/give command disconnects me from my realm when on PC V1.19.70

V1.19.70 - it did not give the option to select this one in the drop down. 

using the /give command disconnects me from my realm when i am using my PC. 
i had my husband try the /give command from his account in my realm from our xbox and it gave no problems.
to test i logged into my realm from the same account on my android and used the same /give command and i had absolutely no problem. 

i went into a world that is not in my realm and no problem with the /give command.
i uninstalled and re installed minecraft on my PC and restarted my computer and that didn't help.
all the above mentioned devices are on the same WIFI network so it's not an internet problem.