My game stops responding whenever I click on multiplayer

this has been happening to me since day 1 of me getting Minecraft and others are having the same problem as listed below. I hope you can help me and all the others as it takes like 5 mins for it to come back and finally show the multiplayer screen. I have tried a lot of things and none of them work. plz help. https://www.minecraftforum.net/forums/support/java-edition-support/2346692-minecraft-crashes-when-i-click-multiplayer