore me a son. My son was the joy of my life, I would walk into his room every morning before I left for work and doted on him

No, that is not actually how humans talk, but it was an interesting guess.

486_8088 ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 15:07:06 on January 13, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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Sookye ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:26:19 on January 13, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:16:52 on February 27, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

for the past few days this has mind fucked me. the first time i saw it it was like i was high for a second and then my brain just hurt and i freaked the hell out i don't know whats going on, but i'm scared out of my mind. is my life even real wtf?!

DrAquafresh793 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 16:34:07 on May 4, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That was an amazing story. The brain can do magnificent things making everyone's reality subjective. In a sense it almost really did happen because how much of your "real world" is just an interpretation of your brain. So in a sense I'm sorry for the loss of your wife and kids.

Kchortu ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 00:36:00 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I just came from the most powerful music thread and had opened up the requiem for a dream song as I read this.

holy fuck.

SaucyWiggles ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 21:51:30 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I just lost my shit in public while reading this.

Something similar happened to me when I was like, 8, but I think it was about Pokemon.

Irrelevant.

brotorious ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:09:19 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

...Ash?

SaucyWiggles ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:26:03 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No, either a Ghastly or a Ditto.

I don't remember, and I didn't have a sexual relationship with it, more like Ash+Pikachu but more homo.

brotorious ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:31:41 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

So the answer is yes, you are Ash, and you did go on a grand adventure all around the Kanto region before waking up?

SaucyWiggles ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:45:45 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Why the hell not?

Sure.

Maybe I was Gary.

hellomadelaine ยท 10 points ยท Posted at 17:02:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Shit. That's really rough. I hope you find her.

temptotosssoon ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 00:21:21 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I stopped looking years ago

[deleted] ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 23:01:09 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

In a sense, they were real, merely not what you thought they were. They were a part of your mind. And in that sense, they are not gone. When you were unconscious, your mind needed to reset, needed something to build upon. The people you dreamed gave you a foundation. When you rebuilt, you eventually brought the parts of your mind together, and I suspect that now those people are simply a part of you.

Recovering from mental and neural trauma of any sort is never easy; when something's "in your head" you can't put a cast on it, and you can't have a sadnessectomy. Good luck.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:49:29 on January 13, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Sadnessectomies forever!

Spoonwizard ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 04:31:56 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

this sound surprisingly like an experience I had, let me explain: I am an avid lucid dreamer and have mastered several levels of dreamscape manipulation, but one time, not too long after when I was first starting out I went to deep, I tried to make a full reality simulation and stretched myself to far in the expansion of the cause and effect I ended up recreating the universe from the relation to a point and experienced ego death.

The reality I was creating became so real that it dwarfed all my perception, I was basically God; the center of the universe and its most important part while at the same time the least important thing to ever exist and not truly part of the universe at all. I am not entirely sure if I am even myself anymore or I just assumed the place of myself in the universe I created. as far as I'm concerned, none of you are truly real or you're all just so real that you can't be, I'll take it up with the thought committee later.

Wait one more thing I forgot to mention is that my ego never coherently fit together again, I am ruled by a committee of four plus one chairman who the committee has reached the consensus that it is the last fragment of outward identity I was able to put back into functioning order.

I am able to auto pilot when the decision requires an immediate answer, kinda convenient when I'm(only strictly as a general identity for an entity, lol), but it gets annoying when the committee is not aware of the precise wording the auto-pilot used because they'll debate it for hours.

pooyah_me ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 06:45:29 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Have you heard the theory that we are all part of one consciousness experiencing itself subjectively? Maybe you somehow found a way to feel the totality of that one consciousness and then chose to experience it through one person's view of reality, yours, whoever you are right now.

BillWeld ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:15:57 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This is why we Southerners use "y'all" as a singular pronoun.

Wolfszeit ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 17:25:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Wait, I'm confused. Where in this dream do you start to wake up?

Did you go apeshit on complete strangers in the real life?

NormalVector ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 18:26:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I heard voices, screams, all kinds of weird noises and I became aware of pain.... a fucking shit ton of pain... the first words I said were "I'm missing teeth" and opened my eyes.

I think this is were he (or she) starts to wake up, when the lamp starts to deform. That's an incredibly depressing experience. What an amazing thing the human mind is!

Wolfszeit ยท -14 points ยท Posted at 18:31:38 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

So he assaulted people and got into a depression because of a dream that seemed very real?

A dream that he was sure of lasted 10 years of his life...?

...Damn.. I think this guy actually ended up in the Limbo.

NormalVector ยท 12 points ยท Posted at 18:48:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No, he was assaulted by someone and while he was unconscious he had this dream. 10 years passed in his dream while probably only a few minutes passed in real life.

Wolfszeit ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:02:45 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Ahh. Now I get it.

I kind of read of the assault-part.

My bad.

[deleted] ยท 10 points ยท Posted at 18:15:14 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

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Wolfszeit ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 18:27:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well, everything that isn't a dream, I guess.

I mean, look around you, I know for a fact that this is r-... Oh... Ohgod.

WHO ARE YOU AND WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO TELL ME?!

mazoh ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:56:06 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

this would have been a lot better if you had just left that last line out.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 14:09:26 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This is like that time I got high and watched Inception.

TheKikko ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:56:03 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Is this the real life?

pjackson0923 ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 23:00:43 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Is this just fantasy?

TheKikko ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 23:04:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Caught in a landslide...

pjackson0923 ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 23:11:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No escape from reality.

jvrdrckt ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 23:17:38 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Open your eyes,

TheKikko ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:21:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Look up to the skies and SEEEEEEEEEEE!

pjackson0923 ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 00:13:13 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm just a poor boy, I need no sympathy.

TheKikko ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 00:21:03 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Because I'm easy come, easy go, little high, little low.

Drinkin_Abe_Lincoln ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 01:29:04 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Any way the wind blows....

TheKikko ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 10:43:27 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Doesn't really matter to me...

earthbridge ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 01:40:39 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

cunt

pjackson0923 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 06:03:13 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I don't remember that part of the song.

TheKikko ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:48:54 on January 13, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Right after the guitar solo...

tehjarvis ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:28:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No, it's a over used stupid and unfunny meme.

NoCowLevel ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 23:55:41 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's a song actually

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:04:11 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No, he's right. It's pretty much fucking retarded. It might have been slightly funny the first time it was done on 4chan in 2005, but it's definitely not funny the two thousandth time it's done on reddit. It's not original and anyone who participates using stupid fucking memes like this as a crutch for the fact that they themselves aren't funny or original should go fuck themselves.

thane_of_cawdor ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 03:06:15 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Ouch.

br33z3 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:17:46 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Is this the real life?

temptotosssoon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:20:50 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

well I woke up spread eagle on the sidewalk.

I used to go ape shit on strangers, but then one of the swatted my teeth out and I live a 10 year life asleep on the side walk

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:47:17 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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temptotosssoon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:42:55 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That was the consensus of the authority figures, I yelled at a stranger and got KO'ed, I was a very hot headed young man and got into plenty of fist fights, (shit I've been in a few since then) but it definitely calmed me down and taught me to channel my swollen testes in different directions.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:04:40 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

So what happened to the guy who assaulted you? Cause in my experience it's usually nothing.

edgarvaldes ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:44:09 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I only can say this: "Better than Life on Mars, UK Version"

topical ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:50:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You must be this guy. If you haven't read this series of books, you definitely should.

Caesar_Epicus ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:25:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Do you now have an obsession with spinning a small silver top?

BarshaL ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:47:18 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This is my single worst fear

ThiZ ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:12:29 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Ever had something similar happen?

BarshaL ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:59:17 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

nothing but the rare perfect/dreamgirl scenario. waking up was so depressing. I can't even imagine what this guy went through

ThiZ ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:18:12 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I thought I had it bad with a 3-monther, but this guy made me feel like a wuss.

Boblow_Jihobey ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:52:46 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Don't mean to sound like an ass, but I immediately starting staring at every lamp I see.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:07:13 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, welcome aboard mate.

CapEmCrunch ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:16:13 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Don't take this comment as me trivializing your experience in any way, but that would make an amazing movie.

temptotosssoon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:21:56 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

according to other posters it already is a movie, and a Star Trek TNG episode

end3rthe3rd ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:26:49 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Its nothing like Inception although there are a few themes a that are similar. This would make an amazing movie!

SeannoG ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:32:25 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Sam Tyler?

Nietzsche967 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:33:20 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

See what I find worse, or at least on the same level of sadness is that I will occasionally have dreams about people that I do know, for instance... There is this boy that I really liked but was a complete jerk to me, and who would never like me how I like him. So I had a dream where he kissed me and I melted and it was wonderful, except that when I woke up and went to school, I was met with the same dispassionate dislike, which felt 100 times worse now that my mind had conjured up what could have been.

TL;DR: It's worse when you're dreaming and you conjure up someone you're in love with, but who is an asshole into someone loving, and then when you wake up you realize they're still the same jerk and it's 100 times worse than before. sigh...

temptotosssoon ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:37:51 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

lucky you, I know too many women that get together and stay with the asshole

sli ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:53:21 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

My friend, it is time to learned how to lucid dream.

mshimoura ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:57:04 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That was rather moving. Judging from all the responses and questions I suggest you do an AMA or something :)

Thelonesomemoo ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:07:48 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Holy shit...

you were only 120 pounds? That's so light.

temptotosssoon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:16:15 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

10 years later and I'm 130 :)

but I'm only 5'7"

shucksdood ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:11:09 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

some people use the dream world to validate the physical world, some use the physical world to validate the dream world. I suspect most of us do the latter, (like physical objects are a ram buffer to remind us what were doing & stay focused). But sometimes it runs the first way, & the dream world is used to validate the physical world. I think that's what happened. Maybe the physical trauma made you decide the dream world was preferable & you went in with no reservation. It took awhile for the lamp to register because you didn't want it to. I wouldn't either.

snackburros ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:17:27 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's funny, I was in a 10 day long coma earlier this year and had to relive my life as a vegetable while in the coma, aka I can't move anything, I can't really think, I hear things and I can't respond to it, and basically I'm locked in except worse - I had no mobility and people kept telling me things and nothing would come across. It's funny because I also temporarily forgot language and it was until after I came out of the coma I could comprehend what is going on. That shit sucks because it wasn't until it was over I could think 'oh man, that's what being a vegetable is like?'

APiousCultist ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:42:08 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What was regaining the ability to speak and understand speech like? Was it just like "Hey, words!" or what?

snackburros ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:19:24 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was on a ventilator so I couldn't talk for like several more days while I learned how to breath again (I had a massive seizure). It was pretty amazing to talk afterwards anyway after you get out of a coma.

BloodyPancakeSyrup ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:35:30 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

now that you mention it, that McDonald's bag looks sorta wier--FUCKING SHIT

Lemen1 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:39:17 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had something eerily similar to what happened to you, and its recurred once.

The first time was when i was a Senior in highschool. I lived the same day over and over and over and over for years, my girlfriend had just died in a car accident and i was still not completely over it, to me reality was surreal, this world seemed no different as my life was mundane and highschool is repetitive anyway. The only difference from reality was that she was there. I saw her, i never spoke to her, she would always duck into a stairwell or hallway or disappear in the crowd, and she would be gone. Every "day" this happened, it went on for what seemed like years, finally i caught her. I was crying, i tried to talk but nothing came out, and then she said "goodbye". After she said that everything seemed to "warp", then it all went back. I woke up instantly, gasping for air, i could feel my heart beating harder than it had before, my face and pillow were soaked in tears, and i sat there for the next hour crying. According to my doctor, something went wrong with my brain, and i went into a coma like state, and he wouldnt know what happened unless it happened again. I was asleep for over a day, thankfully no noticeable side effects, this coma like state has never happened again. Unfortunately, the whole experience fucked me up and i was depressed for a few months, it started with heavy alcohol abuse, and ended with me hooking up with some chick i didnt even know, i moaned my dead girlfriend's name, and simply thought to myself "this is no way to live", got myself cleaned up and im doing fine now.

However, living a second life has, and it was recent. On Dec 28th i had a really really high fever, to the point where i almost died. I lived my life, day to day, exactly how it was when i went to sleep that night. I woke up, started packing my stuff for university, and on the 31st left for a cabin with a bunch of people for New Year's. We partied, had fun, it was a great night. On the 2nd i moved back into my dorm, and then i started classes. Everything was how it should be. I went to my marksmanship club as i always do, and while shooting, a man came up to me, i dont remember what he looked like, his face was absolutely blank, but he tapped my shoulder, and said "wake up", then disappeared. I thought nothing of it, but two "weeks" later, the same thing happened. At this point, i didnt know what was going on, i was confused. I kept living, but things looked "off". Clocks werent consistent, some were missing or crooked, i couldnt find things that i knew i owned, the fridge was unplugged but it still worked, just weird stuff. Finally, i go back to the gun range, its been 6 "weeks". The man is there again. And i ask him what he wants, he replies with "Its time", pulls a gun and shoots me. I jolted away and grabbed my chest, it felt as if a bullet had indeed hit me, it felt as if something had gone into me, it was the weirdest feeling and i never want to feel it again. I then realized my condition and got medical attention. Ive been to the range once since this happened, and i spent half of my time making sure the weird man didnt show up.

Glad to know im not the only one this happens to.

temptotosssoon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:47:50 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

when was the last time you had a CT scan or sought medical help, your micro coma's sound like seizures. (I'm not a medical professional)

merkon ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:13:20 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

First time i've legitimately teared up from something on reddit. I'm so sorry. That was beautifully written and an amazing story.

oatmeal_king ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 09:44:18 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You traveled to an Alternate universe.

pinkandfluffy ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 13:35:31 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Dude, although you might be mourning the loss of your wife and child you are in this situation and you have to make the best of it. Look at it this way: You get to live two lives! Nobody else gets that, people would give up everything to be able to start life again once they're old. Just do something different with this one, the world is your fuckin oyster...

ogami1972 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 14:03:37 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I can't explain it, but I really want to hug you right now.

Kylar_Stern ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:25:57 on February 1, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Hey, just want to let you know, your comment has been featured in a podcast called "Mysterous Universe", season 7, episode 1. You may allready know that, but I thought I would tell you just in case you didn't.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:43:23 on May 14, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

wrote a short story based on this if anyone wants to read it.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:22:36 on May 16, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

And a fine story at that :).

want_to_want ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 20:03:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Thank you for writing that. I'm replying so I can find your comment later.

mahiname123 ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 17:31:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Ouch. This needs more upvotes

vergi ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 22:14:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Made me feel really awful just imagining how that must've felt. I've seen dreams a bit similar, and I've felt really terrible after they've ended. Last week I saw a dream of me and my ex-girlfriend living a happy life together and getting married. Everything was so perfect. Then it ended and it just ruined the whole day for me, felt really depressed until the next day. I actually cried after realizing it was just a dream, even though I haven't missed her for quite a while now or been any emotional about the break-up (happened 3-4 months ago). My first girlfriend ever, who I thought was the love of my life. Feels bad man.

tairygreene ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 22:20:36 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

cool, too bad this didn't really happen

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:16:58 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Nice try, 325 pound football player.

tairygreene ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:21:10 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

seriously at what college in 2012 are the senior football players beating up nerds? revenge of the nerds isn't actually real.

I_Am_Rook ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:08:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Everyone say hello to a David Lynch film.

phewy ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 22:57:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

this is what i thought of. Subject matter would make a great trippy film.

Totobean ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 17:11:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

These damn onions are cutting themselves. And I'm in public right now...

That's just so sad D:

nsueretner ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 21:59:53 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

ITT: Trolls make up stories that redditors blindly believe for karma.

[deleted] ยท 37 points ยท Posted at 22:24:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

For karma on a throwaway account?

nsueretner ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:48:10 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's not about karma, it's about validation.

Or trolling. Do you have any idea what trolling is?

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:50:40 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

for karma
...
It's not about karma

Go away.

nsueretner ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 01:53:20 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

How fucking dense are you? Do you understand what I'm saying here?

Karma, by itself, matters very little to people. Karma is important because it is a numerical representation of how many people validate a certain post. Thus, even on a throwaway account where karma ostensibly doesn't matter, the device which gives it value (validation) still remains.

Thus, it really isn't about karma, it's about validation.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:58:26 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I think you need to relax, just a little bit.
This is the internet.
If people make things up, why the fuck do you care?
If you really believe this guy is lying, and people believe him, then good for you, good for them, and good for him. It doesn't fucking matter. At all.

nsueretner ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 02:02:46 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You're reading too much into me. I don't care.

You're right, this is the internet. Redditors who believe this shitposting that they read on the internet are dipshits.

That's all.

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 02:08:41 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm reading too much into you? You're getting pissed off because some guy may or may have not fabricated an interesting story, and he's getting attention, and I'm calling you out on being a bitch. Seems kind of up-front to me.

nsueretner ยท -2 points ยท Posted at 02:13:49 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You're getting pissed off

No.

I'm calling you out on being a bitch.

You're misconstruing what I'm saying and misinterpreting my posts.

Seems kind of up-front to me.

Because you're an autist with no reading comprehension.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:18:03 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I just realized you have negative comment karma. You're either a troll, a moron, or just an asshole. Go fuck off.

nsueretner ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:22:04 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I welcome you to read through my posts. I have to say, I think they're all spot-on.

All negative karma means is that I disagree with reddit circlejerking on a regular basis, and that I don't care about comment karma. Dohoho.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:31:25 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Troll account confirmed, go fuck yourself.

nsueretner ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 02:34:25 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

So any account you (or reddit) disagrees with is a troll?

Keep jerkin' that circle, buddy.

nregn ยท 18 points ยท Posted at 22:21:30 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This. No cop would "scoop up" an unconscious person unless there was an imminent threat. There's too much liability in handling a person who can't communicate whether they're okay. God forbid you have a broken neck and someone other than a trained medical professional tries to move you.

temptotosssoon ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 00:09:32 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

you are correct but I stood up on my own and was looking for my teeth, the cop kind of walked/dragged me to his car, I never did find those damn teeth

JaronK ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 23:14:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

They shouldn't, but I've actually seen this happen. Heat of the moment, maybe. Or just not a very smart cop.

jlv816 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:04:26 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Especially in a densely populated area where the ambulance response times might be pretty long. Not saying it's a good idea, but that could be motivation.

Edit for typo.

I_Killed_Him ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 02:35:22 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Especially on a college campus where cops are idiots.

hiero_ ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:36:33 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

College campus cops might.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:47:28 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Depends on the availability of ambulances and the cop and their judgement of how serious the shit is happening. I've seen it happen. In an area where the cops are also the volunteer FD/rescue squad, it happens more than you might expect that they'll transport.

spirogyro ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:15:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

My last semester at a certain college

I went through about 3 years of horrid depression

As I was reading the beginning, I thought you meant last semester as in a few months ago. So if that was your last semester, you quit college after what happened? Also it sounds like these 3 years of depression are way back, i.e. you are not depressed anymore. I'm a bit confused; when did this whole thing happen?

tjean ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:44:19 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was told once that every person you encounter in your dreams is someone you have either seen or met in real life. Maybe, like HAYHAY22 said, it was a glimps into your future and one day you will see her again.

phewy ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:58:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

this is not true. People who make claims like this, dont have bizarre dreams.

tjean ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:16:50 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was talking people who look like people in your dreams.

shepardownsnorris ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:58:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
temptotosssoon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:37:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

one of my favorite songs, thanks

temptotosssoon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:43:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

one of my favorite songs, thanks

temptotosssoon ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 23:43:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

one of my favorite songs, thanks

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:19:39 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's think it's likely you remembered a past existence in which all of this existed and happened. When your mind was prepared to return to consciousness, the lamp incident happened. The past is always bound to repeat itself because time is not real, it is a construct of the mind. If you remember large details, look for them now, because Now is the only thing that's real. Live your dreams.

TheYuri ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:38:25 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have been married for 9 years and I have a 5 year old son who is the joy of my life. Your text has scared the shit out of me like nothing ever has. I really hope you find peace. Now I'm going to pick my son up early from school and hug him till he sleeps.

ggfunnymail ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:07:48 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's called suffocation. It's not good for your son.

ac_slat3r ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 23:27:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Bullshit meter is off the fucking charts.

/thread

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:11:36 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

nothing has ever not happened more than this didn't happen

edit: I know the comment is unoriginal but seriously? you guys believe this

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:58:57 on January 13, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Being open to mindbending possibilities is a truly terrible thing, isn't it.

ggfunnymail ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 03:56:37 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Why? Because you can't imagine experiencing something like it?

pupkinrupert ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:47:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

what happened to the football player???

Syntrix ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:20:45 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What was really weird was when temptotosssoon woke up the next day, the flute he loved to play in his dream world was under his pillow!

That would make a great tv show!

iwashere ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:21:28 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

wow!

eltycreative ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:23:20 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Your story makes me wonder if my life right now is a dream. I've always wondered that. It feels so real, but what if I wake up and I'm 12 or something? And I live in a completely different time/space/etc. and my current life is just completely imagined by my mind, but everything seems to make sense.

g4c ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:56:51 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well, I'm over here and I'm real, so I know your life isn't a dream. But then again, I would say that, wouldn't I? :-/

eltycreative ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:12:42 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You would. I know in the context of my dream that your life isn't a dream either.

But there's a very real possibility you're just a figment of my imagination. And there's an equally real possibility that I'm a figment of yours.

g4c ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:27:56 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well, if this is your dream, then I just want to thank you for pizza and boobs.

eltycreative ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:15:21 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You're welcome.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:24:41 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

it amazed me how our minds just create something like this..it makes you think we must have lived past lives or something, it's just too odd.

ohpuic ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:30:18 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

How are you coping with it now? Did you ever think about going to a therapist so sort it out?

temptotosssoon ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:41:28 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It was over 10 years ago so I don't cope with it, but this is the first time I have ever written about it. Since then I have done all kinds of crazy things that most people wouldn't consider.

I still have issues from that concussion.

marty86morgan ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:32:06 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

i had a comparable salvia trip once. which is why i never smoked salvia again. ive heard of things like this happening to people with massive cranial or spine trauma. very cool story.

Sinadins ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:41:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This should be made into a movie. . .

VLDT ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:42:46 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Really hope that that football player got both of his legs broken and poorly reset.

zzt711 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:46:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

So what happened to the football player?

Did the cops get invovled, etc, etc?

zzt711 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:46:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

So what happened to the football player?

Did the cops get involved, etc, etc?

DontQuoteMeOnThis ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:48:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

elaborate on "drive" like a football drive or did he drive his car into you?

temptotosssoon ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:16:27 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was crossing the sidewalk, the football player was driving a pick up truck, as I crossed a parking lot entrance he raced in from the street and I grabbed my friend's backpack to pull her out of the way (she would have been plowed).
I yell, truck stops, huge asshole gets out, I get a trip to never never land.

DontQuoteMeOnThis ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:51:15 on January 13, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Fuck that asshole man. I am truly sorry x_x

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:06:57 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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temptotosssoon ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 00:14:23 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

in the dream I remembered every day of time, as son as I awoke things started fading fast....

the aging I did in the dream was pretty accurate, my face in the mirror then looks pretty close to what I look like now (I age well anyway)

I've never been married and I have no children

the details have faded over time, what I do remember is the feelings I had, the devotion and love for my wife, the terror of having a daughter, the terro multiplied having a son, the confusion of the lamp, the dip into insanity staring at the fucking lamp... the shape, color, texture, everything about that lamp.

someday I'm going to find that lamp in a resale shop, I'll buy it

cojosie ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:14:44 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Wow.

The first time I fell in love was in a dream. I must have been around 14. We fell in love in one walk - to the end of a long, narrow dock. I saw us from behind, our heads were shining. I went back into my dream-body at the end of the dock and turned to find that my love had disappeared, and was transformed into a wax cypress tree, dripping into a sick, singed puddle on the ground. I mourned him for years in the dream, then for many years after I awoke, feeling level fourteen forever alone

temptotosssoon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:19:35 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

wow, that's both beautiful and melancholy at the same time

Giant_Enemy_Cliche ยท 39 points ยท Posted at 14:12:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

Yeah. I can play the flute now though, so it's cool.

milk-a-saurus ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 16:42:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Doesn't matter. Played flute

whyufail1 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 16:23:19 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This thing, I see what you did with it.

VLDT ยท 125 points ยท Posted at 14:25:45 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Except they do exist. You're communing with your subconscious and super-conscious. It's all you man!

[deleted] ยท 36 points ยท Posted at 16:16:40 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This should be at the top. The reason why you feel this closeness is because it is as close as it gets. All her/his characteristics are actually your own, just supressed to subconscience. Further reading: google keywords "animus", "anima", "jung"

VLDT ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 23:08:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The author who originally started me on the path to these discoveries and all that will follow.

lilac3680 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:07:20 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Mmm, thanks for a book reminder. Any chance you've read the Deptford Trilogy?

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:15:28 on January 13, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No, I've never heard of it. I can find some dry info about that book on google, would you care to provide something better?

lilac3680 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:58:57 on January 13, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Three engaging, related tales of introspection with some Jung based philosophy mixed in. Hmm, I've recommended a number of other books to people but I'm not sure how to explain the appeal of this set. I suppose it's because not only do they have amazing character development, they make you want to learn more about yourself and the people you care about. People are interesting, baffling and do the strangest things sometimes. This trilogy made me think about people and their whys more which has helped me understand the people I care about better. The books also have nice pacing and make you want to keep reading to find out what happens next. Not sure what else to say but feel free to pm me if you have any questions.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:44:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

came here to say this. more upvotes.

sirjubs ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:04:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's true - your brain never "makes up" people. People in dreams are based on people and faces from your memory.

DFP_ ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:20:25 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Good fucking point man, honestly felt like she came back for a moment.

Naylor ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:21:48 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

it would be kinda sweet to have the power to make parts of your subconscious come to life. but it would have to have an abort button that wipes it away forever in case it turns evil

SoulSonick ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 16:53:30 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Nice try Deepak.

VLDT ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:08:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What if I was an anti-semite? You would have just offended a very ignorant person...

ShorttSirket ยท 34 points ยท Posted at 15:33:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

I had something like that. You know in dreams that you usually dream of someone you know or some sort of nebulous person? Well I had a dream where the girl was actually clear. I had never seen this girl before, or since. But everything about her was clear. Her face, her hair, everything. And in this dream I felt madly in love with this girl.

It was so much, that I woke up and I could still feel the feelings of love. In fact, for almost weeks afterward if I would close my eyes and envision the girl then I would actually feel that love again.

It still freaks me out to this day. I am curious who this girl was and why my brain created her.

McAndze ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 16:37:26 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I can't remember where I read this, nor do I know if it has been proven in any way, but apparently your brain never thinks of new faces:

Your brain will use a face that you have seen before. Even someone you don't know, or don't remember having seen, can be used by your brain.. So if you're very lucky you just might find her in real life. She is out there somewhere. At least her face is.

ShorttSirket ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 17:16:34 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That is what I had always heard also. That your brain won't just make up a random face. But I did not recognize her at all and yet she was so clear. I could have drawn a perfect picture of her face (if I could draw). It was the craziest thing.

Now I am just curious what will happen if I actually ever see the girl. Will that strong feeling of love hit me if I do? It honestly has been bugging me for years since it happened.

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 17:46:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I don't mean to be a debby downer, maybe the no new faces thing isn't a 'law', but if you live in a big city or even a decent sized one, its pretty likely that you may have seen someone very similar looking to your dream girl. Just a thought, sorry about the dreamstuff

ShorttSirket ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:28:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It is cool man, it is not like I accept this dream as law or anything. I just thought it was odd that my mind created something I had never seen before. Then I thought maybe it was someone I had seen but didn't recognize.

The only thing that would be weird if my brain took someone random, is that I felt this "feeling" immediately on looking at her. So I would guess I would have had the same feeling when I saw her originally.

Hell, I have no idea. It was just really odd at the time and it has stuck with me for years.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:51:39 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yup, I've had a few strange dreams myself, I know where you're coming from. (:

Our brains are funny things.

[deleted] ยท 26 points ยท Posted at 17:37:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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iAMtheBelvedere ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:42:40 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

this is similar to mine except in mine the girl's in a box and i can't see her. i can talk to her but i can't see her. drives me crazy. from one "maybe" crazy dude to another. Good luck.

CultofConformality ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:35:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was hoping this story would end with you finding the blonde dyed her hair to brunnette....

rocketsomething ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 09:30:13 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Me too... she is still blonde, talked to her yesterday. Took 5 minutes to remember why I dumped her. Some people never change.

anonderpette ยท 24 points ยท Posted at 11:00:41 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's more awkward if it's someone you don't know well/don't really like. Wake up so conflicted.

[deleted] ยท 23 points ยท Posted at 11:12:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

We danced. It was a party and we danced. A formal thing, like my grandparents hold. He was charming and kind, and made me feel like I was walking on air.

Then I woke up.

appleseed1234 ยท 17 points ยท Posted at 16:46:53 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

We can dance if we want to.

waylaidwanderer ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 19:15:25 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

We can leave your friends behind.

CultofConformality ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:31:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

We can leave your dreams behind!

Rocmalone ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 23:14:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

We can leave our friends behind

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:40:10 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
uncoolcat ยท 23 points ยท Posted at 18:28:40 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

I used to write down my dreams when I was younger and I would recall them vividly as a result. But when I was about 13 I had a dream where I went to a prom with a really cute girl. I had never before seen this girl. My highschool was different in odd and seemingly impossible ways, the hallways had walls with double doors in the middle of them, there was a long hallway that stretched across over a street to the bus garages (the school was on a corner, so this hallway went right over a road, and the bus garages were only accessed by the bus drivers and faculty, so there'd be no point to build such a thing), and the hallway was right where a classroom was in real life. I saw these modifications when the girl and I went outside to get some air because it was really hot in the dance area (to this day there isn't air conditioning in my high school), and once we were outside we were where a parking lot is in real life, but in the dream there was a large two story building (large building for a small town, anyway).

So this dream was quite striking to me when I woke up, because I hated everything school related (I had absolutely no intention to going to a prom ever), and I had such a low self esteem that I thought I'd never get a date (let alone a girlfriend). I was also near suicidal at the time, I didn't have many friends, and I couldn't "see" myself past that given year. This dream actually gave me hope rather than make me even more depressed.

Fast forward a few years to when I'm 16 and I see that girl from my dream in real life. I about shat bricks and I immediately felt a deep connection with her. My stomach dropped, and I felt like I couldn't even breath. It turned out she went to the same Sunday school as a friend of mine did, and later her dad wound up dating my good friend's mom, so eventually I got to meet her and hang out with her (I was really shy at the time).

Move forward another year to when I'm 17, and those odd doors in the hallways of my school end up being newly installed fire doors (the school was constructed in the early 1900's), that "impossible" hallway turned out to be a skywalk over the street and not into the bus garages, but into a brand new elementary/middle school (they demolished the bus garages to build the school there), and that random large building in the parking lot ended up being a brand new woodshop. I went to my senior prom with the girl (the similarities to the dream were pretty striking to say the least, consdiering that the construction wasn't even being considered when I had the dream), and the girl and I started dating a few months after that.

I wound up moving across the country for this highschool sweetheart of mine, and she broke up with me a couple of years after that. That was quite a few years ago now, but since then I've lived with her as a roommate and I even took her wedding photos. Now I find it a bit odd to think of her as anything more than a friend.

The cake was a lie.

ViralVV ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 18:45:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Prophetic dreams are the shit! I want to dedicate my life to researching the phenomenal tendencies in human dreams and imagination.

Henked ยท 67 points ยท Posted at 13:51:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

xkcd had a take on this a while back. It has happened to me, it sucks, and I'm not too ashamed to admit that I made up a continuation while semi-awake (which somehow feels like cheating).

crosscountryrunner ยท 50 points ยท Posted at 16:24:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Funny, I too thought of an xkcd comic, but it is a different one

Thedeepone31 ยท 12 points ยท Posted at 16:53:49 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That is so depressing T.T

jmcqk6 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 20:34:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well, the thing about that comic, was that a bunch of people actually showed up at those coordinates at the designated day and threw a huge party. So, in the end, while I guess the girl didn't show up, it was still a win.

Henked ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:59:46 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You've got to love the enthusiasm of some fans. While, personally, I feel a little jealous, living in Europe and all, never able to partake in xkcd-meets and other fun stuff in America.

At least we have somewhat competent leaders?

GVSz ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 17:25:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Feelsbadman...

Lohengren ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:12:03 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Way to bring the room down.

Azumango ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 17:29:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Those coordinates are real.

On September 23, 2007, hundreds of people gathered at Reverend Thomas J. Williams park 42.39561ยฐN 71.13051ยฐW, in North Cambridge, Massachusetts whose coordinates were mentioned in a strip, #240.[โ€ก 4] Munroe appeared, commenting, "Maybe wanting something does make it real," reversing the conclusion he drew in the last frame of the same strip.[โ€ก 4][11]

DFP_ ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:14:14 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Interesting, you responded to the wrong comic poster so the Guy may be a bit confused though.

Azumango ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:19:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What, what? Aww babies...

gburnaman ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 23:14:07 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

เฒฅ_เฒฅ

jaguarzxxx ยท 107 points ยท Posted at 13:28:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Lucid dreaming, dude. With a bit of practice, you can meet all the people you've met in dreams again. Quite fun. :D

N0V0w3ls ยท 28 points ยท Posted at 16:00:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Does this work as well, though? Sometimes I have dreams that seem to exceed my waking level of imagination.

[deleted] ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 16:21:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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N0V0w3ls ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 16:30:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Basically what I'm asking is that it seems my unconscious mind has a better imagination than my conscious one. Like some of the people I've met in my dreams brought me to the brink of tears when I woke up to find out they weren't real. If I'm consciously manipulating my dreams, I don't know if it will be the same.

imeuru ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:53:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's not the same really, it's more limited until you realize you really can do anything, because you're dreaming. Until that concept really sinks in, you will probably be stuck with more mundane experiences. I broke myself in by learning how to fly...but just like in real life, you can really psych yourself out to the point that you fail. In this case failing means either waking up, or slipping into a regular dream. Your sleeping brain makes weird, dreamlike scenarios, just as your waking brain creates weird lifelike scenarios. It's always up to you what you make of them, conscious or not.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:58:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The only time I've truly had a lucid dream, the first thing I thought to do was fly. However, I very quickly lost control of the dream and flew into an evil version of my town. I think it may not have been a lucid dream at all, and the decision to fly might not have been a conscious one.

Daimonin_123 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:49:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Hmm Ive always wanted to do Lucid dreaming, but could never succeed. I only ever managed it once, and that was by accident before I had ever even heard the term.

Of course, theres always the worry that If I where to learn it, Id decide to sleep all the time.

madmooseman ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:00:45 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I don't know, but if there's one thing that lucid dreaming has taught me, it's that people you meet in dreams will always try and convince you it's not a dream.

I ha a dream where I crashed my car last night, with two friends from school in the car. One was a good friend, another wasn't very close. I realised that I was fine after being thrown through a windscreen, which prompted me to do a few reality checks. I then showed my close friend that it was indeed a dream (counted my fingers once, had four. Counted them again and I had seven). He simply said that he didn't want to try anything because it might not be a dream.

IrishWilly ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:58:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I started trying lucid dreaming and then stopped for a similar reason. Part of what I like about my dreams is it's randomness. Weird, interesting things happen that I never would have thought to have happen. I don't want to be directing my own dream; I want it to surprise me.

aBEARica ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:15:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Exactly. Your waking level. You aren't fully awake when you lucid dream.

jaguarzxxx ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:26:32 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Maybe not as well, because you need a certain extent of knowing that it's not real to get control.

But my lucid dreams are quite more vivid than my normal dreams, they are also much more detailed, logical and feel more like reality. :) If this is what's you're asking.

bichiliad ยท 11 points ยท Posted at 16:08:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Where can I learn how to practice?

[deleted] ยท 51 points ยท Posted at 16:29:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

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[deleted] ยท 29 points ยท Posted at 17:05:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Strangest thing actually: I've read a little about lucid dreaming, Reddit, 4chan, y'know. No in depth psychological studies or anything. This exact scenario happened to me: Looked at a clock, looked at it again, and the time had changed. Huh, that's strange. That can't be right. I must be dreaming, I am in a dream. And then I started to fly around looking for the girl I have a crush on to tell her how I felt in my dream, and I woke up.

siliconpotato ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 17:48:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

light switches never work properly in my dreams, and when i look at the bulb, it is always really low luminosity. that's how I know I'm dreaming. then I would go flying. haven't been able to do the lucid dreaming since those long lie-ins over the summer months between terms at uni, life too busy now

m1k30r ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:41:49 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I think the reason why lucid dreaming is hard for most people is because they are too intimidated by the "scumbag" part of their minds.. you need to understand that your mind is not divided into parts; instead of trying to control yourself, you need to feel, be the one entity you are.

Realize that the only thing your mind comes in direct contact with are electric signals, and that as far as you're concerned reality and imagination are the exact same thing, you can never prove that something is real or not - start acting correspondingly. don't approach things with a materialistic, "logical" point of view. just be. only then will you be able to "take control" of yourself, and shape your dreams as you desire.

...Well, this turned out to a salad of thoughts barely connected with the original subject.. imma post it anyway.

djanobollo ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:58:32 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have heard it so many times to just do some action and you will recognize that you are in a dream. I thought I understood and that it had happened to me a few times until a week ago or so. I had a true lucid dream and now know I had never had one previous to that. I was walking up some stairs in the dream and somehow the physics of it were off and I suddenly realized "oh shit this is a dream!". I immediately jumped/flew up several flights of stairs at once. Then quickly conjured up a woman with a perfect body in front of me and played with her tits. I'm a little embarrassed with how I handled being a god. At least I know that my real life can be nearly as fulfilling as a dream world though.

finanseer ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 17:45:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What can you suggest for people that don't dream? In my case, i remember my dreams maybe once a month so for all intents and purposes i dont consider myself to be an 'expert dreamer'.

RIPdig ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:36:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I don't like this for one reason. Makes me feel a bit schizophrenic always questioning my reality.

PissinChicken ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:02:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

My problem isn't realizing its a dream, but when I do, I wake up. I am a light sleeper to being with. But once and a while I can realize its a dream, and then it's on. Come here beautiful....

[deleted] ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 18:04:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The easiest thing to start doing right now is to pick something you see or do multiple times a day and everytime you see or do that thing ask yourself "Am I dreaming?"

You mean... like a totem?

TheKrimsonKing ยท 22 points ยท Posted at 16:26:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Watch "Waking Life" It's basically a film about how to lucid dream, wrapped in an interesting narrative. It's one of my favorites, but despite practice I still can't lucid dream yet. yet.

Some gems from the film: In daily life, look at clocks (especially digital), and make a note of not just the time but the look of the time. In dreams often we see clocks as jumbles of characters, the same goes with text. Learning to recognize and separate Awake from Asleep is one of the first steps to lucid dreaming. Once you start questioning your reality when you're awake, naturally you'll start to do so in your dream state.

