Unable to connect, please restart your client P2P/SIG: no_session(Empty Url Discovery)

Always when I want to play with my boyfriend (Xbox user) this error shows up, I can't even join in severs as well but when I try to join on his world on my ps5 work normally, but I honestly would like to be able to play on my phone for being more useful for me.
Minecraft version: 1.20.10.01