Unable to interact in friend's realm

After the last update, I've been unable to place/break anything in my friend's realm server. We've tried every troubleshooting possibilty including giving me admin privelieges as well as removing and adding me back to the realm. The only way I've been able to circumvent this issue is to play on another playstation account entirely, which is really frustrating and it doesnt seem to be fixing itself after 3 weeks already

pls halp