I can't speak finnish with my friend because of censoring

I can't speak finnish to my friend's because of censoring on my own realm. (please just make censuring optional on realms). Edit to add. I do not want to try and figure out what finnish words i can or cannot use if they aren't even close to swear words.

What I expected to happen was...:
I thought i could say something to my friend

What actually happened was...:
They never got my message because the server hid the message

Steps to Reproduce:
1.  I asked if they have preference for a home biome in finnish and the word home "kodiksi" was a trigger for censuring my message.