after 1.9 update my pocket edition can not connect to my daughters Xbox multiplayer game's and she can not connect to my PE multiplayer games

I can not connect my PE tablet  version to her PE on her android phone 

i can not connect my PE version to her Xbox box version nor can she connect to mine. we tried last night still not working.

 

says can not connect outdated 

connection timed out unable to connect to world

unable to connect to world the world is no longer available to join unable to connect to world

could not connect outdated server