internal exception: java.net.socketexception: software caused connection abort: recv failed

when ever i join a server about 10 seconds later i get disconnected from the server like when you get kicked but instead of saying i got kicked i get this error thing: internal exception: java.net.socketexception: software caused connection abort: recv failed
I have tried reinstalling minecraft java and removing hamachi and other stuff but none of it worked. I know its not my internet thing because when i went to my friends house it still happened (i brought my laptop there)
I can still join lan worlds without this happening

it happens with 1.4, 1.5 and snapshots, any version prior to 1.4 works.