I have to double click on things in the menu

Almost every time I start minecraft there are problems with,
I have to double click on things in the menu such as single player and multiplayer, if I ignore this and just double click on minecraft server then the mouse and pointer in minecraft will be in 2 different places.

then it is not possible to play, I have deleted minecraft and put it back in but it does not help.

 

Had the same problem in 1.16.2 and previous versions