[MCPE-87605] No join realms button

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Please see this comment by Mega_Spud for information about Xbox Live settings that can cause this problem.

There is no join realms button that appears for me. I am fully updated, not on beta, but the join realms button in friends tab is not there.

How to recreate

Get on Minecraft for iPad, then go to play and friends, and there should be no join realms button, just add friends. If there is please give me a solution to the problem. Thanks in advance!

Edit: forgot to mention I have no realms subscription or realms plus subscription if that helps
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