CantLookHimInTheEyeQ ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 17:07:20 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The lightswitch trick is also very helpful for me. In my dreams I cannot control the level of light/dark. So if I flick a switch and nothing happens, I'm dreaming. Or, more mundanely, my bulb has burnt out.

XtianDK ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:15:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

After I watched that movie I too began to practice lucid dreaming. so far I have only succeeded once. But just because you are aware that you are dreaming does not automatically mean that you will remember the dream in it's entirety. You will have to practice that too. And that I find incredibly hard.

TheKrimsonKing ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:56:34 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

definitely true. Like I said, learning to discern you're sleeping is but the first step. For all I know I could have lucid dreamed but I just don't remember it. I have a terrible memory and practicing my dream memory isn't something I always have time for, thus it is also correspondingly terrible. There are many things you can do to practice, and foods you can eat to enhance memory and vividness of dreams but so far I've no experience with any such things other than having really vivid dreams after a night of copious amounts of sushi one time.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:45:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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7Snakes ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 17:29:45 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Wish there was an app for that.

SoulSonick ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:51:34 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

K im not suggesting you do this but ill just say that when I was trying to quit smoking a few years ago, I accidentally fell asleep with a nicotine patch on. I have never in my life had more lucid dreams than when that happened. Everything seemed VERY real and strange ( but in a good way ).

MattShea ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:55:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
madmooseman ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:05:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The way I started was to start doing reality checks in real life. Two that work well for me:

-Pinch your nose and close your mouth. Now try and breathe in. In a dream, there is no resistance to breathing, because you don't actually pinch your nose.

-Count the number of fingers on your hand. Now remember the number. Do it again. In a dream, you will get different answers. Interestingly, your hand doesn't look deformed when you have seven fingers in a dream.

Kelnoxx ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:11:53 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
weflewplanes ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:19:43 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Dreamviews is a pretty great place to get started. As you'd learn there, though, the first step to lucid dreaming is being able to remember your dreams accurately. The easiest way to do this is to record your dreams every morning by writing down everything you can remember as soon as you wake. After a couple of weeks you'll be able to recall nearly all of your dreams from the night in great detail. 75% of learning lucid dreaming is making your mind more aware of your surroundings in the dream world.

RIPdig ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:35:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Video games.

FEELS_SO_GOOD ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:40:53 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

There are a few tricks I've picked up. One dream check you can do is read and reread text. Often, the wording will be different upon the second reading. Apparently, this is because while you're sleeping, the part of the brain that actually deciphers text is inactive; so essentially what's going on is you are looking at what looks like text, and its meaning is directly implanted into your brain. Therefore, when you read it again, it will likely have a similar meaning but a different wording.

Another thing you can do when you're questioning whether or not you are in a dream is simply look at your hands. If they look bizarre, you are dreaming. Hands are very complicated, and unless you're really good at drawing them, your mind probably won't be able to construct them perfectly.

I also heard something about holding your nose and seeing whether or not you actually stop breathing. Because breathing is regulated subconsciously, you are supposedly unable to alter your breathing while dreaming.

There are a lot of other dream checks like these to perform when you're trying to induce lucid dreaming, and I'd suggest doing multiple just in case one or two don't work. I've definitely convinced myself that a dream was real because one of these checks didn't work.

Sorry, I don't remember any sources.

pureskill ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 16:21:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I attempted this a few times. I used my hands as indicators as to whether or not I was dreaming. Unless my hands were perfectly as they should be, I knew I was dreaming. It was going well for the first few attempts. It was quite amazing actually. The final time did not go as well. I dreamed my family had been brutally murdered. I checked my hands, and they looked slightly deformed. It didn't matter though. As much I tried to wake, I just couldn't. Then I did... or so I thought. I woke up in a dimly lit, austere version of my home. I walked down stairs to find the same murder scene again. It was absolutely terrifying. I checked my hands again to know that I was dreaming. After screaming, "Wake up!" for about a minute I finally did. I actually woke up screaming out loud. It was about 3 a.m., and I was too shaken up to go back to sleep. I haven't had the courage to try it again.

tl;dr: Tried lucid dreaming, got trapped in a dream in which my family died, was too afraid to ever try again.

SteveJEO ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:20:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Dreaming a loop isn't exactly fun but you can break them. (even if it is only waking up)

The worst one I got stuck in over the last year was 5 loops which didn't leave me fit for much of anything the following day.

(bastarding thing was sequential too)

They tend to sneak up on you though so you don't realise you are actually dreaming at the time... which is a bit shit.

escapist11 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 17:03:06 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I love doing this. When I realize that it's a dream, I usually tell the person that we can do whatever we want because its a dream. They freak out and don't believe me. I prove it to them by calling out the name of someone I know and that person shows up.

If I'm talking to an attractive person when I become lucid, I make advances towards them and let them know that it's just a dream and we can do whatever we want...wink wink...it usually turns out well.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:51:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

A word of warning though, trying to lucid dream can lead to sleep paralysis. At least it has for me on a lot of occasions.

deus-exmachina ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 17:11:28 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Sleep paralysis is only scary if you don't know what it is.

welshsamurai ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:15:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

But that really isn't a huge deal. Definitely worth it for the desired outcome in my opinion.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:58:36 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I... Thank you. I'm gonna try this every night until I met the girl in my dream again.

jaguarzxxx ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 11:07:00 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You are most welcome. :) Good luck!

Antinous ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:28:14 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I used to lucid dream all the time when I was younger. I would run around grabbing women's boobs and looking for the girl I had a crush on.

jaguarzxxx ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:35:19 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, boobs and crushes are the epitome of lucid dreaming.

I_CAPE_RUNTS ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 15:33:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

i thought lucid dreaming is an old wives' tale

Carrotman ยท 25 points ยท Posted at 15:51:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No, just hard to consistently achieve. It takes practice and it's hard to retain without waking up or falling back into dream oblivion.

Vormav ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:15:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I remember doing it once when I was about 10 years old. I didn't realize what was happening at the time, but the clock indicated that I woke up 40 minutes later.

Would be nice to have it happen again. That night is a one of my only memories of that part of my life, and it's still quite vivid.

zurgutt ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:03:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

You can get lucky. I have been naturally doing it since i was 5 or something. Spontaneously very often, also by will. Found out decades later it is uncommon.

And yeah, most love i have felt has been in a dream. Couple of times. But they were of very low lucidity level. Felt such a loss when woke up.

DrJackolope ยท 16 points ยท Posted at 15:52:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's a very real, very awesome phenomenon. I've only ever done it twice and it was by accident. There are techniques on how to do it though and if you get good at it you could potentially do it every night.

nawdog ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:24:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have the ability to control my dreams. Yes they are just as real as free dreaming, but I find that a proper balance of free dreaming and lucid dreaming, so that you are not compleatly in control but have the ability to intervene in the plot line if you so choose give you the most satisfying feeling.

pseudocaveman ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 18:32:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I managed it once by accident and it helped me realise one of my biggest problems in life.

el_muerte17 ยท 10 points ยท Posted at 15:56:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Nope. I'm about halfway there... once every couple of weeks I'll be able to recognise I'm dreaming and begin manipulating my environment and "rewinding" the dream to re-enjoy the good parts or change the bad ones.

IIdsandsII ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:12:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

For me, once I realize it's a dream, I completely lose all abilities, as if I know it's a dream and in reality you can't do shit. In other words, once I realize it's a dream, the rules of reality take over within the dream.

0accountability ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 17:32:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've never been able to control mine. I just wake up as soon as I realize its a dream.

blingbin ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:13:45 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I love dreaming of being in some sort of predicament, realizing I'm in a dream, and coming up with some over the top solution.

entmike ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:04:28 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

As soon as I realize I'm in a dream (usually a nightmare that I'm more than glad to escape) I instantly wake up, whether I want to or not.

blingbin ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:13:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

For me, it doesn't happen regularly, its actually quite a rare occurrence. I find that they tend to happen if I've had on overly stressful day or if I'm just flat out exhausted.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:22:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What do you suggest for people who don't dream at all? I feel like I am missing out big time. I used to dream a lot, but now, not so much anymore at all. I remember maybe 1 or 2 dreams within the last year.

I_CAPE_RUNTS ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:28:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

stop taking amphetamines, ritalin, caffeine, etc.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:47:41 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I quite caffeine for about 6 months a couple year ago and I was more awake and alert during the day than ever before. I think I may try to achieve that again.

el_muerte17 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:33:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Are you using any sort of narcotic (including alcohol) to get to sleep? If so, I'd suggest dropping it. Also, make sure you're getting enough sleep. I'm no expert, but it seems reasonable to me that, if you're behind on sleep your body might skip over REM cycles... I know that when I'm exceptionally tired, it seems like I blink and it's morning already.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:47:06 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Marijuana in some cases, I don't drink too often. I also don't have a great sleep habit, I'll try and get into bed earlier.

Twatless ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:36:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I noticed this as well, I dont remember any dreams since I started smoking

Carrotman ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:30:08 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What helps is:

1. Excitement. Looking forward to dreaming. It will also motivate you to go to bed earlier.

2. Be well rested and get to bed earlier than normal. Don't wait till you MUST sleep.

3. Have a dream diary. It will help with point 1 and also help you remember your dreams after you wake up.

Marijuana is supposed to be an impediment, but I've also had some very vivid dreams afterwards. I presume it's because it increases the need for sleep, making point 2 harder to achieve.

deus-exmachina ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:06:19 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oh, but you dream!

Simply try to wrap your mind around that: you have multiple dreams every night. Start reading about dreams before you go to bed. That's a great start. It's also important to keep a consistent sleep cycle.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:08:03 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Awesome, thanks a lot for the info!!

XtianDK ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:16:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Mr. Badass over here!

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:45:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Nope, happened to me

SteveJEO ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:35:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

A surprising number of people think the same thing but nope.

Its real but difficult even when you can do it.

(being awake but not awake, making decisions and changing things but not being awake etc. Its easy to fuck up since you have a tendency to realise what you are doing too much and snap out of it ~ a key of some sort to say you are dreaming normally acts as a trigger through which you realise you are dreaming. The movie inception actually gives good reference to it.)

I was very surprised originally to find out that people dreamed in different modalities.

Some only dream in black and white, Others with no sound, lots have no sense of smell. Some people dream only variations of their own lives and others have whole worlds to live in as they sleep. One friend in particular dreams only in cartoons. (think Ren and Stimpy which is pretty odd)

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:43:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've always figured it was related to deja vu, in that you aren't actually in "control" or "predicting" the outcome, but the mechanism for forming memory is engaged in some sort of shenanigans.

emohipster ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:40:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Nope. I've done it multiple times and it's fucking awesome. It feels incredibly powerful.

benshere ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:22:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

[Spoiler] Which is why I loved the film Vanilla Sky.

fullofbones ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:23:26 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had my first lucid dream, not coincidentally, during my first nightmare.

The thing is, I don't get nightmares. I always have ridiculous adventures or sometimes get caught up in an imagined plot of some kind. So when I found myself in a haunted house with a bunch of weird shit trying to kill or scare me, I was initially frightened. But then a cat tried to trip me down the stairs by standing right in front of my feet... It was a solid object, nothing like a cat at all. I thought about it for a second, and said "this is a dream!" and spent the rest of the dream making fun of the haunted house.

Occasionally I can do it again, but it's not easy at all. And almost always when it happens, the excitement of being able to do whatever I want wakes me up.

XtianDK ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:08:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm trying to train myself in lucid dreaming at the moment. got any tips?

cjet79 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:04:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have been lucid dreaming most of my life without realizing that it was special. I actually don't like the experience since most of the time the way I enter into a state of lucid dreaming is when I am in mortal danger in the dream.

So after being nearly helpless against some kind of adversary or environment my body starts pumping adrenaline into me, and then I am suddenly in complete control of the situation. I always do the same thing: I vividly kill and destroy whatever it is that was threatening me, and then finish off anything else that happens to be around. Its shown me a very dark side of my mind, and the things I've done when in complete control horrify me.

jaguarzxxx ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:36:49 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well, if you could (consciously) get control earlier, you wouldn't end up in the mortal danger situations, thus avoiding any problems. :)

Not telling you you should do it though, I completely agree that it isn't for everyone.

Derpfacewunderkind ยท 23 points ยท Posted at 15:47:34 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream about 8 months ago that lasted 3 days of dream time while i was still working Ems. I will never forget it. In this dream I responded to a house where a female in her 20s had been cut severely and was bleeding out. She had a stab wound just above her heart that had (I found out later) nicked the aorta, but only barely so the blood loss was constant but not as severe as a fully lacerated one. I did everything by the book. Applied pressure, dumped iv fluids and got her in the ambulance ASAP. Lights and sirens goin I'm I'm the back. Her pressure starts falling, I remember seeing 70/40. It's at this moment she looks at me and says "please save me. I'm not ready to leave yet." I slam another iv in and give her meds to increase her pressure. (I don't know their names it was in a dream) she crashes and I start CPR. Get her to vfib and shock her with the defibrillator. She comes back and her pressure is holding at 80/30. We get her to the hospital and straight into surgery. Before I leave she looks at me and says, "you saved me. I know it and will never forget it." Days pass and in a sort of "what dreams may come" sort of way we fell in love and discovered we were soul mates. It's the only dream I have full recall of and will never forget. I cried when I woke up.

I felt like I had simultaneously saved and killed her. Edit:grammar and words stuff.

Composre ยท 23 points ยท Posted at 16:27:09 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes.

One of the most real dreams I've ever had. I remember not what she looked like, or sounded like; just her final words to me.

Rem as I dubbed her, was the love of my life. We were perfect for one another, as if we were a chimera. I cannot remember why, but at the end of this subconscious odyssey, she was trapped. Trapped inside a car, the exhaust was leaking inside. She was slowly dying; I did everything possible to save her... I couldn't.

Finally, someone was able to reach her. She on a stretcher in an ambulance, I beside her. Rem stares at me, knowing this wouldn't last.

"Will you always be with me?" she spoke faintly.

"Of course! I love you!" I couldn't believe she'd ask ms something so obvious.

"... No, not physically..."

A surge of electricity traveled my spine, a feeling of urgency came over me. I woke as soon as she spoke three tremendous words.

Never had I felt this love for someone; I fear I never will again.

These posts come up every so often. Many times I hope it's my Rem; this beautiful girl I've been with for years, with no physical touch. No inkling that she exists other than my promise, I'll always be with her.

ThiZ ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:40:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:09:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I hate to be the one to do this to you, man, because your story was touching. But I think your girl kinda gets around, if you know what I mean. I've certainly had a good REM, and I bet if you confessed to someone that you love REM, they'd come right back and tell you the same.

It's... it's time to let go.


Seriously, though. I agree with ThiZ dude.

gbCerberus ยท 22 points ยท Posted at 19:05:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

Sort of.

This is going to be long. And weird. But hopefully epic. I don't care if no one likes this, I've been meaning to write it down. My dream features a secret village, comic book magic, and the fucking singularity. I just want to make it clear before you read this that I had not taken any drugs. This is the closest I've ever come to having a waking dream.


I was an English explorer in India, ripped from the pages of The Jungle Book. I was underground, caving, and came across a passage that took me back up to the surface in an unfamiliar section of the country. The sun was setting. The land was heavily forested and unspoiled.

I pushed on and came across a native. Let's call him "Mowgli." We communicated as best we could through body language and symbols we drew on the ground. I showed him my gear and he showed me where I was on my map. It was bordered on all sides by geologic formations that rendered us completely cut off from the world. I gained Mowgli's trust and he shared some of the secrets of his people. Eventually he agreed to take me to his village.

(This is where the dream starts to get weird.)

The village was quiet, since it was at night. I could see faces looking out from windows. Mowgli took me to the village elder. We drank a stew and the elder spoke to me... in my mind. To my wonderment, he told me that they had figured out everything. You see, they had found the cure for all sickness, the fountain of youth, and had discovered the meaning of life. I knew I had to get back, I needed to tell the world!

I left them in peace and got back to my colonial-era camp by dawn. I grabbed some companions and went back to the cave, only to find the secret passage closed, as if there never was an opening. They all thought I was a fool and left me. Something inside told me to try again that night, just as the sun was going down.

I waited impatiently, unable to sleep. Walking around my camp, I heard news from a scout that bandits were sighted in the area. I inquired further and to my horror he said they were heading in the general direction marked on my map. I tried to comfort myself knowing that if I couldn't get to Mowgli's secluded village, neither could the bandits. Powerless, I continued to wait.

In the evening I announced I was going back out. Only one man trusted me enough to come with me. We headed back to the passage, now open, and rushed to the village.

Blood. Blood and gore everywhere.

The bandits had raided the village and, near as I could tell, killed everyone and chopped them to bits. I walked mute through the carnage, checking what was left of the bodies, but I couldn't find Mowgli. I couldn't fathom the reason why anyone would do this. Then I remembered what the elder had said about their secrets and, even though I didn't see anything of exceptional value on my first visit, I wondered if any artifacts or supplies had been taken. How would I know what to look for?

Things went from bad to horrible in the next moment. I spotted Mowgli's dead body, then I and my companion came under heavy gunfire from the surrounding brush. Before I realized what was going on, spiritual energy lifted up from the bodies of Mowgli and the villagers, entered me, and was projected outward as a sphere of protective energy.

My companion, however, was riddled with bullets and fell to the ground.

Time froze.

The spirit energy I was surrounded by spoke to me in my mind. It was the villagers. Mowgli, the elder, and others I did not meet -- they were all there. I talked to each one and learned about their lives. After an what seemed like an age, they finally uncovered their secret: they weren't, in fact, human.

They were demigod planes-walkers.

They were from another realm of existence and had visited Earth to live as humans. They wanted to see what it was like. Their experiment had been cut short, but their murders had finally given them the last experience they had sought: human depravity. They were going to leave now, but not before giving me a gift.

Everything became bright. Too bright -- burning -- and then I lost consciousness.

When I awoke (still inside my dream), it was as if I had never left. I was standing in the village, being shot at, still surrounded by the sphere of energy. Except now I was controlling it. The villagers, whoever they really were, were really gone now.

I wanted the bandits to go away. And they did. They just -- vanished into thin air. I didn't know what became of them and I didn't care.

I looked over at my dying companion and teleported to his side with barely an effort.

I knelt down to examine his wounds. I layed hands on him and healed him from the inside-out.

He sat up, amazed, and I gave him some time to gather his wits. My powers seemed limitless. What I wanted to do simply happened. I was omnipotent. I hoped what I was planning on next was within my power, because it meant something big. Something grand.

I spoke to him in his mind, like I had done with the village elder and then with all of the dead villagers. I learned about his life, his family back home. He wanted to be back with them. I promised him that he could, soon, and to a degree that he couldn't have possibly imagined before, well, before what I did next.

After concentrating hard, I summoned the same spiritual light that the villagers had shone on me. Then I shared that power with him.

For an hour we experimented. We worked out the rules. We read each other's thoughts and became permanently linked, no matter the distance. We discovered that we could summon objects, anything we could imagine, into being. We couldn't fly, but we could teleport. We visited the Moon, built an airtight shelter, and came back to Earth as equals.

We went to his family back in Britain. My friend healed his daughter who happened to be sick and tried to share our power with all of them, but curiously it didn't work on the children. But now his wife was omnipotent and I formed I mental link with her. The three of us forged a telepathic network.

3

Then I knew. If we could pass on this power to another, then we could pass it on to everyone. Over the next few months, a new world dawned. The minds of mankind linked together, forming a telepathic network that stretched across the planet.

187

It grew to the thousands--

11,687

--then the millions.

2,006,875

Projects to end hunger and misery were finished barely after they began. An Earth-crossing asteroid was gently nudged aside. Some constructed starships and set out to tell us what was out there.

45,578,245

All the while we were connected at an intimate level. The flow of information was insane. No one knew what was about to happen.

958,346,234

It was becoming saturated. Something stirred.

3,385,255,967

A mind was waking up.

6,989,245,237

...!


I awoke before my alarm was set to go off because it got too epic.

I layed in bed for several minutes recounting my dream. I forced myself to get up and get ready for work. Everything that day seemed a little gray and washed out, lifeless.

It's been a week and I still think back fondly. I kind of feel like Captain Picard did at the end of "The Inner Light."

TL;DR: Had a peyote-induced trip in a dream, minus the peyote. I can only conclude that the human imagination is fucking amazing.

[deleted] ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 21:08:40 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Wow. Up-fucking-voted.

Question, though:

it didn't work on the children.

Wouldn't the power have died out after your generation passed? Dreams are weird, so I can totally understand that plot hole being fixed in your dream. Unless there's some other explanation?

gbCerberus ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:57:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Maybe it has something to do with maturity, which is different from person to person. I guess the next generation would be able to grow into it and replace old people who die (if people still die).

There are other holes in this. We have demonstrated rather well that power corrupts. Giving everyone, including psychopaths, unlimited power would create a lot of problems.

I feel really silly sharing this dream. Not only is it weird, it's a lot of mental masturbation. But I guess that's what dreams are, eh?

phewy ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:33:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

wait so are you describing how you almost had a lucid dream? Because lucid dreams are very easy to have. Either way, sounds like an epic dream, and yes, the mind is beyond comprehension in its potential.

withnailandpie ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:12:32 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Theres an Asimov story which provides an ending to this tale

secrete_dave ยท 20 points ยท Posted at 11:36:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Scum Bag Brain! Its only happened to me twice. Both times they were the dreams that seem to last a really long time, like a few years, and I really get to know the person...then you wake up! Both times i spent a good few days thinking about it and hoping i would have the same dream again. Never happens. Oh well, c'est la vie!

Wolfszeit ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:19:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

C'est le rรชve!

54z ยท 51 points ยท Posted at 12:48:06 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

I had this dream about a year ago:

I was on a plane. Across from me was a stunningly beautiful woman. She looked kind and open hearted. About 75 years old, silver hair. We locked eyes. She turned to me, and i could see that her blouse was open, and she had a opening into her chest cavity going deep into her body; the opening wasn't like a fresh wound...imagine something well post surgery, healed over with unscarred skin. I looked past her out the window, and saw the cloud line, we were just above it. Then the cloud line dropped, and dropped, and I realized the plane was banking. And it kept banking, and I realized that we were actually falling towards the earth, about to crash. We locked eyes again, and held each other that way until we were about to hit ground and I woke up.

[deleted] ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 19:49:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

She looked kind and open hearted.

โ™ฅ

she had a opening into her chest cavity going deep into her body.

I see it... เฒ _เฒ 

54z ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:28:36 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

not bleeding. I'll correct the original. Oh, I see what you mean now. The pun was unintended. Though eery.

txrangers2011 ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 16:09:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's a little fucked up, but I'm not one to talk.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:20:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

David Freese--you mad, bro?

txrangers2011 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:47:20 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

:/

CitizenJake ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:23:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's all about the feelings in the context of the dream.

desmond234 ยท 31 points ยท Posted at 10:58:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yeh this happens to me every now and then. I will dream I am with an awesome girl, perfect in every way, totally in love. Then I wake up all sad. Stupid brain I am not lonely quit it!

kamiikoneko ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:55:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Everyone is lonely.

goddamnferret ยท 16 points ยท Posted at 15:57:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I "killed" a part of my personality when I started on anti psychotics. There was another thought train that wasn't mine, that had it's own opinions/personality. I enjoyed his company most of the time, and it was always good to be able to get a second opinion on everything. I eventually had a melt down though, and was freaking out at the possibility that someday the roles would change, and I would be the odd thought process, while he "drove".

I feel bad, because he probably would have been my best friend/partner if he had his own body. I still feel twinges that tell me he's still there, but I never hear from him anymore.

SparroHawc ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:58:43 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

If you can get past that fear, it's entirely possible you could give him a voice again. All you need to do is let him have a form to speak to you through. It might even be that giving him an imaginary form would free you from the worry of him taking the wheel, since he could roam around as he likes.

Plenty of people have communicated with aspects of their personality by giving them a shape in their imagination. It's the same situation as an author whose characters don't always cooperate with the story. I know I have more than a couple extra personalities sitting in my headspace - but they're perfectly happy sleeping for a while when I'm not writing them, and I'm alright with that.

williambawesome ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:26:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What are these twinges like? And how real was he? I Very facinated by this

[deleted] ยท 17 points ยท Posted at 11:21:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Now and then I have dreams where I'm a mother. The kids are always really young, mostly babies, and for one reason or another I can never actually be with them. They're always under another family's care, I just go to visit them. I always feel like this separation is due to something tragic that happened, but I generally don't know what, and I cry a lot as I hold them... the feeling doesn't go away when I wake up.

mushroomgirl ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 13:27:08 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

a couple of months ago i had a very vivid dream where i was pregnant. the dream lasted the duration of the nine month pregnancy. it felt so real, every second of it. as soon as i went into labour i woke up. i never got to meet the baby.

i spent the next week or so walking around as if i had actually lost a real child. even now im tearing up at the prospect of that lost child.

[deleted] ยท 38 points ยท Posted at 10:52:51 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Quite a few times actually. When I wake up, I felt like they had died :(

Wolfszeit ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:13:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oah shit. I just remembered some dreams I used to be haunted by as a kid.

On a few occasions I have actually dreamed that my mother and/or father had cancer, and they died. It was all so realistic, and I really couldn't tell it was just a dream. Everything felt so vivid. The terror, the moment you realise you will NEVER see you parents again. It terrified me to the bone.

Waking up was like grasping for air after being under water for far too long. Best feeling ever.

I some times ended up hugging my parents too (usually I'm not one for hugging). They never knew why I did that, but it seemed to make them happy. Also I learned to appreciate them more, and enjoy the time I still had with them.

[deleted] ยท 30 points ยท Posted at 10:58:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes. When I was younger I had recurring dreams about this boy and I was in love with him. We would hang out and do amazing things in my dreams and I'd wake up and feel all lonely.

Willie_Main ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 17:53:51 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm still here.

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 18:03:30 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oh god yes... i'll have to write about it but i had that dream about 4 times a month for about a year and half....

I would write a book about him and I...

Im still crushed that hes not real... Been almost 3 years since i last saw him....

He was in a grave/those things you berry people in.... saddest day month ever...

If anyone wants to hear more tell me...

NoticesIrony ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:08:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

This story piqued my interest. I'd love for you to continue! Also, I am curious as to what religion you follow which involves such fruity graves

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:14:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

I cant spell vary well,English is like a second langwitch to me,I am partly deaf so that is why i hear things wrong all the damn time.

There is no religion with me

NoticesIrony ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:19:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

noticeable drop in spelling and grammer since last post.

HMMM...

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 23:24:39 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

I have a script that helps me see mistakes like that, I didn't use it that time.

Its called After The Deadline

Before I submit any thing it ask if I want to check.

See here

It highlights errors in Red(Spelling),blue(Havent seen this is forever not sure what it stands for) and green(Grammer) like word.

NoticesIrony ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:06:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I actually have occasional dreams of the same blonde tall white girl. I don't love her, but I feel she used to be a nice girl. Turned into a bit of a wild girl over time though, and I'm too introvert to hang out with her at parties.

My dream-girl changed and aged over time, basically. She's always portrayed as about my age.

stroke_your_beard ยท 10 points ยท Posted at 11:38:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Back when I was a kid, I dreamt of this skater girl who agreed to go out with me. We had a few terrific dates, and I fell in love with her in the dream. It felt so real.

Woke up the next day and burst into tears because it wasn't real :'(

[deleted] ยท 12 points ยท Posted at 15:36:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

From 500 days of Summer:

Robin is better than the girl of my dreams. She's real.

Dbluesdude ยท 10 points ยท Posted at 15:50:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well not exactly someone I met in a dream but relevant.

I had a fight with my girlfriend and we broke up I tried sucking it up. Come bed time, I had a dream where we patched everything back together, and I was so happy.

It was so deep in my heart it was true, that seconds before I woke up I received a text from her in the dream world and , now awake and fully believing I had her back in my life I rolled over to my phone to read the text.

Nothing there. It came to me that nothing was fine , I had lost her and it was just a vivid dream. Just soul shattering, I couldn't help but sob myself back to sleep.

Thankfully that same day later I call her, she picks up and we start talking again. One week from that day, we get back together and going strong for 1 year now. Couldn't live without her anymore.

SandpaperVagina ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 13:58:03 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No, but I hate when I have a meaningful deep conversation with a friend in a dream, wake up and realize I haven't seen or talked to that person in 10 years....

priestofdisorder ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 17:50:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Daylight licked me into shape. I must have been asleep for days and moving lips to breath her name i opened up my eyes. And found myself alone above a raging sea that stole the only girl i loved and drowned her deep inside of me

withnailandpie ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:06:22 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

SaUce, or yours?

priestofdisorder ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:07:53 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Just like heaven... i was waiting for you

gqbrielle ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 12:11:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

yes.

also i've dreamed i had deep personal connections to various celebrities and then woken up and felt sad that i didn't and then creepy for feeling sad.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:16:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've had the same thing happen. It sucks and I've also felt creepy about it but whatever. At least I'm not the only one...

sneezybees ยท 13 points ยท Posted at 15:13:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Personally, I think that those people in your dreams are extensions of yourself. Getting to know the person in the dream is really you getting to know yourself. When you wake up, that person doesn't "die". They were you all along and now you know that part of yourself exists.

listenheretwinkletit ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 14:02:51 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:23:52 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Thought this was familiar!

incredimike ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 14:43:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, and I forgot about them until now. Thanks a lot, jerkface.

sigh

kezza596 ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 14:53:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I did once. I grew up with them, went through all the way through the usual teen drama, and eventually we both moved into comfortable lives with partners and kids. Then I woke up. I missed her terribly for a little while. To this day I feel that I lost a life-long friend, from about 4 seconds of dreaming.

gillagalla ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 14:45:49 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had 3 or 4 dreams that i had a really cute boy called Tommy, one night he ran into a road and i woke up screaming his name and crying. never dreamed about him again.

[deleted] ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 15:02:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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blastfemur ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:13:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I love steam punk dreams. Last night I was driving a steam punk Eldorado roadster (that doesn't exist in real life) and I was listening to Superfly on the radio. Vivid.

[deleted] ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 15:25:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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sheislove06 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:46:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Me too ! I posted the story a bit higher, isn't it funny how coincidences like that happen ? I still feel a bit sad that it wasn't real :/

[deleted] ยท 15 points ยท Posted at 16:40:28 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

GOD FUCK IT THIS JUST HAPPENED LAST NIGHT

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 17:49:07 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Wake up...

sheislove06 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:35:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It just happened to me too, I was a bit shocked to see this right now because I've been feeling really sad all morning ... In my dream it was a guy based on a guy I know but also based on someone else and there was a zombie attack ( probably a result of my playing plants vs. zombies so often these days) and we were with a group of other people , some acuaintances of mine and some relatives, and some random people I don't know.. anyways we ended up hiding out in a house and I kept looking at him trying to think about how I felt about him , when he just hugged me out of nowhere , I have never felt in my life what I felt when he was holding me , just last night , and I looked to my friend and said omg I'm in love with him, I really am in love with him, and I have been all along .. and she just laughed at me like she knew . Somehow the zombies found us and we just held eachother and it felt so tight and so warm, that I wasn't even scared to die . In real life the thought of death terrifies me ..

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:03:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Plants vs. Zombies -- that game's addictive ways will do all sorts of things to your mind, waking or otherwise.

My dream:

I dreamed that I was in the Baltimore Aquarium, which was in this case located somewhere in central Maryland. I've lived in Jersey and New England my whole life, so I have a strong desire to elsewhere. South sometimes, I guess. But usually west...

First I was in a parking garage, trying to find a place to park this little thing I was driving around -- the size of a suitcase, but with wheels so that you could ride it around like a little mobile platform. Lost, I eventually found myself in some maintenance/administration hallways in the aquarium complex, very confused. I passed a small group of suited employees for help, but they were in a hurry. Soon I was able to find myself in some of the aquarium's main floor, although I was still carrying my platform-suitcase around by the handle, luckily it was very light.

I asked some stubborn-looking woman for help -- her character was derived from the real-life mother of one of my friends. The real-life mother I met while on a road trip in Louisiana, on a stop during which I had a mental breakdown, and she scolded me during the trip for being bipolar. I left my ukulele at that house by accident and haven't got it back yet, very stressful as I am a musician.

In the dream I asked her for directions to a bathroom -- while I was traveling around frantically I had somehow gotten my clothes drenched in muck and water. I was wearing several layers of clothing and assumed that one or another would be dry and clean enough to look presentable. I smiled incessantly while talking to her, trying to be genuine and casually friendly and she sensed this, responding in turn by smiling nervously back at me. She pointed me down a brach of the building, a doorway leading down a slightly incline corridor sloping downwards. To the right side of the hallway there were placed enormous glass windows that let guests see into a sunlit water tank of whatever aquaria it did contain. A bathroom door was on the left.

I went in and began taking off two layers of coats, an undershirt, a second layer of pants (like snow pants, perhaps). I am in there for a long time trying to peel off the muddy layers and figure out which will be clean and most presentable to wear on top of the rest. I don't have any way of carrying them, as I have no bag with me -- only my little suitcase platform. Maybe I could wrap up the extra clothes in a bundle. I am not hot wearing so many layers, but nor cold without them.

There is a knock on the door -- maybe someone thinking that I am taking too long? But instead it a is a very pretty older girl, taller than me (I am not a large person) but thin and with bright eyes and short, dark hair. She is holding a small paper cup with some pills in it, and I realise then that the aquarium is also some sort of mental health clinic. Lately my mind, in real life and in dreams, has been drifting toward schizophrenia and heavy depression -- in fact, the only reason I had this dream is because I have been in bed sleeping for three days straight -- and so it is all the more significant as a result of this.

We begin to talk and things are well, she is kind and I am glad someone is listening to me, because I am extremely lonely. She usually leaves patient's pills in scattered but regular places throughout the building, where specific patients are known to go and check for them on their own accord. I notice behind her there is a small bundle of them stuck to the wall just where one of the glass panes meets its frame, three different colored pills almost magnetically attached, as though they just decided to be there by themselves, and I ask her about them. She doesn't really touch all of the pills, she said. Sometimes they just end up wherever they are supposed to be.

Like I said, it was good to have someone to talk to.

VulpesAbnocto ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:25:34 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

None of this is real. Think about it. How did you get here.

demonika ยท 9 points ยท Posted at 15:23:09 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream where I was watching a child named Patois, who was about 3. She was so beautiful and she had this ability to change the color of any object. She was changing the trees from green to gold and then to purple.

Anyway, Patois somehow gets a way from me a moment and I realize that she was abducted by a child labor camp. I had to fight through all of this barbed wire while dodging grenades to rescue her.

I finally get to Patois, grab her and started running only to run into brick wall. We were cornered and that's where I watched her tiny body get shot up by a machine gun. I woke up and just cried and cried for hours. I still mourn for the loss of Patois. Wow, I feel like crying again.

someguy674 ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 14:39:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I hate making an awesome connection with someone i know that is in my dreams... only to wake up and realize that these people have no idea how i feel about them. Thats the shitty part.

stretch112 ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 16:05:14 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes. But its was a dog. A dog that could speak. Speak like Stephen Fry. Best dream ever.

hawkeye420 ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 01:50:32 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Not exactly a person I met in a dream, but.... Let me explain.

When I was 19, my older brother and best friend (one person), died when he was thrown from a rolling SUV after the driver fell asleep on the interstate. This happened as him and his friends were making their way back to San Diego after we spent the weekend together attending 3 days of Widespread Panic concerts at Red Rocks in Colorado.

On to the original subject, I often had very vivid dreams where I was hanging out with my brother again. Every time I had a dream about him, I knew I was dreaming, but it was so awesome to spend time with him again. The strange thing is that we had shirts made for us that Red Rocks weekend, that had a quote from the song "Dreamsong". "Wake up in your dream, you can do anything there." To this day, I feel like that quote is the only reason I was able to "wake up" in my dreams.

I would always wake up in the morning as if I had just been given another opportunity to be with my brother, and never took those moments for granted.

I'm sad to say that I haven't had one of these dreams in a really long time. Love you Michael.

Tscherhyl ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:34:50 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm sorry for your loss. I once dreamed of attending my brother's funeral. Seeing his portrait in the parlor was so gut-wrenching, I could not get rid of that feeling for real-life days. I cannot imagine how heart-breaking it would be, internet hug/pat to you.

Wolfenblade ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 09:24:18 on January 13, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm sure this will get buried, but I had a dream a few years ago that still haunts me.

In this dream, I apparently had a girlfriend/wife that I had known for most of my life. She had light red hair, a soft kind voice, and one of the most beautiful faces I had ever seen. We had been talking for a while(though the conversation details are unknown to me), and I remember saying that I was tired. She then lovingly said for me to rest my head on her lap. I laid there in a lull as she started humming quietly. I was looking in here eyes and she was looking back; It was a very peaceful and serene moment.

All I remember after that was waking up with a happy feeling. I looked around for a moment, hoping to see her. I then relized that I had been dreaming. I have never felt so depressed and had such a sense of loss in finding out that a dream wasn't real.

I don't often post on reddit, so I hope this wasn't boring.

PhillyFade ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:43:28 on January 19, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Shit man. I feel sorry for you. Have a late upvote.

bortorg ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 13:48:45 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I not only had this happen, I found her in real life about 2 days later at a place very similar to my dream. I really wish I had asked her name because in my dream it was a double name (which tends to be pretty rare). I still regret not trying to this day.

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 16:16:51 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I seriously doubt you dreamed someone to life. My guess is whether you consciously knew it or not, you had seen her before.

bortorg ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:54:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It was a coincidence I'm sure. They had on the same clothes (matching jean jacket and tight jeans) and a even the same haircut and hair color. That and the locations in the dream were similar, though not identical, to those in which I encountered her. Oh and this was on a field trip to a location I had not visited before in another city.

It was a perfect storm of coincidences.

notdemama ยท 8 points ยท Posted at 13:57:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
legendaris ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 14:16:18 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

YES! There's a very disturbing story about a girl I dream of in April 2008 and was never able to forget her. I don't know why but the emotions I felt after that dream must have made such an impact that I remember every little detail about it.

fluxuation ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 14:53:03 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This happens to me a few times. It's either with a stranger or I'll dream about girls I know in real life. Kind of sucks when you wake up.

ArCaDe4tw ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 14:54:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

A couple of years back I remember having a feeling like that. I was depressed for two days after the dream. Neither did I know the person, nor did I know the location where the dream took place. I still remember nearly every detail of the place, but not the person.

Scumbag brain... :O

Epicon3 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 15:02:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I search this world daily for the woman in my dreams.

Every night it is the same person.

She has to be real...

Epicon3 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:26:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've actually written a great deal of poetry around this subject.
If anyone is interested, I'll consider starting a post to find said person.

dimmonkey ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 15:27:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream once where I got amnesia and was piecing my life back together. My family, who I didn't remember, were having a reunion and I was planning it for them before the accident. I was physically ok, I just didn't remember anything before the accident, so I was going on these adventures with my boyfriend (who was a figment of my dream) trying to figure out who I was. I was also still MC'ing the reunion, because my dream family was so wonderful and supportive that I wanted to know them again, even if I couldn't remember them.

