Unable to update to 1.19.2

Unable to to connect to my Realm getting the error Outdated Server. My Series X currently shows a Minecraft version of 1.19.1 and has no update, but my wife's Series S does (it shows 1.19.2) and she can connect to our realm.

My stepson has a Series X and his has updated to 1.19.2 and can connect to the Realm

My youngest stepson has a One X and his is updated to 1.19.2 and can connect to the Realm

But nothing I can do will get mine to update. Even copying the game from my wife's console has not worked (the game starts and then instantly tells me there is a 1.69GB "update" - only to roll the version back to 1.19.1)