internal exception java.io.ioexception an existing connection was forcibly closed by the remote host

I tried to play with my friend i start the game play for 5 minutes and everything frezzes i can walk around but nothing else then i get disconnected and this is all i get ( internal exception java.io.ioexception an existing connection was forcibly closed by the remote host ) i tried everything but i can't play and that does that just in minecraft.