I was consumed with this amazing feeling of love and acceptance from people I didn't know. Then I woke up. =(

727Super27 ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 16:04:36 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Okay, crazy story time. I had a recurring dream around March and April of last year. The beginning of the dream was always different and was insignificant. But whatever I was dreaming about would be interrupted by the presence of a 25 or 30 year old lady who would be facing away from me, then slowly turn her head to look at me. She had big vivid brown eyes that looked very slightly too big for her face, and right when she looked me full in the face, it would feel as though she were reading my very soul. I would then wake up, not scared, but alarmed.

A few months later my company merged with another company, and one of the employees coming over from the other company was a young lady with the same vivid brown eyes and soul-reading glance. Every time I see her, I experience what I can only describe as terror, something icy gripping my heart, my legs get a bit shaky and I have to take a few minutes to recover.

The dreams have stopped, and I know it's coincidence, but I still can't look her in the eyes.

cusplord ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 17:07:07 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Good Carl Jung quote on the matter:

"Every man carries within him the eternal image of woman, not the image of this or that particular woman, but a definitive feminine image. This image is ... all imprint or "archetype" of all the ancestral experiences of the female, a deposit, as it were, of all the impressions ever made by woman.... Since this image is unconscious, it is always unconsciously projected upon the person of the beloved, and is one of the chief reasons for passionate attraction or aversion. "

Incredible_Mandible ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 22:23:07 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

A couple months ago there was a similar post here asking if anyone had ever fallen in love in a dream. I never had, but read the comments and was intrigued. Several nights later (possibly as it was on the brain) I had a dream where I fell in love with a girl.

I have always been a very vivid dreamer. I dream almost every night and can almost always remember most details. This was different. Time passed in this dream. LOTS of time. We met, fell in love, got married, had kids, lived most of our lives in this dream. When I woke up I felt like a part of me had died.

And here is the worst part. Despite the fact that I normally remember nearly everything in a dream, I cannot remember her face. I remember her smell. I remember her what her hair was like (blonde, which is weird as I am not normally attracted to blondes). I remember many of the things we did together, though it has faded over time.

And now I'm waiting for the day when I meet the girl with the long blonde, slightly curly hair that has a distinct flowery smell. So I can fuck it all up like the socially awkward penguin I am.

[deleted] ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 22:31:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Had a dream my freshman year of highschool that I was going down on a girl under the blankets.

I felt like I loved the girl in the dream.

I even masturbated to the dream. No jokes.

about four years later, I met my current girlfriend.

One day, I was giving her oral pleasures and I got the strongest deja vu ever! There was the same shape of light I could see coming in under her leg. And her smell was intensified like crazy.

This is the girl I dreamt about!

citrusjuicebox ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:33:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What about your scrotum?

NowTheyTellMe ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 23:31:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

My Mom died recently. In the 72 hours before she passed I had a number of dreams with her. It's honestly how I came to peace with everything. I got to tell her what I needed to tell her, and she told me what I needed to hear. I am not religious really, but a part of me wants to believe it was her consciousness reaching out to mine. It sounds crazy, but it makes me feel better.

accountt1234 ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 15:16:25 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

How do you know the person you met in your dream never really existed? The dreamworld you enter may simply be another type of reality.

Pinky_Swear ยท 7 points ยท Posted at 15:29:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I swear I've bid two soulmates goodbye in my dreams.

The first was on a beach. He was a soldier in uniform and had an injury to his leg. I walked down the pier steps, and ran to him, and I had the most overwhelming feeling of love. He was saying goodbye, and I knew I'd never see him again. I woke up bawling and was melancholy for days.

The second time, years later, I was in an Asian prison with an Asian man/soldier. Again, we were saying goodbye and I knew this was it. Cue waking up and crying like my heart had been ripped out.

These dreams happened over ten years ago but my heart still lurches when I remember the intensity of emotion I felt during and afterwards. It felt as though the dreams had been sent to tell me that my true soul mate in this world had died, and that I'd have to wait another lifetime to see him again. It was so strangely devastating. I never before and have never since experienced emotions or dreams like those.

I am currently married to a wonderful man. He's joining the Air Force this year. I guess I am just meant to be with a soldier.

thisoneplease ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:16:09 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I don't wanna be a downer or anything, but considering both dreams ended with you never being able to see your soldier man again, maybe you should not let your husband join the airforce O_O

Pinky_Swear ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:58:38 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Heh...the economy has left us no choice, unfortunately. My last day of work is tomorrow (lay off) and my husband was just barely able to find work after his lay off. He's got a masters degree and is cleaning dryer lint. We would have to go on government aid (foodstamps and shit), if something isn't done. Air Force it is.

What will be, will be. Thank you for your concern, though. :)

thisoneplease ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:42:58 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Ahhh, I'm glad you decided to do something, rather than not do anything at all. Best wishes to you and your husband.

TKInstinct ยท 17 points ยท Posted at 14:39:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You're assuming that they don't exist. For all you know, that other person could very well be real and may have connected via the dream world. This too may be a fantasy, but it's an alternative theory.

InvaderDem ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 16:59:41 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

They actually do exist. Any person you see in a dream, you've seen in real life, even if you just saw them for a second.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:37:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

But the personality you assign them in the dream is fabricated. Unless you believe we're all some sort of psychics that can ascertain people's personalities by merely passing them on the street.

Additionally, show me evidence that one cannot make a composite physical form of a person based on numerous people. If we can composite, then even the physical forms don't necessarily exist.

InvaderDem ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:26:08 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Considering how complex the human brain is - I would imagine that the brain could make up faces ... but a lot of the stuff I've read has said that if you've seen a person in your dream, you've seen him/her in real life - whether consciously or subconsciously. One of the odd things about the brain, I guess, just like how it's able to diagnose issues with any part of your body other than itself.

To your first point, yeah, the personality assigned to that person isn't what the actual person may be like. But my point was to point out that personality aside, the person does technically exist.

askolsunburcu ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:01:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I don't think that's entirely accurate. The subconscious is complex enough to "build" people from scratch.

ThiZ ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:01:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

We both took wrong turns at Dream's castle.

jules2689 ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 15:46:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

According to modern psychology, the human brain during a dream state is incapable of creating a human face, and instead will use one it has seen before. It doesn't matter if you remember, because your subconscious has seen it. You will then use this face in the dream. The person exists, but you obviously fabricate a personality.

Tl;dr You use faces you see IRL in your dreams, you don't create them. Thus, the person does actually exist, but you fabricated his/her personality.

Source: Experimental psychology, taught by Dr. K. Campbell (neuropsychologist) of the University of Ottawa.

MattBrox ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 14:00:14 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Amplified dream emotions are pretty common. In one of my dreams I was on a boat with someone who I felt was a long-time lover of mine, but they were both faceless and genderless. However, I had a mission in this dream: to kill this person. I ran at them and wrapped my arms around them, like a hug, and pulled us both over-board. It had the warmth of a hug x100 โ€“something I'm sure you can't feel in real-life. In the water I decided to let go when they stopped squirming, but they never did and eventually we both passed out.

When I woke up, I genuinely felt like a murderer for the day.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:43:28 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have a recurring dream that development or construction or something is going on in a place where I buried the body of someone I killed and I am going to be found out. It's very distressing and I am conscious in the dream of wondering how I could have ever killed someone.

kekekeorz ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 15:19:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

i once had a dream that i had a parrot. knowing that it was a dream i hid it under my pillow. when i woke up it was not there :(

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:16:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

D'oh. Foiled again!

paninini ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 15:22:36 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was in a Final Fantasy 7-ish type world and the love of my life lived in a junkyard.

awwf ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 15:40:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I do exist

munchies1122 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 15:47:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I felt a deep personal connection with my ex-wife in my dream that i had last night. I thought we had gotten back together, we were smiling and laughing. she was in love with me again. But then i woke up on my brothers couch. sucks man.......

Rosetti ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 15:58:07 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah, I once had a dream where I fell in love and vice versa with this girl from my class. It's strange because other thinking she was hot, I didn't have any attraction to her in real life (she wasn't that nice a person). But in this dream we were in love, then I woke up and I felt awful.

Also another dream story some might find amusing, I was dreaming and came across this cool girl, we started chatting and hit it off. I asked her out and she turned me down. I woke up after that and wasn't sure whether to laugh or cry at the fact that I literally couldn't even get a girl in my dreams.

Ent- ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 16:06:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Does a Lamborghini count. I couldn't get it out of second gear though. I guess it hasn't been my day.

Crash_Lamborghini ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:07:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Don't drink and drive next time, jerk.

NickTheNewbie ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 17:52:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

There was a really good Star Trek TNG episode sort of about this where picard gets hit by a probe and ends up living a whole alternate life in the span of a couple hours.

silverglade00 ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 22:57:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I dreamed of my baby sister. I met her on a small boat on a lake that looked gold because of the sun's reflection. She was about 5 years old and her name was Chrissie. We touched hands and I instantly saw our whole 5 years together. Then we hugged and I could feel how much she loved me as her big brother. Then she told me that she had to go and that I shouldn't be sad. I stepped back onto the dock and she floated away in the boat. I can still picture her face to this day and I am sad because I miss her. I haven't had the nerve to ask my mom if she ever had a miscarriage.

shmi ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 02:17:46 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

This happens to me maybe once a year or so on average.

Each time I meet her in my dreams, it's like everything falls into place. Everything makes sense, nothing else matters. My heart and soul light up like a Christmas tree. She's there, beautiful, so beautiful, inside and out.

Picture laying in bed in your old age, surrounded by loved ones. You know the end is near, but you have time to look back on your life and realize the difference you made, the meaning you squeezed from your years and the things you've seen, experienced and done. The whole of your life being greater than the sum of the individual parts. This is what she feels like. The realization of life, of love. The truth of it.

It feels so god damn good, so right. I wake up slowly, inevitably. I lay there half-conscious, and sometimes, if by some stroke of luck this plays out on a weekend morning, I can force myself into a state close enough to a lucid dream for a bit. This feeling of dread in the pit of my stomach, dread of losing ahold of this dream, this temporary reality that I want so strongly, this emotion makes me push myself back into this dream, maybe for a few minutes, maybe another two hours. I drown myself in it as long as I can. I don't want to let go, in fact I never really want to wake up.

I miss her, but she doesn't even exist. It hits me like a sack of bricks. Every. Single. Time. I spend the rest of my day in a daze. Nearly depressed, but not quite, since I know how ridiculous it all is. But you know what? I can't wait for the next time it happens.

[deleted] ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 03:02:24 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I just had a dream about finding an old video on my computer and showing my brother.

I clicked it and it was a very old video of a "play" I coordinated. When it built up to one moment, I was the center of attention and playing guitar. The crowd goes wild, it's every person I've ever known in highschool and everyone is cheering and laughing and crying in joy. It focuses on me for once and I have the largest smile on my face and I'm rocking it.

Then it focuses to my one friend, he's laughing so hard because he loves the show. Every note pulsates the cheer and note between the entire crowd.

Next it shows him on stage, kissing a girl for the first time and it snaps to his mother, who is crying and laughing from so much excitement and joy that her son is on stage doing this play.

The clip ends and my brother has a smile on his face, I never felt so happy.

My best friend is a recovered drug addict who I stopped talking to for several years due to his abuse and my attempt at intervention for him to stop.

His mom is a selfish mean dissapointing person who always put her son down into depression and blamed me for his drug addiction.

I never felt so sick in my life.

[deleted] ยท 19 points ยท Posted at 10:52:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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[deleted] ยท -64 points ยท Posted at 13:39:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I know right! The OP is so pathetically lonely that he can form a deep personal connection in the 30 minute timespan of a dream.

I guess when you're that forever alone and awkward, encountering other awkward "dream characters" that were fabricated by the same awkward brain must feel like a dream come true! (lol)

[deleted] ยท 6 points ยท Posted at 14:08:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

He said he had felt that connection was there, not that it was.

[deleted] ยท -20 points ยท Posted at 14:09:51 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

A connection that you felt was there was there. A connection is a fucking feeling, if you feel it, it exists.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:58:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I feel a connection with God, so he must exist.

its not black and white like ya make it to be, moron.

[deleted] ยท -3 points ยท Posted at 19:40:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Good job. You win the most retarded argument of the day. Think long and hard about why this is invalid.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:42:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

he can form a deep personal connection in the 30 minute timespan of a dream.

That's the thing though. "Deep personal connections" aren't what we like to think they are. You will NEVER really connect to another person. It's impossible. We're not some crazy science fiction creature with powers of telepathy. The feeling of being connected to someone is just that, nothing more than a feeling. It's something that could be turned on or off in a second if we had the right tools to fuck with shit at the synaptic level in someone's brain.

You might think that your deep personal connections with people are, well, deep. But they're not. They're no more deep or meaningful than a light switch that's been flipped from off to on.

[deleted] ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 20:45:51 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Scientific nihilist is nihilist.

[deleted] ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 14:08:46 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No, my troll brain prefers to do with people I know. This is infinitely worse. I'm not lonely by any means, I'm in a great relationship, so I also feel like a scumbag.

fosterwallacejr ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 15:34:39 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

There are many philosophers and thinkers who support the idea that dreams as well as fiction are no less valid than reality, I definitely have always taken that idea seriously

SparroHawc ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:49:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Validity is entirely a mental construct. If it's real enough to elicit emotions, it's real to you. It happened, whether or not others experienced it, and there's no sense in denying it.

It's our experiences that define us, 'real' or not.

SpartaWillBurn ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 20:48:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Except no, it's wrong.

fosterwallacejr ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 23:51:03 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

i dont like your attitude.

Omegaspleen ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 14:59:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

i still go on thinking about mine. this person apperad in three dreams one each night. she always said. "were ya been i missed you?" i wish i could actually find this person but it kills me to know some one this perfect isnt wating for me. Forever alone it would seem

Systemizer ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:00:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Just happened. Hopped on the train to my dream girl because, as my crazy ex's brother stated right after they got on a tram, "you don't want this one, that trains ride is going to last a lot longer." So i hopped on the side of the train for an epic return...then i woke up.

dozere34 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:05:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When I was younger I had a reoccurring dream that a couple girls I went to school with were trying to kill, I couldn't even bring my 10 year old self to look at them for they were like talking about killing me.

crashfest ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:07:06 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah usually the dream will be my friends and i heading out and they invite someone along.It'll be a whole "day", going from light to nighttime, and my friends will keep heading off ahead of us or me and him will stay back as we go around doing different things. It just seems so real.

obsidianpanther ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:08:40 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes. I had one particular person pop up multiple times over the course of a month or so. It got to the point where I learnt his name. Matthew Michael Windemere. He was my age and blonde and really attractive. He would just appear at random in various dreams. It got very distracting because for a while I thought I would try and find him... But yeah silly because it's just someone my subconsious made up D:

mreskimo ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:22:34 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'd always dream about girls I knew then I'd be in love with them for that day until I remembered they were nothing like that

betabandzz ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:29:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I always have a dream with this amazing guy always the same guy. In fact in the dream we already got marry and have a really cute little boy. The problem is that I have never meet him. Every time I wake up I walk around the city just to see if I can find him. I been having a dream with a this guy since I was a teen.

AKA_Squanchy ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:31:38 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I dreamt about, well, my dream girl once. We had such a great time, laughing and being silly. Then I woke up. Just like you said, it was depressing, as if someone died. Strange thing, our brains.

danielkruczek ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:31:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

My first kiss was in a dream and it felt better than my first kiss irl later on.

Also I once asked some kind of dwarflike creature if this was a dream or not, the creaeture said that this was of course not a dream

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:38:26 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream in which I was a foster child. I ended up in a foster home with a extremely religious family that already had a biological daughter. The daughter and I got along well, and over the course of the dream we became closer and closer through mundane everyday things. I think I felt love, or some strong emotion similar of the platonic variety. Anyway, I found out this girl could talk to animals, which her religious parents thought was a sign of the devil and beat her for. I didn't know she was being beaten at first, but when i did I was furious. I tried to report the abuse but the parents sweet talked their way out of it with child services. Finally, I tried to convince her to run away with me but her parents found out and beat her again, and I couldn't do anything. The next day we ran away, and I woke up full of hope and anger and love for my foster sister. I realized after a moment that it was just a dream, and felt a twist inside because she wasn't real. I thought about her for the next few days. Because I knew she wasn't real, I did not truly grieve, just felt a pang of emotion and sadness when I thought of her.

duncangeere ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:46:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Sort of -- though they do exist.

I've had a few very vivid dreams that Princes William and Harry suddenly turn out to be my cousins, through a long-lost family member. We meet up, and have a real connection and get on amazingly well. They turn out to be lovely people, and not stuck-up at all.

Then I wake up, and feel really bummed out that we're not friends after all.

doojman52420 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:00:09 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's crazy to think that the human brain is that powerful, to the point where, for the time you're asleep that person is as real everyone else on this planet. Perception is everything

K4ntum ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:07:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Every few months, i have a really vivid dream about this girl, she never looks the same, but i can always tell it's her, the dream scenario is never the same either, the only thing that remains the same is me waking up really depressed for the rest of the day.

Knowing that someone like that is just a creation of my unconscious, and thus will never exist sometimes is sad indeed.

ThiZ ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:46:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I feel ya, man.

Tibyon ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:08:18 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

Just once. It made me feel terrible for about a week. She was perfect. It feels awful to be attached to someone that doesn't exist, but that's how it felt. Unfortunately, I can barely remember it anymore, all I remember is that she had beautiful long hair. Two texts that I sent to a friend:

  • I know she had long hair and was a bit shorter than me, and older too, probably 18. I really like long hair.
  • The girl in my dream was loud and spontaneous. And knew as much about pop culture as me, which was awesome.

And now I also remember that in the dream I was driving her somewhere, I think from a party or something to her house.

Also, a separate semi-related story, my first and only middle school girlfriend were doing the whole stupid middle school thing, and I had a dream where we were shopping for a wedding dress and some old guy gave told me that I was too young for that sort of thing, then the mall collapsed and killed us all. Shortly afterwards IRL she told me she wasn't into me any more.

LtMaster1 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:55:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Your last sentence made me so sad that I almost downvoted you instinctively ):

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:08:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I fell in love with Kirsten Dunst in a dream once and I have a huge crush on her now, which is funny because I never really liked her before that dream.

moonlightlurker ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:09:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I always seem to wake up in the middle of such dreams. I never get to finish them...

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:09:38 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I sometimes get really brief intense feelings of personal connection, admiration, nostalgia and even love for random strangers that I pass by.

mwproductions ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:09:45 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once fell in love with THE MOST beautiful girl in a dream. She and I were perfect together and it was pure bliss. When I woke up, I was crushed to realize it was just a dream. I sometimes think about her and hope to see her again in another dream. It hasn't happened yet.

warpus ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:11:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Nobody ever talks to me in my dreams. When I try to walk up to them and ask them something, they ignore me or say stuff like "I don't speak any English" or "The Germans are coming!"

I've tried so hard to connect with people in my dreams and it never happens. Forever alone :(

jokubolakis ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:11:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have no dreams (or just don't remember it)

ahey ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:23:39 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Technically its impossible for your brain to create new faces in your dreams. It only uses faces you've seen at least once. weird right? o.O

So that person actually exists! ...Or at least their face does. Their personality is a whole different ballgame.

Rooniebob ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:24:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

came here to say this. thanks!

Montaron87 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:30:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I still think back to a dream I had a couple of years ago. (when I was 16~17ish, I'm 24 now)

It was the most perfect love story, which I couldn't have imagined more beautiful than my unconcious mind did in that dream. It is also one of maybe 10 dreams I have ever remembered when I wake up.

tl;dr of the dream: We lived in a small town next to a single very steep hill and spend our days until eternity watching the sun set and rise from the top of that hill. We were perfect for eachother, never needed to finish our sentences because we knew eachother through and through.

I even get a little sad writing this, I still feel I am too demanding in relationships sometimes because of that dream. My description probably doesn't come close to allowing anyone to understand how I felt and still feel, but you'll just have to trust me, it's not pleasant remembering that.

ThiZ ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:36:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I believe it, and from the looks of this thread a lot of other people do too.

casimirpulaskiday ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:31:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I fall in love with made up girls in my dream a lot, then am heartbroken when I wake up.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:32:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I just had a dream where I met this girl walking back from class. She gave me her number and smiled at me. When I went to read her number, I couldn't make out the numbers. She got on a bus and I chased after her telling her I couldn't read the number she gave me. She couldn't hear what I was saying on the bus and the bus left. I woke up, sad and confused.

peoplearefood ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:39:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Have you ever dreamed that you can pleasure yourself orally only to wake up and realize that you can't? This happens to me all the time and it's always a huge let down :/

danguyf ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:43:25 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

One night, when I was 14 or 15, I had a very disjointed dream about playing in a vividly-colored field with a bunch of other kids. At one point a girl appeared, looked straight into my eyes, and smiled at me. I woke up crushing on her hard.

For years I remembered that dream, and the look she gave me, with longing.

One night, home from college and unable to sleep, I was watching an old movie taped off of TV. Fast forwarding through some commercials, I caught sight of her. Rewinding, I discovered that the dream had been a commercial for Levis jeans.

EuropeanWriter ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:47:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No but I actually had this outstanding dream blowjob where, when I came, my lower lip curled all the way down and I woke up with the same expression.

cherry_bomb ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:56:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The person in your dream is real somewhere - your brain cannot make up faces, you have seen this person somewhere but maybe not consciously registered their face. Maybe this person is someone you brushed past in a shopping centre and you saw their face but forgot it in your conscious mind. (im a psychology student)

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:06:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I witnessed the entire lifespan of an invisible magic parrot in a dream once. When he died, even the earth wept.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:17:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

the OP was talking about people who never existed. not dreams about people you know in real life.

10tothe24th ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:33:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

Yes, I fell in love with this beautiful red headed woman in a dream once. The feeling of loving (and being loved by) this woman was so intense and so real that, even after I woke up, I became convinced that what I experienced was real. Not real in the sense that the person was real, but real in the sense that the experience of loving someone that much was real... which came as a shock to me, because I believed I was in love several times before that in my life, but it felt nothing like that. Which means maybe I've never really been in love.

I'm not sure how I feel about it now, but a different dream--a nightmare, actually--just a few weeks ago, which oddly enough gives me some hope that what I felt is possible to feel while awake.

I had the most awful nightmare, I still remember it vividly, that hit such a loud climax of pure existential horror that I woke up immediately in a sort of half-lucid state, still utterly terrified. The fear was so paralyzing that, even when I realized it had been a dream and I was awake, I remained in my bed, motionless, not once opening my eyes for what felt like a half-hour for fear that "they" might know that I knew...

I think if such a horrible feeling can be experienced in both waking and sleeping states then I'm pretty sure the same would apply to pleasurable ones. This gives me hope, because, quite frankly, my experience with love until this point has been disappointing.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:51:14 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This make sound crazy, but I have dreams about meeting my uncle who died long before I was born. But I feel like he knows me and I know him. Like there is a connection between us. Anyone have a similar experience?

PixelatedFox ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:57:51 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

I actually had this last week. I dreamt I met a really awesome girl who was actually interested in me, then I woke up. That morning was probably the most forever alone I've felt in a long time.

Edit: Just remembered that just before waking up, while i was still half awake, i realised what was happening and told her that I would try and come back for her. I haven't encountered her in my dreams again though.

PutdatCookieDown ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:05:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I remember one special dream, not to long ago, where I met this girl I had never seen before (At least I don't remember). She just seemed like the most wonderful person there ever was. She was living with her family on a farm. I had a great time, it felt like I was there for weeks with her. But then as I was just about to wake up, she told me that this only was a place she and her family went to on the summers. And that I definitely should come and visit her, she whispered the name of the town in my ear. But when I woke up I couldn't for my life remember what she said. I bet she is there right now.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:15:34 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

About two years ago I had an incredibly vivid dream where I had an older sister [given up for adoption at birth] and I was meeting her for the first time. I remember hugging her and talking about things, how similar we looked, making plans together, etc.... It was wonderful. Then I woke up and felt depressed for several days; grieving for the loss of the sister I dreamed up. :[

Junee28 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:17:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have, it was one of those silly "Met a perfect boy" dreams, then I woke up.. realized it was a dream, to make myself feel better I just constantly told myself "Dreams are always perfect."

doll59 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:22:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This happened the other day, I dreamed I met someone named "Tyler" and I could see his face completely clearly. We fell madly in love and got married and afterwards he told me he was rich. We moved into a house together and lived our lives. It seemed like years went by and then I woke up. I was crushed when I woke up because I feel like I will never be as happy as I was in that dream.

Talarot ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:33:26 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Never existed? You just haven't met them yet; they're memories of the future, DUH!

verbmynoun ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:33:28 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've been having sex with the same man in my dreams for years. It started when I was about 16, I'm 24 now. I have never seen his face though, every time I get close to seeing his face or having an orgasm...I wake up.

It might sound creepy, but I feel like I'm in a relationship with him. When I'm depressed or lonely, I dream about him more. Sometimes I dream about him when I'm with my boyfriend and when I wake up I feel like I've cheated on him.

If I don't dream about him for a long while, I worry that I'll never dream about him again. I just want to see his face.

pmjm ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:41:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You DO realize that "deep personal connection" is to YOURSELF, right? There's a reason you feel in sync with them.

Juneauite ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:51:03 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I met a deaf woman in an elevator who turned out to be new to the city. She pointed to words on paper with a questioning look and I know some sign language. We ended up signing to each other a little bit more every day. We ended up becoming good friends over a couple years and I finally asked her out. We both had built up to this point and what followed was years of blissful love and respect for each other. But she didnt hear the car coming down the road and it killed her. Then I woke up. Longest, most beautiful and horrible dream ever.

Grassandapples ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:00:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Fell in love with a girl I know in a dream, now she's my crush. It's weird going to sleep barely thinking about a girl and waking up hopelessly in love.

grinr ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:15:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I find little difference between this and discovering the person you met in "real life" wasn't who you thought they were and realizing that you were in love with someone who existed only in your own mind.

impotent_rage ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 19:23:43 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream where I made an amazing friend and felt a deep connection, and I was so excited to find someone I connected with so well. I think I was romantically interested in him too. But then I started to wake up, and I realized what was happening, that I was waking up...in a panic I said something to him asking how I was going to find him if I'm waking up. He gave me his phone number and I decided to just focus really hard on remembering it as I woke up, so I could contact him again later. When I woke up, I was thinking of some totally random numbers that didn't resemble a phone number in any way, and I didn't remember most of them.

unanimousnight ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:27:46 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

A couple years ago I had an extremely vivid set of dreams like this.

I was with a girl at the top of a massive dam looking down. I somehow felt unknowable close and connected with her. We were having a conversation about mortality, as those situations often effectuate, and she informed me that she was part of my dream, and thus had to leave me. I begged her to stay, but soon water started rushing up towards us. I continued to plead, but the more I did, the worse the situation got. The dam started disintegrating around us, bricks surreally exploding outwards. She looked at me one last time and was swept away by the water.

In an attempt to save her, knowing now that I was dreaming, I recreated the scene before the dam collapsed. I grabbed her immediately and started running down the stairs in an attempt to make it safely to the ground. As we neared the exit I looked back at her; she was bleeding profusely from her stomach. She told me she loved me but that I could never save her. Then she died, smearing the blood on her hands against the wall.

I woke up. I could barely follow conversations or even do simple tasks that day. The dream felt more real the being awake, and it was all I could think about or even hold in my mind.

The next night, I dreamt I was in my room, but it was empty, and there were no windows. I longed to see the girl again. In a last effort, I created thousands of realities to try to find her. I saw infinite earths infinitely spiraling in front of me, all contained in my small room. I felt her disappearing from all of them, and I longed to disappear with her. To melt into the dream and never wake up. The mesh of worlds surrounding me became denser and time seemed to slow. I thought that this was the feeling of dying, or I really was dying. I didn't care; I pushed deeper in. I felt a sort of immense totality looming, but before I could reach it, I was pushed back. I voice in my head told me that I had to go on living, had to fight to find meaning and love in my own life, not in dreams. I knew it was her, and finally gave up.

Wintertree ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:10:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, except the person was Stephen Fry. We saw a play and solved a murder mystery together.

Waking up has never been so heartbreaking.

midnightfapper12 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:24:30 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Very recently I had a very vivid dream about a blonde haired woman whom I loved with all my heart. She was kidnapped by Russian crime lords for a very hefty ransom. As the manhunt for these criminals continued, I received a phone call from an unlisted number. As it turns out, the girl had stolen a cell phone and called me in tears. Just as the frightened girl was about to give me her location, the kidnappers walked back in, took the phone, and told me "You will hear her die". As I listened in terror a single gunshot rang out an the call went dead. I woke from the dream in tears and it took me almost 20 minutes to realize it hadn't happened and that I had never met the girl.

Daimonin_123 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 21:40:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Ah I hate those moments, when you wake up and they'r gone. Couple of months ago, I had an awesome Dream, fell in love with a girl and all. When I started waking up... I wasnt quite Lucid, but I was somehow aware that I was waking up.

Heh. I tried to pull her through to the waking world. sigh I though tI suceeded, I pulled her through a hole in the air beside my bed as I was sucked into my body... alas, when I opened my eyes I was alone. =(

Denode ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 22:07:49 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

Oh boy

I've never been one to remember my dreams. As far as I know, I wasn't dreaming for most of my life. Only over the last year has that changed.

I have moments, though, especially throughout high school, where I remember dreams from long before.
One of my favorites was the dream where I was tied down onto train tracks and ran over by Thomas the Tank Engine. Another was waking up and seeing an octopus come through the wall and suffocating me, only to wake up. Only the most ridiculous seemed to be recalled.

However, there were a series of dreams that I remembered from my elementary school years that stuck with me, and meant more to me than they probably should have.

They were of a girl. Of course, since it was a dream, she ticked all the boxes. I absolutely adored her.

Most of my dreams of here were rather mundane. Normal day kind of stuff. Each dream was of a particular event, there was no interim. She was almost always elevated, leaning over a railing look at me. For example, the one I could remember the most vividly was one day I actually did get hit in the face with a soccer ball, and then I dreamt that I went to show it off to her, and the smile on her face brings me to the significant part of the dream.

The feeling.

The one thing about these dreams that stood out above all the rest was the flood of warmth, the flood of happiness, that followed any smile or touch. That's what made this dreams so vivid, so dreamlike.

Fast forward a bit. I was having a tough time in high school. My dad had died, I was in adult ed in 10th grade, and I had isolated myself and began putting on weight. I remembered these dreams. That feeling came flooding back. It was the one thing about the dreams that I could remember with certainty. I clung to it. It was something from my childhood, a time in which I beamed with pride, something I had none of, and here was a girl who beamed right back, and I bathed in this light for as long as I could, which was not very long. It's just a dream, I told myself, get over it, you could never live a life this happy.

This winter break, two weeks ago, a friend of mine came back from base (he joined the military and went off to texas) for the break. With him coming back I had a few waves of nostalgia. Breaking out my old yearbooks when got home after hanging out with him, I thumbed through looking at how some of my friends have changed. He's moved, she's put on weight, she's a model, so on and so forth. The joviality of childhood reminiscence was something to revel in.

However, I was missing all my elementary school yearbooks prior to 4th grade. I called up a friend, she had them in her attic, and 1 hour later I'm flipping through them. Kindgarten, my teacher whose dad was a famous SciFi writer. First grade, I was a strange child then. Second grade, oh god my hair. Third grade, this is when I met one of my good friends, and-

Wait

No

It can't be

It was her.

She was there. I recognized that face. I recognized that name. That smile.

That smile...

She exists

She's real

I choked up. I started sobbing. I have no idea where this came from, I still don't. It hurt. I looked for her on Facebook, classmates.com, anything. Nothing. It aches.

It still aches.

It wasn't a dream. I have no idea how in elementary school I was capable of becoming so ludicrously attached to someone for so long that it would linger with me even till now, when I'm 19, but I managed.

If you're reading this, and you remember a curly haired boy showing off his blackened tooth to you, then... Thank you.

TL;DR I got ran over my Thomas the Tank Engine (Seriously, TL;DR's take the meaning out of stories, either read it or don't)

Treberto ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:31:49 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

From 13-16 years of age I'd have weekly dreams about a girl. I never got to see what she looked like, just silhouettes of her against the dreamscape, but she was always the focal point. I was in love with this dream girl and felt myself getting closer and closer to seeing who she was with every dream.

I never saw her face, never heard her voice and never learned her name. At the time it was rather devastating, I've always had very vivid, real feeling dreams. I woke up crying on occasion, no girl in the real world matched up to her and I think some of my reluctance towards girls at that time was due to that.

Then, for some reason she stopped showing up.

aang1050 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:35:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah, this happened to me a couple times. Also, I once dreamt that I owned a fish, and when I woke up, I had the horrible feeling that I needed to feed it soon, or it would die. Then I realized I had no fish.

AvalonAwoken ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 23:54:30 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm probably too late to the party, but I feel compelled to describe my dream.

When I was about 11 (roughly 15 years ago), I had the first dream I ever remembered. I very rarely remember my dreams now, but this was absolutely the first. That undoubtedly plays significantly into how strongly this dream affected me, but even after years of dreams, this is the only one I have never stopped thinking about.

It started on a path up to a lighthouse. It was a bright summer day, and the sound of the surf was gentle below us. I was among a group of people being led to the lighthouse; it felt like a tour group. The lighthouse was large, with the tower rising from a two story building. It had a sheer cliff to the left, but was nestled against a higher outcropping of rock on the other side.

We were led into the building, which was open, airy, and bright with sunshine. I have no idea what it could have been used for originally, but it had apparently been converted into a museum. We ended up on the upper floor (the second floor was a walkway along the perimeter, you could look over the railing in the center down to the first floor), with our guide in front of a window that overlooked the ocean as he talked about the lighthouse.

But at this point, I couldn't hear anything he was saying, as my attention was drawn to the girl by my side. It wasn't as if she'd just appeared; it felt more like everything up to that point was just setting the scene. In this way it was like a memory: if someone told me to remember my high school, I would first picture the campus before filling it with myself and my friends.

She was there with me, and had always been, but it felt completely natural. She was looking ahead, listening to whatever the tour guide was saying. I slid my hand around the small of her back; it was bare, as she was wearing a white button up that was loosely tied up. This caused her to look up at me and smile. I wish that I had the poetry to describe that smile. It was simple but profound, and it made her blue eyes sparkle. It told me that she was completely happy, that putting my arm around her and holding her close was all it took to demonstrate that we were perfectly fulfilled by being together. I can't describe exactly what she looks like now, and don't know if I ever could. But her eyes, and her smile, and a curtain of sandy blonde hair behind them feel as real as anything I've ever experienced.

And that was it. I woke up knowing two things. One was that I felt young. I didn't feel "older" in the dream; in the dream, everything felt natural. But when I woke up, I could feel the difference. I hadn't been eleven in the dream, and the girl that had looked up into my eyes was definitely not eleven. The other thing that hit me as soon as I woke up was that I now knew what it felt like to be in love. Before that night, I had worked my way through a few crushes that I could now tell were only puppy love. They couldn't compare to that sense of connection and mutual fulfillment that I had just experienced. Every night for weeks after that, I went to sleep thinking of her, but never woke up remember a dream for months.

I've only told a few of my closest friends this story. It feels like a huge part of who I am now. I've grown up, and had occasion to truly fall in (and out of) love. And truthfully, my pre-teen subconscious got the feeling right somehow. Sometimes, when I look back on it, it just jumps out as the perfect demonstration of how compelling illusion and faulty human perception can be. As a strict rationalist and materialist, that's all I can believe it to be.

But I can hope. The extreme detail of a place I'd never seen. The amazing feeling that I wouldn't experience in real life until years later. And even the girl. As a half-Chinese kid that was raised around Chinese family and friends, I had always thought of future girlfriends or wife as Chinese. But in my dream, this beautiful blonde girl loved me, and I her, and it felt real and natural for the most exquisite moment.

So if it was just a dream, it was a beautiful dream that remains the most vivid one I've ever had. But for the first time, I'm putting it out in the world, just in case.

TL;DR: I really hope a Redditor lady out there had a dream about a lighthouse 15 years ago

iLikeghoulsGreen ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:08:19 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

YES! I'm so glad other people have this.

I had a dream about an amazing girl who happened to be a pornstar and promised to have awesome pornstary sex with me tomorrow (in the dream.) When I woke up I was so excited and looking forward to it only have have the realisation it was a dream. I felt so depressed for the rest of the day.

ImOneofTHOSEPeople ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 00:32:40 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

My mom died when I was three and last night I dreamt she was alive again, but really sick. She died of brain cancer and was really bad before she died. In my dream, we got to talk and actually connect with each other. She was really bad at the end of my dream, but then I woke up before she died. When I woke up, I felt so much more lost and longing for that mother figure. I guess she did exist, but I never knew her.

Augrills ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:10:50 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When I was a young boy, before I'd even met a person who looked anything like this, I would see a girl with tattoos and black hair in my dreams frequently. This occurred from the time I was 6 until I was about 13 years old. She'd always talk to me about the things I wished real people wanted to talk to me about. She liked the drawings I would show her in my dreams, and she reminded me to read books I'd seen throughout the day.

Oddly enough, my freshman year of college, I met a girl who looks exactly like her without the tattoos, and she loves painting and talking about books with me. (She paints really amazing portraits. I've always wanted to ask her to paint a portrait of herself with tattoos for me, but I'm afraid it'd be weird to tell her the story.) I know it's entirely coincidental, and my mind is probably fabricating the appearance of the girl from my dreams, but it feels so strange that the woman I knew only in my dreams would walk into my life 5 years after she'd stopped appearing.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 01:48:46 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I fell in love in a dream, once. Well, I was in love.

I can remember everything about him, every detail, the way his hand felt in mine, the way he scratched his eyebrow when he thought, his toothy smile, his sandy hair, the sound he made when clearing his throat. Most of all I remember the way it felt. Being in love. Loving someone with every fiber of your being and having that love returned, and ** knowing** that love is returned. It's the most blissful, amazing feeling I've ever felt. Like total and complete joy, contentment, and security in one, but so relaxed.

When I woke up--and it was abrupt--I was so, so depressed. Thinking about it makes me briefly elated with its memory, then I'm depressed again knowing that he doesn't exist and neither did our love. And I will probably never know love outside that dream.

Sigh.

hotcinnamonbuns ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:34:12 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

i dream about things and then they happen. it's like deja vu

renkasaurus ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:37:35 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Straight after graduating high school I went and stayed with a few high school buddies at a beach house for a week and proceeded learn what my alcohol tolerances were...

During this week I met a girl, Emma (can't remember for sure) she was really into me but nothing happened and I stupidly never got her contact details. She did like her beer though.

Months later for one night I lived another life.

Emma and I were going out, many dates, roadtrips and holidays etc. We had a small apartment together. I can probably draw a rough floor plan, it had a white and light brown theme. Last memory was us being engaged and cuddling on the couch feeling all content and right with the world.

Then I woke up, realised it was a dream and starting crying. I was pretty down for while afterwards.

