Realm joining

basically any time I've tried to join a realm on both my Xbox and my phone it won't let me, it keeps saying "could not connect outdated server, realms update pending" and I know it's not because of the realm running out of time because they shouldn't till next month. I waited 48 hours like it said to and it still says the same thing. This has happened to me and a lot of my friends ever since the new update