I cannot enter a realm without receiving an error called Java.Net Connection reset and I have tried everything I have found on YouTube and it just has not worked at least long term.

I cannot enter a realm without receiving an error called Java.Net Connection reset I have tried everything I have found on YouTube and it just has not worked at least long term.  I will send a screenshot of it:https://gyazo.com/c771691b1c73681ebb0fc44dea2f22eb And if I do load into the realm I cannot break blocks. It just seems the entire game is paused and after 1 minute  I get disconnected. My friends and the realm host are also experiencing this issue. My buddies and I are just trying to have fun on the realm that we pay for monthly mate.