This has coloured what few short relationships I've had since (25 now).

Now I'm all teary again. dammit.

octaviancesar ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:41:45 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

i had a dream not long which involved a girl i subconsciously made up. problem was we did not ever speak the some language, but spent most of the dream doing our best to communicate. i wake up that morning and believed for a full minute that she was real until reality hit me.

D_Robb ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 03:48:20 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When I was 10 or so I had a dream about a girl and developed a crush on her. Weird thing was that I knew something was wrong with her and her family. At some point I realized that they were all dead...well, walking dead like ghosts or whatever. But even when I woke up I still had a crush on the dead girl.

ChillinWitAFatty ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 04:15:42 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

I don't know if anyone will read this, but I wrote it immediately after waking up from one of the most vivid dreams I've ever had.

I am driving in a neighborhood by my home; it is a spring morning, not quite 11 oโ€™clock. These are not estimations that I have come up with after waking, they are facts of the dream. I am driving to work. As I drive, I see a house with three delivery cars from three different pizzerias parked in front of it. In real life, I do not know who owns this house. In the dream, it is owned by an acquaintance of mine named Tom. He is having a party. I realize that two friends of mine are at the party. I would like to go in and visit them; I would if I did not have to be at work soon. The calm suburban road I am on comes to an intersection with a busier road. I turn right on the busy road. I notice there is a girl walking in the road, following the rules of traffic. This strikes me as bizarre; I cannot see the benefit a pedestrian would find in acting like a car. The girl has dark skin and dark hair. She is around 18 years old. That is only I guess, nothing in the dream confirms her age. I see she has fallen down and I pass her, I must get to work. After passing her, I look behind and see she is still sitting in the road. At this point, I am no longer in my car, but on foot, just like the girl. I ask her if she is okay and she does not respond. I help her up and once again ask if she is okay. She seems confused and is unable to answer my question clearly. I realize she needs help and I put my arm around her and pull her close to me. She strikes me as being neither attractive nor unattractive. This does not matter to me. I feel the warmth of her head on my shoulder and I suddenly care deeply for this girl. I know I must get her to help. Small strips of her skin peeling off.
I turn left with onto a quieter side road. We continue walking and I dial 9-1-1 on my cell phone. As I call 9-1-1, I think, calling this number is becoming common for me. I do not know why I thought this; I have never called 9-1-1 before. I hold the girl close to me and put the phone to my ear. Instead of connecting me to emergency services as it should, dialing 9-1-1 has connected me with my voicemail. I expected this, believing it has happened before, but hoped it would not happen. The first voicemail is a message from an angry businessman, calling his rival to concede defeat over a business matter. He has called my phone by mistake. I quickly skip his message. I still hope to be connected to emergency services. The next message is from my dead mother. It is a voicemail she left before she died and I deleted long ago. I am surprised to hear her voice and would like to listen, but I know I must focus on helping the girl and I skip it as well.. My friend Cameron, who had been at the party, and a girl that had also been there, come running up to me. They tell me what I already: the girl I am with is very sick, her skin is falling off, she needs help. The dream became hazy at this point. I realize my phone is of no use and I am determined to bring the girl to the hospital myself. I see the road has flooded, and realize that, like an Amazonian tributary, there are piranhas in the water. This strikes me as very inconvenient; the city should not allow piranhas on the roads. Still, I am determined to save the girl, but before I can, I find myself awake in my bed, confused and sweaty, forever torn away from the dark skinned girl.

Jerados ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:45:43 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I read it. It was interesting.

ChillinWitAFatty ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 05:50:03 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Thank you, glad you enjoyed it.

utterthrowaway ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 07:59:10 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This will probably get lost, but I'll write it anyway.

I'm married, going on six years now. I love my wife and I absolutely adore my daughter (1.5 y.o) and I can't wait to meet the one in the belly. I say this to tell you that I am happy in my life and with my family.

About a year ago, I had a dream. This dream was vivid and clear and sharp and amazing. I'm crying right now just remembering it. In my dream, I wasn't married or a father, and I didn't live where I lived. I lived in Atlanta in this dream. (Sidenote: as far as I know, I've never even been to Georgia.) In this dream, I met a white girl. Dark hair, green eyes, fit body, amazing smile, infectious laugh. I met her at Starbucks. We were waiting in line, she was right behind me, and we ordered the same drink. I let her take the first drink, which should have been mine if we'd gone the right turns, and she left. But I saw her the next day, too. I offered to get her the same drink and she accepted. Then, as we were waiting for our drinks to come up, we started chatting. Long story short, we fell in love, did crazy things and had a ton of fun. I was happier with this girl in my dream than I am with my wife. If I could find this girl, I would probably leave my wife and family to try be with her. When I woke up and ralized she wasn't real, it felt like my whole world imploded. I didn't even go into work that day. I called my boss and said I was sick. The worst part of it is that it was true, I literally felt sick all day. I thought to myself that I needed a reminder of the good things in my life, so I kept my daughter home from day care and we played all day. Taking care of her and spending time with her made me feel better, but I still, to this day, carry around the weight of loss of that woman from my dream. I'm not ashamed to admit that I literally have tears in my eyes at this moment.

I miss her. I wish I could see her again and be with her again.

OddAdviceGiver ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 17:41:40 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Everyone in your dreams is you.

Try to remember that.

littlelondonboy ยท 5 points ยท Posted at 11:54:14 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

/r/dae is calling, they miss you over there.

oryano ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:07:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Did anyone else get tired of DAE and subscribe?

Ishima ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 17:16:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

Well this is an interesting subreddit, wish it was explained though. I feel stupid because I can't work out what DAE means.

Edit: just saw oryano's comment and now it makes sense "Does anyone else." right. Have an upvote for that.

tyvanius ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 14:46:34 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This happened the other day. I was batman (or i was playing a batman game in first-person... not sure which) and someone showed me a picture of a police officer named Sam. The music from the Wrath of the Lich King cinematic started playing, and I couldn't stop bawling my eyes out in the dream. Still not sure what that was about....

Shots2TheCrotch ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:04:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Read the Seth books: "Dreams, 'Evolution', and Value Fulfillment." I think it will help you understand what dream state is all about. Blew my mind for sure. Author is Jane Roberts.

[deleted] ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 14:18:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

actually when you dream your brain can only process faces you have previously seen...so you can't just meet someone in a dream, you already know them in real life...even if you don't recognize them right away, it is someone you have seen before while conscious....

knowone572 ยท 13 points ยท Posted at 14:58:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Could you provide a source for this, or is this something you heard somewhere?

ThiZ ยท 4 points ยท Posted at 16:02:07 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I hear this a lot too, but I've never seen a source. It's like the "You can't read in dreams" thing, the only source of that one seems to be Batman the Animated Series.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:05:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

As someone who lucid dream regularly I can tell you that you most certainly cannot read in dreams. Maybe like a large sign with one word or something. But if you were on reddit in your dream the small text would go all wonky and morph.

I've also heard that you can't make up faces. I first heard this in a psychology class so there is that. But think of all the faces your brain has seen without you being consciously aware of them. You brain basically has an infant amount of people at it's disposal.

Kain222 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:06:51 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm pretty convinced of the 'you can't read in dreams thing.' I remember a dream when I attempted to read a letter, and I just plain couldn't. It was very fustrating.

arcturussage ยท 3 points ยท Posted at 16:06:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have heard this as well but I can't find a legitimate source for it.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:10:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Here and here are lists of supposed facts about dreams which include this. I'm not sure how reliable these are, though. I think it's probably possible for your mind to create new people in your dreams by using features and aspects of real people you've met during your life.

arcturussage ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:06:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

True, but just because the person's face is real that doesn't mean their personality, voice, or actions are real.

ras344 ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 16:33:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

And also maybe the rest of their body is not real.

Delta_516 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 13:12:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, I've hated that when it happens. I dream about this person then my Dad wakes me up and I forget about that particular person and finally I'm sad for the rest of the day. But the thing is, I keep dreaming about this person, (I usually dream about the person at least once every two weeks) could anyone maybe explain how this happens please?

redweasel ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 14:55:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, I've had that happen. This one time in particular I dreamt I fell in love with a ghost named Jessie.

I_CAPE_RUNTS ยท 10 points ยท Posted at 15:37:28 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Where can i find a woman like that?

redweasel ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:59:52 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

<gets joke> <decides to be a pedantic ass about it>

Technically that song was wrong. It used the name "Jessie" (with an I) as a man's name, when historically the male name (Biblical if I recall) is "Jesse" (without an I). "Jessie" (with an I) is short for "Jessica" or the like.

Now as to actually find a ghost girl, what worked for me in the dream was to ride a rubber raft down a narrow, slow, backwoods Southern river, and go slowly past the mostly-collapsed, moss-covered and tree-overgrown wooden shanties along the banks.

Ta.

MK_Ultrex ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:36:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

In Amityville.

onca32 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:07:43 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
gjhaffen ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:17:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When I was much younger I would have recurring dreams about a black haired girl. I ended up, over time, falling in dream love with her. I knew she wasn't real, but every night I would wait to fall asleep so I could see my dream love again.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:25:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've had a couple of these recently, mostly about a guy that I fall in love with in my dream. But then I wake up and I'm like, oh.... :(

wegwerfen ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:32:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This happened many years ago so the specifics are somewhat vague now. This is also the only time I remember having a dream like this.

I had a dream about a person (or possibly a person that was a mixture of people) that I was acquainted with but not close to. In the dream I fell deeply in love with them. Not the passionate, lusting after them love, but the deep in your soul kind of love. This wasn't someone that I had previously had any thoughts or feelings like this either. The feeling was so intense that it stuck with me and had a bit of an emotional and mental effect on me for a couple weeks. I couldn't get it out of my mind.

I don't remember seeing this person after the dream nor did I try and contact or go after them. To me the dream wasn't so much about the person as it was about the feeling. It is one of only a couple dreams that I remember anything about even after 30 or so years.

monocledMango ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:34:49 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This has happened to me so often that I spend most of my dreams making sure that I'll never lose track of those people: I write down their name, email, phone number, home address, everything. Then of course, I wake up and don't remember any of it...

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:35:18 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, this has happened at least twice to me. It makes me sad for the rest of the day after I wake up. It's crazy.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:40:24 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When I was in my twenties, I dreamed that I had children, and when I woke up I was sad that I did not have them.

Now I have two kids and I'm grateful for them.

Stadred ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:41:07 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

I had a dream when I was 13 about a woman I labelled my soul mate. I used that dream woman (She actually appeared in my dreams several times) as a description for a character in one of my novels, and used her traits to determine what I wanted in a wife. My wife matches her almost exactly.
Edit And no, they weren't all erotic. The first was just an introduction to her using the church I used to go to as a backdrop set piece, for instance.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:43:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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devedander ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:25:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Freud slipped in there

kariisausername ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:29:19 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

what?

devedander ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:15:03 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

because he was suck an awesome guy

kariisausername ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:29:43 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

ahaha, such* i mean such.

CaffiendCA ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:44:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

My brain creates entire relationships with people. The whole process from meeting them to dating them to living with them. That emotional connection feels so real. I wake up and feel genuinely dejected for a while.

Plebe69 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:45:49 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What makes you say they never existed?

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:50:28 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

2 or 3 consecutive dreams when I was 14, all about this perfect, dream girl that I was going to marry in the last dream. It cut off before we did though. Man was it depressing waking up after that. I have no recollection of her face, only the fact that she was literally perfect; beautiful, charming, blah blah.

Madmabes ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:51:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes. Just happened two days ago. It was the most love I had ever felt towards someone and then i woke up! :( I've been trying to bring him back but no luck so far. It sucked when i woke up.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:54:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was in love with a recurring person in a dream(s).

At one point in my life, I was quite lonely, as most people are at one point. When I would fall asleep, or unconsciously daydream, a young woman would pop into my head and my regular days would play out with her there. It could be anything from just being at my apartment at the time, to going on some adventure to fight some sort of enemy. I was actually in love with her, and was quite happy without having anyone at the time. Then, as I actually met a girl, the image of the girl drifted from my dreams. Now that I've broken up and been single for the last year+, I can't seem to locate her anymore. I actually felt bad finding someone in the "real" world, like I had betrayed a good friend, not to the point where I would feel like I should be hospitalized though haha. Every now and then, recently, I've been seeing her again, not as often. We'll have conversations, and just hang out. Having a friend in a dream. I guess, it's no different from having an imaginary friend, huh? If only they were actually real.

A friend of mine I told about this told me that it would be a movie scenario if the girl I met in my dreams was actually someone else that was dreaming of me.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:54:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes. Once when I was in high school, I dreamed I had a girlfriend. For some reason she looked exactly like Rinoa from Final Fantasy 8, except her face was a little cloudy so I couldn't see it that well. She had a pet Cerberus which was pretty cool.

In my dream I loved this girl, and when I woke up I was heart broken. This feeling lasted for a couple of days.

MelisSassenach ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:56:25 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream about these two fairies p who came to bring me to their world, they were teaching me how to be a fairy, too. I really connected with one of the fairies, when I touched him it felt like I was actually touching him whereas when I touched the other one, I didn't feel anything. I was sad when I woke up but then a few months later I met my boyfriend and he was/is the fairy from my dream. They look exactly the same and I recognized him without recognizing him if that makes any sense.

beyerch ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:57:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

But how do you know they don't exist?

ThiZ ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:58:24 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes. For a long time actually, and there's a couple that have popped up in multiple dreams. One of whom I haven't seen in a while... AND now I've gone and depressed myself.

You said you'd find me... jerk.

Personsanon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:59:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Read the short story "Eyes of a Blue Dog" by Gabriel Garcia Marquez.

its-never-lupus ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:01:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Ive felt the same way.. its even caused me to make some major life decisions because of the dreams.. I dont regret anything.

You should watch this.. http://cinemassacre.com/2010/06/21/the-dragon-in-my-dreams/

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:01:24 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

A couple of time. The closest to real love I've been.

/foreveralone

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:01:53 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream like this about a pretty famous YouTuber that I watch occasionally. Got to know him really well and developed feelings throughout the dream that were so strong, I genuinely felt like I should send them a message on YouTube. I think I might have actually written something out staring with "hi, I know you don't know who I am, but I dreamed about you last night." and then I realized how incredibly/desperate that sounds. Haha, it wasn't like a sexual thing though, it was like I had made an extremely deep friendship with him. So disturbing because the sadness lasted for like a week and it was like not being able to talk to someone that I had I always been close friends with. I never dreamed it again, and I also don't have those feelings anymore now. But for that week.. Damn brain.

Phonesringindude ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:02:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I read somewhere that everyone you meet in a dream you have met/seen at some point in your life. Something about the brain not being able to create a random face it goes by things it has seen to create your dreams So good news, you have probably met that person before and if you are lucky you will meet them again.

superprofundo ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:02:07 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Mine was about a person I actually know, but hadn't interacted with in a years, but I ran into him on a fluke. I was in a sad place personally and romantically. A few weeks after the encounter I had a dream where he wanted to show me something, it scared me, but then he comforted me with a big hug. It was all very calming, and now I have strange affinity for the guy even though I still don't see him often.

Wapook ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:02:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Probably two months ago I had a very vivid dream where I met and fell in love with this girl. I woke up and was actually a bit heartbroken and sad for the rest of the day.

arcturussage ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:02:14 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I believe every face you see in your dream is a face you've seen in person. I don't know if it can put a "seen" face on a different body, and obviously the personality isn't the same, but if it's a purely attraction thing, they exist, somewhere.

Bene123 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:03:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

How about having a deep connection to a real person in a dream only to wake up feeling terrible knowing it will never be true...?

RealRedditUser ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:04:46 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

in all of my dreams i never remember the face. the only detail i remember is the hair color and that is it.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:06:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I thought everyone you see in a dream are all real people you've met or remembered from some point in your life?

memo_rx ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:07:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When I was around 10-17, I kept dreaming about this girl and whenever I was with her I felt really happy, safe and secure, it was a really nice, pure friendship. I am an only child, I use to had a sister but she died when she was 3 months old. I used to call her my dream sister because I wanted to believe it was her visiting me. I wonder if my brain created her to feel better when I felt lonely.

Aye-curumba ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:07:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have a reoccurring character in most of my dreams. He has a name and sometimes just walks into my dreams. It is strange because as soon as he shows up, I know it is a dream. We start talking and I really feel like he is a real person but I know deep inside, it is just a dream.

whoisearth ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:07:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When I was 10 or so years old I had 2 solid relationships with girls in my dreams.

  1. Brin from The Wishsong of Shannara

  2. Shadowcat from X-Men back when Chris Clairemont was writing it and they were in Japan. Best story arc ever btw.

RepoRogue ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:08:49 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Once, it was really painful.

ShenanigansYes ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:09:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This has been happening to me frequently this week

somefunkydude ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:10:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It was real, in a sense

foeorfriend ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:11:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Its worse when they exist.......

wowfan85 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:11:06 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You should really check out the web comic The Dreamland Chronicles. The entire premise of the comic is about how there actually is a dreamworld that you go to in your sleep. In this dreamworld the main character had a romantic interest that he had loved since childhood. It's quite good, and family friendly.

laws0n ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:11:19 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Jesus reddit, it seems like you've never heard about lucid dreaming before. Learn that shit and you can hang out with anyone you want, go to any location, change the course of your dreams. It's not that hard and will make your dreaming experience so much better.

Daax865 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:11:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This happened to me before I woke up just now, and I usually never have dreams like that. Is it weird that I feel like this person must exist somewhere and that I'm likely to meet them someday? We were having a conversation about cats vs dogs. I personally dislike cats, but she liked both. She was very attractive.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:12:03 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes! Several years ago, before I'd been in love, I fell in love with a gorgeous man named Zenith (I didn't think I even knew that word then). I was involved in a gang/cult, and I had to tell him to leave and never come back because we in the cult weren't allowed to have outside relationships, so Zenith would be killed. I miss Zenith.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:12:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

If you're the one dreaming, aren't you just making a deeper connection with yourself (who, ya know, is real and you can get to know more)?

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:12:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Aaand now you've reminded me of her :( I was on some type of trainstation, I think it was a subway. I sit alone on a bench staring at a stop sign when this girl comes over. She wears a grey tank top (don't know why, never been a fan of tank tops for either girls nor boys) and she has very curly and thick natural red hair sprawling down to her shoulders. "Can I sit here?" she says and I'm all socially numb and she sits down. blurry blurry blurry some of her friends are there suddenly and among them is a person from my class, whom I really have no thoughts about (not to this day either). And then I wake up, the following day I ask that classmate about how I might get in contact with this girl again and she just says "forget it, forget all about her" and starts running. I chase after her and then I really wake up... I think

iprod ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:13:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Worse. I've felt a deep connection to a person in a dream who no longer exists.

BreathlessFlame ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:13:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This will probably never be seen, but I wanted to let you all know that the people we see in our dreams are people we've seen in life. Our brains are magnificent, but they cannot create new faces. Dreams with people pull faces from our memories, either in real life or people in movies, whether you explicitly remember the person or not.

tiyx ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:16:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have heard people say this many times. My question is how do we know that our brains can't create new faces ?

i-am-the-walrus789 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:58:45 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

There IS hope!

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:14:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Or worse, that you reconciled with a real person, got them to like you again, only to wake up and realize that you both are still at each other's throats.

Lamza ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:14:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, yes I did. Her name was Dana.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:14:38 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've dreamt about people that I don't know in real life who have been a very calming, nice presence in my dreams and I have also dreamt about real life friends that were away for an extended period of time whose presence in my dreams made it easier to deal with the fact that I wouldn't see them for awhile. I would dream about them all the time while they were gone and while it eased the pain of missing them a little, waking up always sucked because I knew they weren't going to be anywhere for me to talk to them :(

DesertSong ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:15:19 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This is totally why I don't have a girlfriend.

spacekow ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:15:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I posted a comment similar to this the other day on that other dream thread, but I feel like it fits here too:

I once had the most vivid dream in which a second sibling, a young blonde girl was suddenly shoehorned into existance in my life. The dream proceeded to replay most of my major life events from family functions, school events, parties, holidays and the like but with this little girl following my younger brother and myself around everywhere like a little duckling. I saw her grow up along side us and really cared about her and said goodbye as I left for college in the dream.

When I woke up it took a few minutes to realize that she never existed and that I never knew her name. Still messes with my head a bit to this day.

ShortTermMemoryLoss ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:15:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, I still feel like if I look hard enough maybe I'll find their email.

Slimjim0617 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:16:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've had a dream where I was waiting at the airport for some woman that was soon to arrive. I just couldn't wait any longer. That's when the plane pulled up to the terminal. I stand up. There she is, walking towards me in the slow motion kind of way. The worst part is when she gets within five feet of me. She dissolves away and I wake up.

Dazbuzz ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:17:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a daughter in a dream once. Yeah, didnt feel great once i woke up.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:17:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Every so often (it's only happened about 8 times) I dream of a fantasy/futuristic world where a colossal blue skyscraper dominates the view. I always travel to the top of this skyscraper by an elevator that seems to move at extremely slow speeds for the size of the building. anyway, I always seem to run into a young girl with Dark hair and green eyes whom of which is apparently named Katherine. We always talk about things that don't seem to make sense to the conscious mind, but in the dream world, they make perfect sense. We laugh, we cry, we confide, and sometimes i talk about troubles in the real world and she occasionally offers advice that i never truly remember. The sad part is that every single time the dream ends, we reach the top and Katherine becomes sad because she seemingly knows our talk is at an end. This is where i usually wake up. It's been a couple of months since i have seen her (sometimes i go almost a year), and now that i have just told this.. I feel as if i sound crazy. But this is true. It's always a slightly heart warming or bittersweet start to my day. But i enjoy my experience with her every time I get the chance and i always anxiously await the next talk :)

whyufail1 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:17:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

All the fucking time. Considering how hard it is for me to care about people in general, then having this thing/person I can relate to disappear every time, feels bad man /=

VWBusMan ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:17:41 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

yes

Baseplate ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:18:09 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When I was 10 I had a dream that Tony the Tiger and I were best buddies. I was very upset when I woke up and he was no where to be found.

27MForeverAlone ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:18:09 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've had this happen many times. I have been an insomniac and sleepwalker since like 13 yo. I would have events like the one you described a few times per week, until I discovered the dream-quelling properties of this wonderful plant called cannabis.

Mr_Carlos ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:18:19 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Mm, I had a dream where I was a cold hearted millionaire, and this woman kind of assassinated me by slipping me a drug which would make me forget my entire life.

I find myself living with her for some reason, not sure who I am, she helps me cope with everyday difficulties, and we fall in love with each other. One day she confesses everything, falls into my arms crying, and I cry with her because of how cruel life can be sometimes.

Then my alarm goes off and I have to get up for work, life is cruel sometimes :(

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:19:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I dreamt of a guy who lived in the stairwell of my dorm, but he was a ghost. He was dead and I knew this in my dream. He couldn't speak, but he'd move my hair out of my face and held me like no one ever had before. I fell in love with this guy I knew I'd wake up and never see again. :( The sad part is I've never been in a relationship before, and I've never been in love.

bobconan ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:20:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream once that I had a sister(im an only child). It was great and kinda weird being that she was cute and I had no attraction. I remember being pretty happy but then I woke up.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:20:09 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I always dream about a girl who I am madly in love with and am chasing through the entire dream to either catch or save from demise of some sort. It's always horrible to wake up and realize she was never real. It happens rarely but I love and also hate it all at once.

BukkRogerrs ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:20:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

I once had a dream that seemed to last for an extremely long time, maybe months, where I met a girl named Ashley, fell in love with her, lived with her, and even went on vacations with her. I can still vividly see many scenes in my head from that dream, such as one where we ran away from a crowd of people on a vacation to go make out below a boardwalk, or the day we moved in together, or the night we met at a carnival. The feelings in my guts were those real love feelings you get - I'm sure all the right chemicals were flowing. It was intense.

When I woke up and realized it was all a dream I immediately tried to go back to sleep, hoping I'd fall back into the dream. But I couldn't sleep. I lied in bed for close to an hour, just staring at the ceiling, depressed, and feeling like shit. It was like a relationship I'd had, and the person I had it with, just ceased to exist. It's not even possible to explain. Glad to see that others know what I'm talking about.

I didn't even know anyone named Ashley at the time.

Acharai ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:20:46 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Take solace in the fact that your dream person existed, he/she/it was a part of you.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:21:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's happened to me before, but with people I actually knew. I woke up with strong emotional connections to people in the real world that took a couple of hours to shake off.

Also, in like 6th grade on a Friday night, my friend dreamed that I had died, and he believed it all weekend. When he saw me on Monday he was overjoyed and nearly fell down. I thought this was hilarious.

MutantSharkPirate ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:21:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

just had a dream where i saved a big great dane from drowning in a lake that may or may not have had sharks swimming around it. got bummed when i woke up.

i want another dog :(

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:24:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When I was little I had a few dreams of some blonde girl. I remember being in danger of being attacked by someone and she came and saved me. It was really weird, but I felt like I knew that girl really well, like I knew her for a long time, but I've never actually met her before.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:25:34 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This happened to me when I was younger and it still haunts me. She was so beautiful.

ChaosMotor ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:25:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Maybe they do exist, and they're out there looking for you now.

BubblePawP ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:26:18 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No, Because the one time that happened to me the person died in the dream, Waking up was a release from the pain I felt in the dream.

Nitzi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:26:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was walking the way to a house in the woods, on the way I found a group of soldiers training with Paintballs and someone on a horse shot me, i told him that that wasnt legal, he was just a bitch, suddenly they drove off with a bus into the biggest hotel in town, I entered the bus and asked the other soldiers about him, he had a name made up by 3 other names but everyone called him frankie and they hated him

Then I woke up and realized it was a dream and that I won, He died when I woke up, sometimes I think that since I had that dream nobody ever dared to fight me in my dreams, they learned their lession

GrapeTheArmadillo ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:27:20 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, actually. In all my dreams that I remember, there's always this guy. I don't know who the heck he is but he's the best, and he's in all of them.

staplesz ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:27:25 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well the good thing is that the people in your dreams are usually you. Once I had a lucid dream, where me and another dude where robbing a fancy-pants bank with SPAS-12's.. When I shot someone in their head and it exploded, I thought to myself "WHOAH.. whoah, I would never do this, wtf.. OHHH it's a dream!" at which point I turned to my partner in crime and said 'Hey, you realize you're just me, right?' he replied 'Oh... thanks for pointing that out.. that's very interesting'.. Then I went in an elevator and had crazy awesome dream sex with some random sexy lady.

Gunslap ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:27:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a strange dream the other night that I met Lady Gaga. She was actually really cool and we became close friends. Then I died of cancer or something.

The end.

It was a pretty random dream, especially since I don't ever listen to her music at all.

LyingUnderOath ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:27:39 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah, that happened to me last night. Still thinking about it as well...

shimmer1125 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:28:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This happens to me a lot. I'll meet either a man who is the perfect man of my dreams, and I'll wake up in love w/ him, or I'll meet the most amazing friend who I wake up very fond of. Sometimes I'll dream of having another child and when I wake up, I actually feel like I lost a child for a moment. Come to think of it, it's really odd how much I dream this kind of dream.

iloling ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:28:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

True story: I had a dream like that a little over two years ago. I ended up describing the girl to my friend later that day cause the dream had me feeling weird all morning. About a month and a half later, my friend reminds me of that dream and points out that the girl I described sounded exactly like the girl I had just started dating about 2 weeks earlier. In 4 days I will have been with this same girl for 2 years.

TL;DR dreamed up a girl, began dating that girl, mind blow, still together.

tdm1790 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:28:52 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I do something a little different, I'll have dreams about previous crushes that I've gotten over. In the dream we're dating and I can't remember ever being happier, then I wake up realize it was a dream and usually get really depressed.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:29:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once based my faith and entire system of beliefs on a feeling of overwhelming peace and completeness that I got from praying in a dream. I thought that was God's way of telling me "This is what I can do when you're awake, if you have enough faith."

I have since become an atheist, but- those powerful emotions you feel in a dream can be pretty amazing.

dweebstep ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:29:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Daniel Redelmeier. He was blond, quiet, and I had to spend an entire day with him navigating a magical building before I realized he was the love of my life. It was amazing, knowing that this normal person, someone I wouldn't usually look twice at, could be with me for the rest of my life. And then I woke up :(

kinyon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:29:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You felt that deep personal connection because that person was essentially you.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:30:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No.

My_ducks_sick ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:30:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream about you

danielvago ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:31:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Sure, plenty of times.

Mostly, as far as I can recall, it has been variations of relationships with past crushes, class-mates, etc.

In some of them we are in love and it's basically just a loving, caring relationship, and in others it's straight up sex and passion.

I always wake up thinking "aww, that was such a lovely relationship, why can't I have that"/forever alone :(

PS: I have a great girlfriend now, so no need to pity me.

yhelothere ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:31:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

inb4 5000 replies

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:31:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah, once.

I had a dream once where I met a woman at a local bookstore. She had black hair, vibrant green eyes, and a smile that could disarm a squad of Marines.

We talked about books and the future together for what felt like hours. There was an immediate connection. I felt like I'd known this person before, and I was just re-meeting her for the second time, and ..

I woke up.

StanleyMk2 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:31:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This has happened to me, only once. In my dream I met this girl, blah blah blah, you know the story, shes amazing, we've so muchi in common and whatnot. So this shit is uber-realistic. Then I wake up, and my mind has been fucked over. I count it down just to be the emodiement of what I look for in a person, and resume life. Then about two or three weeks later my friend comes over to my house with one of his friends who I never met before. She's the exact same as the person from my dream, albeit a different coloured hair. I invite them in, tell them I'm just going to grab a drink, and start flipping the fuck out. I'm just totally out of it, and was before this whole thing. Me and the girl got on amazingly, and are really close friends to this day :)

Rignite ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:32:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

All the time

All the friggen time

rexmons ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:32:52 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oh but they did exist points to heart in here.

cue Billy Joel - River of Dreams

wrexsol ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:32:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

But they do exist! It 's a mathematical certainty! You'll probably just never meet them.

Fuck. Now I'm sad. =(

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:34:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes. I can't remember details but I remember I've been upset about waking up because I had an important role to play in my dream and so by waking up I essentially failed.

BitterChris ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:34:19 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

On Topic: Yes, it sucks.

Off Topic: I did have kind of a mental breakthrough while dreaming once.

Before the dream I was never able to swallow any kind of pill medication, it always had to be either chewed (which is fucking gross) or ground up and put into food. If it was whole, my mouth would find it and reject it.

So I had this dream that for whatever reason (most of the details have passed with time, it was like 10 years ago) my best friend tried to get me some ecstasy. I had never tried ecstasy and my friend did no drugs at all, so it was strange to begin with. I ended up taking it with no problem whatsoever and the dream eventually ended. When I woke up, remembered what just happened, and went to try and swallow a Tylenol. Obviously I was able to swallow it on the first attempt and have had no problem with pills of any size ever since.

TL;DR - Friend got me to take ecstasy in a dream, woke up and my pill taking problem was solved.

xgnarf ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:34:28 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

you just described 100% of celebrity stalkers with the only difference being their person of obsession is real but doesn't know they (stalker) exist.

5acred ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:34:40 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This happens to me so much, it really hurts. Especially because I have never felt so close to someone in waking life.

brasstrings ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:35:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This has happened with people i knew who had passed away.its so sad when you wake up.

nohaynadie ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:35:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No.

Procris ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:35:49 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When I was a kid -- somewhere around 6 or 7 -- I had a dream friend over multiple dreams. She was brunette and lived in a brick, octagon shaped house. It was kind of like a museum inside, with all dark wood and paneling. It was on a dirt or gravel road, that was way out in the country (or felt like it); when I was really little, the dreams would be about playing: outisde or in this inside playroom at the top of the stairs (one dream it rained furiously the entire time), and we played with this amazing doll house. Come to think of it, most of the toys were sort of turn-of-the-last century / 1910s ish in style, as was pretty much the whole house. Later, there'd be dreams about us walking down this tree-shaded lane, just talking. The annoying thing was that it was completely silent -- most of my dreams don't come with sound -- and I couldn't hear what we were saying. It was like watching a movie with the sound off, but a really amazing wam-and-fuzzy period movie.

gyunjgf ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:36:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
Synectics ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:36:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:36:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've had dreams where I'm deeply and happily in love with the man in my dream. Then I wake up and realize how lonely I am. :(

imeuru ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:36:38 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I read a study that stated that you never dream about anyone that you have never seen in real life, though, sometimes your brain makes compilations.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:36:52 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Remember that everyone you meet in a dream is you.

Manumitany ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:37:30 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The dream person is a reflection of your own characteristics and desires. It's called narcissism.

ikoros ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:37:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Here is an idea. Everyone who has had this dream describe the person they were in love with both physical and mental. And try to find a match on reddit.

I'll start: I was going through a Quake II map and was defending this girl she was 18 and had long black hair, thin build, and spoke Russian. I felt a deep feeling to defend her from harm as she hide behind a boulder as I blasted away enemies.

TeddyBear_Squabble ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:38:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What happens to me is that it is someone I know in the dream and we have this deep personal connection but in real life, that person barely knows I exist. Sounds kinda pathetic.

sevenillusions ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:38:25 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

i have some dead friends wich i see a lot in my dreams but surely there are a lot of other "fictional" people iยดve only met in dreams which i got very fond of

therealsylvos ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:38:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The weirdest is when your dream spans several years. I just woke up from a dream where I went to jail, got released, and tried to get my life back on track.

I'm still a little shaken.

accountb ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:39:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've had these dreams but they were of the girls I couldn't get with because I had a girlfriend.

hookmonk ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:40:49 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Strange this just happened to me a couple of days ago.

yunoexist ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:41:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

These kinds of dreams always leave me with that residual emotion that girl always leaves behind. That crap haunts still haunts me to this day. I wont ever forget Asian girl in the diner. Dark Brunette Girl with bangs and glasses. Alternate Dimension girl who took a bullet for me and died in my arms. Then there's Nuette. The nonchalant Asian woman who literally walked in to my dreams. We decide to play it safe have some fun and just go with first names. What a ride that was. Waking up never hurt so good.

dahooruu ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:42:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

All the time, usually the same woman appears in my dreams. She, to my eyes, is perfect in every way. The way she smiles brings peace to my soul no matter what state it was in before. Her face is so beautiful yet impossible to remember or describe. I fell in love with the woman I met in my dreams and now I'm making it my mission in life to find the women that makes me feel that way in real life...that I believe is the point of these dreams.

nokyo-chan ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:43:39 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had something very similar; I once had a very strangely realistic dream in which I was pregnant with my first child. My parents and friends were all very supportive, and I took several steps to prepare for her, even fixing up her nursery. I think I even had a name picked out, but I can't remember it now. The dream ended with my lying on my back and lovingly stroking my stomach. I was so happy. When I woke up, I immediately put a hand on my stomach; when it wasn't big and round, I almost started crying. I felt like I had lost her. I felt sad and sort of mopey the rest of the day.

I've never before felt that I wanted a child before I marry, so this was weird.

ReiHitori ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:43:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Alright. In the dream, I find this red-headed girl in my room. How she got in and why she was there wasn't important. She introduced herself as Julia Fisher/Fischer. We talked for a bit and eventually came close to having sex, though I'm not sure it actually happened.

The main thing that got me was the intense feeling of longing I felt. When I woke up, I felt so cheated that I actually googled the name but couldn't find anyone that matched that dream girl.

rabidbob ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:44:24 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes ... a few years ago I had a recurring dream about a girl called Elizabeth who is the only person who knows my real name. To this day I'm utterly convinced we're destined to meet, despite the fact that I'm a pretty staunch atheist these days.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:45:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah, it's called mescaline. It's the only way to fly.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:45:18 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes but only because I realize I'll never be that close to a pretty girl in real life.

MisterMarmalade ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:45:41 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have a reoccurring dream that I have a younger sister. I first started dreaming about her when I was 10 or so, and at first I'd dream of her about once a year, then only once every few years, now she only checks in if I have something major happening in my life.

When we were kids we mostly just hung out around the house, or did regular family stuff. Now as a young woman she pretty much has her own life. She got pissed at me over a girl one time. She ages a little slower than I do, she ought to be in her 30s but when I last saw her 5 years ago she was still in her mid-20s.

I've never felt terrible because she's not real, she still feels real. I'm just a bit sad I haven't seen her round lately.

I've met several girls who remind me of her, more or less. Recently I've dated one or two, which might explain why I haven't dreamed of her.

TheDoktorIsIn ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:45:43 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Multiple times. Once was two women who I weren't attracted to sexually at all, but I just felt a level of comfort around them that I've never known before.

The other time it was my co-worker (real person) who I don't really talk to much anyway, so that was an interesting few months.

alphawolfgang ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:45:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

that happened to me yesterday. we met, we made love, we had an amazing time together talking and everything... she broke my heart and when i was about to snap and murder her new guy i woke up. i had to piss so badly when i woke up, also i was really angry for a little bit after waking up. however the one that broke my heart in my dream was my new girlfriend... it felt like she actually hurt me like that for a few minutes until my brain rebooted and i knew it was all just a depressive dream trying to bring me down... or was it telling me something like that dream i had about japan shortly before the tsunami O_o dreams are weird man...

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:47:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Relevant xkcd:

I had a dream that I met a girl in a dying world

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:47:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Multiple times, the same person. I can always make out everything clearly except for his face.

doublemintben ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:47:34 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

A few years ago I had a series of dreams. I hesitate to call them recurring because it was like the story continued with each dream, would pick up where it left off the night before. In these dreams I met a girl, married her, and it got to the point of being on our honeymoons first night and I got woken up right in the middle of me carrying her into the room and I looked around, it felt as if a woman I had actually married died, and I felt so beside myself and it felt like something was missing for a good week. I felt ridiculous feeling the way I was, I couldn't explain it, but I felt like someone I loved I could never get back!

superexactly ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:47:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's apparently impossible for your brain to visualize someones appearance from scratch. So everyone you have met in your dream you have seen before at some point in your life. So hopefully you won't feel so bad when you wake up!

alexkitsune ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:48:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've had repetitive dreams about being in this large mansion, and there was this little boy who was presumably my son (Around 4 years old, a toddler), dark longish wavy brown hair and big wideset brown eyes. And he'd always be running around calling me. "Mommy! Mommy follow me!" I would always follow, terrified of losing my little boy. I love him dearly.

And then I wake up. And I always wonder if I'll meet him. He is quite lovely.

edgeify ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:49:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Kind of makes you wonder what the dream world really is...

xxhoixx ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:49:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yep...I've been dreaming about the same woman since I was a kid and I don't know who she is.

danfromwaterloo ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:49:52 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes. I once had a dream that I had an entire relationship with actress Judy Greer. She was an amateur porn producer that lived with a lesbian mutual friend of ours. When I woke up, I felt completely confused because as reality set back in, it seemed like I stepped into another person's life, rather than simply dreamt the whole thing. I'm a creative person, but all the little details of the dream exceeded anything I had ever experienced.

punkrawkintrev ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:51:45 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

One time in a dream I fell more deeply in love than i ever have in the waking world. When I woke up I felt heart broken, it ruined my day. :(

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:51:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
Big_Bang_Machine ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:51:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

In a dream, I once had what felt like a long term relationship with Paris Hilton. When I woke up I felt like I had just broken up with her.

