Multiplayer Settings Incorrect?

https://gyazo.com/719f802822effa98b752405e7be0563d

^^^^ That's a picture of the problem. Trust me, I'VE CHECKED EVERY SETTING TO BE ON, READ EVERY SETTING THAT'S POSSIBLE TO TURN ON AND OFF, yet this shows each time. I don't know what to do now, I REALLY wanna play with a friend though.