Realm won't load

For a while now, my Minecraft realm will not load up and open. After clicking to join the realm, it would load for a very long time and then say it got disconnected from the server or have issues loading it. Or just stay loading endlessly. I've tried replacing the realm with multiple different backups and saves but still nothing. It's been a few weeks now and I feel I'm not getting my money's worth on my subscription if I cannot ply on my own realm.