I've never met her, or even seen much of her work. Completely random.

tweedyimpertinence ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:52:20 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Shelley's Alastor for you, my friend! The lesson here being, when a total babe of an Arab maiden lets it be known that she yearns for you tragically, stop being a schmuck and just forget about that woman you dreamed up. It's a good lesson.

[EDIT] Because if you don't, you'll shrivel up and die. Also that.

IkomaTanomori ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:52:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Often.

stanky_shake ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:52:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've had a series of dreams like this with the same person in it.

When I was around 15, I dreamt of me and this other boy named Alex with very blonde hair. In my first dream, we met on a plane to Japan and we had many adventures in a bunch of different dreams on different nights. It was as if we were soul mates in the dream, so in sync.

This felt so real, as if it was going to happen because I was going back to Japan (my home country) that summer, and these dreams started about a month before that trip. After that summer I never dreamt of him again, but I still think about it from time to time.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:52:51 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have felt a distinct loathing for a person I am 100 % exists but I have not met yet.

Yes, please do make fun of me because it is fucking silly.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:52:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This happens to me repeatedly where I meet someone that I instantly fall in love with them. I have fallen in love more times in dreams than I ever will in real life. Then you wake up and they are gone :(

Lmorton575 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:52:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream and i was searching for the Chinese girl, actually she was like a cartoon but not anime. Anyway for some reason i felt a really deep emotional connection to her and when i awoke i was really gutted it was a dream!

MIBPJ ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:53:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I used to have dreams that I was walking around Mars with this sleazy, demure woman with an athletic build. Eventually I figured out that this woman wasn't just a figment of my imagination. I had actually been to Mars and was romantically involved with her! Of course the memory block implanted by my friend/business associate prevented me from remembering everything but bits and pieces were coming through in the form of dreams.

Wheat_Grinder ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:53:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I actually have an interesting take on this. In my dream, I was a ghost for some unexplained reason. To maintain the ghost form, I had to stay in this one spot or risk dissolution. There was a person there who I talked to for a little bit, but then they started moving away from me. And then a little more and a little more so that I had to keep following them. Eventually they were running, and I was flying. This was next to a street, and so I then started flying above the cars. I felt an intense sadness at this guy leaving me, but also an extreme joy for him having shown me a new aspect of the afterlife.

To top it off I had a piano line in my head as I woke up from the dream a few minutes later. I felt really really weird for about an hour afterwards. It was probably one of the most powerful dreams I've had.

i-am-the-walrus789 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:54:25 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've had it happen where I've dreamy a met a girl, yadda yadda yadda, like everyone else here. Then we fall asleep holding eachother. When I start to wake up I can still feel her there but I'm afraid to open my eyes knowing that she's not going to be there.

I wonder if some girl somewhere in the world dreamt that I was laying next to her, and she too was afraid to wake up

manicleek ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:54:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, and also a couple of times I have had dreams where I had gotten into a relationship, and fallen madly in love, with girls who had up to that point been nothing more than friends in real life, and woken up suddenly wanting more.

Thinks_Like_A_Man ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:54:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

There is a saying that if your dreams picked up where they left off the night before, you wouldn't be able the difference between your waking life and dream life.

kitty_bacon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:55:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I fell in love with this girl in a dream once, I realized towards the end that I was actually dreaming and that I would soon wake up - thus loosing her forever. So what I did was asking her for her phone number - the dumb me dreaming was convinced she was somehow real and that i would be able to contact her in the real world. Right when she was about to write her number down on my piece of paper POOF i woke up. I was so shocked i kept thinking about this for days.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:01:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

call 867-5309, ask for jenny.

kitty_bacon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:50:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

LOL, good one...

riddle_a_riddle ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:55:24 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I hit forever alone level 76 a few months ago. I had this vivid dream where I met this cute brunette girl and we were both kids at the time.

All I can remember is this: The dream consisted of a series of days, starting with us meeting as children, no more than 7. We played and had a fun time on the first day, when I went to sleep inside of my dream I woke up (still in the dream) and experienced yet another day at an older age with the girl.

Eventually we were both college age (my current age) in our 20s. Our first date for some reason went from a beach at sunset to camping in a secluded forest with nothing but the crisp morning dew and the not-quite-warm-yet-comforting morning sunshine trickling through a rustling of leaves above. The change of location and scenery happened when I went into the camping tent at the beach to get something, although this didn't shock me when I came out I just accepted it as something normal. We talked about deep things, conversations that left my mind as they started sprang up. It seemed everything was a brushing of laughing and smiles.

I remember another day. We have a house now, again in that same forest. The walls and floor of the house are made of dark and rich oak with a sole fireplace licking at the darkness of night. We're in our 30s now, under a warm red knitted blanket staring into each other's eyes. I see the fire in the reflection and I see her warm smile. We don't say a thing, just lay there in the moment as time stands still around us.

Another day, we're much older now... hard to say. Signs of gray are showing. We have a child, a daughter. She's fast asleep as I kiss her forehead and wish her goodnight. Her name, I kept thinking, I must know her name. So familiar, I knew she was my daughter.

I'm older the last day, there is no familiar glow. No warm sun, dancing stars, welcoming fireplace. Shes not here anymore. I don't know how I know, but I know shes passed on. I hit forever alone level 76 a few months ago. I had this vivid dream where I met this cute brunette girl and we were both kids at the time.

All I can remember is this: The dream consisted of a series of days, starting with us meeting as children, no more than 7. We played and had a fun time on the first day, when I went to sleep inside of my dream I woke up (still in the dream) and experienced yet another day at an older age with the girl.

Eventually we were both college age (my current age) in our 20s. Our first date for some reason went from a beach at sunset to camping in a secluded forest with nothing but the crisp morning dew and the not-quite-warm-yet-comforting morning sunshine trickling through a rustling of leaves above. The change of location and scenery happened when I went into the camping tent at the beach to get something, although this didn't shock me when I came out I just accepted it as something normal. We talked about deep things, conversations that left my mind as they started sprang up. It seemed everything was a brushing of laughing and smiles.

I remember another day. We have a house now, again in that same forest. The walls and floor of the house are made of dark and rich oak with a sole fireplace licking at the darkness of night. We're in our 30s now, under a warm red knitted blanket staring into each other's eyes. I see the fire in the reflection and I see her warm smile. We don't say a thing, just lay there in the moment as time stands still around us.

Another day, we're much older now... hard to say. Signs of gray are showing. We have a child, a daughter. She's fast asleep as I kiss her forehead and wish her goodnight. Her name, I kept thinking, I must know her name. So familiar, I knew she was my daughter.

I'm older the last day, there is no familiar glow. No warm sun, dancing stars, welcoming fireplace. Shes not here anymore. I don't know how I know, but I know shes passed on. My frail figure shivers as I watch the rain attack the earth. A cold realization enters my mind: I am alone now.

I woke up to this last thought. Confused, I looked around. Why am I young again? I don't understand, I felt fulfilled, loved, yet empty. Was everything fake or do I have dementia now and am living a past thought? I miss her, but what was her name? I see her lips moving in my mind from the first date, but I can't remember her voice. I can't remember so much.

It took me a few hours to realize what had happened. I still miss her, even though that sounds so incredibly fucking unhealthy and deranged. I wish I never woke up from that dream, to this reality.

rhymeswithbanana ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:55:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

More often, I dream about someone who does exist, with whom I don't have much of a personal connection in real life. In the dream world, though, we're impossibly close, and have all sorts of copiloted adventures.

It's weirder in a way because though it doesn't feel like they've never existed, it feels as though I'm suddenly living in a sinisterly altered version of the better (dream) world I could be living in.

And it's very awkward to interact with them.

SoulSonick ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:55:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This has r/foreveralone written all over it.

BowlingStone ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:56:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have a fun one. I was 11/12, and I was somewhere in South America; I've never been to South America, so I was actually in an idea of what I thought South America was. In the middle of the jungle there was this glorious hidden lagoon, and I found myself swimming in it with this beautiful girl. There wasn't much done or said in the dream, but the feeling of it all was quite overwhelming. She was in love, I was in love, and it was all going to work out.

I was in a weird stage in my life when this dream took place. My step-dad was chairman of a large Canadian association, and every couple months we attended these week-long events/meetings in various places around the world. Invariably, there would be another family staying at the hotel that hosted the event with a cute girl my age. There were always activities scheduled for the kids, so I would end up spending the week with these girls and falling madly in love; or at least my 11/12 year-old version of falling in love. At the end of the week everyone would head home, that would be the last time I would ever see her, and I would be devastated; or at least as devastated as an 11/12 year-old could be.

What stood out in the dream was that there was no end in sight. There was no going home.

So anyways, I wake up from the dream and immediately forget it. It wasn't until later that day, sitting in math class, when it all came flooding back. The lagoon, the girl, the color of her hair, it all hit me at once like a freight train. I almost threw up.

16 years later and I can still remember that damn lagoon, and the color of her damn bathing suit. The brain is fascinating.

lLoveLamp ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:56:34 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Like meeting the girl of your dreams, and when you wake up. popp, gone. The only thing is that youve already seen her before. The brain cannot produce people in dreams, which means that the people you see in them, well, you have already saw them before

AdamWe ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:56:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This happens to me every now and then but I've come to accept it. My dreams feel so real I usually don't realize I'm dreaming. Even after I wake up and recall the dream it can be difficult to find faults in the dream that would make it non-real.

The major downside to this is I have the ability to lucid dream and my tell for this is thinking/predicting what will happen next and having it happen. It's difficult to explain but due to the realism and the fact I'm a pessimist means I rarely take "advantage" of knowing I'm in a dream.

iDork ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:56:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

My soul mate is on a yellow sportster. We were going to meet, under the same tree where we first met, for a picnic "tomorrow" night, and run away together. My dreams never went back :(

kittypankake ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:56:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah...we went cat toy shopping for my 3 cats. He was perfect...

escapist11 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:56:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

About once a year I have a dream where me and a guy are runnung away from people who are chasing us and we come to a massive house. We go inside and open a closet. There are multiple staircases in the closet and choose one to take. The staircase spits us out into a room with another choset full of staircases and we take one of them. This keeps going all in an attempt to lose the people chasing us. Finally, we make it up to a room. Theres always a metal daybed, a window above the bed, a night stand, a dresser and a rug and the closet door from which we came from. This person and I always hide out in the room for days. Not speaking but always understanding one another. Eventually the police catch the bad guys and everything is safe but we were safe long before the police showed up.

MisterIggy ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:57:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'll have dreams where I'll meet an absolutely wonderful girl, we get along swimmingly, we're in love, all that fun stuff. We'll be walking around together, hand in hand, and I'll look away for but a second, and when I look back, she's gone. I can never find her. I wake up and my day just feels like shit.

KlausCin ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:57:19 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Happens far too often. The most recent of which was back in high school where I met the girl of my dreams (facepalm) and this dream seemed to last my entire stay at high school. Everything was in incredible detail including the girl. But yeah I know all too well what you mean, I personally think my subconscience is a real bastard.

adeadparrot ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:58:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have a question, have any of you felt equally as attached to anyone in real life?

I mean, I might sound like a crazy cynic incapable of feelings or something but I've always wondered if the whole Love things seems so unattainable to me because of my standards (Set by movies and crazy dreams like OP describes) or because maybe I just haven't gotten lucky yet.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:58:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Two nights ago I dreamed that a tiny grizzly bear loved me and I carried it everywhere in a front facing toddler carrier. Nothing can describe the disappointment when I awoke without him.

sturmeh ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:58:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, it's one of the reasons why I strive to lucid dream.

tcz06a ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:59:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Every few years, I have the same dream. I am following a women, she is running from an invading army of some sort. I feel a sort of love towards her deeper than anything I knew was possible. In this dream, I finally catch up to her, and she is fading in and out of the already questionable existence of my dream world. She has a nebulous face, and short black hair. She returns my affections, and mournfully informs me that this is but a dream. I am lucid during this part always. We pause for what seems an eternity, as my dream slowly fades to nothingness. I feel happy to have felt what this dream gave me, and hope to manifest more such happiness in the world as I live my life.

Monarki ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:59:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah of course I've had dreams where I meat this beautiful girl who is the one! and I'm so in love, only to wake up and find it was all fake. I want to look for the girl but it's impossible so I feel sad.

OldWickerChair ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:59:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

I occasionally suffer, or am blessed, depending on how you look at it, with particularly vivid dream states followed by temporarily paralysis. In the first of these most vivid dreams, I was sitting at an old telephone operator table, and was able to listen to people's most private thoughts and conversations all across the world, as I chose. I heard a daughter tell her mother that she was pregnant, I heard leaves rustle in a park and felt the heaviness in my heart while a man in his 20's thought "where do I go from here," unable to cope with his current predicament. I felt the physical presence of someone as they sat down next to me, realizing the entire time that my body was in my bed. It was too much for me to take. Too much knowledge, too much emotion, too much to comprehend, and I tried as hard as I could to pull myself back from the dream. Eventually, I forced, or at least thought that I forced my eyes open, only to feel an immense pressure, like someone had placed a really heavy anti-radiation blanket (like the ones dentist offices used to use) over my body. I could not move, I could not talk, I could merely stare at my wall while the physical presence that sat down at the edge of my bunk-bed (college dorm) continued to just sit there. At this moment, I was able to feel what it would be like to have no control of my own body, to have no means of expressing my cognitive abilities to anyone. After what felt like several minutes, but was likely less than 30 seconds, a quiet hiss grew in my ears until it crescendo'd with an explosion, as I jolted "awake."

I have since had 3 more of these dreams, one of which that consisted of me seeing a man enter my apartment, a man who looked to be in his 20's wearing a baseball uniform, a man who clearly had cataracts in his eyes as he walked past me and winked. It turns out that the previous tenant was a 95 year old man who played baseball in the 1920's until his eyesight went to shit, due to cataracts. Is this a coincidence? Or did I really dream about a former tenant, without having any knowledge of how he was prior to the dream? Who knows.

A long digression aside, I don't feel like waking up kills the person in your dream. Anymore, I view dreams like how I view reading reddit, of all things. You can pick up from where you left off last time and the content might be completely different, or it might be directly related or a spin off of the prior content and yet still be thoroughly enjoyable. And if you really have an affinity toward a particular subject, you will likely revisit it again and again. So have no fears, OP, you waking up didn't kill the person in your dream, anymore than closing your browser kills reddit. It will still be there waiting for you to sign back in.

crentisthecrentist ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:00:26 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Wasn't this same question posted yesterday?

zpiercy ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:02:30 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This just makes me sad :( because it does happen.

whoaitsbrian ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:03:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This is what I thought of immediately.

TadaaSuperDan ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:03:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

About 7 or so years ago I had a dream about this really pretty brunette, in the dream we were hugging and talking, etc. I woke up and was bummed out because it was a dream and I told all my friends about it. I met her 2 years later and we're now married :) true story

upvotebot90001 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:03:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yah Shooter McGavin from Happy Gilmore, but he was a politcal consultant on fox.

ThePegasi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:03:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes. I fell totally in love in a dream a couple of years back, with a Japanese girl. I can't remember her name, don't think she even had one in the dream, but I remember her being Japanese not just through her face but because she had to go back to Japan at the end. It was really weird how the dream came to a really filmic conclusion just before I woke up, not many of my dreams end so definitively. It was pretty affecting because I was gutted she was leaving in the dream, woke up still feeling that, then had the emptiness of realising she didn't even exist fall on top of that.

It's still very vivid in my memory, particularly the look on my dad's face, as he'd taken us to the airport for her to leave. I could see that he knew how cut up I was, and it really stuck with me.

BTW, this isn't symptomatic of an asian fetish, pretty indifferent on that front. It wasn't a sexual dream tbh, just very emotion-heavy.

LeonJones ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:03:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)
Ashex ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:04:26 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have very vivid dreams every night, so this is a regular experience for me. In one of the more memorable ones i met a beautiful girl with dazzling eyes and we clicked, pretty soon we were getting cozy eventually having sex on a curtained windowsill in the early morning with her riding me. It ended a bit after that, took me a moment to sort out reality then went along with my day.

Later that same day I'm at the doctors office with my wife and I see the woman i had been dreamimg about sitting across the room from me, was a rather bizarre moment where my two worlds collided.

concordefallacy ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:04:26 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I will never forget one I had when I was a child around 9 or 10.

I had this extremely long dream about this pale girl with dark hair. She was introduced to me by some neighbors and all we would do is take turns playing Super Mario Bros. on the NES. We stayed together throughout elementary, middle, and high school and throughout that time she protected me from all the ridicule I was afraid of as a child. The most poignant image and feeling of the entire dream was when I was in a moonlit room in a bed with her what I now know was "spooning" me, speaking softly about "being there for each other".

The dream ended with me as an adult rushing to make coffee and get ready for work, then saying goodbye to her and I guess our child (there was a babyseat I helped her set up on the kitchen table).

It was just another silly, eventful dream, but that moment in the moonlit room always gives me a comforting, secure feeling when I'm reminded of it all.

fink93 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:04:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had the sweetest baby girl (I'm only 16 at this point). Times were hard, because of her unsupportive father. Some how it fast forwarded to when she was 1 year old, and she was laying on my bed next to me, with the sweetest smile and the most beautiful curls. I woke up from this dream so confused, and searched around for my little girl. I cried when I realized it was a dream

HotDinnerBatman ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:05:28 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

About once every three months I always dream about falling in love with a certain person. It's always different scenarios. The last time he time travled to come and find me and we fell in love. Another time he was waiter. But everytime I would wake up and feel like I was deeply in love with this person and suddenly feel awful because I realized it was all a dream and I'll never feel that kind of love for someone . It's nerve wracking.

clickity-click ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:06:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When I was a single young man in my 20s, I became gravely ill. One night during the illness, I dreamed that I was resting on this beautiful, grassy hill. I could feel and smell the fresh Spring grass and a gentle breeze rustling through my hair as I sat on the grass with my forearms on my knees looking up at the pillowy, pure white clouds and the endless expanse of fragrant green grass.

Suddenly, a stunningly beautiful, innocent, light-blonde haired, barefoot young girl wearing only a thin, white summer dress came and gently sat down right next to me. No words were exchanged and she looked me in the eye and then at my arm where I had a port for dialysis. Ever so gently, she touched the fistula and looked back up in my eyes and at that moment I could read her mind and she was thinking, "Everything's going to be alright."

I woke up and laid there on my back weeping quietly for about 5 minutes.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:06:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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glowinglassrose ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:07:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Probably due to my biological clock ticking away, I have a lot of dreams where I have children. In the dream it's usually a toddler aged little boy, and I can really feel how much this little person loves and depends on me, and I care so completely for him. Then I wake up and remember that I don't actually want children, and I feel pretty terrible for a while.

BoernerMan ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:07:20 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

i get along really well with people i wish to get to know better who i know IRL, the dissapointment is heavy when i wake up :(

newsdaylaura18 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:08:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have sex dreams like this all the time. It's like having an affair without having an affair.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:08:18 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah, it's actually just the personification of the ideals you once held a potential mate to. They are everything you loved about that person and when you wake up they're gone ... just like the girl who broke your heart.

Most of my dreams are about this idealized super-woman who gives great hugs and likes to cuddle.

On a related note there's also something called "sexsomnia" where someone will crawl into bed and have sex with you in their sleep while you're asleep too. So yeah, she might actually be real ... but she's either your sister or your mother ... in either case, sorry bro. Happens to the best of us.

Ugh, i feel gross now. I really hope that one "really realistic feeling" dream I had as a teenager wasn't just my sister fucking me in my sleep. Same height, same hair, same proporti-- god. fucking. dammit.

isoT ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:08:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You know what's even more weird? You can actually wake that personality up, and have a real conversation with it. Even give it your body, if you want.

CommunistPlatypi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:27:20 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What now?

isoT ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:31:51 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Now go through his wallet, is there a credit card?

vindanc ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:08:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Two nights ago I had a dream where I was sliding down the surface of a river. I was going extremely fast and if you touched the edges of the river on either side you would turn into a ball of ice until you were forced over to the middle of the river again. Now this was extremely fast and tons of fun but I got caught up in the edge of the river so I was encapsulated in ice and frightened. Then a beautiful, young woman came to my rescue and returned me to the center of the river.

After this experience we bonded well with each other. She exclaimed about how she felt a great energy in me and that it resonated with hers. This beautiful goddess was human in shape but was a spirit of some sort. We ended up going on a huge adventure which I don't remember too much of. By the end of the adventure we were separated somehow. I woke up when I was searching for her and was terribly bummed about losing contact with her.

Was a great experience of having a dream be so powerful that it messed with my emotions the first ten minutes of my day.

bordercollieflower ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:08:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream a few months back about a man I work with. We were on a date and it was coming to a close. We shared the most passionate kiss that I have ever experienced in my life. I have never told my fiancee about it because he knows the man and he also knows that he is very attractive and would probably guilt trip me. I feel guilty now because I catch myself comparing our kisses to the one in the dream.

seanmg ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:09:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

One of the most important feelings I've ever experienced was waking up from a dream with my ex-girlfriend from several years ago hanging out with me, and us having just this little moment together, like we were falling for each other again. There's always little ticks about someone you forget until you're right there with them. She had all of them in the dream, and I remembered who she was for the first time in a long time opposed to who I had grown to project her to be. I woke up seriously the saddest I've ever been realizing it was a dream, but throughout the day realized that who I loved was an incredible person, and the projection I had was absolutely a disservice to how incredible of a person she was.

It was through this dream that I was finally able to move on.

dallasrushing ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:09:18 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

yeA!!!! THA DEVIL....

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:09:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

If it's any reassurance, everyone you've seen in your dreams you have seen in real life. Your brain registers the faces you see throughout a day and uses them in your dreams even the ones you haven't interacted with. So the person you felt this connection to does exist and you've met/seen them, you just might not be aware of it. Though they probably dont have the same personality as you'd portrayed them in your mind.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:09:52 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

One time I had buttsex with this chick in some random middle school we snuck into. It started in the boys room then the janitors closet, an empty gymnasium, the side walk and then a girls restroom never got caught and at the end I stole her car and her pants and left her on the sidewalk. Shit ruined my whole day.

leSmoothOperator ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:10:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm a male in college and have never had a girlfriend. Oftentimes I will dream that I am in a relationship with someone, most of whom I have never seen before. When I wake up and realize it was a dream, it's disappointing like none other. My dreams are the closest I have ever come to having a relationship.

Quatroking ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:10:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm still trying to find this one girl with the username "FlyingRock" in some community. We had great fun in that one dream, contact me sometime!

stanhhh ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:11:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This happened to me with a sega master system zapper gun ... wonderful dream... when woke up, nothing. Bitter...

nancylikestoreddit ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:11:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes. I have had dreams where I meet someone who just melts my heart. I'm happy and all is well with the world and then I wake up. My brain is a cruel joke.

zombiebearhug ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:12:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I used to dream that my now-ex wife was a decent human being. Does that count?

NuffNoiz ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:12:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Kind of the exact opposite, but last night my girlfriend had a dream where i did something mean to her, so she slept with her head the other side of the bed, and wouldn't speak to me until about lunch time.

odd-logic ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:12:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've had a few dreams in which I've basically fallen in love with someone that my mind has made up. Not like dreams about people I know with whom I wish there were something, but people completely created by my mind.

Waking up afterwords kinda sucks.

mstrmatt ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:12:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Or what's worse is when it's someone you really know you just don't have that connection with them in real life.

respondingperson ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:13:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Nope.

AlphaKlams ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:13:20 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once fell in love with a talking shark. You don't know pain until you've had your love torn away from you by the cold, unfeeling jaws of reality.

234975621523453425b ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:13:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No. But that is how I feel after playing Katawa Shoujo.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:13:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I know exactly what you mean. This person was featured in my dreams for a couple days in a row. I have never met this person and I'm sure it is just my subconscious making it up. But still, I would love to find out this person actually exists

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:14:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes and I wrote a poem about it just after waking up even if I'm not a poet.

Was double-weird.

Baumage ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:15:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This thread is already pretty commented on, but I just have to chime in. I thought this was only me. (None of my friends that I'm aware of have ever experienced one of these dreams)

I have had two in my life, and both felt incredibly realistic. Both times I woke up happier than I think I've ever been (I literally had a smile on my face upon waking), only to become super depressed once I start to gain full consciousnesses and realize they only existed in my dream. Seriously ruined my whole day.

SGT_ZIPPY ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:15:38 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream similar to that just the other night. I was going though these crates that have been tucked away in my attic when I came across this brand new never been fired antique m1 Garand along with two clips of army green 30 06 rounds. come to find out it was my grandpa's service rifle from WWII. Took it to the range twice, fell in love with it, got woken up by my dad to move my car, and just like that, its gone...

SparkyPantsMcGee ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:15:40 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes. It ended up being very tragic though. Turns out she was me in a past life. After learning all about my life by looking through her I eyes I was shot by my psychologist who ended up being my jealous ex-husband in my past life.

Arithered ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:15:46 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

My wife and I are not very well off right now--we have been living hand to mouth for a while--and I love that woman with all my heart, and I'd sell advertising space on my body to make her happy. For the past several months, I've had this recurring dream where I win 20,000 dollars on a scratch-off ticket. The lottery retailer is always the same guy--freakishly thin Indian dude with a nosering--and he always says the same thing to me: "looks like today's your day, boss!" I practically cry in happiness at the notion of telling my wife and seeing her face, but then I feel myself waking up. EVERY TIME, I clutch the ticket to me tightly and pray that I can take it with me, and then I wake up fully, clutching a corner of my pillow in a death grip. And then I cry for real. F. M. L.

auntiecoagulant ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:15:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes.

Gozer_Destructor ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:15:51 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had this happen to me one time when I was in the 5th grade and the next day I actually met her. Not to mention, she already knew my name! It was quite possibly the strangest event I could have ever experienced in my life.

dasexymamas ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:15:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I always have dreams of a male that represents my husband. They don't look alike, but they both have the same qualities. I always dream that I'm meeting this person for the first time and I get the same feelings as I did when I first met my husband. When we get physical, it feels the same too. When I wake up, I'm thinking about this person all day and it just makes me more compassionate towards my husband. Like I've just met him again for the first time. Its quite nice, kind of like my brain is giving us a fresh start.

tequilsoneils ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:16:20 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Daenerys Targaryen. Needless to say I was pretty distressed when I woke up.

HonorAmongSteves ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:17:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That person is you. You created him in your own mind. That's why you like him so much.

D-DayDodger ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:17:41 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Just happened last night. It was a cute, short blonde girl. I loved her so much. We talked a lot and I really, really loved her. But then I woke up. I felt betrayed by my own brain. I hate you, dreams.

Tattycakes ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:18:07 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

I have had two instances of this. One, a recurring dream from childhood where me and my brother were being chased by a monster and we reached a netted play area with two tube slides. We just looked at each other and flung ourselves down the rubes. I don't have a brother but mum said she lost a baby boy before I was born...

Secondly, I had a dream where I had two children and a newborn baby, then I woke up and went into panic mode because I didn't know where my children were, it took a good few minutes to come back to reality and it was the weirdest feeling. I hpoe I never lose my children when I do actually have some because I never want to feel that again.

MonkeyManJohannon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:18:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I remember when i was a kid i had a few dreams with this boy in it and we had crazy adventures in the dream, i remember one of them was at Disney World and we snuck around getting on all the rides without waiting in line...another was winning the toy run that Toys R Us (Lionel Play World back in the day) where you got to run around grabbing toys and filling as many carts as you possibly could...and each time i woke up, i felt miserable because the boy in the dream was like my best friend or brother or something.

The dreams started when my mom and dad divorced and we never saw my dad for years after that so I'm guessing it was probably a void in my mind trying to fill with something positive...who knows, fun times though in my dreams!

Adrn19 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:18:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've had a few situations where I've passed out and i always thought that the feeling of "being under" felt like a really long and vivid dream and the people you spoke to were actually there. recently I was asleep and dreamed that I passed out, and awoke from my black out while still in the dream. I had the same sensation and everything. Then I actually woke up

SCDeNtitY ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:19:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You can only dream faces you've already seen so they technically should exist somewhere right? Not the same personality necessarily tho

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:20:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

About 3 months ago my ex broke up with me and I keep having these wierd dreams where I and her is together doing random stuff, like killing dragons, eating food or just talking.

grizzlayleslay ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:20:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've felt this way about intense dreams for a long time.

jsbisviewtiful ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:21:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

A lot of times I will dream about people I know so I wake up realizing I just experienced something with a friend that they will never really experience.

ayfkm3 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:21:30 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well actually everyone you meet in a dream you have seen in real life... I can't remember too well but it has something to do with the brain not being able to create new people so it simply takes from memory.

seanmalone3 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:21:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Was it this guy because then you're not alone.

CORNDOGINATOR ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:22:24 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

its worse when you feel a deep connection to someone who does exist, and the connection just never occured ):

Fickelbra ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:23:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Why yes, and this is the first time I've seen someone mention this! I can remember when I was about 10 years of age, I had a dream about a girl. I could barely remember anything about her when I awoke, other than I really really liked her, and I was actually depressed about her being gone the entire day. It was so odd.

popopopopopopo9 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:23:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

All I remember from one dream is a woman, standing in a field, looking at me and smiling. I was instantly and madly and forever passionately in love with her but somehow even in the dream was absolutely crushed because I knew I would never know her. I feel echoes of that loss every waking moment of my life - a deep, profound sense of loss and grief, as if my spouse had died or simply walked out of my life one day for no reason whatsoever.

I'm much happier when I can't remember anything about any of my dreams when I wake up.

PicopicoEMD ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:24:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The fun thing about dreams, is that you can't dream about inexistent people. Every person in your dreams you have seen someday in your life... and your subconcious remembers it. So, maybe you'll meet your dream girl someday... although her personality will surely not be the same as it was in it.

JQuilty ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:24:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Ctrl+F Link's Awakening. Disappoint.

ihateshoppingsomuch ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:25:38 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

I've always disliked shopping but this teenaged dream has instilled a hatred for it that only sexual frustration could produce.

I was 14 at the time when I dreamt of her, I don't remember her name but the dream resonated with me and I still remember a couple of seconds of it plus the sequence of events. So in the dream, my mum picks me up from a music festival that's a long way out of the city requiring a drive on rural roads. On the ride back in the baking heat we see a teenage girl walking alone. Walking to anywhere on a road like that would take half a day or more so we stopped and asked if she was okay. I don't remember much of the dialogue but somehow we weren't able to get much information out of her but she accepted a ride. We couldn't get an address out of her but she agreed to come to our house to use the phone to call her parents.

I don't exactly remember why but I got the impression she was stalling and trying to spend as much time at our house as possible and I think I remember detecting that my mum harboured distrust for her. She seemed unable to get through to her parents after numerous calls but in the meantime I was getting to know her and starting to become attracted to her. I seem to recall she was blonde, very skinny and had a punky rock chick kind of thing going having just come back from a music festival.

Anyway in real life and in the dream I was a virgin and seriously horny all the time. She snuck in to my room out of the one we'd set aside for her some time during the night, in fact it was so late as to probably be past midnight and so becoming morning. We start making out and I begin to undress her and kiss her. My teenage brain had generated for me an intensely enjoyable vision. I was ectstatic, after some time of this we finally got down to business, I was about to lose my v-plates with this awesome stranger rock chick. We were now both totally naked, I was actually to the point of penetration just about to go for it whenโ€ฆ..

She pulled back, gasped suddenly. Her face became scared, what could it possibly be? I was torn between rampant desire and a genuine concern for whatever could be troubling her. She pulled the bedclothes off, closed her legs and sat up still looking very much like something had just that second shocked her. "wait a minute" she said. Incredulously, I look at her waiting for what would come next "I've got to go shopping". As what she said sunk in my emotions quickly turned to a fairly intense rage. "What the fuck? It's like 4 am why the fuck would you go shopping NOW?!?" I asked her. She began to look hurt, and got a little pouty, "don't you want me to go shopping?" she said, slightly teary. "WHAT!? NOOO!!" I said. She said "don't you ever go shopping? Don't you like it?". "Not at 4 am in the morning and especially not when I would otherwise be getting laid!" I replied. With that she got up, put on her clothes in the semi dark of the breaking dawn and then climbed out the window of my house leaving many items of clothing she'd forgotten or abandoned behind and ran off up the street. I woke up just after that. I'd never felt more ripped off in my life. Even in my DREAMS SHIT LIKE THIS HAPPENS??!!?

Fuck shopping

PicopicoEMD ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:25:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I say to you today, my friends, that in spite of the difficulties and frustrations of the moment, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream.

I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: "We hold these truths to be self-evident: that all men are created equal."

I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slaveowners will be able to sit down together at a table of brotherhood.

I have a dream that one day even the state of Mississippi, a desert state, sweltering with the heat of injustice and oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice.

I have a dream that my four children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.

I have a dream today.

Fromonger ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:25:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oddly enough, that happened this morning.

We'd known each other longer than either of us could remember. When asked how we met, we would both chuckle because that memory had been all but filed away for years now. She had gotten a doctorate in some form of medicine(I had never been able to consistently remember, so I would always tease her by constantly changing her field of study in stories) while I had pursued my music career like the child she always reminded me that I was. I ended up a bachelor, owning a music store and giving lessons, and she ended up getting married right out of college, only to be left working for a video store trying to support her four year old son when he left. Her son always liked me, and I had a pretty flexible schedule, so I helped her out by babysitting as often as I could. Most of the time I did it only so she could work overtime. Despite being older and more "successful" than her, she had this calmness you imagine coming with age. So many things had gone wrong for her, but she always seemed content. One night, her son had decided that he wanted to spend the night with a friend of his from daycare(the daycare that his mother insisted that I not pay for). This gave her the chance to work a few more hours, and gave me the chance to keep her company. The tiredness was finally catching up to her. I could see it in her eyes. They had never been bright, per se, but they had grown noteably more dull. Her glorious, thick, dark brunette hair had begun to grow fair. I couldn't remember the last time she let it down. She let it down that night. After locking the store doors, and shutting down the majority of the lights, she leaned against the counter and pulled the ponytail out with a sigh. We talked for hours. I'd known her forever, but had never felt so close, had never felt her pain. Our eyes met in the poor light. As I saw her bloodshot eyes covered by her smeared eyeliner, and her unpainted lips grow closer to me, someone rang my doorbell.

ihateshoppingsomuch ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:12:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

seriously why does it ALWAYS happen that way? It's OUR brains, it's not like you'd be incapable of imagining what would happen next, yet one always wakes up just at this crucial stage.

imabot010 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:26:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I just woke up from a dream like that, definitely sad to realize they are not real, amazing how they can be made to become that real though.

CommunistPlatypi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:26:20 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've had several dreams like this. Some of them have amazing romantic partners (generally dominant), and sometimes amazing friendships, often in high fantasty settings, where we must save the world. I hate waking from these.

drunksaver ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:26:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Every. Single. Sex. Dream. Ever.

huntersghost ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:27:06 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Clair Danes. I had a full blown notebook style romance with her in a dream. So disappointed when I woke up.

Kamikazelove ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:28:49 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This happened to me in a very vivid way when I was a small girl. I remembered every detail of this person, and the things they said to me. It was a much older man with long silvery hair, sitting on a cellar bulkhead in only a pair of tattered jeans. I was fat and unpopular as a child, and I remember his warm, loving acceptance of me (he actually said 'you are beautiful' or some dream-scrambled thing to that effect) deeply affected me. I remember feeling immeasurable loss upon waking.

Twenty or so years later, I met him. He looks a lot younger to me now, as we are both in our thirties, rather than me being 11 seeing him as he is. I made him mine, and his love is every bit as moving as it was when I first dreamed it.

It sounds unbelievable, but it's true.

Bizlemon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:29:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When I was eight years old I had a dream about someone. He was my age and I felt like I knew him. I felt love for him. Not like a crush, but profound deep caring...Anyway, I dreamed that we were running from someone/something. There was a large door closing (something like a garage door but much heavier). I slid through, but when he tried the door caught him right above his knees and amputated his legs. I watched him bleed out not being able to help. When I woke up I felt devastated. I felt like I had actually suffered the loss of this person. I remember feeling depressed for something like a month. Part of me wonders if maybe I knew him in another life....

Let me also include that I don't consider myself to be a religious person, but this experience made me wonder how it could be possible that this person wasn't real. I still remember it clear as day...like a memory.

ZombieWall ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:29:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had an incredible dream once that I had a twin sister. But I woke up only to realize that I don't have a sister and it was in fact all a dream. It felt so real that I had to call my dad and ask if I did have a sister. I still think about it all the time.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:30:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This has happened way more than I would like it to. In fact, a good majority of my dreams have been something that I regret waking up from. Not that my life is bad, but I would prefer to live in a crazy dream world than this world right now.

being_ironic ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:30:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have and while I have seen them again, I only see her at a distance and I can never reach her now. My subconscious is mean to me. Does this mean I lack confidence? Like when you can't fap to super models but you can fap to the fat chick you work with?

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:30:45 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

My mom and I were in line paying for the groceries then she fucking left. I was so pissed. Then I woke up and decided not to talk to her for the day.

Octus ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:30:49 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Write their story. You have just been given a muse.

vednar ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:31:25 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, I had such a vivid dream once, and not that kind, where I met a girl and we had an adventure together and at the end of the said adventure I thought, wow, I guess this means we'll be friends forever, as soon as I said that I work up and that immense feeling of fellowship was shattered instantly. It wouldn't be until years later when I met my wife that that feeling returned.

boogerscotch ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:32:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

if you are a subscriber to Jungian theory, then everyone you meet in your dreams is an element of one of your own personality archetypes. so basically you are connecting to yourself

unyin ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:32:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yep, this has happened to me a couple of times. Feels bad man.

goosesavior ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:33:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This night I have a lovely dream, I was at my high school and I was talking with two friends, one of them was a friend that the last time I saw him was like 6 six years ago, but I could see him perfectly, the other friend was a girl of my class, I saw her everyday, but never talk to her, she's lovely and we were talking and laughin' everthing looks smooth and warm, and I made a joke about her and she smiled at me and kiss me in the neck I COULD FEEL PERFECTLY HER LIPS, warm, and I just woke up, was like somebody fucking destroy that perfect world, that perfect feeling made sad my entire day. Everytime I saw her now, I feel kinda sad.

