Can't get in realms on xbox one x

I play on xbox and my friends and i can't get in to the realm it gifs errors, it's constantly loading
And we can't join it,This is almost going on about a week or so. Its a 10 player
Realm if the info was needed. I hope this wil be fixed soon. (Edit) hi the problem has not been solved and it has become worser now, i can't accses multieplayer at all and ask me if i haven my settings on allow and if not so turn it on but my settings are all on allow and i can't join anything ,only offline worlds even the realm that i had does not show up if you can try and fix this then that would be great.