Absurd non-stop kicking in 1.13.2

I've been kicked like a thousand times in the last hour, sometimes i move one block and i get kicked, sometimes i join and at the second i get kicked again, i was thinking of getting a minecraft realms subscription but this is unreal, how can i pay for something that can't work properly and becomes unplayable, because i DIED DROWNED because of being kicked at least 5 times in less than a minute, unreal