Will not connect to realms

For the last 5 days, since Thursday October 15th 2020, it has not been letting me connect to a realm i pay for to play with 10 people. Everyone else on my realm can play but me, and I am the only person on my realm who plays on the switch. I have restarted my switch multiple times, reopened the app, even uninstalled it and reinstalled it. I have reconnected the internet multiple times as well and it just hasnt worked for me. i know it isnt a microsoft issue because it logs me into my account it literally is only my realm for me.