Game Frezing or severely laging when owner of world uses chat When playing online

So whenever me and my friends play together on a normal world (Not a realm) the game severely lags when the owner of the world uses the chat.  When I say severely I mean severely!  So bad that sometimes it freezes for a short time.  When we play it is cross-platform and we all have the same results.  We play on Xbox and Nintendo switch.  It is really annoying when we are using commands.