(FIXED RANDOMLY!!) i cant do anything with my realm

i cant do anything with my realm it just gets stuck loading i go to shut down the realm it loads foor more than an hour with bo response i try to download a world same thing i go to switch worlds again same thing i go to join and it gives me the error "io.netty.channel.AbstractChannel$AnnotatedConnectException: Connection timed out no further information" and thats it im just trying to play a survival world with my friends and now i have zero access to the world and its not my internet as im able to join my friends realm and its not my computer as non of my friends can join it either