Abandoned conection

Hi Mojang! I have an issue with my ps4 where i keep on getting either abandoned connection closed or unable to connect. I have tried everything, reinserting my cd, wifi fixing, firewall, DNS, restarting, rebooting. Nothing has worked. Please help! I have the newest version of Minecraft. To reproduce: Join a friends realm. What should happen: I connect. What happens instead: For everyone it shows I joined but then left. It shows me I either cant connect or abandoned connection lost.