1.16 bugged realms

Like everyone else I haven't been able to join my own realm. I have 1200+ members on my realm and I've tried to join for 45 minutes, I've tried restarting my Xbox, wifi, tried unplugging my Xbox for 5 minutes and still doesn't work, it keeps on saying network connection problems and unable to connect to realm. I've been trying to join for the last 5 days or so, I make it in 1-20 times I would say. It's starting to get annoying knowing I'm paying 8 dollars a month for something that doesn't work. 1.16 broke realms and its getting annoying. Anyways thanks for any advice or fixes that y'all have.