Envia ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:33:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once dreamed of this little baby girl (3 or 4 years old), clearly she was my daughter. And I don't remember how the rest of the dream went but when I woke up I felt deeply deeply sad and missed her.

droneprime ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:33:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream last night where I was in Vegas and I was trying to meet up with the group that I usually go with for the entirety of the dream. Instead, I met a Korean girl in a backless, black ball gown and black high heels with a gold necklace. Most beautiful woman I have ever seen. She was playing slots while I was stealing drinks. I also had face tattoos and one on my hand, at an angle in gothic letters that said "REJUVENATION". I talked to her and she seemed taken with me in the fact that I was clearly some sort of psychopath with face and off-center tattoos. We walked around, I stole two drinks and gave one to her. We exited the casino, and I hailed a cab by walking in front of it. I got in, but she didn't. I jumped out of the window of the cab and bloodied myself. I went back to the room and observed the fountain from a balcony outside the room. She was standing there, waiting for someone. Me perhaps. A more normal person perhaps. I went back in to the room and sat in a chair and did some sort of futuristic drug out of an apparatus I cannot describe. I stared at the strip. Then I woke up.
I miss her.

notonanyFBIwatchlist ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:34:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That person in YOU.

Peturd ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:34:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had this dream where I was with this girl, we went places, did things together and had fun. One thing that sticks out in my mind is we went to an abandoned newspaper printing press or something and there was this big thing of ink. We put string inside tiny little bottles and put them in the ink thing. Then one day, she gets a job somewhere far away. I'm standing with her at the train station and the train pulls into the station. Then me and her embrace in a passionate kiss, and then she gets onto the train. I become sad, and started to visit the places we had gone before. I visited the printing place and I reached down into the ink thing and the string was still there. I grew old, and I'm in a wheel chair. As I reflect on life, I realize that life was actually pretty good. And then I wake up and feel sad for the rest of the day.

werd_119 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:35:14 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

To the blind girl working in the candy/chocolate store, I will always love you. Fuck you dreams.

Dracovitch ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:35:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream once that i had a little sister who was really into music and singing. When I woke up I felt almost lonely without her. Now she ends up making it into most of my stories.

VTer ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:35:53 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No

zillah1985 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:36:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Only until I roll over and see what I settled for.

ph1dra ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:36:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

one time i had a dream that i fell in love with starfire from teen titans and we fought off a school bus full of zombie children. i remember waking up, and still half asleep, crying because i missed my lover alien woman.

femanonette ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:36:36 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Allllllllllllllllllll the time. They also frequently make reappearances.

chillaxinJ ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:36:53 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I usually kill people in my dreams.

yeahgurl ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:37:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

i always have dreams about people i know but am not that close with, and i'll have a really deep connection with them. then i wake up and am like shit... i hate them.

squidditch ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:37:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Sort of, but nearly all my dreams consist of fictional characters from my favourite tv shows / books / etc. Like, if I watch Doctor Who right before I go to bed, it makes for some pretty awesome adventures.

iAMtheBelvedere ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:37:30 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

I submitted something similar to /r/askreddit yesterday mainly because of this this, it was a reoccurring dream I always have.

I am walking down this winding street that looks like it should be in a Dr. Seuss book. All the houses look like little duplex's. All of a sudden I come upon my childhood house. I walk inside straight into the kitchen. In the kitchen there's stacks of dishes coming out of the sink. In front of the sink there a huge cardboard box. I walk up to the box but in the dream i can never touch it or move it, but there's a womman inside the box who I sit and have conversations with the whole dream. For some reason it's the most peaceful dream.

I always wake up about to go ape shit crazy cause i can never figure out who the woman in the box is!! Damnit Reddit, who is she!!!???

tl;dr: I'm obsessed with a woman in a cardboard box...

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:37:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

well the good news is you can only see faces you have seen before so she/ he does exist

thedude8591 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:38:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Isn't this kind of a repost? I swear I saw a post asking the same question the other day but it was differently worded.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:38:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

If this happens to you a lot it can be a sign of an attachment disorder just so you know.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attachment_disorder

Often it's making deep profound attachments too quickly.

snowdevil ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:38:28 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I can only hope that when I die I can spend 15 minutes of lingering brain activity with my friends.

Choochoocazoo ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:38:30 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I met a beautiful lycanthrope, and loved her. Woke up. It sucked so much.

TheSecretMe ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:38:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once had this incredibly mundane and boring dream where nothing was out of the ordinary. Except for the fact that I was decades into a perfectly normal relationship with a person. She wasn't even the subject of the dream, just part of my dream identity so to speak.

The really odd part was that I woke up without having realized it was a dream. I was utterly surprised to find out she wasn't next to me in bed and then actually felt horrified and choked up when I realized she was a dream character and I didn't actually have that life.

I felt such a deep, profound sense of loss as I lay in bed and slowly figured that out. Dreams are just dreams but even years later I'm amazed at how odd the realization felt after waking.

TomKWS ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:38:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

For many years I was unhappily married. Through most of this time, I would have a very powerful and recurring dream. In it, I would blissfully be spending time with a young woman I had never met before. I could always see her face clearly and would recognize her from dream to dream, night after night. And each time that I would wake, an overwhelming feeling of sadness would envelop me as I realized that it was all just a dream and, no matter how real this woman seemed to me when I slept, I would never know that love in my waking hours.

Three years later found me single, living alone and going on a blind date to meet a young woman that I was emailing online. As soon as I walked in to the restaurant, I right away recognized her face from my dream. The date was easy for both of us, and it was as if we'd known each other for a long time. I even recognized the way her skin smelled. I fell in love instantly, again. This was almost a year ago, we're now living together and planning on getting married. Neither one of us has ever been happier.

True story.

dusmeyedin ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:39:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have had this happen. One time she was a Japanese woman who actually told me "the dream is ending but I want to see you again; look for me in the real world" and she gave me her name.

I thought that was pretty noteworthy.

Unsurprisingly I have not met her in real life, but then again I haven't really been looking.

WretchedExcess ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:39:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, not lately, but often enough that my dream life and those I meet there I have more in common with and more connection / understanding / chemistry than all of my meatspace cohorts.

I suspect this thread will prove quite interesting for me.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:39:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Vague feelings of guilt crop up now and again when I wake up from time to time, but I never remember any of the particulars of th e dream in question. The most I can remember is being on a huge chessboard like thing and feeling like absolute shit.

marcusesses ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:40:03 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Sometimes someone I know in real life will appear in my dreams, and I'll start to feel a deep personal connection to that person in reality, even if I've only met that person once or twice.

In fact, if I'm dating someone, and I make a connection with their dream-version, then I start to feel a lot closer to them in real life.

Kinyin ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:40:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's hard to recall, as it has been so long, but I used to have this dream once ever year and each time it would be as if no time had passed between them and I remembered everything with such clarity. There was this girl, who by point in time I can't even remember, that I found myself constantly in contact with and falling in love with and would feel such sadness every time I woke, knowing I wouldn't see her for another year. Then the dreams just stopped.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:40:46 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Noooooopppeee.. just Chuck Testa!

emohipster ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:42:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yep. When I was single I had a great dream about some nonexistent girl and we were madly in love and did awesome things together and she was beautiful. Then I woke up and I couldn't even remember her face. I was sad for a week.

Porkfish ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:42:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes.

searingsky ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:43:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

As an avid lucid dreamer, I fell in love with one of my dream characters. Which sucks.

mages011 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:45:14 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Had very lucid intricate dream, in this dream I fell for this girl. I remember seeing these two words and figured they may have had meaning. After waking up I felt sad and tried vey hard to remember the words I jumped onto the computer and googled them, nothin popped up.

GeniusAtWork ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:45:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Kinda, I've had this a few months ago, about a girl I really liked back in highschool. I felt so connected to her and couldn't believe it when I woke up and she wasn't laying next to me. It literally took me 10 minutes to realise it was a dream and I would never speak to her again. We would never be so close again. I would never feel the love of a woman again. fml

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:46:28 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a very deep personal dream about someone I knew and loved in the waking world, and woke up feeling so loved... then as the dream faded and reality sunk in I realized he never would love me.

I avoided him for a week after that dream. Kinda glad he moved.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:47:36 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Sir,you just made me fucking cry right in the middle of School (Online School). Yes,I have.It was the best fucking series of dreams I have ever had. Unlike most of the commenters, I had a friend. I dreamed her about 10 or 20 dreams when I was 10.Haven't seen her since.I tried and I tried to redream it,but I was never successful.I miss her...

thebeardsman ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:47:46 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream where my evil twin with red hair was holding up a airport but he told him he had to shoot me for this evil to be over, i would miss him and he was the only bro i felt so close to. He shot me to save the airport that didn't understand and when he shot me he got gunned down and he knew it because that was the plan all along.

ubernood ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:49:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

One time I dreamed that I was holding a nameless man in my arms as he was dying. I kept telling him that he would be okay, and that it was all right to let go. When I woke up, I felt so sad that this man had died, but at the same time I was happy that I could be there for my dying dream man, and that he wasn't alone

DasMunch ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:51:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Recently met the girl of my dreams. Literally, in my dreams. Her name was Matilda. We had been something before, but then we were separated for a long time. In my dream she was coming back to town and we were finally meeting again. She was everything I ever loved. All my friends were there, and everyone was happy for us. Then I woke up. She was gone. I still remember her like it was yesterday.

FCBarca1984 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:51:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I can relate. I've had a dream about a few females that I was in love with. Feeling is weird b/c when I wake up I still have strong emotions for them although I'm positive I've never met them in my life.

cobolNoFun ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:52:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

wait, i thought it was impossible to dream about people you have never seen before. I am going to have to find that article now... work day ruined.

strategic_form ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:52:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When I was a teenager, I dreamed often that I was trapped in a sort of stasis. There I was in a small, cold, dark life pod, floating through vast reaches of nothingness. My stasis pod was malfunctioning such that I could sense the passage of time. Millennia passed not in the blink of an eye, but with each agonizing moment I lay immobile, feeling nothing but the most intense sadness I've ever known. Then, impossibly, I saw a light in what would be the direction of the life pod's hatch. From that hatch emerged the most beautiful woman I had ever seen, and will ever see, her weightless hair flowing about her naked body. Again impossibly, she reached out to me and took my face, and kissed me on the cheek. Then she left. Soon she returned, her presence making the passage of senseless years sensual. I remember this dream so vividly, and think about it almost every day, especially the darkest ones. I've been searching for this woman all my life. Sometimes, when I am sad and my wife takes my face in her hands and kisses me, I catch a glimpse of her, because she is, of course, "only" an idea of a woman.

Zakonichiban ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:53:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I remember having a dream when I was still married about suddenly dying. I became a ghost of some sort and was able to watch the life of my wife. She was stricken with grief and sorrow and there was nothing I could do. But, my best friend was there for her and eventually filled the gap that I had caused. I watched them get married and finally felt a sense of relief wash over me.

Then suddenly, it was morning. I feel so warm and calm, and looked to the sunrise. It got brighter and brighter, but I didn't have to look away. I started to walk towards it....and then I woke up...ಠ_ಠ

Ananasboat ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:53:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This isn't going to get read, but I'm putting it down because yeah, this happened, and every time I think about it, I still get the same feelings.

I had this dream when I was really little. I can't remember much about it now, except that I was with the most amazing girl, and we had so much fun playing together. It was totally normal, and at the same time completely alien. For example, we were sledding in the spring, and the hill we were going down was only half covered in snow. This made it very easy to see that bunnies were growing out of the ground.

Bunnies were growing like fiddle heads, and you could see bunny legs and arms sticking out of the ground. I didn't find it creepy. It was the most beautiful thing I'd ever seen, in fact. Then, when my day was over with this girl (I'm sorry I can't remember more of what happened), we part ways and I go home.

Once I get in my room, I notice a strange box. I press this red button, and a hologram of this girl pops up. She tells me that she's not from my planet, and that she can't come back again. She wanted me to know that she had the most wonderful day, and that she'll consider me her friend for ever. I started crying in my dream, then when I woke up, I realized that I was actually crying.

I was inconsolable for days, and I tried to describe that empty feeling that I had to a couple of people, but they didn't understand. It's hollow, and static-y feeling. I still can't describe it. I still feel it though, when I think about that dream, though.

ChronoX5 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:53:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

All the boys and girls you've met in your dreams are a part of your own conscience. You've fallen in love with yourself.

DatAssociate ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:54:39 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

my girlfriend.

Tigerstrike ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:55:36 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream less than a month ago about this amazing gorgeous girl and we fell in love. Something about the dream and the feelings in it made me want to go back so badly and pretty much live there. I still want to go back...

burnetto ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:56:20 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream once about a woman in a red dress. It's hard to describe.

She was beautiful, blonde, the perfect woman. I was some sort of sailor I think, and she was a whore. Well kind of... She was a woman who I visited and she stayed in a building with other women, but they didn't have sex with people. It was odd. Once a year I got to see her when I visited where she stayed. The other sailors never seemed to have any connection with any of the women, but I always chose her.

I took her away from where she lived and we fell in love. She was too perfect, something a human in waking life cannot attain. I would have been happy to spend my life with her, every waking second with her.

And then I woke up and she was gone. I still think about her sometimes.

DaBluePanda ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:57:18 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

There's this one girl that's in all the dreams I actually remember.... (yes the girl OF my dreams) and in the dreams we match-up almost perfectly (nothing is perfect) and whenever I wake up I feel her slipping away, and each time it happens I fear that she will never exist that she is just a part of my imagination.

redditor-for-2-hours ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:57:34 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream a couple years ago in which I had a pet penguin, who was also my best friend. His name was Tuxon, and he could surf. I miss that little guy :(
I've also had a dream in which I fell in love with somebody who never actually existed back when I was about 10. In the dream we went through the sequence of meeting, getting to know each other, then falling in love over a time period, then this non-existent person was killed in front of my eyes and I woke up feeling as if I had actually lost the love of my life.

InfinityEffect ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:57:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once had a dream that I believe was about a zombie apocalypse. I had spent the entirety of the dream teamed up with a blonde-haired girl about my own age and we ran through the countryside trying to find a safe place from the zombie onslaught.

There was this unspoken vibe throughout the dream,which seemed like an eternity (inception time), that I was in love with her and she with me - however, we never kissed or displayed the emotion etc. It was so strange to feel such a real, deep and powerful emotion in a dream even while knowing I was dreaming.

I remember we were rafting down a river about to reach what I assume was some safe zone as zombies were falling into the water around us. As we were about to cross the border into the safe zone I remember her leaning over to me, kissing me on the cheek, and softly whispering into my ear "we finally made it".

At that point something happened and I was flung from the raft into the water and I watched as the raft moved across the border with her screaming something at me I couldn't understand. Then my head went underwater and I woke up, in tears.

yakri ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:58:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, and I'd forgotten it until now.

Fuck.

RowdyRoddyPiper ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:58:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The Inner Light, man. Someday I'll find a real-life artifact of one of those long, drawn-out dreams where you live an entire life in the span of a night

Aevynne ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:59:51 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This isn't romance related at all, but I had a dream that I had a baby girl a few years ago. It was only me and her and I have never felt that kind of love for anyone that I had for her. I was really sad when I woke up and realized it was all a dream. My husband and I aren't into having kids right now, so I'll have to wait a few more years to meet her again.

Banyo ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 17:59:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When I was 16 or so, I had a dream that I was leaving the grocery store and suddenly was face to face with my recently deceased girlfriend (who didn't exist). She was a ghost and could only stay for a minute. I grabbed hold of her and hugged her tight because I didn't want her to leave. Then she just faded. I was crying so hard that I woke myself up. It's always stuck with me how powerful those feeling were when just 2 minutes before, she wasn't real.

seacreeks ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:00:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Who's to say they don't exist?

PikaBlue ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:01:39 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Don't worry. Humans are amazingly uncreative creatures. We don't create people, we just remember the random faces from our lives. They are out there now, living a dream you never dreamt.

rastapasta808 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:04:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This actually just happened to me last night and its all i can think about... Im tripping out

sweetgreggo ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:04:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When I was 8ish I drempt I owned a Holstein calf named "Julie". It affected me so much a few months later I drempt of her again. I still feel a little sad whenever I remember her (which up until today had been at least 20 years.)

Thanks for reminding me of my special friend, OP.

godlessgamergirl ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:04:45 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Peter Venkman from the cartoon "The Real Ghostbusters". The version voiced by Lorenzo Music, not Dave Coulier. This distinction is important for some odd reason.

missfarthing ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:05:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once had a dream that I saw a little girl about 4 or 5 years old green eyes, thick blonde wavy hair. I just knew she was my daughter. She was wearing this yellow,purple and white gingham dress. I had this strange sense of missing her that was so strong when I first had the dream that I cried when I woke up. I still miss her when I think about her almost 2 years later. The image of her is burned into my mind like screen burn.

gorbal ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:06:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I woke up one day to the sound of my sister crying. Her room was right across from mine, between the hall closet and the attic. I go out to the hallway, but see no door between the hall closet and the attic. Then it hits me that I don't have a sister.

me_me_me_me_me_ ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:06:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

She exists - I just never got to meet her (only saw her photo on the internet).

Kr0x ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:07:00 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Lucky for you, we can only dream with people that we've seen on reality, so that awesome person you met is somewhere, it exists.

brilliantNumberOne ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:07:33 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I posted a missed connection on Craigslist to someone I met in a dream once.

Never got a reply.

MrArtless ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:07:41 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Unfortunately I can't remember a single dream I've ever had except that they're always terrifying. I think I might have problems.

b0utch ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:07:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, that happen a few time... that I can remember... but are dream just dream?

Knotty_G ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:07:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

i've always heard that your mind can't make up new faces. So if thats true, i have no sources, then you've at least seen every person you see in your dreams, even if you don't remember them consciously.

Boyinboots ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:08:06 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

i had a very very sweet dream once of me having a gay relationship with a friend i havent met since primary school. We're 30 now. I dont know why he popped up in my brain for no reason. So i went on facebook to look him up but unfortunately he's straight. MY HOPES AND DREAMS crumbled.

Cid420 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:08:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes. A while back I had a dream about adopting a 6 year old autistic girl. Now, I'm sort of the forever alone-ish kind of person so I don't see myself having a wife/child anytime soon, or adopting as a single father so that made this dream special. It was an interesting experience caring and nurturing for this small child and trying to form a connection. I grew quite fond of her since up to that point I never could have imagined feeling anything like this.

Plothunter ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:08:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When you talk to someone in your dreams who are you really talking to?

thehotdogman ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:08:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That. And having a dream with someone you used to have a deep personal connection with, only to wake up and realize they're gone from your life forever.

woomobile ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:09:03 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I fell in love with a girl in one of my dreams once.

Then I woke up, cold and alone.

cheesechimp ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:09:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When I was still in the throws of puberty, I had a dream that involved a "snake girl" having sex with me. It was a little unclear to me what exactly a "snake girl" was, but I did know that "when a snake girl chooses a mate, he is her mate for life." In the dream, I fell in love with the girl, but she left to go on a long journey. She reassured me before I awoke that she would come back, because she had chosen me as her mate for life. When I woke up, I had this weird feeling that it was some sort of sign, and that some day in real life she would show up and I'd know it was my soulmate because she'd have some sort of connection to snakes like a snake tattoo or something. Kind of dumb when I look back on it...but who knows? Maybe some day my immature dream-based superstition will come true.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:09:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No, but this (and many other dream threads) make me terribly envious! It makes me wonder if I can do something differently to increase the chances of having a cooler dream-state. Can I P90X my neverland?

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:09:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Had a dream I had a girlfriend, woke up still liking that person. She was real, so this is a bit different, but still. She didn't feel the same. TDIL: Dreams =/= reality.

BeardedLion ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:10:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Happened to me just last night & I'm feeling pretty pathetic right now :/

Knewdull ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:10:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream one time where I was hiding in a room with only one entrance/exit and someone I deeply cared for was trying break in and kill me. In my dream I cared for this person so much that I didn't want to fight them or struggle with them, I only pleaded that I didn't care what happened and that I would always love them. The unnamed person broke in and asked head or chest. I responded with heart and the next thing I know there is a loud crack and I have a fist sized hole in my chest. I promptly wake up and am not scared but rather sad.

That day I find out that my girlfriend of 2 years had been sleeping with one of my best friends. But it wasn't me that was doing the begging, it was her and just like in the dream I didn't hesitate a moment to pull the proverbial trigger on our relationship.

Rlysrh ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:11:16 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once dreamed that I met Ryan Gosling because he bumped into me as we were going down a water slide. We became really good friends and I thought he really liked me but then I introduced him to my best friend and he liked her more and just hung out with her and ignored me. :( She even gets all the guys in my dreams. Anyway I woke up and was disappointed that he liked her more, disappointed that I'd never actually even met him, and even more sad because we'd really hit it off to start with.

irrationalNumber ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:11:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

How about feeling a deep connection to someone you DO know and then waking and realizing it was a dream and then wondering if what you felt could ever really happen.

Stramonium ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:14:20 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I used to have recurring dreams of this giant field surrounded by trees, full of wild flowers and tall grass. I would start out at one end of the field at the tree line, wearing a white sun dress and a sun hat with a white ribbon on it and I would run; laughing and leading this boy by the hand as we crossed. Every time I turned around to look at his face, it would be obscured by the bright sun. As we made it to the other side, I would wake up. But we were so happy together just enjoying the run in the summer heat. This happened for years and years and I've told a lot of my friends about it, and we all tried to figure out who the boy could be. One night in particular I was staying at a friend's house and I had the dream. We laughed and held hands and ran across the field as usual, but something was different. We got to the middle and he let go of my hand. He let go and the sun disappeared and everything turned grey. His face was a fucking black formless hole and he screamed this silent scream really close to my face. I lost all ability to move on my own, my knees buckled and I fell into the grey grass. He floated up a little bit, turned into dust and everything went back to normal; the sun was shining, the grass was green and the wind was blowing. But I was alone. I never had the dream ever again.

The mind is a fucked up thing.

gerrylazlo ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:16:25 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, all the time, and it's a double whammy because the great memories you have with that person are all complete bullshit, and you'll never see them again. Something similar is seeing or doing something in a dream and remembering that you had encountered it years before and have an entire history with them/it. Then you wake up and realize even the memories from the past were bullshit. Basically, when you're brain lies to you, there ain't a fucking thing you can do about it.

RadioHitandRun ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:17:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

A few times. Usually its a sexual thing..but every once in a while, I get a gor girl that feels like true love.

Lindalmie ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:17:25 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

While my best friend (who I've been in love w/since high school, but he's gay) was in Japan, I had a dream I went to Japan. Strangely, no one that looked like him or that I associated with him appeared in the dream. I was at a tourist site and there were loads of people walking around on this cliff. It was really pretty, and looked a lot like the cliffs I'd been to in Ireland, except the rock was a different color and all the vegetation was different. I was standing at the edge of the cliff, looking out at the view and feeling a bit sad and lonely, sortof lost when someone said something that was like the key to everything and made me feel like everything was ok. of course, when I woke up I didn't remember what he'd said. I had just met the person, who was an Asian man around my own age, but I felt instantly comfortable, as if I'd always known him. We embraced for a long time, then proceeded to explore the cliffs together. An old woman approached me and it was his grandmother and she told me that her grandson was my true love and that now everything would be perfect and I would always be happy.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:18:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No.

neinsense ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:19:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

WAIT...but i read somewhere that everyone that you meet in a dream you've met sometime before in your actual past. Hence, the person you were picturing was real -as in a real facial presence - but was probably taken out of context of who that actual person was.

aleisha3 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:20:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

My fiance had a dream like that, and he swears I am the one from his dream, he had the dream before we even met.

maximusjesse ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:20:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once had a dream that I asked Emma Watson's advice on how to hook up with Hermione Granger. I was completely oblivious to her coming on to me until I woke up. I never woke up more depressed...

kurtgustavwilckens ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:22:09 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes. I constantly fall for chicks in my dreams and have my heart broken for hours after waking up.

inb4 forever alone.

chibixleon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:22:26 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

For some reason, this thread is scaring the crap out of me...

Arrant_Theif ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:22:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

happened last night actually, and it has happened a few other times

nadej22 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:23:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream the other night that I was having a passionate love affair with Tyrion from Game of Thrones. We were being kept apart by his father and then, just as we were reunited, I woke up...so sad. I thought about him for days.

Whoupvotedthis ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:24:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I read somewhere that you can't actually "make up people" in your dreams. So really, the person you were dreaming of, you've actually seen in real life...even if it was for just 1 second passing by. I'll try to find that info somewhere to verify...

mongoOnlyPawn ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:25:07 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've done this. Only I dream about myself.

Maybe I'm still dreaming....

cooter410 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:25:46 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I think i read somewhere that in your dreams everyone that you see you have seen in real life at some point whether you remember them or not.

johnny861 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:25:52 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's like an episode of Star Trek, when the holograms become self aware.

IdBetterNotAsk ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:26:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

this actually happened to me like 2 nights ago. dreamt about a girl who doesn't exist. she had a perfect smile. I'm with my significant other for more than 2 years now. I couldn't ever tell her.

liberty_me ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:26:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

... she does exist.

  • Directed by M. Night Shyamalan
Draegur ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:28:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

... The fact that I don't even remember her name makes it feel even worse.

mankvill ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:28:43 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Lilly Satou ;_; come back to me mai waifu

Julian1986 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:29:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It has been hypothesised that every face you see in a dream is not created by imagination but is someone you have seen before.

troyanonymous1 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:29:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Golly, I don't think so.

wtfpwndd ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:29:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This happened to me last night. I hate that shit.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:30:26 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

ITT: Socially inept people celebrate their imaginary friends due to their inability to make real ones.

Spiderdan ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:30:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes I definitely had this. Except for me I would get a toy from the toy store in the dream, bond with it cherish it, and fall asleep holding it. Then I would wake up expecting it in my hands only to realize it's gone forever.

Azrail55555 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:30:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I read somewhere that the people in your dreams are people you've met at some point in real life.

Mole90 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:31:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

All my dreams have people I know in them. Always have. I had a dream the other night about a girl I knew in 5th grade. First time I have thought about her since then. I'm 43 now. I have had dreams of girls I know, and have woken up more "infatuated" with them and see them in a different light. It's crazy how real dreams can be sometimes.

I once had a dream when I was 17 that the world had ended and all the angels came down and were judging people. I was so freaked out that I threw out all my playboys that same day when I woke up. I was so pissed with myself 3 days later.

I have woken up in my home, and completely have no idea where I am. It takes me 2 minutes to realize I'm in my own bed.

My most common dream is one where I can fly. But I have to flap my wings like a bird with my hands in my armpits. I have to flap really hard to take off, but once I'm in the air, I can glide around. Weird, but I have this dream at least once a month.

360walkaway ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:31:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You had a dream with a half-naked Indian too? Whoaaaa...

meeanne ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:32:07 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Mine was actually with someone in my class but whom I had never talked to, not even after my dream in which I was very comfortable with them. It felt kinda weird to feel like I had this whole experience with that person, but not in real life.

sup_bros ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:33:30 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Holy crap, this just happened to me. Was in love with this girl in my dreams, woke up, and I realize that I made her up in my dream. Damn.

davideo71 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:34:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

All I remember from this dream is kissing this brunette under some table where we both ended up. The kiss felt so familiar and telling that I knew we were just right for each other. When I woke I knew that will recognize this girl when I meet/kiss her. This dream cut my anxiety about finding a relationship in half. Even if now, a few years later, I still haven't found her.

Zabazu ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:34:09 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have wandered whole lives in my dreams, only to be forgotten in the blink of an eye.

I did have a particularly vivid dream about a maze of rusty pipes with steam billowing every-which-way, and a loud, billowing synthesised voice declaring a nuke would be launched unless I managed to find it and push a button to end it. Ive had these dreams several times In my 19 years, starting at 5. I always had a girl yelling to me when I got stuck as to which way I should go. Even when she was wrong, she still gave me a sense of sanity in the dreams, as though I wasnt the only one going through this nightmare. For a five year old having this dream, I'd say she was the only thing that kept it from being something I would wake up and scream to.

TLDR; Yes.

FireFoxMcCloud ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:34:41 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I tried to remember the names to look them up on social networks. Could never rememeber the names.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:34:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, it happens quite often. Recently i met a girl in a dream and i carried over the feeling of where i was supposed to go. I vividly remember 3 trees on a hill above her home. almost everything else about the dream is gone but i still feel a connection, and a sense of importance about this dream.

twdevil ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:35:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once had a dream were I had a sister, we were always together and were running around this place, very reminiscent of Jak and Daxter The Precursor legacy's village, the one where samos lives. So we're running around killing these creatures with these weird powers we had, then we reach this temple and the bad guy shows up, then I wake up. Felt terrible because we felt really close. Luckily I had the rest of the dream a few days later. And every now and then I still have the continuation of the dream, then I can be with my dream sister.

Uberrees ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:35:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When I was young, I had a dream that I found an injured dachsund. I brought him home, and I asked my mother if I could keep him, at least until he got better. my mother said we already had a dog and we had to send him away. I woke up crying because I knew the wounded dog would die without our help.

-Paste22 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:36:31 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's interesting to see some of these stories considering that you don't dream up new faces. You dream faces you've seen in your lifetime at some time or another. Whether you saw them for a split second or they are a remembered face.

mehbahgrr ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:38:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

how do you know this?

-Paste22 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:11:38 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Psychology, my friend.

Higgs_Particle ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:36:38 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

As a child I had a reoccurring dream about sitting with my arm around a girl behind a waterfall watching a sunset. The attached emotions were totally overpowering. I imagine it was my brain prepping me for an adult emotional life. Strange to be so connected to a personal fiction, and so many of us have the same kind of experience.

phpworm ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:36:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Not exactly.. I had one of those dreams where I was aware that I was dreaming, being careful not to look at certain things that I knew would wake me up (reflections of light mostly), and trying to find ways to go deeper.

Anyway I saw this girl and started talking to her, tried to explain that we were dreaming, asking if she was a real person sleeping somewhere else in the world but she just looked at me like I was crazy and didn't really say much. Woke up shortly after. Always wondered if I somehow got through to her at the last second and she remembers too...

tjsfive ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:37:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

His name was Will. He was my anchor during a tumultuous time in my life. The most vivid part I remember was leaning on him a LOT. I only had the one dream about him, but for months, I longed for him.

WordsThatMakeSense ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:39:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream a couple of years ago. I wrote it down but I can't find it now. A lot of it is hazy from the passage of time but I remember the ending. I was walking down a paved path through a lush green nature scene. I was with a young woman (I was in my mid-20's at the time) and things just felt right. There was a comfort and a security to the situation that left me very calm. We had stopped strolling and she looked at me right in the eyes and said mid-conversation, "You have to go now." I responded with "But I don't want to go. I like it here. I want to stay here with you." She smiled at me and I felt at peace. She then stated calmly "You can't stay here. It's time for you to go." That's when I woke up. Haven't seen her since.

The mind is a funny thing.

ScatteredMuse ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:40:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Once, with a guy I didn't recognize. I've heard that thing about the brain pulling faces from people I've seen before for dreams, so I must have seen someone like him at some point. But either way, I'd never felt more content or in love as I did with him. And then he got shot and before the pain of losing him could hit me, I woke up.

asad16 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:40:09 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You know that dream when you're in bed and they fly in through the window?

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:40:38 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once had a dream where I was very involved with Inuyasha. I woke up and was heartbroken immediately. I keep trying to have that dream again. :(

jezzey ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:41:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

"deep personal connection"..."met"...tmi

Planet-man ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:42:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

They did not "never exist", they simply exist in a different sense than you or I. The way they acted, the things they said, it exists in your mind. You couldn't predict or control them in your dream so it's like they exist autonomously of your Self. They live in you.

deesenutzFTW ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:43:30 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I know a guy that has a repetitive dream that he has a daughter, but in real life he only has sons. He has all the memories of her in these dreams just like he raised her and she dies. So he wakes up in the morning feeling very depressed because his daughter dies and then realizes she isnt real.

raziphel ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:44:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Sort of. It was a Big Mac.

I dreamed there was a perfect, delicious (floating) Big Mac waiting for me at the foot of my bed, so I sat up, took a hold of it, and chomped down... I'll tell you what- slamming your teeth together on an invisible sandwich is no way to wake up.

KitchitiKipi ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:44:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

sometimes i have dreams that i have a baby, occasionally i watch them grow up in superspeed in the dream...whenever i wake up i want to cry

Toastyparty ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:46:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

About 8 months ago I had a dream I met a gal. We hit it off from the start. This is, to me, very weird because I have NEVER had a dream of the sorts. I've never imagined full personalities in a dream, but to continue the story. We hit it off from the start.

I was on vacation and there was a giant Pokemon Center store in the middle of 'where-ever-I-was." (weird, I haven't played a pokemon game in YEARS). So I met her while I was almost at the front door. It was like magic. We hit it off instantly. The rest is a bit hazy, but I remember in the end I was so fucking in love. She was beautiful, but not in the slutty model sort of way. It was if it was the perfect amount of cute+sexy to be attracted and yet feel comfortable and not-intimidated, ever! I asked her to marry me, and just as we were about to have some nice kinky sex (I have sex regularly, so it wasn't like a "forever alone" kind of dream) I woke up. Someone walked into my room and started making noise. I started crying for no reason I could easily explain. For at least 5 minutes (while I was still semi alseep) I was destroyed - just the fact that she wasn't real...... It felt just like getting dumped. I fell in love with the perfect woman, in a dream, and lost her. To this day, I remember and cherish every bit of dream I can. If you think this is stupid, then fuck you. I have had plenty of GF's and go out and get some often. And yet.......

ifmanisfivemanisfive ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:46:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

absolutely. and very creepy.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:47:03 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had dream I had sex with Salma Hayek once. She revealed to me she was really a man and had a penis. I of course did the right thing and had sex with her anyways.

jormugandr ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:47:39 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream where I was pregnant and going into labor. (I'm a man and was a man in the dream as well.) My wife was there comforting me as they rushed me into the hospital room and all I could think of was how happy I was to be having her baby. I was thinking about how the rest of our lives would be so great together with our child and each other.

Then I woke up alone.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:48:28 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

LOL WTFFFFFF, i just had a dream like that today.... very weird

baracudaboy ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:49:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've met a few amazingly handsome boyfriends in dreams, they never call me back in the morning though.

xwexcollidex ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:50:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I keep dreaming of the same person. I don't talk to them often at all irl. They are getting married soon but I keep having dreams about the wedding not happening and us being great friends and flirting. I wake up feeling sort of sad it wasn't real. I'm starting to think it is a bad sign.

transdermalcelebrity ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:50:53 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That person... is you. That's why you connect. Mull that over.

Skrambles ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:50:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

A dream I had over the summer felt incredibly significant due to the character I met. It was a lucid dream and I had learned to fuck with physics a bit by jumping as hard as I could and remaining suspended in the air for long periods of time. No one in this world(the neighborhood I grew up in) would listen to me that we were all completely free to do as we please, not even when I showed them my ability to fly/levitate. They just walked around yelling and bumping into each other like a school of fish.

Finally an old man wearing a cardigan had been staring at me intently and started to believe. He could fly a bit, but he was most interested in the idea that such a freedom exists. He spoke few words, but it was clear we had a connection. Then, as if we had both fulfilled our duties to enlighten fellow man, we turned away and left to explore the world.

For the remainder of the dream I did stupid shit like have sex and get drunk and high, but I was with friends so it seemed like time well spent enough.

At the very tail end, I stopped into this communal kitchen of sorts to fix myself an endless bowl of infinitely delicious cereal, because I could. The old man was there eating some infinitely delicious pancakes or something, and we both shot a smile and pointed at each other.

I woke up feeling closer with the human race.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:51:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes. I was a teenager, maybe 14. I met this boy in an attic. It was very Merry Poppins, the setting... particularly the scene where the chimney sweepers are dancing on the roofs. We just chilled and talked then sat on a roof for a while. It was one of those dreams that I thought was real, but had a tiny bit of doubt that it was. I actually still think about him even though he's not real and I'm really happy in my marriage, AND double the age I was when I had the dream. Strange to know he doesn't exist!! There's been one or two more, but his was by far the most deep connection I've ever felt.

Kain222 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:51:53 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Kind of. I had this dream about this girl I like, but never really bonded with, who I've always thought was stunningly beautiful but far out of my league - someone who was far, far too amazing to ever be my type. (Can't explain why I'd never want a relationship with her, probably because I'd feel too intimidated or amazed.) Anyway, I dreamt that I woke up next to her, with the sunlight filtering lazily through the curtains and her smiling at me. We began to talk about the things we were going to do later on: Nothing cutesy, just normal stuff. Go to the beach, post some letters, where we were going to have some lunch. I was lying in bed whilst she was getting dressed.

Almost as soon as I sat up and my feet touched the bedroom floor (In my dream) I woke up, devastated that it wasn't real. Not because I wasn't with her, but because the relationship felt so honestly genuine that I could have sworn it was. Luckily, I don't really see her anymore, so it didn't bother me for long, but I really did have a powerful reaction.

Malhavoc430 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:51:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

Years ago, when I was still in my early teens, I had a dream in which I was deeply in love with a girl but her family was moving away. The main part of the dream I remember is the two of us standing outside in the rain crying and hugging as her family was packing to leave.

To this day I don't think I've ever been in love with someone as much as I was in that dream.

Edit: Oh, I also had a dream once where I was older and I met a niece that my older sister had given up for adoption (an event that didn't actually happen in real life). I think in the dream world I had told the adoption agency that if she ever wanted to find her family when she grew up they could contact me - something like that. By the end of the dream she had become like a daughter to me. I woke up and missed the niece that I'll never have.

Ben_Franklins_Godson ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:52:43 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Wow this is coincidental but this actually happened to me this morning.

In my dream, I went to visit a friend who goes to McGill in Montreal. That night, I met some of his friends and we went out with them. One of them was this beautiful girl... whose name I completely forget, perhaps because she never gave it to me. But we hit it off immediately. I felt so connected to her because she knew me better than I knew myself. We kissed. I woke up. I miss her already.

Ah well... it was a fun dream :D

astrokinetic ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:52:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

happens all the time. I always wake up feeling a little depressed because none of my friends will ever know me like that person in my dreams did.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:53:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I sometimes have reoccurring dreams where Dave Matthews is my BFF. We go all over the place, I get to ride around in his tour bus, we hang out and get hammered. It's like "omg I can't believe that Dave Matthews is my best friend". All my friends are jealous, etc, etc.

I stopped "religiously" listening to DMB maybe 6-7 years ago, but I still have the dream sometimes and it's still always awesome.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:55:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

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[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:18:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Whoa. I saw that movie on the plane flying back from Australia last week. It was surprisingly good.

