Realms crashing app

Since the 1.16 update today at 12:00pm central I haven’t been able to load my realms world. I was only able to play for about 10 minutes before realms crashed and then that crash caused the whole app to crash. I brushed it off thinking it was my WiFi so I switched to data and even now at 5:08pm central I can’t load my realm for more than a second before it all crashes. My bf is having a similar issues but before it kicks him off it’s so lagged you can’t scroll the inventory. It it allows me to attach the screen recording I will