Multiplayer Menu Servers load 3x longer and Game freezez on joining the server

Multiplayer menu polling alot more it did use to and it freezez when i join a server

usually it loads instant servers and joins instant only says logging in

1.started game
2.clicked on multiplayer menu
3.waited 5 minutes
4.Joined server waited 30 secs(I have tryed 30 diffrent servers all load slowly)
5.Tried at my friends houses,its not connection problem