Bees not spawning

this is on Microsoft Minecraft basically I love making bee farms and I started a realm but I did bone meal on an oak sapling and got a bee nest to spawn but the bees never come out tried on all difficulties also I tried on creative on the same seed and different seeds even put a fire under the nest I broke the nest and the bees were forced to come out but I made another one spawn without cheats and they didn't go into the new nest please fix this it's making me stress