MInecraft Crashes WIth VBOs on, and now VBOs are always on.

My computer would crash Minecraft all of the time, we didn't know why, this was a while ago. We found that is we turned VBOs off in the settings it worked. Now in the newer versions VBOs are always on! Minecraft can run at 30 fps fine on 1.13 without VBOs, but now w can't play the newer versions at all! I do realize it's probably the GPU, but we have a laptop and it cannot be replaced on this. Please make it an option again, insead of always having it on no matter what. I would really love to play the new versions. Normlly the error I would get is "failed to create dump file" or "running some number of ticks behind". Again, it worked well without VBOs.