ZeroPhysics ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:56:43 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've had many of those dreams acually. About three times i've dreamt that I'm outside playing when this girl (same one each time) sneaks up on me and we start talking and suddenly I get a "true love" feeling. Somehow time speeds up and all of a sudden we've moved in together and i'm so happy each moment. Speed up again and we are old. I tell her that I love her, she tells me back and then I wake up. The kicker is I can't see her face in the dream and after that dream i'm always pretty down because it feels as if I lost someone very dear to me..

i'm a wierdo..

willwonder ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:57:07 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream like this last night. Sometimes I fabricate an entirely new person. Other times I take a person that I may have had minimal contact with, and give them a totally likable personality. I have to admit....it's nice.

lunarlander ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:57:24 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, her name was Zoey and I miss her. I haven't had a dream in that "world" in a couple years :/.

inkling_19 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:57:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yep. His name was Chris. He was an Asian American boy of 21 or 22 years, with short cropped hair and he had a clock face for his right eye. His left was brown. I even remember what he was wearing and I somewhat remember his voice. He was going to kill me if I messed up his hunt/mission, I think I was talking and he suddenly stepped up nose to nose with me and glared at me with his knife at my stomach. His glare was really off putting because of his clock eye. When I woke up, I was pretty terrified and was positive he was lurking around every corner.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:12:07 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Dude, you better not mess up his hunt / mission. You don't want to tick that guy off.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:58:25 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You fall in love with yourself.

kintu ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:01:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The memories are faint but I fell in love and she loved me back. That was the only time I was in love. I was happy when I woke up the next morning. Don't remember much of her now though. Read that it has something with dream memory which gradually fades away

Edit: I also had a dream that I acted in a porno

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:02:18 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I like to believe that its caused because your subconscious knows your desires, so its able to construct the perfect counterpart.

The subconscious is kind of an abusive asshole, but we keep going back to it. we need it, unless you have schizophrenia.

dantianneijing ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:02:28 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

yes, especially when they are a recurring series of dreams.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:03:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

They exist. Even though you may have seen her on the sidewalk once a couple years back. You can't generate new faces while you dream.

xwexcollidex ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:04:13 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've had dreams of my ex I didn't move on from for years. I would have awful painful dreams of us being together again. I would wake up and lay there, still and sad. It was tough. No one can imagine the agony of thinking that is real. One dream I had his new girlfriend was riding a scooter down my driveway and I tried to help slow her down and she fell and her neck broke. I felt like he would blame me when I was just helping. I woke up so grossed out and felt like I did something wrong. I couldn't tell you how many dreams I've had that seriously made my day feel like s blur because it consumed me.

TheDandyLion ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:04:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

There's a sort of dream "character" that appeared in many of dreams in high school. In my dreams, he was my big brother (I don't have any older siblings in real life), and he was often guiding me in my dream adventures or protecting me in some way.

In the last dream I remember him in, I was in a sort of dark Victorian mansion. My mom and my aunt (in they dream, they bore no resemblance to my mom and aunt in real life) were have a heated argument that soon escalated into a yelling match. I remember I was or felt like a little kid and I was watching them fight and feeling extremely anxious. My brother comes downstairs and ushers me into the next room. There's a piano against the wall. He slides the piano aside, revealing a secret passageway. He ties my baby blanket around my neck like a cape, gives me a hug, and whispers something into my ear. I forget exactly what it was -- it was something like "You can do it. Be safe." I then crawled through the tunnel and came out into a industrial yard. It was sunny and felt deserted, and that's where my dream ends.

I haven't dreamt about him since then. I remember he had messy blonde hair and ice blue eyes.

richay718 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:04:51 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I can't remember the specifics, but a few years back I had an extremely vivid dream in which I fell madly in love with a girl in my dreams. Absolutely beautiful and amazing, the entire dream was really just about us being together and for the duration of that dream. I was literally heart broken and upset to find out my brain trolled the shit out of me.

megapeanut ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:07:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This happened to me during a nap yesterday. We spent an entire day and night together just running around, exploring, and generally living it up. I woke up and tried to remember who it was, then realized she was non-existent. But she did very closely resemble somebody I know... ;)

longerfoster ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:07:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once confronted my brother in a lucid dream I was having regarding his physical nonexistence. He seemed genuinely concerned and I woke up with the strangest feeling.

redxgk ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:08:53 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This is how i met the girl of my dreams, pun intended. Twice i fell in love. My only regret is that i cant remember her face.

motney ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:09:24 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Not so much a deep connection but for a very long time I had re-occurring chase dreams that would result in panic attacks and the like. Everything changed one night during one of these dreams and I remember this moment with such crystal clear detail because it was such a turning point.

I'm being chased. I'm terrified. I'm crying, My hearts pounding. Out of nowhere something occurred to me. I stopped dead in my tracks. Turned around. Though I never saw who was ever chasing me this time once I stopped he was right there. I grabbed him and kissed him. And everything from that point on was fine. I felt like a million bucks. I was walking on air. In that particular dream that dude stayed on as a crush/bf type character.

After that anytime I had a chase dream when I finally realized what it was I'd do that and eventually realized I could go on with my dream and forget about him. Gradually the dreams went away completely and I haven't had one in years.

Darkshiv ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:13:07 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

FUCK YOU BRAIN, YOU ASSHOLE.

robotease ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:14:05 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The worst is when you dream about someone you don't like but in the dream you and that person are highly romantic. All of a sudden you don't hate then and actually kinda like them, maybe even think they're pretty. So fucking awful.

Dman993 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:15:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I fell in love with a girl in my dream. When I woke I wanted only one thing, to go back to sleep and continue dreaming. Since then I have not dreamt of her. For clarity, I had this dream at around 12 and I can still picture her perfectly in my head. I wouldn't say I feel terrible about it but it is a mildly depressing thought to me.

Exulted ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:18:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Every fucking night.

SykotikChef ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:18:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

my guitarist woke up and told me (from the couch)

"I met the girl of my dreams last night... in my dreams"

Thenadamgoes ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:19:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When I was about 17 or 18 I had this dream that I was in Boston (and I'd never been at the time). I was at dinner with my parents at a very expensive restaurant. And there I met a girl, I decided to just leave with her. We met up with her friends, broke into a hotel pool. And went on a few movie like adventures all while falling in love with her.

When I woke up, of course it felt like someone I loved died, but it faded as quickly as dreams do. And of course ten years later I barely even remember the dream or any of the specifics. But I do remember, for some reason, I was convinced that somewhere in the world there was a girl that had the exact same dream about me.

jakeparmstrong ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:19:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Hey but in a way, that personality was just an extension of yourself; you've come a little closer to self-knowledge. That's pretty great!

Xeon06 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:22:03 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I think dreams are really powerful. Say you like someone a little, and you dream about being with them, you might just wake up madly in love and thinking about them for a week.

difeudonana ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:23:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Prior to reading the title of your post, I never had (that I could recall). Possibly as a result of reading the title of your post, I think I did have a dream like this last night, but it was a dog instead of a person. In my dream, I was at my cousin's house at his 5 yr old daughter's birthday party, sitting around with a bunch of screaming children and the rest of my family. This is one of my least favorite activities ever. I was bored and uncomfortable and wanted to leave, but couldn't out of obligation to my family. Suddenly, a mangy looking dog walks right in the open front door and comes over and lays next to me. It kind of has the body of a greyhound, but has long reddish-orangy-brown hair. The rest of the dream I was just brushing and feeding and taking care of the dog, and then took it home after the party. When I woke up, I expected to see the dog in my apartment. I miss that dog.

heree_kitteh_kitteh ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:27:53 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I cried for days after a dream like this. There was an old man, like a grandfatherly figure, but he wasn't real. My sister (weird because I don't have a sister) and I shared a room. She couldn't see him anymore (or wouldn't). He was telling me that it was time for him to move on, I didn't need him anymore. I can still see him sitting on the little chair at my vanity, head hung low. He was a large man, long curly hair and beard dressed in skins and furs. For some reason he looked as if he was dressed for the snow. My sister lay on her bed on her stomach, ankles interlocked, flipping through some teen magazine, completely oblivious to the emotional goodbye that was taking place five feet from her. I despised her and my heart was breaking that he was leaving. Possibly the most emotional dream I've ever had despite the fact that neither person in the dream was real.

iliekmudkipz ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:28:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was sitting with this girl on the couch, semi cuddled together. And it was iin 3rd pperson view. For some reason, I could see our entire backs and not just our heads which is what the 3rd person would see. Also I could only see her from behind, not even her face. It was so very romantic. Spent two days thinking about it and listening to cheesy love songs. Turns out she was modelled after this one girl in class.

Dekolta ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:33:39 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have heard/read that every face in a dream is someone you have seen ; if only for a moment or subconsciously in real life. So 7 billion people.... Start looking!

chapability ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:33:41 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream in which I connected emotionally with a girl I hardly knew irl, but in my dream, she was the only face in the crowd I recognized, and I absolutely had to relate to her what had just happened to me.

I was a time/space traveling... agent or something. For some reason unbeknownst to me, I would be transported to a mysterious area, where I was required to discover and solve some major issue. Once each issue was resolved, I would be transported to the next place/time. On one of those occasions, I recognized that girl, and felt compelled to explain my situation. I remember embracing her, the issue in that place having already been solved and me struggling to cling to that reality, while my entire being was pulled away from it by a formless light.

RevProtocol ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:38:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've fallen head-over-heels in love with a beautiful girl in a dream before. When I woke up and realized she didn't exist it was the most heartbreaking moment of my life. Despite having an AMAZING girlfriend, I still felt like this dream-girl was the best thing that had ever happened to me.

Scumbag dreams: Let's you feel true love; LOL SHE DOESN'T EXIST

nebakanezerrr ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:41:17 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I recently experienced months of a relationship with someone down to them making me a key for their apartment, then I woke up. Dude was hot, too. And then I had to go to work. And it sucked. And then I read on reddit that you use faces from people you've actually seen in real life for the faces of your dream characters, and I wonder who the fuck's face that was.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:49:40 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

and I wonder who that fuckface was.

FTFY. ;)

stanfy86 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:48:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

I had a dream a short while ago, a "end of the world" dream, as I am apt to have.

In this dream, the apocalyptic scenario was just one of societal decay, basically most places were deserted for an unknown reason.

I ended up finding another survivor, a woman who appeared to be in her late 20's, early 30's (I can't recall what her name was, so I will refer to her as Jane), and we decided to set up a mobile base in a still functional cable car.

We move from one shopping area, to the next scavenging supplies, never staying in one place too long, for while the city is largely deserted, there are a number of survivors who have taken to looting/raiding.

A few months go by (and this time lapsing is what makes me remember this dream in particular) and Jane ends up Getting really depressed, because she has no family left, no friends, and I find her trying to hang herself one day.

I rushed to get her down, and managed to save her, and she breaks down in my arms saying "it's not fair!, there's nobody left" and then I tell her that she has me.

Another time lapse goes by, and it is 10 months later, we ended up having a baby girl, and are still moving from location to location, and seem to be getting by alright.

I am inside a shopping center looking for canned goods to scavenge, and I hear a scream coming from out front of the building, where the cable car is, and i run outside.

Just as I get out, I see that there are three raiders on the car, Jane has moved to the front, and is starting the cable car, and I manage to get on before it takes off.

I go into the car, and start fighting off two of the raiders, I manage to knock one out, and toss the other out the window. Meanwhile Jane is getting chased up onto the roof of the cable car, and I follow behind.

Just as I get onto the roof, I see Jane getting thrown off the top of the cable car. I manage to take out the last raider, and stop the cable car.

I rush back to where Jane is lying on the ground, and I see that she is still breathing. I pick her up in my arms, and she asks me "is my daughter alright?" and passes in my arms.

I woke up after that, I was in tears, I couldn't even believe at first that that was all a dream, that so much can happen within the span of one night. The effect that one's dreams can have on someone, I am not saying I know exactly how it feels to loose someone like that, but I think I have come a little closer to understanding just how hopelessly destroyed such an experience can leave you.

Edit: for some reason, this was the song I heard in my head, while I cradled Jane in my arms: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dq5-L8hIwcI

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:49:20 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have.

Jack92 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:50:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I don't mean to ruin your evening, but people say that our dreams are populated by people we've seen. Not so much interacted with, you could just pass someone on the street and the idea is that that person could end up in a dream of yours, years later. Why this is an evening ruiner is thus; if this is true, then the person you had a deep personal connection with, could very well exist, though not necessarily with the same personality you gave them in your dream.

ReductioAdBiggotry ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:50:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The relevant and beautiful work of (short) fiction:

Eyes of a Blue Dog by Gabriel Garcia Marquez

occasional_upvoter ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:51:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I fell in love. He died saving me. I cried for half hour after waking up.

MikeNeil91 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:54:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I read a post on TIL the other day that said everyone you see in your dreams are real people that you've seen before in real life.

signspam ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:55:53 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The next day after having a dream about a girl I know in real life...I seem to have a strange attractiveness to her the entire next day

Finforsale ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:56:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once had a dream where I met a girl in a party. After a superdetailed kiss I woke up. The girl resembled 2 girls from the school I was at the time, however I didn't know them or have paid any attention to them earlier. Weird feels.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 19:56:46 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I used to do the whole lucid dreaming thing. More than a few times I found myself breaking the news to people in my dream about what it was. None of them seemed thrilled about the fact that I was going to wind up killing everyone and everything the second I woke up.

Dreams are weird.

powerbrows ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:00:52 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream like that just last night. I don't remember a lot of the specifics, but I was visiting an old job where I met this woman I had never seen before. She was incredibly cute and I just felt this amazing connection with her. She thought I was there with bad intentions, but I assured her that I wasn't. She was wearing roller skates and fell down, so I helped her back to her feet and then we just continued to hold hands and walk/glide together and I just had this deep feeling of pure love between us. I don't even remember what we were talking about.

Then, at some point, she reached from behind me and placed her hand gently on the back of my sack and I knew she was the one.

I woke up a little sad knowing that this person doesn't exist.

rageth ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:00:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Every dam time. Had one where I was 100% sure a woman I loved (was single at the time) was asleep next to me. Woke up in the night and moved my arm to her side of the bed but it was empty :( I hugged the pillow once I realised it was just a dream. I've also woke myself up thrusting wilding in my sleep whist having a very lucid dream I was shagging. Did it once with my gf. She nudged me awake and asked wtf I was doing.

Chardee ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:01:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Every dream with a person in it is someone you have met before. You might not know them, but your mind subconsciously saves them in a memory. They do exist!

tenfourniner ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:06:06 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once had a dream that was more like a flash into the future. I dreamt that I was dressing my daughter in the morning for school. My house was on the beach and it was breezy. I'm a little young for kids which is why she's so haunting to me because maybe she will be someday. I will never forget the way she looked because it was so real to me

metwork ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:07:30 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I get attacked by dogs a lot, in my dreams. I love dogs, this shouldn't be happening.

Also falling out of planes, and sex. But no conversations or deep feelings.

bjmlikekickingjesus ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:07:38 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

i get this sometimes, whenever i do i spend at least the next day with her still in my head constantly.

MagicSPA ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:09:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes - when I was five y.o. I had a dream that distant figures, possibly in mediaeval uniform or armour, were hurling themselves off a castle wall/turret. A small wizened being (whose face resembled that of Jacques Cousteau) was asking me for guidance on the matter. I got the impression in my dream that I was a figure of some import.

To this day - I'm in my 30's - I wonder why I had such a memorable, vivid dream about something that was so far beyond my experience, even now, and I sometimes think about what experiences I would have had with that little troll/elf if I had dreamt for longer, or if I dreamed about him again.

[deleted] ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 20:24:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Little troll / elf: "Thank goodness you're back! We've had a hellofa time without you. Now, we have the following items to discuss..."

SammyD1st ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:10:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Blue sky? Huh, that's a new one.

OrangeSimply ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:11:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Actually that person in your dream is somebody you've seen in real life, whether on television, or passing by on the street, accept that person probably wouldn't have the same personality that your subconscious gave them! If you ever recall a dream you can pull out sounds and images, events that happened from your reality. I had a really strange dream last night where I spent the night at a friends house and went outside and saw a car being stolen. I recognized the sounds I was hearing from familiar sounds that I hear in my life, and the people and vehicles in the dream were all things I pass by quite often.

shushkebobby ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:14:21 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Has anyone ever dreamt of things that happen in the future? I had this recurring dream of being at a college bar-b-que at my first choice college. It was so real that i knew that i would get in before i heard back. I my junior year there now, still no bbq though :(

hamburgerandhotdog ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:15:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've felt deep personal connections with people in my dreams who are unrelated to my existence and unknown to me in this life, but what I find much more painful are the dreams where I share a reciprocated emotional connection or intimate moment with a woman whom I know and have a libidinal attraction to in my waking life.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:24:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I like to believe they're out there dreaming of me too and we'll find eachother later :p

BlitzBringer ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:25:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This is ironic i wake up to this post.My entire life there has been this blonde girl that has always seemed stand out to me and she was everywhere in my dreams. Never knew her name nor did she become a big part of the dream but i felt her being there was more important than the dream itself. It felt really great not knowing who she was but i had such a deep emotion for her upon waking.

YesButConsiderThis ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:31:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This again...

mypetridish ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:32:36 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

i cant ever remembr my dreams longer than 10 seconds after waking up. how do you guys do it? how does cobb do it? am i lacking something?

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:34:38 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You know, every human face you see in your dreams you've seen in real life, face to face or through a modern medium such as your TV.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:36:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This has happened to me a few times where i dream of cute girls liking me. I just wake up more lonely than before :(

sunshineeyes ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:37:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream that I had met the most deliciously attractive guy I've ever seen. To top it off, he had the most fabulous personality. It was my sister's birthday and he offered to wait for me to finish doing Cinderella-type chores and appeasing her before he could take me out on a date. The guy wore a vest. Seriously, he was adorable and perfect, although I can't even recall the ways in which he was awesome.

Well, I kept putting him off due to obligations and whatnot, and suddenly, right as I'm about to finish getting ready and go have what I'm sure would have been the best ever fairytale date, I realized I had never officially broken up with an IRL ex. So I had to go on several adventures, think of the best way to tell someone that I hadn't spoken to in 5 months of dream time that I wanted to see other people, and that even though we hadn't communicated in that amount of time meant we were pretty obviously over, I wanted to have a clean start with dream guy.

I woke up before I could ever go on that date. And I realized I'd broken up with the ex a few years ago and have been dating someone really awesome for quite a while. It was this odd combo of mind fuck and guilt and regret. Oh vest boy. You were awesome.

Share_Needles ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:39:40 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I probably have a dream where I'm in some sort of awesome or terrifying situation once a month.

This month it was a horrific zombie invasion. I had to drive into the city and find my family, girlfriends family, and convince them i had a plan for which I did not. it was extremely detailed and I had no weapons other than kitchen knives.

A dream where I met someone and was upset in the morning was when I met a beautiful girl. I can't really think out the details but it was severely depressing morning after. She was the perfect woman in my eyes, we were even fooling around at one point before I woke up to my GF turning on the light telling me to get up.

MonosyllabicReply ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:40:06 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yep.

Coolbreezy ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:40:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Nope.

omitted ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:44:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I console myself with the knowledge that my dreams are a peek at a different reality and so only my direct intervention is missing from that reality. That is what I got from this movie.

sabat ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:45:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Eyes of a Blue Dog

We had been seeing each other for several years. Sometimes, when we were already together, somebody would drop a spoon outside and we would wake up. Little by little we'd been coming to understand that our friendship was subordinated to things, to the simplest of happenings. Our meetings always ended that way, with the fall of a spoon early in the morning.

irjooo ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:49:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I often dream of dates with my boyfriend but when I wake up I remember he hasn't taken me on one. -____-

FreeMoustacheRide ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:49:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream once where I was at a party and I met a girl, I was grudgingly getting over my previous relationship and was sitting on a couch and she started talking to me. It was pretty realistic until I got to know her more, that's when the streets and the areas we walked through flooded. She didn't have shoes so I carried her and we talked and I didn't think of my ex or anything and I just remember feeling incredibly happy and inlove. I woke up just feeling completely miserable.

Wonderjea ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 20:50:12 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I dreamed about this man once and as soon as I saw him, I knew that he was the man I was going to marry and I was so happy. We had this connection where we were so in touch with each other and when I woke up I was crushed. Most of the weddings in my dream are forced and horrible, but this one I was looking forward to :( I read that you can only dream of people you seen before, so I look forward to when that guy pops up in real life again :)

snobby_penguin ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:02:26 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Wouldn't that be some extremely weird form of narcissism?

artfullydodged ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:14:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

A dream I had last year...

I walked down a long narrow hallway, a white wall to my left, and a wood paneled wall with windows every 10 feet or so to my right. It felt like the inside of a Frank LLoyd Wright house. Out the windows i could see a beautiful deep green forest. Every shade of green was present. Then i noticed something. Sitting outside in the trees was an owl, an incredible, million swirling colors at once god-like owl. The colors moved over its body in drips, melting in and out of once another. It was beautiful, So of course I stopped to have a look.

I cupped my hands against the window and peered through them, only to find myself face to face with the owl. Somehow it apparated from the tree to the window in an instant. I asked if it was real, it replied simply "yes" and then its colors began to melt back into the familiar browns and blacks of an owl. I thought then that the experience must be over, but the drops of tawny browns, whites and blacks began taking another shape. Soon I was face to face with the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. She had tanned skin and dark brown hair and eyes, and she radiated a beauty beyond just her looks.

So this fucking magical owl thing basically just melts into the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. Im not talking conventional beauty here, its hard to describe, but goddamn she was breathtaking. This gorgeous girl looked me straight in the eyes and gave me the most incredible look, all at once I felt fear, awe, love, and an incredible sense of comfort (it was like I knew her from somewhere, but I know I've never seen her). I asked her to stay but she only smiled knowingly and turned around to walk back into the woods

I woke up the next morning feeling really rested and refreshed. WTF could all of that mean? did I meet my spirit animal or something?

easilystartled ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:17:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I dreamt about flying over to Moldova to meet a girl who studied at some boarding school. I woke up feeling very lonely at the time, and convinced myself she was real...I was 9/10 at the time, 13 years ago, i'm over it now!

MaakThePirate ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:22:26 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

YES. Most people have around 6 dreams a night, everyone dreams. Though most people also say that they "don't dream" or once and a while "have a dream" but that's just them not remembering.

I have been working on lucid dreaming through dream journals/meditation/etc. I had a break through last week and remembered FIVE of my dreams of the night.

in the final dream I fell in love. I could tell it was love, I have only ever felt that way before in real life for my ex girlfriend, who I was with for 3 years. This entity was godlike, to me in the dream (and even after waking for a little while). Not godlike as in she was god, but that I feel that what most people think of as "god" is just pure love/energy. Of course she/it/dream girl was "love" to me because if I am ever in that much love they will just appear as love to me.

anyway. I am working on dreaming of the same entity if I can.

MothOnAString ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:22:48 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Dreams can be so strange.

I find it interesting when I can catch my subconscious mind thinking in ways in my dreams that my conscious mind does not; for example making links between two different things that I never would have if I was awake, or doing/thinking really stupid things and then waking up and wondering why my dream self was so dumb when I knew better.

In the case of this topic, I've had dreams before about having a best friend named Crystal that feels 100% familiar in my dreams like I've known her most of my life, yet when I wake up I have no clue and realize this dream person isn't even similar to anyone I know in real life, real people, fictional or otherwise. How my mind can just make up a person on the fly like that and have me believe without a doubt that I know them is a strange feeling.

zzaman ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:28:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oh, she exists. She'll just never see me that way.

/sobs

Stockguy38 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:47:54 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

While I was living with my best friend. I had a dream about living in a three story house with him and some other guys on the second floor and there was girls living on the third floor. I was in the bathroom(which apparently the guys and girls had to share) a girl with medium length brown hair walked in and we were flirting. Things turned hot and we started getting it on. I really felt like we had been dating or there was something really there. Afterwards I stepped outside and sat on the front steps. All of the sudden a plane flew over our house and hit the house in front of ours. The only thing I could think of before I woke up was I hope Liz and everyone are okay. So apparently her name was Liz and since I wasn't dating anyone at the time when I woke up alone it really sucked.

gramathy ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:54:45 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I will always remember The Girl In The Yellow Shirt.

I don't know her name.

I don't know where I met her.

I don't know how we ended up next to each other in that line.

I don't remember anything else we did together.

I don't remember much of anything from that dream but the color of her shirt, but I loved her with all my heart.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:56:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Everyone you meet in a dream you've met in real life

SaucyWiggles ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:57:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Reality is perceived by the mind, right?

Seems like dreams are real to those who perceive them. I've woken up in the middle of emotions deeper than I often feel in what we all perceive to be 'reality' to know that.

Boogie_Woogie ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:57:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

They do exist though. They might not have the same personality as they do in your dream, but you've seen them in passing before.

B3AN3R_DAVID ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 21:59:39 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Did you know that every face you see in your dreams is a face that you have seen in real life.

theforeigner ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:00:39 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well for one, every single person you see in your dreams is someone you've come across in real life. It might be a man you passed on the sidewalk when you were 5, and you might not remember them, but its someone whose paths you've crossed with. Your mind is incapable of creating its own people and uses memory.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:00:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I felt bed when I had a dream about an ex because in the dream she was much better, but she did exist, just not in the same way. Does that count?

Atrosityy ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:02:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I met a girl in one of my dreams, but not just any girl, a girl that liked me. We done all the usual relationship stuff, and I loved ever minute of it, It seemed so real. When I woke in the morning, I woke with a smile on my face, then It dawned on me, that me dream was nothing more than a dream, It hurt. I never really thought about this until now. I just play the dream down to wanting a lady in my life (because I've never had one), so bad that my mind tried to create one.

Salsashaman ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:16:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

one time when my friend was sleeping over, we were watching a movie but he kept falling asleep. i kept making noises and calling his name to wake him up because i didnt wanna watch it alone. then after about the 3rd time, he got really mad at me and told me a story about a really hot chick and the stuff she was doing to him after he picked her up at a party and what not *wink wink.... which i thought was odd because he was only asleep for about 10 seconds..

adampoq ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:21:11 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Haha this happened to me just last night...wierd

PerfectlyDarkTails ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:26:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Don't go Tails!

creepsly ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:33:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream about a blond girl in a thick sweater. Her name was Amani and I was so depressed when I woke up and found out she was just a dream.

I had two others. One was a fifteen-sixteen year old boy with brown curly hair and either blue or grey eyes and the other... He said he was my guardian angel then turned into a cat and disappeared. He told me his name but I haven't been able to remember it.

Mexiflan ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:37:47 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've had something like this. Dreaming about someone i already have a deep emotional connection to, and in the dream it got deeper. Then i woke up with that "naww" feeling.

W02T ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:41:30 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Reddit, I'd like you to meet my girlfriend...

Kris18 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:41:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Very rarely I've had dreams about people in real life who I don't know very well, and get to know them well. And then am disappointed when I wake up.

I think once I made up a character and got really close to her. Then woke up and felt bad.

But it's not on a regular basis by any means.

PaniAnna ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:00:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

They exsisted, the feelings didn't. :(

xKazimirx ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:01:42 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

Oh this happens to me so often, sometimes with people I know, sometimes with people I saw maybe once or twice, and sometimes with people I've never seen before in my life. Sometimes we fall in love, sometimes we fight side by side, other times we travel the world and/or space and time. Waking up makes me feel like shit, because I had an adventure with somebody and that adventure has never actually happened. It's terrible.

Although there are some dreams that are worse than this while not being nightmares. I've lived out my entire life, and lives of people who I might have become, in my dreams, when I wake up not only do I feel like shit but it makes me think that all of life is a futile effort, a nothing more than a tale told by an idiot.

grubsnalf ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:03:28 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I lived for twenty years one night. The world had gone to hell and I found myself living in a community near Santa Cruz California. Electronic equipment was all destroyed in what I would assume to be some kind of nuclear event that destroyed most of the civilized world. There were fringe military factions living on the edge of the U.S. fighting some unknown invader. During this time I had "adopted" a young black boy who I named Tibalt. He was my son and I raised him. In the "tribe" we lived with an older brother (about 20 years old), of a family member there, returned from the front, down south near Mexico. He didn't like dark-skinned people and he ended up getting drunk and shooting Tibalt in the head. Kid died in my arms...I have never cried so hard in my life.

Years later the dirigibles came and dropped bread and produce in the center of town. It was one of the happiest moments of my life. Twenty years had passed since the beginning of the end. I still think about Tibalt, he was 7 years old when he was killed.

MoEnt ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:05:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

These people are a product of your mind. I'd say in they are a part of you or they are who you wish to be

v3lociraptor ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:09:18 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

When I was in middle school or early high school, I had a dream about a very handsome guy sitting the the corner of a room. He was drinking a can of soda (which I thought was adorbz at the time), and all of his friends were drinking beer. Although I could see everything, no one could see me.

Flash forward to my freshman year of college: In a dream, I'm walking on a university campus, and I see THE SAME GUY, who had grown up a lot, walking with two of his friends on a sidewalk. We pass each other, and we smile.

So, I agree to do some volunteer work with youth over the following summer at a university in a state different from my own. A co-volunteer and I are following some kids to a different part of the university to play some soccer when I see THE EXACT PLACE that I saw the dude in my dream! Needless to say, I transferred to this university.

I didn't meet this dude while going to school there, but should I meet him in the future, I'll post about it on reddit.

Edit: Clarity.

Questions0 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:21:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes.

TheFlatypus ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:27:09 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When I was younger I'd get this every now and then and I liked to think that somewhere out there, the person really existed and we had shared the dream. I like this kind of dream.

bellatrixnotswan ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:29:07 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

"when my daughter was two she bore me a son" wat

whosepostisitanyway ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:31:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once had a dream that I was laying on a bed with Marilyn Monroe and she was telling me her whole life story. Things no one knew about her, her feelings, Joe DiMaggio, etc. I know this was asking about people that never existed but it felt like she was really there laying next to me.

saminik ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:35:57 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

glad im not the only one!

michaelvincentsmith ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:51:25 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

when younger, i had a few dreams where I felt the strongest love for someone I ever have. tried to re-dream, but no go. real life has never been close.

Derpstep53 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:56:32 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah. I once had a crazy dream that my family and I we're on vacation and I met this girl (skinny tall and brown blonde hair) we explored Africa and she was English. When I was waking up I said to myself, "I love her and I don't wanna wake up. I don't wanna." "Wake up Derp, wake up." I don't wanna leave her no!" I argued with myself in a dream like state until I woke up. Again. I'll never forget that girl. I think found her in real life too.

darkwavechick ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:56:40 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The other month I nearly convinced myself that the dream world was the real world. So then I got my self excited to so back to sleep.

themightygwar ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 23:59:15 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This sounds like the plot mechanisms of a lot of Philip K. Dick novels. Especially Valis

funyunz ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:02:09 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes. In high school I had a dream about the perfect girl. She was intelligent, witty, funny, beautiful, and most of all she accepted me, my awkward and unsociable self. We would skip across what seemed to be vast, beautiful glowing forests, wheat fields, and neighborhoods together. Just me and her. She would hold my hand, embrace me, and occasionally lean in for a kiss. I was so happy, and I knew she was my soulmate. But when I woke up I was struck by the most intense feeling of sadness and regret ever. This girl was actually a girl I had known in real life during middle school. She used to be my best friend. She used to be the person I trusted with all my heart. Worst of all she really had a crush on me while I really liked her too but was just too awkward and afraid to tell her. But I found out too late. We had gotten into a huge fight, and to this day we've never really talked to each other again. She has a boyfriend and seems happy. I'm thousands of miles away in college. Occasionally I will have dreams about her again. I never forget each one, because I want so bad for them to become reality. But I know things are different in the real world. She's truly the one who got away.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:04:30 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I told this in another reddit thread.

For about a 30 day period I dreamt about this BEAUTIFUL girl. Out of 30 days of dreaming Id say anywhere from 10-15 dreams included her. The dreams spanned all sorts of scenarios and scenes. Gf/Bf, picking up an awesome chick in a car, some apocalypse dream I have and she made a cameo. Awesome chick. We talked in the dream and the chemistry felt so genuine and natural. She was 5'1, maybe 5'2, thin (~100lbs i'd guess), short hair, like a blonde (or was it black) with pink mixed in, amazing body with piercings and tats everywhere. Possibly in mid to late 20s. The most memorable part of her was this specific tat she had. It was stitches that she had under her tear ducts as if she cried them out.

One day I brought it up in reddit about how can it be that I never have seen this chick and have such a profound feeling for her as if she really did exist. That maybe she did and this was some kind of cosmic way to find her. A redditor explained that (he was a neuro specialist IIRC, according to him) the mind takes snap shots of people in our day to day lives. This snap shots are used to populate our dreams. Some of these snapshots are years old at times. Problem is, if I ever did see a chick THIS badass in my life, nervousness be damned I would strike up a conversation. As unique as she looked.

He told me to take melatonin. Try to get the dreams to be more vivid. Perhaps I could draw more about her out of the dream and write it down when I woke up. It wasn't till I used this method and tried really hard to focus she stopped showing up :-(.

Makes me sad. Chick like that walking around SOMEWHERE and somehow in my life I let her pass me by and my douchebag brain used a snapshot to troll me.

farmthis ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:08:16 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

WHOA. I posted just a couple days ago in a similar topic, but I don't think anyone saw my story since I was late to the party, but it's just like OP.

It went like this:

I'd been having nightmares for a few nights and was getting kind of annoyed since that's unusual. I tell my subconscious "Hey, how about a NICE dream tonight, okay?"

So I'm dreaming, and it turns into a lucid dream. I don't have those very often. In this dream, time is basically standing still, and there's this girl -- who I'm COMPLETELY in love with. The most in love I've ever felt in my entire life (and I've been in love--so that's saying a lot.) My heart is just gushing, and I'm just marveling at her, and she doesn't mind. The dream is very small -- it's just her. The rest of the world is fuzzy and unimportant. All of the detail my imagination could muster was wrapped up in every strand of hair, the color was only in the blush of her skin and her eyes...

It felt like I had about two minutes with her, but then I started to wake up. Like a tap-tap-tap on the shell of my dream, I was given about two more seconds. I panic, and she fades away without time to say goodbye. So, the love of my life. I killed her twice. The dream ended and erased her, and then I realized she never existed in the first place.

When I woke up, I cried, and was depressed for several days.

My subconscious is a bitch who doesn't like taking orders. It dished up several nights of nightmares, and then caps it off with something worse--a "good" dream with terrible consequences.

Ophois ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:08:17 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Maybe it is life that is but a dream.

TychoSean ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:12:25 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream where I traveled to the future and met a group of older people who in that future year had been my best friends for years but I had not met them yet in my own time. It was strange to be hanging out with people my parent's age who knew me well and loved me very much and for years already but to me we had just met. It was a strange but oddly comforting feeling.

Stick4444 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:14:12 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Her name was Molly, we were having dinner on the rooftop of a building that was about to collapse...

donald-darko ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:17:21 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

i had reoccurring dream which happened 3 or 4 times but the strange thing was i only had the dream once a year in december . basically in the dream i see the event from two perspectives , the first perspective i am inside the plane before the explosion and the other i was travelling through the woods i was kidnapped on the back of a quadbike going to the airport

stray-cat ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:19:01 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

When I was thirteen, I had a dream about a boy. We'd gone on adventures and everything, and we were best friends. But somehow we got separated and I had no idea where he was anymore, and there was no way to contact each other. I couldn't remember his face, and I spent the rest of the dream trying to look for him.

At the very end, I was looking around in what seemed to be a nebula... in space... and then he appeared! At that point it felt like I'd been looking for him my entire life. He said, "It's okay, I'm here, I'm real I'm here now," and he reached out to me. And then I felt myself starting to wake up and I tried so hard to stay asleep so I can stay with him. But I couldn't stop it, and when I woke up, I couldn't remember what he looked like anymore... I know he doesn't exist but in my dream I felt like I was really looking for him my entire life, and I still get confused about it sometimes.

imafish16 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:21:25 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Do salvia trips count as dreams? Because my whole world disappeared and there was nothing but some wavy lines and a girl. (I was with all dudes at the time)

snuka ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:23:14 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Since this is a yes/no question I will just check in with 'no'

kaizerfloyd ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:29:59 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream where someone loved me and tried to bring me happiness. When I woke up, I felt just a bit warmer. Context: I had major depression.

thedude90 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:32:37 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have been having dreams lately, on and off, that I remember. Each one that I remember there is a girl. The only way to describe her is simply perfect. Not photoshopped model perfect, but literally the girl of my dreams. The last few weeks I'll have a dream that we are hanging out, carefree, usually in summer and life is amazing. Near the end of the dream, either her and I end up having to go somewhere and we always leave each other notes saying where we'll be and we'll be back soon. Weird thing is, the first few dreams I felt like I barely knew her.. but now (in my dream) I feel like I've known her forever but I do not know the girls name. I literally just woke up from having this dream and woke up thinking that I was about to text her. I'm not desperate for female attention at all, my life is a little crazy at times but this just came out of nowhere, anyone else have a dream like this? Or could help direct me to an interpretation?

rainbowtiara ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:34:25 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I remember having a dream a few months ago, it was so vivid that I thought it was my real life. It went something along the lines of I was in some circus troupe, and I was a famous pianist (20 years old). Then some younger kid comes into the troupe and joins, he's like 13-14 years old! I got jealous and would avoid this kid. The middle of the dream was a bit like a flashback on me just being jealous and random events happening between me and him.

The dream started to end with the kid's sister chasing me, trying to tell me something, but I'm running all over the place scared for my life. Eventually I make my way back to the train yard, and the kid catches me and gives me some long speech. Turns out, he really liked me and that's why he joined and I ended up liking him too.

There was another dream I had, talking with one of my old friends, we stopped being friends and cut it off on bad terms. We reconnected in my dream, and eventually apologized to one another. When I woke up, I felt as if a huge weight was lifted off my chest. I ended up stopping by and saying hi, and it just seemed as if nothing bad happened between us.

afroman116 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:37:46 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I met the most beautiful girl in my dreams, I think I will find her in reality

Razulv ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:40:16 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once had a dream that I was living on one of sevreal giant rocks that were floating in the sky. They were more like islands, and I remember how they had giant holes that went all the way through them. The one I was on even had water falls as well.

I was living on it and I had the love of my life living with me, a woman I had never seen before, I didnยดt know her name. she was dressed in a white dress and her head was shaved, those are the only parts of her appearance that I remember. We were so happy, it was summer and the sun was shining, we were fooling around in the grass and the next thing I knew we were sliding down a slope and into one of the holes that turned out to be a waterfall.

As we were tumbling down we were laughing, we werenยดt worried and I felt so happy, so alive, I could feel everything from the sun on my face to her touch. And then we hit fell down the waterfall and I was happy all the way. I didnยดt wake up as I hit the water I just kind of remebered all of it as I woke up. Damn what a let down that was, I felt so dissapointed that the person I had spent so much time with and loved wasnยดt real. I guess thatยดs what dreams are though, beutiful short lived moments.

(sorry for spelling errors, itยดs late Im not english and Im not checking.)

docious ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 00:57:05 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once had a dream where I had a pet/friend monkey. The dream was fantastic, the monkey and I were hanging out in the redwoods near where I lived at the time. Suddenly we found ourselves in a "rock fight" (throwing small rocks at one another mimicking war kids might sometimes do) with a bunch of other kids who I couldn't identify in the dream. At one point shortly after the rock fight began I looked to see if monkey friend was doing alright. I found him, dead with a huge open wound that was pouring blood out. I believe I woke up from my dream almost immediately to find that my face and pillow were covered in tears. I still miss that lil guy. sniff

samx3i ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:02:39 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That's so weird I would see this question tonight. I had a nap earlier today and dreamed I was out with my two-year-old daughter, Jersey (real person, real name), and her sister, who doesn't exist. We were having a great time and they got along so well, and I remember at one point feeling guilty because I thought I might love Jersey a little more than her sister, because Jersey was my first. When I woke up, I missed my other daughter and felt even worse I favored Jersey over her and immediately wanted to see her and hold again. It was like she really existed.

Oooh_shiny ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:21:58 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

forever alone

prooferz ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:23:09 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yeah, definitely. The worst thing is that I had at least few of thoe dreams where I met my perfect one. And she seemed so real, everything that I was looking for, could smell her, taste her, absolutely. And then just boom, alarm clock goes off and you open your eyes to realise the truth - that shes gone, wont probably see her again and now I need to get up, get out of bed and glide back into reality so I can continue hunting for my one and only in here. But yeah, the connection and emotions - they were absolutely unreal, not sure if I felt that close, both physically and morally to a real woman ever in my life. I guess thats what our sub-conscious consists of - all the hidden dreams and deepest fantasies that we dont even dare to imagine, they come out during the night, in our dreams.

ajhoffman ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:33:01 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Funny thing about dreams is that you've seen every person in the dream, but your brain can fill gaps about their personality subconsciously if you haven't already figured some things out about the person. If you've only seen his or her face, but haven't met them, your brain can just make the personality up entirely.

meta_elephants ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:33:31 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

All the time.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:40:50 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

A few nights ago, I dreamt that I worked with Tyler Okonma (Tyler, The Creator of OFWGKTA.) We were best friends, and Earl was free, and was gonna come get a job. Woke up, felt sad I didn't actually know Tyler.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 01:59:46 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once had an elaborate dream about being pregnant, giving birth, and getting to look my baby girl in the face and name her. I have wanted to have children since I learned where they really come from (spoiler alert, its not the stork!) and it was such an amazing feeling to experience all of that. Then, I woke up.

makeumad ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:00:44 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Why do so many think of the people in their dreams as the "fake" ones and the people in their waking state as the real ones? Couldn't it be the other way around? Or could the waking and dream states at least be considered equally as real?

You exist in your dreams, albeit in a much more attenuated way than when you are awake. So don't the people you dream about also exist in your dreams during that period of time? Just like people exist in your waking state as long as you are awake?

Yes people change and morph in your dreams rapidly from one thing/person to another. But people in the waking state also change from day to day, moment to moment. It's just not as apparent because the clock is running slower. It's all kind of an illusory view IMO.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:03:52 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, I remembering having one of those dreams. I remember waking up that morning, heart broke and depressed. Luckily, since I am a slightly emotionless person, I was able to get over it fairly quickly.

the_repair_man_man ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:07:17 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I never felt depressed about mine, more hopeful. I had a daydream in class once in highschool where a name popped into my head. I knew right away the name was special. I had never heard the name before and didn't know anyone with even a similar name. Years passed and I had completely forgot about it when out of the blue I was having another daydream and one of the names I had created sounded familiar... it was the same person, but I had added a middle name. Still hopeful I'll meet someone with that name one day. And no, I'm not going to cheat by using the internet.... mainly because I don't know how to spell it.

ThiZ ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:15:58 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

What does it sound like?

nearvonyc ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:14:12 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

this is a true story, me and my buddys had just stayed up until very early in the morning and only had several hours of sleep. me and him were the only ones left in my living room and we both fell asleep to the show called "Mantracker" - i lived out my being in this dream state for weeks. i remember certain things, and i can picture them in my head, but most of the things are too hard to describe. the first part of the dream was me in a room im pretty sure i've been in my real life before, i could draw a floor plan of the house. the latest thing i can remember from the first part was me, in the living room with some people, then me and this girl going off to a bed room. we had sex, and it literally was one of the realist things ever. skip ahead a bit, and we walk outside the back door to mountains and grass land. this is when the mantracker show started to come into play. we were chased all around these forests for a long time, made camp and had another day. skip ahead more and its me, on a sailboat, call and Opti, which is what i used to sail, sailing away from mantracker (im pretty sure), the coloring of the sky and water was weird, almost like fire. anyways, there is way more, but i cant remember alot of it now. i woke up in a daze, almost like a trance. i was freaked out to some extent. this isnt the first time i've had dreams where i meet people, know them, or am in a dream for long periods of time.

bonsaiRocket ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:16:51 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Okay I wrote out this unnecessarily long narrative describing the plot of these dreams but basically I've been having dreams about the same boy for a decent amount of time now. We're always in the same setting, usually picking up where we left off and just going out and having weird dream adventures like upending cities or participating in school plays neither of us actually signed up for, etc etc. Thing is, I feel very very close to him--not quite love, but something like it--in a way that I haven't ever felt with a real person.

There's always a lingering melancholy in waking up, but the worst part is that I can never, ever remember his name. I have hazy recollections of his face, but never his name. I posthumously dubbed him "Jake" in a sleepy haze after the last dream, but that doesn't feel right. (Plus I already know a Jake and he's kind of an asshole, so.)

animalcule ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:23:34 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream that a vague acquaintance of mine had died in a tragic scootering accident. Like, a Razor Kick scooter. I was devastated and I remember reflecting upon the good times we had had in my dream. All this and the guy was someone who sat in the back of my English class for one semester. I only spoke to him twice, maybe.

Liide12 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:26:52 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I can only recall one time when the dream involved someone I legitimately did not know or recognize, back when I was but ten or so. Most of the time when these dreams occur they involve people I know, just not very well. Which, depending on the content of the dream, can lead to some very awkward moments when I see them again.

Sofakingjewish ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 02:56:41 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Enders Game, read it.

FlyWithFishes ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:01:24 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have nothing of substance to contribute or add, I just really really need to keep this thread in my history so I never forget how amazing the human mind truly is.

Twiggeh-Leaf ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:03:29 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Oh yeah. I fall in love with people in my dreams, but these people are completely made up. One especially vivid one, we were holding hands and I began to wake up, and as I woke up, he grabbed my hand with both hands and began begging me to stay, he kept saying "don't go, not yet, don't go." and my hand was tingling when I woke up. I'm sure it had just fallen asleep, but the feeling was chilling.

likeasomebodie ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:08:57 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I cannot remember more than the last few seconds of most dreams. However, what I can remember is often incredible.

I have, on several occasions, woken up (dreaming still) next to various female acquaintances feeling like I've known them for years and been party to a serious relationship. The depth of emotion is so profound that it takes me several minutes to rationalize the experience afterward.

Oddly enough, the dreams aren't overtly sexual; it's as if my brain is saying "Look likeasomebodie, this is what your relationship could be in 2 years."

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:12:16 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I was in 6th grade. I had a dream about a boy named Max who took me on an adventure where we ate ice cream and drove go-carts. Then he did my homework for me. He was blond and had brown eyes. I woke up and realized he didn't exist. Months later I saw him in a magazine. He was modeling. Bitches love models. That was cool and all but then I went to 7th grade... I met a boy named Matt with blond hair and brown eyes. We didn't become friends.

TL;DR: Had a dream about a boy. Met a boy.

chubbyakajc ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:17:41 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

every time this happens i want to kill myself so i could see that person again

Remnant85 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:20:54 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

TL:DR all comments. TIL all faces in your dreams are of real people you have seen before so the ones in your dreams do exist you have only seen them in real life but maybe just passed them on the street.

Lots42 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:23:04 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well, not that bad but yes, I had just that type of dream last night

skooma714 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:23:46 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Someday, Allison.

BaconCarnage ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:24:48 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once fell in love with Jim Morrison. He walked me down a path through the local cemetary, talking to me about life. The road was lit with little paper bags that had tea candles in them. He told me of how he was killed in a bathtub by a vampire a long time ago, but after being infected with the vampires saliva he awoke as a vampire himself. I said I didnt care because he was a (badass/sexy/greatmusician/poet/artist) etc. He proposed in the parking lot of an auto shop down the road. I woke up.

fatcop ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:25:47 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

yup, it's called a wet dream.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:27:27 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm so grateful I rarely remember my dreams. Sound like I'm only missing out on nightmares and horrible sudden arrivals to reality.

Phew!

Invisofupa ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:27:46 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream where I was walking alone and it was snowing and some random cute girl ran up to me and we bothed hugged for like 2 minuets and it was weird when I woke up and I felt bad because it wasn't real and I feel like it meant something, but idk..

HollowScope ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:35:41 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

yes. it epically sucks when they DIE in your dream and you wake up crying.

sobered ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:40:45 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Just happened yesterday actually. Started in a building, saw this gorgeous girl running towards me calling for help. As i grabbed her hand and started running the surroundings changed into a room where we talked for what seemed like for hours.Finally she told me that she was held captive by an alien and that she was to fly back with him to his home planet to be eaten, apparently i had a life like doll that could change into whatever size and shape and appearance. I gave the alien the doll of her or apparently what seemed to be the doll but as the alien flew away the doll moved and before i could turn around to check if i had gave the alien the real girl i woke up. I woke up not knowing if i really made a mistake. For all I know, shes stuck in my head in an alien colony dying.

TLDR; met perfect girl in dream, dont know if i abandoned her to her doom

strangepet ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:44:42 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've had this happen, and internally mourned over it for days. I get this persistent nagging feeling in the back of my mind like I've lost a part of myself.

not_my_normal ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:49:40 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes, it happened to me once. I fell in love with this kid who was in my dream once when I was like 13. Woke up and was sad.

goodtwitch ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:54:08 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Related but slightly off-topic; I was going through a horrible time in my life when I thought my life was going to end soon. I was lying in bed crying and half asleep and I heard an elderly woman's voice right next to me say, "It's such a shame!" It was as if she was talking to someone about me and I heard it as clearly as if she was standing right next to me.

Bnightwing ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:57:15 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have had many dreams about a mystery girl. It looked no where near anyone I actually knew. I have dreams about her randomly, and the first dream I had about her I proposed to her. I have had about 4 or 5 dreams about her since Jr. High. They come randomly, and when I least expect it. I have recorded them all in my dream journal. I also wrote a poem about her.

thisoneplease ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 03:58:19 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Past life??? O_O

spoonfed99 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:02:11 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Not sure if this has been said before, but according to experts, the people about whom you dream have all existed in your reality in some way, whether it is someone you actually know, someone you walked past in the supermarket or a face you saw on TV.

vtslim ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:04:02 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once dreamt that an ex-girlfriend showed up at my door with our son, who was about 4, and said she was sorry for never telling me and that she could no longer care for him. I loved & cared for him the way I imagine I would love & care for actual offspring. I then had to jump into a lion's cage at a zoo that we were suddenly visiting, to rescue him since he had wandered in. I woke up terrified that I wouldn't get to him in time, crying a little. Took a good couple of minutes to realize that it was all just a dream.

moonlight21348 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:14:48 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

No but I've had an Alice-In-Wonderland type dream that was so real and vivid that waking up was like having cold water poured over me.

When I was 16.

It was shocking and Confusing to wake up in my bed. It Took Me a While to Figure out Reality.

And I was disappointed that the whole series of events that started from finding this vortex-like hole in a open field full of leaves and trees(in the Real World, it started with me leaving this world) during the Fall-Time wasn't real.

I won't bore you with details but it was like I spent Years in this Alice-In-Wonderland type place. Years.

It Was A Fucking Adventure-Book Saga.

Pretty too. Have you seen the sky, the grayness, and golden forests in Tim Burton's Alice In Wonderland(2010) movie? That's what it was similar to and quite surreal looking.

801_chan ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:15:00 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Absolutely. Like you feel you've been asleep for weeks or months?

In one, I fell in love with a young man over the course of a few months, and then lived with him in a bungalow out in the boondocks. That dream unfortunately climaxed in the death of my mother by his, er, teeth? I spent the next few millennia making his life absolute hell.

In the other, I was arrested or kidnapped, and thrown into a room with only a bed, a window, and another prisoner. Over three days, we fell in love. Whenever I touched him, I felt amazing pleasure. And then I woke up.

All this reminds me of when I was a kid, and would see anime characters I thought were cute. Why can't these people come to life and become spouses? D:

Hypocritical_Oath ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:15:32 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The people I met in dreams seem to not have faces or voices, just personalities. At times I remember it through the day, but I don't feel bad, for it's just me.

alliupsidedown ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:21:46 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have had multiple dreams in which I try to convince Obama to leave Michelle for me. However, I have yet to succeed. Or does this not count because he's real?

ashowofhands ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:47:34 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

this happened to me almost every week throughout the second half of last year. Met a bunch of chicks in dreams, felt a connection i haven't felt in ages, woke up and realized they didnt exist. fucking sucked.

Vanbone ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 04:53:08 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I never felt sad, but I did once dream of being in an attic with a woman. We talked and she combed my hair, and it was more blissful than I imagine heroin could be. On waking, my only explanation for how incredible it felt is that I'd met God in that dream (I'm agnostic mind you). I can't express how powerful it was. 10 years later a part of me still believes I met God in a dream.

Naylor ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:27:13 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

its kinda weird, in my older dreams i can remember i'm always the person who risks themselves for everyone else to get away. but not for a while, before the whole giving myself thing my parents said i would swear a lot in my sleep. maybe theirs something in my mind doing this.

also i've been told dreams are made by your mind randomly. but whenever i hear this its strange because for as long as i can remember i've been able to alter my dreams.

AntiTheory ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:28:15 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've had dreams like that where I dream I'm on an adventure with people I've never met, but I fee like I've known my entire life, both genders, no reservations, no silly drama.

Then you wake up and feel like shit for a few hours because the dream world was so much more preferential to real life.

chemistry30 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:34:46 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I once had a dream like that. It was weird, there was this guy who was picking up oranges from the ground... I helped him instantly. We started talking and I couldn't help but stare at him. His eyes were so green, his voice was breath taking - all of a sudden we kissed and I woke up - figures... But I kid you not, I fucking ran into this guy!! It was around evening time, got off work, crossed the street and bumped into HIM!! I am not joking!!! He apologized, hesitated, and gave me a smile. I was so shocked, I couldn't say anything. Thought I was going crazy. Well, he ran to the bus and that was the end of it. Never saw him again.

ilovehentai ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:42:08 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

All the time. I had a dream i met my soul mate. When i looked in her eyes, i knew everything was alright and i didn't want to spend a minute away from her. I felt so complete

When i woke up, felt like shit all day

jjthedragon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:45:09 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This is happened to me 3 times in my life. The first two were imaginary, the last one was my present GF.

pathodetached ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:45:12 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have had this happen several times. Usually in what a consider "snippet dreams" which tend to be without narrative and strongly tactile. One of the strongest ones was of "waking up" lying against a man I loved. I could feel his back against me and even the heat of his body. And there was a child a little girl about 4 or 5 twirling around in the sunlight wearing dress-up clothes singing to herself. The feeling of the man in bed was strong than the sound of the child which was strong than the sight of the child and that was the order I noticed things as well. But I have very poor vision (can't read big E) so "waking up" with poor visual input is not unusual. But in the dream, I knew the man and the child and knew they belonged to me and that all was well. When I really woke up there was a profound sense of loss and cried for some time. This is the only dream like this that involved a child. But I have occasionally have dreams with just the lover. Always we are lying in bed, and never actually having sex. But there are intimate touches and movements, maybe a whisper, and always heat of another body.

kycolonel ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:48:24 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have had the dream since I was a child that the world ended and I was in heaven and everyone I ever knew was outside the gates, I could only choose one to come into heaven with me...the rest went to hell. Wrap your head around that shit.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:54:42 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

i have this dream a lot, upon waking i feel that i can recall every singe detail save for his face. the romantic in me likes to think that my subconcious has simply decided to travel along another line in the space time continuum for the night, and i am actually seeing the future as opposed to my own mental backwash.

Almost-Famous ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 05:57:02 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've had them a number of times in my life. And yes, I feel disconcerted the rest of the day. Sometimes the feeling of how real they were can linger into the next day.

I never have good dreams now. It's been almost 15 years, and I only have bad dreams. For the past 6 years they usually involve my ex and her betraying me somehow. For about two years I had those every single night. They're pretty infrequent now.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:15:38 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes. And I miss him and I'm glad he healed up from that terrible shark bite.

moonpie100 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:16:00 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

SO..MANY...TIMES...

Endorp ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:35:54 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

There is a girl in my history class who I barely know, yet one night I had an intense dream where we were best friends. There were no romantic feelings from either of us, but it felt as it we've been friends since we were kids. It took me a while after waking up to grasp the concept that the dream was 100% fictional, and after I fully realized that, I felt empty. This was on a Saturday morning, and even when I went to class on Monday, I couldn't look at her the same way.

Glothr ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:45:00 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Many months back I had experienced very vivid dreams for a period of about two or three weeks straight. These dreams were mostly just innocent boring tasks. I remember one dream I was with either a girlfriend or a wife and we were shopping in a store for an outdoor barbecue. Anyway, during one dream I was in a school of sorts and I was walking up a flight up stairs to the second level of the building. As I reached the top of the stairs a group of about three or four other students walked by us to go down the stairs. There was a female in the group that I had extremely strong emotional feelings for. It wasn't a female I recall from my life and I don't even recall her face in the dream. When we saw each other we both smiled with joy and hugged. Immediately when we touched I felt this massive wave of sorrow wash over me. I suddenly mourned this girl's death. I knew she was gone and I would never see her again. I kept seeing a flash of her smiling playing over and over in my head. All I could think about was how much I loved her and how I missed her so much. I woke up and tears were just flowing down my face. I cried very hard for maybe a half an hour about this person. The emotions just seemed to carry right through the dream to reality. I had no idea who she was or why I had dreamed of her. But that was the most painful emotional feeling I've ever felt in my life and it was about someone in a dream. It fucked with my head for quite some time.

impiaaa ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:47:54 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's nowhere near as depressing as some of the stories on here, but I had a dream once that this thread reminded me of, and I just need to get it out of my system.

First of all, I have really weird dreams. So, from what I remember, I was going to a high school that was on a floating island, and had a dress policy of orange jumpsuits for all students (I think?) Anyway, on the grass field one day, I see this girl across the field, sitting down, alone, with her legs hanging off the edge (into the sky). I go sit down next to her. I say "hey," my usual greeting. "Hi," she responds.

Already I'm in way above my head. I have no idea who this person is, but I know she's alone. I don't know what she thinks of me, but somehow, from a football field away, I know that I love her, that we were meant for each other. I've never loved a girl in real life, or even gone up to anybody I didn't know and greet them.

She says "Hi."

Not "Get away jerk," not "Who are you?"; she says "Hi."

I look at her, she looks at me. She is short-ish, has freckles and a wide face, and has short black hair (probably dyed). Blue eyes I think. She's beautiful, perfect, and yet just "imperfect" enough.

"Want to, uh, do something later?" I say. "Sure."

That night, we go out. She has a black-on-white dress that matches her face and hair. I learn that she has friends that she hangs out with (as do I), but both of us want to keep those lives separate. It's just us now. Also, I find that, while she's not particularly interested in what I am (programming, computer games, Internet), she listens. I somehow don't mind that she doesn't know everything I do, that I have to explain everything. She understands. It's the best feeling, just talking to her.

We sit down on a wall outside what I assume is a restaurant, and hold hands. She smiles. Not a grin, just a perfect little smile. I smile back, because that's what her smile does to you. She says that she has to leave (or I imply she did). She walks off into the street light.

Then I wake up. Yes, my first date with the perfect girl went perfectly! I'm so happy. I'm going to call her and see what she's doing today-- but then I realize. None of it was real. That dress, that hair, those freckles, that smile. I let out an audible sigh, and lay back in bed. It's a weekend, so I lie there for a full hour just thinking about her. The perfect girl that I will never meet, because she was just a fiction. The rest of the day, she is on my mind. Was she really fake? I can't believe it. She has to be real! Alas, even if such a glorious being existed, there would be no way to find her.

tl;dr forever alone

impiaaa ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:52:23 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Another story that came about (I think) not because of a dream, but from a song I was listening to. I want to get this down on record to somewhere, here seems like the place. The dream probably inspired it, anyway. Might want to make a movie out of it some day (Gmod maybe), if I can find the time and the song. Basically, a couple find each other accidentally, fall in love immediately. They marry, they both have stable jobs, but don't have kids. At some point, there is a national (if not global) disaster, and the government falls into an oppressive military regime. The two are separated, and live in solitude, until months later, when they learn about a resistance (as there always is...). They join, hoping to rescue the other, but find each other, again accidentally, instead. They stick together on a mission to survive and to wreak havoc on the government. All good, right? Of course, all good things must come to an end. The two find themselves hunted down, and are chased onto some kind of hill. They're running as fast as they can, dodging bullets, when they come to a cliff. The man stops, but the woman slips. Luckily, the man grabs hold of the woman's arm. The soldiers come closer. The woman slips again, and they catch their hands. They are both scared out of their wits. The soldiers are coming closer. The man looks down at the woman. She's slipping. The woman looks at him, and smiles. She knows how this must end, that he can survive if she lets go. They stare at each other for what seems like an eternity, tears streaming down their unwashed faces, remembering their time together (queue memory lane montage). They smile, and she lets go. The man is stunned, simply shocked. Zoom out from his face, and fade out. Now here's where I'm not sure where to go: Like my dream, I imagine a scene where the man is in a bed in a hospital, in a coma. It's obvious that this was all a dream. The man, however, still unconscious, realizes that he cannot live his life without his love, or knowing that she never existed. The machine that measures his heart beat stops, and sounds that distinct, flat tone of death. I'm not sure whether that's sad enough by itself, or if it would make things better/worse to have the woman sitting next to him as he dies.

nickkid218 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 06:56:19 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's even worse when that person dies in your dream. Had that happen once, I was bummed for days

doubledubs ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:10:38 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It's never to an actual person but the dream itself. I don't remember how I get there but I'm nowhere and I have a gun. I can never recall if I'm talking to someone or if there are just noises but I pick up the gun and can feel the weight in my hand. I play with it for a second and then bring it to my lips. I wrap my lips around the barrel and pull the trigger. BAM. And it's like I'm falling and then I'm awake.

I sit up and look around. My hand feels heavy and my head hurts. And I can always always always taste metal in my mouth.

It takes me a bit but I can shake off the heavy feeling in my hand and my headache but the metal taste in my mouth stays with me all day.

AlexEmway ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:15:27 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Technically, everyone in our dreams is someone we've met before, whether it was a glance towards someone at Walmart or a close friend. But yes, I know what you mean and it's a weird feeling!

thescreamerofreason ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:16:55 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

yes I had a dream like that once, it was the worst dream I ever had...

Foxblade ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:18:33 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a dream once a long time ago that seemed to take place over quite a bit of time. The details are fuzzy since it was so long ago but I remember some parts of the dream with better detail than I do some of my own memories.

I don't remember the circumstances, but I went to live with a girl and her family for several weeks (months?). We grew really close and basically started dating. There was some kind of conflict that I helped her/her family resolve but I don't remember the details there.

The thing that I remember very clearly was saying goodbye. For some reason I was aware that I was dreaming and that it was time for me to leave. The whole family came out on the porch to see me off and say their farewells, and the girl walked me out to the cab.

We talked for a few minutes, and she was crying so I hugged her, and then she looked at me and said, "but if you go now, we'll never see each other again."

I hugged her and said, "I know, but all things come to an end." We kissed, said goodbye, and I got into the cab.

I watched her out the window as the cab pulled away, and as I turned to look down the road I blinked awake. I had tears in my eyes.

For the longest time I thought that maybe I had stumbled into a dream with someone else; It felt so real. I've never dreamed about her or that place again, and I've never met any girl who reminds me of her.

The dream felt so real that haunted me for a few years. Anyways, that's my story.

B1llah ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 07:55:41 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Well I've read somewhere that all the faces you see in dreams you've actually seen in person in some time in your life. Whether you remember them or not, your brain does

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:17:31 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)*

I've never had a child, but for the past 8 or 9 years I've had a recurring theme emerge about a toddler that is mine. Someone or something is trying to take her away from me, and I have to fight to get her back. I have always been very adamant about not having children, but when I wake up I am bit sad that she isn't real.

Oh hey, biological clock and/or adoption issues. Forgot you were there for a second!

Arknell ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:18:25 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had those connections with people in dreams when I was little, that saddened me when waking up, like they had died. I got reminded of it when watching WALL-E, seeing that robot trudge around alone for eons, and then meet EVE, who became the world to him, the most beautiful thing he'd ever seen. Then he gave her a plant and she turned into an inanimate stasis-egg. They got separated so many times where it seemed they would never meet again, that when EVE finally kissed him in space, by giving him that little static-buzz, I cried, I was so happy for him.

c_megalodon ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 08:38:20 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I recently had a dream where I was in my teenage years and I fell in love with a blonde elf named Sven. I know it's probably because I play too much Skyrim but the feeling I had in the dream was so real.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 09:51:11 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've had two of the most realistic dreams ever about an extremely famous person, so real I could feel our hugs and kisses and I could feel his body as I lay next to him. I can't help but feel some ridiculous connection even though the dreams were probably 2-3 years ago now.

tjiggs ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 10:17:05 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

its said that the mind cannot fabricate faces. that every face you see in a dream you've seen in reality. supposedly its scientificly backed. it is also said that dreams are part of your psyche, your mind, working thruogh ilfe you and change. so those people you meet in your dreams both exist in reality as youve seen them and in your mind, as a small part of you.... i cant articulate this well enough, but there is so much beauty to see if you realize its there.

MineDogger ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 10:19:10 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

THAT'S YOU SILLY

Skelzore ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 10:37:14 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

My grandmother. I was absolutely heartbroken when I woke up. Thing is, she died before I was born. I had seen pictures and heard stories of her beforehand, and this was when I was 5.

LovelyDay ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 10:41:02 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Sounds weird, but I once met some sort of Eastern sage / Confucian wise man in a dream, and we had a deep conversation which I don't remember the details about. Yep, felt a deep personal connection.

Helplessromantic ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 10:46:20 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

kinda

I had a dream that i'm pretty sure was a combination of my ex (and first love) and your sociopath "friend" in bully (I was playing bully before i went to bed)

In the dream he tried to steal something from me and we hated each other, eventually we made up, and later he started to cuddle with me pretty affectionately in his underwear.

Waking up was pretty depressing...

wellihavenoname ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 11:54:47 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I've dreamt about the same girl for about 5 times now. I don't know her name, I don't know anything about her, really, but something about her keeps drawing me in. It's not like I'm in love with her or anything like that, I think it's more of an intriguing way?

It started off about last year or two. I dreamt that I was at this reunion party of sort, I was just hanging out with my old friends. After a while, i drifted off to have a drink on my own. All of a sudden, this girl came up to me. I didn't recognize her at all. I asked her "Who are you? I don't recognize you at all" she just smiled. I asked her again "Are you with someone? What's your name?" She leaned in closer to me. We kept getting closer and closer, and then she whispers "You'll know soon enough" with a smile and she walks away. My friends came to me and said "Who was that?" I said I don't know. Then I woke up.

Second time, I can't remember exactly what it was about, but we had a similar conversation, but this time I chased after her, but she disappeared.

Third time, this was about November. I was with my friends at this restaurant and we were eating, enjoying ourselves, then they decided it was time to go home. However, I decided to stay a while longer so I went to sit at the bar area. After I sat down for a while, the restaurant became completely empty. Just me and the bartender. Then another customer came in. It was her. I recognized her as she sat down on a stool beside me. I said "Hey" She said hey back. I bought her a drink and we talked. It was the first time we actually had a conversation and not just some cryptic messages. She still wore that smile though. A smile that said "I have a secret you will never know". Finally, she said she had to go. Before she walked out the door I asked her her name. She said "It's not time" and she walked out

Just a few days ago I had another dream. I was walking in this shopping mall, and I saw her on the floor above me. I ran to chase after her, but a crowd of people poured out from nowhere. I didn't see her again.

I hope one day she tells me her name.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 11:57:01 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yep. I was a rosella in a painting. There was another rosella in the tree.

Smudge777 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:43:42 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have had several dreams where I'm deeply in love with someone. This person is sometimes someone I think my brain made up (although apparently anyone you dream about is someone you have seen at some point in your life), sometimes it's a person I know quite well, and sometimes it's a person I went to high school with who I never really liked, but for some strange reason, I love them enthusiastically in the dream.

hiero_ ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:46:20 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

....I've never admitted it to anyone before, but yes. Almost made a throw away, but fuck it, I don't care. My friends can know.

When I woke up, I laid in my bed and almost started irrationally crying because I thought it was real. I eventually got up and fell into a horrible depression that lasted for a few days following...

And this has happened a few times now, however that time was the worst. I don't remember anything about her anymore, except that she was the most beautiful woman I had ever seen and she loved and cared for me unlike anyone ever could. The instance felt like it lasted for months. Aside from this time, however, there have been numerous other weaker occasions, one which has seen me get back with exes, get with girls I didn't even have any prior attraction to (this is the weirdest, because once you see them again you start to look at them differently, but the feeling usually only lasts a few days; this has happened two or three times now), or also get with girls who don't exist.

So like I said, this happens to me on a regular basis, even moreso since my breakup half a year ago. They happen almost once a month. Almost none of them directly affect my life save for feeling odd or depressed a day following. My most recent experience with this was actually just 3 nights ago; she wasn't real. None have ever gotten me as depressed as the one, though... not sure why that is, but I'll never forget the dread I felt for the days following. I never even told anyone that I was depressed even, mostly because I thought it was silly and I'd be made fun of, but I was crushed.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 12:58:31 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This happened to me once with Emma Watson.

It was fantastic.

Qingfu ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 13:31:37 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

this just happened to me. i had a dream i was playing with my very young son (he was maybe 3 or 4) and he had a big wheel bike and was learning how to ride it. he was leaning almost sideways in the turns. he was so cute. i woke up smiling, until i realized i don't have any children and i'm alone.

classicrockielzpfvh ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 13:45:26 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This is sort of related. In high school, I had this dream about a woman who at the time I was certain wasn't real. The problem was that I could not forget her face because I was head over heels for her. Later in college I met her, but she did not look the same as she did in my dream so I chalked it up to coincidence and I didn't know know her outside of class. A short while ago (less than a year) we started talking via the internet. Lo and behold, upon looking up her up, she now looks exactly as I remember. This would be awesome were she not on the other side of the country and in a very long-term relationship.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 13:54:54 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I dream often about my biological children and feel every bit of the incredible, almost unreal love I have for them.

I'm infertile and will probably never have biological children.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 14:39:19 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I often had dreams (still do sometimes) that I have a brother only to wake up and remember I am an only child. Mostly though I dream of places with unique ambiance and feelings, and when I wake up I feel nostalgic for them. Always trying to reinvent them in my conscious thoughts only to have to slip away.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:29:13 on January 12, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You dreamed of an aspect of yourself. The dream means you feel a deep connection with other parts of yourself that are more subconscious. There's no reason to be frustrated.

Remethe ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 22:14:18 on April 16, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I remember the other night when I had this dream. There was this girl in my dream and she spoke english fluently; there is this little detail, I'm not from english speaking country and I never had any dream before and since then in different language than my own. People say, that when you dream in a different language than your own it means that you have accepted them as a certain part of you, as your own (I'm not sure if you'll get what I mean by this). Anyways she was cute and very kind to me, age about twenty, brown hair, green eyes. We chat a little bit (nothing sexual, just chat). After, what seems like 5 minutes, she told me that she has to go and smiled at me. Before I even managed to say something back I woke up with this feeling like I've lost something very precious to me, something I'd die for. I haven't had any dream like this since and I'm not sure if I want a dream like this ever again; I mean, the dream itself was just perfect but then you woke up and that feeling afterwards, when you realize, it was just a dream, is literally killing you.

This was pretty hard for me to write down, I just feel the need to share this with you, I hope you appreciate it.

/sorry for any mistakes I've made, I'm not from english speaking country, but I'm trying my best and improving with every day

jmduke ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 15:57:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

/DAE

knowone572 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 14:55:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I truly believe that the people you meet in your dreams are in fact real people who are also dreaming. They may not be dreaming at the same time as you, but it is definitely a shared experience. I'm a full-time lucid dreamer (I lucid dream just about every night), and I've been researching this for a while now. So OP and everyone else, there's no reason to believe that these people don't exist! It's possible they don't, but it's equally possible that they do :D

I_CAPE_RUNTS ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:38:10 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

how to lucid dream?

knowone572 ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:45:58 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Google that and you'll find a ton of information. Beyond all that, hopefully you're young, say late teens/early 20's; I imagine that this skill would be harder for older people to develop (not sure, but it seems to me that it would be). It's hard to say how I developed this skill. When I was young I had a lucid dream every now and then, and I wanted more. So I taught myself through years and years of practice. If you've never had a lucid dream, then I don't know what to tell you, there may be something in the literature you find online.

HaCutLf ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:51:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

It has been "proven" by many lucid dreamers that you cannot have a real shared experience. They might dream each other up, but not actually share dream memories.

irishamerican ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 14:10:04 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No.

ozdok ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 14:51:01 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

no, no I can't say I have.

kwingat ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:20:27 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Vanilla Sky?

AlwaysSomethingWrong ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:30:08 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Regular dreams are wrong. Dreams are better on Nyquil. Try it--you won't feel feelings when you wake up because you either won't remember the fucked up dream, or you will want to forget it.

I_CAPE_RUNTS ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 15:42:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

this only works if you take Dramamine with the nyquil.

christador ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 16:15:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Don't forget about the Tequila chaser.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:46:03 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

God, we've had like 4 different version of this question on the front page in the last two days.

ojolejano ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:53:41 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Totally, i had a 3 months affair with Marylin Monroe

Cryptomeria ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 15:55:23 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I think it's the very definition of a dreamgirl. The perfect girl you can never ever have. I've woken up, and been heartbroken when I realized she didn't exist. Hours later, I can't remember anything about her, but still suffer the emotional hangover.

FourteenHatch ยท -2 points ยท Posted at 17:22:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Has you ever a happy

but then it was sad?!?!

Upvote if u cry everytim

sweetjesusfacefuck ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 15:44:20 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Everyone you see in your dreams is a real person, whether you know them or just passed by them in the street one time. You brain can't actually make up completely new faces so it substitutes in faces of people you've seen. So technically everyone in your dreams exists.

[deleted] ยท 1 points ยท Posted at 18:35:35 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Your theory is incredibly flawed. Does that physical form exist? Perhaps. Is existence merely an outwardly apparent physical form? No, it is also the personality and identity of a person. You have no knowledge of the personality and identity of a person you pass on the street once. Thus, if their outward physical appearance shows up in your dream, and has a personality, you fabricated that personality and that person does not exist.

sweetjesusfacefuck ยท 2 points ยท Posted at 18:44:53 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I uhh... I don't have an argument for that.

I KNOW YOU ARE BUT WHAT AM I?

[deleted] ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 17:19:34 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

You need to get a life.

[deleted] ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 13:42:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

That feel when you wake up

DobyMick ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 14:42:56 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This happened once in a dream where I went out with a girl and she was really awesome.

Then I woke up and was sad ;_;

lemonpjb ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 16:06:29 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Why are we obsessed with dreams all of the sudden?

[deleted] ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 16:14:45 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Actually, no. In fact, it's impossible for a person to dream about/ imagine a person (particularly their face), whom they've never interacted with. In other words, it's impossible for your brain to create a person you've never seen before. Although, (don't get too upset) your brain can mix and match parts of people's faces you've seen before. So, they won't be entirely new, yet a combination of people you've seen in the past.

ccc22 ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 16:44:02 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Interestingly enough you can't dream a face that you haven't seen before in real life, so this person you met in the dream is just a combination of someone you met and your projections of their personality. Therefore they are not dead, they live on through you and this stranger you happened to glance at on once while walking through the mall.

Tomazius ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 17:01:03 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

The closest experience I've had to this is whilst watching the movie Avatar. I was almost in a dream state throughout most of the movie, truely getting into it...untill the sex scene hit. I naturally felt awkward (was around 14 at the time) but the sudden realisation of the whole world that was created within the movie...the characters...that they wern't real truely hit me; like waking up from such a dream. Felt depressed around 3 days after this moment, saddend that we couldn't live in a such a world.

cragnore ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 22:44:44 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Yes.

300Zippers ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 22:55:37 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Back when I was about 18 years old I was dating a girl named Delila. She was a beautiful creature with long flowing hair and one of the nicest complexions I've ever seen. One night when I went to be with her (the second or third time we would have sex) I fell asleep and began to have a dream. It started out sort of weird, I was lying in bed next to her when she said something to me, I looked over at her and realized she looked different. She was far more sexy than she was in real life, had much larger tits and she was all around one of the sexiest woman I had ever seen. At first I just sort of stared at her, and then my hormones and wants just sort of overcame my brain and control (keep in mind this is still in the dream.) So I did what any man would do in this situation. I grabbed onto her, flipped her over, smashed her face into the pillow and began to rap her harder than any human being could imagine. Over and over and over until she began to scream and bleed from her asshole. I kept going for another good ten to twenty minutes. until I realized she stopped screaming and that things felt funny. She was dead. I raped her in real life thinking it was a dream. There was blood all over the floor and the bed, her spine was twisted in three different locations as if it were licorice. Twizzlers Twists, always a low fat candy.

INHUMAN-Centipede ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 14:31:22 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I have a pet wasp.

My_College ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 15:53:38 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

No. Because in your dreams you never create a new face/person (your brain is unable to). You only ever imagine and see people that you have encountered or saw in the past.

[deleted] ยท -1 points ยท Posted at 16:00:55 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

Is this what forever alones dream about?

XPsycho_JoeX ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 16:02:50 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I had a first love my junior year of high school that ended very badly: I thought she would be the love of my life. Shortly after our breakup, I was suicidal but couldn't go through with it because one of my other friends had recently committed suicide. Anyway, in the weeks that followed the breakup, I had a dream where I was in a hospital and was handed a beautiful baby girl that had my features and hers. I woke up knowing that the baby never would exist. I broke down sobbing because I felt like a part of me had died.

alainachix ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 18:11:59 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

This was a few years ago, but I remember it vividly. It wasn't anyone I knew. Once had a dream that i was absolutely in love with a man like 8 years older than me, he was an astronaut, kind of looked like Sawyer from LOST. He was going to space for something like 20 years and wanted me to come to the local hospital to say goodbye. I was bawling my eyes out and he just stared right into my soul while we stood at the hospital entrance, and stroked my face for a couple of seconds. Then he gave me the most romantic, mindblowing, will-never-forget-this kiss of my existence. I watched him walk out of the hospital doors, and he didn't look back. I could feel every emotion he felt from that one kiss, and knew he loved me like I did him. And then I woke up crying, from having cried in my dream. I felt pretty empty for a few days after that.

[deleted] ยท 0 points ยท Posted at 18:19:40 on January 11, 2012 ยท (Permalink)

I'm not positive of my source, but my brother has studied dreams, and learned to produce lucid dreams in the last few years... I remember him telling me at one point that every single person you see in a dream, you have already seen at one point in your life, whether in person, or on tv, etc. I couldn't find anything on the web about it im sure he read it in a dream book...